Do you feel conflicted about ending a narcissistic relationship?

[@NarcSurvivor]

If that person you thought was real, was real, you wouldn’t be thinking of leaving them. Just remember that.

[@MichaelSkinner-e9j]

My guess is their behavior would be such that you would just go the other way because it’s toxic

[@detjaggillar8081]

🎯

[@jessmacc-504]

This.

[@SherryTomlinson-r2y]

The narcissist is fake and real good at being fake..

[@eniggma9353]

amen.

[@FaithfulandTrue777]

We feel soul pain, we hurt to our core - yet we are blamed & misunderstood. No more!

[@ChiChi13_]

Absolutely 💯

[@SherryTomlinson-r2y]

That sums it up for me. In a narc relationship, love means becoming what they want.

[@alter-ego-uno]

Or *trying* to become what they want ----------- an impossible task because nobody can meet their expectations by filling their emptiness.

[@Anoppinion]

Tha saddest part is a life not lived… too occupied to fix their drama, not make them jealous, angry, constantly adapting or ending my own plans….. sabotaging my own life 💔 Thank you Dr Ramani. This could have gone on forever. At 51 I have started on my life,again, but this time - better equipped ❤

[@nicoleneal4329]

Being in a narcissist relationship feels like a full-time job of proving your worth. When they reject you, it feels like you just got fired from a job you needed to survive. There's this feeling of homelessness.

[@bereal6590]

I agree with your comment as well 😊 a deep fear I had growing up is when my mother withdrew from me and that sinking feeling of fear in the pit of my stomach like you've nothing to anchor you and keep you safe. Funny thing is she didn't keep me safe but as a child that didn't dawn on me!

[@nicoleneal4329]

@bereal6590 that's 100% the feeling. And exactly how I feel with my narcissistic mother. You feel unsafe with them and unsafe without them.

[@elizabethhoeppner8881]

Yep

[@MM-gk5of]

The 3 replies, so far, have totally validated me.

[@mylord4679]

If I was getting an hourly wage for all the time I'd tried to convince my narc to love me, I'd have enough money to leave them 🙄

[@kathryncothern3433]

No sadness EVER about leaving!!! Best decision I made for myself. ❤

[@leahsiblerud9537]

Write it down. When they invalidate you, avoid every direct question or request you make, gaslight you, all of it…..WRITE IT DOWN. I promise you will quickly forget the extent of all of the bad stuff they do. Writing it down will greatly help you as you try to leave and start questioning yourself.

[@RichardGomes-c2i]

The last thing you should ever do is tell someone that you will try to be the person they want you to be. Find someone who doesn’t gas light , do your best to have an honest back and forth . There is no way to find happiness with someone who tells you they never do anything wrong … I wasted a lot of time trauma bonded to someone who couldn’t see past her own feelings . It’s still taking time to find myself , but I just want to be healthy ,present ,and firm in my belief that happiness comes from within. Fix yourself ,you can’t fix anyone else .

[@kathyjustice1308]

If there ever was such a thing as a guardian angel of truth, that would be you Dr Ramani. To me truth is the ultimate kindness in this world of challenges. You are a light in the darkness. Thank you for all you do.

[@MM-gk5of]

Here Hear 🇬🇧

[@JohannaVanDreumel]

Bless you Dr Ramani for ALL the time and education you freely give to so many, EMPOWERING us with knowledge. I now understand after being 6 yrs free of Narcissistic abuse, IT,s NOT ME. I was knocking on Gods Door,(6ft under) initially thinking why am I not enough.

[@aprilwilcox5065]

That line really hit me now that I'm out....the sad from the relationship was never ending.....the sad from ending the marriage can and will end. I still have occasional moments of sadness but at least it has become far and few between and doesn't last long

[@bereal6590]

Feeling Guilt and that you're being disloyal, despite their many emotional put downs, psychological eviscerations and multiple paper cut betrayals of your true self. My mother a covert married another malignant covert yet if he triggers her I get "you're just like your father"! Her pain is worse than mine each and every time. There is no room for my pain yet the conditioning from birth still leaves that bitter taste of being disloyal.

[@nicoleneal4329]

1000%

[@mariagill7129]

Emotional journey pauses at a point where you realises that you don't want to know more and more about NPD instead you learn more and more about yourself and who you are, why are you like that what you value and what you ready to let go. External factors seems minors when internal production is in progress.

[@WithAnEss]

Yesss! Exchange the focus to healing yourself and learn from the experience rather than dwell on the NPD of the abuser.

[@redlikewineagain697]

Dr. Ramani, this was so insightful. And you're right that having support is what can really be the key to moving on from a narcissistic relationship. Support without judgment or shame. When I broke up with my long-time narcissistic boyfriend a long time ago, my mother really helped me. She encouraged me and validated me all the way through it. She was so proud of me when I moved on with my life. (I had returned to school to get my graduate degree). She died when I was 35. I wish she would have lived to see that I married a good man at age 38. I hope somehow she knows. Thank you for this teaching ♥

[@kellyp4377]

Bang on you hit the nail on the head! Sad, depressed, lonely with them sad depressed, lonely without them Life seems empty either way

[@20jayabhat]

it's like touching something so bad that you will never be the same person again, after that touch.. even if you leave them.. you will nvr b the same u were before u met them..

[@sharonkennedycroft]

I’m struggling with this right now. Thank you Dr Ramani

[@TheGnome2880]

2yrs ago,my mother asked me to move to KY to help her and for companionship. I did, and gladly became the live in maid, cook, landscaper and purse. But that wasn't enough for her. She demanded I pay rent, and complained that I cleaned 'too much' even though at least 3 of her 5 dogs regularly pissed on the new carpet for which I had paid. She kicked me.out of her house in early November. I am currently living in a nearby RV park, planning everything to move back to Oregon. I am waiting until February, when my brother will come down to live with her.

[@Aquarius285]

How can i move without money in other country ?I am in this situation...

[@karenlovato4447]

I ended a narc relationship 20 years ago. I took my 14 yr old daughter, left him & divorced him. He abused both of us. I told him if I stayed with him one more day I would lose my mind. He kept saying "You'll be back." It was the scariest thing I've ever done in my life. I did not go back. We found our way through some very rough patches & struggled but today are healthy and only have positive relationships. Yesterday I heard from estranged son (daddys golden child) that he was in hospital needed surgery and could die. I don't know how to feel. He put us through so much I was married 28 yrs. It's bringing back painful memories for me & both my daughters. I couldn't sleep, I want to cry. I don't understand. We live in same town. He is still in hospital. My oldest daughter says she is bitter. We all feel angry I think. I'm going to spend time with daughters today. We need each other. I don't understand our feelings. I think our son thinks we will come see him or help w/ recovery. We can't deal with that. Although he was treated well he knows the harm that was done. Can you help me understand?💜

[@user-sx9hq7qwert]

My Ndad died of Stage 4 pancreatic cancer this month. Even though I was low-contact with him for the last few years, I didn't go to the funeral. His whole family was infested, minus one, maybe. It's okay to leave NC as it is. It's okay to feel sad n angry at e same time. Listen to your body n your gut. For me, it's a visceral gag reflex when I see them on YT. Pay attention to these signs; some r subtle. Listen well n do what will help YOU n your daughters, not what other ppl want. If u need love n support, u hav it from us. Internet hugs! Be well.

[@johnaprice4868]

Keep watching these videos and educate yourself. I get the life and death situation but you do need to do what’s best for you and your daughters may want to go see him and that’s ok but you don’t owe him anything. Look what he has done for you? And you gotta think if the situation was reversed what would he do for you? Probes not as much as you would for him. Idk the full situation but if he is a narcissist you know he hasn’t changed esp if he hasn’t been getting true help and he didn’t do that when he lost you all. Am I right on that part? There are self aware narcissists that actively seek help. This guy laughed you out the door and let you struggle with his kids. I’d have little sympathy for that.

[@kdycruz]

In my case after all the narsisist situation and trauma with the father of my daughters, I'm very happy far away from him. My sad feeling is because after all the bad situation all the injustice circumstances the father of my kids won, he has the girls and he never going to recognize their mistakes. But im in peace and feel thankful with God because gave me understanding to looking for heal. Thanks for sharing peace and blessings to everyone 🙏🏼

[@jrhc3827]

Yeh--takes so much courage to uphold the beat of your own drum when everyone else is joining the chorus of the cowardly, willfully blind crowd.

[@schellielansing1139]

I’ve only needed to hear this 1 video. This is the whole thing wrapped up neat. The sad facts! Good luck everyone.

[@Terreg5]

I'm crying!! I needed to hear this, this is so empowering when I'm feeling so broken and shut down in my current relationship. Dr. Ramani thank you, again and again!

[@rosannedebattista3671]

Same here I feel wasted

[@Terreg5]

​@@rosannedebattista3671I'm so sorry!

[@ajwright16]

I need to listen to this episode over and over again to hold firm on my current situation. I could not have gotten to this point of near liberation without Dr Ramani’s education, experience, expertise and generous empathy.

[@nellynelly8203]

I can honestly say in 6 years with the narcissist, I had no fun times, when I left he messaged me about the quote good times, and it hit me he had enjoyed the relationship, the fact that he had me jumping through hoops, in panic, begging every time he discarded me, walking on eggshells around him, he was having a wonderful relationship.

[@ruthslater6364]

Bingo

[@mohammednasir3156]

Just so you know Doc, you saved many people’s lives!!! There is shrink and there is Dr. Romani ... i have mad respect for you 🙏. I was wondering why the whole 9 yrs of marriage was very scary or frightening neither to leave nor to continue!!! I have seen many partners living normal, I asked my self why mine is not normal, confusing, exhausting questioning my reality...started searching stuff on the internet then i found you and then I found my self again. Keep preaching 👏 🙏

[@bronwyntanner4501]

Divorced and left after 14 insane years of marriage. Relieved to finally leave. Three weeks later i had a total meltdown. I started to learn about narcissism. I found out what i was going through was normal. So i just did it

[@SylPaperworks]

'People in narcissistic or toxic relationships are an inconvenient truth'. That's exactly how it feels. You're an inconvenient mirror by just being you for those who dare not to be true to themselves.

[@reneelyndamartinez1362]

Oh my goodness 😓 I broke no contact last night. I texted him an early birthday wish. I was dying inside after 4 1/2 weeks no contact. This video seems to have been meant for me. The grief is REAL and crazy making. 💔

[@TheBlondiekitten]

It’s my mum so I’ve just gone minimal contact It’s crazy making, it really is. You have to learn to not react to the Criticism or the “love” - neither is real. Look at what you actually want or can cope with and do that.

[@bereal6590]

It's both of mine. All of it runs through generations. It's sad when you realise you didn't have a parent, you had to mentally unwell teenagers playing house who had a child, but all along you were the adult in the room!

[@Aquarius285]

​@@bereal6590how can i move faster without money in other country because i am in this situations...

[@donnaghanim6091]

We arr hoping things change and hoping we have the better imaginary relationship they don't change

[@LifeinUs44]

Survivors become a walking Conundrum...

[@idrawpeopleandanimals]

One of the best videos EVER!!! Thank you Dr. Ramini ❤❤❤❤

[@whitpfohl4819]

I am so absolutely grateful for your content. Its been so helpful. Im not doing well and I have never been more hurt, confused, upset, sad, mad, and feel guilty all at the same time. Everyday I keep telling myself this to will pass. Much easier said than done at the moment. It almost feels like i need to be put in a straight jacket. Im the one who is crazy. Ughhhhh

[@elizabethhoeppner8881]

Sad is sad. I am trying to find things that make me happy 😊

[@bridgettetraveler658]

It's best to say GOODBYE to a narcissist! Everytime The LORD Bless us with something they take the credit. They love bragging about everything & offer very little! When I walked away from my parents & DNA relatives I didn't & still don't feel guilty. I had to take care of my family & keep us safe!!!

[@donnaghanim6091]

Thry cause so much pain its crazy

[@AbO-xm1bt]

With them!! I'm not validated at all anymore. He is unbearable. I have peace and sleep better.

[@detjaggillar8081]

I ended a very toxic relation after 10 years with a covert narcissist in early year 2014. Now he IS dead since last February 2023. I'm still alive. No. I never regret that I ended that relation otherwise I ... would have died för many years ago - about year 2014. He was escalate his abusive behavior to trying to kill me with his violent behavior the last 3-4 month of our time together. That was my Wake-Up-Call litterally so I got out from That Very Manipulate Fog and escaped from him 🙏

[@theshineprjct]

I used to feel conflicted about ending narcy relationships when I didn’t know what they were….in the case of family,we are taught you stay with and connected to them because it’s ‘family’….when my life and stability was on the line,the cut off was swift and I didn’t look back.

[@PenninkJacob]

Because abusers and enablers will never admit they are being abusive or abuse-enabling, ultimately the only true and real way you can tell you are being abused is by your own reactions and feelings to the abuse. (And of course, abusers and enablers go out of their way to get you to doubt your own reaction and feelings - gaslight). Thank you 👍❤❤❤…

[@sushmayen]

We feel conflicted to live with them or to leave them. Damned if we do damned if we don't. Leaving is the only option even if feelings are conflicted.

[@ruthslater6364]

Exactly. Im happier without him here. Theres a peace without them you will NEVER HAVE WITH THEM. maybe a little lonely without them . Get a dog and dont be lonely.

[@joicelabatut9803]

J’adore !! I love you Dr Ramani, it’s so true, it is so important to hear this from you. It has never been so clear!! Thank you!!

[@pampell3135]

Spot on as usual.....the idea of not putting up with narcissistic abuse in a marriage is viewed by "polite" society as a taboo subject and sends them running. Not only is the relationship over....but all the false friendships who were only there for optics. Double whammy! Yes, people are extremely cruel and self centered everywhere. Someone who stands up to the abuse will be punished from nearly everyone...........

[@UnityLove-tj3qg]

Women with kids get help from shelters,vetc. Right away! If you're an abused woman with a pet there's absolutely no help whatsoever to get out!

[@ruthslater6364]

Very true. People don't understand. I have two dogs and I refuse to let them be put down because they won't be friendly with anyone else.

[@mlebrooks]

Only accept safety dont settle for familiar.

[@youngblood8540]

Fairytales brainwashes kids to believe that something is possible when in reality it's not and to have confidence in something that is unlikely not true. Love is the only emotion that takes you to the highest of highs and can take you down to the lowest of lows.

[@JillianRaePicco]

thank you for putting into words what so many of us need to hear

[@thepathfortheself]

Wishing survivors all the best of strength to endure one more Christmas. Remember to also embrace the ugly and desperate parts of yourself, especially when you're still craving a way out. Many blessings are on our ways, but only if we are brave enough to see for what it is, and eventually leave. I'm also focusing more on the aspect of understanding that time is relative, that's why comparing myself with others who had different experiences is not valid. The superpower of a survivor is to learn it's own compass. It's to learn to love the time, and to learn to see the grace in enduring, but most importantly, never giving up searching for a new path, away from them. Thanks Dr!

[@Taysbookbabel]

For me it is a cycle of grief, then guilt, then reflect, grief, guilt, reflect. It’s an exhausting cycle trying to rationalize in my mind these types relationships. The guilt from doing what’s best for me is a very strong feeling!

[@ashleyrizzo2177]

I watched that show and cried when I heard that. Hit the nail on the head.

[@hopespringseternal7028]

CUT OFF MY NARC AND FEELS LIKE I GOT RID OF A CARBUNCLE. GREEEEEEAAAATT!!!

[@JulieEBurke]

Yes, I’m stuck between emotions

[@AngeloftheNew]

My heart leaped at 16:12.. when my friends tried to be "understanding" and "offer perspective," they never saw the psychological abuse. They were still in my OLD mindset.. give him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe this, maybe that.. Maybe I had proof and was sick of his excuses, lies, and being made out to be a paranoid mistrusting jerk. Finding people who won't intentionally OR unintentionally invalidate your experience (which is like being gas lit all over again) finally makes one feel sane. I only know one person who knows this type of abuse aside from his ex-wife, so this point about group therapy hit me hard. I hadn't realized I was reading the comments for a sense of belonging and understanding.

[@donnaghanim6091]

Love this Doc ❤

[@desertcrab6331]

Such a simple statement, but it really communicates the heart of the matter. It truly boils down to which ls less painful to us. I never looked at it this way before, this brings me some peace. Back and forth, forth and back, why? I think this gives me closure as to 'why' I have struggled so knowing all I now know and understand. When all you receive in your quest for peace is defiance, how could it be possible to be less painful to stay? THIS, is a devil! The only mercy left to be found resides in the decision itself. Even then, we can't believe we have been reduced to THIS.

[@lorenebaxter-e8c]

The hardest part of my healing journey was to find the words to describe to those close to me about the events I endured. The subject was far too deep and complex. Finally, I came to the conclusion the only way I could instantly sum it up to give others a quick snapshot of the circumstances based on his personality was ....being with my ex was like being with the incoming #47. They immediately got it and I didn't have to elaborate. Not conflicted at all.

[@marysisak2359]

Another "Out of the Park" talk. So true, so true.

[@susanhofbauer6765]

I wonder how one would go about finding a support group…

[@lindak7605]

I've been "leaving by degrees" (credit for that idea goes somewhere but I've been on this journey for a long time & I just don't remember that bit of info) so I am not conflicted out of love for him. I do remember telling a friend, as she & I stood in the driveway of my farmstead as my cpan husband abandoned me for his months-long trip to our other home in the mountains, that I don't miss him anymore. He has been doing his own thing all these years & I eventually learned how to do my own thing by his example, except that my own thing also included financially & emotionally raising children and doing their things while he had freedom from that responsibility. I've actually been waiting for him to die knowing that, since he has no conscience, he won't get ill - his body isn't "keeping score" but he is 12 years older than I. I now know, after 32'ish years I'll have to get out. The only part that conflicts me now is that I could continue the wait & be in this familiar stage but if I initiate a divorce, he will become difficult in a different way; I’ve been going along to get along all these years & it'll take him by surprise.

[@rc21078]

Going through this right now after finally leaving an 18 year marriage with 2 kids 🙏 thanks in part to your videos Dr. Ramini

[@KRzzzzzzzz]

I’m so drained from the relationship, it’s current problems, it’s past damage and the patterns, navigating 24/7 has worn me away

[@SharaLeRoy]

Magical thinking indeed. Thank you so much for your wonderful insights.

[@jrhc3827]

Oh the number of times I was told I'm too sensitive! Grew up believing I was a ridiculous weak glob of mush.

[@kattrinaj6575]

Me too

[@Ratgirl2]

I'm not sad without it financially I am as low as I can go. I'm not going back

[@jrhc3827]

Yep--big-time shame when divulging parental behavior.

[@NancyBrown1975]

It’s much easier for people to hear the abused person is suffering than to make the narcissist accountable for their horrendous acts of cruelty.

[@ivy1913]

Leaving him was deceptively easy - after 2 years together the only thing tying us together other than marriage was a phone plan. So glad we didn’t have a baby. It has been 4 months and is sucking now more than it was at first, I did not expect this. I caught myself ugly laugh crying at how much shame I feel over getting married to the narc.

[@thankfully1202]

Listening to this made me cry. 6 yrs after getting out and I am still messed up. He disappears for a while them comes back around. I wish I could move away. Even though there is no relationship it drags me backward.

[@MissOne]

😮omg, what a coincidence 🤔 it's my sister! 🙄

[@catalinaochoa914]

Thank you Dr. Ramani, your information helps enormously❤ God bless you🙏🏻

[@user-ki1fv9fx4q]

The reason it isn’t taught in schools is that so many people view narcissism as normal for teens in high school. High school competition at its core is highly narcissistic.People don’t want to win as a team. They want to take that winning shot every time.

[@Wooddweller]

I am ALWAYS so excited to view your videos ! Amazing yet again.

[@sulamaye3281]

Thank you Doctor Ramani 😊

[@ianfraser1608]

When you finish doing your thing, maybe listen to these one more time 23:05 23:29 23:41 24:59 So important.. Its all important, we are different in our lives and how that impacts us individually, be safe, I wasn't trying to make any other thought less,,

[@Serioussamurai300]

Bye 🖐🏼, I'd never put up with this S*** again . I have no Empathy left. And I'm not ashamed of that. No trust no ticket

[@KenFlo1000]

Ended it Thursday. I hurt so much. I feel so guilty. I feel like the bad guy.

[@band_its1518]

I cried when I left my husband the second time. I cried the first time as well but I cried because it wasn't something I wanted and it wasn't leaving because it was toxic I was leaving because he cheated and then I came back. But in the time being back with him I was healing myself and in healing myself I learned the true nature of whom my husband really was or is and when I left him this last time I cried hard and I didn't understand why it hurt me so bad and why I said sorry to him, And why I wasn't more happy and leaving because it was something I knew I wanted and something that had to happen because of how toxic I realize our relationship was. It was a very weird moment to not only apologize to him when he confronted me as to why there was a man trying to serve him papers at his door but it was a morning of the loss of something I thought I hard on top of trauma bonding

[@xXNoMoralzXx]

Yeah. I love her. Always will. She may even hate me more than anyone else in the world by the end. Doesn't matter. None of this matters. It's not working for now. The situation is insane. I want to limit damage so I limit contact in extreme ways. It's been ended since august. IDK how people have been twisted to her. How they'vc controlled her access to information, maybe years. I just know my experience says highly likely chance.

[@recoveryrider6183]

I miss the sex and companionship, but in the relationship I didn't want it and wanted to get away. Being an adult child and working that program I realized I can experience two completely different polar opposites to my feelings. I always thought it had to be one or the other and if I felt two different ways about something than it meant that I was the crazy one.

[@rosepraveen6676]

32 years married life, he made me feel I am nothing with out him was bullied and harassed physically, emotionally, sexually, financially etc....

[@KRzzzzzzzz]

I knew I had reached such a confirmation point when he had an accident and was in the hospital and I felt free and happy. Not happy he was in pain. Don’t get me wrong. Happy I could be me

[@theliftexpert]

Leaving a narcissist, is identical to leaving a communist dictator, don’t ever go back or the tactics and tricks will get crazier to get you to comply with the way you’re supposed to behave. Best wishes all ❤

[@heatherhaven1268]

Great timing with this one, thank you ❤️‍🩹

[@hurricaneaquatics]

I remember the Shiv and Tom relationship on Succession. She was definitely bad to him. Funny, he was kind of a nobody throughout the series, and at the end, Tom becomes the CEO and Shiv is below him even though her father was the owner of the company that died.

[@laurentolbert7]

One foot in one foot out consistently never knowing which man ima get? The loving caring soul mate or the destructive critical abusive beast

[@sjsmith4053]

So true! When its your son the shame is awful as u know some of it is my fault 25% at least. Its so hard not to think is it betrayal? Is it me that's bad? I need these KZbin's and book as its my sanity lifeline! Thankyou....its so so sad and painful .

First view..... Dr Remain up to now I have had two compasses that guided me in life, you have allowed me now have a third.. Thank you...... 34

[@laurentolbert7]

Physically sick can’t eat can’t sleep Wishing he was the person I thought it as o say the idea I fell in love with

[@laurentolbert7]

I’d rather be miserable with him than without him!

[@laurentolbert7]

Or perhaps even the fact that somebody so awful can’t even love me

[@cheriecarpenter3529]

I was raised by a malignant narcissist, and unfortunately I married one. Between my childhood and my marriage, I was a broken person. Unfortunately my daughter is in an extremely abusive narcissistic marriage, my heart is broken 💔

[@Redeemed9]

Nope. Not at all. 🎉

[@missyroper9013]

O0of I feel this 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@EcoVintageArtGifts]

Leverage helps

[@jessicakim2511]

Can u pls tell me if this man I was in a situationship with is toxic? The 1st time he invited me to his house, I couldnt go and told him no. His demeanor changed from friendly to rigid and quiet and looks of hatred. I asked if he was ok, and he said yes. One time when we went to the movies, people 20 feet from us were chatting quietly. Without warning, he turned around and yelled at them to be quiet or leave. They didnt hear him. He shot up from his seat very stiff and rigid, marched over to them angrily and told them to be quiet or leave. I think they were too scared to make a peep after that. He said nothing to me and acted like nothing happened. He gave me a few silent treatments, for 1 wk, 1 mth, and then 7 months completely ignoring me. When I reached out to his family member to ask them if he had a personality disorder or something, they told him that I contacted them. He then threatened me, told me to never contact him again, and blocked me.

[@lynnebucher6537]

I knew it was time to end the relationship when his baiting and other mind games and irrational behaviors escalated until it was happening 3-4-5 times a week. I had no intention of making that crap into a marriage. I just wish I would have been more discerning and less trusting so as to have never gotten involved in the first place. Had I gotten a background check I could have avoided a lot of grief.

[@redhotmoon1656]

Even a good internet search would have helped most of us

[@lesabrydson2526]

I am no sacrificial lamb . Narcissistic abuse is evil, demonic, hell. To hell who does not want to understand, stay away from me and let me become healthy. Power Persevering in Prayers Psalms 1-150🙏👑😇

[@triciadreas9835]

I threw him out when he tried to take my life. Worst part is he keeps coming back.

[@redhotmoon1656]

People never understand that it's so hard to get away when this type of person doesn't WANT you to get away. 😢

[@PhotoJeticPoet]

"I remember you was conflicted." -Kendrick 😅 Don't dislike it's for the algorithm ❤

[@jrhc3827]

Human history is damned atrocious, for sure.

[@celestesaunders2858]

9 years ago my therapist said you will have pain no matter what you do. Do you want the same pain or a different pain. I left an abusive 34 year old marriage. I lost my daughters and it cost me my home . I still have guilt and never look back