DJ Ghost: Growing Up Without A Father Made Me Mad At The World

[@Leeezy23]

I feel you bro. 28 years and haven't seen my dad once. Haven't heard from him or his family. Might as well say I don't have one. It's been rough growing up and having to learn things myself, but I made it. Got my own money, house,car and family without him.

[@chefnico6725]

Big ups to you bro. Your changing our generation by being a good dad. Love you bro and keep teaching your kids to change the way the world thinks. Blessings 🙏

[@simp_chronicles2022]

damn my nigga i cant imagine shii like that yknow like my pops stayed wimme and there was times he tried to leave the house and i wouldnt let him, im shit im 13 almost 14 and my pops is older then you and i still was ready to fight this nigga i dont care im not lettin him leave my fuckin my baby sister she isnt a baby no more she 8 now, so this shit can effect her with prolly like depression or some shit i cant let that happen, but say she wasnt around, ah hell he'd be gone he prolly just leave, and like 2 days ago i had juss fought my dad that shii fucks wit my head, but id rather fight my dad then not have one, i got all the respect to anybody who grow up without a pops and is runnin they house how they poss to stay straight big bruh much love

[@megamonstercookies]

Congratulations on being a man.

[@Mike-sx8nc]

That’s wassup bro✊🏽

[@mickeyriddle8338]

Same here my brother

[@youngsavage817]

nah fr i grew up without a father...i be lost af in this world smh hopefully i find a way soon

[@yonatandaniel7462]

Ghost gang got ur back

[@smacks9069]

💯

[@Ls-gf8jd]

U will bro we all will frfr

[@mgee1723]

I wish you the best homie. Trust yourself🤞🏾

[@okagaming5621]

I was lost too in stolly everything when you save up some mulla try and move and get your shit together but dont forget to you help fam.

[@JDiggiti]

Moms really don't understand how important it is for a boy to go Outside & create his own life. If a boy cant go outside & forge his own identify outside of his mommy, then he forever gonna be a mamas boy... 25, 35 & still up in his Mama house, Up in his Mama face . They made a movie about it , Baby Boy . and what happens when mama is gone ? i was out at 16 ... took me til 22 to get it together , but i'm a proud MAN

[@JovaniMiller2001]

Bro I have a cousin my uncle's son is the same way like me and my grandma talk about everyday when is he going to get his life together if something was to happen to his mom and I felt this

[@JovaniMiller2001]

I’m glad u brought this up bro like my mom had me locked up in the house all day myself from elementary school thru high school I left home from my moms house when I was 17 lived with my grandma till I was 21 but it took my to 22 to finally get it together and my mom and dad broke up after I was born even tho I had my father in my life a lot and I went thru a lot of stuff myself this is why I tell myself I can’t repeat history to my future kids

[@JovaniMiller2001]

Brother I literally go thru this issue with both mom and grandmother I live with my grandma now and she’s doing me the same way my mom did me

[@opmallmoneyin]

I'm 26 and both of my parents was/is bloods from LA . Lost majority of my childhood/ teenager years wit my Pops because he was in the pen . 💯💯💯

[@ENKI_D_GREAT]

My brother, we got so much in common, my father was murdered in front of our apt door when I was 10 months old, so I grew up without a father, and it kissed me off and made me sad to see other kids with their fathers and me all by myself, and me growing up that way, made me want to be there for my son, I don’t want him to go thru what I went thru, it’s tough growing up without a dad,

[@jhixofficial7634]

With that mindset you'd be the best father

[@ENKI_D_GREAT]

Thank man, I really try to be there for him, and I talk to him like he a grown ass man, since he turned 12, I honestly wanna have more, but I haven’t found a donor, lmao, jk, I jus haven’t been lucky with love, had girls try and take my life, so it’s kinda hard to try women, lol

[@jhixofficial7634]

@@ENKI_D_GREAT Damn stay safe girls are crazy these days!

[@lahmike]

I grew up without mines. He died when I was 3 to the streets . It affects me to this day

[@LilMikey_1]

I lost mine when I was 5 to them too bro I know how it feels I shed a few tears every few years about him being gone fam it be random too we gone be good in this life g !!

[@Lil_dee_23]

I grew up wit out a dad and a mom I had to learn how to take care of myself and how to survive and be a man on my own and Not gon lie dat shii was hard af real shit 💯

[@StromLxrd6]

felt this 31 and still going thru growing pains but im here for my 3 lil daughters and can't imagine not wanting to be in their life

[@weebig]

Respect

[@sarah_210_]

All I gotta say is RESPECT, there need to be more men out their like u much love from Texas 💙

[@Cj-hj6rm]

Texas stand TF up 🤘

[@brennenbrewer8544]

Real shit we the realest man ong

[@yunggescobarr6216]

ongg🤘🏼

[@werovizual2863]

Live from da tone 👻

[@TwanBankz]

@@werovizual2863hell yuh cuhz😂

[@reece3587]

It feels like he talking straight to me

[@davidsantiago9601]

Nc

[@PAYSAYWAV]

I swear

[@risles2495]

Who been here since the 1st apartment ?!

[@tdubb-hr3jt]

Damn ur mama got 7 different baby daddys and nt havn ur dad dats rough yo but look at u nw bro u made it and ur a good father big ups frm nz g! Ghost gang!!!

[@zerenio]

That intro is fire 🔥

[@OneUpTop]

That Bro chain hard af 🔥💯

[@eduardoperez2405]

Istg i grew up with no father but DJ is legit telling me what to do in life this guy is straight up 💯

[@triss7879]

I was the only nigga on my block wit a daddy. I see the difference bro. So respect for sharing. Cuz every child need that so their kid can pass it to their own.

[@triss7879]

And my pops maneuvered in the streets. Got out and took care of me

[@mattcory619]

bro i grew up without a dad and then at 26 i found out i was a rape baby..... everything i watched my mom go through to take care of me not knowing as a kid tore me up at that exact moment i found out. which was ALLOT im hoping to find my way soon... i dropped out of highschool but ive been returning to finish that shit but i do feel like im mad at the world still.... i love life but i hate it at the same time

[@tinicoleofficial]

Dang… that’s devastating bro

[@majinvegeta4954]

In so happy i have a father in my life and dat hes not a buster💯 not stuntin or nun im juss grateful. Takes a strong individual to become a real man without a dad

[@godlikearjun2043]

Against all odds you became a Great Man. Thats the only 1 thing all men should strive for, but many just dont.

[@zubeirjamaa]

My father was "involved" in my life until I was 14. He lived with me and my family but he never once asked me. I remember when I was 5-8 years old he was the best man he could be. Then in the summer of 2011 he went on vacation to visit his parents and brothers and when he came back he changed in the most negative way possible. He started abusing my mother physically, mentally, emotionally, verbally. He started beating me and my sisters up. My mom went through depression and anxiety. Last time I saw him was April 16, 2018. I doubt I'll ever see him again. Last time I talked to him on the phone was in May 2019, it's September 2020 and I got the news he married another women. It pains me because these are the years I need a father figure the most. These late teen years and early 20s are when males need someone to look up to so they can be good men in the future. My brother is 7 and will grow up without a dad. This is also a blessing in disguise though because I'll be the father to my brother that he never had. And if I ever have a son in the future i'll be the best I can to him.

[@GroovyKy]

This podcast is 🔥 ghost gang!!

[@cloudedmindschbmalikjo]

I grew up with no dad and I hated the world more than anything

[@jaredjgober]

I didn’t grow up with a Dad, but I was lucky enough to have strong Uncles and male cousins. That’s the good thing about growing up in the south, at least where I’m from, family is close as hell. I felt this entire video from start to finish. Real Shit.

[@nickbutler6877]

Facts fr. I'm from South Carolina and we never really had much, but the lil bit of family we did have was always tight knit 🤞. It's a blessing fr

[@drebain1020]

Real shit bro my peers and the streets raised me seen pops like 3 times in my life moms died wen I was 13 bin to jail at 19 had my daughter at 20 I know the feeling bruh stay blessed 💯God gat us all

[@Player500-1]

Reads title: So look bro...I can relate 😩

[@Colesbaby1999]

Lost my dad at 6yo too the streets, this shit never get easier dealing with a loss like that fr 💯

[@creativedegree]

I'm 28 and I call my dad almost every day to discuss life and how to better myself. I feel so much for anyone without both their parents because they are the only thing keeping me straight right now. Man life is unfair!

[@tibetanchieftan9679]

Thanks Ghost for this Truth, I am glad that you are doing well, and through all what you been through, you stand strong. Peace and blessings to You and Your family and loved ones

[@elmondokush204]

Listening to this is like therapy fr

[@PachRandolph]

Man i grew up the same way im older now i still dont fw my father hate him with a passion but I learned when i have kids im never leaving what i created🤞🏽

[@Truantt]

Hopefully you can get that hate out of your heart soon, man…

[@KeyMoTherapy]

I had to grow up without a mother so this right here is relatable 😕

[@stayfly5870]

Same here I wish it was talked about more

[@JovaniMiller2001]

I grew up without a mother myself a loving and caring mother I mean I have her I just don’t feel the love from her like I do from my dad because she favoritism’s my two older siblings and there dads then she does me and my dad

[@KeyMoTherapy]

@jovanmiller3650 That's terrible. But to be real it's different for me tho cause yall are niggas without a mom, and im here looking like a lil clown cause I'm raised around my men and people keep telling me I aint feminine enough and a lot of other extra shit 🤦‍♀️

[@JovaniMiller2001]

@@KeyMoTherapy hey what’s your social media let’s be friends just friends because I wanna talk to u about my life story on snap and instagram

[@JovaniMiller2001]

My bad I’m sorry

[@AVworld.]

You gotta talk more about this bro. I'm 21 puerto rican with a similar situation but I got 2 little brothers both pre teens and my momma was single momma so I dont know too much on how to teach them to become a man.

[@megamonstercookies]

Educate yourself and teach them what you learn and more importantly how and where you learned it. That’s how it is done. I learned so much through KZbin alone and do my best to educate when I can.

[@AVworld.]

@M Yvette honestly I don't think therapy would help me much. But I do live and learn and I think about move i make

[@nonami_066xswqoqowiwl]

Jeffrey Use law of attraction to attract money and escape the matrix . Tutorial kzbin.info/www/bejne/fHSrhX9sa9d_fc0 I also recommend watching spiritual so he will change your life

[@Khi02]

How tf this video don’t got millions of views?bruh ion know no KZbinr this raw,his stories never boring💯

[@alexhudson-]

"If what I believe is proved to be wrong than guess I'm a miracle." GGOT

[@RicNplayz]

deep talks 🙁related to the max. not about our childhoods. we are all different. ghost u are a great guy 🙏🏽 god bless u

[@DC4L1991]

My dad was in my life, even tho my mom made it hard for him and he seemed like he didn’t want to put up a fight like that. But we were able to resolve our differences and our relationship was better than ever until i lost him 5 years ago and it’s been the toughest thing I’ve had to deal with. Folks if you have your dad and he’s still here try and work on things and if they don’t work out then it is what it is: but at least try 💪🏾

[@PALMofficial]

Ghost I respect TF out of you because you keep it 💯 all the time. I grew up completely different from you. I’m an only child and my parents have been married for 35+ years. I graduated from an HBCU. I might be just a lil younger than you but we’re around the same age. I had it all growing up and never had to worry. Crazy thing is that your drive to want a better life than what you were dealt with as a kid got you to where you are now. You’re far more successful than me, and I look up to your channel. This is just motivation for me to get on my grind & get my shit together. ✊🏿

[@350griff]

Speaking ntn but facts. Soak up the game kids. When someone is speaking to you this raw they fasho want better for you, rather they know you or not!!!

[@UndergroundZone]

24 years old and haven't came across my father yet, I heard he was locked up for years but idk for what

[@danajah6581]

That intro🔥 Ghost Gang

[@senkusenju2560]

Same I grew up without a dad and sum years without my mom

[@bamaboitube8572]

This shit crazy bro I felt this one all the way everything you said I literally went through and still goin through now shit wild but I’m knowing it’s gon get better 💯 especially the part when it came to looking for a male role model I was always tryna find that nigga nobody could fw it on a certain level of mentality 💯

[@nestlallgik_yannd7085]

Real talk bro have half of sum or sum of us watching this grew up with out a mom

[@antwongogce24]

this shit hit differently bro my dad died when i was 13 months old. i can relate to dis shyt bru😪

[@mariodominguez8006]

I felt this one ghost, we grew up the same💯💪🏼 realest KZbinr out gee oh dee #ghostgang

[@benmartinez681]

Real shit. I feel everything U saying. 2pac was my father figure.

[@bigbankkk1]

Damn me too✊

[@Ultrontu]

Luckily for me I had a father so I was happy but at the same time he doesn’t live with me I live with my mom but he was still there in my life and that’s enough for me real talk 💯

[@RuntzAHK]

💯 you always keep it a stack real emotion in da story so u kno it’s true

[@YUNGMARTYTV]

I can relate bro thanks for keeping it real 👻 gang 💯

[@ttvxx6king220]

THANK U FOR TALKING ABOUT THESE THINGS BROTHER ‼️✅ I NEEDED IT CUZ HE WASN'T THERE ‼️😌 SO THANK U

[@luedawg987]

I felt this shit ghost forreal. You out here helping alot of people with this god bless 💯🙏

[@clownnig3414]

I’m 16. Grew up by myself. I seen so many similarities I just don’t gang bang. Shit is rough. We all grow up differently. Ain’t no money around but I know money is the only way you gone survive. I got different mentalities from everyone. I’ve taught myself a lot. It hits mentally knowing you got a dad but he ain’t around. It’s tough

[@dzFades]

Errybody love DJ Ghost💯

[@jayfromnc3137]

Keep posting this ghost ❤️💯

[@ronaldmartin9412]

I been tryna understand why I was so angry at the world wen I was younger this changes my perspective. Thanks cuh

[@grenadas12]

Djay ghost just talkn be changing lives

[@keivonteneal6763]

I felt that when you was talkin bout how yo mom been with all typa niggas that wasnt shit cus same here bro💯

[@xSamoh]

Pops got locked up when I was 5, just turned 21 and he got out a week before my birthday.. got a daughter who finna turn 3 and before she was born I didn’t know how to be a man, I was just a kid raised by moms and grandma in the middle of the hood. I’m grateful though my daughter saved my life.

[@seaniontes4176]

I really felt this no real man wants to learn the game the respectful way 🙏🏾💯

[@SMOKEYNIMH]

Bruh...feel this so much...never had a major male figure in my life...just been out here lost honestly...

[@jacktheripper5661]

Sometimes I forget how lucky I am to grow up with a father.. don’t know what I would do without him I salute u ghost for making it out on the right side without a dad👏🏾👏🏾 must’ve been rough

[@czaralexander5156]

I grew up with a father be he didn't treated very well Same as my mother so I don't know what's worse Growing up with a single mom or growing up with Two parents who don't respect or love you at all

[@ddlt9274]

I thought I was da only one bro I’m 14 lost my dad last year ever since den I just been angry and pushing everyone away ion niggas yo feel bad doe bc nigaas go through way worse but ghost u a real one💯

[@doubleg12k]

Ever seen I was little I would wonder why my dad wouldn’t be home and if he did come home he would go straight too the tv and if I go up too tall to him he’ll ignore me as a 8 year old it made me mad and being a kid it was really difficult and now as a grow man it showed me what not too do as a father and then seeing my friends have a good relationship with there dad it kills me a lil bit everytime

[@556Keem]

I never met my dad but it’s made me not wanna ever put my future kids thru that.

[@RicNplayz]

ghost stay strong. ik that our father needs to be in our lives to live a better way

[@WestCoastCheeseHead]

I can relate to you lowkey I know my dad but he wasn’t there for me when I was 13 until now because he had a lot of personal shit going on with him and I was a rebellious young nigga, I had uncles and cousins that only ever talked to me but I didn’t want to listen. I salute the niggas that grew up without a dad and got shit without guidance

[@NL-mj5nh]

Man U stay showing luv to da Mexicans fasho bruh we luv u bih 🇲🇽💯

[@bfrmct2140]

intro is good asf

[@josiahpittman5572]

Felt this I heard you bro🥀💯

[@BigTree412]

Love it keep it coming respect ✊🏽

[@beanonnascene5371]

Mane same shyt wit me ghost🗣I was mad close to my muva cause my pops dipped only a couple months fa bein dere fa me🤦🏽‍♂️buh my muvas jus passed a bit ago R.I.P🕊💙 growin up wit out a pops either gon make a man or break ya ah 🙏🏽💙Ian have no fava figure so I jus learned frm all my nigkaz and opps in the streets too keep my head out da swivel. ghost gang🤝🤝💙sparked a fat wood while watchin nis

[@davidmadrigal2483]

Always learning something new 💯

[@suhtorii1931]

I knew other people could relate to living without a father I just had to see it. mine left when I was born so I never had that guidance and I’m struggling to find that guidance if that makes since? Almost cried watching this.

[@lil.151]

i feel you ghost in only 16 my parents divorced i’m just hoping i can live the best way i can when you only learning by yourself you know only thing that’s taught me was myself and the streets

[@J25-p3h]

Man bro I appreciate you for speaking on this

[@ayoub_lkn1648]

Ghost always speaking factzz been here since day one❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@GLMYKB36420]

I was just like you bro growing up without my dad made me really hate and question life for along time

[@denzelreid892]

No cap, I started first watching your reactiuand stuff but bro you really doing something w this podcast!!! You letting people know they're not the only ones feeling the same way!! Blessings DjGhost!

[@lilfettitv2144]

Fasho ghost they needed that frfr💯👌🏾

[@jack-qx2tr]

My new favorite podcast!!

[@youngtvl262]

Ghost got real on this one right here... 🌗

[@Rain11Eleven]

Aye bruhh i 👏for you its tough to talk about this by any means to anyone!🙃 you helpn kids feel better by doing that an its the start of real HEALING of humanity an mother earth

[@jay3253]

Imagine growing up without a father and being blamed for his absence.

[@yesyoucan7877]

Honestly it’s the worst feeling ever. I’m 18 and going through it right now. I’m just grateful that I know the stuff I know so I don’t have to worry about money, job, school (I make money trading options) but I have no emotional support and never did as a kid. My mom blames me for everything and so does my sister. I’m the youngest out of all 5 siblings and none of them cared to help me when I was little. It’s a battle everyday. I’m grateful I have weed to cause if not I probably wouldn’t be here. My mental health is fucked and I know it. But I will make it out my current situation cause of my discipline. My mom treats me like always treated me like a stranger then wonders why things the way they are. I try to explain to her but she never understands and it turns into an argument. Please pray for me.

[@yesyoucan7877]

@@teannatrump2622 thank you 🙏🏾 I’m doing much better since I left that comment.

[@danielvara3729]

Wise words from a wise man

[@carolynfoster3558]

Thank you for sharing this story and addressing such an important issue!

[@Ajay-ul1or]

Your the man you are today because of your past your a real one ghost this story hit home fam ghostgang4Life✊🏿

[@916RAIDER_]

Ghost givin real game 100

[@AndyKotz]

You a real one for this bro

[@JoshCarb]

I have a dad but I was still angry at the world did some stuff I’m not proud of but fs I can say if I had no father figure in my life I would be way of a worse person then I was already.

[@maxlank539]

DJ Ghost a modern day hero

[@ThapeloEntle]

realest thing I done heard!🙏🏽

[@Yomommahouse]

Luckily I had mine growing up. Parents was teens when they met had us in they 30s. That's the real problem. I notice the younger people have kids the higher the chance of it not working out. I blame the parents. Them women know the "man" ain't shit when they open they legs. Word of advice dont have kids with someone unless you been with them 10 plus.

[@mystiquesonja2084]

The fathers need to step up and take care of the kids just as much as the mothers need to pick good fathers for their children. Don’t put all the blame on the mothers. When it comes to single parent homes, men are usually the ones who abandon the kids.

[@jackjennings924]

Rams fan here!!!! Nice hat

[@cooperdolan5792]

Ya bro my dad in jail went through foster care but I’m good bro with my little bro and sis who don’t even know that both my parents are in jail because my dad was gangbangin and smokin crack. I feel this shit more than a lot of people, people ask me why I smoke weed and this is why.

[@thebasedangel1]

So look bro, I love the style of these podcasts. Deep topics & deeper conversations! Keep it up bro! 🤞🏾💙

[@LulSkinny]

I didn’t grow up with my dad in my life and that affected me in a bad way. I don’t know what it means to be a man yet

[@TheKhalMykeyShow]

Real shit fam you just earned a active subscriber, I do comic storytelling on my end

[@babyg7.4.14]

I listened to this a HR and a half ago and I'm better cause of it

[@GriseldCaneCorso]

You be speaking real shit bro. That’s why I fuck wit you everything you speaking is off the mussels I respect you💯

[@will_cashgrow2294]

I know a lot of people who grew up like that..me... It was the flip side of the coin... I didn't really have a mom my mom was my grandmother and I had 3 dads... My dad and my two uncle who lived with my grandmother and all three was thorough street dudes. Everything I need to know was right in the house with me. Just watching cartoons and hearing them talk you can overhear how to survive in prison. Here's how it comes back to what you're talking about...they didn't have their dads either. So I got a very distorted example of manhood that up until this day I fight. They had me out and tried to keep me from at the same time... Their example I heeded to more than their words