Do All Asian American Parents Think The Same? | Spectrum

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[@koolkaaattt]

Early sqauddd

[@florym.7562]

Can you please do an episode featuring hispanic parents

[@aaroncarr8972]

Please do. The same zodiac sign think the same. As a example do cancer think the same as other people that are cancer. Since am a cancer myself but I dont believe in it but it would be very interesting topic to understand the higher value of human behavior. But it doesn't to be only cancer it cant be other zodiac sign to as well

[@aaroncarr8972]

It would be nice if you can also do. Do all people with learning disability think the same.

[@aaroncarr8972]

Also it would be nice if you can do. Do all half Asian think the same. Since am half Asian myself ✊🏾🇺🇸🇵🇭

[@shraddharahul1345]

every asian kid in the comments: Y’ALL LYING

[@sugasweetv2858]

It’s true

[@larsonseq9269]

I mean, we know it's true ..

[@amanda...7326]

🤭😹

[@spacecities__]

i mean which of them isn't? they're just answering the questions based on how a normal supportive parent would act so they wouldn't get bashed on. Like, come on. We know what you're really going to answer. I'm saying this based from experience

[@ava_lavender]

@@spacecities__ I feel my mother is like how most of these parents answered. I don't know if they were telling the truth, but from my own experience, they could have been.

[@isabely8532]

Here’s the thing, most of these Asian parents are doing what we call, “saving face”, although they usually are much more opinionated privately.

[@jman4668]

The Indian mother was the only honest 1

[@sandyg.8318]

They are keeping the true tea AT HOME hunny

[@victorialeibrock1797]

J Man i feel like grace was pretty honest

[@jman4668]

@@victorialeibrock1797 yh her too

[@magicmakerify]

What happens behind closed doors are none of our business

[@krishnvm1027]

As an Asian kid, I can confirm that most of them are putting an act in front of the camera and they're way different in person, wait until they go home. Also I truly agree with all the comments done by the Asian kids, we know our parents when they're lying.

[@BaoLe-cw8ft]

RIGHTT

[@leo124323]

100%

[@archana5524]

I'm asian too and it made me cringe seeing them act like this. I hate thinking about what my parents are like at home vs anywhere else

[@PowerControl]

@@archana5524 yeah, saving their face is most important to them.

[@leo124323]

@Ave no why are you not doctor yet

[@prabhanjana1139]

The guy in the grey shirt is the most honest of them all

[@yussufabukar32]

He was bold ....

[@turtlesarefantastic9620]

He still probably lied though

[@natashamathews6182]

Exactly and the youngest mom was the second most honest even though she also lied 100%

[@jordan-s]

There was another video he was a part of showing Christian's and if they agreed or disagreed on stuff

[@jazexplores]

@@turtlesarefantastic9620 honestly I've seen him on one of the other videos and his views are pretty consistent

[@thegoat4prez.803]

“If it’s not an A it’s an F” -Every Asian parent

[@appa609]

The logical result of that is your kid will either get an A or an F. If they realize that they are unable to get an A then there's no point trying anymore is there?

[@thatasiangirl0_039]

A = Average B = Bad C = Can't eat dinner D = Don't come home F = Find new family

[@sadnimarahman6346]

U mean if it’s not a A+ it’s a F

[@markie_p]

My parents are white and Hispanic and their like that lmao

[@purplehearts1335]

Jackson Kwok same, my parents doesn’t mind it’s ok if I get a B or C but still they want to me to try my best bc they said it’s for my future

[@rebeccatang9383]

I think by “any career” the parents mean “any white-collar career”.

[@laylatf]

Rebecca Tang that was obvious though

[@samirraza9069]

Obviously

[@benr.3565]

i mean being a drug dealer isn't really a career anyway...

[@elitoole570]

yea that should’ve been specified. because honestly i don’t think i would want my kid being a porn star

[@eddebrock]

It's like anything else isn't even in the realm of possibility for them.

[@anoushkat425]

"My husband and I have made a lot of sacrifices for our children" That's the most indian thing the aunty spoke

[@dev_peace_soul]

Aunty was genuinely true all the time Indian parenting depends Like I am gay and my mom accepted me :"""")

[@dev_peace_soul]

*very easily*

[@anoushkat425]

@@dev_peace_soul I'm so glad for you!! :)) Hope my mom accepts me one day too :(

[@devannyblanco3309]

My mexican mom be like when scolding me

[@Agent-pw6by]

But that's true..... And their should be no shame in saying the truth.

[@penelopes322]

I was raised by spanking. And trust me, it hurts more emotionally. Now, even if a stranger yells at me, my heart becomes stiff. It became a trauma since I was a kid. Please don't do that on your children. Not every kid has the same way of response to your ideologies. Talk more.

[@Lampluvr08]

My mom came home today and was yelling at me and I got so scared that she was gonna hit me. I remember when I was little my sister got hit with a wired hanger and it left marks on her thigh and i was only 9 at that time

[@goldenheartgal]

This is the one. I’m not even Asian, but istg, you would never know if I had a “stereotypical” Asian parent or a “stereotypical” white parent if I just described them to you. (My mom is white). But my upbringing isn’t the stereotypical “white parent” upbringing which is probably shocking lmao. It’s probably because she was also brought up the same way. As someone who also has an Indian aunt, she does have some of the same “stereotypical” Asian-parent-type ideas that are common which is why I can understand the pressure, such as wanting me to become a doctor and I love her a lot so I value her opinion. But that’s just me.

[@zmrpa]

This isn't the case for everyone. I was raised being spanked and it didn't negatively effect me. I think it's a parents responsibility to understand that every child is an individual and reacts differently to spanking. Some parents fail to recognize the damage theyre causing.

[@doodlebob1184]

I completely agree. I was raised by the belt at first since I was a troublemaker at school, then eventually I started laughing when I got hit because I had gotten used to it. Then my mom started making me write sentences. Every grade I went up, the sentences increased by 100. I once had to write 2,000 sentences for cursing in school. That really set me straight. It’s just a matter of knowing your kid and raising them how they’re supposed to be raised instead of just raising them how your parents raised you.

[@jaddenn7660]

People say that to the BIBLE "never let the spank away from your children" like bruh theres no way its in the BIBLE if its in it theres other ways

[@2ndbaddestfemale]

You know they’re Asian parents when they start acting passive aggressive towards each other lol

[@beepboop82]

SO TRUE 🙌🏼

[@shaothexqser]

When exactly I wanna rewatch it now 👀👀👀👀

[@yaeli_i_guess]

Lol

[@danikasan7308]

Shao the XQser the indian mom was the perfect example of a passive agressive parent

[@lemurlover7975]

thats kinda racist. because anyone can be passive aggressive... not just Asian parents

[@anniehua4318]

All kids should do piano, Everyone: runs to agree

[@michyx2732]

ngl piano seems fun but wow remembering which key is which with my poor memory, loool not good

[@chickennuggets1990]

@Shelly and western parents will say "my child play viola!"

[@devsiva8497]

Annie Hua lol good one

[@aytherial]

@Michyx it's just a 7 note system that repeats itself over the entire piano. I found it pretty easy to remember but maybe that's just because I had former experience.

[@bebelusica]

Looool 😂

[@jungoonosebiter]

Y'all should invite their kids and see how much honesty there was lol Edit: omg I thought no one would see this wtf thank you 💀💀💀 I need this to happen it seems like most of the parents were just lying for face value (I said IT SEEMS LIKE IT I'm not saying that's what actually happened, but that's what happened)

[@ambreen4747]

I NEEED THISSSS TO HAPPEN

[@XimenaLucia]

I would want this if i didnt fear for the kids getting a whooping after or something :/

[@razoredge8284]

the kids are going to be dead in the water if this happens.

[@seasaltrocksalt]

I WANT THAT TO HAPPEN

[@theysay6696]

lol such a good idea!

[@yewonchoi4306]

bruh the Indian mother is such a great actress 😁 👏🏻

[@78anurag]

And the Oscar goes to......

[@realme0218]

Fr 😄 someone cast her for a movie or sum

[@thetop3s38]

😂

[@yewonchoi4306]

@@rammelaarbob5989 and?

[@realme0218]

@@rammelaarbob5989 ? We know that lmao

[@weallhaveanopinion]

The woman in the pink shirt says she is not a tiger mom but she is.......like really is.

[@thatasiangirl0_039]

Maybe she is just less than her husband

[@bretree4808]

She SUPER is

[@tason_tran2008]

good i'm not the only one who thinks that

[@monjir8707]

@@thatasiangirl0_039 no you don't know Indian women

[@swethas5335]

Actually being Tiger Mom is different from over bearing mom. My father is a quiet sort of guy, but he is the one pushing us to study better or better at our achievements. My mom is very protective and over bearing but she doesn't pressure me or my brother to get higher marks or grade, coz like the lady told, her husband is already taking care of it. 😁 They balance eachother out.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@rivinigamatchi2788]

They all should have had a lie detector attached lmaooo

[@SipherothXIII]

Those don't actually work.

[@animecutie.]

Hawk Rogers wait really???

[@ilikefoodcrazy]

@@animecutie. They don't work cause 1 in 10 people can easily lie with no physiological change to pick up.

[@abbygriffin9105]

@@animecutie. Yeah. Those only record perspiration, blood pressure, heart rate and how much sweat you produce. And some people can lie without any of these whereas some people can tell the truth and be so nervous that they have all of these.

[@lucid8078]

@@ilikefoodcrazy True some people (even me) can lie without telling any signs neurologically or physically

[@marinani9351]

For all of them: “partly agree” means “disagree” “partly disagree” means “agree”

[@AR-bi3dj]

I knew this was cap as soon as ALL OF THEM went to the "agree" side in the first question. Let me tell you one thing, it's a statistically near-impossible task to find 6 Asian parents who give their children freedom when it comes to choosing a career, in the same room.

[@hero7727]

like yes some of them would "support", but would ask multiple questions about "what do you think about this" or "what do you think about that"

[@ishitasingh2044]

Yeah facts... two of them have to be on the disagree side..

[@dhruvavikas3538]

what do you mean? they give complete freedom to choose if they want to be a doctor or engineer :/

[@divisionagentbailey6727]

@@dhruvavikas3538 Lmao

[@sex06]

do you think someones brain is just wired a certain way because of their race? like, they're just sterotypes, most asian parents probably dont care

[@clara-qg5ve]

why do I feel like not everyone was being 100% honest...

[@justinwatson6992]

I feel like asian cultures often value appearances and reputation over showing emotions or opinions, maybe thats the reason?

[@maag7988]

Because asian parents lie. A lot.

[@axeking3440]

the Koren dad and Indian mother was the most honest ones

[@Nothing-iz6hw]

@@axeking3440 and the bartender one

[@jjpepper7071]

my parents always tell me to be low-key about my true thoughts

[@aaaachiri]

all the parents are lowkey judging each other, THEIR EXPRESSIONS ARE TOO SEE THROUGH HAHA

[@Maryam-un1cr]

Lmao yeah

[@isratraza7140]

LMAOAOAO FRRR

[@lsjaowhwbkwhwksha5926]

ESP THE WOMAN IN THE FRONT ZJBSKSVSJS

[@sinyeanfang2114]

especially the women

[@aniyal5487]

@@lsjaowhwbkwhwksha5926 OMG YES TYUIHJNTEDRFYGUBH

[@zhy031621]

The thing is ... Asian Parents always have this mindset : " WHAT WOULD OTHER PEOPLE THINK?" ... I thinks this is why these asian parents in this videos is very careful with their answers 😅

[@cauhscrymdorn2132]

There should be a prompt asking if they think they are being honest to all the question. would love to see their reactions.

[@divingstarr4]

@@cauhscrymdorn2132 but they would just lie lol

[@sabrina2334]

FRR

[@diepiriye]

Exactly! I was wondering how much of this has to do with the "white gaze," and their fear of its punishment.

[@jemappelleheejin12]

In india we call it 4 log kya kahenge 😂

[@mliss8D]

You need to do a middle ground Asian parents vs their children

[@durian111]

Ok, so they gonna complain how it suck to be lecture by their parent. Do you know what parenting is? it not hollywood single mother diversity movie.

[@l_z1478]

Oh! Nice. Battle ground

[@amtoj623]

Bruh it’s definitely not going to be fair as asian kids dont have the guts to go against the opinions of their parents when they are literally in front of them. If the parents are absent in the video, that will be much much better.

[@Hilandcaravan]

ohhhh This is gonna be more intense than the Israelis & Palestinians episode haha.

[@vandita_v]

@@Hilandcaravan The condition would be worse behind the scene.

[@zuhn06]

Indian mom: Says she's not a tiger parent Her kids: b r u h

[@hi-yw9fe]

My parents r Indian and I bet if they were there and doing the tiger question they would do disagree and I would be there like seriously?

[@hi-yw9fe]

Why is this dollop relatable? Lol

[@sushiojo3888]

Lmao 😭😭😭

[@sushiojo3888]

4:25 even my dude said it

[@ros.b98]

i can see tiger in her eyes :D

[@towseef360]

Real title: “are all Asian parents great liars?”

[@jordinhocharles]

😂😂😂😂

[@alexalex0718]

Exactly🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂

[@billieshomies8381]

RehsNahk 😂😂😂

[@MyNguyen-gv2ip]

yes, they're the best at it

[@aiswaryau4797]

@A Jo I think the young lady was also honest

[@syosuda4446]

My dad used to hit me with a belt when I was about 4-6 yrs old whenever I get the multiplication table wrong, and every time we have to review before exams. That made me scared of him and I was afraid of failure. It really affected me a lot throughout my years (such as not being "good enough" in terms of skill) On the other hand, my mom was the opposite. She was patient enough to teach me and she helped me a lot when it comes to studying. Thanks to her, I learned how to study on my own effectively, and made me realize the value of self effort and working hard to achieve a certain goal. Can't thank her enough

[@78anurag]

My story is a swap in genders but my dad is just quite.

[@EnabIing]

Ngl this the same for me. Whenever I get a B or something my dad gets a little excited but then questions why I couldn’t get a A. My mom is just happy I’m learning the material

[@FOOD-742]

Most asian parents didnt tell their child that one of them is the bad cop and the other is the good one. Dont hate your dad. Thank him too.

[@cam0987]

@@78anurag same ,it was my mom who hit me,now i hv severe anxiety

[@kimmymarky9538]

Omg I’m so sorry!! Do you have a relationship with him today?

[@bhaavyaseth]

The Indian Mom sounds like the kind of lady who would brag about her child being a doctor/engineer at a wedding. (I am Indian and I can say this truthfully.)

[@yoleeisbored]

then yell at their kid to get an arranged marriage

[@jezra4427]

She was cool. And right about everything she said.

[@razoredge8284]

@@jezra4427 ??? You must not be Indian if you think she was being honest at all lmao. I'm Indian and it's very clear she was putting on a nice, loving mother persona, when she isn't that at all in private.

[@Chloe-pq6un]

@Sharon Grant isn’t white in america used to immigrated to america when it was discovered?? learn some history mate

[@maddieh8598]

@@razoredge8284 how do you know that?? you know nothing about that lady

[@zi5523]

the woman in pink : im not a tiger parent then strikes every other’s opinion

[@procrastinatingme953]

it's somehow annoying for me...

[@siiiiiiiiiri]

@Saumya Sinha yup...i understand that....my parents are always treating me like I'm a kid... they just want to ignore the fact that i'm a teen ..and they have to teach several things about sex and sexuality....but they just can't because the society is not open about it so much....even in school when i was giving asl i chose the topic sex education...and the teacher didn't bother to ask questions which she did ask to every other student accordingly... i don't know where this is going but yeah i agree with u!

[@abeehafatima3402]

@@procrastinatingme953 ye..

[@abeehafatima3402]

@Saumya Sinha bro kids nowadays know about these things from the internet..lol

[@abeehafatima3402]

@@siiiiiiiiiri my mom told me about some things so I think they're kinda lieing...

[@sebastianfuller]

The way all the Asian children in the comments just knowing when they were lying is SENDING ME

[@safiyarani4448]

Where?

[@flwerhpe3380]

Safiya Rani || Lmao I can’t tell if you’re serious or joking

[@safiyarani4448]

@@flwerhpe3380 I sure wasn't joking 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@flwerhpe3380]

Safiya Rani || Oh well “sends me” as in she finds it funny.

[@britneynguyen3802]

LMAO

[@reannasodhi1438]

As an Indian I can confirm that the Indian mom is such a talented actress just like the majority of Indian parents 🥰🥰

[@metroidfoosion73]

No, she’s actually completely see through even to non Asians and is obviously the most controlling tiger mom there

[@user-ve6nw7hj3r]

@@metroidfoosion73 you probably aren't a asian

[@reyaschaoswrld]

Actually for me, it's a NO. my Indian mom is just like that lady, never put a pressure on exams and achievements, always happy with my hobbies and career and many more. I think it's rare to have an actual Indian parents like these.

[@skyblues1357]

Don't judge her when you don't know her. She probably is patient with her children. Not all Indian mothers are scary.

[@huskiesliketospeak6588]

My Indian mom is like her, but my mom never pressures me. She supports my dreams of becoming a writer :) My dad is different tho

[@temshitzudir9736]

I maybe wrong and misjudging her but that Indian aunty is a lil sus, it's like she was capping most of the times. She seems to present herself as very open and quite progressive but then jumps on to cut off and be dismissive of every thing the other fellow parents have to say(in a quite judgemental way). Idk, thats just what I perceived, I'm also an India btw.

[@TheRohkan]

Your observation is right

[@thats_me_here]

I agree....I felt like she was lowkey judging the Japanese mother especially learning after she was a bartender. And when she said "Out of Love" it was clear that she was just pretending 2 be open minded Just my point of view

[@78anurag]

Sus 😳 amogus 😳 😳😳😳 When the imposter is sus! 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Sorry it's my Gen Z blood which made me comment this

[@sr3821]

You just described a talented politician 😁

[@saumyavig8964]

She literally seems the worst out of the bunch-

[@fareedsamu9274]

“my mom pushed me to be a doctor, so for my whole life, i knew that i didn’t want to be a doctor” Preach.

[@vickynikol2772]

Greek here. My father pushed me to become an accountant, and that's exactly the reason I didn't become one.

[@arthurmorgan3111]

fareed samu my parents pushed me to become a doctor and that’s the reason why I became one😂

[@leeannsanon3739]

@@arthurmorgan3111 is fareed samu where your from or is that your name?

[@captenmurica8843]

Is it weird to say that my mom pushed me to do something lower because it was the safer option and I ended up really wanting to go to med school

[@vickynikol2772]

@@captenmurica8843 oh, wow!

[@TGSHomeandGarden]

They straight up lied about the marriage outside of the culture thing...

[@marcusj1167]

Their not allowed to have an opinion?

[@thestarstarla]

The Coffee Chat and the lgbtq thing. So many of older parents of the asian race are kind of closed minded. Not all just saying. But you never know honestly.

[@chrisroseman2684]

@@sspu4669 this could easily be the part of the statistic who don't care...

[@loveflying4488]

Q Mof it’s also a selection bias maybe. It is not a secret which way this program liens politically. Not hard to believe that the Asians parents they know or the ones which are willing to come on are also more liberal.

[@khelanisingh]

they are Asian Americans too, so I think that factor into their different than expected opinions

[@biobiobio7777]

"Learn fear and discipline." Dude, you're a parent not villain in some army.

[@rahulraj925]

It's more like they'll need to learn there are consequences for their misbehavior.

[@rahulraj925]

I don't believe a child would get scarred when spanked or other mild punishments. It's the lack of communication between parents and other mental abuses parents put on their children leaves scar on the minds of a child. From my own experience I don't remember how much I was disciplined physically but the effects of mental abuses still lingers

[@fairycreature101]

A child isn't supposed to fear their parents, they should respect them yes but not fear! There are another ways to discipline your children without causing them emotional distress.

[@biobiobio7777]

@President John Snyder From the Artist Suguru Tanaka

[@trashshr1mp]

If they respect you then you don't need fear and discipline

[@Yas-ez1kg]

"I prefer my children marry someone from the same culture" *most moving to disagree* Me: LIAAAAAAAARSSSSSSSSS!!

[@gilnahnu]

my same reaction 😭

[@samriddhisubedi5911]

Lmaoo😭

[@beatleslover8519]

I agree with that rule. I don't want my kids to be rude white kids

[@apbern4797]

*Laughs in half Asian*

[@beatleslover8519]

@@apbern4797 Same I'm half asian

[@sinfectiouz-4868]

The Indian lady is 100% a Tiger Parent. She cuts of everyone and have a rebuttal for literally everything.

[@jacqyralovejoy1637]

SinFectiouz - anna ou

[@CindyWarren2004]

Yeahhh she isn't open minded she was trying to make herself look like a good parent

[@helenalbiston8253]

Lego Lover how is she not Asian? India is in Asia! 😂

[@invu57936]

Lego Lover huh ???????

[@wuxiagamescentral]

@Lego Lover Indians are Asian wtf are you talking about

[@dreamdragons1942]

They youngest woman isn’t the stereotypical and traditional asian parent. She’s more, modernized.

[@hiendral9533]

yes love her

[@nobcimthebaepsae191]

westernized*

[@firstnamelastname7595]

That's good because we need diversity

[@Bestusername290]

The older ones are more stereotypical

[@Ndasuunye]

she's probably a second gen asian. It usually gets loftier the older gen you are.

[@new_mclarens]

the gray guy talking about beating his kids was such a hypocrite like he got beat up and he does it too but his is justifiable???? my dad has never even come close to beating me but instead taught me what i did wrong , and how to make it right and i’m doing perfectly fine. teach them respect, not fear.

[@rihaan1163]

Oh please if your dad if treating you this way it's good but that's doesn't mean beating is always bad I personally feel if I was not beaten in childhood I wouldnt have become a better person people now give me compliment about my personality ....sometimes good talk doesn't work....

[@new_mclarens]

@@rihaan1163 the way i see it, you might have become a better person despite being hit by your parents. i suppose if you really believe in your theory, i couldn't change your mind but i personally have seen people become kind and respectful despite their parents. to me, hitting your child is a sign that you can't keep your temper in check and are taking your anger out on someone who can't even defend themselves. that's the height of spinelessness and cowardliness. so yeah, congratulations on being a good person, but i bet you're missing out on some important lessons on treating people kindly and the worth of respect, rather thn the worth of fear and abuse. yeah good talk might not do much if parents only excuse their children and compensate for their wrongdoings but that has never helped a child. instead, its much more effective to talk to the child respectfully, explain their mistake and guide them on how to apologise and fix their mistakes. trust me, it goes a long way

[@rihaan1163]

​@@new_mclarens i think 90 percent of teacher and parents don't want to beat but its the situation which lead them to .... do i said every child deserve beating ? no did i say there is no case where beating was unnecessary? no just a simple example to explain a boy lived in my neighborhood he used to beat his mother and sister initially, sometimes they call me to help , i always explain him gently that this is wrong ...one time the argument rose so much that he raise hand in presence of his father then uncle ji beat him .......so tell me has uncle ji done anything wrong ? its the situation which leads to beating in covid situation we were on zoom call our english teacher was teaching a guy message sir please chod dijiye rat ho gyi h apni biwi ke sath sex krlo i will not argue much becz i think you are not yet mature enough to acknowledge everybody is not good as you , there's a bigger picture which you haven't seen yet thank you if you still disagree no problem , just write disagree , otherwise we will go on discussing and many people will join in nothing will happen much cuz i think i have different perspective then you which doesn't mean you are wrong

[@waleedabbas4996]

He talked about varying degrees of punishment. A spanking isn't a proper beating. His father's punishments were much more physical i.e. broken stick which he degrees with. How is it hypocrisy if he disagrees with the extremes?

[@vandita_v]

@@rihaan1163 I think you're the person who isn't mature and all the best for your future because when you'll see the bigger picture you will realise you need to learn a lot.

[@corpseyzbitten6857]

I'll never forget going to school with a girl who was Asian, she was very quiet and always had very good grades. But there was one time that really made me worrie for her well being and that was when I was going to get my instrument from the band room after school to take home and I over heared her crying in the Instrument storage room, I was not really a friend of hers at the time but I had a big heart then as I do now, so I asked are you okay what is wrong, lets talk about it. I was just shocked at she was so scared to go home to her father because she had made a B+ on a big science class test, have in mind I was in that same class at the same time and no one scored anything higher then a D or C+ very hard teacher, but the fact she was crying and scared to make a B+ scared me so bad for her that I really thought she might have been being abused so I comforted her as much as I could and said well maybe we can do something about it and ask for extra credit because gurl you made a B and i made a D i'm jelly. I also had talked with her after that and the school to see if there was something more that could be done about her situation. Saddly no matter how much I poked to make sure she was okay no one ever bothered in the school system to do anything. I always was kind to her and when I would see her sitting alone I would always sit with her and be there for her and talk and make sure she was doing good and ask if she wanted to hang out she never would hang out after school with me but she never had another upset day like that again. I suppose what im getting at is if your child fears you so much they are scared to go home for a good grade. your doing something wrong.

[@Luckrye]

Of course you were in the band team, because it's only those types of people who instantly scream "ABUSE!!!" when someone's stressed out.

[@Alex-xc8bi]

@@Luckrye You're talking as if getting a B+ (an average grade) is something to be stressed out over.

[@PlasticDoll.]

@@Luckrye why are you so pressed? What they said is true. The kid was scared to go home!! tf you on about lol

[@Luckrye]

@@PlasticDoll. Because I have a genuine hatred for the band at my school 😎

[@mavi2643]

@@Luckrye woooooow you're soooooo quirkyyyyyyy 😑

[@scarletts_letter]

The Indian woman is constantly instigating and making others feel they are wrong. She is a huge tiger parent and you can tell

[@randybrule7853]

Saher Khan yup

[@thatasiangirl0_039]

I think she just giving a counterargument and just saying her opinion

[@gbfriend420]

Am the only one who thought she was the most honest

[@bennoreuter4393]

@Andromeda T You love her? So you spank her? Or is your love so strong that you already torture her?

[@faithfajemilugba1606]

@@bennoreuter4393 tf

[@singhrocco]

FACT: Asian parents(especially Indian) behave differently in front of other parents. They are more polite and caring in front of others whereas at home totally different.

[@semolinalibra]

Not fact. That just your experience:)

[@Night_Howler_98]

Totally agree with you

[@reclucojohnyy8164]

Trueeeeeeeeee

[@zalshaas3640]

Trueee 😔✊

[@alisharani8162]

😢

[@sr3821]

Asian parents: "Son, you can choose whatever job you like..." Son: "Thank you Mom, Dad. I want to be an artist." Asian parents: "We haven't finished the sentence. You can choose whatever job you like, as long as it is doctor, engineer, lawyer or businessman." 😁

[@Toinkity]

@@4gamingninjas That's kinda fucked up

[@imyourmom.]

lmao I don't think businessman would be in that sentence

[@Christine-mg6oo]

When you have grandad and aunt that did accounting, But now business courses is out the list. My dad said it is tiring, my mom say there is office bullying. They are too close minded. Now there is engineer, lawyer, doctor. Wow...

[@sherryt2711]

add software developer to that list

[@Toinkity]

@@sherryt2711 most asian parents don't even know what software developer even is.

[@skjsjsskjsjsk6775]

i hate how they think its ok to physically hurt their children, my asian mum hits me and she wonders why i dont want to be anywhere near her

[@ugandanknuckles9881]

then you respect her then she will most likely going to respect you back unless it is really that bad of course

[@skjsjsskjsjsk6775]

@@ugandanknuckles9881 i do respect her, every time i make a small mistake she gets so mad and hits me i hate her so much

[@Barec76]

@@ugandanknuckles9881 I never respected my parents for spanking me. I don't understand the mentality that respect is earned by physical violence. Way to set up future abusive relationships. I've never spanked my children. I also didn't let them act up in public or disrespect me because there are ways to discipline without using violence.

[@parentsquare9833]

@@Barec76 hitting is not a bad form of discipline. There’s a reason why pain is in every form of useful learning. It’s a necessity.

[@Barec76]

@@parentsquare9833 ok, next time you do something bad at work, get your boss to paddle you.

[@codyflow1586]

That Indian Lady is absolute representation of Indian Moms, they are always right and will argue until the other person gives up.

[@lotuswolf1518]

Omg yes, despite being always wrong they think they are always right

[@utkarsh144]

@@lotuswolf1518 "Always wrong" you just seem like to have same qualities that op described for Indian moms.

[@brandigabriel6921]

I noticed that. It was low-key annoying me the entire time.

[@codyflow1586]

@@lotuswolf1518 wouldn't say they are always wrong but I get it.

[@dalalala21]

Lol she is literally my mom

[@Prepackagedfish]

These are Asian parents in public. It’s a whole different story when they get home.

[@_im.so.bored_]

preach 🙏🙏🙏

[@Maryam-un1cr]

💯💯💯

[@deeyaannn]

This comment!!

[@gwynethmadelo8146]

That's so true. My mom and dad are like one of the most hypocritical parents ever

[@kilogram_]

right?!

[@lavinder11]

Indian mom was lowkey being a Tiger parent to that guy in the back. lmaoo and the facial expressions!!!

[@scorpionheart]

"That's not good enough for me, even if he's happy" That's a recipe for a depressed kid right there. Even if the parents get the bragging rights for having a kid with a respectable job, they might not even have a kid to brag about in the future.

[@jalicoolrip94]

-oop

[@Void_Dweller7]

I agree.

[@leyna-rc5mr]

That took a turn-

[@kaiserironcladchad582]

Let's not strawman what he meant. He said that he wanted their job choice to be "right", as in probably not a drug dealer, a stripper, a prostitute, or a hitman. He would probably think it's okay for his son or daughter to be a bartender, or retail worker, or "pro gamer" as examples.

[@billcipherproductions1789]

@@kaiserironcladchad582 Exactly.

[@sadhbhnidhonaill1400]

I feel like I learned a lot and absolutely nothing at the same time

[@mawloudshaghasy532]

@sheely aha no it would turn into a war zone

[@EricaShady10171972]

@@mawloudshaghasy532 exactly!

[@paulchristopher3920]

i feel like that in every video lmao

[@imanigordon6803]

Same

[@pallavidass1959]

It's just the fact that they all are lying. Maybe the guy in the gray and the Young mum were real but the rest were full of lies

[@layalena9815]

i can tell how these parents are lying. in public my mom brags about me to other moms and tells them how "grateful" she is for having such a responsible and smart daughter. but at home she complains why im not good enough like other kids and compares me to other children. she also compares me constantly about the progress my friends and cousins make in school grades. my sister's average score is 80-93% and she got a 79% once, my mother literally went RAGE she threw all of the books to the floor, broke a couple glasses, compared (again), and cried how much more she expected from us.

[@Void_Dweller7]

I'm not Asian (Arab) my Mother is exactly the same, not as extreme as violence per see, but in public, she's pretty much the same.

[@layalena9815]

@@Void_Dweller7 arabs are still asians. we may not look the same but we're all in the same continent. yeahh, our parents are very similar too.

[@yejin2491]

I think I’ve realized how lucky I am, because I am Korean and my parents are the best parents I think I could ever ask for. They are definitely modernized, I guess. But they are also understanding and kind and loving and just amazing. I have always been a hardworking student in school not because I want it please them, but for myself. At one point I was struggling in math but I didn’t tell them. I ended up getting an f on my test. But you know what they told me? “It’s ok. Remember that whenever you need help, come to us. We love you very much, no matter your grade.” I was really touched to be honest. They make sure to spend time with me and my sisters and are so considerate. I would proudly call them my best friends. I hope that one day, all parents can be like this. But reality is hard sometimes.

[@thecrimsondragon9744]

Are your parents highly educated? Usually I find the Asian parents who give a bit of breathing space to their kids and room to make mistakes do so because they themselves had overbearing, strict and demanding parents when they were younger.

[@vSilverXXProduction]

lmao Jason said "those white kids at walmart"

[@user-ku3cb2nc5p]

Martin M3F3 he was being very stereotypical

[@queefqueefdoodoofart4909]

Martin M3F3 i mean he wasn’t wrong 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@Ghyybu]

K so is everyone in the comments talking about how strict Asian parents are

[@mastermonke1177]

シKaliska if you don't like the way white people treat their kids, you can head back to Asia.

[@Torihappyness]

@@mastermonke1177 if you don't agree that's fine but the "Go back to where you came from" yet they are all American is just ignorant to say the least.

[@Lina.all0]

Imagine all their kids watching this be like: whoever you are get the hell out of my mom/dad

[@alexjv1370]

persona this.

[@thehorsesnamewasfriday8695]

LMAO

[@zuriirose]

You are*

[@bored3552]

Kinda got a stroke by trying to figure out what you meant by "you're" but I get it now. Just write it "you are" instead lmfao

[@bilalthefighter829]

I am confused is you're correct l m a o

[@izzylamb2516]

It's not love if you think their sexuality is "unnatural" and "sinful" - that's literally the opposite of loving. And there's never any excuse to physically harm a child

[@SarahSarah-dq3bq]

period

[@aerofiles5044]

Spit it louder for the folks in the back!

[@amyhoover9]

I agree with this statement and don't want to diminish it in any way.... The only thing I would say to help challenge this perspective is that people are and should be allowed to have their own beliefs and values. Tolerance for other people's lives is a mindset that's too passive, but you can't force people to change the way they think. I remember having arguments with my mother earlier on when I was 21/22 because she wasn't being accepting of a choice that I made that was poorly thought out. I realize that this is different from the topic of sexuality, but what matters most here is understanding the meaning of respect. You can strongly disagree but still try and be respectful of the opposing opinion or belief.

[@Random-sk6hm]

You could've spoken 1000 languages but you chose facts

[@elizabethl6987]

You can love your child and not agree with their actions, most parents have to, in fact. You have a harsh reality coming if you think parents will always agree with the thoughts and identities and beliefs of their children. Love is love because it transcends that. Parental love goes beyond.

[@sallyjenkins2323]

As a half-asian raised in a cultrally "white" household I can say I had a wonderful childhood. My Asian friends however needed therapy. It's not OK.

[@FunFilmFare]

Ehhh I dunno….my cousin’s half Asian and has a horrid relationship with their White parent

[@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327]

I’m so sorry. I hope you’re friends are okay.

[@fluffypuppy104]

I wish they indicated what generation Asian American each parent is

[@Roberttang20]

most of them seemed like 1.5- 2 gen asian american

[@sugasweetv2858]

Yeah I hope they had chosen more traditional immigration parents like mine. That’s what I was hoping for

[@slimkt]

Same. I answered the poll with 1st generation in mind, but it seems most in the group are closer to second generation Asian Americans.

[@sugasweetv2858]

Shelly there was Indian, Japanese, korean, and chinese

[@Roberttang20]

@Shelly Some of them said it sporadically throughout the vid; Japanese Chinese,Indian,Korean

[@KL-vb5qs]

"im not a tiger dad" "MY KIDS SHOULD FEAR MY FISTS"

[@jokerman121020]

LMAOOO

[@0verthink235]

Well all kids should fear their own parents fist

[@ileanabriannemari]

But that's kinda true lmao

[@lovesicklo2538]

Sophia Sophia Naw they should respect you, not fear you. This isn’t the time of Machiavelli lol

[@0verthink235]

Lo R i agree that they should respect you but everyone would be scared of child abuse

[@Raioknight]

Is it me or is there not enough appreciation for Grace in the comments. She seems like the most genuine and most open-minded parent in this group.

[@durian111]

She sound like every single mother before becoming a karen, and 5 year later an entitled mother.

[@felipesadventures]

She is definitely a younger and more open minded parent

[@drunkenseulgi474]

I have a friend (he's asian) and his mom is so nice but at the same time she is terrifying. She's smiling at you, but you know inside she's probably judging you.

[@sabrina2334]

all asian moms:

[@ekmb2056]

I'm 6'1" My mom is 5'6" When she raises her hand I duck. Is that the fear you wanted

[@revolutionarii]

pp v2 Fr.

[@revolutionarii]

I wished that parents would see that you don’t need fear in a child for them to behave well. I would say for them to instill a strong sense of what’s right and what’s wrong so they get to pick for themselves, with their parents assisting them as well.

[@rayyanarefin6853]

Honestly same, it’s sad how I was once so scared of my dad I got a panic attack when he was trying to give me a high five, fear is certainly not the answer

[@fable_enthusiast]

Not good at all...when mine raises her hand I start to feel anger

[@tanna9077]

In an African home,I'm a kid but I get why they do it. I'm Nigerian but I get what ya'll are talking about. But then it's not about forcing fear on to kids, it's a method of trying to make kids understand authority and to respect authority. My parents and I are sooooo close and trust me, no one tried to hurt me. Physical discipline and child abuse are different, physical discipline would just hurt but you'll be fine after, child abuse is when you hurt the kid and they have scars and stuff. So when people look at it like our parents are trying to hurt us or they don't care or whatever,it's quite frankly the opposite

[@jeremytrent2382]

I’m sorry but like... do all boomers think the same?

[@uwu_maya3631]

Omg that'd be such a good video!

[@marciaosullivan3200]

Very unfairly blamed for economic failures by people who couldn't handle money

[@marino8446]

Genius

[@JillianMurrayy]

Lol pls do this

[@F-pi4rc]

Wat is a boomer??..

[@legendsays167]

This gives me the vibes that I get during the parents teaching meeting in our Indian school.All the parents are being overly nice but at same time they are passive agressive, judgemental and are trying to one up each other.That Indian mom is literally an embodiment of one of our topper's mom, she is always very nice to us average kids but on one year end exam, one of my friends Arun topped in physics and this lady started to ignore Arun during our annual parents teacher meeting.

[@YEET-fy4hu]

That subtle fight between Romi and Aishveryaa on the tiger parents for some reason made me go oooooooooooof

[@tqdsrbab5487]

Pak India thing lol

[@justinchoe47]

No shocker that the younger generation parent is literally the most open minded and accepting.

[@joynelbonetdelgado4952]

The effects will only be seen in 20+ years from now.

[@David-mf3bn]

But there are limits.

[@animusdx]

The Korean male dad was young too.. but he was a little too religious I guess? I thought he was cool at first but when he busted out the "LGBTQ+ is sinful and unnatural" my opinion soured. I guess he still said he'd love them but meh.

[@AndreaRenwick]

@@animusdx That isn't too religious, thats fact in belief. He's okay. He is loving and accepting but he isn't gonna agree and thats okay ♡

[@justinchoe47]

animusdx True, but a lot of religious people don’t care about reasoning or making sense. “Hey, I think it’s sinful and unnatural to be gay even though you were born this way and can’t do anything about it... but I still love you.”

[@crystalclear4414]

"I am happy with whatever career my child chooses" the parents be like I give them 3 options: engineer, doctor, lawyer, they are free to choose

[@Brenda-gr1oo]

Crystal Clear This is so truee🤣

[@aaronsmith7656]

exactly

[@almahatechannel4629]

Legit tho, my parents have my future set out for me

[@us8721]

That's so true! My family is composed of either engineers, or people in the medical field.

[@aldenisaiahjoshuai.5593]

yeees

[@ckevorkianxo]

Physical “discipline” is abuse… and I’m sorry but no one will change my mind. I was, and I’ve NEVER seen an adult NOT have anger behind their raised hand. Anyone who claims that they’re “spanking” out of love is delusional. Be a decent parent and you won’t need to use physical violence to “put them in line”.

[@thethinkinggamer1864]

The way I think of it is that as soon as you physically harm a child, you failed as a parent.

[@Eira436]

I grew up with very conservative asian parents. They don’t hit me or scold at me but the emotional distance always stresses me out whenever I’m away from home for months. I feel so liberated living on my own but I constantly feel guilty for not wanting to facetime/chat with my parents more often. Now that I’m approaching the usual age of motherhood, I’m very worried that I won’t know how to get along with my future children.

[@freshavocadojuice5713]

PLEASE DO: “DO ALL BLACK PARENTS THINK THE SAME” PLZZZZZZZZZ

[@asocialdweeb1913]

I wanna see thattttttt

[@Sammyyaam]

Seriously. I want them to ask the "marry the same race" question. Because I think a lot of black parents want us to marry our own race. Especially if it's your black son and a white girl.

[@freshavocadojuice5713]

Sammyyam i agree but not all of them, for example my parents actually dont want me to be with the same race, because idek, but i make my own decision on who i want to be with

[@ungodlytaegi7352]

@@Sammyyaam yeah my parents really want me to marry within my own race so it'll be an interesting video to watch

[@mahoganyfoster3900]

Bruh 😭😭😭 I can imagine. They need to have parents across all income levels.

[@raeyu4622]

*gets a B+ on a test* “There is no B in Asian, are you a Bsian?”

[@snowflake8191]

Mina Yu 😂😂 why is this too valid

[@himanshu11876]

Nice lines

[@fatimakinggg]

Maybe I am. Lol. HAHAHAHA

[@YumiA211095]

u are a blasian then 😂😂

[@souu__.]

😂😂😂

[@ckbear6566]

"I know that they're capable of doing more." The one phrase that makes me angry and grateful at the same time.

[@samirsworld]

the model minority question was a little telling... black, latino, etc families prioritize education to their kids too

[@rebeccatang9383]

I think all asian kids have heard the phrases "I hit you because I love you"or "I yelled at you because I care about you". Asian parents are masters of guilt tripping and are terrible at admitting that they are wrong. I'm surprised more of us aren't stuck in abusive relationships as we age.

[@vickytang]

oof this is too real

[@saintsucks]

Rebecca Tang that hits too close to home

[@MichaelRockfez]

I find some truth in that when I see an 8 year old on a plane watching Deadpool 2 with his parents and cussing without a care. Approaching discipline like that is terrible though. It may even be better not to give those “explanations”.

[@chicken2378]

I felt that 😔

[@aanyaroy8512]

This comment just spoke to me and I guess it’s weird that it’s a KZbin comment that helped me realize this but I always thought that it was normal for them to say that- I don’t know, maybe it isn’t? And that’s a weird thing to think about because those words were half of my childhood.

[@dace3783]

I feel like the men, especially the Korean guy was the only ones who were completely honest in this video

[@loveflying4488]

Agreed. The ladies were being more reserved in answering.

[@d.zellak2426]

I actually thought Grace was very vocal about her beliefs even when they completely contrasted the rest of the groups

[@haxicle5378]

DAce I mean you also have to consider the fact that they’re probably based in Los Angeles, or other nearby liberal cities. The culture there can really put yours in check.

[@yourgirldreamerbillieblink297]

Yeah... I agree to that Korean guy in every answer

[@sheshenq]

Or this is really what they believe since they live in a very liberal area such as California

[@gazellepop]

They left out "Have you compared your child with another, or called them lousy just to appear humble in front of your friends?"

[@extramediumdev]

Amy: "My expectation for them was.. for them to go to college, at a minimum" Reality: "My expectation for them was for them to go to Harvard, at a minimum"

[@kashikagokhale9163]

The indian aunty going off on the youngest mom is such a aunty move lmao

[@TheAsianTree]

Except she lying on everything. The youngest mom is definitely someone who as someone didn’t make it into a traditional Asian path(straight As, doctor/lawyer), she doesn’t want to force her child to do something she couldn’t do herself, whereas someone who experience the success in life in a high paying job would definitely want their child to follow their footsteps of success

[@sierrastokes9897]

She was polite and respectful stop being so biased. You dont know her, she could be really sweet to her kids. She was simply debating, which is what she came here for

[@fernbiswas9791]

@@sierrastokes9897 i can tell RIGHT NOW that you aren't indian. Because ANY indian kid could tell that she's clearly lying for the majority of the questions.

[@RosinaMonis]

@@fernbiswas9791 I'm Indian (Not Indian American) and my parents have very similar views to her and I do know other parents who share those same opinions. It may not be the majority but they're there so stop assuming that she's lying.

[@iratakeuchi3031]

@@fernbiswas9791 I AM Indian, and I can tell that she was being pretty genuine. So it's CLEARLY SUBJECTIVE.

[@just_mal7066]

The Indian lady was like *I'm hitting them out of love*

[@daphnelin2448]

EVERY ASIAN MOM EVER

[@biryanibeti3767]

Literally my mom

[@elijahgavin6706]

Pranathi Miryala if you can’t parent without threatening violence you shouldn’t parent.

[@sharleendavis7320]

Pranathi Miryala very sorry you went through that, it’s given you a very sad understanding of love. If someone loves you they love you enough NOT to hit you. I hope you now have this time of love or you find it, I promise love does not equal physical punishment

[@poonamprasad7031]

Well i am Indian teenager and can assure you that 70% beatings are for our own good and other 30% are out of frustrations.

[@tammat705]

You can tell Jason is a strict parent. He was a pro lifer in Jubilee's pro choice vs pro life and a conservative christian in the liberal vs conservative christians video.

[@kronk7365]

He is not even satisfied if his kids are happy

[@riccardoparis4734]

The way I can't stand anything he does or say💖

[@PlasticDoll.]

@@riccardoparis4734 ikr..

[@PlasticDoll.]

Also being conservative, christian or prolifer doesn't mean strict parent. Because these can also be open minded still and raise their kids in a not so strict manner. But I can tell he would incorporate those ideologies into his parenting, especially the "christian teachings" hope his children don't turn out gay.. he doesn't seem like a bad person at heart but idk saying gay is a sin smh.. he'll never know until he has a gay child how it feels

[@diepiriye]

OK! And in each video, all his responses are based on fear.

[@controller8942]

“No one is going to disown you for coming out, but our culture prefers if you kept it to yourself” -Kya

[@beepboop82]

Kinda surprised there wasn’t a question regarding their views on mental health

[@capricorn2723]

THats the problem with that tho. Im not asian but everyone knows they basically dodge mental health...Why do you think alot of the kpop stars die. Blacks too tho. (Im black)

[@beaparas997]

frrr mental health is considered as a taboo and its v unfortunate

[@tanzil8193]

Ikr! Asian parents believe in ghosts but they don't believe in mental illness 😭

[@SuhannaDeSilva]

Tanzil Shaikh that part

[@SoSBxo]

literally i have anxiety and depression and my parents think i have bad spirits around me and that i should be more religious to cure this

[@astraeanatsuki3231]

That pink lady gave me toxic positivity vibes

[@prerana9775]

@Zinia ROHILA how is that even racist bruh

[@justaweirdgirl9827]

@Zinia ROHILA no 😂😂😂

[@tiaragordon5517]

@Zinia ROHILA lmao why tf is that racist?

[@natecampisi7715]

Zinia ROHILA first of how tf is that racist. Also doesn’t that make you racist if you agree🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

[@defnotjia9586]

Zinia ROHILA nope lol

[@bushra09__0]

The indian mom is the most different mom out there- INDIAN PARENTS AREN'T LIKE THAT BRO 😭😭

[@dev_peace_soul]

They are My mom 😩 i think i should be happy 😀

[@Aa-yu1rp]

@@dev_peace_soul you should know you're a rare case while majority of Indian's are not like that

[@dev_peace_soul]

@@Aa-yu1rp nah i don't think so

[@user-nu2vc9mp5j]

the bartender mom is a wise one out of the group. like she dissects and analyzes the situation very well.

[@anoushkatanwar]

Every Asian parent has 2 personalities. And let me tell y'all, this here wasn't real.

[@yoleeisbored]

saving face.. then they go yell and hit their kids

[@tantanmustdie]

@@yoleeisbored nah not me or anyone I know

[@joshumon5681]

Why are people keep sayin this asian parents ar lying? Have your parents really hurt you that bad? I mean not because many asian parents yells and hurts you physically...IT DOES NOT MEAN **ALL** of them are like that... different people will always have different ways of thinking even if they are in the *same Race*

[@vihansubramaniam3593]

Not all asian parents are like that. Ive seen plenty of open minded asian parents, ur experience doesn't define everybody's

[@stxriuu]

Yup i feel u

[@angelgovekar]

I just feel that the next gen Asian parents are gonna have completely different ideals and perspectives

[@shatwashere]

BRO THIS IS SO TRUE, litterally last week me and my cousins were talking abt how we were gonna be the best parents ever because we wouldve learned from our parents ways and can actually see the pros and cons of the way the teach/treat us 😂

[@shatwashere]

Michelle Yan EXACTLYYY 😂

[@RanDom-mb1xp]

Angel Govekar ah yes so true

[@lindsey7544]

not really, the brain matures at age 24. these parents once thought that too

[@furankisaveron7278]

Michelle Yan And smoke cus I don’t want my kids to get cancer. Also vaccinate. And has a job that doesn’t result in homelessness

[@kob9344]

My mom hit me a lot when I was younger especially during piano practice. I quit all my instrument classes I didn’t like and now I don’t have a very amazing relationship with her. Pfffft the lgbtq question. When I came out as a lesbian to my family my mom and sister thought I was crazy. They still do.

[@asmina.b1096]

I have so much respect for the young woman , I wish every parent could be like her

[@joshelp1222]

Most of the parents: _i want my child to be happy with themselves_ The Asian kids in the comment section:*wHy u aLwAyS lYiNg?*

[@janettejess]

I sang it 😂

[@aanyaprasad6120]

I was screaming the whole video

[@riyathakuria9086]

So true🤣🤣🤣

[@aaronsmith7656]

thats the truth

[@crazycrafting7464]

OMG ITS BEEN SO LONG SINCE I HEARD THAT😂😂

[@kherentsine5800]

Call their kids and make one episode about “asian kids react to their parents on the episode : do all asian parents think the same?”, their reaction would be interesting lol

[@nafa4664]

That will be nice lol, but I also feel bad for the kids if their parents see the reaction. There might no rice for them at home

[@ryuzhen4712]

Agree, i think the parents need to see the children reaction too, to understand the children pov, because we came from a different generation so we have a different perspective, and also sometimes parents always think that they're the right one and doing the best for their child (yea, understand their good intention) but.. sometimes its just not

[@syedfarukhaider1330]

FBE does the Kids React. Not jubilee

[@aliciasutube]

Yeeesssss

[@junghoseok9723]

Parents don't care about their children's views

[@thatfroginpeppapig2543]

I swear, Street smart Asian parents and high class Asian parents think totally different.

[@thumbelina9862]

They are so friendly in the end, this video is beautiful!

[@Gilvids]

these are some real asians they dont show what they truly feel when there are people around watching them...

[@lyracatiyu8361]

TRUE

[@alphonsusho8962]

You can tell for some question they seem hesitant or at least you can tell they just went with what's reasonable and what the "public" might view as reasonable but not extreme

[@petepetersen5418]

This is also how they managed to turn "Asians" into the model minority. If they would have been protesting all the time, caucasians would have far less respect

[@Gilvids]

@@petepetersen5418 why should minorities care whether white people respect them or not?

[@HB-ih9qp]

@@Gilvids ask the asians🤷🏿‍♂️

[@mirallla5323]

that indian mum was 100% lying most of the times, I could bet money on it

[@sonalikadu2863]

she was acting like a saint

[@hityshi4249]

It be like that with Indian parents lmaooo

[@cutiefun7838]

ye right frist she said that she want her children to do something and then "I am not a tiger parent"

[@z3r0k1ng2]

this a bit late but like when she said my children can marry whoever they want what she really meant i pick 10 girls for them and they pick whoever they want from those 10 girls

[@boxingmmacars23]

@@z3r0k1ng2 LMAOOO

[@MeganZhang]

i’m actually so surprised all of them at least agreed w physical discipline. as an asian american, child to immigrants, i 100% disagree and i can see the asian immigrant mindset in them while they talked about fear and discipline in the physical punishment. as a born American, i just can’t agree with the necessity of parents instilling this form of fear in children.

[@FunFilmFare]

I was also shocked . Especially since Asian families (my own included) care so much saving face. By confessing to physical discipline…aren’t they losing face by outing themselves to CPS?

[@fatemeh5841]

It's important to know that “support” translates to “control”, “manipulate” or “force”

[@emily-ei9yd]

the amount of times asian children have heard the phrase “it’s for your own good” 🤦‍♀️

[@gwynethmadelo8146]

Ikr, it gets tiring because I wonder if it's really for my own good or if it's for their satisfaction

[@eeee43567]

YES so true this is like the most relatable comment section ever lol

[@user-ty2fm3ge9m]

I mean, it is beneficial for us. I already forgot the amount of times I regret not listening to my parents.

[@mik4209]

It's every toxic parents overuse

[@vasdgod]

All Asian parents lie they take care of us just because we can take care of them

[@suraiyas2035]

When Grace said she was a bartender and a young mom I could see the heads turning.

[@sanniafatima513]

Suraiya s 😂😂

[@gangli6669]

They be already hunt her down in the back of their heads

[@durian111]

Everyone head rolling when they heard she got pregnant in college. Lol she gonna see hell in 5 year with her choice, plus as a bartender, yea get those taxpayer money for state support.

[@alinaballerina27]

Grace is such a good mom aww all the love to her 💖

[@itsu2553]

This one time when i was in my early teenage yrs, my mom was seriously scolding me like literally putting all her anger frustration on me. Then the next moment her friend call and her tone goes to the most sweetest in the entire world! like honey was drippin from her voice. i was amazed!! my mom had a tone like that?

[@a.a1027]

the guy in the gray sweater is literally the only honest parent here

[@akirarozu3245]

I liked his answers too!

[@creator1094]

I will say, he's not the best parent. But he was very honest and that means that his will probably bond once they grow up. But the Indian parents children will never.

[@MiMiMiMi-du6jy]

@@creator1094 Probably one of the best parent you can ever have. An honest, mature parent, probably what I want to have tbh. Not a parent who acts so Kind and positive towards others, but not in front of their children.

[@oojj513]

I feel that

[@itskyliemydudes946]

Grace? You think she was lying?

[@sashat3999]

when she said you can hit your kid out of love and everyone fell silent

[@geraldrhoden702]

Sasha T I actually understand what she was saying. A lot of times when I got physically disciplined my mom or dad would say I beat you because I love you.

[@shrujay4035]

Its true. They love hard, discipline harder.

[@sashat3999]

@@geraldrhoden702 yeah as a kid I was too, it's just there's no way to put it without sounding weird

[@mf4066]

Sasha T my mum says that to me and it just makes me hate her more..

[@aur9035]

Its just a bit weird how their kid grew up to be needing a "beating out of love" to get disciplined when there's so much other ways that could've worked. I'll say, i won't give my respect to someone who beated me up until i got bruised so bad and later say it's my fault and ask me if i want them to go to jail for a child beating.

[@feliz695]

Fun fact: Most Asian parents usually stop the spanking at around 10 - 12 years of age, since they trust that you've already grasped the idea of what is right or wrong.

[@78anurag]

I would like to talk to the braincell of yours which thought this. My mom spanked her brother until he got in college. I expect the same for me.

[@Void_Dweller7]

He said MOST

[@78anurag]

@@Void_Dweller7 oh ok

[@An0n7]

def not most.... Lmao

[@thecrimsondragon9744]

No, they stop because it's easy to beat you up when you're still young and small. Once you start growing (13+), they probably realise it might come back to bite them. Only cowards raise their hands to beat the most vulnerable members of our species (defenceless children), and one has to be mentally defective to call it 'love'.

[@ishpal25]

The mom in the pink dress is just like my Indian mom, I think other Indians would agree. So wholesome (Edit) nvm she is kind of getting a little out of hand. Sorry I made a comment in the middle of the video without watching the whole thing