Dolan Twins' Fans Post Cruel Tweets When Asked to Respect Father's Loss

[@taylornguyen8747]

5:59 dude that tweet hit me so hard. how does sean’s death affect you more than the twins? the twins knew him since BIRTH and they were RAISED by him for gods sake. can’t you see the twins in another time when they’re not in this period? like how would you like it if a loved one died and a bunch of strangers started going around and tying to meet up w/ you so they can get a picture with you at your loved one’s death?

[@sahiansanchez6426]

I belong to a fandom, but I would never disrespect someone that way They are also humans, damn 😑

[@cas3394]

fans are too pretentious, they think they're part of something they're not. in reality; the twins nor their dad dont know ANY of them personally. the fans dont realize that

[@kdragon713]

This video proves that fans think they are a part of the KZbin's life's. They are not please respect there privacy. Its disgusting they thought a meet and greet would happen at a funeral omg.

[@JustLikeAFlower]

Who legit made that page & said hold his hand and cry are you serious they are sick in the head

[@camvin575]

Omg how can a so called fan say that their fathers death is effecting them more than the twins? I'm utterly disgusted with these so called fans...they can't call themselves fans, if they were they would respect them and their family, smdh. I've never even watched the twins but I find this disgusting.

[@afsham4330]

Oh wow, our world has come to this. Fandoms use to be to connect one another with slimier interests, wonder what happened.

[@RoseyRedCringes]

Who tf shows up to somebody’s funeral for a party that’s just wrong in every way; people these days are insane

[@AvrilFanCarson]

YO WTF IS WRONG WITH THESE PEOPLE??

[@FilipMattson]

Some people are I N S A N E

[@ielletrue]

I love how the fans feel that they were wronged

[@YvetteAguilarx]

Always educational while giving people tea. You’re one of one.

[@user-zz2qv4lz8h]

It's honestly disgusting and so disrespectful to turn this situation into a meet&greet opportunity. I feel sorry for the Dolan twins.

[@Dani-lj8cv]

'Some fans are even more devastated' Yeah, no. Its their fathers funeral who died of cancer. You most likely haven't met them in person. Like another video (I think) talked about is how fans feel like they know every part of a KZbinr or celebrity, when you really don't. So be respectful and stop this.

[@marjorieb5059]

These ''fans'' are trolls, not actual fans of the dolan twins.

[@planetvnus]

this is actually disgusting🤢

[@thiccoatmeal6773]

“Sean Dolan’s death has affected us also, maybe even more than the twins” I just lost all my brain cells

[@snowysophiegacha3644]

Get ready in a random persons hotel? Oh heck naw what a sketchy dude...

[@lizilin6420]

How does someone feel like it's ok to turn a funeral into a meet up. That is so disrespectful and slightly sociopathic.

[@isasa29]

Dolan Twins: don’t come to the funeral, please! fans: OMG!😍😍😍 CAN’T WAIT TO MEET THE DOLAN TWINS!!!! IM HEADING TO THE FUNERAL NOW!! fans 9 hours later: WTF!! I just bought a plane ticket, I drove 3 hours and I bought gifts for them just to get kicked out?!!! WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH THEM? I literally have no words to express my anger.

[@vermilionp2]

As a kpop fan we don’t claim those kpop fans who disrespected them

[@justlovely9322]

As a Kpop stan, I would like to apologize for some of the people in our fandom. Most (keyword most) of us are NOT like this. Again, I would like to formally apologize for some of our members behavior. Please forgive us.

[@alisaahhz9082]

"sean dolan's death has affected us maybe even more than the twins." Excuse me? Am i hearing correctly? It's their *FATHER* . HE RAISED THEM. They grew up with him, lived with him, raised by him, was personally close to him and shared memories with him since they were born, it's their DAD for goodness sake. What do you mean it affected you more??? Personally, i wouldnt want to hear a stranger say that my parent's death has affected them more than it did to me and that they will uninvitingly show up to the funeral of my own father's death, fake cry, and ask to take pictures with me. Not to mention the clothes they posted was not the most appropriate for a funeral. A funeral is not a meet and greet 'party'. And why couldn't they respect that? I just needed to get that off my chest

[@gustav8042]

I'm so *disgusted* by the fandom I'm a part of

[@rubyblack6682]

"maybe even more than the twins" I want to hurt these people.

[@skyem00n59]

fr tho i mean, Sean was their father, you’re just a fan, how could you ever think you’d miss him more than them?? it’s just crazy

[@feyzas6477]

Me too. It was their dad. He raised them, they loved him. How are fans supposed to be more affected by someone's death than the sons of that person. It's disgusting, honesty. This whole thing with the funeral meet and greet is disgusting and disrespectful. I can't believe that, can't you let two boys mourn over their father in peace? They're not invited to the funeral and then they shouldn't go. That's the end, what's so hard understanding that? I'm actually ashamed of being human like they are, why.

[@jaderupe62]

Ruby Black For real! That had me so angry! The audacity someone has to have to try and claim they are more affected by someone else’s loss is through the roof.

[@elanasims9282]

Yes my mouth dropped open when that was read its pathetic

[@imsohotiwasborninamicrowav4924]

Ruby Black frl

[@sforzondo3283]

Fans: omg i am more hurt than the actual persons kid when there dad died 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢2 seconds later-Omg can i tAKe a SeLfie WiTh YoU

[@tomtamjimjams]

Waiting for the tea so early that they haven't even turned on the stove

[@meIatonin]

That was a good one

[@MsDenise522]

Yup

[@mercedes8886]

I feel like they did go WAAYY too far since the Dolan twins were mourning and fans wanted to meet them WHEN THEY WERE DEALING WITH A LOSS. I'm a huge Stan of some KZbinrs (if u play Roblox u may know who) but if they were dealing with something like this I would send my support digitally, not try to go to the place they're mourning and take selfies.

[@godjihyo9109]

how can a fan.. be more affected about the twins fathers death than the twins themselves..? sure, they do feel more personally connected to the twins because they are in their fandom, but you cant actually be more affected than the twins themselves because it’s them who lost their father to cancer, not you. sure, maybe you’ve lost a family member to a disease or more specifically, cancer, but that doesnt make you more affected than the twins- that’s just not possible. about the funeral, the way some fans acted was absolutely disgusting and disrespectful. yes, you want to see the twins. but it’s extemely disrespectful. you’re seeing them at the wrong time. you want to see them at one of their toughest times for a picture? that’s just disgusting. there are so many other times the twins would absolutely love to see you, but at their fathers funeral where you are uninvited, no. sure, you may say that you want to pay respects, but you can sure do that online. what’s so hard to not go to a funeral, especially after the twins themselves said not to? about the kpop fans- that was disgusting as well. mocking a death is just unacceptable. yes, grayson unintentionally joked about the way our idols faint on stage when overworked, but grayson did not mean any harm at all and even apologised. how are you going to apologise for mocking a death??? but i am absolutely glad that most of us are not like that, and im sure most of the twins fandom arent toxic like that too. i absolutely love the twins and have been watching them since forever, but stopped after a year or two. recently i started watching them again and i love them so much. im so sorry about their loss. all my prayers go to them and their family. losing a family member to cancer or just losing one is no joke at all. it’s times like these where you have to shower them with support and love especially since you are their fans and not where you plan to go to their fathers funeral uninvited. again, i love them and i am not saying every fan is like that- just like us kpop fans. all love to the twins and i hope they’re recovering well from their loss! 🌍💕

[@godjihyo9109]

this is also an example, though, of how fans think they can be personally connected to their idols life and all. i have so much more to say that i cant put in words but i want to end this by saying this: i hope everything goes well for the twins and their family. it’s absolutely so hard to go through that because it’s like they’re with you one day, and just leave you the next. sometimes you forget they’re gone and when you remember that they are, you think of them and just feel like crying, maybe. the twins and their family deserve so much love. late sean dolan really raised wonderful and loving children, and he raised them well. at this point of time, they deserve all the love and happiness in the world. stay strong, ethan, grayson and everyone in their family and loving fandom. look on the bright side and continue supporting the twins lovingly like you always do. praying that something like this never happens to them or anyone at all next time. we will miss you sean dolan. xx 🌍🌟💕

[@iconicclown0w093]

Absolutely disgusting. When I read “it might even affected us more” pissed me off so badly. THAT IS THEIR FATHER.people can be so disrespectful and rude. Im positive that if they lost a family member they would not want people that are not invited to come.Some people just can’t respect privacy. I feel terrible for the twins, they definitely do not deserve this. Those fans are not real fans, show some respect.

[@clarissapeyton7466]

Yikes......will not be using the word "stan" ANY more.....

[@smoljisung2995]

I’m a kpop fan and their are so many kpop fans that take things wayyy to seriously 😔

[@amandal.9105]

“Sean Dolan’s Death has affected us too, maybe even more than the twins.” Are you serious? Was he your father? Did he raise you? Was he around in your childhood 24/7? No. No he was not. HE WAS NOT THE MAN THAT WAS THE REASON YOU’RE ALIVE. HE DID NOT RAISE YOU. These people need to be quiet, although you may think you’re “family” to the twins, you are NOT. Just because they call you their family, it does not mean you will be invited to family events, especially one such as a funeral. 🖤

[@SimplyCanadianYT]

Dolan Twins: Please respect us and DON'T come to the funeral Fans: OMG I CANT WAIT TO MEET THE DOLAN TWNS AT THEIR FATHERS FUNERAL 😍😍

[@alemhasic2319]

HAHAHAHHAHAH😂😂😂😂

[@addidepp7244]

SimplyCanadian ikr it’s awful

[@a90107]

OMG HI SIMPLY

[@ayla1219]

"please cry"

[@NoctisVillain]

Its disturbing that people think its okay to go to their funeral

[@nicoleq9247]

6:01 ‘sean dolan’s death has affected us also, maybe even more than the twins.’ boyyyy if you don’t get yo-

[@alexapower1616]

If my dad passed away (god forbid) and a complete stranger claimed that his death affected them more than it affected me, I would be so upset and angry. How does that even make sense? Sean raised Ethan and Grayson SINCE BIRTH. FOR NINETEEN YEARS! wtf do you mean his death affected you more? Some people can be so disrespectful smfh.

[@advika2947]

I can't believe someone has to explain why going to chill with people at a funeral is insensitive. Wtaffff

[@adeioana1313]

This tea is hotter than my last imaginary boyfriend

[@aurorabentivoglio9723]

I like how now u can like and comment on a video before it is even uploaded LOLLLL

[@gena5270]

I love how the twins were super respectful, i wouldve cussed those freaks so hard and end my career right there on the spot.

[@amandatarver4]

6:08 “Sean Dolan’s death has affected us also, maybe * EVEN MORE THAN THE TWINS * ” WTFFF. I am so shocked that some one can be that ignorant and delusional. I am so pissed

[@Dilly_T]

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[@Chulitooooo]

who else is creeped out by fans acting like they know them as if they knew each other is it just me ? Cause it’s kind of creepy when die heart fans cry and brake down over such a thing that happened to them not themselves... Ps: I’m not judging anyone who does this I’m just simply asking if anyone is slightly in any possible way creeped out by this

[@kalinajo]

That live chat was full of really rude people

[@user-zn2hw2it1h]

Fan: That loss might have been even deeper to us than the twins ARE PEOPLE DELUSIONAL

[@Faithtasticness]

*“Hold his hand and please cry”*

[@jaded8578]

what really shook me up was in that list thing they said "please cry", like wtf it seems like they don't feel sad about what happened so they're gonna be fake-crying

[@jupiter6244]

Yikes. Stan Twitter in general scary. Im embarassed to be a Kpop stan...

[@JannesonMultiMediaEditor]

I honestly wouldn't be surprised if the Dolan's left KZbin over this. I wouldn't blame them at all...

[@forgetmenotfaery]

finally an explanation to where stan comes from its such a dark background

[@wildflowersoftexas7525]

No just no. This is wrong. The girl that was saying “please stop being insensitive to people that want to pay there respects Sean’s death has affected us also,maybe even more than the twins”. Me: I highly doubt that. This is utterly and completely disgusting

[@Fanpirecullenists]

I could never imagine being this much of a horrible person

[@maisiejohnston3107]

this whole thing is heartbreaking. absolutely disgusting.

[@elizabethstogner5697]

It was disguisting and triggering that someone actually said that they cared more than there twins. They have a false sense of bonding with the Dolan twins when they don’t even know them smh

[@_Yan_yan_yan]

this video is SO important. the duality of stan culture is something rarely talked about and I’m so glad you covered this topic so thoroughly

[@serenityx7569]

This is afwul. There is a fine line between being a FAN and someone who is close to the youtuber . You know nothing but what these KZbinrs put online for us to see.

[@ashlavelle]

“Maybe even more than the twins” some people really like this huh?

[@MedievalMiniskirt]

These people are either unhinged, or way too young to have social media.

[@watermelongals6429]

do these people genuinely think that they were going to enter the funeral and hold sean’s hand and cry with everyone. delusional absolutely delusional it’s sickening

[@mykweenbillie7537]

This channel is too underrated

[@writerchim7885]

although the kpop joke was NOT okay, we should not send disrespectful tweets to Dolan about his father!!

[@abbysnook_]

How can you be affected by the death of THEIR father more than they are.....6:10 seriously

[@cxldtea]

i saw a tweet about fans going to dolan twins dad's funeral and i was like bruh... what has the world come to? the dolan twins don't deserve this

[@vanessaoelmann4211]

I kept feeling sicker and sicker as the video progressed. My god I cannot even believe that people would even THINK that the twins were going to take photos with them?? Furthermore they dressed up as if they were going to a club?? Bright yellow dress to a funeral wtf?? Everything about this is so twisted

[@yourfavoritepessimisticexi8041]

I swear some people just feel so entitled

[@omniscientbean]

I am literally crying right now.. I'm 16 and me and my father are really close. Imagining him dying hurts so much, but the twins have to go through even more... I would be so angry, if I were them... It's just crazy how little empathy people can have. They say they are fans and care for them, but if they actually cared they would respect them, their wishes and most importantly their feelings... Also how can somebody say that they cared for the father's death more than the twins themselves do and then do stuff like that... Firstly, no they don't and secondly, if they actually cared they would respect their choice and not try to disrupt the funeral??? I mean I could understand this kind of logic in an obsessed 12-year old, but these are grown adulds with money, as they can actually afford a plane ticket... Its just so crazy...

[@MPREGCOOKING]

i don't watch the dolan twins but i do think it's DISGUSTING how their fans reacted. i'm so sorry that they had to go though that.

[@hopewines7296]

These people weren't fans.

[@mocha8592]

5:60 “Sean’s death has effected us also maybe even more than the twins” Me:PFFFFT EXCUSE YOU?? Who even are you? Your just a random person who heard about the twins fathers death and hes THEIR father so how can it possibly effect u more??🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ Some People make me so sick sometimes..

[@lvrzxoxo6973]

I'm guessing most of the fans dont know what a damn funeral is 🤦🏻‍♀️.

[@GLamoRousCooKie]

This is what happens when children are allowed on the internet.

[@dolphingoboop]

The people disrespecting the death of Sean Dolan are on the wrong, on both sides. K-Pop stans, and E&G Fans disrespecting Sean’s death isn’t a funny thing, and even if you think it’s just a joke, you should understand how death isn’t something to joke of. I have more to say, but I wouldn’t want this to end up being long so stans, please realize how your behavior can easily effect something, so please respect your idols, and allow them to be humans.

[@brittwilhoit]

I think the mentality of wanting to be a 'stan' is troubling. As you said the term comes from a fan so obsessed they kill themselves and others. Why is that a goal? I think you bring up am excellent point about how being well rounded in one's interest is best for mental health. The Dolan fandom absolutely went too far. The loss of their father is an incredibly initmate life moment.if they had seen the response and decided to do a memorial meet up on their own terms in their own time that would be different. Just showing up and expecting them to perform for you and take selfies is such an arrogant thought pattern. Good episode.

[@marjorieb5059]

It is confirmed that it's not the dolan twins fans that made these disrespectul comments. Some fans of the dt went undercover with the trolls and they were not fans, just looking for attention. The screenshots of the conversations are on twitter

[@sl.steffyghost]

My jaw dropped. I can't believe people reach this limit. Aside with suspicion that the k pop fans started this thing , I wouldn't be surprised if actual fans tried to make it to the funeral. A lot of people who follow youtubers get this sense of closeness to their idols, it comes with the fact that these yters share their life with us, and people assume from that, that they are welcomed into it. This category can be filled with people who also show up to influencer's homes uninvited. People need to take a step back and realize that even though you know these people well , at the end of the day YOU are a stranger to them. And Spill your videos are amazing! I don't even follow many youtubers or the scene, but I watch you religiously because you do this whole digging into psychology and sociology and that's the kind of videos I watch mainly and yt recommended you to me, and I am so glad!

[@starrie818]

How absolutely disgusting!? What have we come to. Smh

[@mika-ellalinu1149]

I feel really bad for everything that happened to the twins. It sucks that one of their family members died and they have to go through this. I've never seen anything like this during any celebrity loss. I wouldn't be suprised if K-Pop Stans did this as well. Being a really big fan of k-pop. I've had certain issues with K-Pop Stans that are disrespectful and abusive based off of people disliking their favorites. I have Ethan in Dolan is my prayers, rest in peace Sean Dolan.

[@quieteyes307]

The fans’ behavior makes me sick to my stomach. Those people were well over old enough to know that was absolutely NOT OKAY. Selfish little pricks. Sending my respects to the Dolan family. I’m glad Sean’s service went well. I hope you all find peace in this hard time.

[@_dawn17]

People are *_SO_* disrespectful these days.

[@frontbutt1021]

Ugh people are so disgusting and entitled, I don’t even watch or enjoy Dolan brothers content but nobody deserves to be disrespected during this time of their lives! It makes me absolutely sick to my stomach, I feel so hurt for the brothers and their family. I didn’t know Sean Dolan but just from looking at his bright eyes and smile I can tell he was a really great person, and he did an amazing job supporting his family. Much respect, rest In Peace 💛🕊

[@kpoplove783]

I'm glad you took the time to see both sides. As a kpop fan what they did was rude and uncalled for, I get it he made a joke about them which was rude but there Is no need for them to mock a death. They lost a family member they deeply loved. But anyway good video👍

[@isabellaa5701]

that is terrible, only an idiot would show up

[@chimchay5683]

I was a Dolan Twin fan. Now I'm a Kpop stan. Difference? Not much since I have common sense and understand there are limits. Anyways, I'm sorry for the twins' loss. If anyone reads this, Dolan Twin fan, Kpop fan, Spill fan, your average Joe local who wondered off to the dark side of KZbin, please know you are amazing and never alone~~~

[@artistic_flaw3998]

This is gross, people take this too far

[@samtarr682]

These poor boys don't deserve this

[@orlaboots5170]

Those tweets are actually disgusting, I’m so revolted by how they have acted.

[@ririluvsyah4573]

*sips tea* AAH IVE BURNT MY TONGUE! ( the reality😂 )

[@jules_Taylor]

This made me sick, I can’t believe people would do this...🤢

[@amirahiftoni6138]

Wtf, how can people be so insensitive Its a FUNERAL for goodness sake

[@nico-bq3mx]

real fans wouldn't do this

[@ansonzhang9853]

I shocked how people think that a family funeral is a free meetup like seriously whyyyyyyy

[@hannahyokoyama149]

The fact that it even got this far is just so sad... People buying tickets to FLY there?! 😑😑

[@presleyellis4176]

(Video time 6:38) one person literally tweeted “what a classy way to run a funeral/meet up” A MEET UP AND FUNERAL IS NOT THE SAME THING BOO BOO 🙄 Honestly I think showing up to someone’s family funeral uninvited and treat it like a meet and greet is the most heartless thing someone can do in this world K I’m done ranting now sry if u read all that

[@sarahrah6035]

What in the world 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ if I was the twins I would be pissed

[@myfreespacelowkey9549]

You don't just spill the tea, you spill the God damn kettle. I love it

[@pika6383]

Hi Spill, just wanted to say that your channel is truly a breath of fresh air in the drama community. I never watch "drama channels" and usually stay away from them, but I always watch your videos. I love that you use relevant topics to introduce people to psychological theories and explanations, and you spend a third of each video on critical analysis. Thanks for being awesome!

[@georgiawu5750]

teas cold rn but just u wait...

[@elamoore7897]

I’m ready for the tea

[@noobie_mia97]

8:22 we don’t claim her, or anyone who mocked the passing of Sean.

[@twilightartist1360]

This makes my heart break these disgusting people