Do you ever REALLY get over your FIRST LOVE?!

In this week's episode, Jennifer and Megan discuss the best ways to get out of a toxic relationship and thirst traps they like to post after a breakup. Paul reveals how he got his "lick back" after he got cheated on and Jason opens up about his first relationship and if you can ever forget about your first love. We appreciate you guys for tuning in every week! Make sure to subscribe and leave any questions you would like us to answer!!
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Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
4:03 Questions from Fans!!
8:57 The CHASE?!
13:40 Best way to get out of a TOXIC relationship?!
16:30 Do you ever forget about your FIRST love?!
21:00 Double Dates?!
25:28 Thirst Traps?!
28:11 Getting your "Lick Back"?!
31:43 Taking an inch off your "thing" to add it to your height?!
36:32 Would you cut someone off if your BF/GF told you to?!
40:30 Would you wait till marriage for the perfect girl?!
45:34 Reddit Confession!!
50:40 Hooking up after a breakup?!
54:30 Truth or Drink!!
58:40 Jason's Hotseat!!

[@leslieramirez9376]

I 100% am on Paul’s side, I hope their are still guys like that!!! His gf is so lucky fr fr !!!!!! Love the cast btw ❤

[@SpunkySmunky]

yo the jason jennifer dynamic is hella funny. straight sibling energy

[@peterwilliams6361]

Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash

[@DailamiPuang]

amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?

[@peterwilliams6361]

@@DailamiPuang well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

[@DailamiPuang]

@@peterwilliams6361 please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

[@peterwilliams6361]

@@DailamiPuang her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

[@peterwilliams6361]

you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

[@deedeemcdee]

Honestly….I really do believe that sex is not that important in a relationship. Especially if I know that person is the love of my life. Celibacy till marriage with the person who I love is definitely something that I am 100% confident with. With this episode i now have more respect for Paul 👏🏽👏🏽

[@sweatynachos1422]

Facts, it takes a mature person to realize this. Those on the pod who don't agree are still young minded and maybe need more bodies lol. Paul is a retired player, hes been in the streets long enough to know that sex aint the end all be all when it comes to love.

[@deedeemcdee]

@@sweatynachos1422 exactly my point. Sure sex is amazing, but sex isnt whats going to be saving your marriage.

[@WheresWes]

Agreed

[@Deeveen]

Agree 100%

[@buttonwillow]

38:08 A BF/GF that wants you to cut off a friend for no reason or over something petty is a problem. It's not even about the friendship or having plenty of other friends at that point... BF/GF is flashing huge insecurity red flags that will keep coming up. Ultimatums like that are a power/control thing and disrespectful and going along with it sets unhealthy boundaries. Ya'll need to listen to Jason on this one - he sounds the most mature.

[@zien6035]

paul im with you my boi we holding hands on this one and wait till them wedding bells alarm🤙🏼🤝

[@asahinaiori994]

Paul is such as a gentleman,waiting till marriage 🥰

[@Cameron-wk1zf]

these podcasts getting better each week❤

[@keyarenalloyd6749]

I find so much comfort in your videos, thank you so much for helping me feel involved even by just listening! X

[@kasper2917]

Paul's new haircut: 🥦

[@sweatynachos1422]

That’s Jason bro

[@jem3122]

I side with Paul. If you’ve found your perfect person and set on eventually marrying, that boundary isn’t gonna be an issue but as a show of respect. plus you can always learn together if the sex isn’t good at first

[@anushkachoudhary2699]

I rediscovered the podcast after 1 month and it's becoming more interesting by the episode! Thanks for posting 💓

[@jvb21]

Favorite podcast on KZbin, love tuning in every episode ❤

[@leeroyjenkins867]

we like all 3 segments! give us longer episodes. KZbin question - how to date after you graduate from college

[@foreverchickadee]

Loved the addition of the Hot Seat and Reddit segments.

[@sunkissedmyka]

Paul is the dream guy!!!

[@Tenzin_love]

Came through your videos randomly but now I am hooked👍👍👍👍👍good job guys

[@Brian-ms1vl]

jason's barber did him hella dirty

[@kasper2917]

FR 💀🥦🥦

[@alyssaha6049]

Literally I LOVE this podcast everything you guys talk about I’m like yessss showing love from New Mexico ❤

[@mayercalbitaza3492]

Paul setting the standard - huge W

[@SuperAsian44sdad]

Yo Paul and his “yo girl works her magic and like yo she doesn’t look that bad!” Almost killed me LOL I’m shopping for groceries, got my AirPods on listening to this cast and I hear that and burst out laughing! Ppl looking at me like wtf! Loool.

[@asadhadeedmoore8242]

love the consistency, keep it up

[@donavon_evans]

love this podcast excited watch y'all continue to blow up ❤

[@aly_butera]

I loveeee jen's vibe ❤

[@anaomliagiba.]

yo the comments on YT vs INSTA/TT is crazyyy! The real podcast listeners are here, fr. The real ones 😂 The 4 cast, vibes 🔥 yall deserve all the love, keep it going 949 crew!!!

[@jennyk88]

my EX did this. my ex did THIS. i totally get what jennifers trying to say lmfao shes a real one hahaha

[@jtran777]

Yo Jason really acting out “slamming with 7inches…6inches” at 33:27 😂

[@sbaghi]

MY EX did this (males) vs. my ex did THIS (females). I felt that.

[@uhmeer]

I like all three segments together

[@jamarcustheseventeenth]

longer pods!!🔥🔥

[@andrewlee1607]

This one’s a banger

[@cmonbruhhh]

56:18 not Jennifer busting out the dance moves 😂

[@michaelenkhbaatar6728]

Jen be hilarious 😂

[@zn6sumpon]

Love the podcast. Much love for relatable questions and conversations. But for the ladies, what are your thoughts on car guys? Is it a red flag?

[@NoOneYouKnoww]

Good episode

[@iamsydneydianeofficial]

I agree with Paul!

[@gokuuchiha3643]

W podcast this is a great show and very funny

[@davidyoon-fw5ol]

Paul instigating 🤣🤣

[@ramisafariha1580]

Love the podcast!! This is for the girls, What will you do when a guy likes you but you like his friend?

[@kayleeshim9200]

omg this is so relatable

[@wrench246]

Question for Jessica and/or Jason: What's it like knowing so much about your cousin's love life and sex life?

[@noorhussein7073]

I really like puols opinion, Megan let him say his opinion girl and I love you all ✨

[@raywin5384]

Got me taking 📝

[@RizzAdobo]

they should do "1k likes for Jason and Megan to go on a date and vlog it"

[@darinhui-iv6px]

Question: I just started dating this girl and recently she asked if I’ve ever cheated in the past… I said no (even though I have). Should I fess up or take it to the grave?

[@b0o_yaa197]

Real talk, I’m on Paul’s side. Idk about no 5 years. We might have to have to get married sooner than 5 years, but definitely down. Wait when y’all get married and have kids lol

[@Rogerdoger-bh8sj]

i cringe so hard at this pod but i still watch it

[@phillipnguyen7664]

Paul Stock 📈📈📈📈

[@-Chen]

y’all I didn’t know Jason’s forehead was that big 😂😂

[@amyhuang1410]

u funny af💀

[@creatorchop5700]

LOVE THIS PODCAST

[@gokuuchiha3643]

The clout change him 🤣

[@ChefSporty]

thoughts on having a crush just to make school less boring?

[@Minaell25]

질문이 있어요! ( I have a question ) To everybody on the pod, would you guys date someone half fob half abc? Physically looks more on the fob side. Fluent in both languages but mostly hangs out with fobs? There are many people in LA like this so I am curious! Especially Jason and Jennifer 🤗Thanks!

[@kncwnvxgin1933]

i have a few questions. i feel like toxic people all have trauma. very few people act like that for no reason. at what point do you give up on that person? and how do you know if/when someone deserves a second chance? specifically when both people r toxic and fucked up. like do you think it's possible for them to both work on themselves and come back to each other or do u think that no matter how much progress both people have made they'll just regress back into their old habits

[@AnnaZLiu]

Qs: How To Stay Cool If You Run Into Your Partner's Ex?

[@hakdogd9067]

My girl friend gets a bf and then she becomes dry to me but after they broke up she came back to me and now want to be close again. Is she using me to get over her break up or did she just distance herself??

[@elishamanalo5345]

Question: How would you handle a situation where your very close friend confessed to you but you aren’t attracted to them like that? Upvote if you want to see this question asked lol

[@c_leet]

KZbin question. How do you say it didn't work out after you go on a hinge date with someone.

[@gokuuchiha3643]

Damm that's a deep title

[@hirotoherman6051]

The hot seat cool but if Meagan says, “I can’t drink I’m driving” as an excuse shut that shit down lmaoooo

[@z33doee]

i say make a podcast on long distance. Im in a long distance relationship too can i could use some tips

[@abby-wl1kx]

Have u ever caught feelings for a fwb, If so what would u do

[@ethanher3256]

If your mans was going bald, would u want them to shave it or would u help them get a hair transplant?

[@Hogila_christelle]

Can you please consider releasing twice a week

[@ybntj6038]

🔥

[@Kikisdiary.]

Ze best 🫶🏻

[@eeaklacinderella4648]

Like the truth and drink🥃 And the new hotseat ♥️♥️ Girl crush on Megan ❤️💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍

[@gokuuchiha3643]

Can you guys talk about physical 100 a lil more it's a good show I watch it it was good

[@skdavidnba]

👍👍

[@sandaraacoriba2052]

KZbin QUESTION - I HAVE A QUESTION YOU'LL? AHMM IS THERE A PROBLEM IF YOU HAVEN'T AN EX SINCE BIRTH LIKE NO BOYFRIEND RELATED TO YOUR LIFE AND YOU TURNING 20 NEXT YEAR?

[@jordan8019]

What is Pauline

[@queenbee___772]

Truth or drink Paul / Jennifer : Your favorite and least favorite sex position with your current partner Jason: Name your favorite physical and personality trait about megan Megan: If the pod doesn't make money in the long run, would you quit

[@singkindness]

Where is Hannah?? Does anyone know why she's not there?

[@yasmeennassar704]

Hi 👋🏻

[@Josh-sh6oy]

Talm bout my 3 inch pincher 😭

[@cmonbruhhh]

58:13 #JAGAN fans won't accept and stand for that answer 😤😡

[@NoOneYouKnoww]

Jennifer is wifey fr

[@sLeepy1004]

Sex won't always be bad.. you learn n try things together and teach each other what you like and what you want. Good communication helps ❤

[@jennyhe]

!!

[@uhmeer]

y'all move away from topics hella quick sometimes take time to finish your thoughts