Don’t Bring Him Around

The plaintiff claims her son doesn’t like her new husband, who spent 22 years in prison. She’s suing her son for the balance due on a car. The defendant admits he dislikes his stepfather and claims they even got into a shootout. He’s countersuing his mom for breach of contract.

[@yellababy]

I’m not standing beside no man who shot at my child. Grown or not .

[@sweetbeloved623]

AGREE with you on that one!

[@startinajackson606]

Dam straight

[@ericaashley4244]

How daré her!

[@RogueAizenYubel]

@ Ybaby such...I don’t know you got that prison magic stick you may be thinking differently. Lol

[@newjerseylove1373]

FACTS 💯

[@Nintenlex]

She's the classic example of a mother who puts their men before their children. 😩

[@grigrig9107]

Whats wrong with putting your 1st?

[@Proverbspsalms]

@@grigrig9107 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@marskeins]

That mom has a lot of nerve coming up there. Talking about her son being in jail and stuff. Yet she's with a ex convict. 😒

[@dezmitchell5329]

She has no logic. Something is wrong with her. Jesus can tell her she’s wrong and she would try to justify her decisions

[@grigrig9107]

Whats wrong with being with a ex convict?

[@imnotakillabutdontpushme4125]

His mom is ridiculous! She hasn’t liked the child since he was 11. She also let him shoot at her son and you still married him ?! 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ZhenMitch]

@bubble butt facts

[@anyanelemd3398]

Terrible indeed!

[@ME-vb6pq]

She is PATHETIC! So far up the husband’s tail. She’s absolutely ridiculous!

[@azuredelcielo9151]

He was in jail 22years...

[@daddy9495]

Man she lower than low

[@conniechoward]

Harrassing you since he was 11?????????? What kind of mother is this?

[@rachelle_banks]

That was troubling to hear.

[@JessicaSmith-yd2nm]

a mother???🤣😂

[@AGirlCalledNicole]

2 minutes in and the mom's already started off on the wrong foot...

[@gabrielleelliott7388]

Yes

[@preciousgemstylez1768]

She better hope he don't go upside her head one day, cause her son may not be there to help or save her, smh.

[@darkchild8849]

I was thinking the same thing chile 🤦🏾‍♀️!!

[@khulaniafrost8359]

He (husband) look like he would 🤣😳 so serious though

[@ShamekaCheek78]

Facts. Mom is an idiot!

[@bh6360]

True !

[@araineacutebrownnurse7315]

Dear parents, If your children don’t like the man your dating or married to, usually there is a valid reason why. Wake up !

[@araineacutebrownnurse7315]

Ty Jones that is why my comment doesn’t read “ always “.

[@Everythingshanik]

Yeah not true.

[@mcmariahcareyfan200]

Ty Jones Do you know how to read? She said “USUALLY”.

[@Everythingshanik]

Ty Jones lord

[@sj1276]

Especially black parents

[@DeeluxyLife]

She probably chose men over him his whole life 💔

[@wildemperor1521]

Kendle Andrea you could not have said it any better

[@mrshappilymarried1]

Exactly...this ain't nothing new. This woman is awful...

[@jamhombre]

That's whats up

[@Maqqin]

Or not. He said she was with the her previous husband for 16 years.

[@DeeluxyLife]

@@Maqqin What do you mean? That proves my point.

[@mrshappilymarried1]

20+ years in prison, if course he's angry and aggressive. This desperate ridiculous 'mother' is embarrassing...

[@INDIGO.GODDESS_573]

AND PROBABLY ON THE DL.. 20 YRS HELL NAH..

[@tjneverdefeated4394]

She is so embarrassing

[@JayMonaeee]

Watching a mother defend a man over her own child is making me sick.

[@grigrig9107]

He not a child. Thats that woman husband. Her son is grwn looks like she raised him well.

[@Rita_was_here]

Honestly, it just sounds like she doesn’t like her son🤷🏽‍♀️I could tell within the first 45 seconds of her description of him that she saw him as more of a burden than anything

[@queenmckeba]

Yes at age 11 he’s harassing you? Smh she’s not rt in her head.

[@startinajackson606]

Yep u right

[@IWAHProsper]

Of course he’s 30 and she looks about 45 babies having babies momma gotta have a life too

[@IAmUser420LV]

He probably looks like his father and don't like it

[@dawnlee866]

Exactly

[@toniphoenix5607]

What a terrible mother!!!! So sorry for the young man. Blessings to him.

[@grigrig9107]

She can't be too bad her son just got accolades from the judge on his behavior. Looks like she raised him

[@Proverbspsalms]

@@grigrig9107 that doesn’t mean she did a thing

[@helena3631]

She’s a terrible mother

[@prettyboi4821]

I love how JM smoothly stopped him from talking about the shoot out after he mentioned about there being innocent bystanders during the shootout in order to not incriminate himself.

[@insanelybeautiful4090]

Right.. I noticed that too

[@szzk7937]

JM didn't like him because he grabbed the gun first and had an issue with him being a ex felon, JM is an ex felon.

[@percyjackson5417]

@@szzk7937 what??

[@ruthbattle7081]

V+q+1+q+q++

[@chloemantella]

@@szzk7937 naw i’m thinking he was on his side understanding the first situation but he stopped him and moved on because he might not have liked the fact that he pulled out a gun first and was shooting with bystanders around

[@venicesmith4525]

Talking abt low self esteem. She is too old to be dating a dude out of jail.

[@venicesmith4525]

@Ty Jones malcolm had something going for himself n he stood for something, this dude( her son say) fresh out. To each his own!!

[@sweetbeloved623]

I believe giving a guy a chance, it depends on what the circumstances some men go to prison some time is INNOCENT.

[@INDIGO.GODDESS_573]

@@sweetbeloved623 SOME MEN GO INTO PRISON HETEROSEXUAL.. AND COME GOT GAY OR ON THE DL AFTER THAT LONG TOO.. HELL NAH.. I AINT DOING IT.. PERIODT.

[@grigrig9107]

@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 you don't know nothin..ms judgemental fool.

[@dre.supreme]

Lady: "No, he was released in 2016" Mathis: "And went back in '19" LMAO.

[@sweetbeloved623]

She was confused a lot.

[@terriiwright6595]

When judge Mathis actually likes the defendant but have to rule in the plaintiff’s favor.

[@christopherclyde7791]

That's exactly what happened

[@renitawilliams8499]

That part.

[@NoFoxGvn]

He has a chance to be a good man. He just wasn’t raised right. I agree with him at points. Especially the child molester. Don’t bring that near my kids.

[@sanctuary5539]

Facts

[@1010QUEEN7]

Never

[@LeoSun33]

She reminds me of my mama. She always had prison pen pals and boyfriends and would spend all her money on them and they would just brainwash her smh

[@adambarney1137]

I can say my mother gave two guys with a prison background & it didnt end well. She is by herself and the situation has always been uncomfortable for me & my sisiter. Smh

[@LeoSun33]

@@adambarney1137 My mama is by herself as well now after marrying one while he was still in prison but they have divorced now thankfully.

[@ladejohnson8968]

A damn shame. No man more important than your kids. But I wouldn’t fault your mom. My guess is she had her own self esteem issues she needed to sort out.

[@nicolewashington6718]

Lade Johnson you know when I hear people say,” she had her own self esteem problems or what have.” It kind of disturbs me somewhat because on one hand..,DON’T WE ALL ?? And on the other hand I can relate and understand, I too have experience abuse. The part that disturbs me is, for example, if someone got molested/ raped and then that same someone grew up, had kids,., shouldn’t they want to protect their own kids from this type of abuse/ behavior. Considering what they themselves had to endure. On the other hand I know we all are different and we have the tendency to react to things differently. But even with that said, it’s seems to me that, that particular kind of abuse, sexual, and I’m not taking anything away from any other abuse, wouldn’t someone be impelled to not want anyone who’s associated or have been associated with sexual abuse to be around their kids??

[@LeoSun33]

@@ladejohnson8968 Yes, she definitely has depression and self esteem issues. She has had kidney failure for 16 yrs and feels like only men in prison want her because men in the real world don't want to put up with her medical issues. She has since apologized to me and my siblings for giving away all her money to these men.

[@BVaxter]

Nobody fighting my son, nobody disrespecting my son. I ain't marring nobody that's gonna go to my son's house and disrespect my son in his home. I got a son that's grown, with children, and it will never happen. When he was telling the story it made my stomach turn have no respect for her.

[@niece585]

Amen he fight i fight

[@Black_and_Green]

Why was that man even there? The case wasn't regarding him, he wasn't a witness to anything...

[@dbabies82]

Playing mind games.. basically to show that she's his

[@newjerseylove1373]

INTIMIDATION FACTOR

[@radhikagooroodoyal4750]

It’s a controlling thing, my ex used to treat me like that

[@grigrig9107]

@@dbabies82 he is hers they're married 3 years strong. Hes supposed to support his wife. He straight

[@IAmSomaliChannel]

Whew 😥 Mama Trifling .... the way she calls her son ‘him’ ughhh, a pathetic excuse for a mom. It’s sad she chose a man over her son, a man she only knew for 2 minutes 🙄

[@thereisonlyonewright3040]

Desperate for man. She should be ashamed. She's no mother. I don't care if the young man is troubled or not. A mother's love is supposed to mean something.

[@grigrig9107]

How she desperate... Cause she married a man from prison. Prison don't make a man. Man makes prisons. He did his time and then married a woman. What wrong with that?

[@thereisonlyonewright3040]

@@grigrig9107 A woman who marries her prison pen pal is desperate with low self esteem. If you meet a man while he's in prison, you do not know that man. Period. Your comment is pretty sad. You're really going to overlook that the mother ain't shhhh ok

[@grigrig9107]

@@thereisonlyonewright3040 if you meet a man at a bar or a job or a store. You do not know that man. The point you make is very poor and extremely judgemental. How do you feel your more superior than someone who goes to prison. Hiw do you put a low self esteem label on a woman because she loves a man and marries him....?

[@thereisonlyonewright3040]

@@grigrig9107 Meeting and dating a man in prison is the bottom of the barrel starting point. Maybe you romanticize it. I don't. You can call me what you want to but I would never fall for a man in prison. I'm smarter than that. Anyway we disagree. I'm done talking about it. Good luck on your prison marriage, if that's what you have your heart set on, for your future.

[@grigrig9107]

@@thereisonlyonewright3040 fool any man could be at the bottom of the barrel...duh. Prison takes materially from a man and some try hard to break a good man but a strong man is a strong man and just because a man AINT did time in prison, it doesn't mean hes a strong man. Git it?

[@wildemperor1521]

I know judge wanted the boy to win so bad but the law is the law. Mom life is not all about the D

[@johnstriggles9454]

The title was in her name. How could he update the registration?

[@Kokoshannel666]

I have zero respect for this so called mother. PERIOD.

[@zolo4209]

A Parolee ALREADY walking with a GUN???? That guy will NEVER change.....She is going to be NEXT!

[@__ritanicole__1734]

Mom you sound slow, the son was absolutely right about that jailbird, he could have stayed in the car while you got the dog.

[@zurib7866]

__ RitaNicole __ exactly , but she wants to push her weight around talking about “it’s not even his house” soooo what , he lives there with his children . So that’s null and void

[@tcm7799]

"My son has put me through hell" yet you married a man from hell.

[@grigrig9107]

Her husband came back from hell. Hes actually a good catch. He just need a lot of love.

[@beb5407]

Her karma

[@corazoncubano5372]

She had no business bringing that man around to her son's house.

[@tmelanie2815]

Her husband / prison pin pal look mean.

[@francevenezia]

Baiting him? She brought him to his house!

[@enigmaticladypisces3169]

This mother is trifling!! I don’t care what nobody says… 😢

[@goodears100]

Man how is this crazy lady going to be with a man who is shooting at your son

[@NellieKAdaba]

True

[@grigrig9107]

Her son over exaggerated. He never trusted the man because of his prison background. He was going for the gun first not the his step father

[@zulu3274]

😂Mama like them thugs and penitentiary wood.... This reminds me of Melvin, Jody and Juanita from the movie "Baby Boy"...lol Melvin..."Yeah yeah yeah that's right call for ya momma" Juanita..."I'm your mama but I need to have a life too...." Jody..."When he start beating your ass mama don't call me" 🤔But seriously it's admirable that he stood his ground about not associating himself with someone who keeps company with a child molester.... I hope the dysfunction can end someday in all communities....

[@thecaliwestentertainmentne1088]

No lie

[@KinToNatTuner]

For real I didn't even know that Jody's momma's name was Juanita until now! And why did you have to do the whole script!❤❤❤❤❤🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣☠

[@zulu3274]

@@KinToNatTuner 😂😂😂 because those scenes were the best part of the movie... Especially that choke scene between Melvin and Jody... lol... But seriously that movie did touch on alot of dysfunction within households...lol

[@moore_seh]

Like a tell my sister's, I know convicts need love and a second chance so just leave it to the next girl. JS.

[@softersideofc.c.5655]

👏👏 My baby cousin is heading in this way I told her no prison bae. Leave these men along a lot of them have to many problems

[@moore_seh]

@@softersideofc.c.5655 like my mom told me, women have the best intuition as long as they can place it @ the right place MENTALITY & NOT physically. 🙏🏾 dont give up on her like my mom told me, women have the best intuition as long as they can place it @ the right place MENTALITY & NOT physically. dont give up on her Inshallah!

[@kayteeelle]

I know a mother who views her child as an accident when I see one.

[@tamaranoble152]

Yep

[@Godly-Brat]

Ain’t NOBODY gone come before anybody I pushed out of me that’s beyond dead

[@konige-tochteru.9295]

This "mother " is TOTALLY desperate and nauseating..why are so many women willing to go against their children for some useless man I don't know

[@grigrig9107]

Her child is a grown man..your a jack as

[@bxgirl2930]

I am always perplexed when people don't actually like the children they actually raise 🙄 or feel bothered or bullied or afraid of humans that they raised 🤷 than come to court to get money from said child that's now a full grown irresponsible adult THAT YOU RAISED !🤷‍♀️

[@kay22100]

They pulling out guns with ppl outside. This is how kids end up getting killed by stray bullets.. So dumb

[@ShamekaCheek78]

Mom is ridiculous !! Desperate and vulnerable

[@niajones992]

Any mother who stays with a dude that fought her child and still stays... I might have to question her parenting.

[@tjneverdefeated4394]

She is a disgrace as a mother. Selfish and I can only imagine how his life has been. He’s been acting out since 11 for a reason, and that reason is HER!! This is much deeper than a lawsuit. He made your life hell?? What kind of life did you give him ma’am? Talking about her son like he’s someone in the street “I’ve been dealing with him a long time”. 🙄. Run young man, live your life. Sometimes you have to let go of people, even your mom. This is sad.

[@MsLadylove55]

The husband looks abusive...n I wouldn't want a child molester around my kids either..TF...🗣EARTH to mother wake up

[@bridgetts4767]

Never ever I'm my life am I going to be with a man who puts hands on my son, or shoots at my son!! F#&% that!! She got life all messed up!! Smh

[@beautifulinsideandout9822]

She's the type of lady that choose men over her children. Trust me ive dealt with these ppl all my life.

[@azuredelcielo9151]

Can't sacrifice your kids for anything

[@jusmejaussyb8237]

The way she keeps looking at him for reassurance is making me cringe. 😫😫

[@abconey1052]

RIGHT! Especially when judge Mathis literally Laughed at him for losing the fight with the son! LoL she looked back like "it ain't funny boo" uggh, something about her makes me sick

[@dance4life1208]

the mother never liked the son

[@dezmitchell5329]

dance4life1208 probably reminds her of his daddy 😑

[@timothyriggins8651]

That joke "Judge Mathis" made at the 2:25 mark soared right over that woman's head! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@aleenabelladavis860]

Mama's man looked like, aww man he's gonna bring up my criminal history lollol.

[@tamaranoble152]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@cynthiasamuels-jackson7346]

Judge Mathis, missed how the uncle asked him to pull over knowing he and the stepdad had beef. He wanted to see a fight

[@BestLifeBagLady]

Yep just messy. That’s why I teach mine to stay away from them

[@ZhenMitch]

This judge is savage. He listen to the whole story just to dismiss his claims

[@kabalove7938]

That dude’s Momma was trying to find a way to get at him because of her husband. And the fact that she can’t stand her own son.

[@dianewilliams9858]

Yeah the mom could have handled this better knowing her son doesn't want her husband around should have never had her husband with her at Sons house. 🥴🤨

[@themanwithacareer1121]

When she said "I LOVE MY SON" I almost passed out smh

[@mademoiselle_tami3705]

What!!!!!? He shot at your son and you married this guy a month later. She’s going to look for this son when that guy beats her

[@quietking24]

I think the best option for him is to cut her off completely. So if her criminal child molesting Beaty eyed BOYFRIEND kills her, beats her, or molests her don’t call your son because remember he’s “trouble” I would even get a restraining order if it continues... I can relate to this situation my mom is dating an unemployed drunk and I’m trying to hard to payoff my car and get an apartment or transfer into a college with dorms to get away and never comeback

[@montinebyrd82]

Whew, i don't know about yall but this case boiled my BLOOD! There isn't no way in hell that I would EVER choose a man over my child, NEVER EVER! I'm not standing behind no "man" who fought and shot at MY CHILD. She is not a mother at all and probably never been one. How TF do you come to court saying YOUR CHILD was harassing you since 11 yrs old. SMFH

[@LucySkyDiamond]

She's talking about her SON like he's her ex boyfriend or something smh

[@shugabear35]

She left a 16 year marriage over a new piece then stayed with her new piece after he got into a shoot-out with her son. I guess it would've took death in order to get rid of her new piece because either way he would've been gone. smh

[@Divagirl444]

Sorry excuse for a mother. From the first moment she opened her mouth. She berated her son. Making him sound bad so she can justify taking sides with a man over son. Just plain sorry. And there is no excuse for her actions. A man says he gonna put you son 6 feet under and youre still with him... not a mother, but a monster

[@NellieKAdaba]

👍

[@kaylamar4032]

Sounds something like Jodie’s mom. ..from the movie “Baby boy”

[@taneshalafleur3545]

EXACTLY what I was thinking, real live "Baby Boy"

[@ayonnazglam9050]

That’s what I was thinking!!!

[@sweetbeloved623]

I seen that movie 😊

[@kenyak2959]

That’s the first thing I thought of

[@miekaash6831]

Except Melvin actually helped Jodie

[@itscollysworld1389]

My kids vs a convict??? Nah we not the same👋👋👋

[@Ashley-n3l2e]

His mom needs to do better.

[@nb6426]

Lawd please rebuke this type of life for me or my blood line! Does not seem peaceful!

[@tom11zz884]

What a crappy mother...SMH Mothers like that are the reasons why their sons fail in life

[@msdanielledapson]

As a parent watching this I am heartbroken 😔. Your children come first at all times!

[@maishatopez6203]

Men will come and go but our children will remain at least they should.

[@K_Cole0128]

I’ve been a move for nearly 20 years. They come before everyone!

[@tonyblue1388]

This is how u know the mother must have hated her sons father! He probably look just like his daddy. Women like this have issues with their child’s father and end up taking it out on the child.

[@joyce-zoefarleyph.d.1482]

The mother is awful and isn’t dealing with a full deck to chose a trifling no-good man over her son and grandchildren. She is a terrible liar and doesn’t deserve to be a mother.

[@Jai-Barnes]

This is an example that some woman will do anything to keep a man. Afraid to be alone. To start again. This whole situation is a shambles. Kmt

[@MultiCardsfan1]

These are keeping me occupied during quarantine

[@ren6510]

She chooses men over her son ! 3 mins in and I see it

[@shawnnemo1962]

Women please know your worth and don’t let no man come between your relationship with your children

[@tineashaburnett1544]

What a hypocrite of a mother she is. If I were him, i wouldn't want anything to do with her. I her ex con hits her one day , she'll probably call her son crying and tell him yeah he beat me he hit me. What do think he would do about it?

[@JohnWick-op9tq]

Judge is real a OG!

[@mmmitchell2010]

Yeap

[@WarGrowlmon18]

His license was suspended so he never should've been driving anyways!!!

[@tooRaw4yall]

She said "Okay" after everything....wow

[@jaquanking3997]

This story give a “Baby Boy” vibe Melvin n Jody😂

[@MoorThreads_Store]

Something is really off about this Mom and her husband. It appears he may be using her to get on his feet. Apparently she does not see this or understand this. He is causing too many problems

[@cattinakentcy3885]

No respect for the mom...a lot for son

[@ashleya.7481]

You shoot at my child ain't no relationship after that PERIOD! IDC

[@tialstewart]

She pick that man over her son

[@kingman1330]

Never cosign for an irresponsible person even if it's your own child... less you can & don't mind paying it all off yourself!!!

[@id6584]

Classic lonely middle age single women. Choosing her man over her kids

[@id6584]

@Ty Jones he her kid

[@colethacrawford2053]

At the end of the day the Baby Boy Complex is so sad..These women treat their sons like their boyfriend's to fill the void of a man...Spoil them and do anything for them then soon as they find a man start listening to the man advice on how to make the son grow up and be responsible.. Problem is that you've already set the tone and now you have angry men out here that's hella confused..Stop that shit, Your son is not your man and damn sure need to stop throwing them away when you find a actual man..

[@NomyJackson]

Some women feel like they are "nothing" without a man. Even a man at the bottom of the barrel is better than being alone. Swayed by sweet talk. Shame.

[@khrisi9410]

The Mom is something else, shame on her. Divorced her 17 yr marriage for an ex con whose friends with a child predator. The Son was absolutely correct in how he handled the whole ordeal her husband.

[@butterflyangel75]

My children comes first PERIOD!!

[@gi-gijay4114]

He looks like he has 2 permanent black eyes.

[@Exhibit_C_me]

The fact he shot at her son and she still wit him is beyond insane. Doesn't matter what happened thats her son at the end of the day. Wtf is wrong with her 😐

[@tomekamontegue5122]

She is so out of order as a mother. That’s your SON! He’s a felon! Cmon honey it’s not that bad out there is it to find a decent man who knows how to treat your son. This type of stuff makes me sick!

[@grigrig9107]

So what he s a felon he and she found love. Your jealous. How you know her husband aint decent. He looks decent to me. He tried to befriend his new step son but he rejected him. He s in court to support his wife, he respected his stepson in court. He respected himself on camera... Looks pretty damn decent to me. Clearly the woman's son has dislike for convicts. He ll get back what he dish out.

[@tomekamontegue5122]

@@grigrig9107 JEALOUS??!!!! LMAO.

[@morgan94]

Yea she never liked him….not sure if it’s bc of his dad not being there or what but she definitely consider him as a problem…you live him but you let someone shoot at him! Ridiculous….I wonder if she has any other kids…respect to the son! MOM YOU ARE WRONG!

[@TalkswithMellow]

Exhibit A why just because someone is your family, doesn’t mean you have to be subjected to their murderous ways and toxicity.

[@lashbosssnoodyy7431]

She’s a lost soul at her old age judge better let her have it

[@token787]

Looking at a HORRIBLE mother! One day she will regret it!

[@nettejones8276]

This mom is pathetic and trifling. the husband is going to go upside her head and it's going to be lights out for her. How the hell do you choose the jailbird over your own child?

[@grigrig9107]

The child is a grown man. Cant you tell the difference? I see a man speaking as a man. Not a child. This woman chose her man married her man and now is standing by her man. Her child has grown up moved on and now had his own children. U probably need some type of medication.

[@nettejones8276]

@@grigrig9107 what you think of me is neither here nor there because you can't get me into heaven nor hell. Your opinion is just like an asshole, everyone has one. Good day

[@Monika-bc3dq]

Some women are just beyond desperate...

[@tatyananajee446]

Why would a mom say that ???

[@thomashammond16]

This is the baby boy movie 😂lol

[@generationalcursebreaker5397]

I love her son bring him here I show him love 💗