Does anyone know how to fix this? (ARK Survival Ascended) Context in description.

Does anyone know how to fix this? (trying to get a grind going on ASA but the game hates me lol) Have been trying to join for the past day now and have tried everything to fix this fucking bullshit but everytime I join around 10 seconds later I just get kicked out with the same error message, "lost/timeout to host connection" or something related to that. I have tried everything from checking my in game files and verifying them with the verify integrity of files on steam, uninstalled the whole game and reinstalled it, restarted my PC, changed graphics to moderate setting and most recommended settings, uninstalling the battleye client then relaunching ark and reinstalling it, I even joined a seperate official server and it did the same exact thing to me, just kicked me out 10 seconds later. I've tried everything I can think of and nothing works, also tried joining over around 6 times in a row or so but all turned out the same. Also for some odd reason whenever I join the server, also I made sure it wasn't just one server and multiple by joining other servers and it did the same exact thing, I was able to move for 10-15 or so seconds in game before being instantly kicked out. In the main server I'm trying to play in everytime I try and go back in I spawn in the spot I was in before even though I had moved and all wild dinos freeze and if I try and drink or hit a tree I neither get any water nor get any mats, not to mention everything including my stats are frozen as well. Ik this isn't a wifi problem due to the fact I have good wifi and I even tried using my ethernet that has a way better signal with almost 1 gigabyte of downloading speed MBPS and almost 1 gigabyte of uploading MBPS as well and it still gave me the same message. I was told by someone in the ARK Discord that I might need to wait 24 hours because at one point it did say that my battleye client was not responding which was why I got kicked, but that was like 2 times, all the other times it was "lost/timedout connection to host" or some error like that. I might have to wait a whole day but Idek if that's gonna fix something because the day prior to this one everything was fine.