Do Ten Things Before You Get Married

[@bayburtpasa6607]

These points of this video are for a conversation, rather than a list of questions. 1. The past (relevant to marriage: e.g. criminal record, not relevant to marriage: your past sins, its between you and Allah) 2. The future (goals and ambitions, e.g. move to another country?, finishing uni degree?) 3. The Deen/religious values (whats your understanding? Which books you read) --> marry someone for there realistic potential! 4. Interaction with Family (living situations, living with in-laws, Eid-day) 5. Finances (career plans, money circumstances, working of the wife, savings, investments) 6. Kids (Do you want to have kids? Career or children? Education of the children) 7. Friends (Who are your friends? What annoys you? What bothers you?) 8. Expectations of one another 9. Spending of time (you are how you spend your money) 10. Health (Illness and Deseases, cancer history has to be brought up, no secrets) Target of this conversation: How compatible are we?

[@asmrwiz-m4e]

Are you married?

[@artisthusnatalal3099]

*Everything you said are facts but you forgot to mention to the youth's who are desperate of getting married. In marriage the most thing to be practiced is patience. You can ask your opposite spouse all the questions you mentioned, but many things change after marriage. The only thing that makes marriage to survive is patience. Many people lost their jobs during covid and it caused alot of divorce. But those who survived with their marriage are the one's who had patience with one another. May Allah make it easy for every single one of us who are looking to get married, those who are already into marriage and those who are divorced.* 💞

[@Kurosaka]

trueeee

[@Aura04_]

Ameen

[@muhammadfikri2798]

pray for me, i want to get married soon as possible.

[@qt4474]

@user-jq4zu3ru7x As discouraging as this sounds, it is the sad reality of the world. Social media has given everyone too high expectations

[@artisthusnatalal3099]

May you get a good spouse. All the best 👍

[@shafayat1676]

May allah get you a wife soon Allahuma ameen

[@shehuyakubu9753]

Allahu Akbar. Insha Allah, Allah will grant you your wish sooner than you expected.

[@lawlietlawliet]

May Allah grant you a spouse of your liking ameen❤

[@dinaf.k5372]

May Allah make it easier for sisters like me to find a compatible husband. I pray in this ramadhan that I will meet my future husband soon. Aamin

[@SALADIN..]

I pray to meet my future wife as soon as possible too It's hard to stay pure sadly but it's a must May GOD make it easier for all

[@omarabdulaziz700]

Ameen Ameen

[@A2Kaid]

Ameen. I’m getting married soon.

[@minahminah1954]

Hi

[@leonardofaruk1077]

Ameen.

[@good.one1]

“Our Lord, Grant us from our spouses and our offspring the comfort to our eyes and make us leaders for the righteous.” رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّـٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا Rabbanaa hab lanaa min azwaajinaa wathurriyyaatinaa qurrata a’yunin waj’alnaa lilmuttaqeena imaamaa. Surah Al-Furqān, verse 74 This dua can be recited for Piety and taqwa To invoke Allah for a pious spouse To ask Allah for righteous children

[@PathtoAllah30]

This is one of the best Islamic marriage video i have ever watched Allahuma barik. Thank you for the reminder

[@hadithoftheday3858]

Narrated Abdullah bin Amr: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Convey (my teachings) to the people even if it is a single sentence." 📚Sahih al-Bukhari 3461

[@knxry]

Pray for me to marry the one i love , may Allah bless you all❤️

[@palma675]

Look for the right person not for the one you love.

[@knxry]

@@palma675 may Allah make the one i love the right one for me

[@palma675]

@@knxry Ameen ya rabb 🤲

[@soulb.7870]

I've been thinking ever since I made that Dua... I've come back to ask, shall I not make a Dua for you that will make you smile and increase you in happiness? I ask Allah the generous provider, the only one who can guide, to grant the person you love truthfulness and righteousness, so that they become the one who is best for you in this life and the next. Ameen

[@palma675]

@@soulb.7870 Ameen ya rabb may Allah (SWT) grant you the same brother.

[@eatpraylovewithnuraansydow]

Subhaghanallah this is one of the best videos I have ever watched algamdulilaah, not only did it educate us about marriage but also about life , about ourselves , great great videos algamdulilaah ❤

[@kevinguan1907]

One of the most pragmatic video on marriage so far! Thank youu!!!

[@Virginie-a]

Ask a question as it is & reply honestly. If there is no honesty, no point in being with such a person.

[@OraibUK]

❤ MashAllah Subhan Allah its really guidence platform

[@ruhmm]

Such a comprehensive and well-rounded video😭❤

[@adebayoabimbola1988]

Salaam alaykum waramatulah wabarakatuh, brothers and sisters,need your prayers, I want to get married to a good Muslim praying brother this year, I need Allah's Rahmah, bounty,rizq and good offsprings. Alahumo Aamin.

[@ae.917]

Allahuma Ameen

[@janetjatta7945]

May Allah bless you with a good wife

[@mykitty4992]

Subhanallah an amazing video n an amazing reminder.. Im actually looking to get married , Pls include me in ur duas .. May Allah bless me with an amazing, understanding husband who loves Allah n his rasool , has a good character n treats me nicely n someone who will take met o jannah n may he also help me be a good understanding wife who compromises n does everything for the sake of allah n someone who brings him peace at home n someone who will help him go to jannah .. May he bless everyone who is looking to get married with a righteous n understanding spouses who will be the coolness of thier eyes n may he bless everyone who is married with a happy married life filled with rahmah n barakah aameen aameen aameen ... May allah make all our tests n trials easy for all of us , make us steadfast in our deen ,guide us to the right path n always keep us connected to the quran at all times n forgive all our sins n accept all our duas , grant us jannah n safeguard us from the hell fire aameen aameen aameen

[@fatoujallow7068]

Allahuma Aameen 🤲🤲

[@ae.917]

Allahuma Ameen

[@ruhmm]

Amazing video, very substantial!

[@xbdvlkhxn2749]

So beneficial jazakallah khair for sharing

[@maryamrakin834]

So informative tnx

[@hadithoftheday3858]

Narrated `Aisha:The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "O followers of Muhammad! By Allah, if you knew what I know, you would weep much and laugh little." Sahih al-Bukhari 6631

[@keepitreelcatfishing5883]

The husband must provide the standard of living. The wife can contribute to luxuries , savings. This conversation should happen beforehand.

[@SarahTeh-z2z]

Please pray for me,

[@salmanfaris7180]

Nope. I beg to differ. Prayer is more important than honesty!

[@thebengaltigress7611]

Talking about potentially, what if the person stays the same after marriage? What if the person doesn't pray after marriage as he/she doesn't pray already? This is a risk isn't it?

[@samirmo7494]

Agreed

[@ArifToro]

The statement of marrying for there potential is really insightful a lot of people including myself wanna reach that potential and then marry but the inner ego doesn’t wanna admit that to get there you do need marriage and it’s a on what shall I do and Allah knows best

[@samuelhasan5810]

Good words

[@staypatient2816]

Prophet Muhammad SAW said: "I recited four words three times after I had left you. If these are to be weighed against all you have recited since morning, these will be heavier." These are: Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi, 'adada khalqihi, wa rida nafsihi, wa zinatah 'arshihi, wa midada kalimatihi. Translation: Allah is free from imperfection and I begin with His praise, as many times as the number of His creatures, in accordance with His Good Pleasure, equal to the weight of His Throne and equal to the ink that may be used in recording the words (for His Praise).

[@hva22]

Mortgage is Haram and the closeness to Allah + obedience to the husband + common Haram things in weddings were not mentioned enough in this video.

[@DA-sj2gw]

100%

[@muhammadomar8990]

Inshallah

[@umikw3459]

What if a man sees no problem of zina and promises to repent before nikkah? But keeps doing zina...is there potential here?

[@unboxerman]

Why not quit doing zina now

[@JoliPetitLys]

Why will he repent if he sees no problem with what he is doing? Those are empty words of someone who cannot be trusted. There isn't potential, and his repentance will only last as long as he is occupied. The minute he is bored, his eyes will wander again UNTIL he genuinely believes that the sin is wrong.

[@uzcoinduppi]

Happiness

[@dylananderson20023]

If one, longing for sensual pleasure, achieves it, yes, he's enraptured at heart. The mortal gets what he wants. But if for that person - longing, desiring - the pleasures diminish, he's shattered, as if shot with an arrowSo one, always mindful, should avoid sensual desires. Letting them go, he will cross over the flood like one who, having bailed out the boat, has reached the far shore.

[@minhahusaini-hawaii881]

Obedience is husband is NOT CORRECT if the guy is an idiot!

[@dylananderson20023]

@@minhahusaini-hawaii881 how do you define idoit is subjective so the statement you had made will only break families

[@Ahlaammn]

Link for the whole podcast?

[@imrankhansaami]

Potential

[@adebayoabimbola1988]

Alahumo Aamin.

[@salimyasini3100]

Insha'Allah I'd like to marry from a different Culture and Nationality or Continent. I'm a 25 year old African Muslim. Jahilliyah should be ended

[@mrs6155]

❤

[@musahibsabir8722]

Can it be possible for a man to never get married cause they have something like mental health issue and enjoys video games and what if that person doesn't understand themselves. And what if these things don't change for that person.

[@5pointview717]

Marriage is a contract where you promise to look after wife, if man has mental issues or bad habits that will not change he cannot look after wife properly & in islamic way so better to not get married. Marriage is a sunnah and not a fard for this reason.

[@kimmydang6869]

Can someone Translate to arabic

[@maryamrakin834]

❤❤

[@AbdullahChowdhury-k2n]

I thought mortgage was haram

[@hadithoftheday3858]

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Woe to the one who talks about something to make the people laugh, in which he lies. Woe to him! Woe to him!" Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2315

[@AimanKhan-ph1hr]

What if our potential partner is following filthy pages like half naked women on Instagram??

[@greencoolmoss]

They are not ready for marriage, but do understand most men in the west consume pornography

[@FATXIRUUN-h2v]

Then he's not your potential

[@GreatTaiwan]

this is really as as guy i watch porn (trying to stop) but to follow naked girls pic in insta showcase the guy is a simp and really really low he doesn't even care if others watched him and got no shame this is how i think about it ain't no way i will be caught lacking like that

[@seiji99]

Do not take such a guy!!! I am in a Situation rn where I am getting to know a guy for marriage. And he met my father and brothers and when there were female family members of mine in the same room for some seconds ( meeting was segregated) he lowered his gaze immediately. And at some point my mum was in the room too and he lowered his gaze non stop. He doesn’t follow any females on social media. And he doesn’t have much contact to non mahram women in his family let alone random women. I really admire this about him :) allahumma barik. As a women its a lot easier to lower the gaze but for men it’s difficult but not impossible. If you are a girl that lowers her gaze do NOT take a man that does not lower his gaze. May Allah grant to a righteous husband with whom you can increase ur imaan and live a happy life in this dunya and Akhirah. Amin❤️

[@amirfareed1642]

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