Don't Get Mad if a Particular Woman Doesn't Want You

[@stephanreacts7808]

Being mad at women is pointless she gonna do what she wants to do understand that

[@ivanpineda8481]

Amen brodr

[@mhisalive]

"I can't get any woman I want, but I can get any woman that wants me" - David Lee Roth

[@kgkg4118]

A perfect example of getting with a woman that doesn't want you is the movie "Casino". Ginger told Sam upfront that she doesn't love him and he married her anyway. She used him and ended up making his life miserable...Sam had no one to blame but himself she gave him fair warning. Casino is one of my favorite movies of all time for a number of reasons including how realistic the relationship dynamics are portrayed.

[@wesleycristman3278]

Another good example was Heat. The girl Deniro ended up getting with was highly interested from the get go even when Deniro was initially an asshole because he thought she was the police. Later on she even finds out he was a career criminal and was STILL down with him even though her programming at first responsed negatively to it.

[@warrengomez67]

Facts. If anything consider it a blessing. It’s better for a woman to reject you straight from the jump than for her to waste your time.

[@winningwithwells]

Makes sense, I used to get so upset over this until I realized my tribe of women that genuinely wanted me were better for me

[@RomWills]

💯💯💯

[@danielnelson6903]

Yup find your tribe🔑

[@dennisrobinson8008]

Isn't that something?

[@toasterpastries5811]

*It doesnt make me mad at the woman. It makes me mad at myself and hate myself because im not good enough. It also makes me more sad than mad.*

[@Quplin]

You have to respect her for being honest with you. She is not playing games with you and she is not interested in wasting your time.

[@blackshadexl]

Exactly. I thought dudes wanted broads to be direct like that

[@rickyking1790]

If a woman does'nt want me I look at it as her loss. Billions of women in the world. The ones that really want you will come along

[@professionalamateur232]

The one that didn't want me didn't make me mad; she made me sad. The misplaced anger came later when it was pointed out to me everything I did incorrectly in my weak pursuit of her. The favor she did me was leading me down the rabbit hole that lead me to Uncle Rom and content creators of a similar caliber that teach realistic do and don'ts of dealing with women.

[@nj7068]

Thanks for sharing. Sounds very similar to myself and a lady I long wanted. This channel is very helpful.

[@adriangarcia1210]

I'll be honest I used to get feelings of not being good enough. This actually stemmed from childhood. However, if a woman doesn't want me she needs to move around for the next one.

[@roosrosambert6183]

Yesterday I went to the mall and an outlet. I can’t count on my hands how many women rejected me yesterday alone I’m talking about 8-10 women rejected me. That had zero effect on how I feel about myself because I’m confident. Sometimes it’s not just she doesn’t want you timing is also a huge part of it. Like her emotional state.

[@searchforthetruth1]

Straight up. This happened to me but reverse. The baddest chick ever approached me but I was having a bad time in my life and my onfidence was shattered driving a POS minivan lmao. I couldn’t even muster the confidence to keep the convo going. I basically just tapped out 😂

[@Ajay.427]

Just laugh about it and learn for it.

[@dsetgetatme]

That is a great way to look at it!

[@BrolyKing801]

I never understood this if she don't like you move on too many women too be crying over one women 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@dsetgetatme]

Sometimes those rejections make for a good story with your homeboys! Yeah you got rejected but at least you had the courage to approach her in the first place 😎

[@shawnwilliams2381]

I agree Rom, everyone has their own preference. 💯

[@jusschillin]

I remember this particular situation like it was yesterday: I was at a party 1 night and there was this 1 chick there I was checking for. Unfortunately, she wasn't checking for me and I was hurt for a lil bit until her friend started checking for me lol...

[@moislord]

😂

[@carlmarc3877]

45min early car commute Nothing better than a morning dose of coach l! Pause lol Love the gemz fr

[@donshifty]

LMFAOOOOOOO 😂😂😂😂

[@nelsoncruz184]

Ahhh …. The one that got away . Sometimes it’s more than one . Thanks Rom .

[@vernondelancy6281]

If she’s not feeling you , she’s going to peel you . Fellas stop running after the chic that everybody wants and like who likes you .

[@bigplb2133]

Hell yea. I don’t hate the young lady, I just wish the situation didn’t go left

[@eliasmarte2563]

This literally describes me, I get so many women but the 1 I really want I can’t get. Or they make it extremely difficult

[@BigDiscussions76]

Salute Uncle Rom. This is a lesson most young men should learn on day one.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

No. If she doesn't feel it I move on fast. No time for the nonsense.

[@trucolour3662]

Crazy how I been thinking this lately-

[@artcan3829]

Rom, this video is wisdom PACKED. And so relatable from both sides of the wanting. I need to have this same talk with my sons.

[@vision2682]

Rom This off topic Thanks for teaching Use your mind before you use your mouth Think before you speak..... You just want us to think .. Appreciate you much

[@patrickmccane3708]

I love all women,but i found out mixed or redbones where more attracted to me.and i am tall and dark.

[@ronaldblack-zb4yn]

True facts!

[@justanotherfellaliving5171]

Lord know I needed this reminder 🙏 I get all the woman within my community apart from one and been tripping hard for n shawty, but let me keep it g and accept she didn’t waste my time

[@Honeybadger007-hklrkch]

Excellent 👌👍

[@chadfox6030]

I’ve been rejected by many women who I found sexually attractive, but the thing is I would always bump into a woman with that same aesthetic eventually who did find me sexually attractive. A lot of guys act like that woman with the tight body who rejected them, is the only woman with a tight body or they’re under the crude assumption that all women like the same thing . For example, I remember getting rejected and even called ugly by this Hispanic chick I was lusting , it stung I’m not going to lie but I kept it pushing. I’d say two months later, I bumped into a Hispanic woman with that same tight body aesthetic, who was all over me. I mean she had the same type of face, curvy , in shape body and long jet black hair . moments like that help me realise that these chicks are a Dyme-A-Duzin and if one who looks like, Her doesn’t like you best, believe there’s one who looks like Her, who dies like you. Just like win, football player Reggie Bush got dumped by Kim K he literally went and got a chick who looked just like her who seemed extremely happy to be with him

[@memes_for_kings]

This is all facts! Even this dawned upon me in my late 20s and I beem hooking up with a lot of women since who I found attractive. I was at a sex party a few days ago and I got zero played. Rejected multiple times. I wasnt mad.....I get so much play that I just fell back and just enjoyed myself in the environment regardless

[@jeanseguiver2809]

It’s cool just to sit back and enjoy the view. You are basically watching a porn in real life, just chillin and enjoying the energy. The energy is felt in those sessions. Sex is beautiful and is meant to be enjoyed in different ways. Peace brotha.

[@misterbiggs2164]

All Facts ! Stay true pay attention real talk

[@mreyeizwhoeyeiz422]

Is that saxophone riff in the beginning from a particular song?

[@RomWills]

The piece is "It's All About Love" by Stanley "Mellif" Lewis.

[@UndercoverPuertoRican]

Man, I’m used to dealing with hoes. There’s this good girl I’ve been working on. She’s sooo hard to get, even meeting with her in person, it seriously took like 5 tries, she flaked 5 times. We hit it off in person. We actually Went on a date and everything went smooth. And not just in my head lol, I’ve been with plenty of girls so I can feel the vibes. Over text it’s like we’re strangers, but the vibes are always so good whenever I see her around. Shits confusing. I feel like I’m trying way harder than she is, and I’ve told her multiple times if she’s not interested or on the same page just to let me know and we can leave it alone. She insists she’s interested. What in the actual fuck is going on?

[@NewEra0G]

She could be looking for ways to put you to use! Don't be the "awww he's not so bad guy"...make things on your terms so you not wasting alot of time. She is uncertain of you..

[@UndercoverPuertoRican]

@@NewEra0G I think she just feels like she’s not good enough for me, she’s made that comment multiple times. So not only does she need reassurance, but I need reassurance from her cause it’s so hard to get a read on her over text. In person we flow and the communication is a breeze. I really feel like there’s a split somewhere and we’re both getting in our own way man…

[@eyixon]

@@UndercoverPuertoRican I've been in your shoes before sir. TBH, i would leave it as it is. STORYTIME: There was a young good woman i liked. I made efforts to reassure her, yet she kept the same behaviour. I got advise from an older woman that it would be best to focus on me (and really, i needed it, since i didnt really know myself). I spent a couple of years in self-discovery and improvement, but still kept in touch with her from time to time, just not like i used to. I met the young lady again, this year, at a small cafe. We spoke for a while and she asked me a funny question, "I still dont think im good enough for you. Did i upset you with my behaviour? i apologize" I remembered what that old lady said, and finally understood: We both spent a long time thinking, testing the waters. I was being persistent, whilst she was hesitant. If after all those years she still asked this question, then SHE needed to focus on herself. It's good to be patient, but its also good to be more aware of how your behaviour affects people. She didn't owe me an explanation, after all we were still getting to know each other. BUT, we aint kids anymore. If she's still thinking the same way, then id be a bit worried if we actually started dating. I wouldn't think she would be confident enough to to bare my kids. I kept these thoughts to myself and just chose to respond diplomatically. Focus on you sir. The one thing that stood out to me was the communication; both text and in-person; if theres a vagueness there, and she hasnt done anything about it, leave it as it is.

[@epieremy9158]

How is it going brother are you two dating?

[@ericthered1140]

💯🙏

[@junesports13]

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