MARRIAGE TO ME WILL BE THE SWEETEST TREAT!: Antone Youngblood v Ashley Hurt

[@ScaryToRemarry]

One thing I’ve learned about relationships is you can’t FORCE someone to love you. It’s a hard pill to swallow, but it will save you in the long run

[@soulstrength]

AMEN 🙏

[@erinjohnson4273]

Facts

[@lindawilliams7845]

Real Talk

[@teresaboykin4861]

When a person tell you that they don’t want to marry. Believe it. It’s okay

[@MsLady-gb3gy]

❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤

[@jasongibert735]

Exactly if you really want marriage there are literally millions of good women who want marriage

[@therealmereal2642]

He needs to just leave her and find him a wife if that’s truly what he wants

[@KayloveGreen]

There is nothing wrong with her not wanting to be married. He need leave and find a woman that actually wants marriage. It makes no sense to still chase after her.

[@beautyisme-f3c]

They on drugs in Columbus these are geeks

[@SusanneCarolineHoff-od2vr]

Eh... she said YES!

[@youngodyssey16]

When women say apply pressure what does that mean to you ? And should we take women seriously that are in their 20’s

[@kylamt22]

I didn't expect her to sound like that.

[@het-herukhepra752]

Me either, i had to look twice 😏

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

I honestly was like, "That's a whole-ass man" until they went into her having kids & even then, I wondered if she actually birthed them.

[@latoshamajors5085]

She comes across as if she was once Ashton. Did you notice her arms and hands. Hmmmm?

[@2400md]

That part tho…. Thought I was the only one

[@josephgrant2803]

Right

[@jadriangarner6374]

She said I have your last name on my cash app 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@faithelcreador3252]

a fellow trini! 🇹🇹

[@Afrolatinalexi]

That comment had me in tears😂😂

[@rebekahparker4647]

Who came up with marriage being just " a peice of paper"

[@ltc4125]

People who have never been married...

[@1017himi]

Feminism

[@creamekay]

Woman that could sleep with a married man

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

​@@1017himi I heard that saying from mostly men. Are men feminist now?

[@2intriguing1]

As a married woman of 13 years, marriage is a piece of paper. What makes a marriage is the ultimate sacrifice of both the husband and wife. Anyone can get married and if she's not ready then he should go.

[@TriniBelle111]

She don’t want it. Just didn’t want to hurt his feelings on tv.

[@ninadavis5517]

Marriage is more than a ring and license. It's the covenant that both people make to each other that marriage represents. It also means alot legally, especially if there is a business or if one spouse becomes sick or there are step kids involved and something happens to the parent, they could be taken away. In alot of states, they do not recognize girlfriends and boyfriends.

[@brianlauderdale7840]

As my Granny would say that little piece of paper holds a lot of weight..

[@ninadavis5517]

@Brian Lauderdale heck yeah. People treat marriage as a hobby. Legally, wife trumps side piece/girlfriend every time

[@annettescroggins3905]

Amen..speak on it

[@ashleychamon6446]

@@ninadavis5517 It’s for government, legality sake. A marriage license shouldn’t change a relationship.

[@Vwoods27]

I absolutely love Judge Star for this show. She keeps it real and gives honest hard truths to people, but not in a condescending way. This was a happy ending. I think a lot of times people think the grass is greener when they already have a good thing!

[@williams4productions]

If you have to beg someone to marry you or give them an ultimatum they’re not the one. Count your losses and move on

[@dammonicawhite9129]

You are right because my ex wanted to marry me but I knew he was someone I didn’t want to marry. When we broke up I was so happy. 😩🤣

[@TheNyakaat]

There are actually women that will leave you because you are nice and you treat them right. They have issues with themselves and healthy love scares them.

[@erinjohnson4273]

I agree

[@PumaaGotcha]

Ive been blocked because folks didn't know how to accept genuine love. Folks that consider you as friends/family/spouse will leave you or mistreat you because they don't know how to just be happy when someone loves them properly.

[@MZJJ1987]

He is every woman’s dream and he is wasting his life on this one. I just don’t understand. She is going to scar him, he will turn heartless and it won’t be good for anyone. She is a narcissist.

[@chidi3180]

That's absurd. I will give anything to have a loving, genuine relationship ❤️

[@naomipatnaude4760]

I didn't watch it yet but Youngblood is a dope last name 😂😭

[@nyahr59]

Girlllllllllll Nyah Youngblood sound lit asf to me🤣🤣🤣🤣😭

[@kandacyholder1984]

@@nyahr59 lol trueeee, Tami Roman's husband name is Reggie Youngblood.

[@aaronhill443]

I spent most of the episode trying to figure out if she was a real woman. Then her friend being named Tyler was not helping until I realized that Tyler was a real woman.

[@charitysmith5170]

So is this a woman cuz I’m comfused

[@Pierre_pleasures_cutz]

Very

[@aaronhill443]

@@charitysmith5170 yeah

[@maharijawarapulika1349]

😂😂😂😂

[@sereneamani1713]

Likewise

[@CEOTonez]

I just got married and yes it is a piece of paper that entails a ton of work, sacrifice, patience, communication. ❤

[@susiesolangesimpson2828]

“Not still into women.” She’s INTO women. Nothing wrong with that but don’t string him along. Be honest with him and yourself.

[@SS-yl4wy]

That was bogus. She and that girl have the potential to be a couple at any moment. She said yes because the judge forced it in front of everyone. This will not end well.

[@soloman_am]

I was thinking the same thing

[@Remember_Eden]

I agree, through the whole show she said how she wasn’t into it. Then she just said yes? I think she didn’t want to hurt his feelings in front of the world.

[@JamesThomas-pv5en]

She’s not sexually attracted to him cah he simping bad 😂she got that masculine, strong independent woman vibes and he feminine that dynamic the relationship is done for

[@zulu3274]

😂 absolutely...her and that "friend" been getting down... ain't nobody buying that... Her and that so-called friend is hiding in plain sight...

[@BproDUCKtive]

Divorced people telling us marriage isn’t worth it in the comments is hilarious to me. Your story isn’t everyone’s story. He really loves her but she wants to be in a open relationship they need to separate and figure out who they are. I think he knows the reality of her exploring this friendship and the kisses were just the gateway

[@sagthenaturalsiren5997]

I’ve never been married but statistics will also tell you marriage isn’t always worth it

[@vgrannyvl2]

do the research, more people are opting to remain single for life as a lifestyle NOT just Black women. I applaud her for admitting she didn't want a husband...for one its over-rated....When yawl admit that women are good without fake imposter "husbands" yawl might do better...He just wants her to have his name, he's not interested in husbandry...most are not...they are ego tripping...A woman who is wife material would be wasting her time and life on a man who just wants to put his name on her..Being a husband is much more than that...Black men are so pressed about having a woman to step on/control...God must have taken a break/brake (lol) when he made husbands because men are not what they used to be at all.

[@wolfmancool]

Never take up someone else's children unless that person is willing to allow you to be a father or a mother to them fully.

[@keyeviondavis9647]

Every time a couple decides to bring a third party, into a committed relationship, things always get ugly, WHEN WILL PEOPLE STOP THINKING IT MAY BE A GOOD IDEA , AGAIN IT NEVER IS 💯

[@bestdarky19]

It works sometimes, but most times it doesn't.

[@bosslady1188]

I most definitely changes the dynamics of the relationship rather quickly.

[@cassandramae85]

It seems like he just came on the show to put her on the spot and propose in front of everyone so she couldn't say no 😅

[@velettadaviswilliams5517]

She can still say no and seeing that she really doesn't want him, I hope if he does, she will say no and go on and be the under cover woman she really wants to be with.

[@keshiaPckns]

My hubby proposed without a ring and we’ve been married 15 yrs. 😊😊

[@sagthenaturalsiren5997]

It’s typical for black woman not to have standards so not really surprised you think this is a flex 🤦🏿‍♀️

[@shopwithgabe6690]

Something is very OFF about them……I came here to see if somebody else felt the same 😊🤣

[@samanthac.7965]

Ummm yes.

[@jprice1928]

Yes and the girl too. Like something weird is going on.

[@reannafrancis8523]

You don’t need a rig to propose? You don’t need a license to be married? I’m soooo confused!

[@doviewilliams8623]

This was a weird case. It seemed as though she had deeper issues with sexual preference/identity, lack of interest in the relationship, commitment issues, and issues with sharing parental control. All of which will end a relationship or marriage. Did anyone notice that in the pic he brought as evidence the "friend" looked a little "butch" lesbian? This must be a sign of new age times, because I don't have any female friends that I would ever kiss. She has the driest, dullest expression of love for him. Judge Star expressed more excitement to be in love and married to her husband than this defendant did. The fact that they have only been together for 4 years and there's so little "fire & desire " is troubling. My advice to this young man would be to slow-walk this engagement - stay engaged for 2 more years and just watch her and see how the relationship materializes. If everything checks out, then get married. He has to "look deeper" before he leaps. Now, where have I heard this before!??🤔

[@dawoonahpierre]

Thinking about it too

[@xXLilSmurthXx]

My thoughts exactly!

[@lillysimonee8504]

Agreed!!

[@Novakane78]

I say 🏃‍♂️ bruh...she wants to be the one in charge...she doesn't want to be wife she wants to be the man that has his own feeedom

[@Remember_Eden]

@@Novakane78 agreed, a man still persuing marriage after 4 years is ridiculous. Something seems a bit off.

[@KWin-ik5cl]

She’s letting others marriages Influence her. Also, she knew what he wanted from the beginning and if she wasn’t down she should’ve let him go. There’s more to marriage than just a last name change.

[@climi681]

Frankly, those two have a problem and this judge ignored it. How can it be ok for your GF to kiss your best friend's GF? Knowing that she had been in relations with a woman before. She couldn't even see what was wrong with the photo... I believe he shouldn't have to propose to her for now, I don't think she wants to be married but she said yes due to being on camera. Good luck, hope all goes well.

[@NRigsby7]

🎉 But seriously, she wasn't honest up here. Just be straight up about what you want ma'am. 😂

[@misstee0712]

Her voice literally scared me. 😭

[@carleebhoward1]

My husband proposed to me with NO RING and I still said yes smh Ashley was playing games.

[@junkienikki3]

Sad for you

[@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare]

@@junkienikki3I’m 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I just spit out my chili😂😂 Omgosh

[@carleebhoward1]

@@junkienikki3 actually it’s not I got a house that belongs to me. Jokes on you a ring is never more important than loyalty and someone being good to you and still got my ring. Peace and blessings to you!

[@terrywright9186]

This is why in a two way relationship there should never be a third or fourth party, because it causes conflict and somebody will catch feelings.

[@beauti2thecore]

This was the most confusing episode I’ve watched🤨

[@ThatGirlGiGiNYC]

Chileeee

[@34Nails]

There are women that actually want marriage and can’t even get the man they are with to do what needs to be done to get to the next level; this woman just don’t know how lucky she is right now hell I wish I was getting married right now she’s going to regret this decision if he was to move on💯

[@lillysimonee8504]

Yess

[@TangieJ]

Facts

[@KayloveGreen]

Guess what, she's not the other women. She doesn't want marriage. There is nothing wrong with that. He needs to leave and find a woman that wants marriage. Stop chasing after her.

[@VibeWithDime]

@@KayloveGreen that’s what she said. She needs to let him go if she doesn’t want to get married.

[@KayloveGreen]

@@VibeWithDime yep!

[@sss-uk1ly]

All the ladies in yellow are looking as bright as the sun☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️

[@shamekah.3949]

Judge Star has done it again! Classy!! 🤩

[@Passion85031]

Congrats she needs to give him a chance. Marriage isn’t just a piece of paper

[@TM-nb7np]

I ❤ me some star jones. I wanna be like her when I grow up. 😊

[@cadillacdeville5828]

Marriage is ONLY as good as the character of the people involved. It's a piece of paper to some and more than that to others. I know plenty of couples who are married on paper and single in real life. I also know people who have great marriages. If you don't want to be married,then don't get married. If it's something important to your partner that's a must, then let them go. You get who you marry.

[@Reezy12333]

Only a piece of paper to women and the data proves that.

[@soulstrength]

WELL SAID.

[@taoroahgah]

@@Reezy12333 the data ? 😂😂

[@shomifochap3]

I love Star Jones on this show.

[@Otto8845]

So do I.

[@kevinblackmon5007]

Her last name could be Hurt-Youngblood

[@kariiwise]

She definitely said yes to shut him up

[@hotmessexpress3531]

I love seeing one of these turn out great! I wish them both the best! A life full of happiness ❤️

[@keishasmith379]

Marriage is not for everyone but if one person doesn't want to marry and another person does is when problems start. Ppl must be in agreement with most things in a relationship for things to really work. If not, leave and meet someone who wants the same things u do.

[@reannafrancis8523]

In these situations, there should be a spin off. The good guy or good girl should then be put on the bachelor/bachelorette show and bet they will find someone who wants and appreciates them. Then the mate who initially didn’t want them will suddenly see how good they had it.

[@JayDee-ut5yg]

I'm sorry but at 1st you couldn't tell me she wasn't a man by her voice and those pics!! I said I guess not when judge said she has twins 😮

[@Novakane78]

Same here!

[@bryantrice803]

I said the same thing. She clearly In control in the relationship and it sad she won’t let you parent her kids, she don’t wanna get married and he gone pay for it later

[@ajl007]

𝑭𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒔!

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

I thought she was transgendered the entire time until the judge said she has her own kids. It’s clearly a smokers voice she has. Lol i know a lot of women with that voice from smoking

[@TangieJ]

Same

[@marciam987]

I think this season is the highest where men are begging their women to marry them 🤔

[@1017himi]

Bc it's staged 😂

[@marciam987]

@@1017himi I mean that I know, but damn, it’s just too much😅hate to see it tbh, but oh well, it’s showbiz…

[@sherriebans4737]

There’s something wrong here…. Hummmm, I think he’s going to regret this and verrrry soon…..🤔 Somebody is not being honest about their REAL feelings!! Go figure which one!😱

[@maharijawarapulika1349]

I know right. And Divorce court will be right there for them to come back to.

[@llel1416]

She doesn't want to marry him nor take his last name while he wants a wife with his name. She was doubtful so I don't understand why the judge pushed for a public proposal, which is harder to refuse. They are not compatible.

[@ThatGirlGiGiNYC]

Now if he get tired of her and find someone else ....I bet she will act like she got some sense. People usually get it together when they realize how much you bring into a relationship

[@nakitabell6186]

He's a good man ❤ he's good looking, he needs to drop that baggage

[@MegaLadylove2012]

Blah

[@TheLoveBugz]

@@MegaLadylove2012 😒🧐

[@soloman_am]

I hope he leaves her and finds a better match for his vision she's gonna leave him for a girl I don't know what her and her friend have "kissed here and there" means but I had an ex like her always mentioning girls and now you know why she's my ex 😂

[@tmston2]

The difference between marriage and not married is similar to owning a home and renting a home. They are not the same

[@johnnyb6151]

They might as well be. Lol. Renting.......you're not responsible for taxes and repairs. Renting you just pay rent. It's cheaper. Lol. Even though I'm a home owner.

[@tmston2]

@@johnnyb6151 thats my point, renting: you have less responsibility for the property, you have less say so of the property, you can basically leave at anytime ( loopholes ), homeowners you waaay more invested & 100% responsibile for success of the property, you cant jus up and walk away from the property

[@monie2514]

This lady's voice is extremely deep and heavy 🤪🧐👎🏼🤬🤷🏼‍♀️ if this brother is willing to marry and she's not this is just a sign this is not meant for him and I think he should go ahead and find him somebody else 🥰📺📽️💯‼️👌🏼🤔

[@keyeviondavis9647]

😁😁 She has more bass than he does , WOW

[@charleshall9488]

She is going to loose a good man.

[@angelacarlisle1708]

She can still marry him and still not take his name...hes a tad controlling i think

[@mrttamara]

Just because he wants to marry her doesn’t make him a good man.

[@shanny0971]

I agree. She’s gonnna look back and be sad. People don’t realize this too much later. Modern women don’t get it.

[@shanny0971]

@Living With Ericka marriage is a covenant.

[@cadillacdeville5828]

​@Living With Ericka Smdh, marriage is only as good as the character of people involved. Just like a relationship. It's a piece of paper to some or way more than to others. It's not for everyone and that's ok. You get who you choose. I know very healthy marriages and horrible relationships. I know people who are married on paper and nothing else. Legally wise, a common law partner is not viewed the same along with other decisions.

[@roslynhawkins1475]

I did not expect her voice to be as deep as his

[@terrellhopkins499]

That’s a man 😬

[@hvanderf]

I think it is a transgender person, correct? I don't mean anything derogatory by asking this I was just wondering...Maybe the show is progressive and showing all types of relationships.

[@dayciajtalk88]

S

[@lifeincanadawithlivi607]

Thank you for this early morning upload!!!

[@annick.]

Where is Part II of the previous episode?

[@michellejordan6009]

I pray God covers their unity with love peace and joy Blessings❤

[@LoveAngel333]

She seem quite comfortable Maybe he need to let her know you not gon get husband benefits if you don’t want to be married. She don’t see the benefit of marriage because you giving her everything without the marriage

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

Judge Lynn advice, "Don't do husband duties at boyfriend prices." She installed him in her home. Oh how the tables have turned!

[@nmes80]

That was nice to see. They didn't even fuss or fight. I wish them the best.

[@brittneyreigns]

Women like her are FOOLISH. He needs to leave her alone and find him a WIFE.

[@dspenderella9671]

If they don't think marriage will change anything, then why are they so opposed to getting married if their partners want it & nothing will change anyway... They should be neutral about it if they truly see it as just an insignificant piece of paper

[@candicelockhart5197]

She does not love him!

[@MARCELORLANDOKING-fh2jv]

She wants Other females and her friend

[@galisggenuwin3443]

This woman just don't want this man point blank! Move on

[@gab19guerin72]

Can the women that want a good man please write in and get this man? Let this woman be paper-free. Once she gets with another man that dogs her out she will be missing this real man.

[@MARCELORLANDOKING-fh2jv]

She wants that secret lesbian relationship with her friend

[@deewms8955]

Wish them the best. I love Judge Star!!

[@chelseahagler6128]

Lol I'm glad everything worked out for them

[@andreacarter202]

I completely understand and validate her feelings because I feel the same way as her.

[@antwainanderson4812]

Um still confused this couple throwing me off👀🤷🏾‍♂️

[@lisas7046]

This was a nice one!! 🥰🥰

[@kr5690]

You are absolutely right!!!!

[@dspenderella9671]

I feel so bad- my 1st impression 5 mins in after hearing the defendant's voice is maybe this isn't someone who was born female, & maybe this person is afraid to tell him there's no womb to have the children he wants, so I sighed with relief when they mentioned she has children 😅😂.

[@BigAce3000]

That won't last. She told the world that she didnt want a ring or papers but we'll see how this plays out

[@angielyons980]

Before they mentioned the same gender interest for Ms. Hurt, I was thinking she was not into men completely. I hope they figure it out. This may be a good friendship with love but I doubt it will ever be marriage.

[@patrickmiller1834]

Wow her voice is DEEP. What’s up with that? Let’s guess

[@leeleegrace9015]

It sounds like they just both playing. Don't nobody got time for either one of them, next case! 🙄

[@mringram]

She's just not ready

[@LoveAngel333]

As much as they are laughing She is really cruel to him. And she prob cheating she keep saying because of my ways my ways yeah her way of cheating. He begging her and she love it. I bet if he leave she will be crying and acting a fool. Everything is a joke until it’s not funny

[@samanthac.7965]

She is very cruel to him and acts like the “man”.👀

[@annettescroggins3905]

Ah how beautiful...God bless them

[@lydiasetordjiedaley3424]

I was on board with him until he said you didn't need a ring to propose.. What?

[@tomiakinsete1716]

Absolutely obsessed with judge star’s outfits!! 😍😍😍

[@AyannaDanaya]

Lol I think they came to promote the desert business cause clearly there is no real issues 😂 she was just mad he kept popping the question with no ring. Once he got the ring she said yes ! Lol

[@damselinadress2069]

They're not getting married. She likes what he does for her. She's into women and that friend. I wouldn't be surprised if they sleep together but lied about it.

[@chestergriffin9370]

I think she need a lie detector test....I think she might b sneaking and geekin 🤔

[@theeggreat4]

This woman doesn’t like men she tolerates them. She likes having a man as a main person but she really wants to be with women she’s a switch. She likes to dominate and dominating a woman she has a desire to do.

[@vincentwilliams5271]

Marriage is what you make it

[@heyitsbrya2749]

Smh he needs to just leave her. He sounds like a good man. Straight forward. And wants a family and commitment and that's not what she wants. He should just leave on

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

If you try to corner her into "committing to you" chances are she's going to bolt!! You can't force someone to stay with you! She's not ready to commit, and may never be!! If you force her to make a decision, she's going to "decide" to go!! You're making a huge mistake!!

[@reginaharrigan7454]

Never have open marriage

[@sweetsweet81]

If he's wanting her to carry his name, then he needs to give her a ring when he proposes. A girl named Tyler?

[@samanthac.7965]

👀

[@Kwamedogg50]

This man is so in need of emotional connection from a women, it’s sad asf…

[@gemarfennell7622]

Her voice is too deep.

[@MrCeejaythadeejay]

I was waiting on a sike after the proposal.

[@redgurl60]

Kissing is a demonstration of intimacy. I'd be side eyeing them, too.

[@yomajestytoyou2565]

That picture he submitted look like a gay man with a lesbian couple The gf definitely have masculine energy

[@cdubya752]

Star is gorgeous! That makeup is flawless

[@erikaleary997]

Not the cash app sis😂😂😂😂

[@kimjenkins7866]

Don’t do it bro

[@lindawilliams7845]

There are good men out here who are loyal and don't cheat.

[@t.c.5456]

Something is VERY off abt her. Very.