Classic Divorce Court- Robinson Vs. McCaleb: Put A Ring On It

[@ronnimartin7033]

I think that HE would regret marrying her. She's too controlling!!

[@godseagle4553]

Ronni Martin it's like the man is on trial!!! The whole show all it was about was he does this, he does that-- and the man has to start explaining and defending his actions. Simply Exhausting!

[@grassh0pper]

Insecure

[@mobutter2879]

She also strikes me as low key violent . He’s so sweet and compliant..he’s come home late only 3 times in 2 years.. He’s a good Dude..I bet she won’t find a better one.

[@ronnimartin7033]

@@godseagle4553 I totally agree!! And she was looking for junk to prove and she was wrong. Unfortunately she wrecked her relationship. He's a good dude, as Judge said. Lol!

[@ronnimartin7033]

@@mobutter2879 I agree!!

[@miztinkerbellno2]

She totally irritated me in these 20mins...imagine 2 years.

[@ladysmile2001]

I'm feeling this way too

[@jazzylive2155]

😂😂😂 Right those cheek bones definitely gonna drop.

[@Nicolle3052]

I’m so done with this lady. She can’t compliment the guy without a follow up complaint 😞

[@RTA6226]

Yep. She yaps too much. Yakety, Yakety, YAK!

[@abdulwaheed5367]

She's the type of person that wants a wedding ring 💍just to say that she is married 👰, being married is a lifetime commitment sweetheart

[@bryanmitchell6809]

Don't forget the cash and prizes after the marriage she ruins.

[@idalarsen2540]

@@bryanmitchell6809 You're really so cynical that you think women only get married to POTENTIALLY get benefits after a divorce? Smfh. I'm not saying that never happens, gold diggers certainly exist.. but that's a small minority, and they're obivious - men shouldn't then complain after the gold digging is doing the digging, he knew what he signed up for. I find it funny, I guess, that the men who always claim that women only want marriage because of potential alimony etc after divorce, yet have nothing to say about the men who trick women into marriage only to have someone do the "wifely duties" without doing any of the "husband duties" themselves. Only to have someone to cook and clean and have sex with, basically only take and take and take, without giving anything themselves. Men who act all like Prince Charming beforr marriage to install her in the home and lock her down, to then turn 180 and act a fool. You never say a damn thing about all that men be doing foolishly and selfishly, yet complain about women who give their all throughout the entire relationship, even BOTH work full time, take care of any kids they may have, as well as do all the housework.. yet they themselves won't do any of the home duties or child care, because they are "the man", as if that means anything. Why don't people like you have anything to say about that? Why do fools like you even claim women are gold diggers for getting alimony, despite the women having been the home provider full time for the sake of thr family? You act like that isn't work - it's 100% work 24/7, and it's HARD WORK. Yet it's 9/10 times taken for granted, smh. If it wasn't for the woman taking care of everything at home, the man wouldn't be able to do what he's been doing. How entitled and cynical.

[@richardrosemond6814]

9ioooooooo

[@jaynecampbell4396]

@@idalarsen2540 PART OF THE BENEFIT of Marriage is that if a person gives their all to the relationship, s/he will have some "equity ", legally, and the courts will reward them with their shRe of assets that have accumulated during the relationship. NOT all judges believe in Palimony and an equal division of assets during that kind of relationship.

[@diastar7417]

I’m surprised that Judge Lyn didn’t say she did it backwards and she doesn’t have the leveraged if it was ring first and let everything come after. He knows he has to guard his words carefully but she also knows she doesn’t have that ring! He did say there was a little something with his parents about her….hmmmmm.

[@VirgoCali89]

I love Judge Lynn Toler she gives the best advice and she is a strong beautiful compassionate intelligent african american woman

[@sharmaineruddock678]

9

[@lisareid3336]

Fun and very entertaining to watch...

[@cynthiakila1161]

No such thing is African American if she from America .

[@austenbrown9549]

Just say American, she was born here not in Africa. Its also assuming all black people came from Africa, and it doesn’t help people come together to call everyone by different names when we are all AMERICAN.

[@VirgoCali89]

@@austenbrown9549 I say it the way I want to, but thanks for the advice

[@terencedove5047]

There is an old quote: "It's better for someone to think that you are ignorant than to open your mouth and remove all doubt." Margaret opened her mouth, and...

[@sydoz1956]

Mark Twain

[@RondaDM]

@Terence Dove 😅 ...put her foot in it!! lol smh!!

[@terencedove5047]

@@RondaDM ...to say the least! Poor Margaret! But the rest of us can learn what she can't...or won't...

[@terencedove5047]

@@sydoz1956 - yes indeed!

[@ronnimartin7033]

Hopefully she's learned from this!

[@MZUNUSUAL]

A woman should never beg for a ring if a man wants to marry you he will do it on his own if you sitting on 4 yrs or more and no ring you walk away because obviously he don’t want to marry you

[@gregorysmith7859]

For real

[@jettanyiagumbs6091]

Facts

[@nananazimam2060]

4years sounds too long

[@cynthiahicks1796]

I agree!! If I gotta go through all of this and/ or give him an ultimatum... then I have some self esteem issues that need to be worked out.

[@farewelll18]

Facts

[@faithsexhubby7422]

I think I have nothing to complain about this man.

[@caramelthickchick5857]

It's hard to please an unreasonable woman.

[@nicholasallen4036]

I think she annoys him too much and that`s the reason why he is not sure about her.

[@trfaison]

Judge Toler graded them correctly, this man spoke of love for who she is and she spoke of who she wants him to be and she already has two kids!!!

[@faithsexhubby7422]

I like Judge Lynn Toler policy, when it's your turn to talk then you talked..

[@Truckeractivityy]

Well that's just proper etiquette

[@stilljocelyn4166]

Her energy is draining 🧘🏾‍♀️🌱

[@southhour5241]

Who the hell uses a fork on a pan? That would vex me I'm not going to lie.

[@jazminegraves19]

My sister do that aggravating shit and stirs with a spatula

[@4bfam]

On my stainless steel pans, I can. They're very good quality, haven't rusted yet in 7 years. In fact to scrub them I have to use a metal scrubber. Now on my nonstick pans I will have a fit. Lol. No metal on non stick.

[@feliciahepburn2854]

Oops! 😬 Guilty lol

[@asabifatosin1150]

love_dionne I’ve NEVER heard of stainless steel rusting. I use brillo pads to shine them up. If I use a fork to mash potatoes, instead of the potato masher, I make sure not to scrape the sides or bottom. She seems REALLY uptight, even the way she holds her mouth. And if she’s actually 30, I going to need to proof because she looks 40ish. That hairstyle is not helping. Leave him young woman. If he comes for you, then good. Frankly, her declaration didn’t sound like she’s in love with this man.

[@4bfam]

@@asabifatosin1150 I was like maybe he meant non stick pans. That's the whole point of buying stainless, ,they don't rust. Lol. Yeah something isn't right with her.

[@aw8119]

I could watch Judge Toler with no picture or no sound, or with both picture and sound and still be equally pleased.

[@evonjohnson4078]

There's nothing I hate more in this world than to be interrupted and not being able to finish a sentence.

[@ChibiChick25]

If she doesn't get her act together, she is going to lose a good man. But at this rate, I don't think HE should marry HER because she is too much.

[@lolag.9620]

She's annoying.

[@starisesun7692]

Very

[@MrFancyjohnson1]

She’s insecure and talks too much...I can’t with this type of personality

[@smart8840]

You are already controlling him like nobody's business, hell knows what happens when you got the ring..

[@Jasmine-gf8yk]

It's hard to please her, she complaints about almost anything..🤷🤷

[@therose1277]

"I don't believe in this shacking up business." I'm with ya, judge...and so is the research.

[@gracemorganspeaks]

Lovely message. Whoever is reading this God is going to heal your wounds and scars Trust Him for there is nothing impossible Amen.

[@nialove6477]

Amen

[@PrincessQuita86]

Amen

[@cynadio9449]

i claim it in the name Jesus of Christ

[@pamelafostergainey112]

Amen... Thank You

[@MsBizzyRae]

Amen and thank you!☺

[@coffeladee3805]

I see why he is fearful of marrying her. Also, if a man does not want to put a ring on it, is fearful of marrying you or is stalling for marriage, please LEAVE. You only get 1 life. Don't spend your GOOD, youthful years with a man who will not marry you. You are wasting time and your life. Give your time to a man that will make a marriage commitment to you. Enjoy your life. Move on!!

[@ddnquestion1]

When the hell did women start begging for wedding rings, why be desperate all relationships just don't end in marriage????

[@ibrahimdijah7465]

I really don't understand this ring thing when a man isn't ready

[@ibrahimdijah7465]

These ladies should try our men in africa

[@nikeetha3099]

Or maybe both partners need to make clear their intentions once things start getting serious or once they have kids at least

[@feliciahepburn2854]

Right after they started tearing the man down, over talking them and deciding they’re independent and throwing their hands up w Beyoncé... who’s now married. 🤔

[@123418205]

@@ibrahimdijah7465 What do you mean?Positively or Negatively?

[@butyoucancallmesam]

I'd rather live on a rooftop.

[@carlaosborne160]

PROVERBS 21:19

[@Mtz2604]

Your profile pic is soo damn right for your comment! Loved it

[@mamigotz4]

He needs to be married... to someone else.

[@RenayAdams-y1k]

Absolutely

[@smart8840]

Watching Booty's in front of you is harmless, imagine him watching behind you.

[@IceWhiteice22]

It can lead to curiosity and that can lead to cheating, just saying

[@bobbierobinson6269]

I'd worry more if he wasn't looking.

[@jeremyjones8917]

Yooo judge lynn has alot of common sense that is big in a relationship because alot of folks out here just as dingy as they wanna be

[@terencedove5047]

A LOT of common sense? Judge Lynn is a SOLOMON! God bless her every day...

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

🤣🤣🤣FACTZ💯

[@erinoshun9331]

3 minutes in and I'm ready to break up with her.

[@jamekadunn4664]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@spimentel562]

😅😂😂😂

[@prolificmind459]

😂😭

[@ashleysimms7532]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Mtz2604]

Really, I would give her the number of my therapist. She's an amazing clinical psychologist, and this gal needs to hear that "You better check yo self before you wreck yo self". Never thought I would use a verse of Ice Cube for this case but that's quite a wise one

[@SuperQueenV.]

My goodness! Everytime I watch Judge Lynn it's such a joy. She is so good! Miss you Ms.Toler ❤️

[@diastar7417]

She’s coming bk with another show Commit or Quit…. Can’t wait!!!

[@cam4short]

"Open your mind wide.... like a prairie", 😂🙏 love your Toler Talk Judge. Always real, all of the time.

[@anthonybanks6824]

SHE IS THE PROBLEM

[@hiramabiff5236]

She should have given that woman a D for that performance. You cannot give back-handed compliments! She did exactly that!

[@carlpotter007]

This woman is too immature for marriage. He is a nice stable guy and she is beating him into the ground for no good reason. He should leave and wash his hands of this relationship. Edit: I just checked Facebook and it appears that he married her - OMG. While I may not like it - they do look terribly happy with some good looking kids. So it appears he stepped up and they are making it work! Hurray!😀😀😀

[@abdulwaheed5367]

I had no idea 💭 they both have kids 👶👶together, I guess he's stuck with her rather he marry's her or not

[@carlpotter007]

Abdul Waheed Muhammad - Yes - it appears he did put a ring on it!

[@asabifatosin1150]

Well good for them then and have a ling happy marriage. The 4 kids are not theirs together. She had two and he had two coming in.

[@asabifatosin1150]

Abdul Waheed Muhammad They don’t. Previous relationship kids

[@lisareid3336]

Hooray at the end of day...Happy Wife Happy Life...Beautiful Children and Family...Does a Community Good!

[@maesams6212]

The judge is 100% correct!

I can't with married people of nowadays. They watch porn, go to the strip club and booty watch every skirt that moves. The same goes for women. Why get marry then? Just stay single.

[@SynterraSteen]

My husband and I watch porn together. Mind ya business.

[@lolag.9620]

@@SynterraSteen yep😊

[@polinaball542]

@@SynterraSteen Thats right girl!

[@torrialeggett4949]

I can already tell what she’s going to look like at 75 #random 😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@crystalkimble7018]

In him I see humbleness, compromise, logic and rationality. His stuff she is complaining of is innocent and minscule. No one is perfect, You just have to find someone that's perfect for YOU. He was very credible. I saw no real flaws like the usual low lifes on here. The good don't known when they got it good but the bad damn sho know when they got it bad...

[@ThesteelLion]

This woman doesn't stay quiet long enough to listen to anybody she spends so much time inside of her own head she can't see what's in front of her

[@lindadavis2240]

You better get that phone out of the bed.Thats dangerous.It can get too hot and explode.Many kids have died like that.

[@RenayAdams-y1k]

She think she is prettier than she really is. Making ultimatums that she isn’t worthy of. He can do better.

[@shalondad.3235]

She doesn’t have emotional control which shows low to no marriage maturity 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Iwish387]

1:28 the guy in the grey suit just turned around and he’s like what the heck? 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤬🤬🤬😳😳

[@Monika-bc3dq]

I always sleep with my phone under the pillow for this exact reason. That thing is not ridiculous at all.

[@Mtz2604]

Brother got a out of jail card. She's micromanaging, stubborn and is full of herself. She doesn't what the ring to confirm the commitment of the relationship, you do that with an assertive talk (and let him speak jezz). She wants the ring to look at her hand and say "I got him in a leash" and show off your ring. Good that he had that reality check so he can evaluate the pros and cons of having her as a partner. And by smelling this far, I think the stink is worse the closer it gets.

[@Jasmine-gf8yk]

I almost miss this one.😯😯

[@sharongantt1848]

Why move in with a man and then expect him to give you a ring. I would never ask a man for a ring. If you have a time go by your time line, if he passes your time line that's in your head just leave. If you stay don't complain.

[@SynterraSteen]

Ya but you should both know if you want to get married before ups start dating

[@nanakadija1557]

Can you please let him talk

[@urluvizmyluv1999]

That whole phone under the pillow thing is no biggie. I put my phone under the pillow so I don't have to look for it. Not bc im sneaky.

[@zee.234]

Me too.. I dont have a night stand and that's the only reason

[@yourfavedejaa]

💀😭 idk when i saw the title i started singing put a ring on my finger.. put on him make him wanna marry me😭😅💀

[@talesxoxo5832]

She has the curse of gab. Relax and let your true feelings come to you. She couldn't even thoroughly profess her love for him because she's too worried about being loved and getting a ring herself.

[@jenniferjones7795]

Girl, calm down.

[@asabifatosin1150]

I think the judge used reverse psychology lol.

[@levettebarbee2360]

He don't want her..he still looking for his wife...but she convenient for the moment

[@raygentravis3269]

She annoying me and I'm only 3:34 mins in of the show.

[@reesej8439]

The man behind him with the glasses 😍🍫😂

[@uniquediva1913]

Oh yes! He is looking mighty good

[@candy123444]

Smh. This is who he chooses? Carry on Sir and be miserable.

[@theresadavenport2044]

I miss Judge Lynn she is real talk without excuses..

[@Mzpretty17]

She was immature the complaints she had about him was silly.. she needs individual counseling to work on herself

[@gw5847]

I like him he deserves so much better so many beautiful loving women that will love him for who he is.

[@tellnolies8530]

If you have to beg a man he not for you most men knew within months “this is the ONE”

[@3D3LIA]

Atleast she was honest about why there’s a possibility about why she hasn’t gotten the ring. Stop giving husband benefits if you’re only a girlfriend!

[@alaakamal1924]

I think she should give him more love and care and thats all what he's missing

[@davitakirby3310]

Lord I only saw her for 20 minutes and im already sick of her

[@samantha198607]

He’s is such a good man to this crazy chick

[@shivanshirawat605]

Judge is so sweet and intelligent.

[@roderickwelch6087]

Judge so real I been watching you and respect you so much❤❤❤

[@citygirl9395]

She’s super annoying. U deserve better sir. He seems very loving

[@tamaraclemon6315]

This woman is 32?! I know this is a old case. It could be the stress of her relationship that is making her look older. Then her actual age highly doubt it's her makeup.

[@lovellytshotshi345]

So everyone else can see that she's the problem, right?

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

I'm not understanding what's the rush to get married??? Their still learning each other, it's been a year & 1/2. Sheeesh, do u know how many ppl jumped head 1st and look heading down a rode of disaster. He'll marry u when he's ready girl, damn she's ANNOYING 😩😩😩😩😩

[@SpecialKRNB]

Actually, most guys say they're still "getting to know you" when they want to keep you patient all the while he's using you as a convenience. It's best to learn where he stands upon the "meet and greet" or maybe I'm different... I see dating as boyfriend/girlfriend heading towards marriage soon versus immediately as I see him oh we're head first into a relationship without prior knowledge of our goals, our dreams, beliefs, values, and the sort... that's me though. I love taking my time... like a tortoise. I would enjoy and take great pleasure in just taking my time with me and my future hubby approaching one another, getting to know each other, dating each other, then getting married and sharing our future family together.

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

@@SpecialKRNB I agree, and it's nothing wrong with that. But a year &1/2 is not that long, things take time.

[@SpecialKRNB]

@@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 Things take time when two people are a right fit for one another. It's clear this brotha doesn't want what she wants and I am not saying he's a bad or wrong person. He's just not ready and that's okay. And not only is he not ready... she's just not the one he's ready to be with. See when a man finds his one or "the one" oh best believe he's steering it in the direction that they both want, need, and desire it to be which is marriage and a family.

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

@@SpecialKRNB you are 100% right I total agree with that. 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@SpecialKRNB]

@@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 Thanks my sista. 👏🏾🙌🏾🥰💃🏾

[@blank-stare6373]

i want him to leave her. he deserves better.

[@Luv2Game]

Shooo....i wanted to hear that story about what happened on Father's day. LMAO!

[@ladysmile2001]

FLAT OUT.... SHE INSECURE

[@krab1791]

My husband is just like this wife but it is definitely just with me (and anyone in my family) that he acts this way. I get yelled at for not fussing over everything his sister cooks and how she cooks it when a) she is cooking it wrote and b) I either don’t eat or can’t eat what she is cooking. Yes, they all find it extremely insulting when I decline foods I am allergic too or that make me sick (I have a chronic illness).

[@aquilabutler775]

I am in no relationship at all and I still sleep with my phone under my pillow sometimes

[@SuperSweetness1986]

Don't shack up period!

[@godschild5189]

This guy doesn't love her enough to marry her. He is just making excuses. I don't believe in living together without being married first. If we aren't married I am not cooking and cleaning for anyone but myself. We can go out on dates then go home separately.

[@Thinabean]

She wore me out......

[@gwenettethacker9533]

Actually, we should stop disrespecting the woman. She is obviously a good woman. She works full time, takes care of the home and takes care of the kids. I am an older woman, he should not dangle in front of her. Of course she talks too much, but she is a good woman.

[@Sey-konepopice]

What does witness got to do with anything? Confused.😐

[@sweets20062107]

Wetness not witness lol I thought he said that too

[@gigibrown_wright]

@@sweets20062107 ohhhhhh ok good looking out lol

[@suerichards47]

Know a good guy when you have one,lady

[@sr3549]

I don’t think she’s uhm terrible.. she’s just annoying as hell lol.

[@lyle_marie_ceniza]

Hmmmm.......this woman has controlling and trust issues. He is a good man and a keeper. They can fix it though and make a compromise.

[@brandancharles3292]

Bruh head longer than sunday church service

[@stilljocelyn4166]

I was wondering if anyone else saw that 😭😂

[@laurenciajoseph6502]

The hell you got me chocking 😂😂

[@tmarcia83]

Stawwwppp😩😩🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

[@raynbowpride1989]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀

[@shannikasideas1749]

😂🤣😂😂😂😂 Brandan I was eating...I was eating!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@whocanitbeifitaintme]

Damn when I saw that woman I was scared. She better be glad she got that man by her side.

[@blesseddarkiie9645]

To everyone reading this message I wish you a great, safe and productive life Judge is just so intelligent and beautiful blessings

[@testedtried1233]

Back at ya.

[@neferazure]

Idk how old she is, but she looks so aged to me. Like she wakes up and puts dentures in.

[@SpecialKRNB]

I mean if simply your goals and values aren't aligned around the same space and time in each of your individual lives. He or she isn't the right fit for you. Especially if they're making up a million and one excuses to why they want to marry you but can't at this time. Basically, if you're being patient in a "supposedly" relationship with someone they are not the one. Your patience will manifest itself from waiting during your singleness and receiving the blessings of someone whom shares your same vision, goals, values, beliefs, and etcetera etcetera...

[@stephaniewayman6850]

Some.people want a marriage and others want a wedding. There is a big difference.

[@brandancharles3292]

Almost 2 years is not long enough she's rushing him and who the hell would marry a woman that won't stfu

[@ramonajackson1447]

She's not humble and just that in it's self can be so crazy. You don't let loose on anyone. Try read proverbs 31st chapter can be so rewarding. We must allow a man be our protector and provider's, and hold back on them.

[@RondaDM]

Why can't she just learn from him n show respect instead of becoming offended?? He's right about the pots, she's under-mining him, the man values his property, it's not too much to ask... Don't scratch my freakin pots ok!! cthu 😂😂 golleee!!

[@locketttheresa]

I love when she does the mom lips

[@4bfam]

I use metal in my stainless steel pans all the time. Actually the only way to scub them clean is to use metal on metal. They never rust. Now nonstick, that's a no go. She is living in a world all by herself.

[@terrieskulteti187]

It's only non stick pans that you have to be careful of

[@chrishall2495]

The only kind of pan you scratch with a fork is those Teflon pans

[@TamraN]

Maybe I'm weird but my side of the bed is my side. I scoot my husband over if he falls asleep on my side lol

[@Lilyfranko32]

Margaret, isn’t she lovely

[@Netherwolf6100]

Wow..... just..... wow..... I know plenty of women who'd topple over their best friends to get that dude.... this woman is trouble.