Do You REALLY Want an Ambitious Woman?

[@ttfweb1]

My wife (who passed away this past year) wanted to start a new career in counseling at 54. She needed to go get her masters, then start building a practice. She was ambitious! Maybe passionate is a better concept. I loved it. She supported me in my career for years (I’m still in it at 61), and I was excited to support her. Becoming her biggest fan was a great thing for me, and she told me often she really relied on it to help her keep going.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

beautiful story of love and support. ☺️

[@dkarukas]

I'm 62 and my wife passed away 10 years ago. After that I began taking care of my parents. They weren't just getting older, they were becoming elderly. My father died and I recently put my mom in a very nice (and expensive) assisted living facility. Now I have the strong urge to date and relax. The last thing I want is a woman who is ambitious. I want to sell everything and buy a boat and live up and down the east coast and in the Caribbean.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I hope you are brainstorming what type of groups you might join in order to meet women who would perhaps share your dreams for your future. 🤎

[@sethtenrec]

I think some guys who say they are looking for this might be describing someone with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style. I always used to say “strong” instead of “ambitious”. “I like strong women”. I have a natural, anxious-preoccupied attachment style (which I have been healing), and frequently opposites really do attract. Good news is that strong women can also be great partners!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

thanks for thinking about it and sharing your theory Seth!

[@hump1953]

I really liked this video… I’m 71 and like them fun, fit, feminine and friendly…

[@CoffeewithCarey]

and all four of your Fs would mean different things to different people.

[@hump1953]

@@CoffeewithCarey good point …

[@sethtenrec]

@@hump1953likes to be on top sometimes! (edit, that’s your 4 Fs to me!)

[@Ann-pn9or]

ha, here I am, here I am!!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@Ann-pn9or hahahhaha.🤎 are you creating a social dating meet up in my comment section?

[@ralfj.1740]

Coffee with Carey tastes always better! ☕️😊 Hope you had a wonderful Christmas!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

aww. funny, you mentioned taste. I just had a cuppa flavored coffee that my son purchased during his visit and realized I am a purist!!! 😳

[@rameshgavade7873]

So amazing video 😊

[@CoffeewithCarey]

why thank you!

[@Ann-pn9or]

and Carey, here I am...at 70

[@CoffeewithCarey]

yup, comes around for all of us. hopefully.