Yeah killing them with kindness only enables their behavior. Silence speaks volumes and is better for your own peace of mind.
@dontbelongherefromanother Жыл бұрын
Exactly, silence is wonderful when dealing toxic people
@Mike_Cosentino Жыл бұрын
@@dontbelongherefromanother ain’t that the truth..
@babydii34876 ай бұрын
Amen my friend 🙌🏽
@_YohAsakura_6 ай бұрын
Sometimes silence doesn’t work cause these obsessive lame haters relentlessly follow you for trouble. You can’t be silent in those situations. Then they think cause strength in numbers mean something, I’m saying this, you need a large crew with you in order to do something? Cool. I can do bad all on my own. That’s a difference. That’s one man army type of ish. They need a large crew and not even everyone one of them is good. Someone is carrying them.
@embracinglogic1744 Жыл бұрын
Most people abuse kindness. Silence is the ultimate killer!
@dontbelongherefromanother Жыл бұрын
They take advantage of you
@babydii34876 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@andersdottir1111 Жыл бұрын
There’s no point confronting people on their bad behaviour- they’ll deny it then accuse you of the same. Silence and absence is the only way to deal with these people.
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 Жыл бұрын
Focus on God and purpose be imitator like Christ
@ameerahrashada4515 Жыл бұрын
I don't kill them with kindness any more I kill them with my silence A deep silence Thank You for this right on time video
@rickde2709 Жыл бұрын
Silence says a lot
@jaymitaylor9937 Жыл бұрын
What’s really crazy to me is when you address a person for what they have done or said that hurt you and instead of them just apologizing and admitting they were wrong instead they flip it on you and make you feel like your the problem and leave the conversation completely by either not responding to your message or blowing your message off by hearting it. Some how in their sick and twisted mind they really believe that they are right in the situation and that you are wrong for having a reaction to their disgusting behavior towards you .
@TylerJTI Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Mintaka. Жыл бұрын
DEFINITELY. And I feel that more and more people start behaving like this, stronger and meaner by the day - even if they didn't years ago. And also with small things, they always feel offended, even when it was nothing. There must be something in the air, water, I don't know what.😢
@msliberated3899 Жыл бұрын
@@Mintaka.You are correct it is something in the Air, their Father who is the Prince of the Air! Satan
@Mintaka. Жыл бұрын
@@msliberated3899 I wouldn't say that that's their god.
@shauntaylor-lovelightfamily Жыл бұрын
You cut them off, completely and utterly Give them an inch , and they’ll take a mile People take advantage of nice people
@jamesbreeden9016 Жыл бұрын
You're speaking lots of truth, Tyler. When someone oversteps their boundaries and starts their nonsense. I just leave them in silence. I don't waste my time with childish people. Great video as always my friend. Blessings
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 Жыл бұрын
i am going silence because of their spirituality
@Movieclips_101 Жыл бұрын
Facts Silence is golden and it shows you are a wise person and they get even madder when you can see through them 💯💯
@lucyloo7457 Жыл бұрын
Well said Tyler. Avoid toxic people, they are disturbing your peace! Thank you for this! You done preached!
@jenniferwilson5918 Жыл бұрын
You must go no contact if you want to heal. I fell victim to forgiving OVER and OVER again, only to be used and abused OVER and OVER again. NO CONTACT over 1 year now!!!
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 Жыл бұрын
I had to moved from my old area because of this time change my number that is an blessing in the sky god ain’t playing with no one ☝️
@Mike_Cosentino Жыл бұрын
Same here
@Mike_Cosentino Жыл бұрын
@@Flutterby-Wgoing on 8 years of no contact and no regrets whatsoever
@jenniferwilson5918 Жыл бұрын
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 Right!! I changed my cell #, e-mail and shut down my Facebook account.
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 Жыл бұрын
@@Mike_Cosentino yep you will be okay mike
@marlo2919 Жыл бұрын
Well said, Amen to the Silence. For example, i always remember everyonys birthdays and nobody in my so-called family never think to remember mine. I didn't bother with any happy birthday well wishes this year and I feel bad but then again i dont because they dont care about me. I know i tried and im done. I love listening to Tyler and his wisdom. Thank you ❤❤❤ 7:03
@AdrianWillams-h1m Жыл бұрын
Silence is the key 🔑 for some family members in strangers cause some people true colors are disturbing. 4:34
@HeavyChevyGuy Жыл бұрын
Man, I don't know who TF you are, but I watch the videos. Lots of truths here
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 Жыл бұрын
He not speaking with TF lol he speaking in general god bless
@philipmikolsmusic Жыл бұрын
Tyler is on a rampage lately. Just the way we like it!
@lovemadenow Жыл бұрын
💯🔥🔥
@purposedpatience6597 Жыл бұрын
😂💯💯💯
@dpfrance Жыл бұрын
He does it very well, doesn’t he!!!! 😁
@philipmikolsmusic Жыл бұрын
@@dpfrance He nails it every time.
@salvationchristrevelation.8166 Жыл бұрын
Pherhaps his relatives should have treated him with kindness!WHY relatives resort to Verbal abuse,and emotional abuse!Theres NO LOVE these days with in many families!
@nancymc Жыл бұрын
you are so right tyler. silence takes care of the problem.
@hangingwiththegrlz4891 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting the TRUTH! You are Correct! I am so tired of people gaslighting me saying kill them with kindness that is Malarkey! I agree completely agree, give them what Jesus gave to the narcissist he dealt with, that is SILENCE. Jesus ignored them. Ignore these Herods in your life, they deserve SILENCE! Keep the honesty coming, love it!
@Mannyroc Жыл бұрын
Ecclesiastes 3:1-6 1 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: 2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted; 3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; 4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; 5 A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; 6 A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
@buffyshellmouthcollection Жыл бұрын
Being Silent is the best course of action to toxic folks. They’re not even worth it.
@Happyfeelinpeace Жыл бұрын
It's wonderful for me and that's all that matters! We appreciate you Tyler!
@Mike_Cosentino Жыл бұрын
Most underrated KZbinr out here rn. I’ve been watching his videos for at least two years now and view every upload. He is very on-point and “based” in his thinking and in his analyses.
@thelook4me Жыл бұрын
Great Message! I have no problem being silence with my haters. So hate on.
@juicebokz7743 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tyler, this was right on time for me!
@yolandoakomolafe7363 Жыл бұрын
Hi "Tyler"❤❤appreciate the content 😊
@giftedhands4207 Жыл бұрын
When they don't ask about your side of the story... there just letting you know that they never really liked you from day one and was side eyeing you the whole time.#Fakes
@Mike_Cosentino Жыл бұрын
#twofacedpeople
@missbohochic751 Жыл бұрын
Yes silence treatment !
@CHARGERSALLDAY Жыл бұрын
YOU ARE HELPING ME ALOT HOMIE!!! THANKS AND KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK 💯
@pasadenaroze8 ай бұрын
Ive been following Tyler for over 5 years for a reason. He keep 1 thou wow on that azz. Especially about family. Love it!! 😁👏🏾🙌🏾💪🏾
@Ian-ym1rn10 ай бұрын
Confuse them with your silence
@latanyapalmer7252 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely, They do not deserve my energy or kindness…. Thank You, you speak truth and wisdom.
@MsDebbieReid Жыл бұрын
Preach Tyler. I need this right now!!! Peace, Love and Blessings from the UK 🙂
@ceecee4705 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, no dam good, i had a family member that got some mess started with me over a pocket book she loaned me for a cruise. I didn't return it back to her fast enough after the vacation. She went and talked shit about me to other family members instead of coming to me. I returned it, and have been silent every since. She sent me a message of so called apology... Im still silent
@Uber---Octopus_100X Жыл бұрын
I am an extreme extrovert. Something happened in a business deal some two years ago. This deal involved people. I trusted through and through. After some switched off, I later entered my shell and stayed away from those concerned. I cannot tell you the amount of peace of mind, focus and less drama that I have now. They think I am depressed or devastated. Not knowing that I am killing them with silence.
@VioletFlame-Ivy Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Tyler, for helping us remember our worth.
@kenswireart88 Жыл бұрын
Nothing seems to be working against these demons these days. Kindness definitely doesn't work but drains your energy and makes you feel less than the person you keep being kind to, since you ignore the b.s and keep the conversation going just so you two can be friends. Silence is cool but you'd be Imploding on the Inside because what the person's doing is provoking. Seems like one would have to find a way to 😊respond without speaking. With body language. Communicate back with a bigger badder silent punch.
@dianejohnson6049 Жыл бұрын
Tyler you better preach… You telling the Truth I kill my toxic family members and my ex with silence. They don’t deserve my voice or my presence. I’ve been following you for years and save a lot of your videos you make me laugh while you tell the truth. God Bless you and keep doing what you do I’m here for it! 🙌🏾❤️🔥
@missrockstarglamazon68464 ай бұрын
The dad I never had ! I needed this thank you 💜🏴
@KROWNCHAKRATV Жыл бұрын
Gotta Kill em wit Success and bury em with a smile haters hate to see you happy gotta make it worth their while..barz
@msliberated3899 Жыл бұрын
Nope they don’t need to even see your success, they’re a waste of life and true contentment
@giovannij13684 ай бұрын
It's crazy because I had a situation like this. It's whoever tells their side first gets believed. But at the same time, sometimes the person who rushes to go tell all the other family members who weren't involved are usually the guilty ones. I had one of my close family members who knew about the situation and what happened with me and another family member. But he's usually a the type who doesn't tend to take sides and since the other family member told him his side, he's not spoken to him since which just shows he is a genuine person. Even after all this time, I've only told ppl who have asked me what happened and who already were involved. I didn't go rushing to other ppl who weren't even involved like a snake. I will never talk to those sides of the family again I don't get an apology. Even my mum who was involved, she still hasn't received an apology for the way they acted during the entire thing. Instead it's always other family members mentioning that they've spoken to the other family member, usually because they're asking about you, instead of contacting you themselves.
@miamiflorida2043 Жыл бұрын
You go homie a smile ain't what you think it is...
@TylerJTI Жыл бұрын
Yup
@winblessed1357 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 💯💯🗣tried the kindness and the benefit of the doubt route ended up being insulted. Nope! Silence has been the best move i ever made and i am at peace 🙌🏽🙏🏼
@jimmyjames3136 Жыл бұрын
Love from Scotland my brother. stay safe and stay braw!
@djkingmagneto1792 Жыл бұрын
One Of The Biggest Lies In Life Is When Those Many People's Delude Themselves Believing They Killing With Kindness , Thats A Big False , Cause Thats Only Allowing Them To Steal Your Joy And Continue Abuse And Deprive Yourself. Now Silence Is A Great Defensive Weapon Of Defense , And Silence Is Golden. ⚖️⬅️👑🐉🌟7️⃣ 🕊️🤍🌞
@BK-ny3wb Жыл бұрын
👆🎙️🎙️🎙️ Thank you for sharing
@rainbowvibesxo Жыл бұрын
True silence is better!
@kezmenflowers8691 Жыл бұрын
Damn unk. You really preaching man. Speaking straight facts.
@RubyJay_ Жыл бұрын
Silence works like a charm
@jp20599 ай бұрын
Love your videos, they have lifted my spirits and have shown me how to deal with people who take you for granted
@berniekennedy97933 ай бұрын
AMEN TYLER💯❤️
@miraclesforus8 ай бұрын
Outstanding lesson
@billyraz2 Жыл бұрын
The universe spoke through you 🗣️, how did this cross me 🤔. Thank you 🙏🏾 king may the most high continue to bless you ❤️ - #billyrazor #brazlovelife
@rubio9478 Жыл бұрын
Did this with my ex last week. We work at the same place. She had done me wrong by cheating on me & going off with another guy behind my back the whole time. Hadn't talked to her in two years. She started acting "nice." But that's all it is, is another act. I shut down everything by saying absolutely nothing back to her and not making any eye contact whatsoever. I'm sure her fragile ego was hurt beyond belief at that. But again, people like her that exist in this world deserve it!
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 Жыл бұрын
She will get her krama
@Mike_Cosentino Жыл бұрын
Ain’t it the damn truth!
@wynettamoore1687 Жыл бұрын
Yep silence is golden, i have a fam member that is toxic ,treats me differently from my own sis ,its all good cuz when i save up money and she gonna see me do things out of ordinary, and imma be like yea im getting myself tgether to move
@angel-no5sy Жыл бұрын
Amen beautiful brother❤❤❤❤❤❤
@smustipher Жыл бұрын
I don’t care to kill them. I just want them to leave me TF alone.
@lovelyr9773 Жыл бұрын
I work with toxic people and silence works when you no your job no questions needed, I don't say a word to bone of the toxics except good Morning and good night including Fridays I dint even say have a good weekend
@jaysenjohnivanturner1972 Жыл бұрын
Tyler I would like to run something by you. God has blessed you with great wisdom.
@cecilb.brooks2739 Жыл бұрын
Amen ❤🕊🕊🕊🕊❤ Thank Tyler, for another amazing and awesome message. 🙏🏼 Blessings to you. 🙏🏼
@leonone7377 Жыл бұрын
Well said..there is a time for everything under the sun.
@leeleslie55188 ай бұрын
Silence is powerful
@kafelenoww Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your words good sir 🙏🏽💯
@QueenAlexis55610 ай бұрын
My major problem is coworkers instead of family members. My family knows not to cross me to a degree but these coworkers assume that I'm an absolute pushover. I try to stay to myself at jobs but being quiet seems to attract the sharks.
@SoBlessed0258 ай бұрын
This man is speaking FACTS
@PHILLIPSTEFFON-rv6eo10 ай бұрын
NOTHING BUT THE DAMN TRUTH🎯
@CHEFROASTANDGAG Жыл бұрын
You are always on point!!! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@LoveMusic-dv4sl Жыл бұрын
Awesome video and the truth! 👍🙌
@Belluser-we1uc5cb2l4 ай бұрын
Most people take kindness for weakness. You attract narcissists with kindness. You become prey. They use you. The sound of silence is golden.
@constancenunn Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tyler. I sent you a video request. I'm staying silent. staying low-key because I have stalkers in my building.
@TylerJTI Жыл бұрын
I got your video request thank you
@hypokritkillah Жыл бұрын
Great job well delivered.
@Advancingbeing Жыл бұрын
When you kill then with silence, they gon do the most to get a reaction out of you 😂😂 or your attention .
@msliberated3899 Жыл бұрын
Then it’s time to Rebuke them publicly in a captivated audience
@Yicahti Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry I don’t believe in the, “You should talk about it”…… real maturity is walking out of their lives and being silent. Talking has rarely ever worked but almost always turned into a huge back and fourth argument exposing the true evil nature hidden in people you’d never expect
@TylerJTI Жыл бұрын
Exactly, I don't believe in "talk it over . Real maturity is walking out but a lot of people can't see that and it's not miscommunication. Some people already decided they aren't going to listen to you because if they did, they would listen and ask questions if it was something they didn't understand
@Yicahti Жыл бұрын
@@TylerJTI Facts!! A peace of mind is worth way more than trying to mend with folks 💪🏽
@NarcissistEscsperYT Жыл бұрын
You got that correct 💫
@scorpioqueen7728 Жыл бұрын
💅🏽✨✨ That Ending was Everything 😎😂@6:59 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
@victorianjohn Жыл бұрын
👑SHALAWAM King🙏🏿#deafening silence 💯
@candacewebb120 Жыл бұрын
♥️
@thepamperedgoddess3279 Жыл бұрын
continue your silence. Be okay with being hostile. If hostile means protecting you then hostile it is! You are a divine being worthy of safety. Do not allow others to be hostile to the God in you. Get so busy with your life. FILL every waking moment with things that make you feel good, the things you like, affirmations, whole living food. Start loving yourself so hard all day long, that you don’t have a spare second to give. Plan your schedule that much. When they poke continue to ignore. In fact that should not even be able to contact anyway. Choose to be in control of your story for once and close the door. Not just to see how they react but actually decide that it is over without the chance of reconciliation. Block and change your number. If you leave the door open you are leaving your mind and heart open to invite the ame characters and energetic entities who have not changed. You need to fully change yourself through love and then you will automatically start attracting new people who are at your level. Who will do anything to support you, encourage you, see you smile and will make it KNOWN that you want your soul next to theirs in this life.
@vijairampersaud5555 Жыл бұрын
You speak the truth 👍🏼💪🏽
@lilblizzy Жыл бұрын
Tyler is on 🔥🚒🚒🚒🔥🔥
@trevorgamble4101 Жыл бұрын
Keep doing your thing king
@Ian-ym1rn10 ай бұрын
HOW RIGHT YOU ARE
@marthadivine8426 Жыл бұрын
Yes, I am not dealing with them at all.
@pearpo Жыл бұрын
I don’t want to kill anyone.
@nikkiwalker2017 Жыл бұрын
Say that Tyler 🔥🔥🔥
@hardeepmann3464 Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏
@khanjanki8207 Жыл бұрын
Amen yes l do agree more Posting please
@cohariebenjaminbrown7900 Жыл бұрын
right on my g thank you
@jaybandz561 Жыл бұрын
PREACH IT 💯
@purposedpatience6597 Жыл бұрын
😂💯💯💯💯 I love it!!
@yesyoga Жыл бұрын
TRUTH! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😵💫💖
@TechReviewTom Жыл бұрын
What about miscommunication occurrences? What constitutes this silence?
@TylerJTI Жыл бұрын
Have you not heard nor thought that some people were doesn't want to get understanding when they had the chance to listen but blowed thier chances when someone was trying to explain to it ? That's where silence constitutes itself.
@hadiza1 Жыл бұрын
Amen! 🤍
@MrBillybathgate5 Жыл бұрын
Tyler!
@bruce7021 Жыл бұрын
My Brother you are so right 👍( now "not only you"and I'm sure that other people are going to read this "I'm asking you to Google ( Dr.RAY Higens from the African village.) Pay close attention to what he is teaching" and hold on to your seat "because it's DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP.✊
@OfficialWordOnTheStreet4 ай бұрын
👑 Tyler!
@DreamWevr Жыл бұрын
Hi Tyler I have to admit I just seen something in my own mom a contrite spirit trifling sprit don’t want to see you truly happy try pretend mean no ill will but has bad intentions you are right they will say I have not done anything to you but they no deep down inside they have but want admit it and don’t want to see you truely happy and blessed I see pure resentment, jealousy, in my own mother it is what it is but I know to stay away much as possible red flag was why whenever I talk speak my truth you always have to try to dismiss it to put it down I’m noticing her behavior and attitude now I am silence she is puzzle because don’t know how to counteract because She know now I see you for who you are but I see I have to stay low key silent don’t share my blessing goals dreams with her I seen the revelation her true intentions now I get you she and others not worthy of your time at all because they don’t appreciate you and is too jealous of you period bottom line thank you Tyler I’m moving on don’t have to put up with other people trifling bad spirit you were right Tyler thank you again I am going stay away and be Happy!
@Sam-m6r5h11 ай бұрын
They don't deserve my attention at all!!
@LaoSoftware Жыл бұрын
Tyler, you want us to give them the silent treatment? How do we kill them with silence?
@TheGirlExotic Жыл бұрын
They don't exist 😊
@Phuzd1cd Жыл бұрын
When i am silence they start poking me and say I am hostile to them. I can't go no contact
@thepamperedgoddess3279 Жыл бұрын
@@Phuzd1cdcontinue your silence. Be okay with being hostile. If hostile means protecting you then hostile it is! You are a divine being worthy of safety. Do not allow others to be hostile to the God in you. Get so busy with your life. FILL every waking moment with things that make you feel good, the things you like, affirmations, whole living food. Start loving yourself so hard all day long, that you don’t have a spare second to give. Plan your schedule that much. When they poke continue to ignore. In fact that should not even be able to contact anyway. Choose to be in control of your story for once and close the door. Not just to see how they react but actually decide that it is over without the chance of reconciliation. Block and change your number. If you leave the door open you are leaving your mind and heart open to invite the ame characters and energetic entities who have not changed. You need to fully change yourself through love and then you will automatically start attracting new people who are at your level. Who will do anything to support you, encourage you, see you smile and will make it KNOWN that you want your soul next to theirs in this life.
@Queenmemoirsangelique Жыл бұрын
Kill them with kindness,silence my absence.❤❤❤❤❤ Angelique peace joy 🤩 my grandma prepared me with wisdom some people unhappy miserable . Stealth Mode only 2021- present 🎉🎉🎉🎉