Do Women Date for Love or Provision? Amapiano Debates & Heartbreak Advice | Open Chats Podcast Ep.86

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🚨 Let’s Hit that Like Button Operators

[@freddietakudzwambewe3222]

My Bhanganoyi is ready 😂😂

[@SiyabongaNtokozo-rk4nq]

It's time for operations💯

[@corburngroenewald2495]

Straight from Citrusdal😂

[@RantobaneLetaoana]

Chief Can we have Letlhogonolo for 1 episode before the year ends

[@Martin-cr8hp]

Thato slowly be showing symptoms of empty head 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MisoJiliza]

VOTE FOR CHANGE✊✊....... WE WANNA SEE U MAMA KA BWOY 🙏🤔🤣🤣🤣

[@vuyanimavundla]

yes brother sino bring mama ka boy

[@corburngroenewald2495]

Mama ka Boii asb chief😢

[@HilmaMwaala-x3t]

Yes please Ndofaya

[@nattyfilmz764]

Yes operator Mama ka boy must handle the mic🎉🎉😂😂

[@tur_nb]

On a real one 😂

[@bunny_boy18]

Heartbreaks can change a man ,Sino is cooking 🔥

[@sandilesibeko25]

Yeah Mtho hasn't been in real love 😂🤞, it's always your first love too.

[@Cuboxing]

Drop the timestamp quick😭😭😭 the intro got Me hooked! I'll watch the Ep. after work.

[@PanasheNgwendere]

It's turning us into wild animals bro cause in this era we no longer use heart to love

[@sandilesibeko25]

😂😂Ndofaya is employee of the month, he never misses an episode.

[@iam_jwelz]

Brother Mtho's looks when Thato went to answer her phone during Podcast, was priceless 😂

[@OfentseMogapi]

I saw jealousy in his face ayy dating at work is not for everyone

[@sandilesibeko25]

@@iam_jwelz 😂😂 Kanti it was her man who called, I thought it was an emergency.

[@iam_jwelz]

@@OfentseMogapi Ah ! It's finished 🤣😂

[@roycolours]

Thato is only 22, in her peak, wait till she’s 30, the conversation is definitely going to change.

[@nkgabisengcamille3160]

What if it won't change?

[@pullshow..]

😂😂😂😂would be tough for her guy​@@nkgabisengcamille3160

[@roycolours]

@@nkgabisengcamille3160 it’s impossible

[@ThapeloMahlangu01]

@roycolours Teenagers have many preferences but wen they reach 30+ age the whole thing changes.

[@stateofventura]

she’ll start settling for anything less 🤣

[@Da_Ross_BlueMw]

I’ve been here since 2023 and im extremely happy with the growth chiefs let’s continue operating on the highest level❤

[@unorthodox3593]

I think if someone like Mtho would fall deep in love for real, the heartbreak would be even worse for him because he doesn’t have the emotional tools to deal with it because he’s not used to being emotional.

[@LeonChabalala]

You are cooking, but the stove is off

[@Thug411manuel]

😂​@@LeonChabalala

[@DemonDior-012]

​@@LeonChabalala 😆😂

[@kennethmogaleleshilo9185]

Yei when Sino said a guy needs a heartbreak to grow...100%..it's painful 😏but a necessary process👌😅

[@Mwansa_jr]

Character development

[@kennethmogaleleshilo9185]

@Mwansa_jr 100% bro!!

[@sandilesibeko25]

@@kennethmogaleleshilo9185 Yep it removes the brain fog and complacency when you're in a relationship.

[@Molebogeng03]

Mtho is cooking with the emotional chat we are not the same

[@andilerussel2676]

Yeah Thato is correct,Young Stunna is different,he uses emotions when he performs and you could see and feel it,Daliwonga is bringing a catchy voice that will make the crowd go crazy

[@TinayeGinoskoNathanielGova]

the best podcast of 2024 period all the way from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼

[@benilunkeba]

Operators today’s episode was very mind-opening and educational regarding relationships, money and heartbreak. A breath of fresh air from Sunday, Keep askarianing the banganoy on the spejeje levol 😂❤

[@seciliaindila5128]

It is so beautiful😭❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@godbillion_nathan]

What Sino is saying is true, being hurt by women made me become less affectionate to this gender. I gave my all and she messed me up. The bare minimum is the best for these huns😂😂

[@Skata_blanka]

ahhh! we learn chief 😂

[@moeketsimolefi6460]

You have graduated

[@kennethmogaleleshilo9185]

😂😂🙌 coz wow

[@sandilesibeko25]

@@godbillion_nathan straight 😂🤞

[@sanelegoodenough258]

Heartbreak is mandatory for character building. It necessary to ensure that logic prevails more than emotions as a man.

[@yung_joker26]

I truly feel like it's not just us watchers (operators) who are learning things, it's also bo Sino, Mtho, Thato etc who are becoming wiser and more knowledgeable with each episode... I'm saying this because this is one of, if not my favourite episode because of how enticing the topics were (especially the heartbreak chat). 😭And also... I'm still asking for an episode that will involve topics about teenagers and the latest generation. Please do it also😭

[@MaselloMercyMlangeni-j9j]

Busi must come back

[@LethaboNape]

Nah, Please brother Mtho keep Busi in sunday episode angeke we don't want beauty without brains in tuesday please ene no offense I'm just saying

[@MaselloMercyMlangeni-j9j]

@LethaboNape yes true hawu

[@sbahlesengane968]

😂😂😂😂😂​@@LethaboNape

[@sandilesibeko25]

Ehh 😂😂😂​@@LethaboNape

[@mulangamukatuni7225]

@@LethaboNapeyou put it down nicely chief, I agree

[@SibusisoZulu-u4i]

I’m only watching the episode now…bro I must say this is by far the best episode for me…Pastor Ndofaya cooked when he said if you find your type leave..my types always dribble me 😭😭..now I’m using the compromising formula danko 😂🎉

[@sandilesibeko25]

@@SibusisoZulu-u4i This is the only way not to get too invested into someone😂🤞

[@lukhanyisobrukwe5980]

Gents, Thato is in her early twenties - she will never compromise😏. The world is at her feet. She is literally incapable of understanding where Brother Mtho is coming from. What I don't understand about Thato's logic is this: Just because he's not struggling when you meet that doesn't mean that there he'll never struggle - inde lendlela

[@seciliaindila5128]

As long as there is ''seen'' progress in your struggle brother.

[@LindoGenius]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 too much regularity

[@lukhanyisobrukwe5980]

@@seciliaindila5128 I hear the 'seen' progress chat, but there's some naivity to that chat. E.g. I could go braindead - where's the 'seen' progress there mntase? Men want a woman who'll die for them because we know we're expected to die for her. Now, how can I be sure she'll die for me if she's worrying about 'seen' progress?

[@unorthodox3593]

@@lukhanyisobrukwe5980 My brother, expecting someone to stick with you through being brain dead until you die is naive. What she’s saying is that start somewhere so that when tough times come I know with certainty that you are capable of being someone because I’ve seen it. Not these guessing games of will he make it and if he makes it, will he stay loyal to me.

[@lukhanyisobrukwe5980]

@unorthodox3593 I admit that that specific example is naive neh - but that example was made to illustrate a situation where my ability to get the things which attracted the woman are no longer possible due to circumstances out of my control; the point being that as men we wann know how if she's here even if my things. I hear what you're saying about having evidence that the man has made it before. MY question is what if the man never makes it back again? Coz once peak physical beauty is gone it ain't never coming back again, but the man is expected to stay. "Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." There are memes about how woman will ask you if you'd still love her if she was a worm - to see of you're love is true. Men want the same assurance; if they didn't have nothing would yout love still remain true. Coz while she'll never turn into a worm - the mam can lose everything and never get it back

[@linamandla06]

I still can't believe that Sino is in a serious relationship😂.... Big Upz🙌

[@tshepiitolo]

Serious relationship when he kissed Busi on Sundays episode 🌚

[@sirjeffrey4038]

Which one also now chief 😂😂😂

[@tshepodupssa182]

I used see the clips on tik tok and i didnt take it serious until i bumped into full podcast on youtube...MTHO & SINO are my favs now

[@Mp4099-s7v]

Here's what I've learnt in my 21 years of life - You don't necessarily need to be burnt to learn a lesson. Although one out of the two, is more likely to play it safe and the other not so much. Now the benefit of the one who didn't go through the same struggle is, yes he's more open to take risks but he's also equipped to see bs from a distant. Now that's the difference between Mtho and Sino

[@jenesaisquoi1441]

Out the gate with a fire chat🔥🔥🔥🔥 I've never paid this much attention 😅 I loved this one. Thato understands what the guys are saying, she just doesn't wanna struggle 🤣🤣🤣 Thato's age showed in this episode cause of her perspective

[@entletshaka8167]

I'm so impressed by the depth and nuance of your podcast's message. You're tackling complex issues with such care and sensitivity...keep up the good work 🔥✊️

[@kennethmogaleleshilo9185]

Yei when Sino said a guy needs a heartbreak to grow...100%..it's painful but necessary process👌

[@dumisosizwe]

The most educational episode even myself i now understand that as men we not the same at all.

[@barmanmhlophe7034]

Mtho is a genius ❤much love broo

[@likhaya18]

This is the Sino we want. Being real ! 🔥

[@reallance6962]

You cooked in this episode. Now these are real conversations.

[@tee.n9770]

mans were cooking on this one 🤔🔥 but thing is , gents giving girls advice about how gents operate is like a fisherman trying to explain to a fish how bait works. The fish doesn’t see the world from the fisherman’s perspective, so the advice rarely sticks or makes sense to them.🤐😪 27:15 "girls don't see potential they want finished products"🚶‍♂

[@AwandeDlamini-xn5gx]

You cooked here my brother

[@Thabo-j2k]

​@@AwandeDlamini-xn5gx definitely.

[@kibkntwanas4365]

Cooked

[@7Soundzz]

what a proper way of having conversations with different views and still understand each other♥♥♥♥♥

[@patrickdete1189]

Alright today's episode is talking more realistic stuff🔥🔥💯Sino is cooking today bro

[@NkosiThabiso]

Thato is noticing Mtho . I love the chemistry between these two 😊

[@Sogodi-77]

Most girls who are considered 10/10 often choose partners rated around a 5 or 6 because they feel secure knowing others are less likely to interfere in such relationships.

[@ZamileMbuyeleni]

I've learnt a lot from our favourite pastor today.😭😭

[@ZamileMbuyeleni]

This is the most beautiful podcast ever for me cant lie, feelings are well expressed and I've realized something different about brother sino's personality.🙏🥺

[@lukhanyisobrukwe5980]

Off-the-dome Vs Freestyle: Off-the-dope: coming up with the words as you go. Freestyle: pre-written bars that can be rapped anywhere anytime - hence the 'free' in freestyle

[@foreverglennosh]

Thato is styling Mtho nicely. Bro's drip is improving. 👊🏾

[@OfentseMogapi]

😂😂

[@phemelomothepu4411]

"Work hard to be successful in academics but also know how to be a gardener" some wise words sir.

[@ItumelengFukane]

I don't wanna lie ,I feel like this is the best podcats for our generation (ma2000) I enjoy each and every episode 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Behappyfvr-n9u]

Sino cooked with the emotional segment(subtopic), when you are deeply in love. In most cases logic becomes blurry and delusional take a toll since you are willing to do anything for your companion. Full products have impacted the dating market negatively, social media is a contributing factor also. Even the nonchalant ones still get heartbreak.

[@osamakabsoon]

exactly, love is very powerful, it beats logic at everytime, but i guess he wont relate because he never get into that point of being in love with someone

[@dondesio_6111]

Let’s operate on the banganoi!❤️‍🔥 Podcast of the year with another dope🔥 episode-level!✔️🤝

[@LindoGenius]

So guys Sino really plugged us with a new Lingo!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@juusopulita1390]

It's so true prepare yourself for disappointments or anything. Teach yourself to have a life goes on mentally it will help you from a lot of things

[@SinaloBoya]

Sino is right on the heartbreak chat❤

[@boikarabelo.k]

37:37😂 I love Thato please! She's so unapologetic.

[@KhweziKhanyile-n7b]

one of the best episodes so far ur guys podcast has given me a new outlook on life

[@vusmuzimasilela2358]

Gents myeken u Thato ikhanda licinile shes still young even upstairs uzazifundela in life. Life is the best teacher.

[@RadebeKabelo]

"Each of us lives dependent and bound by our, individual's knowledge and awareness, and all that is what we call 'REALITY', however, both knowledge and awareness are equivocal one's reality is another's illusion. We all live inside our fantasies"

[@jamesmbugua2051]

one of the best episodes I have watched , you guys are fantastic. Watching from the country of hakuna matata 💪

[@FLACKO_8]

It’s good to have her back ❤️

[@SiphosethuMatsebula]

Podcast of the Decade❤- I don’t want to argue about that😊

[@Rated_R-33]

Big on "get yourself heartbroken as a man"

[@TurfMarley]

What pastor ndo fayah was cooking here 58:00 is emotional intelligence 💯🙌🏾

[@SimbaKing-l2b]

Ey sino I thought I was the only one bro ,still going through the heartbreak brother mtho does not know the feeling I feel you bro especially when u find your type I haven't healed as yet it's really hard 😢

[@lee-roy5863]

Guys Thato did say one thing that hit me hard. She said if she genuinely loved the guy, she could even go to limpopo by foot. She added that she has done many things for a guy because of being in love. So to me, Thato acts a certain way and at a certain level but deep down when she is in love she can do anything for her man and be understanding.

[@mthobisimabizela9614]

A bus is mostly cheaper than a taxi unless it’s festive season.

[@Thuso-t8n]

I agree with Sino u can't recover from ur type where y'all have everything in common 🤞🏼💯

[@jodystellenberg608]

As a coloured we love love that is y we loyal we can stick with u tru it all even if u leave us but we give love with everything plus patience

[@GroothondCarter]

An ifw colored huns🥹🙅‍♂️🧢

[@Sogodi-77]

You know the saying, "Intombi eshelwa ngamanga" - as men, we often see love through the lens of respect. When your woman respects you, that's when you truly know she loves you. What initially attracts us to women is their beauty, but over time, we learn to love the person for the qualities they possess and the traits we seek in a partner

[@rorisangsankgopa2881]

sino is very wise....both mtho and sino are right in the issue of relationships it really depends on an individual because we are different as per person so it is possible...thato is also right this convos everyone is kind of right because everyone has what works for them.

[@MveloMadondo-d4i]

Brother Sino is our mentor 🔥🔥

[@JACKY_MASHINAAH.X]

Guys with no lies u guys are really cooking and cooking today I rushed from work to come watch this episode and this was a wonderful episode guys keep it up ….!!!! Commenting from Namibia and um a true and proper operator for long now guys also..!!! Let’s ashkarain the banganoys with the sbatjetje to the highest level always..!!! Shout out to Open Chats Podcast with their hardworkings .!!!! Let’s not forget to press the Subscribe button, like , share and comment!!!!! Alsoooo u guy let’s help the pod to grow ✊🏾✊🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@ImmanuelEndjala-g9n]

My morning and before bed podcast.and now my afternoon podcast🎉😅❤❤❤

[@juusopulita1390]

Please love is kind not painful. You just have to both love each other 😊

[@jackkT-REX]

This one definitely falls under my top 3 episodes 🔥

[@mrfresh18]

Operators let's watch the ads and support open chats...

[@mhatero]

Im here for the Thato & Mtho combo.🤣🔥🔥

[@naynkosi]

So happy to see Kea back on the podcast ❤😂

[@BOAGOHorwe]

Pastor Ndofaya is cooking 👏👏👏

[@LeonChabalala]

Brother Mtho was cooking on the highest levol, most man are not emotional beings, we are more logical, the emotions are for the ladies

[@godbillion_nathan]

This Kea girl has a great body and personality 😉

[@BusaniSiyabulela]

That sino kiss on busi Sunday .....i am still full of envy🤧.

[@sandilesibeko25]

@@BusaniSiyabulela I'm surprised it wasn't brought up during this episode😂

[@Baxolele.Lubedu-b1t]

I remember I used to come to watch an episode njr maybe I was bored or I was just passing here on KZbin but you guys got me settled here on Open Chats. The way you presented yourself to us I'm taking with the likes of pastor Ndofaya AKA Brother Sino, brother Mtho and Thato, you like family to us now also Although sometimes I feel like you will be talking too much about chopping with all the intelligence you guys have I mean you can talk about a lot of things with the audience you guys have it's all fresh minds that need to be educated, there is a Sunday show where we all know it's all about chopping and we love it there

[@oscarkhaze]

Brother Lefa must become a resident, he cooks. Mtho, Sino, Lefa and Busi owe us an episode. Also, Sino must operate there by Busi, they’re a match. Definitely made for each other.

[@MagobaPhindulo]

Heyy guys watching the podcast all the way from greece, been an operator for a long time now❤ .. ngyadlana ngila elimpopo

[@Wamkelwe_]

😂

[@KamoheloMotaung-d3t]

The podcast is my number one show because ngisuka from college to home to watch the show❤❤.... vote for change

[@zacariaspedrocaetanocaetan8867]

Sino is a clever guy he knows how the game works..there are hartbreaks you never recover in a lifetime,chieffff its tuffff..

[@TrevorSejosengoe]

Love the topics brother Mtho always come with great topics keep it up bro❤

[@freddietakudzwambewe3222]

1 minute to go Watching from Zimbabwe 🔥🔥🔥

[@LindokuhleNkosi-st4ch]

The Way Sino and Thato Defend Young Stunna ❤😂 I liked it It's Finished also They Outdid 😅 themselves 🫡🫂✊🙌🙌🙌Big Shout ✊ to Stunna Big Love Bro🫡🙌🙌

[@bayandasyabonga8770]

Sino I like that you can feel energy

[@Keletso1606]

Nike tracksuits Sino = 2017 Christiano Ronaldo Noodles hair😭🤣🔥❤

[@sekhukhunekgopotso3953]

You cooked chief 😂

[@sandilesibeko25]

Operators notice everything 😂😂😂

[@LuluthoVazi]

This podcast is my free therapy session 😊

[@MisoJiliza]

2Hours episode loved it brother mtho❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

[@NkosiThabiso]

I always prefer Tuesday vibes than Sunday 😮

[@talentkhumalo3538]

Then the question is, as we are not all the same as people, we are different in life, even in dating and how we view success, then why are we using a method of fit one fit all, life has no formula, you have to figure it out yourself, yes is beautiful to learn, read, have convo with your friends and staff. We should use that knowledge and experience to build a formula for ourselves for every department of our lives.

[@ramoupimodimoratileramoupi5938]

this has to be my favourite ep. so much knowledge shared and it has most defs helped me realize alot about myself. thank you so much for this great ep.

[@NtateGoose18]

Sad how a Christ less life leads to such decisions and ways of thinking… we need to question, “do we truly value people and relationships or not ?” Interesting episode, I really enjoyed it 🙏❤️

[@VybzKartel07]

Big up Young Stunna bafe2 🔥 The guy is exceptional 💪🏻

[@Commander_Heist]

Is it me or this episode killed with ads 💔😭I pressed skip 50 times 😂😂but great episode

[@SphesihleNkosi-mt7ch]

No membership now , you guys chowing the money now . Also!!😂❤

[@letlalamachere527]

Sino, The top Chef.... You are always cooking chief🔥, love does changes everything.

[@nkosazanatshabalala2711]

This episode was super educational❤ our minds were emancipated chief 😂❤

[@NeliswaMmusi-cu1dx]

In my opinion I say,let's start the year 2025 together as the operators.By doing so we will be congratulating you guys for putting smiles on our faces and also for the advices we have got from you guys.It will also be a celebration to the operators as you are going to start making big moves,and we promise to keep on doing what we do best by hitting that like button.

[@liyemajoji4226]

1:44:23 Guys the OPPO is actually a great phone but it depends which one you buy... My friend owns the OPPO reno 5 5G and that phone is spectacular, the camera quality is priceless👐🏽... It was worth 15k when he bought it I think 2021...but ofcourse I'm sure it's much cheaper now with the new versions that come out

[@mthulisinigelmulenga3029]

The beginning was a real conversation.

[@phemelomancwe3430]

got my exam results, was watching this podcast while studying, but guess what, I passed😂❤i'm now a proud Operator🤞😅 S/O plss

[@thamimyeni5950]

the advice I can give to all guys out there... whenever you see a beautiful girl, always remember theres always a guy out there thats sick of her or doesnt even want to see her face

[@ZuluSiyanda]

this is one of the best episodes ive watched on open chat, big ups to yall 😌 Real madrid 2018 level

[@moeketsimolefi6460]

Dont put your type on a pedestal, remind yourself shes a human, calm down, be ready because shes coming to finish you.