Do You Want Me Back? | Eating With My Ex: Bogdan & Sarah

When Bogdan and Sarah went out, it was a matter of busy schedules and unchecked jealousy that ended up coming between them.
But after a year-long break, the former couple have agreed to have dinner together to see where they're both at. Sarah wants him back. Does Bogdan feel the same?
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[@kalahcollins8758]

I fully believe in the saying that...never let a man tell you twice that he doesn’t want you.

[@bjonu]

Judge Lynn Toler...bless her!

[@Iamjoyceandre]

Well said! Self-esteem is the first point!

[@lightcase377]

exactly men make their mind up in the first few seconds they see you, girls take longer

[@janewawira9829]

True

[@StephJ0seph]

This is so trueeeeee Learned this from experience 😅

[@mwambamwelwa]

I want to go on this show just to eat 😂😂😂I could care less about my shitty ex

[@cocosala5745]

Mwamba Mwelwa 🙌 😂 This comment.

[@tionnathomas8153]

Mwamba Mwelwa Same...he can kiss my ass,I just want food

[@aftrdrk7263]

Lmao !

[@rachel-ig9rw]

Mwamba Mwelwa guuurl!!me too😂😂

[@pattymayokoye2926]

Lmao 😂 thinking the same thing

[@1234pixy1]

Oh no sis... he's gone. He has moved on mentally.... Please. Don't beg. Don't chase. Do ya thing boo.

[@zoyakhan7816]

Yeah boo

[@mrsevelync6900]

He was very respectful about the way he put his thoughts and feelings forward. She shouldn’t chase him, he doesn’t want anything with her but he isn’t being rude about it.

[@jessicanewman4956]

If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp [phone] or send him an email [e-mail] you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

[@tiahnnayasmine670]

He’s had enough of her ‘cookie dough ‘

[@tiahnnayasmine670]

@@jessicanewman4956 haha a hacker thanks I’ll save that 😂

[@personperson8265]

He looks like an attractive goat.

[@MrBlackguy28]

person person 😂😂😂 what a juxtaposition

[@Kaleshe]

person person hillarious 😅

[@mariabrown6926]

person person true

[@londonbell3088]

person person: Wtf!? 😂🤣

[@ElleAngeles]

Hahahaha

[@dopeDNA]

Girl, move on - he's just not that into you. She's a beautiful girl, she doesn't have to wait for him to be ready for her. I actually think it's better that he's being honest about his commitment instead of wasting her time.

[@ambernicolecartwright2136]

Yes...time to move on. A guy not willing to fight is pointless

[@umuhozalouise5145]

💯💯

[@mariemac3728]

When a man wants you he would never have excuses he will make time. When he says he wants some change he means he wants to change you! I know how that feels.

[@goldeng4889]

You're a beautiful girl

[@shaunawerner5986]

I was thinking the same thing. I think it’s time for her to move on and it’s heartbreaking to see her holding onto him like that. I agree with your point about his honesty as well, I feel a little bit like he was being very clear with her and she really didn’t want to hear it. Very sad.

[@Sara-Eevtea]

This makes me cringe so much because I've been in this exact situation before. I was in denial for 3 years and I didnt take a damn hint!! But when i finally decided to let go, 1 year later I found the love of my life and we've been together for 4 years, married 1 and I'm pregnant with our first kid. Move on girl it gets better from one Sara to another lol

[@alexandriaderamus1660]

Sara this made my heart happy 💕💕💕

[@neyssa6632]

Omg that’s literally the cutest thing I’ve read all day 😭😭😭 so happy for you ❤️

[@parvathypradeep9707]

Wow😍😍😍😍😍

[@oceanbreeze3213]

Congrats

[@tarabrown740]

😘

[@lovespringgreen]

He seems more mature than her. He actually thought about the problems they had, she just seems attracted to him and wants him no matter what.

[@ChieftainHawke]

she knows she may not ever bag another white guy

[@ajones2367]

ChieftainHawke boy what?

[@kahikahina3341]

@@ChieftainHawke wait WHaa--

[@IllDawgable]

Oooh @@ChieftainHawke you got the bed-wenches/swirlers angry.

[@abadam6649]

ChieftainHawke probably dying to have mixedrace kids probably.

[@RujenaDarlinx]

I was NOT expecting that voice from him hahah

[@mariabrown6926]

Rujena Darlinx same it makes him hotter

[@RujenaDarlinx]

Layla Hassan I'm from London too. Just pointing out the obvious...

[@pndgetsmewetter]

Rujena Darlinx makes him sexy

[@Beyondme7700]

Rujena Darlinx you mean the accent?

[@habso2838]

Right?! Hella reminded me of Zayn's accent

[@ArianeL]

Please don't chase him...his not into you 😩

[@debbiep99]

Ariane delicieusee agreed.

[@jahkamau5062]

I felt that

[@princessdafiyah896]

Me too i felt it

[@zeynab1035]

Yh

[@kenpachi3594]

💯

[@ebonynaomi1085]

You can tell he is trying hard to let her down gently and not to hurt her feelings. He is not into her anymore. She seems desperate and vunrable

[@StephJ0seph]

Oof been there done that Even got the t-shirt 😅😂

[@christina2311]

I think she's idealizing the relationship. Sometimes after a while, we forget the problems in the relationship, because we are so far removed from it.

[@SluethingwithJason]

very profound and wise words.

[@applesandpears]

She acts more like a fan than an ex. hmmmm.

[@zenaguiimeriem5665]

Yeahh!!! That's the word hhhh

[@bunkybeat8334]

Interesting observation.

[@three7446]

Apples .Pears I don’t think so at all

[@anthonyt425]

Relationship dynamics work best when the women has high admiration for the man.

[@mikaka160]

I'm ur 1.5k like :3

[@sajidah5278]

i dont think he quite likes her as much as she does.

[@carla4954]

Agreed.

[@astritasazala]

Don Teflon

[@sweetytweety0011]

I think it's because she doesn't love herself enough. He's doing her a favour

[@iloverose10]

I Agree. It's Very Apparent. My Love Is White And Adores Me, It's Clear He Doesn't Want To Be Back With Her. She's Making Excuses As To Why He Should.

[@Dancediva240]

@FACEDBYDAZE exactly..if he was hesitating to be official from the start then we can say that he is not into her. They WERE together. Just could not make it work for many reasons.

[@opinionated530]

I can’t be the only one who though he became more attractive once he started talking? Lol, I love his voice.

[@aetunyi23]

His voice is sexyyyy😍😍😍

[@anonnona6433]

He is a cutie and he is respectful towards his ex. 🤣😂

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

Sarah, you gonna move on. It's hard but you can do it. We can't force someone to like or love us back. Just focus and invest your time in some other things. You'll get there someday that's for sure. :)

[@coffeebean8246]

Well I know that's what I did and I am okay now. My not be 100% but I am at 90percent now. Ask yourself this question. What do you need? How are you doing today? Tell yourself I am going to be fine before you go to bed. It helps so much

[@maricrismagcaling526]

I hope so

[@faznaz7455]

@@coffeebean8246 1000th like ayyyy

[@Neoldsoul]

This hurts to watch. She's clearly not over him and he doesn't want anything. It's not wrong for both of them but dang... can she not take the hints?!

[@SuperVendetta9]

Neoldsoul , yes. She should take all those hints early on. The sooner, the better. It crushes you to love so deeply and not have it reciprocated. Takes a long time to heal. Sometimes many years. Ugh! The agony of defeat in this video!! Angst!

[@kiaramoore9439]

Sweetpea life doesn’t always happen that way and that’s not a solution to her problem which is insecurity in herself. Dating your own race really doesn’t make a difference because humans are flawed. Period

[@ShaleenHadouken]

When you have someone walk into your life and help you make you feel so much better about yourself when you’ve struggled to, you want to keep that positive company. She’s really trying to shoot her shot, she’s making an effort because why wouldn’t you wanna keep that good company around you? People that make you feel good about yourself. But you do have to look at both sides - he’s not feeling the same way. But you can’t say she hasn’t made an effort.

[@snailnslug3]

He'll realize it too late.

[@neyssa6632]

Neoldsoul I mean she wasn’t really pushing it she just let him know.

[@vanessagreen9609]

I didnt even notice a scar until she said something..

[@mariabrown6926]

Vanessa Green lol same shes so pretty

[@kezia-priscillavalentine1274]

LIES YOU TELL

[@azul7294]

Kezia-Priscilla Valentine 😅😅it's literary running across her face

[@ashleymarie6972]

Kezia-Priscilla Valentine 😂😂😂😂😂

[@JozzyBJbp]

🤔 lies lol

[@goudjomichel]

Such A beautiful girl trying to get validation from a guy that's not ready. There's a lot of kings out there ready for you. Move on girl.

[@spengbabsquorponts2064]

Its her fault

[@spengbabsquorponts2064]

@Burning Asrun she rushed it wayy to much as well she waa clearly desperate

[@preztjuswoman]

She was not even ready for herslf at that time, what was a King going to do with that????

[@corneliusharris2955]

Oh you mean mr. DL Tyrone ?

[@nathantrujillo471]

Not exactly but yeah. If you’re a decent person you deserve someone who wants you back.

[@bubarimalmeida6485]

If you get with someone because of how they look it will most likely end in a break up

[@hinata167]

I just realized that if she sees the video she's going to know he was lying when he said that he didn't want to date her because he's working on himself when in reality he just doesn't feel anything towards her.

[@sarameles7193]

hinata167 deep

[@ausafrikbabe]

He's moved on meanwhile she's stuck in "what if land"

[@CheerX9087]

Yep, you could clearly see that he had moved on. He probably gave her some reasons to be jealous, but it sucks when you aren't doing anything and constantly being accused.

[@applecandyfolks7979]

+CheerX9087 it sucks when YOU create insecurity then claim innocence as if you're oblivious to your own body language and the impression you give other females. he's a user, a smart one. he knows what he's doing but play his card as if " all I was doing is talking to another girl, what's wrong ". he knows as a man its important to keep female friends platonic and minimal as it lessens insecurity and destroy room for mistrust, but he went down that road then made it her fault to be insecure.

[@umuhozalouise5145]

💯

[@SuperMariposa91]

Sis, don't chase him. This man doesn't want you. You are beautiful and you look like you have a beautiful soul, move on, flourish and prosper.

[@florencekimondo972]

Helenaelena .When men say no they mean no.When girls say no they mean yes.Girl????? please dont chase him.

[@chrissimpson6701]

@Jim Richmond STFU

[@gabrialblast2007]

@Jim Richmond dude. Think about what you just said😅😅😅

[@raeshaunholt2612]

Jim Richmond 🤮🤮 you THOUGHT wrong

[@chrissimpson6701]

@@raeshaunholt2612 LMFAO 😂😂 😂🤣 🤣 🤣🤣 🤣🤣 🤣🤣 🤣🤣 🤣🤣 🤣🤣 🤣🤣 🤣🤣 🤣🤣 🤣🤣 🤣🤣 🤣🤣 🤣

[@traciwhite6108]

I do not agree with these comments. She looks at him with dreamy eyes and speaks with an open heart. Vulnerability takes courage. He may be spending time on himself, but he is there, present, and offering a thoughtful honest perspective. He is also delicate with his words. There are lessons in love. Her growth is to become secure in her worth and value. He is a man not a dream. His growth will come after experience. He will learn to appreciate there are not many open, honest hearts out there.

[@isaaaaa6464]

Traci White yeh I don’t think he’s trash either he just isn’t into her anymore the chemistry is gone for him. She looks at him with dreamy eyes because she’s still in love it happens, it’s sad for her tho but everyone’s been there

[@tanyear3837]

An incredibly insightful comment. I agree.

[@reneemcardle2833]

Exactly him losing feelings for her doesn't make him trash smh that's not how it works

[@AmabelleDesir]

Oh stfu he dont want her period. Disney is not real life

[@sharonxu3275]

i agree w this comment

[@kayg_loves4811]

He doesn’t seem interested in her anymore , which is sad because she’s beautiful :) move on girl , you need someone who wants all of you full time , not part time.

[@levelupyrlife7112]

KayG_Loves beauty don't do everything

[@nakibo]

His voice made him come from a 4 to an easy 8.5/9

[@richild3967]

Queen Naki omg so true if I saw him in the street I’d be like no but the minute he opened his mouth I was like hmmm🤔 white body kinda cute

[@nakibo]

Ri Skye lol right? That’s the kind of voice you whisper the Whisper song in my ear, I might get pregnant 😂😂

[@bigeyedbeauty6506]

😂😂😂

[@chickondumu227]

Sooo true

[@BlockchainDaddy]

Whaha y'all some bad asses here.

[@sarahjane4772]

In the end when he said he needed time for himself and she took it as "oh I just need to chase him more" *cringe* like giiiirl move on please

[@leah8112]

Niko L omg i cringed too. It was just like nooooo hunyyyyy he dnt want u bk. Men let u know if they want u. Ull never have to guess

[@xoxoxotvti]

Niko L heellp

[@susuilu]

I dont blame her, maybe it was her first love. her very first real thing. maybe she just needs people to help her and teach her how to get over him etc.... it is very hard for a woman to get over a man she truly loved all on her own. thats especially if its the first time of experiencing real love, not the first time experiencing sex but love. LOVE

[@coffeebean8246]

I feel sorry for US lady's. Please start thinking and putting your needs first if no one is not doing it or help you there

[@coffeebean8246]

@@susuilu she is going to feel that one for a long time till someone else comes and hurts her

[@banterfordaysok3570]

She need too understand that she is in the friend zone now.

[@StephJ0seph]

They don't need to stay friends It's better to completely move on

[@beccabb4572]

Tbh I think he's adorable😍, and I really admire his honesty at the end of the day. I also think sis is really in love with him because after her accident he was there for her and he made her feel beautiful and less insecure. I hope they both find happiness and love💕💕 going their separate ways

[@fahmishaibi5063]

Exactly

[@pettysiss3280]

She's absolutely gorgeous

[@coolgamerchels9924]

petty siss ikr bogdan is a bich

[@miarose9707]

And him

[@lu8201]

True she's a goddess inside and out

[@dfbvfgb2128]

no shes not! stop lying!

[@vevekuh]

dfbvfgb who are you

[@SaharaColeman]

She's such a sweetheart. I hope she finds someone that loves her for who she is. They make a cute couple but they seem better as friends anyway.

[@brittnipeters8175]

This comment is so respectful, love itt

[@destinyalberg9954]

P

[@LeratoM33711]

Ladies, we have to learn to take hints and have more pride. Never chase a man and when he shows he's not into you, LET THAT MAN GO

[@cristallylea2430]

i don't get why people are hating on bogdan for telling his true feelings. y'all should not settle for guys who sugar-coat words and who you think 'doesn't hurt you' because he lies to you using his sweet, heart-warming words. this guy's just being honest and the personality he has is kinda like an essential in relationships these days...

[@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax]

He wasn't being fully honest. He should've told her what he said in the confession, that he didn't see it going anywhere. He actually did sugar coat a lot of things. And probably because he didn't want to hurt her feelings. But she wasn't getting it. She just kept on trying to shoot her shot.

[@ilovepuertorico5622]

" I couldn't help but to admire her curves, all that cookie dough you know what I'm sayin"😂😂😂😂

[@awadoll222]

Gaming_ girl101 lmaooo I couldn’t take it serious after that

[@charlieminaj2]

Gaming_ girl101 my ass is bigger and I’m white and a male I can provide photos with face pics to that effect not joking here😂😂😂😌😂

[@kamiyabritton5862]

Gaming_ girl101 😂😂😂😂

[@samlsd9711]

@Charlie you must be 600lb

[@CiferE4]

Charlie Cross hahaha no thank you.

[@lola-dn6zj]

it’s never the wrong timing, if it’s the right person it’s always the right time. the universe doesn’t lie.

[@msniquani]

lola daisy indeed!We’re just sitting around lying to our damn selves. Denial is a muhfuhkah

[@tania8257]

lola daisy amen

[@milkshockolate]

Lol, I didn't even see her scar until she brought it up, it's hardy noticable

[@sisikam4976]

"I couldn't help but to admire her curves, all that cookie dough you know what I'm sayin" This comment made it clear he was into her (mainly) because of her appearance, and now he got bored of it.

[@user-yz6wb7wb1g]

So many people in London talk like him lol

[@user-yz6wb7wb1g]

Atl.W I didn't say everyone. Chill.

[@zoe2969]

Atl .W In South East this accent is everywhere

[@flacoflaco1199]

boomy yeah slyly that's true still Cah the girl has a London accent but if she wanted to she could probably switch it up

[@nzungu7773]

Atl .W maybe you should also get out more.

[@teeb3035]

Atl .W a lot of people do maybe not in your part of london

[@KibibiLaVie]

What's for you, is for you. You can't lose what's meant for you and you can't keep what's not. There's no need to be jealous.

[@filsanabdillahi5065]

Kibibi La Vie Thank you so much for writing this!!!

[@pumakel1]

Preach my sister

[@Solotravellr]

So true

[@patriciadeleon2986]

Kibibi La Vie Best thing I've read on youtube.

[@centralamericana_00]

Kibibi La Vie yassss girl👍👍👍

[@hannahhb3432]

This was filmed 4cyears ago - so much can change in that time - I wonder how this sweet girl is 💕 I hope she has found someone who loves her as much as she derserves

[@ValerieAbena]

He wants to play the field and she wants a serious relationship leading to marriage. Not compatible. Let it go, sis

[@spengbabsquorponts2064]

Nah its her fault he didnt like her in first place

[@chiaraippoliti]

@@spengbabsquorponts2064 If he didn't like her in the first place, he wouldn't have pursued her. He just fell out of like with her.

[@spengbabsquorponts2064]

@@chiaraippoliti shes just being dumb falling for a guy who doesnt like her

[@sarahhh8073]

It might not even be that he wants to play the field, he might just simply not want a relationship. Sometimes you can just not be ready.

[@lilmizeezee8350]

@@spengbabsquorponts2064 how is it her fault wtf

[@TheFavoriteOG]

She's in denial about her jealousy and insecurities, and Bugman won't be straight up and tell her he no longer has feelings for her. It's all bad and they're both liars lol

[@jayjayhayat5871]

OG_Slink Yup! It's drags everything out......

[@haahmayan9637]

Preach at least someone is talking sense in the comment section

[@mindfulminime7082]

Yeah i wonder what she did. A little jealousy is healthy but control is something else

[@musicislove25]

bugman omfg

[@MaxDamageTV]

Well said. Shes obviously slightly obsessed with him, but on the other hand he's getting praised by a lot of people for being "honest", when he's being anything but that. Dude should just straight out say "It's over." instead of stringing her along. Glad someone else noticed.

[@Chelsss703]

She's clearly still in love with him and he isnt that bothered. Quite sad actually.

[@lebo_t]

“all that cookie dough” 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@heyykristee]

From the moment she flashed that bracelet I knew this was going downhill. He's not coming back. His heart isn't in it. His reason for leaving you and not fighting through the issues isn't enough. He's done and she is too pretty to let the little coincidences stop her from finding someone who will love you unconditionally. I wish someone would have told me the same thing.

[@mimineren8787]

So... this man claims he was working 3-4 jobs and did not have enough time to spend with her yet somehow was able to party and spend time around other girls? And still expect her to have 💯 trust in him? She needs to keep it moving, this man isn't as into her as she is into him. She's still in love while he seems to have just used her for the time being 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@waitwait4961]

Mimine Ren classic story... so sad tho

[@mysterygurrl301088]

The fact that what she gets from this is that he wants her to chase him, says to me she needs time alone.

[@dhruvgoyal8292]

Finally a couple who didn't end up cheating on each other in their 20s.

[@AnahyaPankey]

I’ve learned the hard way that most of the time when someone uses the excuse that they want to work on themselves, it’s usually just that - an excuse. I think that he cares for you and doesn’t want to hurt you, but he’s not interested in being back together. Tough ass pill to swallow seeing as I’ve also been in a situation like this where I thought he was perfect but you can’t force other people to see you the way you see them. The best way to move forward is to just move on with your life. Live naturally. And if it’s meant to be, he’ll come back and some how shit will align but if it’s not meant to be, you’ll move on and find someone much better and much more compatible and you’ll wonder why you ever considered waiting for him to get it together. Hope all is well!

[@uzziahnjovu2077]

For me he asked for time..then he starts texting me..then he invites me for his graduation 🤦

[@wondroussoul5414]

He looks a bit like Machine Gun Kelly or is it just me? 🤔

[@livelaughForte]

HE DOES

[@vucka7646]

A LOT

[@emmb6646]

MGK Poor Version

[@alexandrucristian8797]

Like the Romanian version of MGK. Bogdan is a Romanian name

[@asiamiwillbe]

Haha yeah

[@pettysiss3280]

Girl, don't chase his ass.

[@happydays9613]

You know what 'petty siss;' that is exactly what I thought. He is not that into her anymore or never was. "Something had to change." So her got rid of his girlfriend? Even now he is making excuses about why they broke up. Even though some of it may be true. I don't get that he took the relationship as seriously as what she thought they had. When he said do you still think about me, I thought, don't put it all on the table. Why does he need to know that so quickly. So she tells him, he gets his gratification then tells her he doesn't want to be with her anyway in a round about way. She put too much on the table with her feelings at one catch up. She just should of said, perhaps I will tell you off camera. Let him figure it out. She gave all the signs she does so why ask.

[@StephJ0seph]

@@happydays9613 So true It was really sad

[@three7446]

I think she liked him way more than he liked her. If he cared about her feelings he’d bring her to the parties not go alone and talk to other women

[@ynazzra]

One day, she'll wake up so in love with herself!

[@sweetyamz09]

Hmm I dont agree with the statemeny that "he's playing it cool" because throughout the whole conversation he was very upfront and honest in explaining his feelings. If anything I'd say he is taking time for himself.

[@terriesmith8219]

Simple: she likes him more than he likes her. Nothing wrong with that. It happens sometimes. She just needs to realise that this chapter in her life is over and move onto another love.

[@annellysemathison2179]

I don't think she's really accepted her scars yet. I believe he was nice to her about it only to experience her "black curves and cookie dough". She was vulnerable and he took advantage but she became attached. She adores him but he's already tasted and moved on.

[@sarahdight1341]

Y do u say that

[@malcolmmagneto7736]

I disagree. That screams needy. People meet, love and share experiences. There's no obligation to stay together forever. I don't see that as using someone. As long as they are honest.

[@Audreylalaland]

I don’t think he experienced lol they were together for one year he is just young and not committed

[@beautybyaprilx]

That little smile of his at the end -- he made a microexpression called 'contempt' (feeling that a person or thing is worthless or beneath consideration), which def means hes not into her.. girl you can do better

[@DrivenRighteousness]

He doesn't want to be with her. She needs to move on.

[@mariabrown6926]

lil bit true

[@maricrismagcaling526]

True

[@mazvitamusendo]

I could really feel the hurt in her at the end 😭😭 chin up queen it will all work out one day

[@zarskiii9777]

*lmao I really died when he said "mhm..." when she asked to start over 😂😂😭*

[@yourfavouritescepticx8969]

She’s a gorgeous girl and she has a bright spirit.

[@reelala4114]

Ffs instead of looking at their skin colour and judging why not just listen to what they are saying? Lol why are people so closed minded.

[@kcjenkins8738]

Right! oml these comments😪

[@Dobetter15]

They are American 🤷‍♀️

[@tatianapetit]

He said all that cookie dough, I'm done lmao

[@lunalove9395]

she's beautiful and has a lovely personality. i hope she doesn't continue waiting around for him.

[@jessicanewman4956]

If you suspect your spouse cheating on you I want to urge you all to contact Mr harry he helped me hack my boyfriends phone and I got all his messages and all access to his emails harry is definitely GOD sent you can contact him via WhatsApp [phone] or send him an email [e-mail] you can also reach him on instagram @patrick_allen77

[@DanielleT192]

I hope that Sarah finds someone that feels the same way about her that she feels about Bogdan. I get the impression that Bogdan doesn't have the same feelings for her.

[@nzungu7773]

My goodness, can't this woman read between the lines. He doesn't want to be with you. Move on. Don't pursue him

[@Koilaguna]

He's not ready to settle down but when he is, he'll regret losing her

[@CassTrashPuppy]

DeadGirl yeah ..Na

[@tashafullblessed8665]

The east London accent 😂🤣

[@ArisenMind]

Nah, he has options. He's good.

[@ataurusqueenofzion916]

That is usually the case.

[@mariecompere7823]

Juniper Yh he rlly will

[@pinklady2254]

It’s so weird how guys aren’t attracted to women that really like them maybe try not making him feel so special and make sure he know how much of a catch you are and what he’s missing out on.

[@ssscybro2]

Pinklady 22 just because someone likes u dont mean u have to like them back women do it all the time.

[@preztjuswoman]

Where in God's green earth does it say one must like everyone who likes them. The absurdity of this comment tho...

[@laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587]

uh its the same way that some girls aren't attracted to certain guys whether they show interest or not... If you see men as some other species, you won't get very far. Men and women are very similar in that they are humans, ordinary plain old humans, and have motives, interests and disinterests, trust me - coming from someone who grew up with brothers. We're all the same, silly.

[@Bayo106]

you are weird

[@pollyannaprinciple5860]

He needed to be more straight up with her. Girl you need to find someone who is genuine and trustworthy who communicates with honesty, clarity, sincerity, and no arrogance. She let him know that she wanted to marry him and have kids with him. He gave some bogus response: "I'm not fully at the place that I want to be at..." What kind of nebulous BS is that?.He needed to be honest with her and say, "I'm not in love with you. It is 100% over and you need to move on." Girl listen to your instincts and don't let him throw the blame on you for the break-up by labelling you as "jealous." I bet he was boning around while you were together. He then again tried to throw more blame by labelling you as "judgmental" without even expanding on that harsh accusation. Girl these are red flags. Girl, find a therapist to help you completely transition out of this relationship so you can find the right person who appreciates and loves you and a person that you trust.

[@happyhibasaeed3027]

Why do people think he's acting "like a black person".And what does that mean? Explain.

[@coreywilliams1454]

He's acting like a thug and using slang that is predominantly used by black people, I think he grew up in a black area or something.

[@MissCherryBaybee]

+Corey Williams How exactly is he acting like a thug? What kind of foolish statement is that!?!?! Plus acting like a thug and being a black person are two mutually exclusive things you fool!

[@safiya1363]

Corey Williams Does acting like a thug correlate with being black? Just curious

[@gghh-zi3ts]

Corey Williams ow does using slang equate to being a thug

[@NYCITY3]

Really i didn't know that Gladys Knight and Nat king cole are thug. That means Prince is a thug.

[@tannybriana]

The thing is its really easy to say that she should move on because he's not into her. If her heart is still beating for him she can't help but run after him.. the hardest part of moving on is the fight between the heart and the head..

[@faith4today]

Well said, Tanny!

[@kittygurl6021]

I loved his honesty he wants to get himself established before jumping into a committed relationship with her again. Not that he doesn't love her. It took love for him to tell her and he very humble. Too many of us tie ourselves to others when we are truly not ready and then we bring another life into world. Then the struggle begins and raising children and not being financially ready. Then the kids and we suffer. Then here comes resentment and insecurities. He made a true adult decision. 👏👏 Bravo.

[@ieattofu68]

He has a subtle way of saying "it's me not you..." I wish them well...in their separate endeavors...'cause I can tell he doesn't want her back...

[@beautyyyuntamed]

hey machine gun kelly 👋🏽 lol

[@adonissakellariou6051]

ashley goodas dont ye be puttin his name badly

[@mariabrown6926]

ashley goodas for real tho 😂

[@realest_lady_ever3450]

ashley goodas lol 😂

[@aizaanwer8486]

ashley goodas 😂 😂 lol

[@mariadacosta6695]

ashley goodas 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂

[@mimilove7989]

This just goes to show people are temporary asf man

[@devonlovemusic]

did you hear how he laughed when she said I want back? He is still chasing his job and career. Girl move on before he uses you for sex and a good time.

[@zubedav6289]

Girl move on. If he wants to be with you, he’ll stop making excuses

[@xxfaithyxx1]

I think Bogdan is on the right path. He was honest about the issues in their relationship, the fact that there are improvements that he needs to make with his self-confidence and mindset and was willing enough to let Sarah know. I do feel that although Sarah comes across as a kind-hearted woman, she did sort of miss the point. I don't think Bogdan necessarily wants to be chased, he just wants time to develop himself and I think Sarah would do good for herself by doing the same. There's a lot we ALL can learn from this episode in the series.

[@Leneufcinqcergy]

He's just not into you girl. He's being nice about it. Get the hint. Get some self-esteem and keep it moving. You're just gonna end up hurt again.

[@paolabueso]

She seems like such a sweet person and very beautiful as well. He seems like a lovely and very driven person. I hope that they are both able to find love and happiness, be it with each other or in future relationships. Thank you so much for sharing this!

[@palpatine4780]

Many people forget that talking the truth and open is what makes us human

[@LittleCupcakeNerd]

They're both soo attractive like wow

[@penmumble]

Jealousy is the worst trait in a person

[@ann-mariedebrah2245]

penmumble so true, it destroys so much

[@pennycampbell725]

It's an emotion, not a trait. It hurts and it's no-one's fault. I'm not judging because I don't have the faintest idea what it's like to go through a traumatic face-altering accident.

[@Lukejames_]

penmumble no matter what you say, everyone feels jealousy. Like unless you are a psychopath you will feel jealousy over some things, end of discussion.

[@crazyanimeloveable]

I think greed is

[@User-fp8dk]

penmumble frrr

[@anafzahin9935]

He's not for you He will only break your heart 100 times.

[@amandaisnotmyrealname3518]

He just doesn't want her back.

[@daaayum_gena]

i would bet money that everyone here talking about how he "talks like a black guy" is American. (And yes, i too am American). Its a super American concept to say that certain ethnicities have to sound like a certain way. In the UK it's so much more about class than it is about race. Not saying they don't have racial issues or we don't have other ones, but to ascribe a way to talk simply because of your skin is one of our society's social constructs,, not theirs.

[@therealeastchick2778]

Gena Brigham nah we say Ppl talk black here too.

[@MancstaSam]

im British and that is NOT a traditional white cockney accent simple as!!

[@misha2k6]

Just 4utube lol you literally had a nazi rally where people were killed in your country last week.

[@b.boston4950]

Lol no, I'm American, Americans in general live in their own world and wouldn't know what you were talking about if you asked them about different accents of England. Although I can clearly hear that some of the slang talk over there is really just Jamaican/Caribbean slang.. but I only notice this because my parents are from the Caribbean lol

[@ashleyhartford6048]

Gena Brigham your comment is very confusing I am American I have no idea what in the world accent you talking about this guy does not sound like us I was having a hard time understanding he's stupid British accent

[@tamdoll3823]

All that cookie dough lol

[@ImaniChristine]

lmaooo he was like "I'm not into you" she heard "I need to chase him"

[@lorealmadonnamoore9828]

The problem with their relationship has always been she is way more into him than he is into her 😉

[@collinsa8909]

That's how it should be.

[@Ms.Francis]

aaaaarh I feel for her. Never show all your cards.

[@BlockchainDaddy]

Whaaha you are the mvp.

[@pettysiss3280]

He's just into himself too much

[@mariemac3728]

More like hes just not into her

[@martymcfly5764]

marie mac I think you're both right.

[@creativechameleon8202]

I agree they’re both right.. he’s a model so wat to expect

[@Numb_]

He's just not into her, stop being judged mental

[@jonathanxavier2026]

petty siss 😂😂 Whenever women don't get adoring praise from the man "he's just too into himself/ he's ugly". As if it's a bad thing to be into himself. Too many people don't love each other.

[@miracalawrence7417]

She never had to smile that hard when he walked in 😭

[@hotmama298]

She's wasting her time chasing this man. If he wanted to be with her he would have.

[@cloudedzeus]

He's not acting "black" he's acting ghetto. I'm guessing he's from London due to his accent and slang thang

[@cloudedzeus]

harry drewitt appearance has nothing to do with where he's from?

[@denisdenisss8643]

I think he s romanian

[@cloudedzeus]

Denis Denisss yeah I'd thought he was from Europe

[@Tiannatamale]

Kirby D thank you

[@cloudedzeus]

Okay? I'm from the Midlands which your educated self probably hasn't heard of, but why are you so mad? I made my comment to try and defeat a common stereotype. And he is acting ghetto, stop being so butthurt and defensive about your ends nobody cares that much lmao. Listen to crash by 410, Gentleman by SL their accents are all the same if not very similar because they're from London, ghetto. Ghetto meaning council estate so i'm right. ghetto - a part of a city, especially a slum area, occupied by a minority group or groups. verb

[@monaooomm]

Sarah babe He's just not that into you... stop it

[@leahponds2945]

No, girl, please don't pursue him. He, tbh, is just not that into you. Please move on and allow him to.

[@prettyzebib7993]

I started crying she is such a sweetheart 😭😭❤️ girl you deserve someone better

[@RDCFemmes]

Young lady, let me save you the heartache listen to what he said not to what you think he said.....take his words at face value.

[@liama8337]

Why is she talking about chasing him when he's just said he's doesn't want to get back together?

[@808nuna_ishere]

Every time she speaks, I’m like, “Girlllllllllll move on.”

[@Youbarkimeow]

Jealousy in any relationship is never going to work it's a nightmare dating someone with jealousy issues.