"Wen you are honest,your intuition is very sensitive to insincererity ",,,so true
@lyneadetyfitness11 ай бұрын
This 💯
@Nyakato-v3t11 ай бұрын
A sincere man will close the tabs he has opened after finding the one 😊and if he keeps searching after getting you just know he's a no way go zone 😁. Thank you sir❤️
@benjaminzuluglobal11 ай бұрын
Good one!
@hadijakalyegira410710 ай бұрын
“Intuition is your smoke alarm”
@mabelnansubuga455511 ай бұрын
6yrs ago I went through this reality checked in after I said yes, meynnnn the guy had issues and when I asked that we postpone the wedding till we were both ready for marriage, he refused. I just opted out! He was furious but I knew I was safe. Thanks Benjamin always 🙏🏽
@FloKWellnessHub11 ай бұрын
This was a very smart move and mature of you.
@NabukwangwaKisaka10 ай бұрын
Weakness attracts weakness and strength attracts strength, change your vibration to positive and you will attract a peaceful person
@majoriebasiima645Ай бұрын
@@NabukwangwaKisakaAlso broken people attract broken people hence misery
@MsEvelyne4ever11 ай бұрын
Toxic relationships are not only Love relationships. Narc's also prey on even friendships and work...colleagues especially when they are in a senior position.
@AzaniaMohlala2 ай бұрын
It's better to have broken engagements than broken marriage thanks Lilly❤
@ataisisampson77029 ай бұрын
Compare a man with himself......hmmmm, where was he 3 years ago. Don't marry a stagnated person. Serious Word!
@patiencemtisi906110 ай бұрын
If you do not want pain, follow the process. PROCESS, is your friend
@norahkakai822211 ай бұрын
Cheiiiiii this has saved me a whole lot... I don't want to end up being the man because of a stagnated individual ❤
@deborahonabanjo782211 ай бұрын
Benjamin Zulu is a bundle of wisdom!! Kai!! The last point got me. Wow! One truly has to be very observant before saying I do. Must people overlook a man with drive.
@ruthwanzala677811 ай бұрын
Thanks Benjamin. I am always learning daily from you. This is so encouraging.
@benjaminzuluglobal11 ай бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@avrellfrancis678511 ай бұрын
So true Mr Benjamin, that is why l am waiting and looking to go the right part. Some time you are just afraid to trust a man but your wisdom is teaching us alot.
@sherules50059 ай бұрын
Beware of church people too, do due diligence and follow your intuition. Some are looking for anchors ⚓
@nkelematloga790011 ай бұрын
Follow your heart and Carry your brain with you
@ChristineMageto-y1i11 ай бұрын
Just reminded me some guy could always say he hate me for no reason only to realize he never owns up his mistake and he wonders how I do it everytime he tries to pin me down
@peninahmwende36811 ай бұрын
Very very enlightening Keep your intuition alive is your friend Keep the marriage package sealed.
@PamelahMagutt11 ай бұрын
Being with pretender lier man ni gharama but listening to banjamin zulu is like bringing light into darkness
@AuraMarie11 ай бұрын
Lily is so pretty and well spoken. Well done 🎉
@verydark..198810 ай бұрын
Nothing to offer, nothing to loose
@guidinglightorphansinc.525510 ай бұрын
You just described my circumstances, all of it 😢
@NabukwangwaKisaka10 ай бұрын
I call them demonised human beings, broken people break others.
@AdelinaTraseas-r1d10 ай бұрын
This man is speaking senses ,be blessed 🙏
@PhaniceKhalayi-v6j11 ай бұрын
This man has got wisdom wuee
@annettemunyiotieno667211 ай бұрын
He also does a lot of reading.
@AuraMarie11 ай бұрын
Thank you both for this wonderful episode. So much to learn 🙏
@hadijakalyegira410710 ай бұрын
“You don’t buy a car long distance” 😮
@relatable-withlucyk108511 ай бұрын
Repair begins at awareness
@mosesotieno1811 ай бұрын
Bz thanks the distance between want and do it has enlightened me
@suezanna269010 ай бұрын
Ijust blocked one today a 45 years divorcee asking me to send him photis when itold him im above that he got mad at me 😂😂😂😂
@veroh5510 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@cleovernebaptiste274711 ай бұрын
Ive learnt here today on point with every word👏👏👏
@terezasaniasammy30211 ай бұрын
Benjamin God bless you sir!
@emilymutwiri936211 ай бұрын
Aiyaiiii just learned that one needs to be cautious when one comes saying they know what they want... Don't want to waste time... When the deal is too good....
@binzarililian428911 ай бұрын
I fell for this😢
@newlymade.877411 ай бұрын
@@binzarililian4289 me too😢 wish to know u more atleast we will understand each other ju people hardly understand such situations of living with narcissist who started as an angel in a hurry to marry
@prudenceabongo944710 ай бұрын
I almost fell for this thank God I didn't 😢
@sheerow37110 ай бұрын
Zulu oozing wisdom, God bless you sir
@BellaarleteIshimwe11 ай бұрын
They can not be consistent 🤝
@lucywamocho621411 ай бұрын
Thanks Benjamin,on point
@margret268811 ай бұрын
I once told a guy before i date him we build the relationship based on friendship and getting to know each other(courtship),,,he said we wont be friends either and that cant happen coz hizo ni vitu za kitambo inshort he wanted the relationship to just go with the flow😂😂,,its when i realized the guy was a narcissist ,,only wanted benefits quickly without following the processs to build the relationship 😂😢😢😢😢
@newlymade.877411 ай бұрын
Thats what lend me to this mess that am in now.. i regret every day for not following my heart warning me.
@abigail341410 ай бұрын
Exactly
@melmel701110 ай бұрын
@@newlymade.8774im sorry hey
@suezanna269010 ай бұрын
@@newlymade.8774me too 😢
@suezanna269010 ай бұрын
I just blocked one today I told him the same that we should know each other fast at least for 6months he told me that I'm giving him conditions ilblocked his ass 😂😂😂😂
@belsoi979911 ай бұрын
This is very true, I love this, keep your intuition a live
@BabraBinamo10 ай бұрын
Good advice but too much laugh can't understand the content..
@nancylucyy11 ай бұрын
The accuracy of this video is tops
@thevoicewanza_002810 ай бұрын
Wueh,"dating lasting longer than marriage.."😂😢
@binzarililian428911 ай бұрын
I wish I could listen to this before settling 😢
@faith2547111 ай бұрын
It is never to take a U-turn if you feel like all isn't well
@newlymade.877411 ай бұрын
@@faith25471i nid this too
@dinahkawira61372 ай бұрын
Thank you sir for this great insight.very inspiring
@CateWisdom-df8wl6 ай бұрын
the information about the narc is true..... I when through that last year...
@marydanofficial11 ай бұрын
Weah earth is hard sir😁we didn’t know oh
@kikiannette-11 ай бұрын
So much wisdom
@lisagracious217211 ай бұрын
I got these at the right time,thank you sir i will never ignore your wise words
@annettemunyiotieno667211 ай бұрын
A "salvage vehicle!"
@princesskinuthia878811 ай бұрын
Preach Zulu
@albright...540011 ай бұрын
Thank you sir.
@mercymimi402211 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂he's 27 and was married for 5 years with two children.
@kezzkezz887 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂,b careful or either you will b the next.
@ireneakinyi974110 ай бұрын
Thank you
@charleswachira738611 ай бұрын
May you live long Benjamin Zulu
@graceanguche640911 ай бұрын
Hello Benjamin am a Kenyan bt am in Bahrain but u would like to get that book how will it reach to me pliss🙏
@benjaminzuluglobal11 ай бұрын
www.benjaminzuluglobal.com
@Impossibly_gorgeous11 ай бұрын
1k is not 8 dollars love. It's about 15.
@priscaooko462611 ай бұрын
aai wewe unaongelea .. in 1990.. 8 dollars is 1200
@JM.Winner11 ай бұрын
Wisdom. Can I get soft copy of the books please?
@nkelematloga790011 ай бұрын
That makes the two of us
@benjaminzuluglobal11 ай бұрын
Yes, visit www.benjaminzuluglobal.com
@Jullykeya11 ай бұрын
HOW CAN I GET THAT BOOK PLEASE
@benjaminzuluglobal11 ай бұрын
www.benjaminzuluglobal.com
@magdalinekinyanjui40411 ай бұрын
👌💫
@nky822111 ай бұрын
Omg 😢
@tropicalcreatives25411 ай бұрын
I love you Lilly 🥰🥰
@rosemarymacharia722511 ай бұрын
Benjamin my piriton
@juliettonui768811 ай бұрын
Wow....This was so timely. Thank you Benjamin for the gems.