Do THIS when you're apologizing to somebody.

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@pianomagic1997 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for posting this content. I grew up emotionally neglected and all those major flaws that gave me was ruining my marriage. Thank you for helping me recover… it means the world to me.

@MatthiasJBarker 3 ай бұрын

I’m so happy this found you! You’re so welcome 😊

@Phenix-k8g 3 ай бұрын

Don’t give up! Healing takes work and time. But you’re worth it.

@MentalThingsIsScary 3 ай бұрын

As an AUDHD person, this is incredibly helpful advice. Thank you

@prince_R-peace 4 ай бұрын

100% agree... I accept an apology when I can see that apology turns into a genuine action of expression.

@Casanevel 2 ай бұрын

This

@Dr5Em 4 ай бұрын

Usually im the one to say sorry, so I didn’t realize the effect it had until other people started saying sorry to me unexpectedly, it’s like climbing out of a hole instead of digging yourself deeper, it’s honestly so disarming

@ngoctien4 4 ай бұрын

This so so good. Somehow this gets lost in translation when we focus on proven our points. Ultimately, you don’t want your actions to cause another pain, especially if it’s some you love.

@Kouvierl_Elliyse 4 ай бұрын

Sorry should pair with action...that's how it's suppose to be

@dinaabdallaali2391 4 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤ I love you, there is something touching and warm in your videos , I feel it and I love it

@kristinetling2093 3 ай бұрын

This is so true. I'm automatically an apologetic person, not necessarily do I apologize because of intentionally hurting someone because hurting anyone is not my nature. It could be anything as insignificant as accidentally & without intent of for example, interrupting someone, bringing sweets to someone that's on a diet, not realizing I have my brights on until the last minute & saying, sorry 1000x to someone who can't hear me to begin with. A friend once told me to stop saying sorry because it makes you a sorry person... My Mom used to tell me, don't say your sorry, I won't accept that answer & you know where you can find sorry? In the dictionary between sh*t & syphilis. (Oh yes, my MOM said that)! Lol

@spbg_4 3 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@cm4882 4 ай бұрын

AMEN BROTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@mss8197 4 ай бұрын

I'm sorry is so important, but only the first step.

@jasaks197881 4 ай бұрын

thanks. that srsly helped me rn.

@cherylannebarillartist7453 4 ай бұрын

Here’s an exercise for those who think only saying “I’m sorry” helps. Take out one sheet of college ruled notepaper. Choose a pen or pencil. Now write to fill each line, in writing to fit the lines the words “I’m sorry” Then read it aloud to yourself. Seriously. Try that.

@rebekahb6194 4 ай бұрын

Thanks for this going through this now. Youre right, how did my actions make you feel?

@liamcollett4537 3 ай бұрын

Bro, can you please give your advice in a form that reflects how people actually communicate? If I'm apologising and say "how did my actions make you feel?" I'm going to sound like a f**king psychopath and they definitely won't believe my apology is sincere

@thechannelofultimatedestiny 3 ай бұрын

I feel like it's more of an attitude you should have. People who give advice on how to apologize always neglect that any apology no matter how well worded will always fall flat if people don't feel satisfied with the emotions behind it

@sabrinasetzler689 4 ай бұрын

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@BoxerDog4life 2 ай бұрын

What if someone asked this but was just ghosted instead?

@thecriticalobserver7585 3 ай бұрын

Please, enough with the feelings. 😮

@phyllistreyes3477 3 ай бұрын

JUST APOLOGIZE AND SAY SORRY AND LET OTHER PEOPLE KNOW THAT YOU ARE REALLY SAYING IT TO ME... I don't fucking care if it is genuine or not! I will accept but it doesn't mean a future if it is about a relationship as partner but only as friends!