Does Van Life REALLY Suck?! Stepping OUT of Your Comfort Zone!

[@oldmanandabus]

This is so spot on. I'm 77 and I was getting kind of fearful of leaving my house. Well, prices skyrocketed and I couldn't do enough work to keep up rent. I saw it coming so I started transforming a shuttle bus and here I am today in Quartzsite. It was painful giving away or selling everything I worked for in the last 30 years after building up again after divorce. When it was finished I was free. Scared, but free. Now, after a couple months, I'm still a little scared but feeling great. Don't have to worry about the lawn, gas and electric going up all the time, on and on. I no longer am living to societies expectations, and it has freed my mind and relieved most all my stress. No old age home for me, than you.

[@kevinvassar7433]

Good for you brother, Way to go. We did 21 months in our 1995 class B in beautiful La Jolla, California. Getting through a few organizational things before eagerly getting back to that life pretty soon, but with lots of longer distances for seeing the many great places in the west we have yet to go to. More true adventure awaits, God willing.

[@Bubba24-ne4zp]

Old mechanic. Little has changed from the very old "Living in a van down by the river" Lot of these "New" campers + Glampers think they pioneered this stuff lol Just don't get caught up in the whole "Solar power" nonsense. Solar,is small scale like vans+ RVs is very extremely weak actual steady working amperage. Comparing solar to a gasoline generator,is like comparing a mouse to a elephant,it's basically a failure,which many of these newbies are waking up to every day.... Don't fall for solar, but it's a great way to charge your cell phone, IF the suns out 😃

[@debbiedebbie9473]

Maybe travel with a little group of people who are also living van life, so you don't feel scared or lonely.

[@richardclark8262]

Another great video Bob and I absolutely love where you're at the background is beautiful

[@ccourcier]

​@@Bubba24-ne4zpMy experience of solar is very different from yours. When we left to go sailing full-time in 1995 solar was $5.30 a watt. For 10 years on the boat we only had 220 watts of solar but it kept our batteries topped off and ran our water maker. Back then generators were a waste because you couldn't get a high amp battery charger. You had to run a generator all day to put back what you used up in lights the night before charging at 3 to 5 amps. From 05 to 2015 I traveled 80k mi All over the US Canada and Baja in my Toyota class C and solar ran my dorm refrigerator through an inverter 24/7. I'm an old mechanic also 77yo and solar rocks. 😊

[@carlottastephens-springer9156]

As a retired truck driver I miss seeing the country. I hated driving a semi, but loved driving around the country. We thought we would travel the country in our pickup camper, but brain cancer had different ideas. For those of you doing van life, enjoy. Wish we could be there with you. God bless.

[@kristinm4005]

Sending prayers your way❤

[@carolb3327]

Get better brother. The world needs you. ❤🙏

[@raydonica6723]

Driver, you kick that cancers ass. You can do it. Merry Christmas and happy new year.

[@BluDawg]

Wish you could to, heart hugs to you 💜

[@cbow7961]

@carlotta Never give up! In 1996, cancer attacked my body. It left and has never returned. Praise the Lord! It's not welcome here. A reminder - We are 3 part beings - spirit, soul (mind, will & emotions) and body. When you rely on the finished work of Jesus at The Cross, and your spirit and soul agree, your body must line up with the truth in the Bible. It's 2 against 1. Odd man out. The truth is, by the stripes of Jesus, you were healed. We walk by faith and not by site. We hold fast to the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful. Romans 8:11 "But if the Spirit of Him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, He who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through His Spirit who dwells in you." I would encourage you to fill your spirit with true stories of many overcomers. Please consider watching their stories, it will build you up: kzbin.info/aero/PLSUOLmvUGNl8pYYJyG10rnMSLOiw-tNzg&si=fHZGL90cymvD0-sQ

[@littledevil23]

This is the PERFECT video to watch for the coming year. I have so many plans for 2024 to step outside of my comfort zone. One of my favorite quotes that pushed me is from Benjamin Franklin “Many people die at twenty five and aren't buried until they are seventy five” ♥️

[@ragamuffinukes2779]

Great quote! Thanks for sharing! I'm 72 & still blazing trails at Oregon state parks as camp host, going into my 3rd yr as solo lady van lifer... Happy trails, Ms. CharLee

[@KJwaggy]

Very inspiring. Im currently planning out a van build to live a nomadic lifestyle. It’s quite daunting, but I really want it. I’m sick & tired of feeling bogged down by the pressures and expectations of living “the American dream” of which I’ve realized in the past couple years that I want no part in. I myself am 25 years old, that quote speaks volumes to me because I’ve been trying to get that point across to people I talk to about my desire to live in a van/rv and live on the road. Most of em either don’t understand it, or they do get it, but are so brainwashed by the system and their comforts that they think I’ll be choosing homelessness. End of the day… all I want is freedom. As much as I can get. I can’t stand the 9-5 grind, going to the same places day in and day out. It’s too meaningless for me. I don’t want to end up like countless others who in old age wish they did more in their youth.

[@Gail-gf7km]

For me, the process of getting rid of the “stuff” was satisfying and liberating. It was satisfying to see the objects that had served me well go on to serve someone else. Along with the physical house cleaning came a personal house cleaning. I decided what and who I wanted in my life and jettisoned all the rest. I found peace! I found a new comfort zone in my own heart that doesn’t rely on my physical space. I can be anywhere and my comfort zone is there with me.

[@insanemainstream3633]

Very well said Gail! I am in the process of donating my "stuff" as of this writing. I also found that peace and not afraid.

[@Mgtow1957]

@Gail-gf7km- I always looked at Nomads as hippies on wheels. The hippies from the 60s got rid of the consumer mentality . These material items keep us locked down and staying at home to protect it all. The government wants us to be on the grid and paying taxes. Watching T.V and being on social media looking at other people live their lives is such a waste. People want Van life and 100% non failure rate.

[@TM-tc3om]

@@LisaLightning Everyone's situation is different, you have to do what works for YOU. Maybe you can put some things in storage for now and figure that part of it out later. Just factor in the storage cost and don't make things stressful or complicated for yourself. Also there are all types of vehicles. There are vans made for wheelchairs etc. Figure out what you need and do the research to find what vehicle has it or who can build it for you. There are disabled people out there. Listen to their stories. Maybe get in contact with Bob or another seasoned van lifer like Gloria on Wheels and get a personal consultation. There is a plan for everyone. Like Bob said we can't let things hold us back from truly living.

[@WisconsinWanderer]

I’ve had a few things starting out that sucked in my van life but I knew going in that there would be a learning curve. But that was part of the draw for me is figuring those problems and dealing with it. At 67 I’m doing really well in my van life! Cheers!😊thanks Bob😊

[@bluedale6563]

Respect from Dave in lreland....i am 52 going to try it soon u are a role model sir Happy new year

[@livingadaylilylife]

I am from Wisconsin and 61. Living in Florida now. Planning for my escape to life on the road! Good for you!

[@jeffnorbert1871]

65 and over 5 years into it. It has some good points and more than a few bad. A good place to park at night and dealing with the weather can be a real problem. Getting pretty tired of it myself. Of course owning or renting real estate has it's problems too.

[@emersauce]

Hello from a fellow WI van dweller!

[@ragamuffinukes2779]

yay, Wisconsin! I'm 72, been at this 3 yrs & I love it! Going into my 3rd yr as horse camp host for OR state parks, which is BEST way to spend retirement, esp on limited SSB. Can't afford space rent on $1100/monthly, but I've got the best looking front yard that changes every 4-6 months & unlimited electricity, water, sewer, laundry facilities, along with the greatest group of dedicated co-hosts living RV or van life!

[@lorischadler2871]

I've had to settle back down in one spot due to health but I LOVED being a van dweller! edit: Lived in my van for 5 years on purpose ...I knew my health was waning and I wanted this experience and adventure of traveling the entire USA! Very rewarding!

[@debbies6192]

Sometimes; living in a house can suck too. We need to choose happiness wherever we are so we can truly begin to live. ❤

[@nixwestlake9196]

Exactly

[@rocketdog7135]

Life isn't supposed to be easy all the time. Finding your purpose can be challenging and scary but also exciting and fun. Thank you for all the wisdom you bring to the world Bob. You definitely found your purpose, and your kindness has helped so many.

[@regeneratedlady8808]

In 2 weeks I’ll start my 4th year in my travel trailer & I haven’t been happier or more comfortable. I’ve always had a deep craving for adventure. I love it. I will admit it’s not always great doing it alone. It would make things easier & sometimes more enjoyable with a partner, but I don’t ever want to give this up. I’m seeking a new purpose now that I’m a widow & the kids are grown & gone. I think when people are considering this nomadic lifestyle it would be easier if they were able to just ease into it over a period of time with multiple trips. To work out their kinks & figure out what works best for them. I tent camped from the time I was 7 months old & have a craving for nature that won’t quit. I think always having had that camping life made the transition easy for me.

[@gwag8410]

Good for you! Safe travels ♥️

[@user-eh1br8eb1c]

Do you ever hook up with caravans for company? Do you spend more time boondocking or staying in RV parks?

[@jamesferrell336]

I agree. I plan on easing into it when I start. I want to go out a few months at a time and be able to learn. I won't have a partner, but I haven't for a good while now anyway.

[@InTheStudioWithMyrna]

That's an encouraging comment. Thank you. I'm not planning to live full time ever... at this point... but one never knows. I'm planning a four month trip in 2025 and plan to practice in 2024 with shorter outings. I am nervous/excited as I'll be going alone... solo female... across Canada. I have traveled alone for years but refer to myself as a ten day girl because the thing that always calls me back is my studio. Knowing that, I'm fitting one into my 13' Boler. Determined to make it work. This trip is on my bucket list. I'm 61.

[@regeneratedlady8808]

@@InTheStudioWithMyrna I get it! Sounds like you have a good solid plan. I just turned 63 & have met many solo women on this journey. Wish you all the best!!

[@cdespey]

I have never once thought it sucked.

[@2nd_of_3]

If you’re unaccustomed to your own company this might not be the life for you. But if you’re even a little adventurous.. Take the plunge 🥰

[@jonathanhall7903]

But van life could teach one to become a-ccustomed to one's self.

[@taurus-astrobike104]

Now 67 and have been watching Bob videos for about 10 years.. Got some health issues and a couple New ones.. I Still want to try and Live Life Like Bob!! Still My Dream.. I'm Very Sure I'll get Started in 2024 , I'm Not Scared, just trying to get organized.. You're Amazing Bob!!

[@mobile_noble4026]

I agree. Everything sucks if a person believes that, but living on the road can be amazing and the freedom is worth it. Everything in life needs to be practiced with gratitude and confidence. If a person has that base, all things can be conquered.

[@j.gretchenkennington]

I'm working on it, you all sound so sensible - I wouldn't want to come out there and have to depend on others TOO much. That would defeat the Purpose. Stay safe Y'all.

[@cbow7961]

Amen! Isn't it amazing the multitude of good things that come when we have grateful hearts? PTL

[@freespeech4all723]

Well said! I've been at it for 8 months now and figuring it out as I go.

[@suswik3363]

You nailed it, Bob. Conform, produce, consume. I'm so sick of this life. I'm 60 now and hoping to sell my sticks/bricks and head out. Once I made this decision I feel more trapped than ever and waiting is becoming unbearable! I need a way to get free sooner! Thanks for being so informative and showing me the way I can finally be free!!!

[@Bubba24-ne4zp]

If people didn't produce, where would your vehicle come from? And your fuel? And your food? I guarantee you are consuming food+ fuel non stop lol

[@jimrowland6089]

You hit the nail on the head Bob. No better way to say how we are stuck in the matrix and how to escape it. For those people craving freedom, This is it.

[@shirleydierolf2139]

Am not a van lifer now..but listening to a hospice nurse list the most common regrets when people reach the end..were ..working all the time, not spending time with family and friends and not doing what they loved. Took my first, solo car camping trip this year at 72. 6000 miles and 45 days later with lots of uncertainties and learning experiences along the way, I am filled with excitement and fulfillment months later. I only have to look at photos I took to bring the feeling back. I can't express how unfortunate it is to let your fears of "suckiness" keep you from experiencing mind blowing scenery and just plain quiet time in nature. My biggest regret is that I didn't figure it out sooner..did that work, work, work thing. Thank you, Bob..you started me on this path years ago watching your videos.

[@gettingintrospective]

Beautiful! There will always be suck, but there will also always be something to make it worthwhile, right?

[@allantaylor3288]

❤

[@sad754yt]

I did truck camper living for two years by choice and really had enough. Being bothered by law enforcement was starting to be a pain in the butt and short showers to conserve water my two main gripes. It was definitely different and Im glad I tried it. I know now that I can surely live with a lot less.

[@ItsMimiYallXOXO]

Great message!! When people have a purpose in life, it really makes for a happy life. Its so easy to stay home, sit in front of the TV and slowly die, mentally. 'Purpose' is EVERYTHING!

[@ydsamples]

Great message as always. The only point I would like to share is that I think people can still get out of their comfort zone without doing vanlife. This can be done through traveling, changing career, starting a new activity, etc. How we do it it’s personal and circunstancial. What Bob shares it’s one of many great ways that are available.

[@carolclover1238]

TRUE

[@vannemocilac274]

I agree, can life is one way not THE way. I read that couples who get out of their comfort zone together, like playing a new game or trying a zip line, bond stronger. Need both safety and novelty to thrive.

[@theroadhome_Liz_Summers]

Well said! I did not watch/listen to much of the video as I get annoyed by a "blaming of societal norms" on a personal acceptance of those "norms" or whatever. I made several conscious lifestyle choices for myself 38 plus years ago.: 1 person self employed "shop" vs "corporate", small home (not tiny, but small), RV for work/travel. Overall, I chose relatively simple ... I also chose to remain primarily single and to not have children which I am aware allowed me the freedom to make some of the choices that I made. As you (@ydsamples) notes ... nomadic life/van life is one option of a simpler life style but not the only option. AND, all options whether simple or more complex have their own challenges as well as consequences. FWIW I am 68 and will fulfill my last self employment development contract in January 2024. And then on to ???? I have some ideas :)

[@cindylong624]

even downsizing or getting rid of 'stuff' and simplifying

[@barbaradowney4207]

I always love your words of wisdom! (Thoreau) Simplify, simplify, simplify. (Wayne Dyer) Don't die with your music still in you.

[@franzschubertv2874]

One big concern of mine is other people. I love the idea of being in different places and wild places. But the thought of leaving a van home and possessions necessary for survival alone where it could all be robbed worries me. I want to be able to step away for a while and not fear disaster when I get back.

[@jamesconnell323]

For some like me, trying to just survive on Social Security and a small savings and living with Chronic Pain from Arthritis it’s not a option not to become nomadic, to live as cheaply as possible. Chasing cooler weather in the summer and warmer weather in the winter because our bodies can’t take the extremes on either end. My hands and back are killing me just trying to get my house ready to sell so I will have emergency money and equip my small 6 x 12 Cargo Camper Trailer with solar & electric brakes and my 2019 F-100 with anything I can to help it’s small engine that will be struggling to getting my rig to higher altitudes. I’m afraid it’s taken me too long this year to get prepared and meet up and join a group of older Nomads to help each other out in a ( not perfect ) attempt to make life as pleasant as possible. If I can prepare everything this year before the next RTR I will be reaching out to others to to find out where to find you good folks, to begin the last chapters of my life.

[@conchscooter]

Can’t say I really care if van life sucks. I enjoy my van life and on the bad days I look forward to the good days which will come back. But I don’t care to try to sell others on the joy of being a nomad. Do your thing.

[@DannySawyer60]

As Red said from Shawshank, "Get busy Living, or get busy dying!

[@SuperJimid]

Thanks Bob for your words of wisdom. I am leaving my comfort zone in Senior Apartments... I'm dieing here.😢

[@lorimiller3436]

Change is always painful but the results are well worth the trials and tribulations. A new life can be had and enjoyed for those willing to make the change. Thank you Bob for all of the information and knowledge you so lovingly share.❤

[@scubaval08]

Several months ago, me & my daughter decided to give vanlife a try. I started video documenting my journey from hermit in a stationary tin can to vanlifer in a mobile tin can. I have been stagnating for nearly ten years. Kinda of just waiting to die. When mini-me suggested vanlife, it scared me but then grew on me. We have always been a camping & adventuring family, so I decided to that I *would* leave my comfort zone, travel with my daughter & see my friends & my country before I’m truly infirm. I decided that, yes, I’m 70 yo, but I may as well give this a go, even if it’s my last hurrah! Lol. My daughter embarked on her journey last week! But alas! I am still ‘grounded’ due to circumstances. However, I expect to join her early in 2024! Once my home sells, the mobile part of my journey begins. Then I will release my journey journal for public viewing. Your video hit home, Bob. You are describing me, except I don’t know yet if ‘van life sucks!’ Lol. Thank you!

[@michellestratford9753]

I'm sure you feel the same, but traveling with your adult child is also a special kind of magic that #vanlife gives us too 🥰

[@travisbplank]

Any updates? Have you shed the sticks and bricks yet?

[@rebeccawhittington1390]

I spent my FIRST night in my van last night. Still navigating. So glad I decided to do this. I’ve got plenty to work out but I’m in it to win it!!! It takes a special person to be able to do this bob and you are that special person. Hoping to meet you one day.

[@muzerhythm2242]

I fully agree on challenging yourself to grow. Whenever I'm wanting to try something new and I'm scared I ask myself this question: What is more painful trying this thing out, or regret?

[@TheNoonie50]

I only part time in my van, but I feel safer there then anywhere! I call it my "cocoon". There are lots of windows and doors in my house where someone could come in, and I wouldn't even know it. In my van, if you try the door, I would know it immediately. Even in storms, I just hunker down in my cozy bed while it rages on outside, and fall asleep. I do keep appropriate weapons with me just in case. 63 year old female.

[@MelodieRose727]

Beautiful. Thank you.

[@darloonie9465]

Some of us have an open heart but are stuck in a prison.

[@MyTentLife]

Thanks Bob great points there.

[@ChrisSmaller]

I have been living in Costa Rica for the last 20yrs worked hard bought and sold 3 houses all paid in full helped family with car's and motorcycles and much more having good times and bad times But I'm starting to collect a small SSI check monthly starting in Feb 2024 and I am going to get an old cheap Van and make it realiable to get around and me and my old pug are going to travel around living a Free Van Nomad Life seeing all the Nature Beauty Thanks for you Videos

[@crspep]

I had an Aunt who's entire world existed within a city block in Chicago. Her apartment, her job, where she shopped, even the tavern she frequented were all within walking distance. Her sister tried taking her out to show her other parts of the world & expand her horizons, but she mostly refused to remove the blinders to look around & take any of it in. Eventually she passed away.... I don't know that she had any regrets with her life, but I kinda think that she wouldn't have known that there was anything to regret since she seemed mostly unaware of any other kind of existence she could've had.... I know from my own experience that one's career & possessions can consume their life making it nearly impossible to make any kind of a drastic change, & before you know it, it's over........ Reminds me of what this old German guy I met on a job site used to say: "Too Soon Old..... Too Late Smart".....lol I do think that someone considering this leap needs to watch some of Bob's older videos covering emergency funds & vehicle maintenance before stranding themselves out on the road......Be smart about it.

[@Drmikekuna]

Wise, Bob... always so wise. I think many of the "van life sucks" videos are produced for two reasons. People bought a fantasy to escape realty and expected that they would make a video or two and have the Instagram life that they saw on KZbin. Others utilized the title as click bate. Both sadden me. I'm a part-time van dweller since 2018, however I was great at conforming and consuming. I wasn't very happy as a child and I was determined to use whatever talents that I had to change my life (for me it was through education). I was successful in this endeavor and I worked harder and harder and then filled my physical and emotional exhaustion with stuff. I loved my career, and I felt that I did do something positive in the world. However, no one thing is enough. I can do almost everything thing in my van that I can do in sticks and bricks, I just need to do them differently. In return, there is a freedom and a simplicity. I'm not worrying about the lawn or the water heater, I'm living life. Is it an Instagram life? Nope, that is a fake life. When the pandemic hit van life became trendy. Trends come and go and trend seekers move on to the next "great thing." Your videos allow van dwellers to have pride in an alternate lifestyle that society shames. Thank you.

[@sad754yt]

Well still have to worry about the water heater unless you are really roughng it!

[@joanies6778]

Yes, I have seen several channels that I otherwise enjoy using similar titles as clickbait. It's disappointing.

[@j.gretchenkennington]

Thank you.

[@lisaahrendts8051]

Yes Van life isn't always easy. Van life isn't always a choice. Van life comes with a stigma. Van life also give freedom from being stagnant. Some people are envious of Van lifers. ❤😊

[@monkeyshinemmie]

You're a nice man, Bob. Thank you!

[@theunconventionalwolf]

Exactly! Everything is either growing or dying.

[@heathroush5343]

Change is hard for a lot of people, especially a big change like that.

[@ravenmaniac428]

GOOD MESSAGE. I am in my comfort zone, and HATE it!

[@sharonslay1936]

Bob I can't even imagine paying rent anymore or a mortgage van life is wonderful I also am 68 can't think of going inside under the weight of all of those bills. I am so glad to see your smiling self on your videos.😊

[@rogerthat1553]

Nice view Bob, I was forced to retire at 59, that was 2 years ago. I was talking to a friend at work about when he would retire, he said 2 or 3 years, he died last month. I have a small house in Oklahoma that's paid for, I bought a 2015 Toyota Sienna that I turned into my travel/camper vehicle and I plan on being in it about 3 months a year. I know sooo many boring people that never do anything or go anywhere. I have a friend who has a house for 22 years and has only been away from home 4 day in 22 years.

[@LaVonneEllis]

When I decided to do this, after reading Bob’s blog years ago, I was nervous, because I knew I would be uncomfortable. There would be heat and humidity, mosquitoes, and other bugs, and that had me worried. Until I realized that I was actually afraid of simply being uncomfortable! We have gotten so spoiled in this society that the thought of discomfort is actually frightening. When I realized what an overreaction that was, I decided I wanted this life enough to figure it out. I went to my first RTR, rented a car and borrowed a tent, to make sure I really wanted to do it. After four days of some considerable discomfort, I still wanted this. And that’s when I knew I was willing to put up with a little discomfort in order to have the freedom and pleasure of life on the road. I did it for eight years full-time, with many big and small problems, but never regretted it. I have settled down, but I miss it and I’m planning to get back on the road, at least part time, as soon as I can get another rig

[@dagnolia6004]

in the 1989 movie "Parenthood" there is a scene where Mary Steenburgen and Steve Martin play parents watching a disaster of a children's play. the camera shot of them simulates a rollercoaster. one parent is laughing and thoroughly enjoying the ride. the other is frozen in Terror with each twist and turn and sudden drop of the rollercoaster!!!! life IS a rollercoaster: can you enjoy the ride? i think about the explorers leaving Tahiti. in their dugout canoes; leaving one of the most beautiful places on earth, just to see what ELSE is out there.

[@dylanthomasolseadog2803]

Brother, that was an inspiring manifestation of solidarity between spirits. Thank you, we are human fellowship.. on the road !!!!

[@alicejackson7676]

I am so blessed, Bob, that I get to hear your heart sing!! Thank you for being there all these years. I'm sure you've been an inspiration, and even a comfort, for many people.

[@stanbyme7874]

You give a realistic picture. Your wonderful commenters have given me hints, tips & ideas. Anyone who thinks it’s going to be "fantastic" isn’t paying attention to people’s showering & toilet issues. The woods are my friend. Gas prices aren’t 😁. I LOVE my Subaru Crosstrek that I LIVE in. I LOVE my life. I’m old enough to not care what people think. I advise everyone to practice first. If you think it’s a possibility, live in your home but pretend it’s your vehicle. Measure your water. Pee in yogurt container. Shower however you expect to in vehicle.Turn off tv. Stay outside. I exclusively used my camp stove, Goal Zero & fridge for vehicle. Did this for 2 months. Slept in vehicle for a couple weeks in driveway. Watched what I wore. How much I spent. I’m not ever going to be a "sell it all" & hit the road person. I’m wary & cautious. If you think it’s cheap-it’s not. Gas is expensive. Finding water. Finding toilets to dump waste. Finding safe spots to park. BUT you WILL find yourself & be surprised at how strong you are. Thanks Bob & the Whole Community of Nomads!☮️ *I don’t miss gutter cleaning, mowing the lawn or fixing/updating appliances. I drive by Home Depot & wave these days*

[@rogerthat1553]

Thanks for reminding me I need to clean my gutters and rake the leaves. Lol

[@j.gretchenkennington]

It's people like you that help me to get stronger. I have a small studio apt. now, and I am slowly - almost unconsciouly, re-arranging my things in van, small rv size. i thought I might get an "easy chair" to read and relax in when I first moved in. I miss the full moon and stars in the desert, and I want it back. I'm working on it, thanks for the post.

[@tracyhardyjohnson1315]

Great advice to try living the way you would in a van, but at home first, especially regarding bathroom issues. I know that's going to be my biggest challenge in a minivan. I'm confident that I'll figure out what will work for me, though!

[@mikeydan]

ah, the comfort zone. I know it well. not sure what my dreams are... but, I know what they aren't. thanks, Bob!

[@kennethgardner3090]

I am new to this, and this video is very important to me. I will add that I brought some of my comfort zone with me. I have some of my guns, I have triple A, my Dutch oven and most importantly, my dog.

[@BrittMFH]

There's nothing wrong with having a home, working and saving to support one's self and family. There are so many ways to find adventure and explore other than full-time van life. I am now retired and living part-time in my van, but it's a Winnebago Class B and I have the finances to travel however I want and wherever I want. That Social Security so many seniors depend on is dependant on younger people working, so don't knock it.

[@bypinkerton892]

I agree.... It doesn't have to be...All or Nothing.... I suggest people try traveling.... Maybe a Train across the Country & into Canada.... A Riverboat down the Mississippi River.... & See how much you Love Coming Home....

[@kathyann9643]

Exactly. Somebody has to produce. It is what gives us purpose. I occasionally camp. I'm also glad to get home. There's nothing wrong with that.

[@lynnwilliams7875]

Never once did I regret converting 2 Chevy 3500 15 passenger van, into my camper vans.

[@melusine826]

I don't believe in destiny, or that we are here for a "purpose", I think we are the universe waking up and experiencing itself. An emergent property/evolutionary survival mechanism of walking stardust continuing is thinking/needing/searching for a meaning, dreams and purpose. And that's still incredible.

[@2SilverGypsies]

I needed to hear this today. I'm almost 65, and I'll be retiring in 2024. My man (a city boy who has never camped), and I are preparing to become full-time nomads---a dream I've had for over a decade. This past week, I've been worried about all the creature comforts I'll give up, like plenty of hot running water, and my washer & drier. I know I want a more adventurous life, but I also know it will be harder in many ways. It's daunting to imagine getting so far out of my comfort zone, and I'm scared. So, thanks, Bob, for the much needed encouragement.👍

[@ytfeverguy8367]

Anyone remember Marty Souffer's Wild America? I sincerely wish Vanlife hosted by Wells was a weekly national broadcast (public television). I am not being facetious. I love this man.

[@shelleyboom5594]

I would love to upgrade to a van. But, i have to admit the car/tent life is better than a stationary life. Blessings to all.

[@Dailypaywithdeefrazey6236]

What words of wisdom. It’s all about perspective. I’m going to live my dream!

[@tinabidwell7507]

Hello Bob, I just want to say this is a great video! I have been following you for years. And I have got to meet you and many others from HOWA! 😊 Psalms 115:16

[@sherrymiller7709]

Awesomeinfo Bob!😄

[@DeeFay-fl1hs]

Couldn’t agree more with every sentiment you shared.

[@marieshepard3093]

Mr. Wells, I enjoy your videos and at one time I was homeless and lived in my van. Now I am in a sticks & bricks and am not as happy as I was to just drive and see things.

[@bethellen4155]

So glad you did this video because it was needed. Always consider the source... everyone views our world differently based on their experiences and their eyes. Van life might not be for some because they don't have the adventure gene. But I hope if some viewers are about to change their lives but fear is stopping them, this video is exactly what they needed to hear. Thank you for this!

[@susankievman642]

Another obstacle- spouses or family.

[@carolclover1238]

I simply .. IGNORED....BUT...I ALWAYS HAVE.....VERY INDEPENDENT THINKER...INTERESTING,as I view Four Walls as a cage.. BORING.CONFORM?...NEVER

[@vanwander]

I love this video's philosophy direction. Keep talking Bob!

[@gregoryford6385]

5 things human beings cannot live without: 1) meaning 2) satisfaction 3) freedom 4) identity 5) hope

[@FlyhighLittleDrone]

Also Shelter ( vans and RVs count) We need food everyday We need money Some kind of social interactions every week

[@Tennyson138]

You are so right so many of us try to make life comfortable and in so doing we stop living to the full, Thankyou for these wise words....

[@jimjustus2004]

Great pep talk and true to your calling and personality ! I see you grow even as you coach the lucky few that find you ! You haven't changed BoB ,thanks a bunch !

[@patrickedwards5967]

I’m prepping for my freedom at the moment. This video is helping me face the emotions to come to mentality I’ll need to find comfort and solitude.

[@lattermanstudio]

One of my big problems issue is where to stash clothing

[@mrj-charles6383]

I am 53 now and been doing the nomad thing all my adult life. The only issues I sometimes have is getting water to bathe. I must say when I do have a hot shower, it’s a luxury for me. Unfortunately I chose to stay on the east coast my whole life so I experience the four seasons. I drive a semi also so that has been a blessing to get a paycheck and free place to live. With my freedom, I’ve been able to travel all over the world.. that is the most important thing in my life experiences not monetary items.

[@daizamaker-jerrybraswell1997]

Thank you Bob! Thank you Bob! Thank you Bob!

[@vasu5202]

That’s one beautiful scenery out there 😍😍😍 😍

[@leeketner6488]

Van life does not suck. It's just not for everyone.

[@OverlandOne]

I love van life so far. Sure, there are many challenges and always decisions to make. Been on the road now for 5 months and I thank Bob for all the videos that inspired my decision to hit the road at 65. It is exactly like life, good days, bad days, really good days, and some really bad days. To me, a bad day out here beats a good day in the city where I used to live, any time. EDIT: Here is another quote from me: "If not now...when?"

[@pearljamin]

I’m really hopeful I will feel incredible peace and the person who has been recoiling inside of me can come back out. I’ve never ever fit into “the American dream”. It never even sounded like a good idea to me. I’m very happy to give up the few traditional comforts I currently take advantage of. I’m hopeful to maybe get a little plot of land to homestead on someday. Land I own instead of the bank. However, I believe a mobile life will be ideal as the earth is dying

[@debbiechaney6607]

Great message Bob. What holds me back is health disabilities. Need a repeat knee replacement after 22 years. Need the other knee replaced and two hip replacements. I'm almost 74 have been a widow for 17 years. Took my parents in one at a time on Hospice, was a full time caregiver for my husband until his passing. My time may be running out. My son 45 works full time and his wife ....but they camp continuesly every chance they get and will until they retire. I admire them and all the sights they have witnessed. Great advice and information... keeps my dreams of travel alive. Thanks Bob. Sincerely from Debbie and Dexter-Dog 🐶 🐾 my sweet tiny rescued Chihuahua companion living a quiet crafty life in southern California.

[@bypinkerton892]

It doesn't have to be.... All or Nothing.... You can Travel throughout the USA & Canada by Train.... It's Gorgeous & you can chose how much Comfort you want a long the way..... Take a Riverboat ride Down the Mississippi River.... & You may find that you've Enjoyed it All but still Love Coming Home... Enjoy....

[@Beavis-et8ox]

There are always people following every new trend and then getting bored quickly and jump on the the next trend. I really like that. It reduces vehicle prices, give more space on campgrounds and less boring videos about why "van life is sooo terrible". Goodbye my friends enjoy your new trend, I will not miss you 😂

[@marybeck7594]

You have to take in account your health, chronic conditions can prevent this, where do you get medical care, etc.

[@Northwestshenanigans]

Thanks Bob! Really great message.

[@faithrada]

Great video. It is our challenges that make us stronger. Without challenges we can not grow. This doesn't mean we should be fool hardy.. it means... develop wisdom.

[@MSB780]

My comfort zone is my shower 🚿 I should have been a fish 🐠 can’t stand the thought of using baby wipes & a spray bottle calling it clean, because that is not clean. Every video, never shows how you can stay clean like a shower can do. I’d love to do Vanlife. I think it’d be so much fun meeting people, and figuring things out, enjoying the great outdoors❣️ If only the “water part” was easy enough to figure out. Absolutely hate being sweaty 🥵! *Chuckle 🤭*

[@jonnygrizz]

Thank you, Bob! Wise words, much needed. A happy and healthy new year to you! 🎊

[@dianacfleming]

I think that a lot of the 'van life sucks' videos are a reaction to overly romanticised portrayals of van / tiny home life in recent times. A reality check rather than a condemnation of van life as a whole. Your channel presents a much, much more realistic picture of van life than a lot of others (which is why I love it).

[@laurentgontier-versailles8542]

Agreed!

[@carolclover1238]

I,ve never fit in) into the American Dream...Never married,No children....dont do well with authority figures...Tried the "picket fence Once"...hated it....felt like prison....as I have,Extreme,wanderlust...Sold my house,bought a Skoolie....at age 70....now,75...NO REGRETS

[@bobtoner9820]

10+ years in a travel trailer traveling the west. Inexpensive good living

[@thechambaos]

Great video Bob. Growth and comfort do not co-exist.

[@charlenegehrig8284]

Remember guys, Pain is temporary, but giving up is a lifetime!! Thanks Bob for that lesson just before the New year.!! A new year resolutions!! A 15 minute lesson, but a lifetime lesson learn, trust and love it!! Optimistic or pessimistic!! It's all up to you on how to live your life!!

[@lisawood8207]

Five years on the road and wouldn't change a thing. Currently in van, but started in my SUV in Nov 2018. I remember that first winter, am temps were in the 20s, and as I'm warming hands with my cuppa joe, I'm thinking "I would still rather be here than working that job that was slowly killing me ". Thanks Bob for the inspiration and insight. Each year gets easier and simpler.

[@MrRobergeandre]

Life is what you make of it !

[@justinekingmaker493]

Ironically, the more I watch other vanlifers/RVlifers videos, the more I know what path I want my life to take next. Watching all these videos, yours and so many others out there (both positive and negative) has only convinced me that RVlife is going to be the next leg of my life journey. I know nothing can prepare anyone 100% for all the challenges and pitfalls along the way, but isn't that true for any way of life? Isn't that true for any change? Life is funny that way, there are always going to be new challenges, new directions, and new solutions for everything. That's how humans evolved, by meeting those challenges and either learning to live with them or overcome them. I think at my age, I'm 57, I've learned that my "comfort zone" is wherever I choose to make it. I can be comfortable in an apartment (sort of), on a farm, in a house...I've been comfortable even in a shed! (Long story there on that last one, but it was actually FUN!) I've raised my son, he still has to figure out his "comfort zone" without Mom providing it for him, but that's his journey. I've done my job, I've given him the tools, he has to choose to use them. When my RVlife path starts, it will be on my own. Honestly, I can't wait!

[@carolclover1238]

Well said....I can tell.....you,ll be 100% ,successful

[@georgewest962]

Ok

[@luis__jrtx]

It has taken me a couple of years to really work out a "system" for all my daily rituals but I'm really starting to feel at ease in this life. Good luck on your journey, I think you will love it.

[@Kevinmsr]

❤

[@Willow-of-the-Wind]

Some plants are made to wander and some are made to grow tall in one spot.

[@crazycaseyandoldmanangus7143]

I'm in tears your video hit me to my core. Im 58 and disabled for about 5 years. Desperately trying to avoid a wheelchair. It's getting more and more impossible even with assistance to cover rent utilities food insurance fuel. I've done versions of "vanlife" although it was a ranger pickup and I was a traveling electrician. Im ditching my apt in the spring along with most the contents then im hitting the road. I never in my life have i been able to conform. Since the day I was adopted at 3yo I've been dubbed "different" with whatever amount of time left I have im living my life not what someone else thinks it should be....thank you thank you thank you for the inspiration! Maybe me n my new hound hank will see you on the road❤

[@DrewMilesAway207]

Your words are totally resonating with me, I'm 59 yrs old, soon to be 60 years old in July AND just 32 days away from hitting the road from the East Coast (Portland, Maine). Casey, you are Not alone. Reach out if you'd like. Drew

[@chrisallison9526]

How many people actually get to live a life full of adventure and Tavel and live to experience different cultures most people just exist

[@momsbook340]

Yeah. I do not have much money. I worked for one company 18 years. A challenging job. But not fulfilling. I always found fulfillment on weekends venturing outdoors. Got a payout from.my employer to go away. I in late 50's. Got rid of everything I owned just leaving what I could pack on my 650 cc motorcycle and took off. All my friends I do not think understood. I traveled 13, 000 miles living on the road in nothing but a two man tent not knowing where I would be able to camp day by day for 6 months. It was super challenging at times. But I felt alive. After my trip, covid hit. I ended up renting for a couple of years. I thought that was it. I was older. My body did not work like it use to. No adventures left. I was set. I was fairly secure. Sitting watching TV every day renting a place thinking no more adventure left. But I had a place to stay. I was so miserable. I came across these videos of this guy looking like Santa Claus. Just started liking them. One day got up. What do I got to lose? Got ahold of likely smallest mini van on the market. I gutted it all but the driver's seat. Someone helped me build a sleeper. All my neighbors said you cannot live in something that small. But I figured it through trial and error. I live in tandem with a 3 meter bell tent. I use it as my kitchen with propane stove, got solar, a fridge, got a canopy. My vehicle my sleeper. All in tandem, it works. I have been living this way 9 months. Did not have all at first but figured along the way. I was wrong. I still got adventures left. Oh there are challenging moments. But I feel alive. I meet great folks. What I do know beyond any doubt, is that I cannot go back. I am 61. I am about as minimalist as one can be. I could never go back to four walls and a thermostat. Thanks guy. PS. Regarding my 13K Motorcycle trip, I did a KZbin Channel which at first I had no clue but it gets better and better. "Chat by Chance Cross Country. " If any would like to take a look. I broke no records. But you may enjoy.

[@loveandjoy810]

Van life sounds like regular life. Nothing is perfect and life is what you make it. But that Mountain View in the background. Wow! So beautiful. It looks like a Bob Ross painting.

[@deborahkimball-billups6405]

Thank you for sharing this

[@nataliegessay8395]

I don’t normally comment, but I really appreciated this. I have a quote. I go by “change comes only ,when the pain of staying the same , is greater than the pain of change”.

[@hollandspinehaven2634]

great video..we hope to hit the road this coming year...we are both in our 60s and the road is calling to me...

[@mitchelldavis6600]

❤ I'm 66 and I think I've wasted my life away for sure.

[@johnchisolm4033]

I did Ayahuasca. I learned from it that death is a release from life. When I say release, it's as comfortable as taking a deep breath and releasing it. Pursue your dreams. It doesn't matter. What matters is pursuing your happiness.

[@ggoodvibes23]

Can I ask where you took it? Thanks

[@johnchisolm4033]

Soulquest in Orlando. They just closed down recently.

[@hotheadedjoelhaha]

Great words Bob. Thanks.

[@Storm-rl1wn]

This video made me feel like you were speaking to me. I am disabled. One of conditions is agoraphobia. My anxiety disorder makes me a nervous driver. I struggle anytime things don’t go as planned. So many reasons that nomad life would be so difficult at first. But…that agoraphobia is the ever shrinking comfort zone where my life gets smaller and smaller. I definitely feel like I am sitting here waiting to die. Things will only get worse if I don’t make changes. Where if I leave here maybe it will be worse at first , but it could turn into something really great. Thank you for your motivational words. Hope is something that can be hard to come by

[@justdawndb]

Sending you strength and the best vibes! ☀️ 💪 🌙