"Do NOT Question My Gender Identity!"

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[@marcusdib]

Do you know any "non binary" people?

[@ashfrompallet1151]

Nobody does

[@dynamitesparkles1457]

Yes. One got mad at me tho one time because I say looking androgynous would work in their favor instead expecting strangers to know their pronouns. I still support non-binary ppl but I don't understand expecting strangers to know you go by they/them pronouns when you look like a man or a woman.

[@SupportMensMentalHealth]

Nope, nor do I want to. As an adult I no longer believe in things that aren't real. Love your videos Marcus, your bitchiness is phenomenal

[@TheMessianicMilitant]

@@dynamitesparkles1457Why Support Them

[@-12Sided]

Yup. Used to be romantically interested in a girl that was super freaking cute. We got separated and 2 years later she started claiming she is now “non binary”, changed her name, got piercings and cut her hair super short. I was devastated that she bought into this notion that there is some “third gender” when it reality it is just a coping mechanism to deal with trauma/bad experiences being a boy or girl. She didn’t seem all too happy before but seemed even worse after. So clearly it didn’t help. In the end, I’m sad she is ruining her own life for no reason but I’m glad I have my shit straight and gave her plenty of advice she will eventually learn was valuable.

[@P4trickSt4rmie]

I miss the 2000s when no one wanted to be labeled

[@MarrowOfTheBone]

Seriously, I feel like we were on the road to something really great, the 'your gender doesn't matter, do whatever you want' mindset, but then those kids took over, made a fucking u turn and crashed the car into a pile of shit and sexism.

[@ReynelleGreaves]

Yes we were only dealing with adhd, impulse control, autism, riitalin, bullying & behavioral issues & labels ..this is how they grew🙄😢😭💔💔

[@Mac-kf8nl]

I miss the 1980s when the most offensive thing was massive shoulder pads!

[@haunted_lunchbox]

Yes, I remember we all said that we didn't need labels. We were just ourselves. I miss that

[@MarrowOfTheBone]

@@IShoePets I think there's a difference between wanting to find a group of people who share your interests in music and style and making up hundreds of genders because you think you're too cool and complex to be a girl. You're right of course, but one of those things is harmful and the other is not.

[@Wallflowerz3356]

As Blaire White said, one of the most humbling things you come to realize as an adult is that people don’t really think about you as much… apparently some adults still need to learn this.

[@fadalerabrasool3563]

that's the way the real world is. nobody Really cares about how you want to come off as unless if you're going about it in a very narcissitic childish way of course they're going to dislike you

[@AutumnAprodithe]

The most dehumanizing thing is call dudes in a drag real women and it entitled then to invade our space.

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

We'll just ignore how problematic Blaire White has been.

[@AutumnAprodithe]

@@blobbertmcblob4888 He is kissing arse now but before that he was a misogynist in a wig like most of them are. He either matured or realized his petty child like behavior doesn't get him anywhere so he changed his behavior.

[@PrisonHoney96]

And when you get a little bit older than that, you realize you’re also thankful that no one thinks about you as hard as you thought they all once did 😂 At least that’s how I am coming upon 30

[@owensclock]

"Non binary" seems to be the latest version of the 'I've liberated myself from reality" movement.

[@josevictorribeirolisboa7576]

Malignant narcissist.

[@InternetMouse]

Definitely feels like it at times here 👀

[@angie001]

Facts.

[@dulcilass]

Sort off "I freed my mind and it floated away."

[@mallori6610]

One question? If you liberate urself from reality do you no longer have to pay bills?! If so I think I can be nonbinary lol

[@isabellefaguy7351]

these people shame me all the time for "looking like a boy and refusing to identify as trans", they won't allow me to be a tom boy, which I've never been shamed or blamed for near as much as nowadays in 45 years of life

[@Tiabliaj1989]

Feminism teaches that anything man can do woman can too. We want men to embrace their feelings and not be afraid of having a softer side. Then we slap labels on kids after teaching them these activities are genderless, depending on what they prefer and based on their gender. It's ridiculous and hypocritical. Call them fascists. How dare they tell you what and how you should identify as? Or just start intentionally misgendering them until they get triggered enough to ask why you'd do something so horrible. Then explain. I'm so glad I'm not growing up around these kids, I can only imagine how they try to twist enjoying 'boys' activities into a desire to be a boy. I never once doubted my gender or femininity...I just didn't embrace it because as a child make-up and dress-up weren't as fun to me as riding bikes or dirt-clod wars.

[@Concerned-Nihilist]

Simple, they are crazy and you're not.

[@deecawford]

You be you. Don’t let anyone tell you who that is or what that is. Stay strong

[@carrieann1640]

I'm a former tom boy nearly twice your age. Happily had two children, and now own but one skirt which I never wear. When I was young, I wanted the agency that I perceived boys to have, and did my best to join in games. In my heart of hearts, I can't say I've changed much or regretted much. So, dear one, stay well and do as you damn well please.

[@amyshelton6716]

46yo here. I'm still a tomboy. I love dirt and mud. I fix vehicles. I wear pants and men's Carhartt tee shirts (my husband and I share them). I do wear sandals only because I hate shoes. I keep my hair short, don't wear makeup, and my single piece of jewelry is my wedding ring. I don't try to hide my female body. I've been misgendered and I don't care. I know who and what I am, and I'm comfortable with the way I am. Be the tomboy, be the outdoors type, keep playing whatever sports make you happy, keeping doing you! Everyone else will adjust or they don't have to be in your life.

[@HK23783]

Yes, my cousin. She says "Don't call me she/girl!" I was like "Our language does not even have gender pronouns, you child"

[@tgiacin435]

What language is that?

[@kaisla_onerva]

Exactly. In my language there is the same pronoun for both genders. So anyone who says that she/he is a they/them it's total bullshit. (It's always tho) but like such crazy bullshit because we dont use she and he....

[@susanweiss1439]

​@@tgiacin435Kindergarten

[@TheTrainTheoristOfficial]

​@susanweiss1439 Are you aware different Languages have different rules? Spanish, Dutch, German, ETC...

[@Maxieixam]

⁠@@TheTrainTheoristOfficialthese are bad examples tho -dutch: zij/ hij -german: sie/er -spanish: ello/ella

[@mariecherrytree]

It seems that personality traits and fashion taste is being confused with gender. Sometimes I dress like a forest witch and some days I dress like Chunk from Goonies 🤷‍♀️ still a woman either way.

[@Ilivedbih]

It honestly seems quite a bit sexist if you think about it for a second lol. "I like these things, therefore I can't be a woman!" etc.

[@Birchlead]

@@Ilivedbihoh it is. And they short circuit if you say so.

[@Tiabliaj1989]

I'd go so far as to speculate a lack of personality is why their gender/identity/race/orientation becomes their entire personality. Heaven forbid you just dislike somebody, oh no. It must be gender/identity/race/orientation based hatred, because they have nothing other layer or facet to be disliked for.

[@renaissancemom817]

Excellent!

[@scotthix2297]

So, on “Chunk” days your pronouns would be HEY/YOU/GUYS…??💋

[@salazar556]

I find it funny how they're all about no labels and yet they introduce themselves with so many labels, lol.

[@AnnSumner9348]

Growing up, I was your typical tomboy. Now, as an adult I am a mother to 5 girls and I wouldn't trade it for the world. I also work full time and love to go camping and hunting. You can be whatever kind of female or male that makes you happy, just don't expect me to call you something that doesn't exist. I really enjoy your channel as well as how truthful you are.

[@joyseegers5783]

Yes 🙌

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

Remember when you could have short hair as a girl and no one was screeching "gay" or "trans" at you? Kids born in the 90s remember.

[@SpookySammy]

I was a pure tomboy growing up and I still knew I was female, I just liked typically "boy" things as well. Now it means you must be "in the wrong body".

[@user-us1ce9cs3s]

Nowadays you will be gaslighted into thinking you're trans just because you're not feminine..

[@thatgirlsh9503]

Oh my, if this was going on back in the 2000s so many teens would be told they are trans or non binary, nobody wanted a label!!!!

[@W8-Ima-Noob]

I live in SF & gay and I can’t understand when the new trans activists tell people is not their job to teach/inform people on gender identity or what is the definition of a woman. But they tell/teach people that they were misgendered and their pronouns are they/them. so it’s ok to teach people what pronouns to use when misgendered but not ok to teach people about how many genders there are and why genders can keep changing. Make it make sense, please.

[@Wallflowerz3356]

They don’t wanna “educate others on their identity” but really think normal everyday working people care enough to spend hours of research on it… 🙄

[@Tiabliaj1989]

I always interpret "I'm not here to educate you" with "I don't have a valid argument so I'm refusing to engage"

[@jamesneese7663]

not about sense. It's about validation, power, and controlling the conversation. It's putting themselves in place of moral and ideological superiority and expecting all the peons to grovel...

[@Bonsqueesquee]

Who isn't Gay in SF 😂

[@robertmarshall2502]

​@@Tiabliaj1989 Completely agree. Same with ppl who say "Google is your friend". No it's not, it's enabling your confirmation bias. Finding a website that agrees with you doesn't make your argument sound.

[@tatertott2390]

Im a straight female....alot of people assume im a lesbian because of my vibe, i have muscles and Tall, ive been hit on alot more by women then men and it would be alot more convenient if i was gay lol.....the thing of it is? Ive never been offended by anyone assuming anything about me because I KNOW what and who i am and thats all that matters....the clothes i wear or activities i do dont have a goshdarn thing to do with my sexuality 🤦

[@OhDontMindMee]

I’m in the same boat in the sense that I’ve never been offended if someone thinks I’m gay or bi. I just say ummm no and I keep it moving. That’s all. Why are people having such a meltdown over things like this?

[@Soliloquy-gy6zf]

@@OhDontMindMee because they are ego trippers

[@jakdekayen]

That's the secret These people don't ACTUALLY know themselves and just don't realize it

[@dolphinman9896]

​​@@jakdekayen yeah lmao that's why they switch to a new "gender" every other week.

[@newcarpathia9422]

It happens to me. I'm a man with a doll collection. It is insane how many people insist that I must be non-binary because I have a doll collection. It's exhausting.

[@Soliloquy-gy6zf]

Your problem isn't that you like dolls. The problem is the need to "collect things". Why?

[@haybale287]

@@Soliloquy-gy6zf Some people have that urge. It's thought to be a biological urge; maybe even hereditary, fun fact. It also might be a sign of an obsessive malformity, which isn't something you can control. So long as someone isn't hoarding, there's nothing wrong with owning many things. I bet you own plenty of things you don't _technically_ need.

[@mistressheather]

I collect ball jointed dolls, and even though I'm not a guy, a lot of people think it's weird anyway to collect dolls as an adult. Little do they realize how much these dolls cost and a child would never hope to afford one. I just show them pictures to really freak them out, lol. The dolls are better company than most people anyway. No shame, friend, in being a collector.🎎

[@mariecherrytree]

How dare you have a hobby or personality.

[@Soliloquy-gy6zf]

@@mariecherrytree people collect money... for lack of personality!

[@HobDobson]

Back in 1930, Marlene Dietrich could wear a tailored tuxedo and no one was confused by her "gender performance" ("Blue Angel").

[@darthsilversith667]

What a dame. Great gams too.

[@jamesneese7663]

back then the issue was people still knew Marlene was Marlene. There was no sociopolitical activism behind it. There was no Marlene today, Marboro man tomorrow going on. Totally different. Performance art has always had some element of subverting expectations but it wasn't about changing society back then. Bugs Bunny was still bugs bunny by end of the cartoon. Not anymore.

[@Emilaria]

What a goddess. There were so many beautiful and strong actresses in the day. Katherine Hepburn is another example.

[@mothball5425]

And she looked ten thousand times better

[@Violetbunnyfish]

Also Katherine Hepburn. She was a straight woman, but sometimes wore men's clothes. Looked hot in them, too. But she wasn't trans, just a creative fashion icon.

[@martiantexan7632]

"How is it stunning and brave to dehumanize yourself?" Sound logic.

[@bobkaiser8782]

The septum ring. There's always a damn septum ring.

[@WalkingJellyfish]

When I was young, this ring was worn only by the coolest and most reckless people, but now it’s part of the clowns’ uniform...

[@randomperson6433]

⁠@@WalkingJellyfish hence why I don’t wear mine. I’m an elder punk whose look has softened. It’s also sort of not cute on an old lady but either way…

[@dolphinman9896]

Unfortunately. I've had one for yearssss, and have been goth way before all this bs and I often wonder if people now mistake me as one of the people 😭 istg i just love the look and music 🥲 it is what it is though, not like i wasn't already judged for my look anyways i guess 😂😭 It's sad to though cause most of these people aren't even rlly goth 💀

[@dolphinman9896]

​@@anastasiavlasa and? Why you pressed

[@audreystarlight138]

@@dolphinman9896 it’s cause they have a septum ring 😂.

[@Kaylz29]

I miss 20 years ago when people just didn’t care. The internet has made everyone think they’re the most important person in the world.

[@CharlesHoltbestcharacter]

Or maybe after decades of slaughter and violence against lgbtq they finally have a place in the world where they can speak their truth. Not to mention lgbtq people are still being killed every day. A non binary teenager was beat to death by their classmates in a bathroom stall. Imagine that was your child. Imagine you heard from the hospital that your child was dead. All because they wanted to express themselves. Its our right we get to talk about ourselves now after all that terror. You dont have to support it or do anthing impactful but just please stop spreading hate and awful stuff about lgbtq.

[@KORUPTable]

(I'm so damn boring and have no personality, so I have to make crap up for attention)

[@guppy0536]

I stay off internet 😂😂😂

[@ld.j4391]

True. They make it their whole personality.

[@dolphinman9896]

Basically lmao

[@jamba622]

She doesn’t want to be “labeled” then immediately labels herself non-binary

[@laurabambam5342]

I don't wake up and think that I feel female,its just the body I was born in. I've more Interesting or pressing things to think about than do I feel male or female

[@marianealonso202]

That's exactly how I feel. And I see a lot of people online who ID as nonbinary that feel the same, they're usually also "neurodivergent". But that's just how most people are, the concept of feeling like a man/woman isn't even something people even think about unless thay have gender dysphoria OR they learn about transgerism online

[@miskahn]

I don’t think about the fact that I’m a female, I wake up more like “When’s breakfast”

[@dulcilass]

@@miskahn That's my reaction, too. The only time I was concerned about being female was when "that time of the month" came along or when I'd been carrying a baby for 9 months.

[@ahmedfarukcakmak6724]

I know right? They confuse mood or personality with gender

[@Ilivedbih]

​@@marianealonso202 From my experience as neurodivergent, they never actually are, they just self-diagnose lol. They do however show NAPD traits, don't mean this as an insult, actually narcissistic people.

[@renzinthewoods]

So much of this is a rejection of womanhood…and also in a smaller cohort a rejection of lesbianism. It’s so sad.

[@Ilivedbih]

This. It's so weirdly sexist too. Oh, so you're not a woman that's feminine? Not a woman then ☠️. As if masculine girls were less of a woman.. Literally all these in video are just playing at fashion dress up.

[@jenniferscott375]

Misogyny. 😢

[@jackchop1576]

I bet that first one will be a married straight woman in a few years.

[@deniseuhlry9988]

True....but I think she is obsessed with David Bowie

[@Ilivedbih]

​​@@deniseuhlry9988 David Bowie would hate the sexist nonbinary bs lmao He was a man that was against the "you HAVE to dress masculine"

[@deniseuhlry9988]

@@Ilivedbih I know...I loved Bowie...just not enough to look like him.

[@Soliloquy-gy6zf]

@@deniseuhlry9988 me I look like Him, but I hate him. How does that work?

[@deniseuhlry9988]

@@Soliloquy-gy6zf Life can be that way sometimes

[@andydufresne5297]

Translation of first activist person: "When I post about my gender identity and my sexuality, I totally want all of you to notice me and to speculate on who I am and what I am! That's why I'm posting! I totally want you to talk about me and see me as brave and stunning and revolutionary and different! And I wear rainbow earrings and all the other outward accoutrements of the radical activist LGBT community in an effort to get you to wonder which LGBT box(s) I represent, so that I can then take offense at your presumption in trying to label me or pin me down (even though I'm doing everything i can to encourage you to do just that)."

[@OhDontMindMee]

YOU INTERPRETED THAT SO WELL! 😂 that is totally what she is doing subconsciously

[@CharlesHoltbestcharacter]

Or maybe they’re just expressing themselves after years of oppression and the unprovoked transphobia from internet randoms is unwarranted?

[@andydufresne5297]

@@CharlesHoltbestcharacter Hahhaha, nice try. There is nothing to suggest that this clout-chaser has gender dysphoria at all. Do a google search on "getting-intimate-with-dee-whitnell" and read the article. This is not some oppressed victim who has endured a life of "transgender" suffering. Sorry to burst your bubble.

[@robinthrush9672]

@@OhDontMindMee I don't think it's subconscious.

[@robinthrush9672]

@@CharlesHoltbestcharacter She's a girly girl goth and has exactly 0% of a trans-vibe. She's not oppressed and you can see that in her arrogance and pristine appearance. She wants to think she is oppressed in _some_ way, so she's fishing for it. Not every person making a claim is honest. People who have dealt with liars can usually tell sincerity from insincerity.

[@LilDiabloRob]

As a gay man, I never heard of Zim/Zir until 2022 when I worked for a company teaching us about diversity and inclusion. I thought it was a joke. People my age, late 30s, know that “Zim” was the main character of the cartoon “Invader Zim.” Not poking fun, KZbin, just asking questions.

[@tassiodrigues]

Its so embarrassin to see her claiming they know themselves better than anyone else... yeah punk goth girl, we know it's just a phase. You don't.

[@hellothere4778]

I needed this video, thank you for opening my eyes, Marcus. I do not believe in non-binary, yet i still called people they/them even though it makes me feel uncomfortable. Why should I have to sacrifice my own comfort for others? I don't.

[@OhDontMindMee]

Why are you then? Don’t sacrifice it. I’m glad you observe that. Be you. Don’t ever be uncomfortable for the sake of others. They don’t. You shouldn’t either.

[@jenniferscott375]

As soon as we stop pandering to this nonsense, the nonsense will stop.

[@brookelee9745]

“Ma’am this is a Wendy’s” is like my only response lol, like no one cares

[@dolphinman9896]

SAMEE lmao,I literally am always saying ".... ma'am this is a chilis" 😭

[@KebradesBois]

We're in the midst of a narcissism epidemic...

[@RinIzanami]

I was saying the same thing to good friend the other day

[@jenniferscott375]

Tik tok has made a generation of narcissists. The rest of us work, pay bills, and are productive members of society.

[@e.vasileva5891]

I thought I was "non-binary" when I saw the term on the internet when I was around 17-20. Turns out - it was good old fashioned internalised sexism and homophobia (I am bi and living in an Eastern European country, not the best place for tolerance). Years later I am a very happy woman who can "present" in whatever way I want. I am happy that I live in a country when this craze is not in. Otherwise, I would probably been castrated.

[@Cynnas]

Dosen't want any lables while wearing labels from her ears.

[@skylineXpert]

Giving them attention means they will get their view out.

[@monsterguyx6322]

The thing is... in the English language, people don't refer to each other with pronouns when speaking to one another. Pronouns only come into play when referring to someone in the third person; in other words, when talking ABOUT someone, not when talking TO them. So, if you and I are in a conversation, there is no reason either of us would need to use pronouns for each other in the first place. We would both just refer to each other as "you," and ourselves as "I."

[@Soliloquy-gy6zf]

That... is why this entire concept is made, by apes... for apes.

[@helenetrstrup4817]

My parents saw a person they assumed could have been "non-binary" in the wild the other day. That being said they weren't sure if the person was just dressed weird. Bless them. 🤣

[@jenniferscott375]

Back in the day, they were androgynous.

[@BeardGrizzly]

Me, waking up: "Ok, what food am I gonna eat today..." Someone like this on Twitter: "I'll just eat my gender!"

[@BloodHead-]

Orange hair sweetie. You can't stop me from speculating about you or anyone else. I am not encroaching your space, just speculating about your hair and lip choice. Do you. It's OK. If I don't limit you, don't limit me. I know that you want to limit me, but you can't. That's just the way it is. Love you Marcus! And I love her orange hair. To each, let them eat sweets! I wear purple extensions on occasion and I'm very Libertarian. Thats me doing me. Speculate all you want.

[@tgiacin435]

And those earrings

[@Wallflowerz3356]

You sound rad lol 🤟 ngl lol

[@taki7546]

@@tgiacin435Hell no

[@OhDontMindMee]

The earrings and eyebrows are down horrendously

[@BloodHead-]

@OhDontMindMee i was a cosmetologist decades ago, and in school, we did all kinds of things to face and hair. Clothes and runways. Oh what memories. It was disco and fun. Her look does not bother me. Her reason, well, she is doing her. However, what she is doing to herself, plus her demanding mindset is mental and thats where i have concern. Her earrings and brows project a political ideology. It's her, it's OK. Not My cup of tea. But I doubt that it's a fun thing. It's just mental and I am sad for her and all who she influences.

[@nack8310]

I have zero encounters with transgenders or nonbinary. It’s helps to resolve the awkwardness.

[@jenniferscott375]

Me too. Luckily, I live in a small town. I'm afraid of how I would react nowadays with all this insanity if I had to encounter it on a daily basis.

[@sunny-ry9sh]

Support from Finland! Keep up the good work, Marcus ❤

[@marna_li]

How often in the past haven't I heard someone, usually a girl, say (or write) "I don't care what people think of me"... oh yes you do... and you want the attention.

[@obnoxious_alien]

I've seen someone under another YT video saying they are a non-binary male and someone asked "hey I don't want to be rude but can you please explain why you identify as nb and male. On one hand your genderfluid and on the other hand you identify as male. How can you be both, I'm confused and want to understand people like you better"(honestly I was thinking the same thing). The reply was a super aggressive "do not question my gender I'm the only on who should understand it, respect it and use my pronouns." Like no offence but if you are out of society's norms of course people are gonna question things, I understand if it gets annoying/frustrating at times to always explain yourself (I'm kinda tired of people always needing a whole list of what I like about both men and women and if I had s..x with both genders because I'm bi) but that reply could have been more polite since the first person was (in my opinion) not rude.

[@resurrectionevil6581]

my first reaction would be that person is just being a troll, but with the way society is today, and due to my own experiences, it wouldn't surprise me if that was 100% real. that being said, these people are narcissists and aren't worth paying attention to since they thrive off it and control.

[@dynamitesparkles1457]

From my knowledge someone who non-binary and male is someone who identify as non-binary but they still look male. Alot of non-binary ppl don't tend to look androgynous. So socially they tend to look either Male or Female but they still identify/label themselves as non-binary.

[@jenniferscott375]

They have no answers, because there are no answers, just demands.

[@delicatesting]

I’d say I was in the first batch of teens who got sucked into non-binary ideology (probably due to my body dysphoria, internalized homophobia, lack of female role models, etc) since this was way before it got so normalized, I was bullied out of it pretty hard by my family and peers. It wasn’t fun, it was a very painful and lonely time. But THANK GOD!!! I can’t imagine being in my mid-20s and still into that brainwash…

[@susanweiss1439]

Miss the 70's when you could be a hippy no one cared, 80's goth was cool . Now, OOOHHH you MIS GENDERED ME ! really?? When you walk like a man, talk like a man, have a full on beard and demand to be called a woman. Yeah, Sorry. NOPE. (wondering if asylum is missing an inpatient).

[@jenniferscott375]

God bless your common sense family. They love you!

[@Mo-ti5tv]

Why do these people think everyone cares how they identify? They dont care how we, as women, feel. So why should we care about them?

[@canadian_american84]

I miss 20 years a go when we teens and young adults where fighting to get rid of labels and now its the label olympics to see who is the most oppressed 😮

[@oakleyj7930]

Thank god Marcus you make me feel so much better about myself because I say and think the way you do. And I’ve been fighting against this shit and thought I was safe in a space and suddenly I was attacked by furrys and non-binary people calling me transphobic. It’s nice to know that someone thinks this way

[@dungeonsanddioramas8068]

“It’s what I am but not WHO I am” THANK YOU! I’ve been saying this since the beginning. I stopped caring when it became people’s entire identity

[@CynthiaMoon23]

She’s not into labels, yet she gives a laundry list of labels.

[@bradparnell614]

I'm not 100% convinced that first video wasn't trolling.

[@rebeccalove9169]

First rainbow girl=Rudolf the white nose reindeer! Man it really glows!

[@randomperson6433]

Blending? Never met her.

[@Enhancedlies]

Marcus, i reallly can't express how much I respect you. I genuinely feel more inspired to talk more forcefully on this matter myself. Thanks for being so open and honest to such a brutal world!

[@CraigMingus]

This is definitely a generational thing. You won't see Gen X pull this cr*p to get attention by baiting people into a one-sided conversation.

[@quijybojanklebits8750]

Ill question what ever the hell i want.

[@blackbloodstaralexp]

That's what I dislike about Isaac Butterfield: "yeah respecting pronouns is nice" - hell no. Nope. That's moronic.

[@Birchlead]

Ngl I think he’s got some free speech law issues if I remember right? Like he could get in legal trouble so in order to stay online he tows the line

[@cryptameria666]

​@@Birchleadyup, like Canada but we really aren't as polite as people think 😈I'll risk it

[@melrobertson2743]

​@@cryptameria666Canadians are polite up to a point, after that point........ God help you

[@dynamitesparkles1457]

Isn't this a contradictory statement tho? Since most of Marcus's audience refer to him as he/him pronouns. By defintion that would be his preferred pronouns anyway.

[@ChronicallyJen]

@@ruckusbeblack noooope. no we aren't hahah. there's a percentage in aus who are woke. not majority of us. majority of us say it how it is. we will call out bs when we see it

[@suesmall5595]

They all claim to have so much self-insight.... I find this Oscar Wilde quote both accurate and ironic: "Only the shallow know themselves."

[@paulanderson2963]

I try to only ask questions of people who look like they would be able to have an answer.

[@positivelysimful1283]

This is like all those foodie youtubers who wear custom aprons and show you how to make their favorite dishes and hawk their cookbooks and doing everything to bring attention to their food saying "These videos are not an invitation for you to ponder whether I cook or not, or what my food might taste like. You have no right to discuss my recipes or ingredients."

[@roiwtto0919]

Imagine you introduce yourself and its a list of 200 words of paper lol

[@RandomRangerRambles]

So it cracks me up that these people believe they can tell you what to think or not think and that’s OK. But heaven forbid we tell you what we think. This is bullying.

[@elliegreen872]

This is such a pain, we can’t follow a dozens of gender labels and identities.

[@MJ-kc8iz]

I call shenanigans on yellow-shirt. As a person with an actual genetic disorder that makes me appear androgenous, I've been "misgendered" at least a couple times a week since I became a teen. Never once has anyone wanted to argue the point with me. I never try to make anyone feel awkward, just throw out a quiet, upbeat correction to my actual biological sex and when they apologise (which they almost always do), I reassure them that's it's no problem at all, and that it happens all time. I never let anyone feel embarassed or concerned that I'm offended. Naturally, I'm also NOT in bubblegum-pink or neon-green hair with a septum peircing and a rainbow shirt. So if there is ever pushback on these TQ+ narcissicists, it's probably due to affect and attitude, not appearance.

[@AnarchyInYourHead]

People get to think about things and talk about those things they're thinking about. That's life in any society that reject fascism.

[@tumbleweeb9079]

They only respect their own. How many times I've asked NOT to be called cis, and my boundaries get steamrolled because 'that's what I am'.

[@Tia-Louisa]

I remember being a child and making up a language with friends so we could be silly. This is what these adults with arrested development remind me of... Primary school.... David Bowie would think these people are idiots.

[@cronotose8558]

i used to be 'nonbinary transgender'. god i want to just shoot myself in the head when i think of how i used to introduce myself saying 'jestem sandra i moje zaimki to he/they' when thats literally two different languages (im polish and i used to say the pronouns in english, in polish they them basically doesnt even exist) and i didnt even change my name

[@angryaustriancake]

You don't have plural pronouns in Polish?

[@TVTIME-be8ze]

What the hell is a he/they they say? So the person claims that he is a he but then is claiming that he is a they, which means he doesn’t have a gender. This doesn’t make any sense. Do I have the right to be confused at that logic?

[@dolphinman9896]

​@@TVTIME-be8zeapparently it's "switches" so sometimes they feel like a "they" and sometimes feel like a "he". But yes, definitely have the right to be confused lmao it's goofy as hell.

[@sugarsnapt]

Bring back the word androgyny. I have been a androgynous since I was very young. I am still a woman. Just like Grace Jones, Annie Lenox and, David Bowie were androgynous. We are allowed to express how we feel. Decorate yourself how you choose but you still are what you are. Trying to force others to play along is wild and very manipulative. I have been called all kinds of names, spit at, chased, etc. Been mistaken for a gay boy, and a trans female, but who cares! None of that is important. If someone wants to talk sh.. then that's on them.

[@waituntilthebeep]

If we say, "No, that's not a thing..." these folks tend to throw tantrums and make a gigantic scene so that we stop engagement with them. The squeeky wheel gets the grease and these people are so screwed up that they THRIVE on the tantrums. Normal people just don't want their drama. Because of this, I don't use pleasantries with others. And for that matter, if they look like the clowns that are indicative of that bent, I avoid them like the plague.

[@renaissancemom817]

Marcus, you keep it so real! It’s such a breath of fresh air!

[@spiriteddefect5125]

What in the fúcking hell is trixic?!

[@marynellessen8790]

One of many made up political sexual terms

[@mariecherrytree]

I copied from Wikipedia but... Trixic, also known as orbisian, is a diamoric orientation referring to non-binary individuals who are, exclusively or not, attracted to women. So it seems like bi with extra steps

[@tgiacin435]

@@mariecherrytreeit is bi with extra steps. This all is bi with extra steps

[@jacquesduranceau8762]

From the queer wiki: trixic, also known as orbisian is a diamoric (attractions that cannot be described as gay or straight - which, of course they can't be if you are nonbinary) orientation that is exclusively or not (!?) towards females (real women?). It is also under the acronym NBLW, nonbinary loving women. Any nonbinary of any alignment can use this term. If exclusive, the term feminamoric is used. If a NB is attracted to males (again, real men?) it is called toric. I hope that clears everything up (🤣). If these terms exist, why are they encroaching on what the term "lesbian" means? Don't try to understand anything about "them" because you can't anyways - you just have to believe that all this BS is real!

[@tgiacin435]

@@jacquesduranceau8762 Jesus Christ what the hell did I just read. I swear that made my diagnosed Aspergers sperg out

[@indica0nz]

There is no such thing as gender.

[@dolphinman9896]

​@@anastasiavlasahaha stay mad. Typical stinky Melanie fan

[@Mythenfreund]

How do they think that someone ask them in the first Place? They start to tell me, but i never wanted to know or even spoke to them...

[@nancycurtis7315]

Simple. I just introduce myself with my bloody name!! Hi, I'm Nancy. That's it. Not rocket science. I'm 64. No one cares until some idiot steps up and creates hatred.

[@AxisLineMedia]

Agreed 100%

[@StephenKennedyCanada]

I know an individual who claims to be non-binary, who is biologically female. I respect this individual a lot more than most because this person legitimately doesn't give a crap if they're misgendered. They do prefer they/them pronouns, but has decided that it's a bit too far out there for most people, and that it is just not a hill worth dying on, and that there are much bigger problems in their life. Because they have this attitude, I will respect their pronouns. But I likely wouldn't appease if they were a bitch about it.

[@hmmmmnothanks]

@@SheridanM-dc1nkdid you even read what the commenter wrote?? they respect this person because they don’t force people to use their pronouns, and they’re just a good person, they deserve respect and they’re not narcissistic unlike other people

[@hmmmmnothanks]

@@SheridanM-dc1nk yeah the earned their respect by not shoving their identity down people’s throats

[@MichaelYoder1961]

I know a young guy who for a while identified as "non-binary", but now fully accepts that he's just a gay guy.

[@0-gsj]

it's like girls in schools who wear their hospital bracelet for weeks but refuse to say why they went (they had stomach pain because they were gassy, but want it to be a mystery for attention)

[@empressofnevermore]

Good morning from USA Marcus!!

[@mpbaird]

Do you curl your hair? or is it curly when short?

[@russhoffman6301]

She doesn't want to be labeled, but she then proceeds to label herself 🤦‍♂️

[@kathylovesmk]

They want to be noticed but not discuss it.🤦🏼‍♀️

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

I will question anyone's "gender identity" for as long as they think it's ok to call us normal folks "cis"

[@jvask33zie]

What if everyone just stops talking to them, then we don't have to be worried about mislabeling?

[@thatgirl634]

She doesn't want any labels but proceeds to label herself anyway.

[@aLeonLover]

I read a comic called "On a Sunbeam" and the main crew were treating a women badly because she wasn't using one of the members they/them pronouns. They said that the women chose to disrespect the non-binary by choosing not to use the pronouns and therefore they disrespect her. Its got me really conflicted because I thought of what if i was in that ladies situation. Because I would hate to be antagonized at work for using the gendered pronouns I can see the individual is. I wouldn't know how to respond in the situation or adress the mean spirit between me and the other members.

[@pandoratheclay]

“Do NOT question my gender identity!” I wasn’t, you were

[@EricaL2024]

I’ve never heard of most of the terms that person through at me. “Trixit, trixic?” I don’t know 🤦🏽‍♀️ On a different note, love you, Marcus! ❤ You are really making a difference!

[@bullseye0419]

The crazy colors, makeup and plastic surgeries were already a dead giveaway.

[@stevengoldstein114]

The fact is if any governmental records recognize your identity, then it is clearly your private property. Thus anyone trying to use your identity to harm you it is your private property and they cannot take it away from you. And the situation is that state recognized properties are expanding, and it is causing a lot of changes.

[@halesbells0460]

I think this video is the first time I’m seeing your before photo, and omg what a difference! Definitely a very handsome trans man, and absolutely love your videos! ❤ side note, your voice was made for story times, I could peacefully fall asleep to how gentle your voice is 😅

[@mmacarty701]

What ever happened to being androgynous while still being a man or a woman.

[@dolphinman9896]

Remember guys, she doesn't want to be guessed on or speculated, that's why she posted it on tiktok, for everyone to speculate! (Also, "I don't want you to guess what's in my pants" we don't have to girly you're clearly a women, rainbow hair doesn't change that)

[@lydiasinclair1126]

Thank you so much for keeping a common sense approach to life.

[@kellyhoward6941]

Marcus, have you been watching Lionfield? They would very much approve your hand gesture at 5:08! 😁 And I think you're one of the smartest, most sensible & reasonable people on the internet, and I admire the hell out of you. Keep up the great work!

[@jeremyshelman9716]

Thank you for sharing. You're amazing.

[@genderdystopia019]

"I don't want any labels" Literally labeled herself in the first 10 seconds

[@JDM304]

Great points. Thank you for being a reasonable voice

[@robinthrush9672]

Gives herself labels off the bat and then claims that she doesn't want labels. Makes sense.

[@vetechgrl2000]

I love your videos! You are so ahead of your generation! ❤

[@ChronicGamer420]

Lol marcus turned italian and was confused like "why i do this" LMFAO

[@XxMissLadyBlissxX]

I get they/them’ed all the time because I’m a woman with short hair and my solution is to pretend I have no idea what they’re talking about “They? Non-binary? What’s that? I’m just a woman?” They get so baffled

[@verabean905]

"You don't get to...." Gen Z Gestapo's favourite opener. Somebody please tell her she's not Bowie and never will be...

[@darthgamer2014]

There's another one?! Why are they always wearing freaking LEGO bricks?!

[@audreystarlight138]

“I don’t want any labels” and in the same breath says I’m “they/them” erm… that’s a label. No wonder they’re confused.

[@nexxfizura8988]

It's interesting to me that they think I'm spending any amount of time 'thinking' about them. All this hot air could be used to fill a balloon, or blown with a twist to cool some hot food, but no, just gonna waste it on useless words for validation? rookie.