Don't Give Up As An Artist

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[@Blick_Art]

So many artists need to hear this message, particularly those of us self-teaching and pursuing art independently, outside a formal school or gallery. That's why we love seeing career professionals like this who take the time to share their experiences with others, in a non-competitive, supportive way.

[@lucymagee3654]

I love Blick!!! You guys gave me an award recently for my painting in the Del Mar Fair and it was soooooo needed lol!!! It was an ego boost that I desperately needed.. so thank you 💗

[@lucymagee3654]

Oh and the painting was called ‘Persevere’ incidentally 🙏🏻

[@LailasLoft]

Yes😊 I'm self taught and enjoying the journey, at times it is challenging but it is always rewarding my heart.❤

[@Blick_Art]

@@lucymagee3654 We love hearing this! Thank you!

[@aohamer]

Holy sh*t, Blick is here!! 😂 Love you guys!

[@kingsittystudios2400]

I had a family member scoffs at my art, and tell me "you're a failure because you dropped out of college" same family member now sees how people react to my art,and now ask me" can I be your manager?" True story

[@Rafiwashere]

That's AWESOME @kingsittystudios2400!

[@thesavior8564]

You ARE a failure

[@chocher9873]

be your MANAGER???!!! they can be your employee!!!

[@christinak4082]

Ha! I would tell that family member to shove it where the sun don’t shine. We don’t get to doubt people at the beginning and then be their guidance when they are successful.

[@LizNicholsArt]

TRUTH! I'm 61 years old and am still getting discouraged, still putting myself out there, still writing, still singing, still drawing, still painting. Still get up and go to my day job 40 hours a week. I still love it, I still need to move.....and on life goes...Be grateful, be alive!

[@bevfitzsimmonds3382]

Go, girl! 😊❤

[@Rafiwashere]

YES!!!!!!!!!!!

[@alanduffy7006]

Right on Liz! Thank you for that. I'm 59 and finally figured out 6 years ago that what you are doing is precisely what I am supposed to be doing. Keep going!!

[@di4352]

Do it for yourself! Remind yourself why you loved it in the first place!

[@karlabritfeld7104]

Me too. I'm 65, still experimenting with abstract art painting and collage. Still making lots of mistakes after decades of practice.

[@maardora_art]

Today I woke up in tears, so tired of being disappointed and ready to quit. Then I got the notification to this video. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this. I adore you guys and I hope to get to a place where I can support your work as you support my mental health. Thank you so much, love you both 🌻

[@Rafiwashere]

Carla, you are a force of nature, never forget that!

[@leahfoy7844]

Don't give up❤I struggle,too. Keep going❤

[@abbybaby010]

You are not alone in these feelings, I am glad you good another wind to keep going. We are unconsciously rooting for you!

[@maardora_art]

@@leahfoy7844 Thank you for your kindness. Be brave. Wishing you the best !❤

[@maardora_art]

Thank you so much for your kind words dear @@abbybaby010 ! Best wishes!🍀

[@lone-welf]

"create what you want to create. put it out there because you have something to say. not because you want people to listen to you or you wanna be validated. but because you have something to say. and then persist thru the bullsht." wow. i needed that. thank you.

[@nothingman7]

Whenever i feel like quitting,i just look back at my old drawings and then i notice my progress with time and i feel motivated again.

[@Rafiwashere]

❤️❤️❤️

[@moth_milk]

wish i could do the same, everytime i see my old art i realize how much skill i lost

[@AmigoAmpz]

Since I started I haven’t even attempted a drawing… been doing nothing but lines, squares, triangles and circles. I still hate the way just basic shapes turn out when I do them. Ugliest little lines I’ve ever seen.

[@EllieMandyArt]

So relatable. People always tell me to paint landscapes because it will sell better than portraits but i like painting portraits. And it’s my art & I can paint whatever the he|| i want. 🤣

[@cameronfielder4955]

I give up almost every day and then an hour later I forget that I’ve given up and get right back to it. Life is a marathon. It’s important to understand that momentary feelings pass. We all get down on ourselves. We all feel pressure to be better. Once you realize that art is worth it for the sake of art and nothing else, it becomes easier to just focus on the art in the moment and ignore the feelings of doubt.

[@saratanartist]

As one of those artists who starts their career, becomes discouraged, then after a number of years starts again, repeat x10 ... this video resonated with me so much that I'm tearing up. Thank you so much for making this video!

[@Rafiwashere]

You got this!

[@lifeexpanded]

same!

[@claires9100]

Stay in your lane. Disregard the paths that cross yours. Forge onward daily.❤

[@yoshilvrx]

I started absolutely sobbing watching this, I needed this talk. I've recently kind of given up with my art because I did a painting I fell in love with and after I posted it online it got 8 likes. I opened an art print store because people would always tell me they really liked my art, but after half a year I've made 1 sale. It's been difficult thinking "My friends and family don't care" but honestly, what you said in the video is insanely true - Why do their views matter? I don't create art to please others! I think this video is the start of me appreciating myself and my creative work way more, regardless of how it performs online. Thank you for this video.

[@Rafiwashere]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@la6136]

You need to learn some marketing skills. Art is 90% marketing and exposure.

[@soniafinch7922]

When we meet our galactic brothers and sisters, there will be such a high demand of our creativity we won't be able to churn it out quick enough. Humanity are so creative and our skills are envied across the universe.

[@scottlondon8382]

You got 8 likes?!i got 3,one was my mother hahahaha

[@kurtleeart]

Can you give your social media/website to give you a thumbs up?

[@kiracupit6913]

I have been reading and re-reading a marvelous compilation of Vincent Van Gogh's letters to his brother... It is called Dear Theo and has impacted me in so many ways, including getting to know not just Vincent's artwork but also his very kindred, vulnerable emotions that we can all relate to. I have read it four times through and this won't be the last! It's almost like having my own therapist and a very close personal Friend...

[@Rafiwashere]

Beautifully put Kira!

[@karlabritfeld7104]

I read that book 40 years ago and have never forgotten what van Gogh had to say. The other artists sure gave him crap for his style of painting. Goes to show... Stick with what you like to do.

[@emanhero6311]

People always told me the starving artists. I’m starting to get back into my art because of good KZbinrs thank you!

[@melissaanowai9419]

I'm 50, and this start and stop cycle is relatable. Great advice, and motivational inspiration.

[@Rafiwashere]

Rock on!

[@di4352]

Don't give up, keep doing your art! It may not speak to me but I respect whatever you do that matters to you.

[@haitaelpastor976]

It's like a drug. That's why I quitted.

[@StevenKroeger]

Im an artist for 55 years rejection is part of it NEVER GIVE UP !

[@Rafiwashere]

So well said!

[@incognito3620]

After painting for over forty years and making a living, young artists need to remember one thing. No one is looking for you. It is not a question of talent or ability. It is about perseverance. Showing up and doing the work. And most importantly, putting your best work out into the world. Being an artist is hard. Not everyone can or will be successful. But you can be happy doing what you love.

[@Rafiwashere]

So well said! This is perfect Rick!

[@l.w.paradis2108]

So true! Every artist is also an artisan.

[@brycesawyer2477]

I wish someone said these words to me twenty years ago when I declared myself an art major. One semester and I convinced myself that a career in art would make art not fun anymore. Here I am now, going back to school to finally do the thing I was always meant to do. Thanks for putting this video out. There was no KZbin 20 years ago.

[@gotgutz15]

Yesterday I was at my lowest point as an artist. The voice inside of me saying I'm no good, worthless an imposter and why don't I just quit. It literally put me down to my lowest point in my life/career . I was just ready to just call it quits last night. Waking up this morning with your alert and this video couldn't come at a better time. Truly a blessing. Thank you Rafi. Today I just said NO! to my inner critic and it has given me renewed strength that "I am an Artist and nothing my inner critic can say and do can take that away from me. Thank you for the renewed hope in myself and to continue to do what makes me happy. Good or bad. A million thanks can never be enough to show my appreciation in the timing of this video. Stay blessed and continue the good fight.

[@douglaslarue4264]

Just keep going Paul. You have the ability to create. That means something special.

[@gotgutz15]

Thank you Douglas for the words of encouragement. Appreciate it. 👍🏻😊

[@Rafiwashere]

Like Douglas said, Keep going! You are a force of nature when you don't stop.

[@denniswomack5174]

From a fellow creative restarting my career at age 67, after burnout & discouragement- thanks so much for this video!

[@Rafiwashere]

Thank you!

[@Joysart360]

So needed to hear this. I've been in a slump where I'm not doing the art I love because it doesn't seem like anyone cares or takes notice and I need to just do it because it makes me happy. Good luck at the show. I love you guys, keep doing what your doing.

[@Rafiwashere]

Joy! You are a force of nature!

[@kathyleicester7306]

Being an artist was death for most of my life. You just saved my life with this video. I'm struggling so hard, and I've been struggling for years, especially 18 months. I'm sick of being broke, and yet I have to create. I have to draw, paint, speak. And now I'm working to get cash, and it's retail, and it's shit with a purpose, and I feel so ashamed. I will never quit, and I'm crying now because the courage rose up after you did the video. Thank you.

[@erikabrownfield174]

My husband and I started a small blacksmithing demonstration at a local medieval fair in 2009. I am so thankful that we jumped in with both feet with no real clue about what we were doing. If we had the slightest idea, we would have never gotten off the ground. We never thought we would become what we are today and when I look back at pictures of our first year I absolutely cringe at our naivety and how awful our set up and costumes were compared to what it is today. What was once six weekends of our summer has morphed into a full fledged forge with our fair season running from May through December. Our one table in a rickety tent now includes buildings at multiple locations and a whole troop of people who work with us through the year at several venues across the state. Some admit to being stalkers who used to watch us from across our fence line and are now part of our clan. Our family. Our passion became our life. Our actual families don't understand and that is ok. We don't need their approval. We work long hours, we pour every ounce of our being into it and we love it, even when we are exhausted at 4am trying to put the finishing touches on our pieces for a show that opens in six hours. We drive hours to our destinations, vehicles packed with our pieces, our tools, etc. Blown tires and broken struts because everything we work with is frickin heavy! We get burned out, we cry, we adapt, we battle the weather. People outside this lifestyle don't understand and think we are crazy. Maybe we are, in some ways. Talk to any reenactor and I am sure they have stories. But I gave up a corporate job over two years ago because I couldn't do both anymore. We work very hard, our bones hurt, and our hands are cut, bruised, and burned on the regular. There are times when the production side of things makes me hate doing the same thing over and over again. Yet I absolutely LOVE when a new trick sparks inspiration, or when we create something that no one has seen before and their eyes light up just looking at it. It has been a long and bumpy road and much of it was us laying a path all our own. We have come a long way and absolutely love what we do and I wouldn't trade it for anything. I truly wish for every artist and creative out there to have the opportunity to live their passion. Don't let doubt or the opinion of others to discourage you. Your people will find you. Your art will find your people. Put yourself out there and allow yourself the opportunity to grow and evolve. Even the rough moments are worth it. We have learned so much and I want to let everyone who reads this know that yes, you can do it. Whatever 'it' may be for you.

[@bevfitzsimmonds3382]

Thankyou SO much for sharing....you have inspired me! Love and blessings to you, from Australia! ❤😊🦘

[@Rafiwashere]

Thank you so much for this!!!!!!

[@karlabritfeld7104]

We all cringe when we see our early works.

[@NancyRichmondTarot]

This is encouraging. I'm a new artist and have just started sharing on social media. I have a bit of imposter syndrome but honestly I don't care. All you need is for one person to like something and it's positive energy flow. And I had one person already liking what I'm posting so that's a win in my books. I'm looking forward to my evolution as an artist. We grow and expand all the time.

[@nuao88]

Leave us a link to your work 😎👍

[@jasonsadliberty1503]

Yes..that's what I've come to conclude...it's an evolution

[@brookelerma6337]

I feel this message so much. I started painting again during the pandemic. It made me really happy. Then when things got back to “normal” my art has taken a backseat again. I just convinced myself it was a waste of time and no one cared. I even sold several pieces and won an art show award. The stop start give up cycle has plagued me my whole life.

[@Rafiwashere]

Convince the convincer in your head to shut the f up... it'll start again in a few days then tell it again... repeat until you take away that voice's confidence... That is what it does to you, so you might as well do it back.

[@luthiengs]

Wow that's great! You sold pieces and won an award?! Good for you, please keep it up! I'm just an internet stranger, but I care about whether you do your art-you should do it more :)

[@brookelerma6337]

@@Rafiwashere I tell the gremlin in my brain to shut the f up all the time lol

[@brookelerma6337]

@@luthiengs thanks so much 🥰

[@karlabritfeld7104]

Me too. I get profoundly depressed.

[@irenemacias7423]

Thank you for this post - and I’m not quitting even if no one ever sees or likes my stuff 👍😃🙏‼️‼️‼️‼️Thanks for being my cheerleader for us unfamous , poor artists 💗💗💗💗💗

[@priscillastudstill7938]

Rafi and Klee, you are both rays of light! Please don't ever stop shining your inspiration and guidance on us. You are so needed and loved, especially in these times of change and upheaval.❤👍

[@mikemartinart656]

Wow, I am tired today and wanted to quit! Thanks for the encouragement.

[@YellowMelle]

Hearing you list your accomplishments in a monotone reminded me of how easy it is to start seeing them as worthless, because of how our goalposts are always moving (not that I thought you were doing that, but I use the same tone on bad days). I do remember how proud I was when I got to the point where I didn't have to pay for my own art supplies anymore. I could buy a new camera and say, wow, my art paid for this! Or how easy it feels now to hang a painting in a group exhibition, when many people have only dreamed of having a painting on a gallery wall. I know of one artist who bitterly complains a lot, but does a lot of teaching gigs that I can't even imagine myself being able to do! :O Counting the blessings can help with discouragement sometimes when goals seem too big and scary.

[@Rafiwashere]

Melle, you are a badass!

[@joannaoliver3800]

I love that comment "You either do the thing or you quit the thing" - love it. That is now my new motivation mantra.

[@Rafiwashere]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@debralee8439]

I have always called my life as an artist a roller coaster ride. Sometimes I would have liked more flat sections but the excitement of creating each new piece of art kept me going. I am fortunate in that I never thought about giving up...even when I couldn't pay my utility bills. 😛

[@Rafiwashere]

Well said!

[@augustopenaspalmeira471]

That's the spirit. i'm so tired of this ''boost your algorithm, follow trends, draw perfect people that don't even look like real humans'' bs, it's more discouraging than ''being a failure'' because it implies leaving your identity and creativity aside to chase stuff that is profitable for the social platforms and hoping you get something from it

[@legacybuilder9664]

Never give up a piece of yourself for someone else's standards.

[@arturor5205]

Validation comes in many ways, so true.

[@stardust9625]

I love this so much, this message is reaching me at a glorious time when I'm trying to recover my passion after what felt like a series of disappointments. Thank you so much. There's a quote of Amanda Palmer that says "When you’re an artist, nobody ever tells you or hits you with the magic wand of legitimacy. You have to hit your own head with your own handmade wand. And you feel stupid doing it." That's why videos like this are so important for us to feel like we're not the only "stupid" ones and that this is actually part of the process.

[@Rafiwashere]

Brilliantly said!

[@donnadrake7309]

Ebbs and flows…, yup, same as life in general. Persistence 💕

[@danecory1236]

Thank you Rafi. I want to give up so bad. I feel like I don’t even know why I create anymore. I’ve been swallowed by the do’s and don’ts of the art world and feel like I just can’t do it anymore. I don’t even know who I am anymore. I struggle with mental illness and it makes life very hard. I hope I can figure this out and gain some purpose and direction because I feel quite hopeless. Thanks for being amazing. ❤️

[@DarkoTattoo]

Thank you very much for this very motivational and ispiring video. Everything true you‘ve said! I‘ll keep my youtube channel going, even if just 20 people watching my video, i‘ll keep going!! 🔥🔥🔥

[@hollyhinkle]

Thanks for saying this. I’ve done the same as you , put it out there then feel like I’m failing and stop for awhile. I’m now committed because “I’m an artist “ and I just have too. It’s me . I love the process of painting no matter if it’s oils, acrylic or oil pastels. I can’t judge myself on sales or likes . I stepped back from social media , because I spent to much time posting and then looking for feedback from others. I just want to be the best painter / artist that I can be . But unfortunately, the making money off of my pursuits does influence my mood .

[@karlabritfeld7104]

I've made NO money off painting. I can't even give my art away. Since I'm not famous, nobody wants my art. And I've been painting and displaying my art for 25 years.

[@hellaevie]

I've come almost every single day to listen to this and just be reminded. Thank you for helping me stay grounded through my gauntlet.

[@Rafiwashere]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@faith0624]

Love this!! It really is all about our internal dialog. I was literally talking to my son about donating all of my decades worth of art supplies and just leave it to those who are on the stage. But you reminded why I do what I do! I just have to go back to my mindset of pre-social media. Again thank you for sharing this!!!

[@Rafiwashere]

Thank you!

[@kristinamullen4066]

Just last night, I was thinking of giving up and just thinking of myself as an amatuer.I thought maybe it would allow me to relax and stop putting pressure on myself.I work in healthcare to survive, but I do art therapy, self taught ,at my job with memory care people.Some of the elderly people appeciate what I do, but I'm discouraged and super self critical of my own artwork.I've never given up and have made art for my entire life.I am planning to work for myself as a freelance art therapist for assisted living people.I enjoy sharing what I know with people who need attention and therapy .I appreciate your encouraging words!

[@elisabethseeger5837]

If you love to create art that is enough reason to do it. In fact that’s the best reason to do it. That’s why I don’t worry about AI - I love the beauty of the natural world and painting the parts of it I love is an act of appreciation, joy and self expression. I don’t really care if it’s “in” or if people don’t like me- “someone wrote that “other people’s opinion of you is none of your business”. You and Klee rock!!!

[@ixradivide]

Never quitting the thing man... never that.

[@henryhodgson1487]

Thank you for the motivational words, they're a blessing to me. I've been bless with the opportunity to work as a graphic designer for over 20 years, and for the last 5 years I've been working on my fine art mainly because I want to create and express myself not someone else ideas and of course be able to make a living doing what I love. The road is hard and discouragement is always around the corner, I think that as an artist we must be patient... as they say Rome was not built in one day, Never stop. Keep the dream alive, always stay moving forward even if I don't have much followers our sell much of my art. I will always be creating art. God bless.

[@karlabritfeld7104]

I've been patient for 25 years. Still nobody wants my art.

[@lindademerchant7627]

We love you Rafi and Klee and thank you so much for your encouragement

[@shannylester7656]

Every moment of my life I am consumed with passion but crippled and stuck in the ditch. I’ve been here before. And I’ve come out stronger and better! Thank you for helping us reignite and I am done being a professional for others. I’m saying no a whole lot more! Im happy amazing myself with my simple functional makes. 🥰 Good vibes and love to all of you! We’ll get through it. Just have to face the fact I’m a loner who doesn’t need a following of my work to to be happy. I’d be happy making someone smile

[@sw9979]

I can’t believe this. I texted my friend a long message about the doubts of my art and said that if I get rejected again, I’m just going to quit…and I kid you not, without even searching, your video magically appeared on my newsfeed. So strange, and omg! You made me smile and everything. Thank you. Maybe that was the universe wanting me to see this! ❤️

[@heathermcg2099]

You just spoke to every thought running through my head space. I can’t express how much I needed to hear this reminder to fight the relentless “stick man” in my head. You guys are awesome. Thanks for keeping it real.

[@Rafiwashere]

Thank you!!

[@mr.clymate7489]

honestly so true, I'm so happy to have stumble across this video. I wish I had this sooner when youtube was younger, but this couldn't have come at a better time than this

[@bluewren65]

People say they hate your face? That's very rude. You have a lovely face and an even lovelier message. I'll never understand why for some people the first instinct they have when confronted with someone else's creativity is to crush it.

[@Rafiwashere]

Thank you Blue!

[@TheRevRen27]

Well this made me weep 😭 Watching this as I paint and was feeling like I should just stop. This hit HARD. “Chasing validation” is so ACCURATE. I hadn’t realized I’ve been doing that, but that’s exactly what it is. Thank you for reminding us that we all have a unique voice and they’re all worthy 🎨 🙌🏽💖

[@claires9100]

Just stay in your lane. Your lane is the only one that is YOUR lane. Best of luck! You got this!

[@michaelwoodmanart]

Really good video... 'Climbing a mountain of failures'... love it!

[@withlovefalseortrue9839]

You guys will never know how much this video helped me. I haven't done art in years, and when I say "art", I mean using it as my outlet and happy source every day. Yes, I draw every other month, but it hasn't been the same since I was in 8th grade. I would create art all the time, it's all I did. But once high school started I just stopped, I was ashamed that I quit doing the one thing that made me, ME. I'm 19 now, and I've been trying to do art again. I put all my drawings and other creations back on display in my room again( I put them away for years) and I already feel so much more alive. Thank you so much for helping me find myself once more. Hearing the truth and honest advice really works and I just know you've helped thousands of others. You guys are lovely people. This video made me tear up. From the depths of my heart, thank you. -Mireya G. Grants, New Mexico

[@ImaginaryTerrie3]

I'm making a ride. I'm gonna ride it. Climb on if you want.

[@MichaelRichardson36]

Needed to hear this. I’ve been putting my music out for over a decade and it can be hard when you feel like it’s just not getting the traction you think it deserves. It’s important to remember why I do it in the first place-because I have something to say. Thank you for your video!

[@danyknopf5259]

Thank you very much🙏✨

[@MOMOHEARTS]

This is how I feel about my artwork these days its like no matter what I do it feels like my art career doesn't go anywhere. I've been doing art seriously for about 10 years maybe a little longer, since High School, I'm 26 now. Sometimes I wonder what I'm doing wrong, maybe I should just change my style to more trends or fanart etc. But doing those things doesn't make me happy. I think because of this I stopped drawing as much and my art has suffered a lot lmao

[@YellowMelle]

I feel you... I've been neglecting videos for a while because it's demotivating when you've got big creators who are always like "pfft, so-and-so only has 100,000 followers, they're nothing!" and it's like, oh... okay, I'd be shocked with 100,000 followers, but I guess I'll fade out in embarrassment lol🙈 Same here, decade+, not sustainable income, but it gets better slowly. Stuff I've noticed makes a big difference is accidentally meeting certain kinds of people - the cheerleaders who brag about you to their people, who really latch on to your message (for the moment, anyway). Seems like that happens most in those unusual moments where I show up somewhere new, in person usually, and do weird uncomfortable shit just to see what it's like to be a different kind of person. Still myself, but a grade or two better. Ok, half a grade, cuz I'm shy XD

[@shoepixie]

If you're doing it, you're doing it right. The only thing you have to do to be an artist is make art.

[@juxtabilly]

Right on, Rafi....I had no idea you existed... I hit YT for a random video break from a seriously frustrating painting session, and your video loads first. Dude, I'm trying so hard to keep going!

[@Rafiwashere]

You got this!

[@clarieart1956]

This was a very powerful message. I just discovered your channel recently and a lot of your content is stuff I never really see much of in the art community on KZbin. This video hit me hard because I woke up this morning feeling very beaten down and not sure why I continued to do art or any kind of creative endeavor. Work was giving me anxiety and the thought of creating another “failed” piece of artwork put my into tears. I even wanted to delete my KZbin channel as well today since no one really looks at it anyway but after watching this video….it completely changed my perspective and it was just what I needed to hear. If art is something that I love to do (which I enjoyed doing every since I could hold a pencil) why am I stopping? There is no real excuse to stop, we will have our ups and downs but art is something I keep coming back to even if nothing comes out of what I create, I didn’t create in vain. I want to say more but then the comment would be too long lol! I just mainly wanted to say that this was a wake up call for me, I honestly do not hear this stuff a lot, so thank you for making this video. I was SO close to giving up on my dreams today but this video picked me right back up. Thank you so much! ❤

[@Rafiwashere]

Thank you Clarie!

[@berndmusura8336]

Me and my wife started 1 month ago with art buissnis and we are so scared because we have 2 months old baby, but we said we are not giving up until we are successful in our eyes. Thank you for this video, i needed this.

[@annadreamsart9756]

Thank you, Rafi. Your channel definitely has always helped me. I always come back here. All those negatives you said, I've had SO loudly in my head since that trigger moment when we first met on here. Mental health issues and friend's who are "blunt" (but sometimes wrong) compound things. But you're right. And slowly I'm getting to that point of just doing it for the joy of creating. All the rest sucks the joy out of the art. I fell into those traps-- needing $ and making fast crap, heartbreak from hoping for validation and not being chosen, etc. I'm finally shifting, I think, back to the joy I when I was a kid, before I learned to draw, and just wrote SFF stories because I loved exploring and creating things never seen. Thank you for all you and Klee do.

[@Rafiwashere]

Thank you Anna! We freakin ADORE you!

[@annadreamsart9756]

@@Rafiwashere You're welcome, Rafi! I adore you both back!

[@BarbrajoanOriginals]

Yes Rafi, I’m still doing the ‘ thing’. Have some awards, have some sales, I’m not known, and at my age (85) it’s not going to happen. I still paint because it who I am, it’s what I do, I was born that way. Thanks for the video.. 🌴Florida 🌴

[@latika1998]

Thank you for this video. As a visual and musical artist, imposter syndrome gets the best of me sometimes and I hate giving into it because I realize it’s because whatever I put out wasn’t well-received, but this helped with that. It affirmed why I do what I do. Creating is sacred to me. It’s how I channel my feelings and how I process things. And before social media became what it is now, I was still creating, singing, dancing, and making skits with my sister because that brings me joy. And that’s just what it is. Period.

[@Iamnosey]

Been at it off and on for 50 years! Been in off mode way to long . Thanks for the inspiration today. Been following you off and on also for a couple years 😊❤

[@EatBeets]

Nice message. I'm struggling with making money through my art, but I have alot of things holding me back. The way it is, but it's all that I am good at and I love just creating art. I'll always do it, and study it no matter what. It makes me happy.

[@karlabritfeld7104]

The only people who have bought my paintings are friends. So I would starve if I had to depend on art sales. I've made less than $1000 in ten years.

[@ConceptualVision]

I'm 45 now. I was in that endless cycle you speak to - starting, giving up, starting, giving up. I wrote 6 books from the age 16 to 22 and at 25 I gave up. I continued to finish a few books after that, but my mind had given up on it. The truth is, at 25 I was ready to take it to the next level and make something out of it, and that was my biggest failure to understand. A few years back I picked up the torch again, now with a mature mindset. I went through all books on writing, wrote my own notes, restructured my process, looked for weaknesses etc, and did all the groundwork I should've done at 25. I still haven't published, but this time around Ill just do it, because that's who I am at the end of the day. Thanks for taking time to create this video, always inspirational hearing this type of talk.

[@Rafiwashere]

Oh you've got this. We age like wine in our creative process.

[@roser2058]

Blown away at how genuine and gracious you both are. Thank you for being encouraging and putting yourself out there as well as the various resources. I am so glad you are creating your art as well as these videos. They resonate so much.

[@Rafiwashere]

Thank you so much!

[@isshikisapron911]

Thank you, as someone who was slowly giving up, I very much needed to hear this

[@melaniestandage]

You and Klee are such an inspiration. I’m in a fine art degree and I feel so lost or like an imposter often. Your videos have kept me going and stopped me from dropping out. You give me hope and self confidence that I can learn what I need to and achieve my dreams.

[@bonoshii]

When you said “fuck that” to all the voices in my head telling me I need to monetize all my hobbies and only do things that generate income I felt that. I always go weeks into something and think “this isn’t furthering my education or career” it makes me give up. I understand now that idea is stupid, appreciate the enlightening video.

[@coffeeteasanity92]

Thank you so much for these videos. I loved art as a kid, but I was told it had no real value - along with my writing - and I ended up just repressing that part of myself until earlier this year. This year...I'm 41. While right now I'm in a blessed place, I just came out of one of the worst storms of my life, stretching over many years, and the need to make myself worth something financially keeps taking over my mind as I paint. It starts to make painting stressful. So, hearing this message really helped. Many of your other videos have been a huge help as well. The first video I saw was you talking about burnout, and it was just what I needed to hear at that moment. Thank you again.

[@douglaslarue4264]

Make it your time. These things deserve the attention. This is "Your life". Live it.

[@patriciablue2739]

Blessings to you

[@karlabritfeld7104]

I can't paint for money. I'd starve

[@jasonredman9944]

As an artist, I have two words for you ... Thank You!

[@rockhoundingwithjasperblue]

Once again, Rafi, your words of inspiration hit home with a profound “whack!” You give us hope my friend. You’ve personally helped me over and over, to see through the fog that is my day-to-day (work) life, and to remember what is important. Thank You. I also have to say, that although you have built up a nice force-field against the few shit-face ‘thumbs-downers’, who’s sole purpose in this wild life are not even worth mentioning, it’s only fair that you receive some praise from the other side o that fence. As a fellow heavy hitter, I am here to say that your artwork is up there in the stratosphere with its beauty, content, originality and emotional gravity. Just to name a few of the facets of what you create! Thank You again, for the inspiration. You are truly an Awesome soul. And all of us can see with our own eyes that you care. 💎

[@Rafiwashere]

Thank you so much! This made me cry... it's just raining on my face XOXOX

[@rockhoundingwithjasperblue]

@@Rafiwashere ❤️

[@brandydouble338]

Right the reason is art.

[@sarahmarie8557]

I'm an almost silent observer of your channels, who is a hermitic creative. You have inspired and educated me several times since I found you guys couple years ago. You have just the right blend of useful information, wit and humor, philosophy and motivation all wrapped up in this super cool way...feels like Seseme street for the adult creative and your new studio space solidifys that feel..so fun. Thanks for making this space and maintaining it through the ups and downs, thanks for showing them both! Point me to the best way to donate some cash to the cause...you guys have given me more then enough value and I would love to show my appreciation.

[@Rafiwashere]

Thank you so much Sarah, that means the world to us. We have a patreon for now, but in the future we plan to put something else together for the awesome artists out there. Honestly, your love and support has the most value, Thank you!

[@cmralph...]

Things got so much better for me after I left all social media behind and just focused on my work illustrating books.

[@sherrymacleod4143]

This was exactly what I needed to hear at exactly the right time. Thank you so much for this! I have my first craft sale in 3 years coming up in 2 weeks and that old inner voice is working overtime telling me I won't sell anything. But lately another inner voice has shown up saying, who cares? Just do it, stop stressing and have fun. I like the new inner voice. I think I'm going to listen to her instead.

[@Rafiwashere]

YEEEESSSSS Sherry!!

[@hypno-dreamist]

Thank you for this post! I had my art for sale at an event in the park, yesterday. It was a beautiful day, but from noon until 6:00, I only sold one very small piece of art. I felt all of that! No one cares! I quit! My husband had good words for me of encouragement, which meant a lot because he is not a fan of art. Today, I painted a whole new 18x24in. piece that I am quite pleased with, so I am grateful my husband doesn't let me quit!

[@Rafiwashere]

Keep going, and celebrate ALL the wins!

[@hypno-dreamist]

@@Rafiwashere Thank you, Rafi!

[@joyhellosunshine6645]

Thank you so much for sharing this! Just finished an art show last weekend and left feeling discouraged and questioning myself and whether it made sense to pursue my art form. But I LOVE it! Just like you said - I don’t do this for any reason other than I love it! Going to keep pushing forward and creating pieces that I adore! Keep being awesome! ❤️

[@oiseaufeu]

I create because I love creating stuff. I'm still learning art and I do it because I love it. I try not to compare myself to others because it will not help me in making progress and it will just bring me down. For others, don't compare yourself to the others as it's not helping you in anyways.

[@Rafiwashere]

Truth!

[@erinrichardson95]

THANK YOU for your channel... I needed this so much. Absolutely needed to hear this today. Trying to get better every day and instagram/art forums are hit and miss sometimes. Your voice and humility in your own art journey is a huge part of helping so many who are fortunate to feel better, as being an artist tends to be a lonely universe sometimes. Thank you again and keep the videos going! Hope you guys are getting settled in, I'll be watching for new videos. :) Blessings!!!!!

[@Rafiwashere]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Iffyish]

This is the best art advice I've heard in years, and I frequent the art advice side of YT

[@naturalflow157]

This is truly what I needed to see. So soothing and inspiring for the creative souls out there. As someone who has struggled with being an artist, losing my connection, and any drive I had before this is something I needed. Thank you so much for sharing the wisdom, experience, and words out to the world. Wishing you the best :)

[@rayscott82]

I’ve always since a child just wanted to make art and connect with people….Therapy has helped me get back to my childhood vision I encourage us artists to go on healing journey because often our dreams, aspirations and hopes are buried under years of trauma (especially if you went through a lot of B.S. as a child) This video has helped fortify my pursuit . I’m doing this because I want and I have something to say. S/O to all the BADASS ARTISTS/creatives who watch this video and reading this comment. You can do it. WE CAN DO IT!! ❤️💪🏾

[@Rafiwashere]

YES!

[@paulmccaffrey3]

Hi Rafi. I have been following you guy's for some years now. I watch your videos and listen to the encouragement you give to those wanting to start something in art which brings happiness into their lives. During this time i have been working on my drawings while i work at my job. My job made my life miserable but i need to pay bills like everyone else. I lost my job and became unemployed. Mixed feelings about this but i began to focus on my art and life began to become happier but there was no money. I live in the UK, central England and the employment exchange known as The Jobcentre sent me to a Job's Fair where i met a guy promoting Self Employment. I told him my interests and showed him my drawings on my phone. This guy was blown away and practically insisted that i never look for a job again. He set me up on a business program and is helping me set things up. So Rafi, i now draw from home. I listen to you for encouragement, and i feel overwhelmed in my efforts to give you thanks and say how much i appreciate you just being there. Still no money yet, but i'm working on it. I will let our welfare system pay my bills for a while until i'm up and running. I wish you the best you guys. You make me smile and although you don't know who i am, i will keep you in mind always because you give great encouragement. I am Paul from a place in Englands Central Counties. Thanks again. Sorry for this long typo but sometimes the heart wants to say Thankyou.

[@Rafiwashere]

Thank you Paul! Thank you for sharing the beginnings of an epic story and adventure ❤️

[@redsofaanimation]

As an animator/ cartoonist myself. I agree with you sir When I started I was hyped to work for a studio etc but reality hit and I realized being independent was a better decision At first the industry ppl weren’t happy about it but I didn’t care. Now I’m much happier and make what I want Stay focus everyone

[@geargail]

@09:00 = Fighting that 'Imposter' Syndrome - is the best phrase.

[@shannylester7656]

Oh and I’m so glad you shared all of this with us. Thank you for helping us! Sounds like you went through a lot of the same stuff I did. I wish I would have figured this all out 20 years ago.

[@TheRubberStudiosASMR]

Usually I watch one of these videos and get demotivated within a minute. Not this one. There are some really beautiful words of wisdom here.

[@davidmetts4570]

Dear Rafi and Klee, I found your KZbins in 2019. I have search you guys out ever since. Let me tell you that I think y'all are great! I had the "stick man" this morning and the latest video brought me back to center. For the people throwing shade and giving y'all a thumbs down - well they can jump in a lake. You guys are putting it out there helping us. Your and Klee's shares and art work has improved my state of mind on many many occasions. My skill level doesn't match what I see in my head and money may not come but as you said (paraphrased) I'm not going to quit until the breath leaves my body for the last time. My goal is for people to see my artwork one day and feel a little more peaceful if only for a moment. Very Best Regards, David

[@ArtByHazel]

Thank you!! I feel mine and everyone around me which is totally okay. Discouragement is real thing. It’s part of human condition. An experience to be hand. Keep going artists. Thank you for this reminder. 🖼👍🏼😃🍀💥

[@Rafiwashere]

Absolutely!!

[@DetraDearmas]

You've got to be the best motivational coach for artist!! Thanks!

[@Rafiwashere]

Appreciate that

[@alexandroid5742]

Thanks for the video and comments here, I'm glad that I'm not the only one with discouragement and worthless feeling. I love creating art and while I haven't earn anything from my art online, some people actually stole my art, cropped it and put it in a landing page of online game. Even my face pic that I put in social media used by scammer in 3 different dating apps that I dont even know (my friend sent me the screenshots). So, creating arts purely for passion is one thing, but when people stole, misuse and get benefit by it, really made me stop creating art and shut my social media for 11 years. I miss creating arts and post it online but the traumas still haunt me

[@jaydeegreat88]

Damn hope you doing well fam

[@Rafiwashere]

That sucks Alex. It still happens, but 11 years ago was a free-for-all. The one take away is that you're still here. Don't let a bunch of idiots stop you from sharing what you do... and call their asses out in public if they do.

[@genreofstubby]

Thank you. I needed to hear this. I am going to do my thing no matter what. This was a good reminder of what i am. I am a creator. im never going to stop creating art. so why not do the videos anyways? if people enjoy them, sweet, no? sweet. im not going to stop growing as an artist, a person or in my goals. I have been burnt a lot over the years, or medical issues prevent other types of work i can do. but it has NEVER stopped me from creating art. only person who can stop me from doing what i love, is me. Spot on!

[@Rafiwashere]

YES!!!!!!!

[@sandrakranzwinther3286]

Love your pep talk. One voice with me against all the others in my head trying to get me in to 'a good career'.

[@zuzu_1]

This really spoke to me Rafi! I couldn’t afford art school and then I tried to do my own thing and it was actually going well, but then I had naysayers and got really discouraged and depressed.. Getting back up has been SO hard and the negative thoughts have been so loud, but I know I can’t waste my life being unhappy.. I really want to create art and videos, so this was perfect timing.. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and I hope you always do, I feel less alone.

[@sarahthomson8183]

I have a fine art photography book I'm working on and I'm terrified.. But I will not give up on myself. Just keep going. 💙

[@bradwynn]

Great video! Thanks for making it! It really helps hearing another artist has the same challenges. Keep moving forward!

[@derekcutsinger3511]

It really does help, especially when artists you look up to feel the same way :D

[@tessylanbara7817]

The most simple and wonderful advice I will hear all week. I have been getting so burnt out trying to be better and crack the code for success. I miss the times where I just drew for me and didn't care what some stranger online would think. For the first time in decades, I thought about quitting cuz I just felt pressure and unsatisfaction from drawing. I want to get that enjoyment back so much.

[@Rafiwashere]

Get it!

[@tessylanbara7817]

@@Rafiwashere I will :D Thank you!

[@mandiart2002]

Rafi, Thank you for this video today. I needed to hear this so much. I had to take a break from my art for a year after my cousin passed away so that I could grieve and heal from it. Its been hard year but I am looking forward to starting my art up again. I have taken the time to read your book and others during my down time. I also found new tools to help me create with my disability so that I can be successful in creating. I have become excite to create again. I found friends that I can talk with while in my studio working. I love to create videos for youtube and trying not to case the beast of the algorithm. i just want to thank you for your support of the art community and for your amazing videos. I hope your show goes well and maybe I will get to see your next one.

[@veronicasantiago944]

this video it's so on point I started a small business and today I was ready to give up but watching this video have given me strength not to give up just to keep going no matter what the universe always have something planned that we might don't see it but it's there waiting thank you so much God blessed you and your family

[@hannahquinteroart]

You are an amazing motivational speaker, Rafi! You're right about everything you said. At the end of the day, it boils down to what we think and feel about ourselves , just an overall mental game that alot of times is the hardest part.

[@JSweetzy7]

Oh my gosh!!! That’s me! Start my Art Career & stop. Start my Art Career & stop. Start my Art Career & stop. I became a Graphic Artist, got the BA, got discouraged, give up. Become a Floral Designer, got licensed, created my own website, get discouraged, gave up! Start , stop , start , stop. It’s hellish!! I need to learn to stick with it and keep going FOR MYSELF.

[@Rafiwashere]

YAS!