Don't Get Married If You Can't Pay For Everyones Outfit

[@outichristiania]

As someone who been listening since jeans and no boxers. Shout out 3 shots for still giving us relevant topics all these years later. I'm getting married in May and going through this very topic right now!!

[@3ShotsOfTequilaUK]

We appreciate that 🏆🫡

[@bigl2474]

I'm getting married in May and paid for 6 Groomsmen suit to rent. That way I can choose what everyone is wearing. When I've been a groomsmen I've had my suit paid for but then as my present to them I gave them a nice envelope to cover the suits cost.

[@McSliksOnline]

You are a clear example of how a Married person is supposed to run tings. Big Salute to you I respect that. You have a future in Wedding Planning 💯👊 All the best with your big day. Enjoy

[@KarleaLove]

This here same its what I did

[@Echef]

Been married for years and it should be the groomsmen or bridesmaids paying for their own clothes/shoes. If they can’t afford it then would just invite them as a guest instead

[@AAA-we2st]

You’re definitely bush! Without the wedding party it’s just the bride and groom so common courtesy is to pay for their attire etc: if you can’t afford it, don’t get married or just do a small wedding.

[@warreng5257]

I agree. Married too, and only paid for the guests. The wedding party aren't guests, if we're being honest, the groomsmen should pay for their owns suits and the grooms suit. I've also been a groomsmen 3 times, and bad for my suit. And two of those times I've had to pay to fly out on top of that. If someone really feels like they shouldn't pay for their groomsmen/bridesmaids suit/dress, then the truth is you're really not close to that person and you shouldn't be asked to be in that position. When my youngest brother gets married, I'm paying for my suit and his suit, and I won't feel no way. And people will say that's just because it's your brother. If you're a groomsmen to a groom that doesn't feel like your brother, then you shouldn't be in that position.

[@Echef]

@ FACTS! Couldn’t have said it better 👏🏾🤜🏾

[@krusial247]

I got married in 2017... I paid half of the bill for hire of the suits for the groomsmen and they bought the shoes... the bridesmaids paid for their own dresses as they were hand made and they got to keep them. They also paid for shoes. Bride paid for makeup accessories hair etc....

[@McSliksOnline]

Its true they should be the one paying if their requesting it. I understand you have a certain vision for your big day but also be aware that YOU are the one making the requests so naturally you'll be required to pay. This is how it is in the Business world. There for this service also applies to a Wedding & Marriage. Otherwise just say to everyone come in any Smart Outfit as long as its related to the requirements. Its as simple as that. He is correct, if you aren't wanting to cover the costs for Everything then don't get married. Infact ask yourself are you even ready to get married. In a marriage you are originally the person who os required to cover & hold the finances. Traditionally speaking ofcourse.

[@kenkenreviews]

Newsflash!!! The bride chose your suits 😂

[@SVRoberts]

Historically the groomsmen and bridesmaid pay for themselves

[@sharleenlyseight7435]

Sorry but if you want me as your bridesmaid then you need to pay for the outfit. I got married and paid for my bridal parties outfits. If you can't afford it the dial down your wedding! Don't inconvenience others, for your day.

[@AAA-we2st]

Well said

[@ChinxPhase1of1]

thanks for the invite boys

[@3ShotsOfTequilaUK]

Anytime bro 🫡

[@mesutozil9486]

Bridal party and groomsmen always pay for their own. It does sound mad but traditionally that’s normally what happens