Divorce Court: Ernie vs. Ellissa - Jealousy Kills

Divorce Court - Ernie vs. Ellissa - Jealousy Kills - Season 17 Episode 99 - Full Episode
Is this man sabotaging his relationship because of his experience from previous relationships or are his suspicions that his woman cheated justified?
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[@latonyawilliams684]

He’s exhausting

[@zee.234]

Riiiight?! She should run!!

[@gailsmith836]

And when she has that baby, he’s going to be so jealous of the baby.

[@ayefo7800]

Ladies...ITS NOT YOUR JOB TO FIX A MAN.

[@sagthenaturalsiren5997]

If you have such trust issues DON’T GET HER PREGNANT 🤦🏿‍♀️

[@kimberlywilson7453]

He should consider counseling for his issues and NOT get in a relationship until he heal

[@jennhillman6500]

He really does

[@emilyfeagin2673]

Imho, he should consider the Priesthood

[@RouseAR-se4wr]

All truth fr fr he put so much strain with his baggage on that woman til she broke down not knowing what to do and that is so sad bc I have been there too.

[@jadahobbsJada]

So she basically in prison!!

[@ashremains1215]

He's abusive & controlling. She should leave bc there is absolutely nothing she can do for someone who chooses to continue to use their hurt as a weapon.

[@asjames32]

so he's doing everything any woman does when they have been cheated on, but that makes him controlling an abusive. he's just broken like any other human would be, he just needs help

[@crystalkimble7018]

He is a Lil THROWED OFF...He doesn't need a GF--- he needs a THERAPIST

[@minervaloves]

The judge was too kind to this man. Goodness gracious 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@RouseAR-se4wr]

No she was patient with him and she is giving him space to speak out so his wife can understand where he is coming from.

[@blackmanwehearyou363]

Why do broken people get into relationships and justify their toxicity with "But I told you this about me". CHANGE: Don't talk about what is wrong with you, work on it, stay out of a relationship and stop wasting people time, heart, and sanity because it's not fair.

[@bree1776]

This guy is nuts af!

[@crazytimeslets5063]

I know she's pregnant , but run run he's broken and you can't fix him .......

[@emilyfeagin2673]

“ He doesn’t want to marry a stranger” but he had NO problem getting her pregnant!!!!!🙄🙄🙄 What??? He’s immune and insecure

[@shandhawoodard1211]

Insecurities are a KILLER....get healthy, healed & whole before you allow yourself to even think about being in a relationship.

[@raywilson7147]

This guy is Crazy girl run🏃

[@keoraanderson459]

He is messed up mentally

[@2400md]

He wants out…. He’s looking for a way out.

[@deja14]

Exactly

[@jennhillman6500]

She need to give it to him

[@nichellenunya]

I think he’s just mentally unhealthy.

[@SS-cl2nn]

No he literally think she is cheating even if she isn’t. I have an ex like that. He was paranoid and always accusing of me cheating when I never cheated. Turn out he was the one who was cheating.

[@JayDee-ut5yg]

Why would she respond if no matter what he is accusing her of cheating??? I don't blame her for not saying a word and feeding into his delusions! He needs counseling and after that they can come back together.... he will drive someone crazy!!!

[@AlexNorimaki]

Relationships are a give and take. All I’m seeing is a whole lot of take and no give. This poor lady is doing everything she can. I can see the exhaustion on her face. Wherever they are now, I’m just wishing her the best.

[@chase395]

I noticed that look on her face as well

[@RouseAR-se4wr]

I salute women like her bc she isn't running away like most women would do she loves him he better tighten up

[@RouseAR-se4wr]

​@@chase395Thank you king bc you recognize it from a facial expression and that means you pay attention to your women and men sometimes don't do that to even notice if there woman is struggling. You will make a good husband if your not already married.

[@NiicoleLove]

2:12 2:11 2:15 2:29 2:33

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Run lady run as fast as you can

[@MarinaM-o6p]

This was crazy over the top.

[@TatewakiGaming]

I hope she got the hell away from this dude. He wants everything his way. I don’t think trust issues are at the heart of this at all; seems more like a control issue to me. He’s completely isolated her from her friends and support system and is now picking away at her self esteem with his constant nagging.

[@viviancoleman8109]

Poor Lady looks so unhappy. Blow him in the dust.🤦🏽

[@rhcsw1682]

He needs intense outpatient mental health therapy! This is too much!

[@jasonleman1396]

I can never trust anyone, yet got into a relationship that he got pregnant? Yeah there is emotional abuse going on here

[@dannielleyelder]

Whew sheesh she need to leave that man will never be satisfied he need therapy.

[@andreacarter2108]

He is a big fat 🚩🚩🚩🚩…. We should start taking this type of delusion very serious at the start

[@ILOVEMUSIC2MSV]

She should have never got with him. He is damaged beyond repair, he don't trust anyone. Leave him, go for child support and co-parenting.

[@tamarakelly8380]

run girl......RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@michelekurlan2580]

She looks defeated. Dead eyes. All these cases were a long time ago I hope that whether or not they stayed together she got some professional help. And also if they're together they got relationship counseling. Abandoning oneself to appease another is dysfunctional.

[@gracie4200]

Well if she's dead eyes that means that she's tired of his false accusations. She's not the one that needs the Profesional help, he's the one with the insecurities. She probably thought she was going to be in a normal relationship 💁‍♀️everyone should seek counseling in this world because we all go through trials and tribulations. Which is supposed to make us stronger 💪💪

[@kimberlywilson7453]

As a professional counselor, he is the one who needs professional help to deal with his issues. He continues to bring old baggage to new relationships. This is his admission

[@bihtazuh6601]

​@gracie4200 she needs counseling too. The fact that she isolates herself from everything and everyone just to appease him, is not healthy. That's never healthy love.

[@wordplay6665]

He sucked the life out of me just watching this 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@lovette7684]

So...why did she get pregnant for this guy? Because I want to tell her to run away from him.

[@debrastone2198]

I'm having a hard time thinking he even wants to be fixed. I think he's gotten too comfortable with the state of mind he's in already.

[@EmpressJasmine]

He's annoying!!!!!

[@typhelynchalmers2428]

Damaged people damage other people. They don’t deal with their issues they just move on to their next victim.

[@gailsmith836]

He’s got real issues. Girl run.

[@Scoomzzz]

The intro is so true. I was in a horror movie of a marriage at 18 to 22. With him 1 year prior. Finally escaped the 2nd time he went to prison. I took a year to learn from it and what I would accept from a new person. I've been in a fantastic relationship with my husband for over a decade of every day together. Best thing I ever did was lose my need for a partner.

[@dominiuqewaston2492]

He’s annoying

[@mearly7047]

He's a nut case

[@cadillacdeville5828]

I knew someone just recently who was extremely distrustful of women coupled with no accountability for his own actions and piss poor excuses. I cut it off and told him to get counseling because he needs it. Don't project your BS on to me.

[@scottsh1120]

If you don't think you can trust anyone you should NOT get into a relationship and certainly NOT bring a child into the world

[@jprice1928]

He wants her to put 100% into making him feel more secure about himself. I don’t seem him doing any work to better himself. He seems to be comfortable in the fact that he refuses to trust people.

[@typhelynchalmers2428]

He wants to do everything to make him feel secure but is he doing anything to help himself he needs therapy big time

[@typhelynchalmers2428]

Run young lady and run fast. He is crazy as a bedbug

[@kera3923]

He is severely damaged. This is when you do not get in a relationship you go seek professional, help and work on your own problems. He is no good for her. He’s only destroying her and causing her to have the same battles from a relationship as he does. He wants her to stop doing something he does everyday

[@RouseAR-se4wr]

He is being selfish and that not fair when she loves him like that. I'm glad there are still women our here who is will to do whatever it takes to get it right with there man and if a man doesn't recognize his woman going hard from him in my book he doesn't give a damn or he is just blind asaf.

[@shirleyferrill4361]

he is too focused on his pain he doesnt acknowledge her pain cos he told her he has problem sis just leave

[@annkneeter7059]

She needs to walk away

[@meheilajackson271]

Run sis

[@catherinewhitman8333]

Dude is very paranoid and nobody can live with a person like that!!! My ex was like this pretty soon we were out so far in the country i couldnt get a cell phone signal...we had no friends or family...only one of our two cars would work..so i couldnt ger a job... because he needed the car.....i left him and had to get extreme counseling.

[@jo-annbastings]

Jealousy is everything BUT love. It’s a need of control over the loved one or acting by projection. All in all it is NOT an act of love. If you don’t trust your loved one, you leave him/her. You don’t waste your time and energy to poison his/her life and yours in the process. Jealousy kills love. Jealousy kills a couple. Judge Toler is right! Jealousy is a sickness.

[@iamjenai4881]

Getting pregnant by a walking red flag is horrible! I hope she finds the love within herself and a future partner❤

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

😅 clearly you must come from a broken relationship because you have no empathy for a man... 😅

[@iamjenai4881]

@@A_Well_Traveled_Man lmaoo I don’t but none alone

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

@@iamjenai4881 but it's crazy any time a man is in the right on this show no one ever said anything... It is just sad that this world is build for women... And no woman love a man only for what he can do for a woman

[@SuperSweetness1986]

He needs help!!!

[@sevenmoore9208]

You can't change no grown a** man. When he told her that in the beginning. She should have ran for the hills.

[@linkinlady06]

I'm sorry but this guy's freaking exhausting! She seriously needs to distance herself from him during her pregnancy because that can cause so many problems sheesh

[@Regalem3]

She must like crying because she wants to keep ramming her head into that brick wall he is. He's not going to trust her because he can't accept that his problems are all delusions created in his mind. He's also too selfish to care what his crazy is doing to her.

[@BeingKim]

Awww darling. This man is the biggest mistake u have ever made in your life. You need to leave.

[@halalpolice23]

It making me sick thinking how living someone like that feels like while you are pregnant😢🥹 No judgement at all but I remember being pregnant 🤰🏽 last year and getting crazy as heck but then can’t imagine living someone who doesn’t trust me and not having family and friends supporting me

[@joe-dante9036]

What does a 36 year old want with a 25 year old? That's a little off

[@jprice1928]

HE needs therapy. Not sure why they’re on this show.

[@Fleefromsin]

The Wrong Partner will set YOU back Financially, Spiritually, Mentally & Physically. A new partner will not replace the fact that you need to work on yourself.

[@raywilson7147]

Women be. Going through a lot with these crazy men 😢

[@21punchy]

He is abusive ... And he is beating her down ..he is also a narcissist

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

Do you know the meaning of that word😅

[@21punchy]

@@A_Well_Traveled_Man think about it ... He is gaslighting her , isolating her , manipulating her , he is controlling , her is making her question her own reality and what she knows to be true ...

[@21punchy]

@@A_Well_Traveled_Man do you know what the word means

[@21punchy]

@@A_Well_Traveled_Man everything is about him and his feelings ....he doesn't consider how she feels ... If he does not have enough to change

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

So I definitely have to agree with all of you about the fact that he needs to grow up even if you look at my actual comment to the video directly I stated that she needs to get out and he's been hurt before and past relationships... Honestly I think that she's staying around because the sex is so good because no normal woman would stay in a relationship like this especially in a marriage where women always have a better outcome in a divorce than a man...

[@raywilson7147]

This guy need real help jus seeing this shit making me going crazy

[@quaniayamorton]

she needs to leave him alone...... simple he to damaged life already to hard to be dealing with a man like that.

[@evonjohnson4078]

Maybe he is trying to get away because she is pregnant.

[@RouseAR-se4wr]

They have a beautiful realationship here he needs to tighten up for his woman bc she is with him and for him but she needs to know that she has the same from him i see.

[@annkneeter7059]

He needs to stay single.

[@marygonzales5957]

Very immature man blaming this young lady . He takes no blame for his weakness. Leave his past y be grateful for his gift of joy life y happiness. Be grateful enjoy. !!! He needs. Counseling. He is pressuring her Negative.

[@jeanettesmith2505]

He should have stayed single!

[@21punchy]

He needs serious therapy and to not be in a relationship with anyone

[@javeriakhan7240]

lady please leave

[@javeriakhan7240]

hes worn the women down

[@samanthasmith9592]

I LOVE JUDGE TOLER…RIHP TO YOUR HUSBAND#TEAMTOLER

[@journeygreen6272]

Home 😢 girl don’t love herself. Dude mind is sick be😢 ain’t no way she just want a man

[@sybilwhite1259]

I truly hope they can work things out but maybe some counciling might help the relationship for the both of them 😅

[@jazzy5975]

He wore the perfect color shirt green-eyed monster😅😂

[@patriciaross7269]

I’d get divorced!! Not worth it as he will never trust her or anyone!

[@relationshipguru102]

Sorry but pregnant or not and even if I love him I would not stay!!!!! I'm too easily annoyed

[@Berlin_Devereux]

No ring, no baby ever. And women can say no to the ring. This is why it's important to not live with someone before marriage, then you get to keep your power and move on quickly if someone gives jealousy red flags.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

To be honest with you it seemed like his heart was broken by a Keisha or something like that... Some kind of around the way girl and he's never gotten over her.... Not too often do you see when the guy is in love with a chat or Tyrone type of person but the other way around😅

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

You can definitely tell that this guy was raised by a single mother and he runs off of his emotions I blame his parents they failed him as an individual.... No grown man should be in the courtroom talking like this

[@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare]

Ummm stop blaming parents he a grown ahh man

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

@@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare yeah even though he's a grown man he is who he was raised by though! We all are we can't just flip a switch and go against what we grew up with....

[@KemoneArmstrong]

@@A_Well_Traveled_Man we aren't all "who were raised by" because at a point you become your own person, you have experiences that help mold us into who we are.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

@@KemoneArmstrong yes very true ! But you can tell he has a lot of feminine qualities

[@waltonjones5411]

She is trying him with that bossy talk. She is pregnant and now want to be his mama; instead of his wife! I have seen it, before. I had to stop and to see if the woman was talking to her chold. She needs to stop it!

[@gailsmith836]

Your sound like him. Insane.

[@waltonjones5411]

@@gailsmith836 Now you are name calling! Difficult.

[@samuelchr1st]

Kecemburuan bukanlah masalah utamanya, tapi kelakuan buruk istrinya yang menimbulkan kecurigaan terhadapnya. Istrinya sudah mengetahui bahwa suaminya memiliki masa lalu mengenai mantannya yang tidak setia dan memiliki sikap cemburu, tapi tidak berusaha menghapus kecurigaan dengan tidak menghormati kehadiran suaminya. Dia tidak menyukai sikap cemburu suaminya tapi sering menunjukkan sikap yang membuat suaminya cemburu.

[@jenniferobunadike6525]

That makes no sense. If you have trust issues, go to therapy . Don’t go and jump into a relationship and break your partner down. Heal yourself. So disgusting. That man is sick!!!!