Oh well, I'm seventy years old this year and I'm not jealous. My blackness ain't cracking too much. I might have been treated different growing up, but it has treated me well over the years.
@MoneyComethToshelia6 жыл бұрын
1960's girl and you are beautiful
@kmross735 жыл бұрын
If that's you, you look great!
@nosbigem5 жыл бұрын
kmross73 it’s me baby.
@nosbigem5 жыл бұрын
Victoria Lee thank you.
@kmross735 жыл бұрын
1960's girl You look beautiful!😊 I hope I age as gracefully as you!
@sheilaanna4 жыл бұрын
Wow, the grandmother was so anti-black and colourist. Also Interracial marriage/ procreating will not “erase” racism, look at other multiracial countries like Brazil who still deal with colourism.
@paullajackson44822 жыл бұрын
Italy has colourism as well, North Italians are lighter skinned and Southern Italians are referred to as Black Italians because they are darker skinned.
@UniversityofuncommonsenseАй бұрын
What did she say that was anti-black or colorist? I must have missed something.
@char5245 жыл бұрын
wow, that mom looks great for 83 years old!
@NickyM_03 жыл бұрын
She looks like the slightly older Sister than her 55 yr old daughter and more stylish.
@quavonhall70503 жыл бұрын
Indeed !
@dameluz52287 жыл бұрын
It's sad how even "mixed race" people push this idea that white is the norm or default race. The way that lady so casually said that her grown children would marry white people because they didn't identify with "urban" culture, as if Blackness is "urban" is so sad and ridiculous. Also, I am Dominican and I can tell you that as someone who was born into a mixed race society that discrimination STILL happens among mixed race people depending on hair/features/skin color/etc. Anti-Blackness is still an issue even when you are mixed, just as white supremacy is the sum of all that shit..
@lcjennah17 жыл бұрын
I don't think you got the point. What those ladies are saying is they are tired of being terrorized by darker skinned blacks when they've tried so hard to fit in. So they are tired and decided why not accept themselves as dark-skinned blacks have constantly shoved down their throats for decades. Believe me, I know because I am one of them.
@dameluz52287 жыл бұрын
And I don't think u get that colorism within a white supremacist society gives u benefits not afforded to darker skinned Black people..
@nubeazul59637 жыл бұрын
Dame Luz colorism is not the handiwork of mixed race people. They are as much a part of it as victims of it. Dark skinned people can be colorists too, as well as white. It's not mixed race people's jobs to carry the burden of two other races. Furthermore, mixed race people are mocked for even acknowledging that's what they are in this country. Thanks to the one drop rule. Mixed race people have as much a right to preserve who and what they are just as anyone else.
@dameluz52287 жыл бұрын
so u jus gonna absolve mixed people of any and all responsibility huh? u jus gonna act like lighter people don't perpetuate colorism against darker people huh?? please have several seats cuz u sounding real stupid right now..
@nubeazul59637 жыл бұрын
Dame Luz lol Im so glad you replied. Even happier that you replied the way that you did! First, I'll answer your question. No, mixed race people are not absolved from colorism but IT IS unfair and counterproductive to put the blame solely on them when colorism is a worldwide problem amongst all countries and ethnicities. Not just mixed race people here in The US, who can not even call themselves what they are. They are denied their identity by both white and black Americans. Also, I saw in another post you wrote that you are Dominican yet here you write in African American vernacular English (Ebonics) and use slang that is also African American. Why are you USURPING other people's cultures! You are not a black American. You are appropriating their speech pattern to be "cute" "sassy" "irreverent" also perpetuating stereotypes about blackness. Speak and act like what you are! 😂😂😂 people like you make me laugh. You want to be accepted by black Americans so bad you'll throw yourself in the trash. Guess what they'll never really think of you as one of them and you will have to subdue your own culture, language, and history to roll with them. 😂😂😂😂 pathetic.
@kennedym29886 жыл бұрын
I really feel sorry for black people who puts so much infuses on their European heritage because most people especially white people will see you as Black, period. Also those older women act like just because they’re college educated that they are better than other black people or that’s just not the norm for black people. You all need to get out more because there are plenty of educated black people then and now. I’m so glad my parents raised me to love my blackness and yes I’m Black mixed with black.. Do I get those same types of questions asked? Yes. Are most black people mixed with something else down or near the line? Yes. Soooo what!! #BLACKANDPROUD✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
@Siesiebabby6 жыл бұрын
Kennedy M thank you!
@Tritone6 жыл бұрын
"people who puts so much *infuses* on" I had to read that 4 times before I understood.
@sophiabrown94235 жыл бұрын
They have light skinned black women like that or people in general like you said white people don't look at them any different they are still black.
@drucillawoods36975 жыл бұрын
Kennedy M s
@septiawoman76875 жыл бұрын
Lol...NO ONE is "better" than another person. Your standard of living or life-style may be better or up a few notches, but it is really one's "character" that should be looked at. I don't know WHEN this "better than thou" crap began, but it will finally die it's deserving death when people stop feeding into it.
@kimjohnson84716 жыл бұрын
Dang, Momma is STILL pissed off about that incident in the teacher's lounge!
@juniebob4420 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@MrBlackPositiveandInteresting6 жыл бұрын
Most black people are not jealous of lighter skinned individuals. They are sometimes jealous of the worlds perception on lighter skinned individuals.
@MrBlackPositiveandInteresting3 жыл бұрын
@Zhara Moreira did you even read my post?
@MrBlackPositiveandInteresting3 жыл бұрын
@Zhara Moreira Colonization is what created this issue.
@MoneyComethToshelia6 жыл бұрын
When Jesus come back none of this mess want even matter... Only heaven or hell will...
@annogbeni45066 жыл бұрын
Amen to you Victoria. A person is who they are and it cannot be changed.
@chelleholmes10125 жыл бұрын
Now that's the truth!
@lastdays31485 жыл бұрын
Looking forward to finally seeing King Yeshua in the skies one day🙌 I've had enough of toxic Planet Earth🌎
@lineyh80955 жыл бұрын
Lol life is there, i think only black People Wait Jesus come back !!!! 🙄 Other fight for survive !!!!!
@mac16one5 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!
@Roxberrie5 жыл бұрын
This was sad and pitiful to watch. America certainly has done a number on the people of the African diaspora.
@710MaryJane5 жыл бұрын
Roxberrie ~ Yes, for sure!
@13579hee5 жыл бұрын
@Lee May exactly
@ronalddippenaar23814 жыл бұрын
As a South African coloured (brown) person this is sad to hear. There are 4.5million of us here and we are very proud of who we are! We also know for a fact that there are no 'pure' races in the world. And if all nations had a particular colour that the world would have been a pretty motley place. I think this dilemma for American mixed race people stems from the one drop black blood definition, which is, to put it bluntly, Stupid. A comedian once said that if someone is wearing a black shoe and a white shoe. Can anyone then comment 'what a nice pair of black shoes you are wearing?' Be proud of who you are because you are BEAUTIFUL. The world is becoming more mixed race! Just look around. And if you are not happy in America, come to South Africa where you won't be conscious of this colour nonsense!
@ronalddippenaar23814 жыл бұрын
Just as an added comment. The first persons on the planet (Adam and Eve) must have had mixed genes. Hence the mutation of man into the various 'races' Remember too that Jesus wasn't 'white' Be proud of who you are because you are beautiful!
@Roxberrie4 жыл бұрын
@@ronalddippenaar2381 I don't think the first people were mixed at all. What would they be mixed with. I think it's clear that the original man was African.
@CVNHOUSTON7 жыл бұрын
She has African facial features/bone structure. The only thing white about her is her light skin color but I knew she was black when the video came on. I guess because I'm from New Orleans and have aunts, cousins who look like that.
@MsEliteForever6 жыл бұрын
CVNHOUSTON I'm from Florida and also gave family members on my moms side like that. Black Americans are diverse too.
@cynthiapickett50176 жыл бұрын
My mother's side of the family also largely resemble these ladies.
@helena36315 жыл бұрын
new Orleans is notorious for this a lot of people from here passed to be anything other than black once they left
@winniejohnson55595 жыл бұрын
CVNHOUSTON that light skin chick is confused in my opinion..
@lucindajones7015 жыл бұрын
Same
@Inna06916 жыл бұрын
It makes me upset when people ask me what my race is and I say that I am mostly black and they want to make a face... just because I'm light skin...
@MelissaLaura8989 Жыл бұрын
Me too I know the feeling sis. 😔
@agingbjd5 ай бұрын
It shouldn't matter. The one drop rule does exist. I do believe that it makes us stronger when we have African in us regardless of the shade of brown.
@SimpleMinded2213 ай бұрын
@@agingbjd The one drop rule basically states 1 drop of black makes you black. What it actually means is black blood is seen as a taint and sub human, thus one drop corrupts superior blood and the child assumes the inferior parents racial stock. The reason why this racist ideology still exists is because partly, people like you defy science, logic and reason says otherwise. Be proud of who you are entirely. Why listen to racist people, break free from jim crow laws. Black people are literally the only race of people that say black plus anything is black. Chinese dont do this, whites dont, Mexicans don't, Indians dont. Its a self esteen issue. All groups of people, including Africans have clear definitions on who they are. For the most part, many African Americans suffer from inferiority complex.
@SimpleMinded2213 ай бұрын
@@agingbjd SLAVE TALK
@mikebike17152 ай бұрын
@@agingbjdno it doesn't
@rtp19686 жыл бұрын
The young lady in the video looks like an ordinary Black person. She doesn't look mixed to me.
@jacquelyngail88226 жыл бұрын
???
@adoris8645 жыл бұрын
Me neither. She's delusional. I would never have thought ANY of them were anything other than black.
@lastdays31485 жыл бұрын
When the last lady Diane said that she was 55 years of aged my facial expression were like this😲 On this video she looks 10 years older. I am 50 years younger Melanin woman and people are always assuming that I am in my later 30s.
@lastdays31485 жыл бұрын
@@adoris864 I was rolling my eyes at the the younger with the Glasses🙄 When she said that her classmates were saying to her what are you. I knew that should would say that she also has Native American Indian😂 She looks lighter Melanin aka Black woman to me.
@karenwatson50535 жыл бұрын
A'Doris A Thank ya...
@annetteskinner96525 жыл бұрын
You don't have to be lighter skinned to be beautiful get it straight.
@iBOXRIVER10 жыл бұрын
Daune doesn't look 52
@GentleJohn8 жыл бұрын
Black don't crack.
@elijahkattow45707 жыл бұрын
Duane's sister Diane cracked tho.😂😂
@yoshikaneely49696 жыл бұрын
Btfol @elijahkattow
@buttahscotchkisses31335 жыл бұрын
My jaw dropped when she said her age.
@lagoldie9783 Жыл бұрын
I honestly don't think light skin people walk around thinking their better and dark skin people shouldn't be walking around thinking their better
@loveyrae849 жыл бұрын
Race and nationality are two different things. Saying your "American" when asked your race doesn't make you clever. If you want to list all your racial backgrounds, do that. To be in one group means that you are not in another. That means that we are all not apart of some group.
@minhacontaize7 жыл бұрын
I´m brazilian. People here don´t identify as back, white, brown, asian etc. The colors are there, but they are as importante to us as eye color is to you; sure eyes have different colors, but noone in his right mind would insist on marrying someone of the same "eye color race".
@HawaiiDEEPS2 жыл бұрын
It isn't about being clever, it's about showing that race is not real on a biological level and on a social level should be insignificant.
@loveyrae842 жыл бұрын
@@HawaiiDEEPS because you can't identify the genes, doesn't it doesn't exist, it only means you can't identify the genes. Do your eyes agree with your assessment that race doesn't exist? Things do not suddenly start existing, when you discover it. Whether or not it's important on a social level, is different from Whether or not it should be relevant or a social level. It's importance and impact is dependent on the situation at the time. I don't even know how you can disagree with me.
@HawaiiDEEPS2 жыл бұрын
@@loveyrae84 That's the problem, you don't understand how I can disagree with you so you assume I'm wrong. It isn't that scientists can't identify the genes, it's that they're not there! There are no "racial" genes any more than there are genes that give 1 "white" person a big nose and another a small one. I'm considered black yet pewdiepie has a wider nose than me. We've categorized humans based on certain features, many pertaining to skin tone, but you know why that's flawed? A place like Africa where nearly everyone is considered black, is the most genetically diverse continent in the world. The label was only given because of their dark skin, but if that's the basis for race than Indians should be black too; there are Indians darker than me. In addition, there's too much genetic variety in Africa to put them all under the same race, and too many to give each group their own specific race. Look up the San people who are considered the oldest ethnic group in the world, yet many outside of Africa would probably think they're mixed African and East Asian because of racial concepts. Arabs aren't even given a race in Europe, they're just Arabs, and the funny thing is the Arab world has mixed ancestry of Arabs(colonizers from Saudi Arabia), indigenous people(throughout West Asia and North Africa), and some Sub-Saharan especially in North African populations. Yet, they're just all called Arab by their ethnicity, not given a racial label, we just accept that they don't all look the same. In the US the census has them identify as white(to show you more flaws of racial categorization). Even Southern Europeans with North African ancestry and brown skin identify as white. When it comes to mixed latinos, practically any mix of European, North African, and Indigenous is accepted as latino, but when you have visible African features people assume otherwise and doubt how latino you are. You get the Afro-Latino label instead, while everyone else is Latino. Lastly, we need to look at the fact that racial categories vary by nation, which would be impossible if race was concrete. In the US I'm black, in DR I'm Mulatto, in Brazil what I am is up to me but I'd probably be seen as Pardo, however many who would be considered white there are considered black or mixed in the US. Race is not real, it's how different groups of people label others based on their understanding, but it isn't necessary and all it's ever done is cause division. Humans label things they don't understand. In the name of science that doesn't care if you don't understand it, there is 1 human race that simply has genetic variety, and with the world now interconnected everyone will be mixed in the future. Maybe then people can see past this social construct that only became mainstream in the 15th century when Europe wanted labels to make Africans and Indigenous Americans seem less than human to justify slavery and colonization.
@juniebob4420 Жыл бұрын
@@minhacontaizeBrazil has a lot of racism
@JudithSanchez-ht6jn4 жыл бұрын
I’m Latin America they were considered white or byracial and mulato and the Caribbean island.
@kaleahcollins45317 жыл бұрын
is one thing to be cold not black enough from other black people but to have white people say that you're not black is another story
@janices61405 жыл бұрын
God must love dark skinned people. He made so many of us! I'm of the HUMAN RACE.
@dgive907 жыл бұрын
Wow this is so ignorant. This is why people have the perceptions of mixed people they do. My natural hair is beautiful and I'm FULL BLACK!
@damarcusmomm057 жыл бұрын
The 83yr looks younger than her daughter's
@so9487 Жыл бұрын
When people say "you are not black enough", you should reply "you are too black". When people say "you are not white enough", you should reply "you are too white". America is fixated on racial categorization. Placing groups of people in their boxes makes it easier to target them for discrimination. If your skin complexion makes you uncomfortable, then you have serious mental issues; don't blame society. If you see light skin as better, please don't tell us that society says so - it is you who see it that way. When a person asks you what you are, please proudly state your ethnic heritage and don't be ashamed of it. People who believe light skin is better should explain that to the tanning industry. Dark complexion is naturally protected against harmful rays from the sun and thereby preventing crepey skin.
@beesnees30705 жыл бұрын
“Pick me! Pick me! I’m part of the white race too. Massa pick me!” Lmao 😂
@vikkeig.87385 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of the movie Queen
@valenciabenton42575 жыл бұрын
Wow 😮😡
@cynthiapickett74034 жыл бұрын
Wrong!
@rafidi16924 жыл бұрын
You black as ace of spade and jealous AF👏🏼
@mikalyonsoneal98902 жыл бұрын
You sound racist and bitter 🤔
@markbrown17737 жыл бұрын
what water fountain would you have had to drink from in downtown Atlanta in 1950 ? "Ok that's what you is den"
@briannabombshell19216 жыл бұрын
mark brown is it 1950 now? Times have changed.. the facts are coming to the surface.. look at how ignorant people in general were in the 1950s
@kashataylor64306 жыл бұрын
Lol. Go watch Mississpi BURNING and hold on to that.
@tylonahambrick28375 жыл бұрын
mark brown Native Americans would of had to drink out of the same fountain , the Japanese would have also had to drink from the colored fountain as well . Having to be subjected to segregation laws didn’t mean you was black it just meant you wasn’t white .
@deloresleonard7625 жыл бұрын
LOL....
@chestchirecateyes5 жыл бұрын
Do you know your history? When was the Civil Rights movement and when where the Civil Rights Acts passed? Ignorance is a very dangerous thing because it breeds people who are too lazy to give think logically.
@Aura_IndigoBlu7 жыл бұрын
I can understand the want to identify yourself as a biracial person but the rest of the world considers us Black.I am so proud to be black I may not be black enough for some but I am who I am and I will not change that for anyone! Just love yourself that's all that matters.
@ReneeDreams7 жыл бұрын
I think you should be able to identify yourself however you want. Society shouldn't label you. I am black and not biracial. Yet, I have biracial friends. How they identify themselves vary but they still all say that they have black ancestry. My only concern with some biracial people ( that are half white and half black) is that some like to erase the black side. That is sad and means there is alot of self-hatred there. That is the only time I get upset. There should never be any self-hatred about who you are.
@Aura_IndigoBlu7 жыл бұрын
Well...... I love all of me both the Black and the Italian! I agree biracial people should never ignore the black side of themselves but it's really due to our society being so anti-black. But deep down other races want what black people have lips, curves, tanned skin, style, etc. they just don't want what comes with being black. BLACK is Beautiful!!! I have experienced prejudice for being biracial and for being black but I have learned over time that it's not my issue it's someone else's ignorance.
@ReneeDreams7 жыл бұрын
Absolutely...so true.
@dorothydandridge39376 жыл бұрын
Bianca Crenshaw you're a sister! Forget those who say you aren't enough
@TheRedstar2126 жыл бұрын
Claim your white side too then....fuck outta here with you're black bs. You light af stop playing
@amirseven72837 жыл бұрын
I see why the young lady in this vide is confused about her race seeing as though her aunt / slash mother / grandmother are confused about who they are. Black is black. Its fine to be mixed but dont deny your black!
@MrBlackPositiveandInteresting6 жыл бұрын
Amir Seven exactly.
@Siesiebabby6 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@theduke61746 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@cynthiapickett50176 жыл бұрын
Amir Seven I hear NO denial about heritage from these people; blackistan will never again control mixed black women.
@ludy415 жыл бұрын
@Ni noir Ni blanc depends on how the white side entered your family line. If it was by force then there's nothing to be proud of.
@moolaman26525 жыл бұрын
Idk maybe Florida is different but all the "mixed" kids i grew up with were treated the same as "black" kids.
@amonduul21545 жыл бұрын
Even Joan Baez were treated very badly in texas
@124hl8 жыл бұрын
I have aunts and uncles that are very light skinned like these women. my grandmother has white skin. our family just goes by black. we have some European in our family like many african american famalies. so I do
@donrider79927 жыл бұрын
marc holmes, If you get mixed and white skinned people being accepted as black by black people then that amounts to voluntary genocide. Fucking stupid.
@tinadrollinger34874 жыл бұрын
Yes my grandmother was just like this 83yr is mother but all of her kids, including herself, identify was black.
@MelissaLaura8989 Жыл бұрын
Man nowadays a mixed person can’t claim black or white!
@MelissaLaura8989 Жыл бұрын
And FYI I’m 52% West African dna and 46% Northern European, and 2% Portuguese! 🇳🇬🇨🇩🇬🇧🇵🇹
@CreoleLadyMarmaladeАй бұрын
@@MelissaLaura8989Your results are similar to mine. I’m 52% West African, 47% European, 1% Native American. But my European is mostly France & Spain with a smaller amount of British & other sprinkles of Northwestern European
@desalineredux4358 жыл бұрын
Everyone isn't mixed as you say. And mixed race isn't a panacea to the race problem.
@CharlieRobe8 жыл бұрын
She's not only speaking racially,..but also culturally.
@carriedelaney15757 жыл бұрын
These racist posters are just being short sighted...most of them have no clue what we went through trying to get Civil Rights Act of 1964...they have no clue...absolutely no clue...no respect for what people like Dr King and so many others tried to get accomplished...now these folks are setting us back at least 100 years with their "separate but equal" mentality.
@FatherElectric7 жыл бұрын
Desaline Redux - Everyone isn't mixed? It's not true that humans receive half of their chromosomal DNA from their mother and then other half from their father? I guess Mendel was wrong. If you can find this hermaphroditic/ asexual person who receives 100% "pure" genes from birth, you would be essential guaranteed a Nobel prize!
@lblack19613 жыл бұрын
"Proximity (real or imagined) to Whiteness" often becomes a "reason" for black folks to bully lighter-skinned folks, from what I've seen as a brown-skinned woman. Growing up, light-skinned people were "honored" by some black folks and bullied by other black folks, just because of their skin. I always found this confusing and odd. I myself was bullied for "talking white" (sounding too "proper" in my speech). That led me to associate more with white kids, because 1) They had no problem seeing me as black and 2) they didn't bully me for how I spoke. I just wanted to live and not be bullied.
@krazyjnva2up2down55 Жыл бұрын
Bullied by blacks because some blacks actually know their history. They know that many Mulattos took on the analogy of their white slave owning parents and they began to own slaves (natives too) . That's usually why blacks are so butt hurt over mixed race people and whites. Weird thing is they don't seem to know some elite blacks that had freedom owned slaves also. Also why don't blacks ever talk about how Africans captured their ancestors and sold them into slavery.
@shammy16736 жыл бұрын
Why do people get offended by people that do not conform to the one drop rule? It is a social construct, not a scientific or religious fact. The USA is not the world. Outside the US we use terms like black or mixed race and in southern Africa mixed ethnic people, are identified as coloured. Wanting to be identified as mixed is not about rejecting black ethnicity ( I sense self-insecurity from those that think this way). It is about excepting multi-ethnicity, embracing our parents, ancestry and so forth. It is so odd that she is being accused of snubbing her black heritage when in fact she wants to celebrate it exactly how she was born, not how society expects. I guess some only hear what they want to hear.
@donniasjordan37015 жыл бұрын
Like you want to comprehend what you want? Self hate is real!!!
@mikalyonsoneal98902 жыл бұрын
This is the most intelligent comment on the post so far.
@mikalyonsoneal98902 жыл бұрын
@@donniasjordan3701 you're actually the one guilty of self hatred and just plain hatred. When you mix red and white together the end result is pink, you no longer have red nor white but something new. It's exactly the same principle when you're mixed race.
@SimpleMinded2213 ай бұрын
@@donniasjordan3701 No biracial person wants to be seen as just white. So because mixed people are proud to be half white, they want to be white ? So backwards. Why would a white person say a mixed person is white ? Theyre not, and neither black. But a MULLATO. You people think like slaves. The one drop rule basically states 1 drop of black makes you black. What it actually means is black blood is seen as a taint and sub human, thus one drop corrupts superior blood and the child assumes the inferior parents racial stock. The reason why this racist ideology still exists is because partly, people like you defy science, logic and reason says otherwise. Be proud of who you are entirely. Why listen to racist people, break free from jim crow laws. Black people are literally the only race of people that say black plus anything is black. Chinese dont do this, whites dont, Mexicans don't, Indians dont. Its a self esteen issue. All groups of people, including Africans have clear definitions on who they are. For the most part, many African Americans suffer from inferiority complex.
@CreoleLadyMarmaladeАй бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@universaljustice73769 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your open and honest posting. Though I strongly disagree that racial mixing is the key to the tragic inferences in racial relations, i do believe that we are all share the same original black ancestors. White supremacy is not very well addressed in this posting, and if you look at the color caste system in many highly mixed race nations like Brazil and Cape Verde, you will find that common condition of wealth and power stratification along the color line. It seems that mutual separation of equals will breed the mutual respect that all sane and civilized people desire. Black inferiority must also die off, and simply mixing blood has never addressed these root factors. May God continue to bless and guide you all along your journeys.
@SusanWalther-zt9cb Жыл бұрын
What to do if Aliens intermingle with any color race human...🤔
@NickyM_03 жыл бұрын
This family is hoping that their Blackness is 'whited out'.
@marliseisrael30173 жыл бұрын
Right
@lisaparks66145 жыл бұрын
When ppl used to ask me what i am i usually say im human
@RETROGEMS6 жыл бұрын
Hey, I just wanted to say that I came across this video and I am REALLY fascinated. I'm of mixed heritage myself, my mother is African-American and part White and my father was of Italian-American descent. Being of mixed race is a unique, complex and often difficult experience, going through positive and negative encounters with both White and Black people because of the racial/political framework of this country, and our fraught collective history. I'm always interested in listening to narratives of the elders in the community, will take a listen to this. Thank you for sharing.
@douglasi.parkerjr.95557 жыл бұрын
my father was lightskin,he was still discriminated by the majority white society for being black.i have family members of all complexions.iam older black catholic male;who had to fought white racism from high school.I attended a black college;a lots of blacks wanted to be white.black frats and soros were color conscience with their plantation mentality.
@jonniemae818 Жыл бұрын
I am Creole and I’ve been through all this. I know who my European relatives come from and who some of them are. I know my Native American relatives are. I know my Caribbean great grandmother was and where she came from as a slave. But is might not be able to find her family. Anyways it has been difficult.
@shunjam1236 жыл бұрын
They look like normal light skinned black women
@Hbd20025 жыл бұрын
Or do they look like dark skin white women?
@lineyh80955 жыл бұрын
They dont look lightskin but mixed...
@marliseisrael30173 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Light skin Black People
@SimpleMinded2213 ай бұрын
@@marliseisrael3017 dark skin white
@CreoleLadyMarmaladeАй бұрын
“Normal” light skin black women cannot be mistaken for anything other than black. They just so happen to have lighter skin. The two older women in this video could go to any country in Southern Europe and blend completely in. That is not the case for a Storm Reid or a Tyra Banks. That’s the difference between mixed & “normal light skin.” & you can tell the younger one has black in her but she looks just as mixed as any biracial or mixed race Latino. She’d blend in seamlessly in Puerto Rico or the Dominican Republic. None of them look like unmixed light skin women. The younger one looks mixed and the older two could pass for fully Southern European.
@annieroxiewebb67417 жыл бұрын
I'm blonde hair blue eyes I knew I had Native great grandparents Did a DNA test and found out I have more native(showed up as Asian in a DNA test for obvious reasons) and BLACK FROM AFRICA(Gore'e Island and West Africa) then I did European blood quantum... shocked me but I absolutely accept and love it And at that moment I realized why my kids were born looking exactly like a Eskimo with Asian eyes jet black hair tan skin and black eyes.... to the point the doctor once ask me the race of my baby when my husband was away lol Found out my maternal grandparents side of the family were Creek Freedmen.. Which were mixed natives who mixed with black slaves So recessive genes can make people look all kinds of ways and looks shouldn't determine race....
@adoris8645 жыл бұрын
You said all that just to say what? Nothing!
@lisascott14225 жыл бұрын
1 $5 dollar Indian.. WHOOPEE!
@pricelessdiamond81316 жыл бұрын
As a Caribbean person it breaks my heart how our black race as become confused. What keeps us alive is our Culture and Customs. Never forgetting our roots. Big up mama Africa!!
@001islandprincess5 жыл бұрын
PRICELESS DIAMOND No such thing as the black race as races were invented by Western European enslavers to rationalize their crimes against humanity. And of course the original white supremacists have used DECEPTION to create confusion among its victims including Africans throughout the diaspora.
@HawaiiDEEPS2 жыл бұрын
There's confusion because race doesn't exist. Every "race" is confused because it's not logical, like the US claiming Irish and Italians weren't white
@gatheringleaves9 жыл бұрын
All of these women are beautiful BIRACIAL women, I think they are simply beautiful, not black or white, but all awesome! Biracial Pride!
@sowhat...6 жыл бұрын
Infinite Sky are they biracial or triracial though?
@JudithSanchez-ht6jn6 жыл бұрын
Yes it time in USA the mulatos be recognize as product of two races, the white and black. That is the concept in Latin America and others in the islands. Please started to call a person who has a pint of black he/she is white. I will love to meet somebody with aptitude a sent them to a doctor. The mulatos are here they do not go anywhere. Mulatos fight for your rights.❤️❤️❤️
@sowhat...6 жыл бұрын
Judith Sanchez can you please edit/correct your comment? I cannot understand a big part of it.
@florientcalliste-leonard6808 жыл бұрын
1st young lady speaking looks like a light skin black person!
@mikeaskme35307 жыл бұрын
Say what that's weird my mom is the young lady's color and hair and guess what I am milk chocolate in color tone. So please stop with your none sense.
@MrBlackPositiveandInteresting6 жыл бұрын
My mom is her skin tone also and is a proud black woman .
@MsEliteForever6 жыл бұрын
Scoring57 black noses are diverse. We all don't have the same noses...
@MsEliteForever6 жыл бұрын
me jr My aunt and my grandpa her skin tone and not mixed.
@cynthiapickett50176 жыл бұрын
me jr So was mine.
@yourmajesty70127 жыл бұрын
I'm just wondering why the 52 and 55 year old look like they are really 30 years apart, genetics is crazy
@ReneeDreams7 жыл бұрын
The fact that they look so different despite only 3 years has nothing to do with genetics. That has to do with lifestyle. Plus, as you notice the 55 year-old has gray hair and the 52 year-old doesn't. So the 52 year-old could be dying her hair for all we know...we don't know. The 55 year-old may have had more health issues which can age a person...there are many factors that play into it that we don't know. But it has nothing to do with genetics...just a lifestyle difference.
@yourmajesty70127 жыл бұрын
ReneeDreams it's genetics
@gratefuldead37502 жыл бұрын
In Nigeria or Ghana people would think they are arabs or Lebanese
@dontdomeboo815 жыл бұрын
You can say you are a mix race black women....
@dontdomeboo814 жыл бұрын
@jeisa Jeis are u black?
@GearsinMotionGraphics7 жыл бұрын
So that people have such a complex situation towards people ethnicity and makeup this is what drives us apart. illusion has always Driven Man to his full craziness
@joesinegal81673 жыл бұрын
Look My Love, Just Join Us Louisiana Creoles With Your Identity. We're The Original Mixed People From The Original Melting Pot In America. Our History Is Almost 500 Old And Is Older Than The United States It's Self! Just Know That Your Ethnic Make Up Is Just A Continuation Of What's Already Existed For Hundreds Of Year's In America. We're Mixed With 7 Different Ethnicities And Love Everyone Of Them, Because It Makes Us Who We Are! One Love From Your Creole Cousins!
@rachelbradfield33826 жыл бұрын
My skin color is yellow. Ive always been a proud black woman. Sometimes in my life I have gotten told off by darker skin people about calling myself black.Actually many times.
@pamelamcdaniel8193 жыл бұрын
My skin color is also "yellow". Have always been "yellow" and called that growing up by people of my race. So I've been called colored, negro, and african american. I am black! My family runs the gambit from light to dark and we embrace all, we love all. Call us what you want, we're black and we're proud and we're family!
@msmargo65252 жыл бұрын
@@pamelamcdaniel819 lol
@msmargo65252 жыл бұрын
Well
@kingnola..9522 жыл бұрын
That's a good comeback I have ancestors from Europe And... Africa and I agree skin color has nothing to do with beauty and the one drop rule is bull s***.
@710MaryJane5 жыл бұрын
Well, Caucasians did an excellent job of making people "feel inferior, and less than" if they weren't 100% Anglo Saxon. This was done to oppress, subjugate, and control. Well I too am Multi-Ethnic, and damn proud of it! I feel like a potpourri, a little bit of this, and a little bit of that. When people ask me "what are you?" I feel like responding, human, but I say I'm an American, born, bred and buttered.
@oldzensoul8 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful chihuahua
@IndianRedd3 жыл бұрын
83👀 nah I can’t believe it. Damn she killing it at 83🙏🏽💯
@POCOHONTAS18757 жыл бұрын
She looks like she and Colin Powell can be siblings..... to the far right
@cyndis6654 жыл бұрын
A dark complected person isn't looking for you to save them...save yourself. I personally do not think that people are sitting around saying "you're going to get a job before me."
@lagoldie9783 Жыл бұрын
We should form a group
@Safphron7 жыл бұрын
This family is so problematic that I don't even know where to start. I see where the younger woman is more enlightened than her elders but I also see where they have corrpted her thinking and she is yet to become aware of it. The only positive resolution is that the elders seem to have encouraged their children to marry out and so will breed themselves completely out of the black community. They can be somebody else's problem.
@ladybugrona73213 жыл бұрын
All four of them suffering from fantasty island...especially the old woman. She was happy to sit in a white movie theater...you want a cookie for sitting in there. She's old but not wise.
@asr29343 жыл бұрын
@@ladybugrona7321 she's not on fantasy island alot of us feel the same way and we are not feeling it it's not ok to be disrespectful in the way that blacks disrespect us it's also not ok to try stuff on people
@asr29343 жыл бұрын
@@ladybugrona7321 and we aren't gonna be gaslighted and treated that way ever again
@asr29343 жыл бұрын
Your problems are not our problems either and we don't care
@rodmcdonald47077 жыл бұрын
I am bi-racial and the only racism I ever experienced was from black people.
@lionessofjudah13967 жыл бұрын
Rod McDonald I'm sorry
@eatme20637 жыл бұрын
i believe you
@jojosaylor89967 жыл бұрын
Rod McDonald Im dark skinned I have received racism from Koreans Jews Brown skinned. light skinned and dark skinned and other Europeans...
@Safphron7 жыл бұрын
Rod McDonald If you are as you are as old as you appear to be in this photo and think you've experienced racism from black people then I see why black people have REJECTED you your whole life. If you've been completely acxepted by white people then it is because they cannot distinguish you from themselves in both looks and mentality.
@lwiggins2able6 жыл бұрын
Rod McDonald In my community it was both but mostly blacks.
@bobbyschannel349 Жыл бұрын
Angela is just super light skin but she looks very black American.. She just really light-complected..
@michelleelmore55334 жыл бұрын
The comments the second daughter who is 50 comments about her kids saying they would purposely marry white because they didn’t identify with the urban culture. That was disturbing. It’s like she’s saying the African American people aren’t educated or cultured. Just breaks my heart.
@marciabritton8133 Жыл бұрын
Those of us who are mixed race must take the time to include all complexions into society. There are situations that children feel different. When children feel comfortable with you, they will reveal their problems to you. All elements must be treated fairly and included in order feel secure in our ethnicity.
@SnarkierThan-U-R7 жыл бұрын
I am a grown woman and when I worked for the U.S. Gov, well I was in the cafeteria one day and a group of black female empoyloyees asked me: "What are you"? I replied: "HUMAN"
@marliseisrael30173 жыл бұрын
Wow that made it into your memory bank?
@SnarkierThan-U-R3 жыл бұрын
@@marliseisrael3017 Ies, I have a working brain so it got into my memory bank. Most healthy humans are able to remember things that challenge thier "Sense Of Self"
@marliseisrael30173 жыл бұрын
@@SnarkierThan-U-R I hope you are able to heal and forgive all that happened to you as a child. Bless You X-Misma-X 🌻
@SnarkierThan-U-R3 жыл бұрын
@@marliseisrael3017 ('m Good, leave me alone. I don't need your blessing.
@marllon97866 жыл бұрын
lol are you sure about having Native American? Too many African Americans and White Americans claim nonexistent Native American ancestry due to family folklore. When you said you were very mixed, I was waiting to hear four or five races. Being mixed black and white is not very mixed, and in certain cities of the United States your look is not uncommon. Go to New York, New Orleans, or Miami and you'll see for yourself.
@cynthiapickett50176 жыл бұрын
Or Los Angeles, for that matter.
@mikalyonsoneal98902 жыл бұрын
I'm creole and yes, my native heritage is legit. My paternal grandmother lived on the Muskogee Creek reservation in Muscogee as a girl and my creole maternal grandmother was a third Houma from Louisiana as well as French, African and Indigenous Mexican.
@GearsinMotionGraphics7 жыл бұрын
Isn't it amazing that we have a creator that has created everybody for different colored us and still we cannot go past the perception of colorism towards everybody being just ONE. the delusion and illusion of life and all towards 1 things human existence
@mrsteebarber31887 жыл бұрын
A lot of hateful & ignorant comments on this video! Did any of you COMPREHEND what the Grandmother meant?? You all just heard the words "Blacks were jealous" and began to type your hurtful insults! She was saying that MOST folks (including our own BLACK FOLKS) feel that being "light skinned" must be a tragic! Also, let's not overlook the fact SOME ARE jealous because they don't have to spend a lot of money on fixing their hair, etc! We as a people need to FACE THE PAINFUL TRUTHS so that we can fix the problem within our own race, before expecting other races to accept us!!!!!
@cynthiapickett50176 жыл бұрын
MrsTee Barber Thanks. Blackistan needs to live and let live, and to STFU.
@mikalyonsoneal98902 жыл бұрын
Say it louder for the hateful people in denial sis. The truth hurts but after the sting and good person aims to do better and be better.
@13579hee5 жыл бұрын
Im so happy that Im a monoracial Black person because I don't want ANY of these problems lol
@choppacity43483 жыл бұрын
Answer like Jesus did who thy say I am and if that's not good enough say I'm a child of God ♥️✌️✊⚜️
@nadiraabdullahmuhammad33505 жыл бұрын
Im 59 as of next wk I have good Black # My Black hasn't cracked Proud to be A Black Woman.Im Brown skined👏
@nr83377 жыл бұрын
"Black people are jealous...They spend $150 fixing their hair.. " XD really?! She really took there. I do not think the woman on the left could roll her eyes any harder!!!
@shunjam1236 жыл бұрын
Don't say black people are jealous. I am not jealous of anyone
@truthiswealth10746 жыл бұрын
Maelys Abdou yes YOU are obviously jealous lol ...hey why all the anger against us from Black folks then ???
@royalempirevlogs95466 жыл бұрын
Smh
@chestchirecateyes5 жыл бұрын
I've always contended that there's only one race, the human race, and everything else is a construct designed to create division.
@YellowTXRose13 жыл бұрын
This is not a practical view and is unhelpful in the fight against racial terror. I actually believe it's a view point put out to confuse ppl and neutralize would be fighters into sabotaging themselves and submitting to being overpowered.
@joannearroyo88643 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I just had this conversation, 7 years later from when this first "aired". I made your point, the other person said we must track ppl's race so we know where, and how often, discrimination and hate crimes are happening Evidence of just how effectively and tragically the divisiveness has worked!
@joannearroyo88643 жыл бұрын
My above comment was in response to cheshirecateyes
@tinasullivan55783 жыл бұрын
So true we are all of the human race.
@elainebmack5 жыл бұрын
I have 4 siblings, all fair skinned, who all experienced attitudes and problems that I never had to deal with; things that took their toll psychologically on them. There were people who wanted to be seen with and be "friends" with my siblings simply because they were fair skinned. None of these "friendships" ever lasted, but created a strange type of insecurity in my siblings that is with them today. It's truly tragic.
@couleuredgirl63145 жыл бұрын
E Mack I can relate!!!!!! Needed to hear that!
@jitaamesuluma97306 жыл бұрын
I am all three too,mostly white , 44%white
@lwiggins2able6 жыл бұрын
I have a similar experience. Never black enough.
@donitaballard59285 жыл бұрын
Are you White or whatever you're mixed with, enough? Why do people that are mixed race (with Black) blame their woes of the world on Black people. Give that same energy to the other side of the same that you're mixed with.Chances are , whatever you're mixed with, are not accepting of you as Black people will be. Better yet, blame your parents for mixing up , when they knew you would be confused your whole life about acceptance between races.
@marydahm68515 жыл бұрын
Donita Ballard What a crazy thing to say about parents “mixing up”! Everyone’s experience is their own. I’m not tragic or confused and I’m sure as hell not a mistake.
@LadyNewOrleans5 жыл бұрын
yes, I truly understand
@topmost31525 жыл бұрын
Darnisha but your fucking black....:.......
@marliseisrael30173 жыл бұрын
Are you white enough
@LoveMafae Жыл бұрын
mixed race people not black
@mulattovanguard Жыл бұрын
I agree. I am NOT black.
@creoleviking84337 жыл бұрын
When you embrace it all that is when you become whole. I Loved the "AND AFRICA" Grandma was spot on!
@bobbyschannel349 Жыл бұрын
You only should embrace that ALL if you are biracial, meaning you have a 1 white parent. But if you have your average black American admixture bloodline, you are just black American. We black Americans don't always embraced our European ancestry. we just don't. Because that is what we are but it is not Who We Are.. Therr is a difference between being racially mixed and being ethnically black.
@MrTeamsolutions6 жыл бұрын
What happened to "if you're Black, stay back; if you're brown, stick around; if you're white, you're alright? What happened to the brown bag test to keep people who are darker than brown bags at the margins of society?
@eloisekinder8554 жыл бұрын
If you look white, I consider you white. Period.
@SimpleMinded2213 ай бұрын
Ignorance.
@thebigbeautycutie5 жыл бұрын
Please look up the Willie Lynch letter and the Willie Lynch syndrome. Light against dark was a tactical measure to keep us from uniting as one people. It seems to have worked. My father's family (my 'black' half) are some of the most beautiful people I have ever seen. Light don't mean right and dark isn't evil. Unlearn and Relearn.
@AaronWilliams-km2fg6 жыл бұрын
This is the reason you don’t race mix.
@LadyNewOrleans5 жыл бұрын
Im a creole from new Orleans as well and i never called myself mixed race both of my parents are African american so that makes me african american but here in new Orleans we have both light skin creoles and dark skin creoles and we all identify as African American. Its crazy how when I tell people I'm African american they make a face or some how think I'm lying. only on the internet though. Light skin dark skin people here in new Orleans come together as well because we know who we are and where we come from, I've never in my life experienced racism from my own people here because of the color of my skin except on the internet. I'm always told I'm not black enough. That shouldn't matter though
@prettyboycyrus6280 Жыл бұрын
it all depends on ur parents if they both black nd not mixed u always black
@CharlieRobe8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing sister. I'm with you.
@kingnola..9522 жыл бұрын
This was a very good documentary more like this need to be made.
@qolspony4 жыл бұрын
All people who are not white go through crap. But as your skin gets darker, the crap gets worse. It doesn't go away when people become more mixed. It just get more complicated, because now we are talking about family ties. We see this with the Latino community whereas the darkest ones in their family are excluded out of certain opportunities. It is also seen in the communities around the world around dark pigmentation.
@cassandraf.claybrook12537 жыл бұрын
WOW!!! What a read these comments have been for me. I find it so sad to hear a person of African descent say they feel they do not fit in. After all of the negative things we as a people have been through since the beginning of time. We should all be loving and respecting one another, especially those of us with color. If we don't love ourselves no one else will. Scientifically proven hands down the human race originated from the continent of Africa. Anyone of you out there with a hint of brown, tan, beige, mocha, cappuccino or whatever, please by informed you do somewhere somehow have African blood running through your veins. Even the palest of Caucasians could quite possibly have African blood running through their veins also. My complexion is a beautiful "Milk Chocolate" that I would not trade for anything in this world. I am truly loving the skin I'm in!!! Although I must admit it has not always been that way for me. My mother has a "Dark Chocolate" complexion and my father was a "Yellow Reddish" complexion with red hair. Needless to say my siblings and I are various shades of "light to dark" with "Sandy colored" hair, as well as our children. Born in 1965 I kinda fell into the era of "light skin" being prettier, so quite naturally that is what I desired to be. Especially since my one and only sister was 1/2 shade lighter than me, I always thought she was prettier. Which actually wasn't the case at all. Not trying to "toot my own horn" she readily admits now that I am the prettier one. I never felt pretty as a child, now at the age of 52 being a breast cancer survivor and honestly looking an easy 35, compliments on my looks abound. So I finally realize I am truly beautiful "Milk Chocolate" skin-tone and all. However, we are all equally beautiful in our own right. I have said all that to say this. Being a member of Ancestry.com I have been contacted by a 4th cousin on the paternal side of my family. This has made me so happy as I did not have contact with my father after the age of five, so to have a cousin find me is just amazing!!! That was my main reason for joining looking for paternal relatives. Remember the description of my father light skinned and red? So I wasn't a bit surprised that my cousin is Caucasian with curly red hair and 8% African running through her veins. I by the way am 12% European. She doesn't look African and I do not look European but it is definitely running through our veins. As well as some Irish, hence my father's red hair. So there you have it, you can't judge a book by it's cover. Please learn to love the skin you are in, as well as all of the various shades around you. Love and respect simply put, Peace.
@donnamcdonald37097 жыл бұрын
Well said, Angie! Thanks for sharing the testimonies of these beautiful ladies. Many people have multiple heritages, and its silly that we're expected to choose only one. Your family should be accepted for what you are -- members of the human race.
@MoonLightOnWater14 жыл бұрын
Looks like a nice African American family to me. African American is a racial identity AND a cultural classification.
@SimpleMinded2213 ай бұрын
No biracial person wants to be seen as just white. So because mixed people are proud to be half white, they want to be white ? So backwards. Why would a white person say a mixed person is white ? Theyre not, and neither black. But a MULLATO. You people think like slaves. The one drop rule basically states 1 drop of black makes you black. What it actually means is black blood is seen as a taint and sub human, thus one drop corrupts superior blood and the child assumes the inferior parents racial stock. The reason why this racist ideology still exists is because partly, people like you defy science, logic and reason says otherwise. Be proud of who you are entirely. Why listen to racist people, break free from jim crow laws. Black people are literally the only race of people that say black plus anything is black. Chinese dont do this, whites dont, Mexicans don't, Indians dont. Its a self esteen issue. All groups of people, including Africans have clear definitions on who they are. For the most part, many African Americans suffer from inferiority complex.
@timeless97814 жыл бұрын
Nothing more beautiful than dark chocolate and coppertone skin. The ambition to be a mullatto is well overblown and unsubstantiated.
@Tristan114063 жыл бұрын
It really is 😂
@sherrybielma19346 жыл бұрын
We are Americans! We have more than one blood, then why not?
@deborahsteele74272 жыл бұрын
"Transparency is truly liberating!" ... "Many Cheerful Thanks", to all of the beautiful Ladies, who were transparent, in sharing their true stories" ... " You're true beauty, is truly colorless, and skin deep" ... Blessings always, Ms. Deborah Steele - 11/20/21
@sunshine97177 жыл бұрын
I believe it all has to with how you are raised. My Mom has five kids. She is Black and so is my Dad. My Great Great Grandfather was Irish. I was raised in a Family that loved each and every one of us children be it Dark or Light skinned. My Mom would always say she has two beautiful chocolate children, two beautiful vanilla children and one sweet carmel child. We were never pitted against each other has sisters or brothers. My Aunts and Uncles loved us and that was all we knew.. We were never made to feel any less because of our skin color. I have a son who is of mixed race black and white. I can't say he hasn't had his struggles in regards to his Dads side. With a few family members who are from Nebraska and choose to act as if they can't figure out how to behave when he is around. Example: When my son sees his White Uncle. His Uncle always wants to greet him with a high five and using the words like "What's Up'" with my son. Instead of just being an Uncle without all the non-sense. But my sons Aunties who are White have children who are mixed with Arabic and White. He is very close to them because they have an understanding of having children of mixed race. I also have a daughter and her Dad is Black. But I have had people throughout my life asking if she were my child because she is of dark skinned and boy does that foolishness and ignorance piss me off. Though I am not mixed in regards to my parents both being Black. My skin is light and I have Freckles. I'm always asked if I'm mixed and when I say I'm not. People swear up and down that I'm not telling the truth. I have cousins who always make comments about my skin color. They will say "you can't be a part of this family because you are to light to fit in. But my response has always been. Stop the foolishness and get beyond believing that every light skinned person has to be of mixed race. Which is a straight lie from Hell! Their are millions of Black people who are also born into the world with different color eyes and skin. Who have parents that are not mixed. My dad for Example: His eyes were Green, two of his sister's eyes and brothers are green also. Not all of them had Green eyes. A few have hazel color eyes and the rest. Just brown eyes. My Dads parents were both Darker skinned people. But again I stress for the record. Color was not an issue on either side of our Families. My older sister who is dark skinned is Gorgeous and when she was in school. She was extremely popular. I wanted to be my Big sister. She was just cool and look like a Black Farrah Facet! I didn't think of color until stepping out into the World. When I realized this color thing is out of control. You have Irish people who were not considered White but now claim they are White. Really! You still have groups of Irish people who are called Black Irish. You have Italians claiming to be White. We know that's a lie with their skin being dark and even Spanish people claiming to be of White race. Lies all lies. So society is full of races that know damn well they are not White. We as Black people have a little bit of this and that in us. But being a Black Female having two gorgeous children. It is my duty to make sure my kids know that first and foremost they are loved. To let my son know to embrace his heritage from both sides of the fence and for my beautiful Black daughter who is not mixed to love her color and embrace the beauty of being born into a family of various colors. She is beautiful because she is a gift from God. My daughter did struggle when she was young because her cousins my sisters kids are Puerto Rican and Black. My daughter as she stated as a young teenager. Everywhere she turned people were always saying that her cousins were beyond pretty. But being the Mom that I am. I stated, that yes your cousins my nieces are beautiful but I made sure that my daughter knew she was just as pretty and that beauty started from within. For her to know her self worth and shine like the beautiful soul she is. Now she is in College has come into her own and you could never tell her she is less of anything because of the color of her skin. She loves who she is. Inside and Out. She doesn't desire to be anything other than the person God created. Your self worth has nothing to do with your skin color but everything to do with what God has put within you. Embrace your Beauty, mixed or no mixed and never let family or friends or anyone make you think your not as beautiful as they are because you are a shade darker. We are a Rainbow Society. Thank God we are not all walking around all one color. That would be extremely Boring. Plus when you choose a mate. Choose the a mate not based off of skin color but because you can see your life shining brightly with that person by your side.
@conniecraig53707 жыл бұрын
Wow the darker people were jealous because of hair and makeup seriously 😒 I liked the video up until that statement
@SenatorHollister8 жыл бұрын
You'll be reminded soon of WHO YOU ARE. Black Lives Matter ....... So sister......YOUR BLACK LIFE MATTERS.
@zoegyal10328 жыл бұрын
TriniKing how the not black? when the arentt biracial? Your not making sense half of these african america WESTINDIE aren't 100 percent african they were whole LOT mixing during slavery! Mixed people will indeed be seen as a black person since most people can be lightskin , have light eyes and have different type of hair pattern
@zoegyal10328 жыл бұрын
TriniKing Did i just say only carribean dumbass? i said african american 2 !! You not making sense you can be mixed and not be biracial just just like the haitian people i know thats from haiti i have friends who could passed as dominican but there whole family is haitian all of them are light to dark w super curly hair they probably mixed due to slavery but when i see my friend fam all i see is color people i dont see one white person!! You sound dumb most biracial people are seen black every day and mistreated by there white side for looking black and being half black. this is divison seprating each other thats stupid af
@zoegyal10328 жыл бұрын
TriniKing Mixed people arent Rachel dumbass!! they actually havve a black parent
@zoegyal10328 жыл бұрын
Lokk up Angel Ramirez-Jordan i promise you, you'll learn something! He's very pro-black
@cocobean79608 жыл бұрын
Sorry but i have to disagree! We live in the uk and we do not count mixed as black people! The combation of races alone shows that tells you they are not black! I feel so sorry for all real blacks in america as you guys are backwards when it comes to race! Stop following the one drop rule!
@nathandermond51373 жыл бұрын
Mulatto and Creole are differnet right? Creole is of French, African, Native, and Spanish and Mulatto is an old school term for a half white half black person.
@marywalker92965 жыл бұрын
My Lord, what's is this? I would have hated to grow up in that family. It's obvious too me that their 80+ mother confused her children. Listen to them.. It's obvious to me they do not read alot of books on the subject that is being discussed.
@rjmartine97934 жыл бұрын
Omg. Thank for your comment, because that was so so sad and painfully cringe worthy to watch. The sheer level of self hatred was only matched iwith an equal level of ignorance. To that old and silly is pathetic.
@YellowTXRose13 жыл бұрын
I understand why you feel they have self-hatred especially if you're listening to them speak as though they should identify as black. I had to keep in mind, as I was listening, that these ppl are not black. Knowing their white ancestors makes them proud and feel special bc they are literally of mostly white ancestory. If they were black with maybe 15% white anceancestry. It could be said they struggle with self-hatred. Self hating is not the condition of liking what you have just as much right to claim being 60 or 70% of it. Mix racing is a very confusing thing and I haven't met anyone, near or far, who has this thing figured out once and for all.
@timjones5697 Жыл бұрын
Blessed is he that walks 100 yards for T.D. To know her dreams.. to be what she need. Bringing down antagonists; lifting her protagonist. Just if she’d see me, the jist of my love feed!🕊️♥️ 🙏🏽♥️
@rlewis64533 жыл бұрын
I feel like the young women just looks like a light skin black girl. The other ladies I could tell the confusion by their appearance.
@0ne0fuhkiind4 жыл бұрын
keep integrating 🤔 that’s not the solution. And Wow, What the grandmother said in the end was so unnecessary! 👎🏾
@jamalsufi35894 жыл бұрын
Yeah that shit was ignorant
@thebigbeautycutie5 жыл бұрын
America isn't a race. It's a country. To be an American simply means you were born in America and live in America. ALL black is beautiful and a force to be reckoned with. It always has been the epitome of beauty and always will be. (My opinion...everyone is entitled to their own opinion..as is the American way)
@angelahumphrey1797 жыл бұрын
It's not been my experience except maybe with foreign born Americans to be a curiosity to others as to my racial identity/nationality and I may be mistaken but I think my appearance is similarly lighter skinned Black American just as the women in this video yet I didn't feel set apart by others because of it..perhaps my parents being darker skinned grounded me by never making any issue of my lighter skin in our family even though I was the only one to remain lighter in color after becoming an adult ( some even think it influenced my college choice of Howard U., known historically for it's lighter-skinned graduates) - It did not, though my baby brother was also similar in skin color at birth- as evidenced by my Mom's response to her Midwife's astonished " What's ( my Dad ) going to say?? ( about my light skin) " , upon my entrance into the world, " Nothing, because she is his child ! ". The Midwive's astonishment was based on the many times she had helped deliver a child to a Black woman who apparently had not revealed that she had conceived a child with someone other than her Black spouse and/ or had hidden that she was raped by a white man - which given the racial climate and the lack of civil rights for people of color left Black women defenseless in a court of law or public opinion- So, my Mom was defending her honor at being suspected of falling into a common position of silence due to powerlessness and fear at being found out by a spouse, in-laws and community that might never believe what she had no DNA test to prove beyond a shadow of a doubt. It's ironic though that my GRGrandDad was born of such a union and he though subjugated by this powerful white landowner, who was his father, resented how his Mom was used AND!! , the fact that the husband she came out of slavery with and her brother in law both were "DISAPPEARED" probably because this white man who then fathered my GRGranDad, and all his siblings desired my GrGrGrandmother for himself, resented his half white brothers even calling him Bruh Jeff, seemingly benefited by the white landowner clearing the way for him to purchase land - a priveleged and rare privilege for Blacks back then, though he himself paid for the land, and my GRGrandfather reveled in the fact that I took after him. I can recall he called me " Red Gal" as I stood in his lap and rubbed his balding head of straight, chestnut hair. Still, he had married my GrGrandmother Carrie though he loved her sweet, gentle, kind spirit especially because of her darkest of brown skin to reverse the effects of the circumstances of his birth. (please excuse the run on sentences and other annoying errors, my level of exhaustion is epic this last week of final exams)
@aimeechapman57807 жыл бұрын
I can so relate to this. Good to hear others stories.