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[@db4449]

I LOVE THIS ❤ MY USED SELF NEEDED THIS REMINDER ❤

[@saludyvidaintegrales7982]

But what about the performance in sex because without satisfactory sex there is no sexo, men with disfunctional sex or diseases and things that maybe don't have solution?

[@fearless7989]

I feel like paying for an amazing haircut, lots of high end beauty products, buying high quality clothing, just to go to coffee with a man, or a date where he's not paying, is also paying a man to date you.

[@eternalabundance39]

Agree

[@VforVanity10]

Men are actually very particular about this topic. They'll say: "It's your problem, noone has asked you to dress expensive and to put all that makeup and perfume on. You wouldn't have needed it, you are just as beautiful without all of it."

[@CinemaDoll137]

@@VforVanity10and then they’ll cry about women not putting in effort and say that’s why the man left them

[@isabelmm]

I had a guy take me out on a few dates, bought me an expensive laptop etc and wanted sex in return, tried to use a relationship as a means to sleep with me and I told him I want commitment from him fully , the man has been a ghost ever since 😂... I am not even surprised. Ia so thankful to Shera and Mina for their guidance and helping me build a better mindset of who I am and my being. I value myself even more. And I don't run after ANYONE. I look out for myself and make sure that my happiness comes first. I love you Mina

[@antoniorapalo2352]

He should have been upfront about his wants AND you shouldn’t of had accepted the gift… both are true. In fact, you’re more wrong than he is. You choose to allow the first part of the transaction move forward and now are here laughing you left him with empty hands. Be logical

[@isabelmm]

Your a dusty right

[@CinemaDoll137]

@@isabelmmhe is, yeah

[@diplomat2623]

This girl was holding back that rage!!! Thank you Mina!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Appreciate this reminder.

[@Zoranalaela]

Savage video Mina! Someone had to say this to the Indian and Pakistani women to stop being full time maids in their own house.

[@camillaharve3866]

Had to painfully learn this the hard way, when paying for first dates with men, thinking I’m empowered and a “feminist”, and them literally not showing any interest at all…

[@natashadickson4819]

Feminism and masculine energy are for school and the workplace. Use physical beauty, feminine energy, and charm in dating and marriage.

[@ilsem.7990]

Don't fight with him, get savage. I loved it! My new mantra, lol.

[@mml9018]

I wish I had this knowledge years ago. I'm so glad it's avaliable for the younger women now! 🙌

[@Heather-AnnePaul]

Yes Ma’am BRING IT. I love this message and repeatedly going over it with my daughter. I said to my daughter the other day (She knows I am rotational dating ) I said , do you know what, I want the first kiss to be at the alter when the Minister says “you May now kiss the bride” This will be the ultimate gift to my daughter so that she knows there is a better way. Come on ladies, we have to listen and wake up and spread this message. I tell my kids- it stops at this generation. Stop ✋🏾 🛑

[@Lil-Be]

Women should literally hypnotize themselves with this video!!! Soooo true and such an important message!

[@ruritunes3165]

Agreed I fall asleep to this kind of vibe because we are the PRIZE

[@ItsOkayToBeHappy]

I have actually done this with several of Mina's videos. If you tap the gear at the top right of the screen you can turn on the loop feature to play the video over and over!

[@OluwaferanmiKalejaiye]

LOL OMGG Mina said "we should thank you for your service"😂😂😂

[@Rojaio]

I think one of the best, best, best advices from Mina it is not sleeping with the man before marriage, it's so powerful! Thank you❤

[@sukithemoon]

It’s super contradictory calling yourself a prize when everyone can have you just cuz you’re h*rny 😅 they’re not even competing for nothing or with anyone, it’s so sad… and it’s not to say that all we offer is our bodies, but to think that sex is one of the things men value the MOST in this world and they’re just giving it for free in the name of sexual liberation is crazy!!!

[@herpersonaltransformation]

The thing that triggers me most is having to get your husband on your side first then tell him what you want. The man has to make a "conscious decision" to be on your side, since day one. And it's also so difficult to not be able to show what you really think with the person you are closest to in your life. I have made the mistake of thinking I had him on my side several times, so I have expressed my true feelings (in relation to his family), only to find out he was not on my side.

[@abmrose]

Eh if a woman is shooting out repelling energy to her man, she’s actively telling him not to be on her side!

[@natashadickson4819]

Feminine energy attracts him to your side. Increase your beauty and charm.

[@herpersonaltransformation]

@@natashadickson4819 I feel like that should be something additional, feminine energy, beauty and charm, should be a gift. While the meaning of a partnership is literally "being on your partner's side"

[@herpersonaltransformation]

I am not saying that you are not right that feminine energy works, but it breaks my heart not having his support as a given, and unconditional, especially when asking for something that a lot of other women have and don't have to fight for.

[@natashadickson4819]

@@herpersonaltransformation ❤️ Other women have other problems with their husbands, so do what's best for your situation. ❤️

[@akarshikhare111]

Kitchen part is 100% accurate I know so many families where they live in the same house but have separate kitchens 😂

[@Polkizofficial]

Yes Mina!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 keep sharing this message It’s sad to see many women give it all for free and still have to pay the man 😢 women deserve and should know better than this

[@krystaljones3074]

This is what I imagine your Savage program consists of!

[@Theuniverseguru]

It’s definitely this and more the stuff that can’t be said publicly!

[@RVC0902]

Mina, please make more videos about how south asian women have had to pay for their in-laws while they live in her house. This is so incredibly common.

[@treegirl3770]

More video's are NOT necessary. DON'T allow them to move in with you! It's very simple

[@tithi8782]

Gosh can't blame you Mina. I felt angry just listening to the situations these women have gotten themselves into. Sending love and light and savageness to all the beautiful ladies. May we always choose what feels good to our soul.

[@Yomomma-jf9iy]

It's not like that is the only thing we bring to the table. That is THE ONLY THING they care about. They don't see you as a mother, they don't care about parenting skills, they don't care about your social network, they don't care about job, income, careeer, or competence. Men ONLY see you as an object.

[@jzea100]

You mean predators only care about that?

[@MaatTehuti_Dr_Clark_PsyD]

These behaviors appear to be an outcropping of Western capitalism, Women are monetizing themselves as commodities to be traded. I agree Mina, this approach is disastrous at best. Thank you for this important broadcast. My best friend got into the situation with her in-laws, it has been 26 years... She spent all of her birthing years caring for his mother and then his aunt, moving them overseas here, and nursing them while she ran her own real estate company. They have passed on, and she is forever childless at 50 and slaving for the dollar by the day 😢.

[@jaquelinealvarez173]

If every woman could do this….. we would scare the predators away! This is savage wisdom! 💜

[@BelAge]

I used to insist on going 50/50 with my dates/lovers when I was in my wounded feminine. At the same time, deep inside I resented and envied the women who got taken care of, because basically, I wanted to be them, but I didn't feel worthy enough. Yes, my self-esteem was in the gutter, masquerading as an independent liberated feminist. I am so glad I healed that, but honestly, it took years of self, therapeutic and spiritual work.

[@S-jy4fd]

Gotta love the self awareness and growth, all that matters is who you are now. I see a lot of pickme’s and always knew low-key they felt unworthy because why do they fight so hard to go 50:50, what is the benefit? 😅

[@Mya.atPlay]

women / we need to unlearn: fearing we have little value 🙏🥰

[@nassomawilson8706]

Why would a man consider you a prize if he can sleep with you for the price of a steak/lobster dinner?!

[@eternalabundance39]

I had a guy tell me once in order to get breakfast with him had to do that. It's a strange mentality for sure agree.

[@emiliascharm4693]

I wish I had understood this message sooner, but I am absolutely grateful to know better now

[@db4449]

OHHH THE WAY YOU SAID “THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE”…. “YOUR WOMB IS NOT A DUMPSTER” The truth hurts me more than anything…. YOU LOVE ME DEEPLY MINA AND DONT EVEN KNOW ME❤️😘🫶🏾

[@mrs.s.8183]

That third point was so valid. Please make more videos about navigating in-law dynamics. Us South Asian followers need more guidance on it.

[@maricelg777]

Yes Mina, thanks for sharing. Women need to hear this. ❤

[@SheCreatesAll]

Most women I know are paying at least in one or the 3 ways you mentioned 😆

[@sy_dianne5224]

True, especially in the West

[@eternalabundance39]

Agree

[@jloni]

Yess Auntie Mina! 😂❤❤

[@mina9484]

Agreed. We're precious ladies, let's not offer our sacred energy to men that are not our husbands yet 🙏🏼 Personnaly, we've always had great experiences of family members living with their in laws in my family and friends circle. Every case is different I guess. Loved the savage in this video Mina, thank you 💕 Ps : please ladies, do not kill spiders or unharmful insect/creature (as long as they are not a threat to your life of course). Use a broom, the spider is very scared, put it next to her and help her get on it (she will eventually, don't rush it and crush her paws you'll kill her instead of saving her). You'll feel great and you'd save a life even if it a small creature's. Kindest love

[@RaleighBrown]

Pretty in pink 😍💞 Thank you for this video Mina, I try to explain this to some people and they just don’t get it

[@imtheprize]

Mina is pissed. I love this kind of cutthroat content. "You ho's need to get it together" 😂 is what am hearing

[@パネラエリー]

Thank you Mina! You are absolutely allowed to scream at us!😂❤🤗

[@marianne2935]

I wish I had realized this when I was 18 😢 sadly I was so desperate

[@AretiFani]

Mina is truly saving lives!

[@esoteriktarot]

Mina you are amaizing you help my to change a lot thanks

[@iammayoush]

You look so good today 💖 I wish I found you 8 years ago

[@user-eo7bo7ct5d]

Could you pls make a video on 3rd case, how to communicate on this with your man... Omg this video is just so on point especially the 3rd one of Indian culture it has been so normalized that we feel guilty to have boundaries around this....

[@MoonFoxASMR]

WHY is the husband just moving his family in without a discussion??? 🥴

[@victoriajordanova238]

So much true and so much wisdom! Every single word out of this video is a TRE-A-SU-RE!

[@ruiliu8234]

Nailed it

[@InfiniteIrene]

Lol Mina I love you! ❤️‍🔥 savage as always

[@MademoiselleGisela]

Pure gold ✨

[@Happywholy]

Thank you for the last point. No one talks about that and many marriages in india today are breaking up with because of that issue

[@FantasticBooo]

Much needed conversation thank you Mina ❤

[@katt1134]

💥💥💥❤️❤️❤️💥💥BAM !! Love you Mina !! 🦄🦄🦄

[@MyNameIsAhalya]

Needed this 🙏🏾🔥.

[@Moneylovesme672]

You said a mouth full

[@Wandertheworldwithme]

Thank you for talking about this.

[@UnpredictableAri]

Enjoyed this video and thankful for the reminder

[@cookie4uc]

Looool. Paying? Omg 😂

[@leticiafarooq3836]

Wow very well said!

[@Happywholy]

Mina, my most humble request to make a detailed video on the last point. I have your 90 day relationship rehab course and it’s amazing. However this topic is so vast especially in Indian Pakistani communities that it will be a godly deed indeed if you can do a series of videos on this. God knows how many lives you will be helping and how many marriages you ll be saving.

[@LizDavinciLand]

The programming is very strong. I'm happy to see so many people addressing these issues. Great points Mina! Cheers, Liz

[@enxchante]

Straight to the point! Thank you Mina 🙏

[@cherryksl]

My mum has been doing this all her life and still dad left. But she still tells me she’s willing to support him financially as in like giving him an allowance with the condition he stays with her. It makes me so mad.

[@theclaamaterasu]

Thank you this was amazing!

[@Sincerelypaulette]

Yea Ma’am Mina! 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@SG-xb7de]

There cannot be 2 necks (MIL & wife) for 1 head in the family. 😂But, how to politely convey to the guy that you do not want his parents to live with you after marriage? I'm equally raged by these women, who make men lazy. Thank you, Meena! :-*

[@basicinfo2022]

7:34 this is why i don't prefer marrying South Asian or Arab men because they will impose their family and culture on you oftentimes, whereas Caucasian American men do not have this experience of turning their wife into a maid for his birth family.

[@lilouloulou1993]

Caucasian men are more likely to go 50/50 from my experience while arab men are usually providers .Although I agree with there could more of cultural gap

[@basicinfo2022]

@lilouloulou1993 the modern ones don't even bring up being a provider anymore. They want "50/50" now, and some don't even pay all wedding expenses like they're supposed to if muslim.

[@lilouloulou1993]

@@basicinfo2022 That’s so bad ! This 50/50 mentality is awful for women ,these men don’t realize that there is no 50/50 for pregnancy,child birth or even contraception.

[@glorissima_]

Truth truth truth 💖!! On time as always Mina, thank you and much love to you 💖🌹

[@mml9018]

Yes I have seen a similar inlaw experience with husband's sibling. 😢

[@gabrielletufano412]

best 12 minutes ever

[@ashak6438]

Thank you, needed.

[@Kika1623]

Ugh! Truth 👏 I’m so glad I have not remarried after my divorce 12 years ago.

[@Arya-pe1dr]

🥰🥰🥰🥰Preach Mina and thank u!!! U preaced the gospel like we say in Christianity!!! I am soooo surprised that any of ur ladies r engaging in ur first 2 points after being taught leveling up by u for so long. Wow!! I learned the first 2 points several years ago from u and others.

[@eragoddess]

My favorite KZbinr 😍 thank you for sharing this with us 🙏

[@thejillykilly]

We need coaching on how to treat his parents..

[@Goddess52]

Thank you Mina❤

[@nancyann78]

Yes Queen.

[@valentinayepesmontes74]

What happens with homosexual couples? And different amounts of energy. Is evolution making some of us (same sex attracted) a little different? Or can we have feminine codes for some things? Can we be a mixture? Should men be provided for in gay relationships? Should gay women provide and do 50-50? Understanding how evolution applies to us is a bit confusing in the lgtb community

[@ra4798]

Meera I understand what you say, but all this comes from feminism and feminism came from all the atrocities women have been through just because they were never valued for what they are and what they offer, and treated like any animal. Even today there are things like dowry and girl child abortions because they recieve !!! And that's why a lot of women go for the narrative" Mai apne parents ki beti nahi beta hu" and become 50-50 ladies.

[@sash5002]

thankyouuuuu❤❤❤❤

[@Angel-gq9ri]

You are the best Mina🎉

[@blondiechic21]

Gold!

[@MelissaSantosB]

Thank you for sharing!! 🌺

[@kimcheriece]

You are speaking life... I need to read your books

[@user-nr2jj5sb7u]

It’s how My Marriage ended. Couldn’t keep his married parents out of my business now BOOM single mom and he lives with them 😭 and mom and dad are still happily married 🥺

[@MonicaBabilon]

Thank you! Please do more content! 👏

[@VforVanity10]

Playing girlfriend is like going to a corporate office and do the same tasks the workers there are doing without having the secure employment status and earning the salary. I mean noone would be against it, but what do -> you get out of this???

[@Handleitt1]

Wow, sex is payment. I paid my respects to a person I admired then left because the foundation was unstable for anything more than that one night. Glad I stopped dating right after that.

[@ashlee7831]

Does this apply if you don’t want children with a man? Should he still provide if you’re not going to give him a family?

[@dorotaberner5380]

Pretty please dear Mina ‘Savage thoword inlaws training’ would be lovely in savage feminine

[@iaf4454]

True... simply all this is true

[@esrasees]

This video should be taught in schools.

[@lilly_ann]

Thank you for your service 🤣🤣

[@kore808]

AMEN

[@agatawokulska8600]

Wonderful video

[@Hottybanger]

Thank you ❤❤❤

[@TheJasmincika]

❤❤❤❤❤❤just so much love to you ❤❤❤❤

[@yoshungoddess]

Thanks Mina

[@michelyslopes]

Amazing topic

[@mistyvance4544]

Running won't teach you anything. You'll just be Running into another boyfriend's bed.

[@leticiafarooq3836]

❤😂 Females are still doing this?… Thank you for the message!

[@kristenmoonrise]

💯💯💯

[@ieshabush32]

The fact that you had to make a video on this topic is astonishing! Ladies stop this madness

[@eunharen4413]

Studio apartment 😂

[@dianerivera1309]

Hi I have a question, my boyfriend and I were on LDR for 4 yrs and recently he went here to australia quit his IT job back in the philippines and went to me to start a new life. I had to help him financially with visas fees and tuition fees since he needs to have a student visa because its the easiest visa to take. He doesn’t have money enoughmoney because the money in the Philippines is way too low than the money here in australia. Is that okay to help him financially at first and whenhe gets an IT job that would pay a good salary then he can pay me?