DO NOT MARRY Into these Families!!!(What to do if you already have)

[@Dailycatholicprayers]

The woman that called off her wedding because the mother in law moved in , people saw her as stupid. She made the best decision

[@chiforjesus4396]

Thanks very much Neze you actually nailed it as usual 👍. It's not advisable to get married into a family where your husband is the only person doing well financially. A situation where everyone of his siblings, parents and extended family members depend on him for everything. The woman will be seen as an enemy anytime the man refuses to help.

[@melaninqueen5945]

The truth in this. I am talking from experience.

[@chizynweze4165]

My cousin is suffering from this. Horrible experience. Shm

[@gracemartha-12]

Amen

[@terence9512]

I divorced my hubby for that

[@jennywinny4066]

Exactly

[@ijeomaokonji]

I think you've said it all Nneze. A family that is pompous, proud, looks down on people and lacks knowledge of humanity should be avoided also.

[@MRSROBINC231]

I agree with EVERYTHING you said! I have seen All the examples narrated in this video too! Another family you should not marry into is a family with a history of poverty, premature death, & history of alcohol & substance abuse.

[@nwekeifeomachisom1778]

If you're single. Please please and please take this advice seriously.

[@afolukemibeautyandbrains7129]

Honestly.. every single should watch this

[@juliaade-williams975]

Toxic upbringing is NOT ONLY from single home. Upbringing habits is derived from PARENT/PARENTS VALUES; and also how children REACT to what they see in their home. For example a child; whose parent had PROBLEMATIC inlaws may find it very difficult to be close to her/his spouse family to avoid trouble. Or a very high probability of a child from an abusive home becoming abusive too.

[@nkechijoseph4399]

yeah, you mentioned almost all but this Last kind of family not to get married into is a polygamous family, Full of competition and poisonous as well

[@dorisagoh]

I can relate to this

[@hannahasaolu3375]

Love the outfit. If I were caution my children on marriage. It will be to avoid an abusive and drug substance family.

[@bettysolomon910]

Woman God has raised you for a time like this May he continue to give you wisdom

[@Ifudiyatales]

I wish I heard this before marriage…Never marry a man that is still leaving with his parents oooo better to wait till he moves out than move in hoping to leave after marriage…I saw hell, everyday my mother in law reminds me that the house belongs to her .

[@mcfashion9385]

Aunty Neze listing to you speak on topics like this makes me strongly believe you are that one big sister every girl wish for...I love you ❤😭. I can listen to you all day 😍

[@Nezeville]

I 💕u

[@nobleodinakachi2284]

Very nice points Neze. God bless you. Personally I wouldn't advise anyone to get married into a family with a different Faith.(Religion) with the Hope's of converting them. It will be very difficult

[@Nezeville]

Hmmmnnn 🤔 A very powerful and debatable point! 👍

[@florencefahnbulleh4142]

Another caution is getting married to a man who has been once married and have many children who dislikes u for one reason or the other. My dear it will be hell on earth.

[@chikannatubeugo1800]

I got married and got divorced without even visiting my husband’s village for once! He never allowed it for reasons I never knew. Am sure Y’all can fill in d blanks. #Single&VeryHappy

[@sandraezejianyaele8288]

Neze my darling, you are very right; entitlement mentality is really breaking marriages. If it's possible to stay far away from toxic in_laws marriages will be better for it. A lot of times people fall in love without paying attention to the relationship that is why it is said that love is blind but marriage is the eye opener. Any single person that will listen to these your timely advice should add knowledge, understanding and wisdom when making decisions on who to and families to get married into.

[@anneogwu3912]

Awww, Neze...I'm watching this a year late but all your points are still valid. I got into an argument with my fiance who is in Nigeria, and his mother and sister began to abuse me verbally; I was attacked with all manner of vile messages. I'm seriously rethinking the marriage, I live in America and my last hubby who I also brought here married me just for the green card. I'm glad I came across this video, keep doing what u do...love u Nezeville!! Thank you

[@nicelove4274]

Please don't go into that marriage. For them to have the audacity to abuse u verbally.. Is a red flag

[@audreyndlovu9225]

It is good to stay single 😅😅, this video should go viral Neze eeeeyyyyyy. Single people , this is not a joke..the thing is some inlaws pretend before you get married..they play drama nice nice then when you get married you now see their true colors..Some of us are on the mountain as we speak 😅🤣😅😅, fighting...ayyyyyyyyyýyy

[@Sewing_Stationz]

The worst family to get married to is that of narcissistic

[@paulinekamau9633]

Neze is such a vibe. Am binge watching these videos from Miami USA 🇺🇸

[@IjeomaGloriaAnopueme]

Could not take my eyes off your hair, so beautiful... Some in laws change oh while some show their character from the beginning. You made very valid points honestly

[@komolafekrupa1315]

I just love listening to you all day. My office people are always like you and this woman, and trust me, I put it on speaker, I do not listen to you plugged, at all - eventually, I see my colleagues interested and silence in the room. One admitted today that this woman is a great narrator. Neze you have a great narrative skill, it is always like you are playing a video of the stories and I understand it well. Great skill! Welldone!

[@ngozidibia7278]

You said it all. This is good advice for anyone planning to get married to avoid unnecessary sadness.

[@afolukemibeautyandbrains7129]

Neze always spilling too much sense! Pls share if you feel this video will help a lot of people.

[@ogomsseries]

Its not easy changing an adult seriously,my deal breaker is any family that have fought against you marrying their son is a NO NO for me cos even you scale through there is another coup waiting for you,you won't know. You have really shared enough knowledge in this video and I really enjoyed it. Thanks for sharing.

[@TriniRoyQuiReyes]

God bless you richly ✨❤️

[@TriniRoyQuiReyes]

You made my point

[@User-gj3rk]

My inlaws were like that be4...but GOD has turned the table around now..what matters is ..if the man loves u...fears GOD...and knows what marriage is biblically.

[@favordestiny5711]

Barrister wisdom Neze always on points 👉

[@lifeimprovementcic2292]

Good one Neze, you are absolutely right. As we are already married, the advice I will give my children for marriage will definitely check all the pros and cons as you said and be sure u are okay and prepared. For me, the only deal breaker will be if they have a genuine passion and love for God or not., I mean that intimacy with the Holy Spirit. Because with God all things are possible. And Holy Spirit will teach them all things.

[@preciousbites3196]

Neze I love youuuuuuu I am married and to be sincere with you, I know any of this can happen anywhere but I found peace with my Dutch partner and his family. They are very lovely. I want my children to grow up and love each other just like my partner and his family. Love live here 💕. I run 🏃‍♀️. I no get that power at all. I am sharing this. All ladies need to this.much love Neze baby

[@oluwatoyinadedotun266]

I was just screaming YES Yes YES the whole time

[@ucfrancess7384]

Ada, I agree with your points but the truth is that some inlaws are nice until tested. I am a proof of that. I just drew back and the relationship is now casual unlike the first 2 years of marriage when everything was chummy chummy

[@Blessing538]

Same situation dear I was so close to my Ml than my own my mom until hubby bought me a car well I totally became the witch accused of all sorts of things

[@glorianuvie]

Story of my life

[@ucheanagor5720]

Am so sorry dear. Hold on to God he will never abandon you.

[@ugosimba2816]

Me too

[@comfortisoconsultant5562]

I was in one like that. They liked me as long as my hands were Liberal

[@Nezeville]

SHARE if u liked it.. What are your own marriage deal breakers when it cones to family?👇👇

[@uche6782]

Mine is family with a history of domestic violence.. that behavior is easily learned.its a no no for me. Thanks Neze for sharing

[@uchennaogbonnaya7527]

Families dat are diabolic

[@arinola8851]

Tribalistic Families - Especially in this day and age when people fall in love outside their tribe.

[@gladobodooma8744]

Families that don't know their boundaries and think the wife should be at their beck n call all the time.

[@Larvibes]

I completely agree to all you said Peperempe

[@Dailycatholicprayers]

For me , you covered my deal breakers. Funny enough even with all my avoidance, I got into a family with a bad mother figure who asides being diabolical, hated me for obvious reasons- light and darkness My battles started rather too early in the Union , nearly cost my life and the marriage. This is our 5th year, everyone is getting to know who she really is and have all severed ties with her. I have a breath of fresh air

[@djrickj8197]

Quality woman.. Quality Content Quality channel

[@hansononwubiko2298]

Be it a man or woman, I would say do not marry into a family where you are perceived as a poverty liberator. It might really choke you!

[@jessicarice5974]

I love listening to her she get sense!! Keep it up dear!! Always looking beautiful

[@babalwaseti3464]

My sister sooo tru i separated from my 10yr marriage bcus of my husband who was controled by her sister very weak towards her but me strong and abusive,my prayer to God to bless me one day with a God fearing man with a backbone and loving family 🙏🏾

[@doulasworld6864]

Haitian dating an igbo guy. Thank you Neze I'm taking notes.

[@sherwade2297]

PLEASE take note

[@afolukemibeautyandbrains7129]

My Peperempe, i just love you. Thank you for all the knowledge you imbibe in us free of charge. God bless you. You are a blessing

[@ngsimple7]

Naz, you have spoken well. Marriage isn't a child play. So, looks before you leap.

[@everbrightrachel]

Nne e, I also followed Summer's story early this year and see e, love is not enough in most cases. May God open our minds eyes, wisdom they say is profitable to direct...

[@judithodinaka4028]

SHARE! SHARE!! SHARE this video! Damn.idi too much Neze i duff heart for you. Us against the world na for oyibo oo 🤣. If you love yourself , your peace and sanity abeg marry where you are accepted.E get why!

[@anulikaononye]

I remember the time someone told me the reason why he has been delaying taking me to meet his parents even after meeting my family was his mom, if we could pray about it, I was like "there is no need". She doesn't like Igbo people, already confirmed my question of "if I made the right decision accepting this guy from a different tribe"?. We ended that relationship peacefully that day. No need to pray God change her abeg. 😂

[@Necky.N]

My peperempe,i am in love with that your wig oh!

[@launakgarosab5058]

This video needs to be shared with the upcoming bride's and groom's because it is so so so useful, if most of us had known this before getting married this would have been better and beautiful in our homes. Thank you so much Madam Neze😘🙏🌹, this is absolutely true 👌👏👏

[@gistwithtoryteller247]

Neze be spitting fire and brimstone that makes excess brain. These issues you addressed are over important but sadly people avoid talking about it. I wish every single person should watch this. I've shared this biko, it's not to be listened to alone. Well done, Neze Nwa!👍

[@ohuipriscilla128]

This your wig and makeup is the best so far👌you look very stunning👍💕✌️

[@sweetvibes8255]

Neze you looked absolutely gorgeous in that dress or top, your hair and makeup was popping. He that has ears, let him hear what Neze has said. Thank you

[@selix133]

Woman of wisdom, thumbs up Barr Neze

[@MamaEgwuejiChannel]

You have spoken well Neze. That's why it's good to ask and know the history of the family in which you are going to be with forever before going in.

[@TriniRoyQuiReyes]

You are so Blessed my sister. I know someone whose marriage you just explained , and its a pity . It's only God 's intervention that can save one. The number one hmmmn sis mixed with the number two oo, and three with bags and baggage and entitlement, where boundaries are not set or boundaries change once you turn your back , yesoo getting married to someone Who has inherited bad behavourial attributes as a result of lack of good upbringing sis no amount of love can save that marriage only God. Well God knows that I as a person would never wish anyone to stay in a marriage where there is all these that you mentioned let alone being there myself. Leg hitting the head like you said , Bolt !!! nne like you rightly said it's 440. And prayer oo Thank you for sharing 👍

[@ndzelenbertilletv]

Facts and very true. Never easy changing an adult

[@gladobodooma8744]

Neze you are a blessing to your generation. Your wisdom and how you analyse issues is just out of this world.i was just laughing uncontrollably when you said you don't have power for mountain oo🤣

[@nellyscorner]

On point!!

[@chinyereokoye5320]

Nezepeperempe; the way you hype yourself have so much endeared you to me. Nne keep up the good work and have fun while it lasts. Weldone our dear story teller extraordinaire😂😂😂😂😂

[@mamaandkids]

Peaceful, God fearing,Well-meaning and thinking families, loving, where both parents are friends and couple, and a lot more is an ideal family to be part of. Thanks Neze for this one.

[@gladobodooma8744]

I have shared this to people who will benefit from it.wisdom packed indeed

[@blessingagape7657]

Nee Ville you nailed it well as usual. Beauty, elegance & brain💋💋💋💋❤️❤️❤️❤️. You are too much sis. God took an extra time to create you and you are greatly blessed

[@valentinenkem9193]

Well said as usual. Sometimes you do not understand some of these inlaws untill later far down the road. So.e of the inlaws believe the woman caming to the family is a laborer, who is there to make money for them, will use your money without your knowledge and concern.

[@irenejohnson53]

Social media nar war oh! Good topic today. Young women need to pray for Spirit of discernment from God and ask for spiritual direction before saying yes to any man because once you are in, you are trapped and if not careful run the risk of even losing your life.

[@afolukemibeautyandbrains7129]

Very well said

[@renoumalaika4325]

This woman really get wisdom, thank You Barrister

[@She_got_a_word]

Your smile sis😍

[@adlenaijomah3646]

I'm Blessed that my husband's mother only comes to the U.S. once every 6 years, she stays too long when she comes though, 6 months is too long.

[@real_liliestv2386]

neze nwa, love this, its a must share. and i love your wig!

[@judithodinaka4028]

Much love and respect for you

[@arinola8851]

Awesome video as always, informative and thought provoking and definitely one for the books. Love these type of videos. You look great in the wig, it accents the shape of your face.

[@blessedugo8755]

You are a delight to watch Neze

[@GennasHome]

Wow Very interesting topic 😳 Why should the man insult the brothers wife No respect for the wife or husband You don’t have any right to interfere into a marriage u don’t know how it happened from the scratch

[@nokszoom5890]

I hope this reaches those with ears hears.

[@marymartins4839]

Barrister Neze, I love your dress

[@gertrudemogoli1710]

You said it all dear👏👏👌👌♥️

[@uche6782]

You have said it all.. nothing to add or substract

[@joyfulspacetv4781]

My dear sister l don't no how you got all this intelligency l thank God for you and I ❤

[@elizabetheffiong7067]

Yes ooo, l love the ending, he said next time call me for business, business, not cork and bulls story

[@preciousspot]

Very important points made.

[@Abigailkenude]

Mama,I love u and I appreciate what u do. Thanks

[@marionwilliams3003]

Well spoken Sis,I love listening to your channel very interesting and very inspiring to learn from. Thumbs up for you. More grace

[@MissPrisyBaby]

NEZE And WISDOM 🤝

[@quinent6578]

Love you Neze

[@aminatatheresalahai-ed1iq]

You are on the right track, All the point are so meaniful

[@nanaamapay9632]

I have never thought of this topic before , but you have really thought me to look into the family too . Thanks big sis 😘

[@Chynma]

@summer Aku, she's a strong lady. Thanks Neze for airing your own point of view on this.

[@Tee_Nosike]

A family with a different religion from you....that's one big headache o

[@oloridestiny3251]

Thank you for this

[@NileGoddess]

Single parent families should never be ostracized.So many Children brought in two parents home have the worst behaviours too.We Africans from two parents families even Nigerians come from cultures where parents shout at children and a lot of anger issues.It’s better to be single and healthy.

[@TeewaiVlogs]

Hmmm...very well said 💯❣️ great share sis

[@elle5680]

Amen Amen 🙏 🙌 😂😂😂 Thank you, Sister Neze 😂😂😂

[@AmarachiOmah0611]

You said it all, I really like the video . Let me share to people.

[@jjmkitchentv4397]

Amazing topic 👏 👌 🙌

[@noziphonomattermangena1226]

Yeee today l was the early bird tooo , l love your hair

[@merryozonuwe1705]

Ma'am you're too muchhh, you got me.

[@Larvibes]

Like the whole ensemble classy gorgeous woman

[@marthachilekwa1114]

I wish I knew this before marriage

[@Dailycatholicprayers]

Family loyalty means a lot to me

[@bennel6478]

You look really georgous please where did you buy your hair from

[@Itstrulytiffany]

My husbands family was hellbent on creating strife and hating me. Always shade and verbal attacks on my character from day one. I’m no longer willing to be bullied by them just to be fake tolerated. They need to stay out of our marriage.

[@Jeanny529]

Neze Pemperepe this your look of today it is so distracting! This hair is 🔥🔥🔥🔥♥️💖 Ok let me follow the story now🥰😍

[@ruu200.]

😂😂😂 chaiii no time to enter mountain . God help me before I am found by the one because am already exhausted of mountains i dont want to enter mountain too after marriage 🙏🏾

[@asmauhalidu1167]

Early gang 💃

[@marthachilekwa1114]

I love you Neze,from zambia

[@vanessanneoma5163]

Neze peperempe always slaying😍😍😍😍

[@LindaTinahTV]

If you are not leaving, keep your s**t behind closed doors. Periodt.