Emotional Punching Bag Pt 1: Cheyane Kryger v Jonathan Parker

Cheyane says she’s done with the disrespect and being her boyfriend's emotional punching bag. Between the verbal abuse and lack of intimacy, she feels it's time to move on from this relationship.
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[@sweetsweet81]

She looks broken. She needs to exit stage left. He's checked out of the relationship. He doesn't like change, and having the baby changed everything. Neither one of them was ready.

[@Latanyanhall]

@sweetsweet81... Yes, I said the same thing. It's all in her eyes.

[@SonnyNight21]

So I take it that means that this is not repairable and yet another family needs to break away, break up, break apart and remain broken?

[@tinajackson6875]

Exactly

[@sweetsweet81]

@SonnyNight21 What good is that if he doesn't even want to be in the relationship? His words say one thing and his actions say another. Co-parenting is better than living in a toxic house! He doesn't even want his son. He just wants to live single and carefree.

[@jprice1928]

@@SonnyNight21what are u talking about? The relationship is already broken. My parents divorced and it was the best thing they could have done for everyone involved and I wish they would have done it sooner . A household full of people who hate eachother is volatile, unstable and causes a life time of trauma for the child. They were much too young when they got together and they are still very young and have plenty of time to discover themselves. It’s best they figure things out while the baby is still so young before they cause permanent damage. If that means splitting up then so be it but it’s not the end of the world and they can still coparent.

[@stylesbycryssie]

Her parents failed her tremendously

[@MsBizzyRae]

Both of their families! Her family for kicking her out and his family by allowing her to come stay with them.

[@shinealight84]

His did too!

[@The_North0]

I am confused. I thought parents can’t legally kicked their kids out of their household unless they are of age?

[@soulstrength]

He is one of the most dusty, lackluster dudes I've seen on this show in a long time! How dare he call her lazy when she's working a full-time job? Girl, stop letting yourself be emotionally beat up by this guy. You want to stay because he's all you know and you have a baby together, but you don't have to stay on the ground. Learn from your mistakes, get up, dust yourself off, and choose your next mate better. I have faith in you and I know you can do it! 🙏🏽❤️

[@nadegejean1254]

This relationship is a waste of time. There’s nothing to work out .

[@cathy_annjones9071]

These two young people started off life too early.

[@tonyamscateyezmcmillan1417]

An so many young people do that

[@AnnerzDrum]

Facts! They are so young and were not raised by parents. I feel sorry for them. If he was more supportive, they could make it.

[@yung1717]

He doesn’t even seem like he cares. Such a jerk

[@queshebalittle6023]

There's no way i would have allowed a 13 yr old to live in my home with my 15 yr old son there's no way

[@queenteireigns6212]

I missed that part😮

[@The_North0]

You need to

[@lindadewese6754]

She has a perpetual grimace on her face.Poor thing.

[@chachabotchway9329]

😂😂😂

[@chaneladams6338]

I hate that i agree lmao... Im hoping that's her way of holding back tears 😅

[@kiagraham2987]

Right! She can't or won't smile

[@carolyngilliard9924]

She makes me want to cry😢

[@arianajeanelle3]

this made me scream 😂😂😂😂 her top lip pissed me off the entire video

[@wordplay6665]

It’s almost like he despises her after have a kid he put in there

[@jerez81777]

There's no way I'd allow my daughter to get involved with no guy that young. She should've been enjoying her teen years and thinking about college not dealing with an immature lazy disrespectful jerk. He has no issue with her doing everything. She needs to take her son and leave. He has no respect or no goals to do better. She doesn't need to be married at 21 especially not to him.

[@mrssippy2946]

Especially not to him,exactly....My baby girl is going to be 17 and getting ready for college and I told her no boyfriends until you graduate child,leave them bums where they're at,they only want 1thing

[@Shellygrrl2573]

​​@@mrssippy2946Exactly this! I'm the same with my teenage girls and boys! Where's this girls mom letting her run off at the age of 13 worried about some boy instead of her future? HIS mom failed her in my opinion because there's no way id let my kids think a relationship is goal number one at 13 years old. Edit to include: His mom moving her in because she obviously didn't want to follow her own parents rules is disrespectful as all get out. HIS parents should have done better for the both of them instead of letting teenagers lay up in their house.

[@mrssippy2946]

@@Shellygrrl2573 Omg u sad it all,I absolutely agree,ain't no boyfriend,girlfriend,husband or wife laying up in y house,especially no kids,both set of parents failed them.

[@ISayToMyself]

She has out grown him. They probably need to separate and she needs to get someone a bit more mature. Dont marry this man. Marriage will not make it better. I’m telling you lady. Don’t do it.

[@kimwilliams1402]

No. She hasn't,she is just as young and immature,as he is , putting up with this dumb shish

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

Yes, do not marry.

[@annabellemascarenas6053]

Do not marry that no good jerk.😫😡he not only fooled you…but he fooled us😢🙁

[@willsalter8113]

First off she has a beautiful smile. Secondly you can see that he is overwhelmed with the responsibility of their new lives together and he’s lashing out. She is head over in heels in love with him because he is all that she knows and she is trying to figure out where did the man she loves go to. They both need counseling and mentorship. You can see that he loves her but he is overwhelmed and he needs help figuring things out.

[@SheilaTrueLove]

SHE DOESN'T LOVE THIS DUDE AT ALL. HOW CAN YOU LOVE ANYONE UNLESS YOU LOVE YOURSELF FIRST. SHE HAS SEVERE CODEPENDENCY AND FEAR OF BEING ALONE.

[@willsalter8113]

@@SheilaTrueLove she does love him and even a blind man can see that. He’s simply overwhelmed with the responsibilities of their new life together and they both need mentorship and counseling. A lot of the younger generation of young ladies don’t want to be like their mothers alone and depressed.

[@ajwhite1077]

This is a prime example of Babies Raising Babies

[@tonyamscateyezmcmillan1417]

You can say that again

[@eugeniaboone5602]

21 years old and 23 are not " babies ". They're adults. Now when they started dating at 13 and 14 years old is considered babies. Too young to play house, having sex,engaged like they're adults. Now after living together, having a child ten years later, it's broken. She needs to leave.

[@LadyNStreet]

She was a baby (14) when she was kicked out. No one taught her how to be an adult

[@eulaanderson8897]

Please young lady love yourself and your child. Be strong pray..put yourself first you are worthy..you haven't lived..please. God's got you. ❤

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

Leave him! Run!

[@Jameswiliams-h3l]

Her spirit is broken 😢

[@kay7229]

That guy is horrible. Something is wrong with him. Every word is lazy this lazy that. He is full of excuses.

[@BleuReign13]

He's childish..and it makes sense, because he's a child. He grew up but didn't mature.and she held on because they have a past..and now a child

[@shanny0971]

Don’t put God in that.

[@nailahdawkins]

🗣️ That part! 💯

[@34Nails]

It is not just her job to cook and clean. It’s also his job too as the father of that kid💯

[@nikajackson8147]

Bow out gracefully. Don't pass Go don't collect a damn thing ...let's Go! Get outta there girl. No one is responsible for your happiness but you Sis!

[@lavenderfields8783]

Judge Star has it right! Co dependency! They need to split and grow up separately and MAYBE come bk together! RIGHT NOW...THIS ISNT IT! He dealing with his own issues and she don't need to stick around for the nonsense

[@marciahouston5294]

i see so much sadness in her eyes. I pray for healing over them both.

[@cherelle4946]

Example of why you should never kick your teen out. She wasn’t even pregnant / close to adulthood & got kicked out the house. That’s crazy

[@tfahari]

Poor thing She has a permanent frown on her face and she looks 31 not 21. RUN

[@thebarbieinvestor5428]

His mama is a fool and enabler. That grown behind lil girl would have been back at her mothers house and the relationship over. Absolutely not!

[@mogetit5999]

🎯I can’t stand those types of parents that allows BS to occur under their roof

[@TajaunMiles]

I don’t think she was grown. She needed guidance. His mom should have definitely made her go bk home. So his mom enabled the both of them. And allowed them to play house.

[@kattiethomas4687]

Shóuldve been home from the begining

[@shinealight84]

There was nothing grown about her at 13. Stop the misogynistic BS. She was a little girl who needed supervision from her parents. They are at fault..

[@theriawilliams818]

He's a bum

[@ShanetteLewis]

he resents being tied down and having to be responsible for ! he’s very emotionally abusive… girl leave him NOW!

[@TheLady_Laura]

They're both a little slow, sadly. I feel sad for the poor child they brought into the world.

[@God-Love-Freedom]

At 21 and 23, what makes them slow?

[@LIVEINPEACE2023]

@@God-Love-Freedom It’s nothing to do with their age. She means mentally delayed.

[@DominiqueCecil]

How is she mentally delayed ? What caused you to say that

[@rachellebrown5222]

@@God-Love-Freedom right! Totally agree. How does one call someone slow? That’s truly sad. Praying for these young people. Working in social services with struggling youth, I can attest most youth in younger generations aren’t as mature. Youth aren’t slow, our generation has enabled them etc In addition, young lady clearly has 0 family support smh. Sad we can’t uplift each other.

[@God-Love-Freedom]

@@LIVEINPEACE2023 Ok. Whatever you say. So, what makes them slow? What makes you or them think they are mentally delayed?

[@trix4568]

Name calling.Some names you can't recover from.Baby.Move on.

[@mayasilliman1465]

Leave girl. He's not going to change. You have all of your life to live a good life with a man.

[@charmainewalker8627]

Parents should be fined for putting their underage kids. Why did her parents put out this girl at 13. This poor girl is seeking love and validation for the wrong reasons. And this slow guy is still a child. His ass need to mature

[@minae9935]

Not fined, imprisoned. That’s child endangerment

[@paigejohnson71]

If a child is put out like that and the authorities are called, the parents are evaluated and the child is either put back in custody or sent to foster care. It’s horrible

[@RosalynnAnne]

Thank you . Her mom coming out crying lowkey pmo.

[@sunflowertulip9346]

Imprisonment and throw the keys. My grandmother would put me out at 10, 11, 12 and try to show face, cause people would see me on the street and say that I ran away.

[@paigejohnson71]

Her sadness is coming through the screen. She really needs to talk to someone so she doesn’t go farther into depression.

[@sheilataylor7497]

Lust doesn't have anything to do with God.

[@missdowntoearth6968]

My heart goes out to her, she’s broken and really need to work on her self worth

[@God-Love-Freedom]

Why? She was a hot tail hitting up social media to find boys. I don’t feel sorry for her at all.

[@KevinA.Deckard-gm2he]

This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@beverlystephens6]

I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counselor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back

[@KevinA.Deckard-gm2he]

Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?

[@beverlystephens6]

Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being.

[@KevinA.Deckard-gm2he]

Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.

[@jillianelliott4654]

I broke up with my partner after 12 years. I know it's hard but YOU will get through it and find the person your supposed to be with.

[@TheCakediva08]

This is why CHILDREN ( and that is anyone under 18 for all you sorry parents) should Not have social media!! This is horrible! People need time to develop and live life before they focus on a relationship. He is NOT a man! He is not equipped to lead a family! Run girl !! Run and never look back! He is a child! Poor thing! Her mom is not a good mother. She not even teaching or supporting her SMH

[@_stlouisLady_]

Thank you for this comment! Social media isn't for children in my opinion but most parents don't care.

[@wordplay6665]

He in here whispering but be cursing her out on the regular. Set him and his issues free girl

[@keannarodgers6043]

It’s so sad bc nobody raised her, she just grew up

[@myrahonore2656]

Sometimes you can’t feel sorry for what others allow.

[@YolandaTravis]

he broke her down, and destroyed her

[@jessicadickerson9178]

Who kicks out a 14 year old ?

[@lawranew5125]

A parent, who is fed up

[@brendagiller1920]

He can get a job too he's lazy

[@SheniceSays214]

Yeah, she’s here but sadly she’s just here to get some act right and I don’t think she really will leave him completely.

[@SPtheGREAT]

It's not gonna work...they're just a couple of kids...they don't know enough about life just yet...

[@dekasenior2727]

They are both going through postpartum depression..they never enjoyed their childhood..Young people listen to your parents they only wants the best for you.

[@IamKellz80]

This girl has repeatedly said she is self conscious about her looks and I see so many rude comments about her looks from grown bullies. I hope this broken sad girl doesn’t come read these comments and end up feeling worse about herself.

[@Pumpsandabump]

It’s crazy how this is the situation for a lot of couples …the relationship change after a baby single and married couples

[@mearly7047]

He's very rude and disrespectful to her. He's a lazy bum

[@BlackCatSocietyNYC]

You literally cannot kick out a 14 year old unless they are a danger or violent. Her parents needed to have a CPS case opened and have abandonment and endangerment charges against them. Did they think making him her sole means of survival would keep them apart??!!

[@peezstar]

why her face stuck on “frown” ☹️☹️

[@lesley5380]

Her braces might be new and she is self conscious. Also she is sad and trying not to cry.

[@rachellebrown5222]

Thanks for pointing that out, she seems so broken but gorgeous.

[@KendraJoslyn]

She is absolutely gorgeous

[@toniaellen5271]

Because she with him

[@stopit41]

Beautiful Queen

[@Mstwosets]

I really like how this judge isn't so one sided. 🤩

[@trevorkelly5036]

Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[@LaurenJ.Gordon]

i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

[@trevorkelly5036]

wow, please how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

[@LaurenJ.Gordon]

Her name is queen stella laveaux ,and she is great at what she does. you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

[@trevorkelly5036]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@jillianelliott4654]

This is a fake post. Someone else above posted the same thing.

[@t.c.5456]

I am definitely wondering HOW CRAZY was this girl acting to get kicked out of her house at 14. If she is talking about desires and lust at that age….this is disturbing!!!!!!

[@ronnimartin7033]

Where is her mother?!!! How on earth do you put a 14 yr old girl out of the house?!

[@rachellebrown5222]

Yes. Feel really bad that her family kicked her out. Her life could have been different and still can be. Wish I could hug her, she’s gorgeous.

[@DearPromises]

She looks so sad , like maybe she cried before they got there 🥹

[@ayesierramist]

Ouuuu a 2 part-er! It’s going to be JUICYYYYYY!!

[@brendagiller1920]

It's her fault for putting up with him throw his sorry butt off and change door locks

[@Yeshuadaughter727]

I'm losing brain cells listening to this literally

[@Edward_Strong1982]

Neither one of them need to be in the relationship. They entirely too young. Her parents were right about not agreeing with the relationship, not sure about kicking her though. That just made her dive into the situation even more.

[@mogetit5999]

I have a sneaky suspicion that she was spending nights out and refused to come home and obey orders, so they said stay where you are until youre ready to behave your age

[@quintissteemer3896]

This is exactly the 100% reason why parents tell young kids not to date nor have children. Not that dating is always a bad thing but when you make adult decisions you're not ready for you'll have to deal with adult consequences you're way too young for. It's kinda like being ten years old in an adult prison.

[@Bkblackrose]

Where is wisdom in this. Who is guiding these young adults. She is broken and lost and he is overwhelmed as may feel trapped. They have not matured in a productive way. Where are the role models…. A lot of immature reactive behavior

[@anonymousreview1049]

I can only pray that this young lady doesn’t walk out of that studio hall fussing and arguing with this boy. Please, Father in the name of Jesus give this young woman the presence of mind today, take her baby and leave this boy alone. Please Father. Please

[@cyndedawson3129]

Young lady beautiful queen time for you to get out of town!!! Run don't walk 💫🌌🌷🙏🏽

[@truthbetold1074]

nothing is going to change...so move on..my girl...

[@tonyaharper2468]

This is so sad

[@MERMAID19834]

She looks like a woo from whoville 😂

[@ajacasey-hicks2791]

I feel bad for her situation but I thought the same thing

[@antoinelewis4219]

That man child not 🚫 going to grow up, get a job, do whatever takes take his child and wife

[@poshpearls23]

Ma'am take your plants, your Whoville upper lip, and your baby and exit stage left. You are better off without him. The baby is here now, but you can still reclaim your life. For your sake and the sake of your baby..... move on.

[@queenteireigns6212]

That wasn't nice

[@lamonticiareid7641]

Not whoville

[@sumbynum]

Ngl, while I'm not making fun of her- that's exactly what I thought of based off the way it looks.

[@poshpearls23]

@@queenteireigns6212 I wasn't trying to be mean. I actually like the Whoville characters, they are adorable to me, and have been since I was a child. But that's what it looks like.

[@shinealight84]

You were definitely trying to be mean. You didn't even have to mention that. As bad as this situation is, your focus is on her looks? Smh. Do better.

[@ballseason1183]

She need her parents bad

[@JayMonaeee]

He probably feels like she owes him for his family being good to her.

[@brendab.]

KIDS.

[@kikirikikikki]

If I had to guess, This relationship was not blessed. If I had to guess, they should have parted ways long ago. I wish people wouldnt let their kids experience the CARNAGE of a failed relationship.

[@wandagreene4668]

She does not fit into his definition of a wife or mother. They need to share their definitions to ensure they match. If not then not. They are young and don't seem to have any idea of what being married is like in real life.

[@oluseyeojo3726]

9 years in relationship of 2 babies. Wonders shall never end. When young people value relationship than life purpose something tells me they're disobedience to parents

[@libratude9595]

21 and 23 being together 9yrs is a joke. Puppy love infatuation doesn't count 😏🙄😒.

[@gtfoh1802]

She’s a beautiful young lady and he’s stealing her essence, her power and mind. She needs to follow God now and leave that little boy in the dust… He will never be the man for you babygirl and you deserve better than some scrub who puts you down, jealous of your ambition and light and won’t love, protect & provide for you. Leave him and your life will be bright and happy ❤

[@zoelife7272]

DC should be about financial and property recovery. The answers to the issues raised are clear to all.

[@patrickmiller1834]

They should be on their first lovemaking experience not with no kid

[@kenscales4992]

WHO is that handsome man behind Mr. Parker !!! xoxox

[@markquarto8159]

Another deadbeat homie, that women find SOOOOOO ATTRACTIVE 🙄

[@shinealight84]

Let me guess, you're the manipulative "nice guy" they should be interested in but aren't and you take it out on all women?

[@jo-annbastings]

IT’S A NINE!!! NINE YEARS RELATIONSHIP!!! NINE!?!? Where were her parents to tell her to focus on her school works?!? Where were her parents to talk to her about unwanted pregnancy and contraception since she was sooo interested in boys?

[@shinealight84]

Everyone doesn't have family to guide them and show them the way.

[@jo-annbastings]

@@shinealight84 yeah, sadly😕🙄….

[@papagrande2006]

i wanted to hear the logic about the gas tank... she didn't make him respond unfortunately

[@antoinelewis4219]

That dude is toxic , take your child leave that man child move on with your life. U and him co parent, put that dude on child support

[@jeanettacrawford4817]

It’s very important to listen to your parents. She reaping what she sow it’s time for her to leave.

[@lindacohen9134]

They both are too young and immature

[@kimr5479]

Too Young!

[@olubunmifadairo8061]

Real-life situation. People argue about changing diapers all the time.

[@keishasmith379]

She looks so hurt. I hope she can find a way to build herself up again. Cause looking for other ppl to do it doesnt work.

[@jessicadickerson9178]

I’ve been with someone horrible like this. They will not change because they become worse with the next person.

[@Spexsavvy]

Her pain is heartbreaking. I commend her wanting to fight for her family.Some people grow up in a relationship together. As long as she understands that it’s going to be a long road for him I wish her the best. ❤

[@Jameswiliams-h3l]

She should run ……………. Fast

[@S.C-s7g]

Yeah it's time yall split up and live life by yall selves find who u are individually and maybe get back together after yall go enjoy life

[@zara198522]

Her family didn't want them to be together, so their solution was to kick her out of the family home. What did they think was going to happen!? As for him, he's checked out and he will never check back in. He wants his freedom, not parental responsibility.

[@suade9940]

Based on what’s discussed on this video, he is emotionally and psychological abusing her. I hope she moves on with her life and work on her self-love, acceptance and esteem so she can be a better version of herself for her and her child.

[@maxxxcee602]

Absolute nonsense, two children in adult business, she looks so stressed at just 21yrs old. What can we really expect from either of them, when clearly their parenting is questionable and they are not equipped to do better.

[@AwesomeKpopFan]

in telling yall right now WE DO NOT SAY THE S IN ILLINOIS (its like the k in know or the l in salmon) LMFAOOOOOOOO

[@RosalynnAnne]

Lmaoo fr. This irritated me too

[@theriawilliams818]

Why y'all come to court to asks the judge to fix y'all because you can look pitiful shed tears for that man he's not gonna change

[@ED-hi1vo]

I'm hoping he's like this because he's young. Alot of people are petty fools when they are young. In regards to her, her family and his mother failed her. When you have a sexually active teenager, the very first thing you do is implicate BIRTH CONTROL.

[@kattiethomas4687]

He doesnt feel excitedabout you anymore.

[@beautymedic1773]

He seems resentful. He doesn't know how to express frustration or manage stress. They both too young. She clinging o for dear life knowing that he doesn't want her anymore. Its very sad.