Documenting Our Ordinary Day

I'm from Zambia, Africa, I'm 19 years old, I married in rural Henan Province, less than a year ago.

[@sharonchambers664]

The girls mother has travelled with her , that speaks volumes about the care of her family . Yes she seems shy , she’s 19 and from an African country where girls are sheltered and obviously speak a different language . Does not mean she’s unhappy or mistreated . Once she learns the language she will be more confident and she will grow into a role as a new bride in new and different country . Africa and Asia are building ties : culturally, economically and socially . Rose is Christian possible this young lady is not from a Christian family (Zambia) much different upbringing so two different kind of young ladies. Rose is 10 years at least in China , mother of 2, no comparison . Wish Yiyi all the best going forward . Mother saw it was good and agreed to the marriage !’♥️🤲🏽

[@Natishaderricks]

Yes. Facts.

[@judithb6445]

Zambia is a Christian Nation, she's definitely Christian

[@agnesombati1096]

Pple, like judging n comparing 'you've said it all God bless you let give her time 'especially language barrier can make someone look like she is scared

[@navosesay3188]

Am in the USA and very successful and pretty and a widow and still very lonely. It’s hard to find a good man in America. Let her be at least she is not lonely like some of us. She will adjust with time.

[@loisnoble9139]

Amen and she's his wife not baby mother. He cooks and take care of her. Her mother is there and is treated with respect. She'll be fine it takes time.

[@mzdreadhead]

@@navosesay3188 you are propaganda hoping to make china look good.

[@ataylor3581]

Quality men in America are few . Will keep you in my prayers. Remember to pray and ask God for his blessings.

[@kugs4749]

Please please, I don't believe this. You can be single and happy, you don't need a man who will make you lose Yr confidence and I can see it happening here.

[@LawofGod]

@@ataylor3581that goes to the woman to ! They are messed up ⬆️

[@jancamp6137]

When she know the language she will be fine give her time ..please don't be mean everyone need a chance in life if you don't know language it won't be the same..she will learn 💯 👌 🇨🇦

[@jplin888]

@@jancamp6137 Right. She need time to adapt to the new environment and learn the language. Remember she is just 19 and have tons of things to learn. Slowly but surely she will.

[@juliagreenwell7343]

God has her,we all have taken chances in life, let's wish them the best, everything will be fine,even if your not in love,you can learn to love.If it doesn't work she will know what to do❤❤❤

[@vinB4799]

That's very true

[@sandramaysonet7586]

Sometimes you learn to love In the way a man treats you with tenderness compassion understanding patience. Yes My mother didnt lovvvvvv my father but he was so thoughtful and caring she learn to LOVE HIM AMEN

[@fanfanabymes9650]

Yiyi n'est assez tendre avec son mari. Il lui fait un bisou elle reste de marbre et jamais elle fait un simple bisou à son mari.

[@Lovely45-m8r]

@@fanfanabymes9650she might be shy,,remember she is on camera and they are newly weds,,the only problem is we are comparing them to other couples but people adjust differently

[@patsykaseke5863]

Rose husband is much much older, if they had aired how young and unsure she was early on in their marriage a lot of the same people being negative about this couple would have the same views. Just because Rose has adapted we all loving their vibe now.... I hope this couple continues their content despite negativity...

[@Maggy246]

Rose spoke about how she and her husband met. They got to know each other. There was no fear in her marriage even though he's older.

[@ValenaRattray]

I have watched Rose from day 1. There is chemistry there. Rose's husband is doting not controlling giving orders.

[@omohjaneajayi9495]

One can clearly see that there is something missing here ( it’s nothing like Rose and her husband, or Lawu and her husband and her in-laws. You can feel and see the genuine love and care for the women mentioned above) But with this young lady, she does not seem to have the freedom or happiness. It’s all plastic smile for the camera, it s like she’s scared to get him angry or upset him. And he does not look to be loving or soft towards her no matter how hard he tries, you can see through it like. It’s all packaging. By the way, where are his family and why is she so isolated??? 🤔

[@Maggy246]

@@omohjaneajayi9495 At least she has her mom with her.

[@loisnoble9139]

I said the same thing too Rose and Felista work hard to take care of their family. We didn't see a lot of their young lives with their husband. This woman is young and beautiful and it seems he loves her. He calls her wife not baby mother. I believe she's shy and is not fluent in the language I know when she's able to communicate better she'll be fine. God bless this couple.

[@gloriamohale9801]

I don't think she's scared,i think she feels lonely in the foreign country,hope she get used to this country soon as she had a good teacher.❤

[@smileylady485]

True and i think she doesn't understand the language much as well...

[@doroseror6510]

She is so beautiful and innocent, she deserves better

[@Maggy246]

@@doroseror6510 What do you mean by she deserves better. Lets get to know them. Give them a chance

[@user-uk1pd6rd6m]

Who forced her to leave her home country and move to china She is learning to adapt to her new way of living

[@FemmeETmereDEquelquun8980]

Elle mérite mieux qui toi😂😂😂 haaaa les humains

[@suzzanne222]

Thats their defination of love. Going to the farm is fun for some people and if we would meadure happiness she is happier than many miserable girls in big cities.

[@vinB4799]

Its unbelievable people judge and compare this newly wed couple with Rose, Felistas and Lawu. People are different, she's a young African, brought up differently. In some african cultures women only show affection privately especially in early days of marriage. And find their way as they get used to their husband and settled.

[@Lovely45-m8r]

Exactly and we started knowing about Felistas when she had already adjusted,,we didn’t know her before she had kids so people should stop comparing,,they are all good in their own way and adjust differently

[@jeanmariesmith1224]

She's with him because he's good to her. it's that simple. People with negative comments are shallow. Not everything is about money or looks.

[@doyinsonuga1948]

Shes beautiful ❤️ and her Husband cute too😊

[@firdaus7428]

Husband very good Care he’s kind as well

[@VanTran-qz5kf]

Look at the description, it says that's she's 19. Her Mother apparently lives with them.

[@yinman7588]

No, her mom is visiting and her brothers. It shows on videos where they go back home.

[@LanroyHudson]

He's so loving and I know she's too but a bit shy husband take care of his mother in law too❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ananasouzaasouza2499]

Boa Noite parabéns pelo seu belíssimo trabalho no dia a dia parabéns muito sucesso pra os dois vcs estão crescendo muito cada vez mais que Deus te abençoe sempre vocês obrigado obrigado pela atenção obrigado ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@iristan2049]

She is very young, treat her well! I am sure she would love ❤️ to see her marriage grow with him. She got a lot to learn your culture.

[@carineokeh3543]

She's a beauty queen

[@ataylor3581]

That young lady don't know how Blessed she is! Many women here in America are just lonely. I thank God everyday for my darling husband who loves me unconditionally.

[@lakeshagriffin188]

So not true!!

[@sheilaodilison5235]

Visit other places, you will find good mates.

[@ataylor3581]

@lakeshagriffin188 Prove me wrong with fact ! Most of you young women have no morals and all about the hook up culture !

[@Nollugs5111]

What I love is that all the chinese men can cook😊

[@felicitedavis2692]

❤May Their Blessings and Love Over Flow❤.

[@tinad721]

Alot of BS here. This is a young woman but not a girl. They came out to show you their journey. STOP JUDGING the guy. None of us know their deep love. I wish them happiness and abundance

[@kathleenmorris9309]

Can't you see he's a bully

[@mzdreadhead]

@@kathleenmorris9309 They don’t want to see that he’s a bully. He like the others are hoping to make big money off of those young woman/girls

[@user-ry3uc1rb8p]

Hmm. Just my opinion. He's rough. Not interested 😢 I see so much potential in this young lady. Why?

[@user-sr7tj6ec9i]

She is still a teenager ,19yrs

[@user-sr7tj6ec9i]

@@user-ry3uc1rb8p she should be in school, he’s using her to make money including the camera crew

[@anakotalithasogiba2316]

I dont know their story, not sure what the agreement or arrangement was. But there is no happiness here, no chemistry, no love, no warmth. Theres no genuine authentic Love here. Its just cold here. I pity both equally. Guy is trying in his own way, but she has checked out mentally.....

[@Skymar483]

This gal is soo beautiful!

[@emidiarosacostavargas5255]

Desejo a vcs felicidades e perseverança nao desistam

[@CarlaThomas37]

She looks so young and scared. I hope that she is safe.

[@cynthiabilap2997]

😂

[@fanfanabymes9650]

Je ne pense pas. Dans une video, j'ai constaté que son mari avait bu beaucoup.

[@THETRUTH1995TV]

She's shy for.the camera but she's Just fine

[@marvajohnson5817]

Beautiful young girl her husband loves her i am hoping he will send her to school she looks shy but when she can speak the Chinese language she will be ok

[@natalinaoliveira3781]

Parabéns VCS são casal muito bonito trabalhador amei hein 👏

[@ceciliahmwangi497]

With time she will be okey and happy 😅

[@sheilaraman2748]

She is so beautiful and attractive

[@alveem7295]

People should stop condemning this man so much. He is doing quite well for them, a lot of husbands in Africa won't cook a thing even if they are married to 18 year olds. Let's give the girl some time by the time she understands her environment she will be able to take charge and run her home like you see with Felicita. She is not scared she's just trying to be respectful to her husband. I know most westerners wont understand the vibe, but growing up in Africa a lot of mothers would want this for their daughters trust me.

[@Rose.c624]

My only criticism is that the music volume could be lower so that we can hear you more clearer. 🌹

[@graceimmaculate825]

Shes toooooo young.She might be 13/14 years ,she might look 17yrs because of marriage .She must be very lonely in a foreign country thousands if miles away from home.She misses her family in Zambia.She doesnt even understand how to be a wife because of her young age.😢May Almighty God help her.She has no friends 😢

[@alizikinamuli7839]

But she's 19😅😅 stop ur nonsense

[@SheisMe83]

She is 19 That’s a grown up and she has her mother right there with her she doesn’t like being on camera she is a very shy girl Had you actually taken the time to watch and actually know their story then you would know all that

[@beavetmatthews3728]

I was saying the same thing she looks very young.

[@tahliah6691]

Wow you don’t know anything about African or Asian cultures…. She’s a woman not a child…. Educate yourself

[@tahliah6691]

African people don’t age like Europeans …. And rarely wrinkle….

[@ephemeralsoul95]

Stop spreading bad rumors. She is young and more introverted, for young ppl this is normal You speak about the age differences between them, but remember un the old times ppl gort married like that too. No one forced no one to marry. Dont judge and youll not be judged, Jesus said

[@rhonda5056]

Thank you for the video. Husband will need to buy wife hand lotion to keep her working hands soft and free from callous.

[@ananasouzaasouza2499]

Olha eu aqui de novo vocês fazem comida saudáveis importante pra saúde que Deus te ilumine sempre seus caminhos obrigado obrigado pela atenção obrigado ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@herminemasala814]

Soit plus courageuse ma belle ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@susankeny684]

Stop all negative comment

[@dorisjustine5040]

Can you please put English subtitles. Can't read Chinese characters.

[@reginamorales2706]

His a serious man acts mature and works hard . I impressed in how he knows how to cook that is a plus . The wife just needs to show appreciation for she’s well taking care off

[@rosetta4880]

That's what happens when you marry a child

[@jcsgrl359]

@1:57 her posture here is like a top model. The thing is she’s not even trying to pose.

[@qe545]

From what I see, the man is not gentlemanly enough. Very unlike Rose's husband and Lawu's husband.

[@user-bs7ss2xx7v]

Nice couple 😇🙏🇺🇸🌎🇨🇳👍🏾♥️♥️♥️

[@philomenasason7733]

Wow good husband knows how to cook👍

[@user-vs5ie6fd9k]

Why does this girl look so scared and sad all the time. She may be shy but she looks afraid to say the wrong thing to her husband. Even whdn she and her mother are together, they don't talk to one another. Also where is her husband's family. I see no mother or father.

[@mzdreadhead]

I was thinking the same thing. She appears to be a prop and not happy at all.

[@jackiebenjamin8772]

She is now learning the Chinese language. Her communication is not verse as yet. She is 19 and don't have a motherly guidance with her. She said that she is from Zambia. She is a loner there. Go read her bio.

[@savitrigonzalez2032]

These people only use them for likes views and money

[@SKY-fk3fz]

What kind of love is that, may be I have bad vision

[@SarahWilcher-yh7xu]

I just don't understand what is going on here. This young girl swept up and taken to a foreign country to marry a stranger. Why couldn't this man choose a young lady from China to marry?

[@hisojaper4600]

She people be laughing like they are nuts leave her alone check her body language out she is content ❤

[@MonicB83]

Anaknya masih muda sepertinya dia masih beradaptasi dengan tempat baru merasa tegang itu biasa seperti wanita pertama x kerumah laki laki biasa pertama begitu lama lama pasti sudah terbiasa dan merasa nyaman..

[@elaine7461]

ALL THE BEST ❤❤

[@haniida1827]

I look the husband is ok even look a bit rough, husband slowly taking care yiyi ya, give her much more love and caring her, she still not adapt in china..respect this guy he is good in cooking

[@zuluomo-ikerodah3780]

English subtitles pls. Thank you.

[@jancamp6137]

It will take time for them to to be like lawn every thing take time❤

[@lesrinewhitby4653]

They said the same thing about Lawu in the beginning, now they’re all talking about how lucky she is. These people just love to say nasty things about others because they’re jealous and have no life.

[@evawilliam2265]

She is so young and naïve, I hope this guy doesn't take advantage of her and abandon her and wish her all the best. ❤❤❤

[@rubiedianewaddy838]

The second girl has the best husband

[@aminakunde3320]

Loving wstching you every day, can you tell us your love journey on how you met .

[@user-md2vg9em8u]

❤❤❤❤вы лучшие❤❤❤❤❤

[@mzdreadhead]

She’s not happy at all. She’s too young, long way away from home and her people, and not into that man who appears to be using her.

[@prettylady57]

I was thinking the same the man act like he's using her or his her boss

[@cherryohhh]

Agreed! The government of China needs to look into transactional marriages. I've been watching Rose & Feli since 2020...totally different vibe. Come on Africans...it's not that bad in your rich country...perspective from a woman of colour living in North America.

[@maca5984]

Il n’est pas humble avec elle. C est pas ça l’amour , c'est pour l’exploiter

[@cherryohhh]

@@maca5984 Convenue

[@jcjohnson628]

I'm very concerned about her mental health. I hope her mother has the wisdom to detect that her daughter isn't happy, which shouldn't be the case early in her so-called marriage. I'm not sure why her family let her marry a man too old for her age. I pray GOD helps and rescues her. It's not too late!!!

[@mariealphonse7613]

She doesn't look scared at all , she sometimes looks not interested in whatever she is doing . Her husband doesn't complain that's a good thing . Nevertheless her mother needs to have a conversation with her about everything.

[@angelaescoffery7728]

That's her husband..wow😮

[@Odi_na_baa_ezeJesustv]

Rose husband cooks well. She is a lucky girl.

[@rosebrandon1113]

Chinese women are not going to work like that for the Chinese man his wife is going to have his ring on her finger to show that he loves her the black woman that marries a Chinese man do not wear wedding rings😮

[@sampsonpaintsil52]

Very sad story 😢

[@mwikalijosephine5178]

Very good husband

[@user-ms1wn6fs6e]

Most people go through a culture shock and it takes a little longer to adapt.

[@karenbailey1455]

Leave the couple alone she knew. how hard her sister work hard to make it possible for her she will be fine.

[@rubiedianewaddy838]

Well it looks like he's looking for a work and not a beloved wife. Not going to end well for her she's not going to fire your love and compassion

[@vinB4799]

Not a fair comment, he went all the way to look for a wife. Give them a chance to warm up with each other.

[@marrieann5278]

Good in judging people as if you know them very well,this is wrong

[@monaahmed1511mo]

شئ رائع جدا 👍👍

[@neusalago5726]

Obrigado por ter a legenda em português ❤❤❤

[@kugs4749]

But it appears these ladies are hooking up these guys as soon as they arrive. Anyway wish them all the best for the future. Rose is doing very well and this girl's sister too, oh and this other sister who just had a baby😅😅😅😅😅

[@VRZhihui]

The food looks tasty. This has to be newlyweds. She has not learned the language.

[@maca5984]

J'ai peur pour l’avenir de cette petite ROSE et Feli ne sont pas traitées de la sorte

[@deborahblackshear3325]

Agree with you. He is not kind in his talk.I hope that she treated with kindness

[@nayida4ever]

Il y quelques temps, Feli était une esclave selon les internautes …

[@ckyl4674]

Feli wasn't a slave. Yes she worked hard with her father in law in the fields, growing veggies and raising some chooks. Do you think you just sit at home and do nothing and wait for manna to drop from the sky? Feli's husband worked in a big city to provide for them and he returned home to see them on Chinese New Year. Subsistence agriculture is rural life everywhere in the world.

[@arletevincent9786]

😊😊😊😊 toute ira bien pour Rose patience

[@tereasayob8545]

English subtitles please

[@doroseror6510]

The guy is not friendly

[@user-bk5fb3xc4u]

綺麗な奥さんですね😊 日本語字幕つけてください😊

[@jaelmwadulo3176]

I need a Japanese man of 50yrs..

[@nelliebrown5665]

I'm with you all on this video cuz he is not the right person for her.look like to me he kind of Boss her and she think that is the right thing for him to do she don't no any better I don't care for him.

[@barbaraedwards5675]

I think he’s instructing in the ways to be the kind who will compliment him - a helpmate. This arrangement seems awkward, but I hope the best for them both.

[@rubiedianewaddy838]

Looks like he's looking for someone to be a work hand. It would not be a good life for her.. she needs somebody younger.. I hope her sister is aware of what's going on with her that's not a good date.

[@PERPETUE-gh3vf]

Vraiment c'est malheureux d'être comme ça pourquoi faire semblant cette fille est malheureuse et elle aiie trop jeune qu'elle traumatisme pour une cette jeune fille l'homme me semble pas assez aimant vis a vis d'elle

[@francinemarie60]

Vraiment je ne comprends pas donc elles toutes vont en chine pour se marier?? Quelle tristesse

[@emelinedragin1646]

C est une esclave cette petite. Elle semble malheureuse

[@emelinedragin1646]

Vraiment triste

[@mersonletailleur5098]

Je vois ça,mais je ne dis rien depuis Haïti elle ne sens pas à l'aime dans cette relation Jésus wooooooo

[@lavidacondiosesbella4520]

Que bien 😊

[@nikitatomas8412]

Est-ce que cette fille c'est la petite soeur de Felista. Qui est arrivée en Chine la semaine dernière.

[@haniida1827]

Yiyi u remind me panda nama YI Yi born in Malaysia 😢 until today she is still not adapt in China 😢 we miss YIYI, Sheng Yi and Nuan nuan

[@sossetouibrahimissaka6226]

❤❤

[@omohjaneajayi9495]

Is she not allowed to talk in these videos or have a voice??? Why is the husband not allowing wify to actively participate in the videos with him always controlling the narratives???

[@karencabrera2296]

Disculpa la joven es hermana de Felista?

[@richardjoson2041]

Hi I am richard Joson from Mauritius I very like your videos 😊😊😊

[@joannereid4072]

Judgemental people..judge your own life and not others. Let people live how they want to live. You don't know what they agreed to when they decided to get married. Is your life fulfilling and filled with joy and peace? Judge not lest ye be judged!

[@joannereid4072]

Both families are benefitting from this union.

[@waymakers152]

I love Rose and her family. I even love, African girl in China (even though I was worried about her husband, she has excellent relationship with her father in love though). Perhaps her husband isn't as gruff as he looks, he doesn't look like he loves her right now. Rose's husband you can see the love and admiration. Maybe after they're together for awhile we will see their glow too.

[@jancamp6137]

Can you make your video translate in English please

[@user-st5ic6jx8q]

❤

[@user-qp9pe7xz8h]

😊😊😊😊😊

[@rosabivins2558]

How old is she ??? And furthermore, she looks very unhappy. What is it that makes her so unhappy that it shows on her face she does look scary so for the purpose of this video, you need to sit down and talk with her to pay attention for the person who is filming a video take in consideration that it should be someone communicating with her not just making a film about her life I have a full one cannot continue watching this if she’s unhappy it makes me think otherwise what might be going!!

[@doyinsonuga1948]

Wonder why not get a plate each what part of the World are you please

[@heythere360]

I believe she will be fine when she learns the language and get used to the camera. She needs time

[@NondoKadzi]

How then did she agree to get married to someone she can't communicate with. It's scary really. Let's hope with time she will.open up and at least smile

[@CruzFavela]

please translate subtitles to english

[@jocelynejoseph5738]

🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@millicentkinyaka6516]

Forgive my manners I thought is lawu's family but this a different family

[@marianencnanda5046]

Can you put text in English please

[@lakishamcshan7692]

All the sisters are being slaved. Lawu can't hold her own child. The grandmother them just took over the baby! So what he knows how to cook. That suppose to make her happy???

[@martharinebiseko1457]

Nit related in anyway to Rawu. Eawu is from TZ. This young lady is from Zambia..if you choose to follow people then do so unbiased

[@jessmarierivera3741]

For what they show in the videos it looks that way. I can’t subscribe to them for that same reasons. I hope I’m wrong. But I can’t call all of them are being slaved, that a bit too much. Some of them shows independence in there decisions and freedom example,Felista. sadly I don’t know about Lawu. Lawu needs to put her foot down. But is might be just me assuming wrongly, like I said to others we are not with them and they are not recording 24hrs but even with editing what I see make me think the way I do. Let’s hope she learn one thing or two and gain some autonomy while at the same time keep the harmony in the family 🙏🏽

[@eternalqueensdiyeverything7380]

“He who is without sin , cast the first stone “ I live in USA and if this young lady is in “adulthood “ not in any danger, and her family approves of her marriage STOP 🛑 JUDGING AND LET PEOPLE LIVE that’s what’s wrong with this world 🌎 too much JUDGING… remember be your OWN JUDGE FIRST 💯🙄

[@emilymuchiku4543]

Put English sub titles

[@normaheflin5670]

Deep love my behind!!! Life is not a faiy tail!! As some people would have it...

[@lavidacondiosesbella4520]

😊😊