Do Attractive People Really Have An Easier Life?

[@missr7340]

If you've ever been overweight and then lost weight it's scary how differently you are treated.

[@lorenzoreynolds2512]

Damn

[@SBImNotWritingMyNameHere]

​@@lorenzoreynolds2512 Cmon you can say more

[@toric9518]

I didn’t realize how people didn’t notice me or hear what I was saying until I lost 50#. It was so upsetting, it was like I was invisible. I’m still the same person I just lost all the weight I gained over the years.

[@MrEysox]

Same goes when you were underweight and gained weight.

[@fl0pZ3]

it’s scarier when you put the weight back on and, all of a sudden you feel invisible again.

[@a_thousand_words]

I went through a period recently working as a doorman. These two girls came up to me and said I was too attractive to be doing this job. They assumed that I deserve better just because of the way I look!

[@devilsadvocate7059]

They probably meant you could be making money off your looks, not that you deserve to be a CEO just because you’re attractive😂

[@mickethegoblin7167]

​@devilsadvocate7059 why do you think he meant that?

[@7embersVeryOwn]

Or they were trying to hit on you with no further meaning

[@francookie9353]

Lol, same happened to me; I worked as a busser at a bar/club and was mopping the dancefloor one time (which wasn't easy as we had to often mop it while people were ON it) and this one guy told me the same thing. You're too pretty to work here. Of course it's a come-on, but it's only ever chosen as that for people who can reasonably be perceived as attractive. At least for men. For women, I guess the "men will say anything" rule still applies.

[@faithkerubo8357]

Wanderer above the sea of fog...finally someone else who recognises the painting...I think Casper David is among the most underrated painters ever...

[@harsh3948]

Yes, they do. There’s plenty of obese people that lost weight as well as people that underwent great plastic surgery and saw society’s perception of them from both sides….it actually depressed them for a bit despite being treated better

[@infinitedreaming222]

Yea that’s because they believed in a more fair world. Society is vapid and vain. So it’s better to acknowledge long before the weight is off so that we don’t get depressed - we get paid instead 😂

[@lorenzoreynolds2512]

Brutal

[@Laura-dn1zx]

But the thing is that even attractive people spend a lot on their looks; shaving, skincare, hair care, good hygiene, healthy body, etc, so... Is it really that unfair that attractive people get pretty privilege? Because IMO I see it as their effort simply being paid off. There are many people with a good base, but who don't take care of themselves and don't get pretty privilege. I'm not saying it's good, it's just that it's a fact that society is superficial, but a lot of people who don't even drink 1L of water get sour grape, wanting what someone who invests a lot of time and effort into their looks gets

[@harsh3948]

@@Laura-dn1zx a lot of what you just said comes under the umbrella term of good hygiene actually. It’s the bare minimum, but there are certain things like bad bone structure or obesity that can’t be fixed by improving hygiene alone. They’d need plastic surgery for the former and a drastic lifestyle change including learning new skills like cooking great meals with calories in mind, portion control, quitting junk food and learning to exercise consistently and correctly for the latter

[@TetsuoTakayamaCyberpunk]

@@Laura-dn1zx you can’t self care your way into having a certain bone structure or being 6ft3 tall

[@Thisisntevenyourchannel]

Listen. Pretty people actually do have it easier. I’m a 26 year old black woman. I used to be 250 pounds with a low afro from when I cut off my hair to go natural. Then I lost weight to 130 (I’m 5’8). Got sculptra, Botox, lip filler and grew my hair out long. And now I’m literally treated like a GODDESS compared to how I used to be treated. And I wouldn’t even say I’m just pretty. I went from like a 3 to a 5 or 6.And it’s discouraging. Literally members of my own family treat me better, where I couldn’t get a date before, men are lined up, women guard their boyfriends and husbands around me more, people are more helpful. People open doors. Random people complement me. OH! Work is different as well. I’m quite shy and awkward; sometimes, I don’t know the appropriate thing to say in a situation. So I usually don’t talk much to avoid embarrassing myself or saying the wrong thing, and that has never gone well with my coworkers. But now, Where I used to be quiet and weird (even accused of being rude for opting out of office small talk.) I’m now “mysterious” and “mystifying” oh and two of my coworkers have asked me out. When they’ve literally been working with me for 4 years and never so much as told me good morning. It’s scary out here.

[@thenaturalyogi5934]

This is the truth, and also how changing the way you look can dictate whether or not you get noticed. So if I feel like being left alone I dress in the chillest way possible, when occasions require it then I dress up otherwise I don't even try 😂.

[@quaord3738]

I've kinda had the opposite effect when I got out of school I lost my routine and let myself go. then I'm guessing stress and allergies took their turn. I'm a guy and I've noticed other guy friends lose their temper with me more often now, and women just aren't a factor anymore. it's like a whole different reality

[@thabokgwele5268]

Congrats on the glow up!🥳🎉

[@harsh3948]

You call yourself a 5 but being skinny alone makes you a 7. Remember that the average person in the US is obese so a 5, which is average would actually be fat compared to you

[@jaybee1466]

Hold them accountable! Don’t just let these guys who are waiting at the finish line have a chance where you saw there true colors before

[@HillbillyYEEHAA]

I've been on both ends of the spectrum, obese and a healthy weight. I was 1000% treated differently. My face looks completely different when im bigger, im uglier. At a normal weigh , nobody would ever call me ugly. Overweight ... different story. 😂 Men treated me differently bigger. Even other women. It was almost like i wasnt worth being nice too. Yet they'd bend over backwards for me when i was in shape. Im always nice to everyone regardless of how they look. Because it can hurt.

[@lifeissoup_iamfork]

I like your attitude. You've seen both sides of the coin, and you actively treat people with respect regardless, because you've experienced how hurtful it can be.

[@studymf_]

Moral of the story: Invest all money on yourself to become an attractive person and get twice result in return.

[@manthanmehta8724]

I agree 100 percent

[@nothing...867]

Ofcourse if you want alot of opportunities in life be attractive and investment in yourself is must

[@BC-ENTERTAINMENT123]

oh girl its genetic , monkey will remain monkey even after all makeup and surgery

[@SquallSZ]

Or the opposite: stop giving importance to all of this. Everything is about looks and it makes the world à lot less interesting.

[@tallsz559]

Factsss

[@SquallSZ]

YES . Here you go I saved you 10 minutes of your life.

[@loust1264]

but why is that the case? bold of you to assume im that ignorant and lazy to learn about something to the point where one single answer will be able to satisfy me

[@gfdchugh]

not really lots of pretty people gets hated on by jealous people while others get raped and killed

[@jonathank786]

@@loust1264literally the same thing I thought this guy most think people are idiots 😂

[@TheLostVagabond-01001]

​@@gfdchughbro you have to be living in south america for that to happen

[@themarathoncontinues4211]

⁠@@gfdchughzero evidence that less attractive people are less likely to get graped or k!lled. And ugly people get hated on way more

[@cocob0l0]

Yes. I was bullied pretty bad as a teenager meanwhile my more attractive best friends would be treated like princesses. I was even accused multiple times by many people that I would beg these girls to be my friend, when reality I had known them since we were 5 years old. Now that I’m grown and look slightly less ugly, I’m invisible, rather than being constantly insulted for my looks.

[@adxd1002]

Sorry that happened to tou

[@lis9762]

That’s not very nice to go through, I hope things are better for you now. Being a teenager is tough.

[@teyataom]

I feel you

[@ay-tj7pj]

Pretty people will be accused more if they do something wrong as people see them first in every occasion

[@emushi8394]

I’m sorry that happened to you, I feel you, I was really fat and ugly when I was young while my friends were only skinny and I was bullied more. When I grew up I complete changed and boys started to treat me better and I was disgusted. I decided to ignore them.

[@fp2551]

I am working in a job that I am not qualified to do that I got because the hiring manager found me attractive (verging on being very creepy). This is definitely real. As I've gotten older and less attractive there is a very stark difference in how I am treated in society versus when I was younger and more beautiful. This is very real and I've seen both sides of it!

[@yuuuukika]

How old are you now?

[@wulfsorenson8859]

@@yuuuukika50

[@voyagersmarch8776]

You hit the wall

[@wulfsorenson8859]

@@yuuuukika she’s 29.😅

[@Maggot1077]

I think mental health is taken less seriously if you are attractive.

[@SquallSZ]

Its the contrary

[@Maggot1077]

@@SquallSZ it's more likely that all mental illness is ignored.

[@Anastasiya.Petrova]

​@@SquallSZnope. I have an attractive friend and nobody take her seriously when she talk about her BDD and depression because they can't believe an attractive person can have it.

[@Lora_Beolab]

@@Anastasiya.Petrova if you're attractive you're much less likely to become depressed in the first place wich already totally cancels that out

[@jadethepreciousstone]

@@Lora_Beolabthis is just simply not true

[@zyyl1949]

Beauty is essentially just the word we use to describe genetic quality, it’s pretty obvious why attractive people have better lives

[@user-zk1fj6xl7i]

Smart men like beautiful women. Brains and beauty breed together.

[@user-zk1fj6xl7i]

Also, traits selected for during the ice age in Eurasia were brains, beauty, and sociability. They all go together.

[@LegsON]

@@user-zk1fj6xl7i All men like beautiful women. All women like beautiful men.

[@corpsefoot758]

@@user-zk1fj6xl7i Nerds aren’t the only ones who chase models, my guy

[@spicy1116]

​@@user-zk1fj6xl7istupid men also like beautiful women

[@mrir1769]

from what i observed : pretty people are overall treated nicer pretty people can have pretty partners too pretty people have more friends pretty people have more popular and pretty friends pretty people are more popular pretty people can become stars pretty people can make money for their appearance pretty people can break more rules pretty people are more forgiven pretty people are perceived as more : intelligent, skilled and nice. pretty people can have objectively bad personnality traits but it will look positive (weird = mysterious) pretty people don't need personnality and all its efforts pretty people are more convincing pretty people are more taken seriously and importantly ...and so on

[@tinguspingus295]

it sucks but it is what it is.

[@ShutupandListen]

So by these standards I’m attractive?

[@Mew2Win]

@@ShutupandListenby today’s standards if you’re sub8, you’re ugly af

[@Jeffsoros]

Cap

[@monsterzero9456]

too J

[@krissifadwa]

I'll admit... I have gotten away with a few things based on the upkeep of my appearance. Whereas, I know if I did not keep up with my appearance, I would not have gotten as far as I have within my life. You don't have to look like a top model or much. Just take care of yourself. First, starting inwards and it will exude through your mannerism, etc. Great video!

[@alistlesshowlfromtheether]

The only 'upkeep' tgat can help certain people is surgery.

[@elpresadorjr.6620]

@@chryzbre4336 if youre below average facially none of that will work besides surgery

[@FormerPessitheRobberfan]

@@chryzbre4336 just stop. No asking if make up is changing your facial-dental structure. There are people who can get out of bed looking like a hot mess in their opinion and the world will call them hot.

[@nienkeevelien]

@@FormerPessitheRobberfan there’s using make-up to enhance your appearance (short term) and then improving your physical and mental health (long-term). Waking up as what society perceives as “flawless” doesn’t just happen. Even if we’re made to believe it does, these people take care of themselves with long-term improvement in mind. Sure, some might benefit from genetically excellent bone structure, but that doesn’t rule out the chance that those who don’t have these (tiny) advantages cannot be perceived as natural beauties. When you think about it, all human faces are shaped by the uniform shape of a skull. Slight differences in the height of cheekbones (and other facial structure that is considered attractive) are minuscule, particularly when compared to the similarities between the overall shape of our skull, which signifies our species to be Homo Sapiens, and not those of our truly “uglier” ancestors Neanderthalensis. Considering this, the likelihood that the general contour of our facial structure is the root cause for some human faces deemed unappealing is quite frankly impossible. Yes, society seems to have the upper hand in this matter by having the majority believe they need to fit a certain standard. However, if you’re able to convince yourself that authenticity goes above anything else, you’ll create (and often exceed) your own standard, which simultaneously adds to how you are perceived as an individual. Have you ever thought about how people who are perceived as outstandingly beautiful by the general public are those who have the most unusual facial features? Their eyes could be wide-set, their cheekbones less pronounced, or their dental structure creates a smile showing “too much” gums. In this video alone, I’ve seen so many faces that don’t seem to have “all of the best facial features,” yet their unusual facial or dental structure doesn’t decrease their attractiveness. If anything, it amplifies their uniqueness, which captures our attention because they’re not average-looking. The moral of my story, and I think also the primary goal of the videos on this channel, is to share insights on this one thing; How we are perceived, average-looking, gorgeous, or ugly is mainly due to the energy we put into ourselves and how we look at our unique beauty. It’s the energy we embrace that determines whether or not we are perceived as attractive individuals. Hope this brings a little bit of clarity 🙂

[@krissifadwa]

@@alistlesshowlfromtheether I honestly do not believe that. Everyone exudes beauty. Male or female.

[@shaatiusmani6211]

you know it well when you have an attractive sibling. My younger sister(really attractive) is introvert and avoid interactions yet has everyone around her wanna be her friend and then there's me i try so much to make friends and i have none except some casual friends who dont even care about my existence. So most definitely there's a ridiculous amount of difference in general.

[@Erica-cf1xb]

Honor your inner best friend and stop trying to force it. Those people are showing you that they do not like you. It's wasting your time and energy on those who wanna use you like these cockroaches do. You alone are the real cool one, them...naw. they gotta lie n steal shit to be hot criminals. Hoe behavior.

[@HereIAm247]

I know the feeling, my whole family (cousins, parents, aunts/uncles, etc.) are all very attractive and very successful. I am a woman, but my brother got all the good genes. My female cousins looks like every mans desire, with barely trying. And then there is me... Tall, beanstalk body type, curly/frizzy hair, skin problems, wired facial composition and introverted/akward (possibly developed some social anxiety too, due to the bullying and abuse I faced from my peers...). I was literally that character in the teen movies - I just never had the friends or the glow-up. :(

[@comecorrect1]

That's why society is mean to other people and they get bad luck. Thank you humanity for disowning and misunderstanding everyone that doesn't fit the attractive quota. God bless everyone that feels left out and misunderstood in the world. I made this comment on a shared account.

[@soulofsomething6651]

There's literally no downsides about being more attractive so that's why I encourage people to work on themselves both physically and mentally

[@elisabeth4342]

If your more average-looking female colleagues feel threatened by your appearance, they'll try to sabotage you in some way. If you're all working for tips or quotas, for example, the LESS attractive females WILL make your shift a living hell.... They instinctively (and calculatively) go out of their way to sabotage your genuine efforts. The females who feel threatened or feel "inferior" can become unapologetic calculated manipulators IN ORDER TO COMPETE and survive on the job!! Some of them may even express their fear of being replaced!! If the job entails GETTING ATTENTION FROM MEN IN ORDER TO SURVIVE, the LESS ATTRACTIVE will PLAY DIRTY. You're all competing for the same thing and their claws will come out (on the job).

[@Ant1quedoll]

there is a few downsides probably but most likely not

[@elisabeth4342]

@@Ant1quedoll I wrote about some of the downsides... That was MY experience working as a Hooters Girl, a cocktail waitress/Bud girl at some nightclubs and as a fitness trainer in one gym.

[@Alakabram]

There’s really not much you can do, it’s largely genetically determined

[@Rara-Land.]

I strongly disagree. There are many downsides too, Stalkers, harassment, resentment can go a long way from cold shoulders, sabotage, destruction, character assassination, toxic competition… Women friends don’t want you near the boyfriends/husbands. I got accused so many times of seducing other people’s husbands/men…enough to put me off on so many gatherings. I just had it! Beautiful women can only be friends with other similar people who are emotionally balanced otherwise it’s just not sustainable. Life is easy when you are ugly and invisible minus dating. When I was fat and pregnant, that was the only time women (outside my family) were kind towards me. You do get lot of admirers, gaze… but it just doesn’t worth it. Maybe if you have the right measurements you can use that to make a career… The bitter betties have probably won, I am so discouraged these days, no makeup, zero efforts, nothing.

[@DoriterEater]

This is why I love living in a rural community, community is such a high value that looks wouldn't determine if you are to be included or not. Though the younger people definitely have different values, and there are certain extremes in appearance that I do think affect the way you are treated. There's plenty of downsides to living rural, but I know for a fact that people can be highly confident/ satisfied with life and not be "attractive" in places like this because I see it all the damn time!

[@jayjaygaerlan]

In general, if you’re an attractive woman, other women will be attracted to you, because they believe in birds of the same feather. They want to be like you. The other women will avoid you because they think you’re competition in all ways possible; attention for mates, jobs, etc. if you’re an attractive woman, it’s hard to identify a man’s intentions with you, too. Does he like all of me or just what he sees? Much older men will hit on you at a young age even, and it could become dangerous for your mental health. I hope men can share their thoughts here, too.

[@TheRock-zf3jp]

Nobody that talks to you cares about your personality. Your looks is what attracted that interaction 🙄 get use to it

[@annalesewinget6792]

When I was 17 men of about the age of 58 years used to hit on me . Back then I was soo naive and did not know what was happening.

[@jayjaygaerlan]

@@annalesewinget6792 This happens more to pretty girls that are underage, and the environment becomes unsafe for them. I hope you were safe!

[@annalesewinget6792]

@@jayjaygaerlan Yes you are absolutely right .

[@FrostyFreya]

I agree with the part that some women will gravitate towards you and some will avoid you if you’re an attractive woman. I have a couple of male friends and they also have other female friends and I always feel that those female friends don’t want me around or they get in a competitive mood when we hang out. At the same time, they don’t do this with other women who they probably perceive as less threat. It is upsetting because nobody likes to be socially excluded but at the same time I just enjoy myself and stay relaxed while other girls go out of their way to show off etc In a female - female situation I’m usually treated very good and I know that women want to be friends with me, at least when their boyfriends are not around 😂 and. And no, I am not a “10” I just look after myself really well and this pays off.

[@RickCabron]

When i started working at my last job i was under weight and my hair was a mess. My collega's treated me realy bad and didn't talk to me. When i started gaining weight and chenged my hair and started being more confidant my collega's were way nicer. I'm now working as a domestic helper and all my clients are very nice to me.

[@koda8288]

As an attractive person, It feels like a superpower

[@abbysands9510]

Let's not forget about the tale of Jeremy Meeks, a mixed-race individual who found himself on the wrong side of the law and ended up behind bars. What sets his story apart is the unexpected turn his life took while he was still in jail. Before his incarceration, Jeremy's routine mugshot was posted on a police website, and it quickly became an internet sensation, accumulating thousands of likes and capturing the fascination of the public. After serving a 13-month sentence, a remarkable opportunity came his way at the age of 31 - a modelling contract. As if that weren't remarkable enough, Jeremy's journey continued with him marrying the daughter of a billionaire and starting a family. Now, I am not saying people who go to jail don't turn their lives around but I have never heard anyone coming out of jail with a modelling contract and marrying the daughter of a billionaire. For most going to jail is a misfortune but for him it was fortunate all because he was a beautiful man.

[@lagarde3970]

the Meeks shall inherit the Earth.

[@sharmindecruz9757]

That is true

[@sharmindecruz9757]

​@lagarde397😂😅

[@alejandragarciatoribio837]

Yes in the sense that you can get a partner easier (and also choose him), which of course betters and simplifies your life, but no in the sense that if you are top pretty there is so much envy and jealousy coming from other women, which makes it very difficult to live with if you are a social person.

[@alexforce9]

It's important to note that people don't do it on purpose. And most of the time they probably don't even notice doing it. its just natural reaction.

[@pinku4419]

We should be aware of that

[@anyamiranda9452]

Couldn't care less about them not doing it consciously when I'm constantly ignored and seen as expendable.

[@alexforce9]

@@anyamiranda9452 Thats just life without pretty privilege. The attention and validation - thats the special treatment - its not the norm.

[@anyamiranda9452]

@alexforce9 So *common courtesy* is sPeCiAL tReAtMeNt? And some people have the nerve to get angry with misª nthr0pes

[@alexforce9]

@@anyamiranda9452 Maybe you should ask average looking men how they are treated in life.

[@lisajensen9395]

Oh my God, yes. I've been both beautiful and ugly and the difference is unbelievable. The quality of life when you are beautiful is wonderful.

[@frankie.lee.]

You should be eligible for disability benefits is you score below a 4/10 on the looks scale. Being unattractive is like a disability, disabling you from experiencing certain things in life, that in turn lead to a lesser quality of life.

[@SBImNotWritingMyNameHere]

Eh Disability benefits is when the disability is so debilitating that you literally can't work So 2/10 or lower seems more accurate

[@keecmeec]

wtf?

[@SBImNotWritingMyNameHere]

@@keecmeec yea i would say it's better not to have to ugly benefits Because it would most likely lead to people hating those with ugly benefits a lot The 2/10 was purely for arguments sake

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

This is a fascinating idea but I agree with above reply of 2/10 should. If you're that ugly then you're pretty fucked and a kit of doors are closed to you.

[@Erica-cf1xb]

This is true but they won't do that because you will use the funds to enhance your looks and the bum kittens don't want that to happen.

[@merrywalsh2809]

I always thought I looked pretty good, not attractive, but decent, until I had my daughter who grew into a stunning teen. The guys were all over her, something I had never experienced lol. Then later, I had a roommate who was really beautiful. Guys fell all over themselves to help her. Wherever she went, she paid for nothing, not because she was a goldigger, but because guys were giving her free things constantly. She ended up the girlfriend of a well known A list actor.

[@anyamiranda9452]

100000% this. I always think I look above average and almost all women I encounter agree with me, yet males usually won't even come at me, unless they are shamelessly trying to get something for nothing. They might stare (which annoys me), but they almost never make a move. I'm *so* s!ck of it 🙄

[@Lostsoul_123]

​@@anyamiranda9452maybe they get scared of rejection cause they don't think you will say yes

[@tajzakaryaaaaaaa]

whos the actorrr

[@sunflowermist23]

This channel never fails to make me insecure😂

[@hanaabayneh9647]

I swear it's so toxic

[@TetsuoTakayamaCyberpunk]

Of course they do

[@amandaburleson2035]

im very attractive, like when i used to work at a fast food restaurant people would want to take pictures of me, or sometimes they would forget their flash is on in the car and i catch them taking pictures of me. kids really like me. people are always eager to open up to me. i am very influential. and its very easy to win people over. i dont like how much influence i can have over a complete stranger, to bad its so excahusting pretending to care about them. im so good at preneteding to listen to what they say.

[@mchris4708]

I am glad you are pretty, because you don’t have to worry about about grammatical errors.

[@anyamiranda9452]

Umm, none of this is a good thing.

[@jackbramwell3002]

Respectfully, you sound like have narcissistic tendencies.

[@sallys9632]

As a higher than average attractive female, I feel people, usually men, tend to give me more/better treatment than not, but women tend to do the opposite towards me and assume (or hope) I'm a bimbo (am not).

[@okjr]

Yes they do I'm ugly & poor living in jamaica

[@SquallSZ]

Below average crue 🎊🎉🎊🎉🎊❤

[@dumbass_on_a_daily2068]

We're in this together 😢

[@SBImNotWritingMyNameHere]

Jamaica 💀💀💀

[@TheRock-zf3jp]

Ugly lacka pato me fada

[@NuurKal]

@@SBImNotWritingMyNameHerewtf is wrong with that?

[@rimiserk8277]

Beautiful people live life on easymode.

[@Diamond-rl2on]

Being ugly is hard as hell

[@chocolatethunder192]

Excellent video! I love the honesty and research explanations in your videos. Also, I know it sounds trite, but as a POC, I appreciate the ethnic diversity in your videos. It's nice to see information about all different ethnic groups, facial features, etc.

[@sasmidaily7843]

Yes this happens. People will not care about your achievements and skills, as long as the prettier person is liked more and invites more people, they will still be above you even if their abilities are below yours.

[@anyamiranda9452]

Have been experiencing this for years with a "girlfriend". We coincidentally do pretty much the same things and dress in a very similar manner. When she does it, "dayum s00 hawt!". When I do it, "ugh, such an attention-seeker" 🙄

[@Erica-cf1xb]

Above you according to the world's standards...which are at a negative zero.

[@Randorandom232]

Lol, I'd say they'd care about your achievements and skills. Just in a negative way because they don't think you deserve it.

[@aliciajadellkk]

Yeah I got a job way easier and got treated way better by coworkers and managers when I looked better

[@AndreyShadrinFilms]

Can you make a video on how important for singers, actors and other artists to have a good physical attractiveness in order to succeed in their careers

[@noemidemelo8959]

Yes please! As a super ugly woman who wants to be a successful artist, I need all the info available to achieve it 😅

[@Miumiumiumiumiumiumiumi]

@@noemidemelo8959 I sincerely wishing u all the luck in the world!😊💕 Im 28 so prob not that likely anymore but hey Caroline polacheck & Sza made it so who knows.

[@dachchet7385]

Unfortunately jealousy can become a real hindrance for attractive people. Theres a price for everything

[@mikeser3484]

It's absolutely nothing compared to how terrible life is for ugly people. If an attractive person swapped bodies with an unattractive person, they would want to go back right away

[@neptune6619]

My friend is very attractive and I’m not, people treat us so differently

[@comecorrect1]

I am sorry to hear this I hope and pray that everything turns out well for you in this life. A virtual 🤗 to you.

[@SBImNotWritingMyNameHere]

​@@comecorrect1 The condescending ness holy shit

[@NuurKal]

@@SBImNotWritingMyNameHerewhat consedencing?

[@SaharaAP]

From my personal experience I’ve been on both sides. I use to come to work without make up and always wore a mask ( just cause ). My coworkers were a bunch of mean girls (service industry) and just did a lot of passive aggressiveness. Well, one day I decided to look good take off my mask apply makeup and boom everyone was silent. They were so shocked cause I’ve always wore my mask. The meanest girl who wore braces was shocked cause I naturally have straight white teeth. Customers were 100% times nicer. They would start up conversations and tip well. Fast forward and my hours got cut and I ended up leaving.

[@Erica-cf1xb]

Those culture vultures had to get you up outta there. You were too threatening to their existence. It was a blessing in disguise. Better is on its way 😊

[@SaharaAP]

@@Erica-cf1xb Thank you it was a blessing in disguise.

[@janedoe8582]

Do you know what also makes life easier? Planning, working hard, not being a dick. As someone who's spent thousands on plastic surgery, I really learned the best way to actually change yourself is to change how you behave not how you look. Being a 10/10 won't help you pass the bar exam, or be a good friend, or help you not be neurotic. It has to start with you.

[@adamg6711]

Being a 10/10 (which few human beings are even close to) you would have no need at all for all of those things.

[@reve605]

How you behave and your looks have collations on how others (especially people that barely know you) will perceive you. A 10/10 when shy is cute or mysterious but a 3/10 is creppy or a weirdo. A 10/10 when confident has a wow effect but a 3/10 when confident is still invincible for most of the time or annoying or delusional. You spent money on plastic surgeries probably got your looks improved you don't necessarily have to be one of the world's extremely beautiful (10) but if you're above average (6), you have some of this Halo Effects.

[@suisenshirasaki8298]

@@adamg6711 I've seen absolutely stunning women in poorer countries with little chance of social mobility. Most don't have a Natalia Vodianova arc, rags to riches. Most can't. You don't have to be pretty to be rich nor does being in the top 1pct of good looking people guarantee economic success. In places like Georgia, Azerbaijan, Uzbekistan, India you'll find stupefyingly lovely women in hovels. The genetic lottery is also where you're born, in which conditions you're born. The wealthy are insular and most people want like minded partners or at least someone with whom they have things in common, they're unlikely to commence a long term relationship with someone beautiful but not highly educated or who can't communicate in their language. We're limited by geography and social context. See the tragic story of the famous NatGeo Afghan girl.

[@anyamiranda9452]

Pffff, at least in 3rd world countries like mine, you'd be surprised what people that are socially considered attractive can get away with.

[@geko9214]

whats an example of this then? they still need to have a job and work unless they happen to also have a model like appearance, which isn't synonyous wiht being a 10/10 @@adamg6711

[@laracaldarella3563]

While yes being attractive does make a lot of things in life easier, it doesn’t equate happiness. There are attractive people that struggle with depression too.

[@shun8104]

Have you ever seen an attractive person have cosmetic surgery so they can be less attractive and have an easier life?

[@Erica-cf1xb]

Their character and lack of morals make them ugly.

[@Sheepcakezzz]

I mean does breast reduction count?

[@Nglyouaintshit]

​@@Sheepcakezzz not really. Small breasts are considered attractive and classy on the other hand bigger are considered quite "vulger". For example look at models, wives of really wealthy men etc

[@MaseraSteve]

Yeah, but I've many times of people living below Average life despite having a really attractive face. cause lack of personality and some complex mindset are also playing role of having a successful life. For example there's this house keeper dude who i was shocked when seeing his younger picture. Literally are equivalent to a model, yet there he was still single in his 60's now only by himself and now worked a shitty low salaey job of being a house keeper(asia). And I've read stranger comments on youtube saying the same thing, he got the look and especially height+ some got better package down there but pretty terrible at dating thus still single...

[@harsh3948]

Cuz he didn’t capitalize on his fleeting good looks nor maintain it cuz there wasn’t such knowledge about that especially for men

[@MaseraSteve]

@@harsh3948 no offense, but "capitalize the good look" ?? This dude used to rock those cool vintage bomber jacket, the one with furry collar like tom cruise used to don even my grandmother admitted she got a crush on him before eventually married other guy double oopsie but I'm glad she didn't married a slacker hotshot

[@harsh3948]

@@MaseraSteve sure, but plenty of beautiful women marry rich men and they don’t think those women are ‘slackers’ lol

[@MaseraSteve]

@@harsh3948nonono! beautiful woman marrying a rich man have a job : to complement public appearances, bed appetite, and hopefully be a good mother. Now if a poor "slacker" man doesn't/cannot do any jackshit to support a woman? they're more like a burden!! giving her a child, yet can't afford shit to support a them all! This one role cannot be reversed! otherwise that man is a simping cuckold. Woman are emotionally driven person, doesn't matter how successful their career is took only couple variable to ruined her judgement (that's the hard fact of the nature's law) So both must support each back together. the old traditinal BS about woman should't work only be housewive and man does all the heavy lifting in modern era isn't enough for mid-low class folks unless you're lucky in mid-upper class like i do Basically woman Truly a special companion indeed.

[@canesugar911]

​@@MaseraSteveyour grandmother is a wise woman.

[@Soothingyou45]

It's funny because I've seen the opposite. Attractive people being treated poorly because of jealousy..

[@ay-tj7pj]

Yes, people often treat pretty people badly without any reason at all

[@poshridnl]

Please make more of the glowup podcasts pleaseee.

[@carlosbravo6049]

You should analyse christian bale, he is atractive and doesn't have a prominent jaw like many other guys in your videos , it could be interesting

[@danielkaewdonprai8869]

Essential Time Laps: 00:04 Physical attractiveness significantly impacts how people are perceived and treated. 01:10 Attractive individuals experience greater happiness and better treatment throughout their lives. 02:13 Physical attractiveness can influence the outcome of a trial and social interactions 03:18 Attractive teachers have an impact on students' academic performance and evaluations. 04:26 Attractive individuals have an advantage in getting a job and earning higher salaries 05:29 Attractive individuals generally earn higher incomes throughout their lives 06:36 Attractiveness can have adverse effects in decision-making and online dating 07:42 Being attractive has numerous advantages in life

[@belleairBabe]

NO - STALKER, HATERS AND JELOUS

[@noemidemelo8959]

@@belleairBabe as a super ugly person who has been stalked, hated for no reason and eventually experienced jealousy from others I can guarantee that being ugly has all the disadvantages of being beautiful, just not the advantages.

[@greenyweeny1146]

Yeah 100%. The difference between before and after my glow up is night and day.

[@amandaovercash5974]

I just like listening to this guy's voice.

[@eypsitadas5692]

Can you make a video about shoulders? Like broad shoulders on women vs men or how shoulders affext our perception ?

[@AW-zv2to]

Need this one

[@lis9762]

If you are unusually attractive people can be put off from speaking to you, the lucky ones are the naturally attractive friendly looking people but not intimidating.

[@Erica-cf1xb]

The fake ones always claim that someone is intimidating by them but it's really the violator smell that is a repellent towards others. They can't get that smell off them. Only God can. 😊

[@baguette745]

QOVES narrator i love your voice

[@TheSilverazo]

the jealously of others is what makes it hard, people assume an attractive person is a jerk by default, everyone is constantly trying to get into a piss contest with you

[@David-ml5sf]

"attractive children" doesn't sound right to say

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

long answer: I've never seen anyone let a surgeon put a knife in their face to make them uglier short answer: yes, duh

[@5-es4mn]

Not true!!

[@Th0ughtZ_]

I'll say this much (coming from a male that's considered handsome from most females btw) that yes, having looks has its pros but it definitely has its cons. Also, here's some food for thought: I've spoken with attractive people of both sexes and many of them shared stories of being molested as kids or teens. The moral of the story is that being attractive (especially at an early age) can bring about attention (particularly sexual) that shouldn't be welcomed or wanted.

[@lalalalaland84]

There was also a study that attractive people only earn higher for certain types of jobs. If you are in a professional field, being attractive does not have a positive impact on wages.

[@NuurKal]

It definitely does it definitely does

[@szesze-bw8fz]

Well, looks help to open doors. But good performance is always based on abilities and hardwork.

[@Egolifter42069]

yes. the more attractive you are the better you are treated witch can lead to job opportunities ect.

[@Lou-uj1ww]

I also think that attractive people have overall a better life. But on another note I think that pretty people are sometimes taken less serious in some workplaces (like business/office places) because people think they only got the job because they are pretty. I also read a Harvard study that conventially pretty woman that searches for a job have a negative impact if they put out a photo of them on their resume. It can effect HR in jealousy! What do you think of this result? On the more service face to face and media jobs i think pretty privilege is surely important Keep up the great videos!

[@henryzhao4622]

QOVES Can we get a vid on what inspires you to be so meticulous about the face! Cheers

[@ajax1472]

It is truly over!

[@lisarakic9285]

I tip the same regardless of how the server appears.

[@callen8908]

Really interesting. The small-town perspective was informative. Thank-you

[@ladyteebugluv]

Which is more attractive, someone’s voice or they’re aura?

[@SquallSZ]

Aura

[@kakaibakaonlol3163]

deeper voice

[@pilly3815]

Ah yes, their "aura", definitely not disguised as physical attractiveness

[@SquallSZ]

@@pilly3815 hahahahahha you are totally right

[@ladyteebugluv]

@@pilly3815 I mean, never said it wasn’t 🤷‍♀️.

[@Michael_black777]

now imagine what it's like for people who are off the chart and no argument about their attractiveness.

[@hailtodachimp2950]

Yes they live on recruit difficulty and never suffer

[@thegoldensorcerer9866]

Not always. There are plenty of upsides to it, but attractive people can be just as prone to depression as anyone else. Even ugly people can sometimes lead better and more fulfilled lives than certain attractive people

[@FormerPessitheRobberfan]

These unicorn ugly people living fulfilling lives are just that. Unicorns.

[@aleio8233]

That's why he is talking about trends.

[@Randorandom232]

@@aleio8233 ikr. Does this person not understand statistics?

[@sherr0ne.sh1r04]

hey quoves please do a video about the negative effects of atractiveness in stem jobs and how it does more harm than good

[@frankie.lee.]

such as??

[@NuurKal]

Such as??

[@Randze]

​@@frankie.lee.jealousy

[@Tsathogguah]

Your conclusion: let's all just be attractive!

[@SurfbyShootin]

Beauty makes easier the individual's pursuit if the biological imperative of reproduction, it is immune to social constructs like political regime changes and revolutions. Its the most stable asset in human history.

[@horsem.d.7979]

Eh, superior intelligence beats it out. And unlike beauty, there is little you can do to change that.

[@333angeleyes]

Hi Qoves Studio something I've always wondered is if women know the power of beauty and know men are attracted to beauty why do they never mention it when giving other women dating advice on how to attract men? I've seen so called dating experts bend over backwards to insure not to mention anything about beauty nor advising them to increase their own physical appearance when telling women "what attracts a man!" The reason I ask is because of the countless women here in America that honestly seem to believe that if their academic achievements and their high position job titles is a equivalent substitute for investing in their own physical beauty. I just genuinely don't know if they truly are confused about why a highly successful and attractive 36 year old man would choose to date a beautiful 32 year old Starbucks barista with a sexy body that only finished high school over a 38 year old average looking woman that owns her own company with a PhD but, she is slightly overweight. Are they just pretending to be shocked and confused that beauty is so important in dating? Do they really believe that (for women) financial achievements is just as alluring to men as physical beauty?

[@1commonplace519]

At least, they're financially secure and have their intelligence to be proud of. If that doesn't allure men so be it. Don't want women to hold themselves back just to land a man. And plenty of men aren't as vapid in my limited experience.

[@renachiiuwu6463]

It’s because they know that physical attractiveness is important in dating and expanding options over all. it’s actually the men that don’t acknowledge how their physical attractiveness can affect their dating options. Women don’t put effort into their appearance to simply “attract men” because attracting them isn’t hard but to attract men who r above average or out of their league either in look’s or 💸. That’s why the 80/20 rule exist, and why women have the upper hand in the dating market.

[@333angeleyes]

@1commonplace519 Ouch! Or at least I would say that if you didn't completely miss my point. The question was simply why women try to use academic and / or financial status as an equivalent to beauty when trying to attract men. I know you were trying to put me in my place with your comment, so okay, then why do countless studies show that men prioritize beauty? Are all those researchers also vapid? Is the data manipulated to make men vapid?

[@333angeleyes]

@renachiiuwu6463 I actually agree with you about men not putting enough effort in their physical appearance; most just try to use money and status as a substitute. However, I say I don't understand how your comment answered my question. Does the highly financially successful but average looking woman really think she is on the same level or above the hot looking but average income woman in terms of competing for a highly desirable man?

[@mattmatical2235]

A lot of guys are ok with average women with good personalities. Some are vain like you’ve mentioned, but not as many as you’d think. It’s hard to have a real relationship with a very attractive woman who you have nothing in common with

[@edwardtimothy3581]

Hi QOVES can u talk about Korean Actors Like Gong Yoo also from squid game, or Cha Eunwoo from Astro? Or Hwang Hyunjin from Stray Kidz? I've never seen u talking about east asian male before

[@bjewel3751]

yes yes yes. When i wear no makeup or go out "bare faced" i get treated horribly or made comments about my looks. At one stage was told to put make up on. When i do a full face and dress up, strangers, cashiers, people etc treat me a lot better

[@JasonS-eo7sh]

Duh. When I graduated college I worked a full time corporate job but took a second job as a bouncer/security at the world famous Troubadour in West Hollywood. The owner's daughter who managed the club directed the head security guy to put me at the front door, the most coveted position over all the other guys because she said I "was hot and would attract females walking by." I'm tall (6' 6") dark and handsome. In my 20s I managed to date an Olympic figure skater, a sitcom actress and an actress from the American Pie movies who has gone on to 5 Emmy nominations and I was and am a complete nobody. All three of those women approached me, the American Pie actress gave me her phone number when I was at a restaurant on a date with another girl. I'm 44 now and still get looks from women half my age.

[@sfrealestatedealmaker6001]

Same here. I get more attention in my older age than I ever did in my 20’s. Of course I worked on myself all these years.

[@UraniumMilk]

And now you spend your time posting KZbin comments with the rest of us losers so ultimately your good looks got you nowhere. 🙂

[@stevetheiii477]

whats the name of the american pie actress?

[@thegoldensorcerer9866]

Um you sure you’re not just making this up?

[@FormerPessitheRobberfan]

@@thegoldensorcerer9866 is it that unbelievable?

[@cckdex]

i’m hot and i feel terrible…

[@Joshboy324]

You should do a video on hair color, which is more attractive.

[@KappaClaus]

I have always been attractive, heard it since I was a child and I have never not gotten a job when I've been at an interview

[@amarug]

It is interesting to me how "looks" are so important but the way things are weighted can be surprising. I can say from experience, I grew up with missing limb but other than that, I exhibit most "favourable" features, from a nice slender and well proportioned tall frame (6ft3 / 190 cm) to nice facial features, strong blue eyes, masculine jawline, deep voice, perfect white teeth etc. And despite having a "glaring physical fault", it has always been easier for me to find dates (now married for 13 years) than it was for many of my "normal" friends. An ex once even said she was superficial and she would never have gone on a date with me if I didn't have that face.

[@vickiberg9952]

Other not positive things are constantly being harassed and stalked and jealousy. It can sometimes be very lonely and feel very superficial.

[@sooyuaa__4005]

This video just called me ugly

[@SBImNotWritingMyNameHere]

L

[@Sudeep.Manerkar]

As u are😂😂

[@samuele1090]

What are the disadvantages to being too attractive ?

[@kakaibakaonlol3163]

none

[@samuele1090]

@@kakaibakaonlol3163 envy ?

[@ShutupandListen]

None because the only areas where attractive people do well in are jobs like restaurants, bars, waitresses, grocery store clerks…..

[@Dylanfrias24]

None. Except maybe jealousy which is irrelevant.

[@samuele1090]

@@Dylanfrias24 i know some ppl that’s says models are ugly ,o they criticizes other very good looking ppl why they do?

[@TruthOverFacts1]

Well yes. Good looking people put in time and effort into their appearance so they deserve it

[@heartw0r3]

I FOLLOW THE GIRL AT 6:28 she so gorgeous!!💗

[@ashleyashley9008]

I was extremely fit for a couple of years, and I would say it brought me benefits in certain ways- But as somebody that is nerdy and introverted the male attention was very uncomfortable. And having an extra barrier with new women where they would see me as being a bimbo or something in my classes was very uncomfortable. It's nice to not stand out so much when you're average- now that I'm more normal in my athleticism, I do feel like I'm more casually treated with disrespect. My managers forget things I've said, and don't take me as seriously. To say that it's overall better to be attractive I think is true, but not enough to be a cure-all. I was definitely less happy when I was that hot. All aspects of your life are going to be a part of the complex image that is your happiness and attractiveness is a small part that barely relates to your actual mental health. It's good to take care of yourself but this feels too much like plastic surgeon propaganda.

[@HughLeFitness]

TLDR: Yes, attractive people have an easier life.

[@littlelight4986]

I used to perceive myself as ugly. yet, Sometimes I get told by strangers I’m pretty. Whenever I say I look bad or something I get the reaction “yeah yeah you know you’re not”. Yet, I have trouble making friends. I had times when I got rejected from the group of friends because one girl was jealous and talked sh!t about me. Men behave very strangely around me many times. And some of them don’t treat me seriously at all. At the same time I have pretty strong personality and have 0 trouble confronting people. So either I’m that ugly or that pretty lol. Still can’t figure

[@Ariel-my7lh]

I have the exact same problem and when i asked my friend about it she said that it was because i look arrogant and cold. If you're pretty but look unapproachable people will still hate you. Speaking from experience.

[@anthonyle1838]

​@@Ariel-my7lhthat means you have to strategize more but your niche is very strong if you can use it

[@Zoroastrian88]

I’d say yes they do ! but depending on situation however in dating like being chosen for a marriage or serious relationship (most) men tend to choose the less attractive woman, (the average looking one) than the attractive one. And unfortunately a lot of women do see other attractive women as competition. But in both cases I’d say they act like this because of the lack of confidence. If a man has enough confidence he chooses an attractive woman as well and if a confident woman sees another attractive woman she won’t see her as competition..💁‍♀️

[@POCKBA]

Yes. I had an easy life when i was attractive after i got serious ill and look like a zombie nobody want to be there for me our help me. Before when i was ill but not so bad i lost my apparance people was there for me and would do anything to help. Even that I am not gay i like to be around good looking women and often seem as they are more intressting.

[@marcosjuan3142]

Of course they have.

[@stalkygurl1522]

I have known that the answer is YES since I was 5 yo. I was an obese girl with rabbit teeth. Other children tried to keep distance as much as possible, were making fun of me and were threatening me (5/6 yo kids!!!). Adults (except my mom) didn't care.

[@gogogo26993]

You forgot that pretty girls are 10 times more targeted for Sa and trafficking

[@kingchuks04]

Is this even supposed to be a question? Of course good looking people have it easier in life. Lmao.

[@IsaiahHollins]

Yes I experienced this from being a fat kid I was ignored by women but being in the gym for 5 years 😅 women approach, initiate conversations, cat call it’s crazy

[@AGalos-xn9js]

Yeah it is Great when you are pretty and have problems with The Job or with being treated by Men not seriously or even with being false liked by friends or when your partner feels constantly threat in his subconsious.........

[@TheOutlierToday]

YES.

[@sierratree93]

When I was trying to hire someone to fill a receptionist position at work, my boss didn't want me to hire either of the two most qualified applicants because they were too "homely".

[@Broken-xp1lh]

😂 that's funny and sad

[@tresjolieme81]

I think it comes down to personality and helping others an unattractive person wouldnt get noticed for being physically unattractive if they are social and kind. I am an attractive woman but the attention makes me uncomfortable so I avoid human interaction which would make me unattractive.

[@adamg6711]

"Money doesn't matter" - some rich person

[@FormerPessitheRobberfan]

@@adamg6711 it's so fucking annoying isn't it?

[@reve605]

“Looks don't play role in your life, just be kind and social unattractive people” - Attractive Woman.

[@noemidemelo8959]

If you're ugly and help others they just use you for their advantage but you're still uncared for and bullied. I've got a bit of experience in this subject.

[@PRATEEKPRATEEK-n4m]

Can you do a face analysis of Sidharth Malhotra?

[@charityhopper1430]

Incorrect.! I worked as a cashier at the #1 strip club in Vegas. Some of ladies struggling to pay their house fees were astoundingly beautiful. One of the top earners was a little older with a flat butt 😂 85% is personality.