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The Stoic Garden

The Stoic Garden

Күн бұрын

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@lordbyron3603
@lordbyron3603 7 күн бұрын
It’s 9:30 am having a cup of coffee and sitting in my comfortable living room looking out of the huge window and enjoying the morning sunlight bathe the plants in my front yard and watching the birds flyby and cats making their way in and around the garden. It’s a relaxing and a wonderfully peaceful time. No bothersome relative or companion to disturb my tranquility! This is a dream come true!
@mechelerawls
@mechelerawls 4 күн бұрын
i want this 😮
@AndreaMühlbacher-i1i
@AndreaMühlbacher-i1i 2 күн бұрын
❤ that's exactly how I live as well with 62 ...but I have a body like a 40 year old..live with my 5 cats🎉 alone..never feel better 😂
@lordbyron3603
@lordbyron3603 2 күн бұрын
@ Cats and dogs are wonderful companions!
@liznorth4028
@liznorth4028 2 күн бұрын
I'm glad for you! Enjoy and please continue sharing and commenting -it's encouraging and it gives the reader a warm feeling as we imagine it.❤
@liznorth4028
@liznorth4028 2 күн бұрын
​@@mechelerawlsme too. ..hey, even if we don't, we can be glad for those that do. Also, I've found the imagination is very powerful.
@cefcat5733
@cefcat5733 3 күн бұрын
Stillness and peace. A neighbor lady told me that she lived alone, for the first time, had been married for 35 years and could now do whatever she wanted. She was joyous.❤
@jacdragan8918
@jacdragan8918 6 күн бұрын
I am stoic, retired 3 years and 69 years old. I had to leave my wife of 48 years. The stress became unbearable. I purchased a 33ft. Rockwood Travel Trailer and have gone across country and back. I was born in Pittsburgh Pennsylvania. After 2.5 years alone on the road, I decided to rent a home in Grove City PA. for the Winter. Now trying to find out what makes me happy and where to live to give me peace and freedom. It's lonely, but better than constant misery. Thank you.
@MyThai1612
@MyThai1612 6 күн бұрын
Good man!
@lizscott6911
@lizscott6911 5 күн бұрын
Me to. After 50 years of marrage, I became a widow. I remained fIthfull for 53 years. All 4 children grown and have their own families. Now travel 80% of the time. Have a small Motorhome. I have never been so happy in my life. I wish all the best to all single older people. While you can still breath, you can still live. Go for it!
@misamisa2677
@misamisa2677 3 күн бұрын
Need a partner 😊
@elsajones6325
@elsajones6325 3 күн бұрын
Lucky you. Some people never take the step
@lizscott6911
@lizscott6911 3 күн бұрын
@misamisa2677 😂🤣😅
@robinking3604
@robinking3604 4 күн бұрын
I've lived alone most all my life an wouldn't have it any other way.Gets lonely now an then but I just go out an socialize an then I realize what I haven't missed.😊🙏☝️
@hikerhobby1204
@hikerhobby1204 3 күн бұрын
I agree! Getting home to peace and quiet is marvelous👍
@mkibtiyah2009
@mkibtiyah2009 4 күн бұрын
I am a stoic from Kajang, Selangor. I had enough of toxic ppl controlling my being. I moved away before I died inside. Bliss now!❤🎉
@karenvolk
@karenvolk 8 күн бұрын
I collected all my supplies for retirement, paints and quilting supplies etc. and then my sweet 1940s house burned to the ground. I raised 4 beautiful daughters alone there so everything poof gone. Rebuilt but it is not the same and the loss of all my treasures well you know it is just sad. However, many have been through so much more so I can't complain.
@TruthSeekress2012
@TruthSeekress2012 Күн бұрын
I'm sorry. That's very difficult I wish you peace.
@aidafajardo90
@aidafajardo90 4 күн бұрын
I am stoic & 84... Thank you very much for your advice on age. From California
@leoniewilson5473
@leoniewilson5473 7 күн бұрын
I find at age 68 that my days are so full i have no idea how i ever found time to go to work. Im aiming at at least 100 to find time to do all i want
@georgannputintsev4293
@georgannputintsev4293 4 күн бұрын
Exactly! Go Live & Love Bravely to your Last Breath & Expérience that Ultimate Joy of Fulfillment. I AM Done here, Now to Another Frontière. 🫶🥰♾️
@pgmom9634
@pgmom9634 7 күн бұрын
I decided to live with my adult daughter and family and I have complete freedom No one controls my life
@diannacalverley7586
@diannacalverley7586 3 күн бұрын
I am 82, blessed and thankful to have found this podcast. I will watch this podcast for the rest of my years. God bless you, the world,my family and my 2 fury animals, love and light 😅
@liznorth4028
@liznorth4028 2 күн бұрын
❤awwwwesome! Be blessed ALWAYS
@37tara
@37tara Күн бұрын
@michekids
@michekids 10 күн бұрын
I am enjoying this at age 70 and learning.
@SM16
@SM16 9 күн бұрын
" I am Colorado stoic" you do not need to wait until you are 60 to apply these boundaries to live a clearly calm life. 💌Thank You.
@desertpagan2020
@desertpagan2020 3 күн бұрын
I am Stoic from Las Vegas, Nevada USA. I am 71 and widowed 5 yrs from someone I truly adored for 27 years. I am involved with the animal rescue cause and volunteer at a no kill shelter for cats, and I have my own business cleaning homes. My family is nearly gone except for an abusive negkectful son I dont interact with. I am grateful every day for what I do have, and kniw that I dont have to possess material things to still cherish my nemories! I would like to have a partner/friend to share things with, but I am still fine being alone with my cat. Namaste
@AndreaMühlbacher-i1i
@AndreaMühlbacher-i1i 2 күн бұрын
I would love to be at least you your friend...❤..I am from Austria 62 but I look like 45😂...I am fit..love animals more than most people!! I got 5 cats live alone but I don't feel lonely...well sometimes 🤗...I am very positive...I kick any negative things fawr as possible...it's just a waste of time...I just Wana be happy 😊...not always easy but I try at least!!🎉😂Andrea ( I live in marbella spain sins 25 year's) ❤❤
@mamie6820
@mamie6820 Күн бұрын
Thank you Gabriel🌹 I’m 72, stoic, peaceful, liberated, nomadic, grateful and emotionally independent.
@lordbyron3603
@lordbyron3603 7 күн бұрын
Sometimes, we need that cold bucket of water thrown on our aspirations. It’s called getting real with yourself. I’m 69 years old , and a stage 4 cancer survivor and also suffering from cervical vertigo ! I’d like to play 2 hours of tennis everyday to work on my skills and techniques but can’t . The best I can do now is only 1 hour of tennis three times a week. What do I do the rest of the time ?? I sit and rest or sleep ! I haven’t stopped dreaming or growing! I’m planting new seeds and … present-day plants to thrive in my new garden to replace some of the old ones that are dying and no longer doing so well. I can’t amend the soil in me anymore because the soil is simply too deteriorated.
@happybear4651
@happybear4651 6 күн бұрын
@lordbyron3603 but on heaven your dreams,and aspirations will come true,keep dreaming,if not in this life ,then the next,remember this is life is vital,necessary, next life is forever🙂
@sandi5276
@sandi5276 12 сағат бұрын
I am stoic, in the Pacific Northwest, the 'United States' in North America. I intend to follow this teaching for the last decades of my life. thank you
@jacquiwaenga419
@jacquiwaenga419 9 күн бұрын
I am Stoic from New Zealand. I enjoy listening to your videos😊
@tammyspangler1834
@tammyspangler1834 4 күн бұрын
Miracle’s are happening all the time. Just as they say As a man thinkith so is he!❤
@Sathari-pz4hi
@Sathari-pz4hi 5 күн бұрын
I am Stoic from South Africa
@EdithKillian-e5n
@EdithKillian-e5n 3 күн бұрын
I am a Nigerian. I love this
@PaulineFontaine-n8t
@PaulineFontaine-n8t 10 күн бұрын
I am stoic, and I am listening. Voice from Minnesota.
@ntombizodwamkhize7562
@ntombizodwamkhize7562 Күн бұрын
All these are happening to us right now and at least now we know what to do..Thank You to listen to the Stoic Wisdom.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@patsyguevara2254
@patsyguevara2254 4 күн бұрын
Enjoyed this video
@AkpeziOkpoto
@AkpeziOkpoto Күн бұрын
I'm stoic watching from Lagos, Nigeria
@shaakirahussain3900
@shaakirahussain3900 3 күн бұрын
I am STOIC.. .. 💃💃💃
@AndreaMühlbacher-i1i
@AndreaMühlbacher-i1i 2 күн бұрын
❤hm i am 62 ..got a fit body ... look like a 45 years one ..live with my cats alone in a house 🏡 with garden ...do what ever when ever where ever i want ...i never feel more happier 😂..i go horseback riding enoy dancing..stay up on til the sun comes up...( I love the night like my cats😂) In the night i feel peace... magic...i am a night bird...my love is the animals with there unconditionally ❤real love...i dont need much money...if i can pay food for my cats and me ...and what i need...i am happy... freedom is preisles ...no drama , no stress , no stupid question... only my cats and me ...well, sometimes i visit my lovers...and when i have enough...i go home to rest with my cats ..in peace ✌️😻😻😻😻🐾❤️🪽🍀🌟🙏🌅
@dottiepolly8564
@dottiepolly8564 9 күн бұрын
Thank you United Kingdom
@joy-tab
@joy-tab 3 күн бұрын
I'm 55 yo Still working as a nurse Love to know the reality facts in old age
@shonamoma3732
@shonamoma3732 20 сағат бұрын
ok , ill tell you some reality about getting older . everything wears out , think everything, teeth, tastebuds, hearing, sight, hair, skin, so youll need a ton of money. but you get wise. and you learn how to just be in this world. :•)
@xanthipezembillas8936
@xanthipezembillas8936 2 күн бұрын
I am stoic..from palm harbor, fl
@vvvspqr
@vvvspqr 4 күн бұрын
I was born stoic..... I forgot Thank you for these videos
@marysimms9619
@marysimms9619 6 сағат бұрын
This has really helped me to see the truth between me and my son. Thank you.
@irisdeaderick2418
@irisdeaderick2418 6 күн бұрын
I AM STOIC, 71 YEARS YOUNG! AMEN!
@jazzenay1016
@jazzenay1016 9 күн бұрын
I AM STOIC AND LISTENING FROM BALTIMORE MARYLAND!❤
@MyThai1612
@MyThai1612 6 күн бұрын
I not want to spend my worthful time with people. Only alcohol, talking cheese 24/7 and have no control about themself! Alone I have everything what I need! People are only disturbing! I have no fear, we never alone, we have our life and our dreams. Why should I share this. It is unique. I can live near the sea and my dog is always with me. So what can be better? People only keep you from what is essential and important!
@ceciliaoman6231
@ceciliaoman6231 8 күн бұрын
I am stoic from Sweden. Thank you 🙏🏻
@parisa3029
@parisa3029 2 күн бұрын
Great job Gabriel! I’m Stoic
@susanne1756
@susanne1756 Күн бұрын
I've found that surrounding myself with younger people, like 15 to 20 years younger, works better for me now that I'm in my early 70s. They are still physically active and have more interesting subjects to talk about verses their aches and pains and pets. One other benefit is that I look like I'm in my 50's...funny how that works. So many women in my age group sit around and gossip or complain about everyone and thing. I've been asked to join a bocci ball team, I was on a sailing team in the San Francisco bay area for years. We raced these sailboats sometime 3 times a week, depending on which yacht clubs night it was. Stay active even if it's going to your local community center to do yoga or stretching.
@sally9287
@sally9287 2 күн бұрын
I'm stoic......Portland, Oregon
@kbftlauderdale1
@kbftlauderdale1 4 күн бұрын
I am stoic. 65 years old living in holyoke mass.
@mrsparkes6026
@mrsparkes6026 9 күн бұрын
I am stoic,and am listening from Jamaica.
@karengoodfortune
@karengoodfortune 12 сағат бұрын
I am stoic and spend lots of time in Jamaica
@celialindainramos3218
@celialindainramos3218 8 күн бұрын
Gabriel thank you ♥️♥️♥️
@lynetteotway6258
@lynetteotway6258 8 күн бұрын
I am Stoic ❤
@CindyHo-w6k
@CindyHo-w6k 8 күн бұрын
I am stoic listening from Singapore
@brendadavis5391
@brendadavis5391 6 күн бұрын
I'm listening from Los Angeles, CA.
@AubreyKoopman-h2u
@AubreyKoopman-h2u 9 күн бұрын
I am stoic listening from Somerset West,South Africa,this video was ment just for me and I'm gonna share it with some of my friends thanks alot
@deewitt8693
@deewitt8693 9 күн бұрын
I am stoic, from Florida and Ga.
@joannelockwood9716
@joannelockwood9716 8 күн бұрын
I am stoic UK
@chantalemorin4315
@chantalemorin4315 10 күн бұрын
This is an excellent video fir me to take action ❤
@ReneeO-G24
@ReneeO-G24 9 күн бұрын
I am Stoic from South Carolina
@guendolynbell6463
@guendolynbell6463 3 күн бұрын
I'm following from Chile. Thank you blessings
@FoloneMasimbe
@FoloneMasimbe 9 күн бұрын
I am enjoying the story from Malawi
@TinaandPokey
@TinaandPokey 7 күн бұрын
I am stoic from South Florida
@angelaocholimoi5586
@angelaocholimoi5586 8 күн бұрын
I am stoic, from Australia
@NancyQave
@NancyQave 7 күн бұрын
You make me strong I always think that I have nothing to say but accept whatever
@jeffreybernson7978
@jeffreybernson7978 5 күн бұрын
I am stoic .. Salt Lake City Utah
@shirleyhunter6625
@shirleyhunter6625 5 күн бұрын
You sir are 100% right ❤
@NitaZeng
@NitaZeng 8 күн бұрын
I am Stoic from Australia
@borL898
@borL898 6 күн бұрын
Amen Amen Amen 🙏 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ so true Gabriel ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@BrendaAbad-p5p
@BrendaAbad-p5p 3 күн бұрын
I am stoic.from Philippines
@rosemariestaisabel3547
@rosemariestaisabel3547 9 күн бұрын
❤❤THANK YOU SO MUCH PO (RESPECT WORD IN THE PHILIPPINES) FOR THIS SUBJECT
@kathynimcheski
@kathynimcheski 3 күн бұрын
I am so sorry because I know how horrible it is to lose (everything) in a fire. Over 20 years ago now.at first I was devastated but at the time I had a attitude that I would be happy when I got(bigger,better or more).but then after a few months I realized I was free( those things I had worked so hard to get),were actually turning me down.and that actually I was free some people go thru a whole lifetime with the same idea I had putting my happiness on hold.and I may have never figured out that getting more stuff was not really where happiness was that things can tie one down and I was actually given a gift by that fire,because my mindset was off and I was then FREE from all my stuff. So actually that fire was a gift
@barbarasweeting8717
@barbarasweeting8717 Күн бұрын
I am STOIAC!
@sawneybean8011
@sawneybean8011 22 сағат бұрын
Great!!!
@NitaZeng
@NitaZeng 8 күн бұрын
I like your work. Thank you
@joannemonast8670
@joannemonast8670 9 күн бұрын
California listened 🎶
@nellyjanewangubroughton7387
@nellyjanewangubroughton7387 Күн бұрын
I'm stoic 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿
@lordbyron3603
@lordbyron3603 7 күн бұрын
In the first place, I rarely listen to anyone’s opinions about what I can and can’t do! That just isn’t me! If I’m capable of doing it , and I want to do it , I do it ! Simple as that . I don’t let anyone define me period !
@ancabostinariu6550
@ancabostinariu6550 2 күн бұрын
This is an interesting video but if badly understood leads to loneliness social withdrawal and depression as we cannot live in the absence of social interactions. It promotes lack of empathy and extreme self I solve mental. Boundaries are very important if understood properly. Older age means retirement and reduced social interaction. So called stoicism may increase loneliness.
@RitaHahn-s7l
@RitaHahn-s7l 3 күн бұрын
I am Stoic from Germany
@theresarts482
@theresarts482 6 күн бұрын
My doctor points out my expectations are not inline with”getting older.”
@TR-nv3if
@TR-nv3if 2 күн бұрын
I think society stereotypes older people and its a self fulfilling prophecy.. they want to keep you ltd because of your age..they want you to act your age.. ( or thrir stereotypes
@jazzenay1016
@jazzenay1016 9 күн бұрын
This video came to me right on time! Thank you 🎉
@peggyburns1702
@peggyburns1702 Күн бұрын
I am stoic. I'm listening from the island of Bermuda on February 2, 2025.
@MarilynAllison-on2wi
@MarilynAllison-on2wi 4 күн бұрын
at age 67 I was told by my daughter not to move to her state untill. age 77 If I had been his mom, I would have been welcome. Also I was told don't ask them for $$$. I was a good mother.
@antonellelindrea6037
@antonellelindrea6037 4 күн бұрын
I am stoic Australia
@danielibarra4499
@danielibarra4499 4 күн бұрын
I am stoic
@CynthiaCo-hp6zb
@CynthiaCo-hp6zb 6 күн бұрын
Thanks for teaching us, it really helps
@MarthaMothibe-l2g
@MarthaMothibe-l2g 4 күн бұрын
I am living. Botswana
@ValeriaBranch-xz6ez
@ValeriaBranch-xz6ez 2 күн бұрын
Im stoic
@elaineg.4542
@elaineg.4542 8 күн бұрын
CA I am Stoic.
@carolineroberts9917
@carolineroberts9917 13 сағат бұрын
66yo female. Husband a lot older. Illnesses for past 15 years, every day something wrong, hypochondriac. Last year pushing him to do menial tasks, repeating myself, lying to me nearly broke me. His sister isn't interested even though I took on 11 months of their needs as well with her bastard husbands antics. My sister died six weeks ago. I've now got nobody to talk to.
@cleopatralewis4829
@cleopatralewis4829 2 күн бұрын
I too busy working but now I have my son telling me about age!! So I shut it down I just ignored him! I am creating space between then I don't discuss what I am doing must break free,
@RubyHarrington-j3n
@RubyHarrington-j3n 9 күн бұрын
Stoic Philly@❤
@cherizeaustin0816
@cherizeaustin0816 7 сағат бұрын
I made mistake ofBECOMING A ROOMIE AT 64 since I was now an open nester. But this woman is like a child I am annoyed and try to avoid her by limiting my contact to protect my peace but it’s her space,I think she believes because I’m here she can start conversing or expecting me to want to come to her events So it’s draining but I say no to what she cooks or if she tells me she’s inviting people we have different beliefs about cleanliness I have no interest in participation I’m working hard to move away to be solo again.
@carolprophy9352
@carolprophy9352 9 күн бұрын
I'm enjoying my life at 64
@aujkalenic4203
@aujkalenic4203 2 күн бұрын
Sad that some of us gotta fight family members to leave me alone.....I am NOT what you need! Get up off your L A Z Y asses get yo work & pay your own way!
@paulasweeney7713
@paulasweeney7713 4 күн бұрын
God. said. …. It is not good for man to be. alone…….. we all. think as if 35/40. Through the graduating years before us. 60/70/80. Additionally great wisdom have grown & “agape”. LOVE. Is the best through faith in Jesus into maturity. thank you in Jesus. God bless you in Jesus🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
@happybear4651
@happybear4651 9 күн бұрын
Sixty- six and listening...
@texasmuscle6294
@texasmuscle6294 Күн бұрын
@danielibarra4499
@danielibarra4499 4 күн бұрын
Santa Maria Ca
@MelanieMusic777
@MelanieMusic777 3 күн бұрын
Telling everyone over 60 that they shouldn't listen to anyone that tells them they can no longer do something is dangerous. My partner is in his late 60's and he's got dementia but thinks he can still do everything. Well he's been in 5 car accidents in three years and leaves the house with food cooking on the stove. So if he tells me, because his family has deserted him because of his strange behavior, he doesn't need help, well now we're putting everyone in danger. Also he's beat me and broken ribs because he thinks he's in danger. Remember, you're encouraging EVERYONE over 60 to do as they want, and that can cost their lives and the ones trying to help them. Shame on YOU 😑
@daphgreg7067
@daphgreg7067 2 күн бұрын
I am too late to find my key,bad relationship for 40 years with my husband. I am trapped in my house praying to God. I am 69 years. I am independent doing my job happily.
@gardeniabee
@gardeniabee 2 күн бұрын
A hermit, recluse, a bit of a stoic. Isolated area of the U.S.
@marshascott3498
@marshascott3498 8 күн бұрын
I am Stoic......Thank You..YEAH YEAH..I'm Ms. NOBODY....IN Baltimore, Maryland,,USA..9:18a.m.---- Sunday..January 26,2025....😅😅😅😅
@shirleypettigrew1483
@shirleypettigrew1483 3 күн бұрын
Just a wee message to say hello from Bonnie Scotland. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿❤️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿❤️
@tammyspangler1834
@tammyspangler1834 4 күн бұрын
Life just isn’t that black and white! Sorry no one is ever going to convince me that I can’t! And that it’s not possible. Life isn’t like that! Life is an amazing journey full of possibilities that are against all odds! Just like the stage 4 cancer patient who walks out of the doctors office cancer free and completely healed. Just an example.
@ianking3388
@ianking3388 3 күн бұрын
Valuable information try to mix with people who have a kind heart.You won't go far wrong.😂😂❤
@bodhiray393
@bodhiray393 3 күн бұрын
Oh Gabriel yuk
@aganethashroeder
@aganethashroeder 9 күн бұрын
With hu
@eutropiamacalinao1450
@eutropiamacalinao1450 9 күн бұрын
TOO Long ....... seem repetitious
@graceokorodudu1008
@graceokorodudu1008 7 күн бұрын
Most of are unfortunately 🤷🏼‍♀️
@sarahwalkerbeach6985
@sarahwalkerbeach6985 2 күн бұрын
AI voice and repetitive
@lloydbroen6369
@lloydbroen6369 Күн бұрын
I am stoic
@frankcamerpesci5269
@frankcamerpesci5269 4 сағат бұрын
I am stoic
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