Don't Want to Ruin Your Life? Never Do These Things

[@JackOpulski]

One of the most perverse detrimental effects of loneliness is, you don't really care about your health

[@schulzhardy8342]

This is definitely true and sad thing is people don't realize it until its too late

[@TheBrazilianHue]

Thanks for saying that (out loud). I needed to understand that that's what I'm doing. Hell... Thanks.

[@christopherellis2663]

If they don't care for their own health, they likely lack in other ways, which is why they feel "lonely"

[@Anthonybrother]

@@christopherellis2663 what are you talking about, though?

[@jkl3199]

@@Anthonybrother yeah, I didn't get it either.

[@archerer98]

I had a bad experience with addiction. Lost my job, girlfriend, most friends, and nearly killed myself many times. After months in rehab and many years later with constant exercise I have been back to my old self. Or as close as I am going to get. Great Video!

[@adognamedbird]

Glad your better. Been there myself. Spent two years in the worst parts of Houston. Mostly downtown hooked on heroin based k2 garbage.

[@archerer98]

@carolyn Thanks!! :)

[@archerer98]

@@adognamedbird Thanks Sir! You know how it is. I hope you are doing good.

[@emwave100]

@HMQ YOLO

[@Chu_72]

How’s this comment 5 hours b4 the actual video

[@alexandratavares6612]

" Money doesn't buy happiness " Thoughty 2: Let me explain ...

[@MrFjordbak]

then i guess i have to rent it

[@Magnetis0101]

It can to a degree until you loose it all.

[@NexionSE]

haveing enough money so you dont scrape by on minimum choice of what to do keeps you from being unhappy.

[@caidenmurphy9486]

But what if you buy something you really like then does it buy happiness????

[@piccoloatburgerking]

Money doesn't buy happiness. It buys you the means to happiness. People that say money doesn't matter or doesn't matter too much do not have real experience with hardships.

[@SergeiKoshman86]

2:16 Good finances is important 9:05 Poor social skills 12:03 Poor relationship choices 13:12 Lack of Emotional Intelligence 14:25 Fail to work on the things we want to work on (focus and self-control) 16:12 (work on our dreams) 17:41 Addiction

[@blameekatoneikosipente482]

...so if you are living you are fcked. K

[@milflover6202]

U just described me :(

[@basilplushie2534]

@@milflover6202 same :(

[@addalad7144]

@@milflover6202LLLLLLLL

[@akarannathan]

Thanks man

[@EMShelley]

Sugar addiction. Coca-cola was always kept on hand in my household growing up. We basically drank it like water. (You could say... we were a family of "coke" addicts.. har har..) Not surprisingly, we all grew up morbidly obese. It wasn't until my mid twenties that I started trying to change my habits. I've become much healthier since then, but the damage has still been done. It's still going to take a lot of time and dedication and thousands of dollars in dental and cosmetic surgery before I finally start looking like an acceptable looking human being. Even right now, I'm struggling internally with my want to go out and get a cherry pepsi. Don't let this happen to you or your kids. Drink water, eat well, use portion control, and make sure you're exercising. Obesity and addiction isn't pretty.

[@noelledawnrucinski335]

I sincerely applaud you on this. The fact that you were raised on it and are fighting against it says way more about you than what society or the info in this video is trying to pin you down as. Keep moving forward. You definitely got this.

[@trentbrisket1159]

I'm assuming you guys never bothered to get some exercise?

[@EMShelley]

@@trentbrisket1159 HAHAHAHAha.. .. ha

[@christianxxx9393]

Nobody talks about parents when it comes to this... like your child could literally be gifted gods strength and be ruined by a bad diet

[@mobyhuge8623]

I'm a cola addict and I'm phsicslly fit.

[@abcabcq313]

Why did I think this was gonna be how shoes can ruin your life

[@justinanderson267]

How sneakers can run your life.

[@celestia277]

probably because we saw the thumbnail

[@kingsizedmidget7294]

Because the video was misleading

[@josephfox9221]

I was also disappointed by that not being it

[@kaseyfox6913]

HyBye ❶ i wish it was. i wasn’t trying to be depressed today

[@justclauz8746]

The reason I'm addicted to internet, is because of lack of social skills. Somehow, being online sort of feel like im socializing. Hope some can relate.

[@bizkit1337]

very relatable

[@Medietos]

yes, although I know that the PC can never be real social skilling but only social killing. Because the time you spend in the PC is stolen from your time with real ppl iRL. And the fake PC interaction weakens your feeling for real ppl , bereave you of the super-sensible energies of live people,and of having your own human energies being received by others. I very really feel a new human lack,which was confirmed by an energy therapist. Please start study and practise socializing before you cross the line where it is hardly possible anymore, We become strange in the end,and normal ppl shy away because we become void f human energy. People like healthy people, you see, even if the deprived, sick ones are really good inside behind the social lacks.

[@newfoundling9275]

Yeah....

[@rahul17023]

Join a sports club.

[@primesspct2]

I totally relate, a little scary. But I take my online friendships seriously, although I have to wonder if my friends do . All we can do is choose to be a good friend, and endeavor to reach out more, face to face and online.

[@The-Fishkeeper]

9:28 I can confirm this. I have autism and have struggled since around my early teens with socialising and making meaningful bonds with people and have been pretty much alone for last 12 years or so. Loneliness is physically painful, it makes your heart ache and at it's worst makes you feel like you're struggling for breath, not to mention the mental pain and feelings of absolute hopelessness.

[@bammerson]

i hope you have managed or manage to make the most memorable and beautiful relationships one day. i can’t possibly begin to tell you how much i’ll manifest and hope that for you and anyone else who’s in a similar situation. you’re a beautiful person. we’re all beautiful. you deserve to see that within yourself. you deserve love. you deserve those loving relationships. i understand being lonely and in pain. i deal with that everyday myself. please be safe❤️

[@abundantsunflower1107]

Go to the gym, counseling, support group, dance class, even a trade or college course, this is how you meet people. It’s so important to have connections!

[@amazinggrapes3045]

@@abundantsunflower1107 the problem is not lack of meeting people. The problem is their inability to empathize with you

[@MUSHROOM300]

I have all the symptoms that he mentioned with poor social skills... I am totally stressed and blame everyone for my issues... I get upset quickly, I continue arguments... I have all the signs and I can just feel the insanity coming closer and stronger everyday...

[@deathmerchant8662]

​@@MUSHROOM300 I play disc golf. I have played for 25+years. It allows me to get out and make contact with people when I choose to. Some times I just play all 18 holes by myself. But I slowly meet people and occasionally make a friend. But disc golf is always there and it helps me feel connected.

[@viktorbimmel4007]

Me being broke lonely and drunk: Yeah, exactly the video to motivate me.

[@forgefathereli8354]

i here you buddy. I'm so broke i can't even afford the drunk part. This phone was issued to me by the government and my wifi service seems to be currently coming from "7 oak st" even though I'm doing my 3 hour sit down in front of starbucks before they eventually tell me to leave, thankfully i hunkered down in my hometown, which they would kick me out of, if everyone around here didn't look at me and go "omg, isn't that "x"'s kid, or just (ELI WHAT HAPPENED!), didn't he grow up here, man how far we can fall" and usually give me a few bucks. I have horrible mental illness and honestly the only reason I'm here is because many suicide attempts have failed. I don't believe in god but i sure believe in the devil. cuz i think im in hell

[@improvedguy9434]

@@forgefathereli8354 Dark shit right there Man

[@albertgeorgy6827]

@@forgefathereli8354 take a job- any job you find...earn some money- rent a room somewhere and work overtime on whatever you think may change your life :) take it easy man- life is beautiful. It's not only about getting a really good job or about having tons of money and hundreds of friends! I wish i could help you and i really hope you'll get better and better!

[@forgefathereli8354]

@@albertgeorgy6827 Its not that i didn't or have stopped trying.. I'm the perfect example of the conditions talked about in this video. My lack of work ethic mixed with my mental illness makes it so that even if i push through the mental pain of not wanting to work i then get physical symptoms such as sweating so much it looks like i just swam laps in a pool even my shoes start to fill with sweat, no amount of gold bond that i can afford stops this. I also break out in a rash and get these strange bumps all over my hands particularly between my fingers, imagine thousands of painful zits forming all over including your balls, asshole, and taint. So to the point even in the rare event someone lets me work for them i break down in physical pain whether i be lifting stuff in the back room or working at customer service or being a states youngest ever elected mayor. But as people point out "how can you be so aware of your problems yet not fix them" which is why i never get social security because i don't pester the police, i don't make a scene. I use public facilities to bathe. So i don't eventually get sent to the psych ward for just standing their blank eyed for weeks. Because I fit a fucked up niche in this world, I'm the story of how you can still come from wealth, a good family, have all the benefits in the world, but between mental illness and poor choices anyone can end up on the streets. I think thats why they keep me here, when every other transient person I've ever witnessed come into my town has been handed 80$ and a bus pass.

[@forgefathereli8354]

@@improvedguy9434 I mean think about it, KNOWING your in hell would definitely take away from the existential dread that your entire life MIGHT be "a living hell"

[@furgel7717]

"poor social skills" My autistic ass: *worried laughter*

[@elaineb7065]

You have my ASD sympathy

[@portablerefrigerator4902]

Same

[@lyrimetacurl0]

"I'm in danger"

[@Dark-zt3kg]

Furgel imma kms now

[@christiantaylor1495]

I'm autistic as well.

[@Chriskasule]

Yup... He has completely embraced the lumberjack lifestyle with those suspenders.

[@mrwisefluffer]

C.squared π they are called braces, suspenders hold girls tights at their thighs. Just saying, I am a lumberjack.

[@anonb4632]

Suspenders? You never see his tights.

[@christineparis5607]

He's a lumberjack, and he's ok. He works all night, and sleeps all day...

[@Primalxbeast]

@@mrwisefluffer I think that would be called garders in American English. Suspenders in American English hold up your pants, although you may call pants trousers in British English and use the word, pants for underwear.

[@Primalxbeast]

@@mrwisefluffer I hope that sort of made sense, I've had 3 beers, but American and British English do differ a bit.

[@DamirUlovec]

That's it: I will quit my addiction to Thoughty2 videos and regain my life back. Thank you!

[@itsswatisaini]

Hey! How's the progress going so far?

[@newCoCoY6]

6:40 im no expert since i have not used a loan, but even in highschool we were taught that loans were invented so that people without money could start their business earlier allowing them to earn more money during their lifetime. Loans have interest rates because they should be used to earn money faster. Loans should be used strictly for earning more money, not on leisure or quality of life expenses.

[@nameless8937]

Edward Dizon facts

[@wesnohathas1993]

I hate the term "necessary debt" because there are often easy workarounds for these things that are widely considered "necessary" yet turn out to not be an immediate necessity or nearly as beneficial as they were made out to be. I really think going into debt is something people shouldn't be so lax about ...especially the government.

[@darthsawlex8257]

@@wesnohathas1993 Don't go to university for the sake of going is one good way to start life with debt. Never take out a payday loan - full stop. Don't waste money on a new phone if your old one is perfectly good if you aren't a moderately wealthy person. Don't by a car you can't afford to maintain.

[@jeffjones4654]

@@darthsawlex8257 Internet installment loans are just legalized loan sharking . I had to learn that lesson the hard way. They screwed me up so bad I was almost suicidal. Fortunately, I managed to get myself together and once I got rid of them it felt like a huge weight came off my shoulders.

[@SebastiaanVaz]

Well said

[@franciscoortega7938]

basically: don't do drugs, don't get in debt... don't buy drugs with credit or loans.. pay in cash.

[@DiselSun]

dam right, gonna do crack brb

[@Superduper666]

You forgot “don’t trust the media”.

[@Sankhretseul]

@@DiselSun crack is good

[@bastje]

@@Superduper666 Damn so right!

[@TheHelvetican]

Don't have a kid or get married too young.

[@Rockit-]

Some years ago now, I spoke with a nurse that looked after end of life patients (palative care) and I asked her the biggest thing those people felt with at their point in life - without missing a beat she said “regret” I asked “like what” again missing a beat, not following their dreams, what was important to them in their lives and now it’s just gone

[@EllieLynnCollins]

Rockit wow 👏👏

[@clawrence66]

I REGRET NOT KILLING MY EX

[@colossalc5219]

*WiTh OuT mIsSiNg A bEaT*

[@Hot_Hard_Cowboy]

You saying that lack of support and opportunity can ruin your life, honestly just made me feel so much less like a piece of crap than I have in years, I know you probably didn't mean for that to have such an impact, but you really made me hate myself a bit less, no one usually acknowledges how a lack of support can leave someone destined to fail, you are the first person I have heard that from, and I didn't even think about it myself until you said it, so thank you.. your short sentence made me feel so much less like garbage, I appreciate you and thank you for being so open minded and considerate with everything you say. You are a wonderful man and you make so many people's lives better with the content you provide, like how you just impacted my life without even probably having any intention of doing so with what you said.. thank you.

[@Pixiuchu]

Lack of support basically killed my girlfriend because no one was helping her properly when she was needing it (and hospitals further traumatized her). One day she met me (online through Discord), I started having a crush on her, accidentally turned into a relationship without even asking (we had to choose a date for our anniversary because our friendship slowly turned into a relationship and we had to ask ourselves "sooo... Are we dating now?" lol) aaaaand she forced me to support her because she was still extremely suicidal. She had no proper support up until then and even then I wasn't supporting her perfectly and she caused me a lot of struggle with my own happiness, quite honestly, because she just needed the support and quite literally relied on me. And I knew that if I gave up, she was definitely going to end up in a coffin, as I was the last person she could (unreliably) rely on. Honestly, some of my toughest times in my life, because I cared about her but didn't know how to support her. Fast forward two years later, we're still together, I'm able to support her much better. Her family is also better able to support her, especially her mother. So she has more support, she is feeling way better and is fighting her hospital trauma and also actually seeking therapy... And honestly, seeing her smile is just the most beautiful thing ever. I'm also feeling happier than ever before (even if the stupid pandemic is preventing us from living together). She's a lot more stable and she has come a long way since then. Oh, and I love her far more than I ever have before. All this pain of hers could have been avoided if she just got the support she needed from the get-go, though we would likely not have met if she did get the support. I don't know what this reply has to do with the comment, but I wrote it so take it as you will. (Also, it was complete coincidence that she lives relatively close to me because English is not our native language but we met on an English speaking Discord server lol)

[@tracesprite6078]

You are NOT a piece of crap or garbage. You are a unique human with your own preferences, quirks, quiet achievements, feelings of failure at times, valuable habits, habits that are not so good etc. Your presence is a gift to others in so many small and probably large ways. If some people are rude or dismissive towards you, that just shows their lack of perception and lack of good manners. Be quietly calm with them. Your worth continues regardless of what they think. I wish you well in all that you do. Please love and respect yourself and take the chance to enjoy yourself when you can.

[@squanchwater4715]

People just make others feel like crap because just like the cartoons, they want to make themselves feel more better about their life choices. It blows my mind on the kind of people that have tried to compared to me because I live with my parents... my own family members too. My cousin, he had his baby taken away and his wife cheats on him all the time and he calls me a peice of crap... best part, he also lives with his mom, and my mom was taking care of his son... and he calls me a peice of crap? Same thing with a friend of the family, she's a trophy girlfriend and a harlot... she only goes to her mom for money, and she's calling me a loser? Pretty much anyone who compares either has no life or they messed up their own. Anyone who compares is automatically a loser.

[@tracesprite6078]

@@squanchwater4715 That sounds so awful, being called names in that way. I'm glad that you are clear that those names are completely wrong for you. Those people seem to have a real problem with rudeness. What a pity! I don't know how you can deal with that except by ignoring it. It is perfectly OK to live with your parents. These days accommodation is very expensive and I'm sure you help your parents in all sorts of ways. They are very lucky to have you there. I hope that you are able to find some other friends who are more pleasant to be with. Sending you kind wishes.

[@squanchwater4715]

@@tracesprite6078 thank you really, but I'm serious, anyone saying that you suck is bullshitting you, just consider that person not important, less than you or something, they prove their worth to you by talking to you like that

[@alanarisano8768]

The financial stress definitely is a huge factor. Paying the last bill off and owning my house and car outright has been the biggest relief in my life

[@samahamara8543]

What kinda job and income did u need to have and how long did it take u?

[@silentstorm5439]

​@@samahamara8543 the biggest factor is what kind of car and house you're getting

[@catey62]

Good on you for achieving that goal, you should be very proud of yourself. not many can get that far in life and I admire those that do.

[@skoobydu1364]

Bruh this is the goal. Next is to start a family (for me)

[@genatorbol]

Good work. Now keep your monthly outflow down while building that retirement portfolio! And go see the world during (not after) cheers!!

[@d_y_n_a_m_o]

"Migraines, insomnia, pain, not wanting to go to work, ect." How'd he know every single, minor detail of my life?

[@user-zu1ix3yq2w]

Right? Fk

[@pieterniemandt1733]

Just smoke a weed and dont give shit.

[@AnonymousUser77254]

@@pieterniemandt1733 wow, what a life to emulate.

[@pieterniemandt1733]

@@AnonymousUser77254 My other motto is to never be late for work, drive a new car every 4 years and smoke some weed inbetween. People stress because they have to provide for all the babies they made and hope the boss dont screw his wife for her next promotion. Rather be the boss with no tails behind your back. Now that is life without any stress. Zero.

[@kobejordan5518]

@suny123boy1 Sucky job then there are lots that don't and if anything use fake piss. Don't know what im talking about? Look into it works wonders.

[@brianartillery]

I've always enjoyed being on my own, and I have never, ever felt lonely, or thought: "I need to find somebody." Ever. I'm with Jean-Paul Sartre on this: "L'enfer c'est les autres." ("Hell is other people"). I work at night, alone, in a good job, and have done so for nearly 30 years. I'm perfectly happy with that.

[@ISS_AM]

@[TSA]canal mais variado/ most random channel you can work on that

[@ISS_AM]

@Lurker M thats weirr

[@abradolfhonkler9287]

People are awesome. Just stay away from cities.

[@pieterniemandt1733]

Yeah l spend more money on travelling and my PC than on girls. Just get a few fuck buddies to ease the pressure now and then. Rest of the time l save up money for my next trip and play lots of PC games to keep me out of trouble.

[@BodyMusicification]

what do you do for work?

[@jakubedwardschiffauermedraj]

11:19 - “...especially when loneliness, traditionally high in the elderly, has been growing in young adults and teenagers, it’s no wonder, then, that in the U.K. alone...” “Upon my word! even the U.K. is lonely!” This is a splendid video, by the way! Good work!

[@The-rr8ze]

I thought the title was “these sneakers can ruin your life”

[@jeffsnow7749]

What would a podiatrist say!

[@anigeriantaxidriver5040]

Mornin Keith

[@manbearpigwa]

my first reaction after reading your comment was "those peanut-chocolate killer bars!"

[@oleksiyalkhazov9201]

Just do it xDD

[@bumfist88]

I read it and thought “bad shoes can ruin your life? Wth?”

[@antoniomaglione4101]

In a Tom Clancy book I once read: "The nice things in life, are either immoral, illegal, or make you fat". Thanks for the great video. After a life of experiences the things you list looks sort of deja-vu, as learned, lived, and forgotten. The target that, in the end, didn't fall. But for many, possibly too many, in the midst of those horrible situations, your overarching description of one's mind weaknesses, can effectively help many in the middle of precarious situations. Almost all ancient phylosophers agree on one fact, the same that you conclude the video: the most difficult journey of one's life, is the journey into one's own mind. Gnosce te ipsum...

[@anonb4632]

Clancy's wrong... Many nice things in life don't fall into these categories, like the beautiful walk I went on today.

[@csehestedt94]

I'm watching this as if I am not already doing pretty well already at destroying my life.

[@48pluto]

I was in the same position. Then i called a Indian financial advisor to help me out. Now i don't have to worry about my money anymore 😉

[@gumunduringigumundsson9344]

@@48pluto how so? Summarize please. He helps you organize for a reasonably small fee?

[@gumunduringigumundsson9344]

Hey Carl. Still fighting, still got options,.. maybe we should call India daily to remind us what to do that day and have 20$ return on the deposit per day when we don't waste that day totally.. hmmms hmms .. I definitely need something like that.. Married a lady that sadly is just as unorganized as I am.. and told me 30 minutes ago she's sleeping elsewhere for a few days because she can kick my ass and throw insults over me in front of anyone.. i'm not allowed to ask her to go back to the doctor for a mental check.. hahaha! Whatever. Decided now.. Going to school again and hiring an Indian organizer. She can keep her nasty attitude elsewhere as long as she wants. I'm focusing on me now. Almost 40.. dumped all but one buddies last year due to toxicity and disrespect and troublemaker in their behaviour. Just keep swimming.. land ahead. GL HF buddy.

[@hitblank2320]

That's why you have money to spend on patreon

[@gumunduringigumundsson9344]

@Eric Schimmer not just freeload but abuse in disguise as "mentoring" (bernian) or.. yes alwas cut you short and demand and dont give back same feeling and demand praise when they do a little bit.. walk into your kitchen in theyre shoes .. try to get you hooked on something theyre buddy produces.. or give your other friends the eye to scare them off .. many kinds.. complain about they're own long time and have no time to listen.. theyre always more right then you just by inunating with theyre tone like theyre more grown up.. Basically many types that all thrive on having a "bitch" buddy... just cuz he's well raised and honest and maybe a little coactive or gullible. Many things to consider. Good to talk about it with other people maybe uncle, and get a fresh look and honest opinion on it from someone not involved. Maybe you're just tired and took it too badly and sonetimes you learn you should stay far away from them.. best to listen then.

[@thehangmansdaughter1120]

Before my beloved Grandad died, in his 09s, he gave me some advice. He said, don't drink, don't smoke and don't gamble. These things can strangle the life out of your future. They keep you poor, they keep you sick and they keep you from those you love. He was a very wise man, married for 67 years, 8 children, 24 grandchildren and 17 great grandchildren. And loved by us all.

[@wades623]

not being good at the socializing thing probably doesn't help but it is so difficult to find any sort of relationship now unless you have the most money and or new stuff. I've literally had people stop responding when I said what my job was before. I suppose finding relationships like that might be possible now but is is far less likely that it used to be

[@user-yr7sy6ev9v]

It’s encouraging to me that even if I’m not great at everything, I’m constantly improving. I’m exercising more, making more freinds and better freinds, slowly improving my bad work ethic etc

[@adogonearth9519]

Papa Bless What a nice comment. Love the positive attitude :)

[@darthsawlex8257]

Very wholesome indeed!

[@sarnau7566]

@To Release is To Resolve It was obviously a typographical error.

[@adogonearth9519]

To Release is To Resolve Good boy can spell the word “friend”👏 We are all very impressed. Here’s a lollipop 🍭 you deserve it.

[@Ice.muffin]

Bad work ethics such as? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[@JustLeonOfficial]

everyone has two lives, the second one begins when you realise you only got one...

[@yoursubconscious]

Life Of Lypo - 🤜🤛

[@Technicallyaddicted]

everyone needs to hear this

[@dome4205]

@@Technicallyaddicted bro you scare me why u also have dome and 420 in ya name?

[@Marquis-Sade]

What? Everone only has one live.

[@ItzLight]

r/I'm14andthisisdeep

[@threeMetreJim]

I've had a serious addiction for my whole life: Food. I tried to give it up by going cold turkey, but almost died.

[@TheScrootch]

I've quit food about 5 years ago. I've never felt better!

[@jacksonpercy8044]

@@TheScrootch Your name and pfp fit your comment so perfectly.

[@brenton2561]

Maybe try to quit breathing first, and then quitting eating will be a peice of cake😉😆

[@jordanmchighlander9365]

@@brenton2561 How do you do that? I tried it once and passed out. :(

[@sweetpea9347]

Try warming the turkey next time.

[@PantsuMann]

Anything that can be used will be abused, one way or another by someone. Great video. The tobacco part hit home. I use snus(the things we scandinavians put under our lips) and was a direct result of depression. If I had met the people I know today earlier, I might not have started using it. But I'm a firm believer that its all on me to blame for taking cheap escape routes in life. Dont do any drugs, cigarettes or snus, drink mildly and have fun in your lives. If you are in struggle, try to get over it, be free from addiction or whatever else is bugging you. When you get old that success will be your most valued memory.

[@djs9931]

Uh oh my life is already ruined... I can’t stay focused on my studies.

[@xpdatabase1197]

You got to try harder, like he said focus is just like a muscle. It can get stronger, and from my personal experience that is very true.

[@djs9931]

xpdatabase11 yup.

[@GroundSound]

@@djs9931 dextroamphetamine, a life changer

[@RoastHardy]

Smoke more rock, toke more weed, pop more pills, play some more Gran Turismo Sport.

[@cizeek9748]

Don't worry mate, study isnt everything. Just stay positive and try to think more long term :)

[@murphynder3522]

Nobody: Me, a socially awkward, not good with emotions and with only 100€ in savings: Am I dead?

[@christiantaylor1495]

Listen to free stoic audiobooks by Epictetus, Seneca, and Marcus Aurelius then

[@Zombarakh]

I can't save anything because of the college guzzler.

[@murphynder3522]

@@christiantaylor1495 i'll give it a listen. Thanks!

[@JamesBond-xx1lv]

100€?? Lol you rich... Compared to me.

[@murphynder3522]

@@JamesBond-xx1lv forgot to say that I'm 19 years olf hahah

[@WPFreeinternet]

At least I am doing okay with fi- "loneliness". Aight, Imma bow out.

[@northerngryphon6933]

Beats being married and alone.

[@oxyrisin]

I felt that. 😌

[@JuicyJerm]

My wife and I were doing decently good before covid hit. When the shutdown happened she lost her job and was denied unemployment for a technical issue, and my hours were cut by two thirds. We lost our home shortly after. The stress of everything caused depression, panic attacks, and I had a major heart attack at the age of 33. I'm in good shape, eat healthy, just had a minor heart condition that was agitated by the massive amount of stress. We are finally getting back on our feet. Thank God for my beautiful, strong, amazing wife. Not only taking care of the kids but also me while I was recovering.

[@Dcc357]

"Smoke more crack. Drink more booze. Play more Call of Duty." The ultimate endless cycle of death.

[@oz_jones]

Don't chase the dragon

[@johanjonsson6504]

Life goals*

[@PiratePawsLive]

One has to be drunk and on drugs to play COD for a long time xD. Seems like everything goes activisions way^^

[@PiratePawsLive]

@@nbv464 yea, im rank 57

[@johnhouse9983]

Yeah i thought scam was some sort of crime until i tried Smoking Crack And Maturbating.

[@mellohere6305]

Poor social skills: Guy texting: Hi. Hoe *Social Skills 100*

[@stephen9381]

*outstanding move*

[@Takito_Loko]

10:37

[@A1Yola_cooker187]

You belong to the city streets

[@Nuezake]

I rushed to the comments to see if anyone else noticed this.

[@Giogro]

@@Nuezake me too hhshhshshhahaha

[@spier17]

"Smoke more crack, drink more booze, play more Call of Duty." Thoughty2 2020. Words to live by.

[@henryrussell8800]

The problem is that most of us have to go through it and experience it in order to learn. The blessing is recognizing when you are at the bottom and changing to correct the destructive pattern. I was blessed and I pray that you are blessed as well. It can get better if you choose to make it better. God bless

[@fairysnuff-000]

This is one of the best comments on here, and unfortunately it seems to have become lost… I’m three years late to your comment but boy, did it stop me in my tracks!!!

[@henryrussell8800]

@@fairysnuff-000 Thank you for your kind words. I pray that you are ok

[@fairysnuff-000]

@@henryrussell8800 I don’t know what your ‘bottom’ was, but I lived a very unhealthy life, physically, emotionally and spiritually through many years of drug addiction My behaviour socially was appalling, and I reacted to not being able to cope by blanking everything out with using… In 12 step groups, I learnt that I needed to change my behaviour and reactions, and that was the only way to stay clean… I wish of course that I had learnt better ways to cope from the start, but we can never go backwards I related so much to your comment… Thankyou …. Stay healthy and happy…

[@drenandtarb]

"Financial stress is harmful" - Well this video can't get worse, let me just watch a little more "Poor social skills cause loneliness which is harmful" - Ouch well, surely we're at thie video's peak. "Video games and Internet usage are harmful addictions" - AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH

[@TheCyberTroll]

i see im not the only one having to take a look in the mirror. why is this life thing so fucking hard?

[@elizaj8182]

@@TheCyberTroll Because it makes the good things mean more. :) If it were the easiest thing in the world to do something like write a novel or start a family, etc. then we'd never appreciate anything. More than that, if life were easy we'd seriously be BORED out of our minds. We'd basically want to die from boredom if everything was easy, lol. I'm sorry if you're struggling, though.

[@29DPT]

dren andtarb thanks to COVID-19

[@josephburdette2407]

elizaJ 8 this is facts. If it sucks, it’s likely good for you. Gotta have that self discipline

[@lshurr]

No! No! It can't be! Not my video games and not my internet usage! Anything but those! Actually, video games and internet usage are just two of the many things that some people become addicted to. My dad was a recovering alcoholic who had 40 years of sobriety when he passed away. In the latter half of his life, he had a second career as a counseling psychologist specializing in the treatment of addiction. He told me that one of the things he learned was that it seems as though it's possible to become addicted to almost anything. One of his clients was addicted to reading. If this guy picked up a book and started reading while getting ready to go to work, he would not make it to work that day.

[@johnhandfasting2773]

1 Never gamble house always wins 2 life below your means. 3. Make every pound, dollar, etc work to the max. 4. Never borrow money or at least keep as low as possible. 5 always have a rainy day fund save from every pay check even if it is only a 1 pound, dollar, etc 6. Not only know how much you earn down to the last pound, etc but also how much goes out. 7. Never impulse buy wait at least 6 months from the latest must have item. 8.never keep up with the Jones 9. Use cash as much as possible 10 always review the best bang for your buck and what your earning potential is

[@mikebereziuk6041]

Me: sees this title and laughs Thoughty2: calls me out from everything including my childhood. Me:😲😲

[@survivalvidsb-roll6321]

Like a psychic who picks 85 different things just to appear to be psychic or super conscious.

[@torin6]

Should have titled this video "The 5 signs of Kali Yuga or The four pillars of the doomed ones if you combine poor social skills with poor relationship choices, " For dramatic effect! Almost shed a tear when Arran said "The important fights we win are not the ones in a ring but the ones we face against ourselves." A bit tricky when someone has no idea who they are. KZbin, How does someone even know who they are?

[@roguepencil47]

"The important fights we win aren't the ones in the ring, but the ones we face against ourselves..."

[@anasmouakkil7967]

This is so serious, that Beethoven is playing the background

[@tectusprime9240]

Mr Beethoven lives upstairs

[@balakae6955]

Beethoven’s black

[@stephen9381]

Beethoven’s iridescent

[@Arirezz]

@@stephen9381 is that the Ballard?

[@switchbranch8411]

I mean can’t blame him for using it, it’s good and copyright free

[@kinglouis6974]

I grow up in the 90’s well late 80’s And that was a in healthy time to live in U.K. the rave and clubbing days ... I wouldn’t change it but .. I spent many days awake dancing and spending 😎😎😎 In my 40’s now and just started growing up 😱

[@crispyGPU]

I started watching your videos thinking "what could go wrong". Now it seems, Thoughty2 I can't quit you. I'm addicted to random interesting facts and whimsicle moustachios. It's probably not a real addiction. You did say in your video in your video it was okay and I am sure that is backed by science, data, heavy drinking and a possitive mind set... So nevermind. Seems I'm good. Loving the vids. Thanks man. cheers

[@JeremyDeere]

Best video of yours I’ve watched for me personally. You made me realize I have an addiction to speculating on comic books and buying them before they spike in price. It gives me this need to get them before I can’t afford them but in doing so I can’t afford things I’d rather have. I’m taking a serious step back from comics for a while and focusing on real life. Thank you. Seriously.

[@PurpleOboe3]

I can’t be a handsome mustached youtuber, I don’t have a mustache.

[@jordanmchighlander9365]

You can buy one of Amazon.

[@benzpinto]

me neither. we can be friends then. lol

[@TheMasterPhase]

Its 2020 you can be a handsome youtuber with a mustache I myself am a city lion trying to start a pride but people run away from from a guy in full lion

[@sleep3417]

@@benzpinto Simp

[@domino2278]

could let the clam grow a beard. ?

[@andresgonzalez1236]

I've been having thoughts lately about how we only have one life and it really is short. I can even admit that lately, I have become fearful of death. Idk if this is what a midlife crisis is but this video really helps cope with it. I'm glad youtube recommended this. And thank you for this video.

[@agalah408]

Yes it sucks, so keep carpin all them diems. Don't finish up like Grandpa Simpson: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fp7GaWRvh7KJi6c Seriously, consider the words of Robert Heinlein He makes more sense than most on this topic: "There is no reward at all for doing what other people expect of you, and to do so is not merely difficult, but impossible. It is easier to deal with a footpad than it is with the leech who wants "just a few minutes of your time, please-this won't take long." Time is your total capital, and the minutes of your life are painfully few. If you allow yourself to fall into the vice of agreeing to such requests, they quickly snowball to the point where these parasites will use up 100 percent of your time-and squawk for more! So learn to say No-and to be rude about it when necessary. Otherwise you will not have time to carry out your duty, or to do your own work, and certainly no time for love and happiness. The termites will nibble away your life and leave none of it for you. (This rule does not mean that you must not do a favor for a friend, or even a stranger. But let the choice be yours. Don't do it because it is "expected" of you.)” ― Robert A. Heinlein, Time Enough for Love

[@adammurray7761]

I’m 37 nearly died 3 times. I’ve even been on full life support in a coma for 4 weeks. I don’t remember being in any pain. Death doesn’t scare me anymore.

[@DaFinkingOrk]

Probably a good sign to be fearful or death (as weird as that sounds). Either means that you are happy with what you have and want to keep enjoying it as long as possible, or that you are hopeful and engaged about the future and what you can enjoy and do. I'm not scared of dying specifically but the idea of not having a wide experience of live and being satisfied by what I've done scares me. But it's very easily possible to do that while still being alive. So how alive are we if we're just going through the motions and not engaging with what we do, or doing any of the things we want to? Without that we're just wasting time I think. So I think I know what you mean.

[@tracesprite6078]

I hope you can turn your understandable fear of death into a love of life so that you treasure even quite ordinary moments e.g. a trip on a bus, the arrival of Christmas decorations in the shops, someone being kind to a child, a dog trotting past obediently with its human ... they are all quiet treasures.

[@Franciscasieri]

7M years ago we were kicked out of trees... You are reading this because we tapped into the quantum universe... Your mass is made up of mostly Neutrons which is .01% heaver then a proton (it decays into a proton) replaced every 10 minutes or so... If this difference in mass between neutrons and protons wasn't exactly what it is you wouldn't have mass and reading this text. Either we won't remember we ever lived or somehow we survive death into this quantum world.... Understanding all of this will help you live each day with the knowledge that you really shouldn't be here....none of us... Try to enjoy the time you have left.... Read...study...yearn for knowledge.... This beauty is possible because of the exact time you are living in now... What are you afraid of again?

[@zlostnypopolnik]

They should teach us everything about finances at school. This should be one of the most important topics in school. They don't do it. Why? I guess we all know it's happening on purpose.

[@mg659er]

how would the elite stay in power then? Think! :-)

[@zlostnypopolnik]

@@mg659er Doesn't my comment mean that I'm thinking? Think! :-)

[@mg659er]

zlostnypopolnik it was a sarcastic think but you know this, don't think too much lol

[@ajnero4505]

Yeah no. It isn't as easy as it sounds. In many schools it's already being taught but teenagers being teenagers don't care and just see it as another annoying and unnecesary class. Those same teenagers usually are the adults who post things like "whY Didn'T scOoL tEaCH me tHIs!!1!!???"

[@zlostnypopolnik]

@@ajnero4505 I don't know what teachers teach in other countries, but in my country they only teach us to find a job after school, because if you don't work, you will die of hunger. They will not teach us anything about banks, money and insurance companies. They do it on purpose. Find a job, take a mortgage, go into debt for 30 years and live as you can. I'm not complaining here, I'm just telling the facts.

[@QualeQualeson]

"The unconscious has a thousand ways of snuffing out a meaningless existence" - C.G. Jung.

[@osse1n]

Inaction and passiveness are really sneaky ways to spoil life in a toilet

[@rougeakane]

Omg it’s you again!! :O

[@Necro2Juggalo]

Look If you had One shot To sit on your lazy butt And watch all the TV you ever wanted Until your brain turned to mush Would you go for it Or just let it slip? Yo Remote is ready Eyes wide, palms are sweaty There's Flintstone's on the TV already Wilma N' Betty No virgin to channel surfin And I'm HD ready So I flip, garbage is all I'm getting There's Simon Cowell Who folks wanna disembowel He opens his mouth, always says something foul They're dying, Wow! Wannabe's are crying now He votes them out Time to throw in the towel Show's based on reality Oh the humanity! Oh! Ozzy's family! Sho' loves profanity! Whoa! The insanity! Oh! Dogs that crap and pee Home of depravity? No! They live happily Yo! Plus "The Ali G Show" And "Celebrity Mole" Oh there's Anna Nicole She's scaring me "Look ma, no cavities!" Oh! It's a station break Better go out to the kitchen and microwave something "You're gonna lose your mind watchin TV" They told me, they'd scold me But I still tune in every show (show) My cable gets C-SPAN, TV Land and HBO The Travel Channel, Discovery, and Lifetime (yo) "You're gonna lose your mind watchin' TV" They told me, cajoled me "Turn off those music videos!" (no!) I'm gonna watch C-SPAN TV Land and HBO The History Channel and QVC and Lifetime (yo) "You're Gonna..." My butt is aching As I watch NASCAR racing That show about undertaking Larry King to "24" to "Law and Order" The Weather Channel's boring like 60 Minutes Ancient reporters next up on "E True Hollywood Story" The rise and decline of twelve actors named Corey Shows for next fall, they've already been naming "CSI: Boise", and "Touched By An Uncle", both sound prettying lame, man so does "Everybody Tolerates Raymond" and "King of Queens" jumped the shark the first minute I can't believe Richard Simmons ain't in it. I'll move right on to "8 Simple Rules for Dating My Teenaged Daughter" Then I bet I'll watch "The Bachelorette" Followed by "Welcome Back, Kotter" And "The Muppet Show" where they go "Mahna Mahna" "You're gonna lose your mind watching TV" They told me, they'd scold me But I still tune in every show (show) My cable gets C-SPAN, TV Land and HBO The Disney Channel, and A&E and Lifetime "You're gonna lose your mind watching TV" They told me, cajoled me But I still love Lisa Kudrow (drow) I'm lookin' at C-SPAN, TV Land and HBO The Playboy Channel and Court TV and Lifetime (yo) Never missed "Melrose Place" or "Lost in Space" I've seen each "Amazing Race" and "Without a Trace" But I only watched "Will and Grace" one time one day Wished I hadn't cause TiVo now thinks I'm gay Oh, and "Fear Factor" I watched maybe a half hour After that felt like I needed a long shower Network execs with ***** ambition "Next week on FOX - watch lions eat Christians!" Like to tie up those programming planners Make'em watch all of that junk 'til their heads explode just like "Scanners" Leech-covered grub-eating fools on "Survivor" Look, there's James Lipton discussing the oeuvre of Mr. Rob Schneider And there's Gilligan and SpongeBob, plus there's MacGyver And Jay Leno has got Madonna and hey, there's Luke Perry And a special all pig-latin episode of "Drew Carey" Wanna turn on ET cause I'm a gossip freak And I gotta know who J. Lo is marryin' this week A 30 second spot, then we come back to "Are You Hot?" I was planning on recording "The Sopranos". I forgot! I love shows with or without a plot I stare 'til my legs are numb, my eyes bloodshot Because I only have got one brain to rot I'm gonna spend my life watching television a lot "You're gonna lose your mind watching TV" They told me, they'd scold me But I still tune into every show (show) My cable's gets C-SPAN, TV-Land, and HBO The Sci-Fi Channel and AMC and Lifetime (yo!) "You're gonna lose your mind watching TV" They told me, cajoled me, "Turn off that Oprah Winfrey show!" (no!) I got it on C-SPAN, TV Land and HBO The Learning Channel and MTV and Lifetime (yo!) You can watch anything you want to, man.

[@imadeyoureadthis1]

The purpose of life is on it's name ->life = live So by living you fulfill your purpose. Also all life spoils because everyone dies. But if you are into things, try and be better.

[@buddinglearner7085]

Hey Bro please are you addicted to youtube

[@nealkelly9757]

I can attest to this unfortunately.

[@MrArdytube]

Another thing is “who are your friends”. This has a huge impact on your life. Often people do not select their friends, but rather just become friends with people who happen into their lives. And people seldom choose to terminate existing friendships that are negative or wasted influences on their life

[@Istandby666]

My senior year, a pilot friend of ours was talking with some of his friends at his hanger. While walking by, I heard Gordon say, if I knew then what I know now. I would have done the things he wanted while he was young enough, to do them. Instead of going to college out of high school, i decided to travel. But this time it's on my terms. Thanks to Greyhound for all the memories crossing this country.

[@thisisnotok2100]

"unless of course, its an addiction to my videos" *pause* *like* *resume*

[@alrumuller9300]

I’ve been watching this channel for years and I am now convinced he says “forty two” and not Thoughty2

[@BeaverThe01.]

it's probably a reference to the Douglas Adams book where the main character finds a big supercomputer in space and asks it to tell him the meaning of existence to which the machine replies with just a number (42) on a screen...

[@yusurkassem4174]

I always thought it was forty two until i read the channel name😂

[@lickmyfuckinnuts]

You are correct, he explains it in one of his previous videos. I'm not sure which video it was but...

[@tomo4635]

Captions prove that

[@lokisingularity3394]

Yah, I noticed he says forty-two

[@DirkBotha]

Paid my mortgage in 6 years. Here's how: 1. STOP BUYING CRAP YOU DON'T NEED! If it does not directly effect your ability to stay alive, It's a luxury. i.e. If it's not food, water or shelter: YOU DO NOT NEED IT! 2. NEVER TRUST A SALES-PERSON Their entire career revolves around lying to you. This goes double for any kind of advertising. Keep in mind: A sales-person is just one person lying to you. Advertising on the other hand, is a carefully crafted lie, manufactured by a whole team of people. Don't trust either of them, do your own research and refer back to rule 1. 3. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A SALE! There is only a SPEND! You might be spending less than you normally would, but you are still SPENDING! i.e.: NOT-SAVING. 4. DO NOT ENTER INTO ANY KIND OF DEBT/CREDIT AGREEMENT Keep in mind, making debt of any kind, is the modern equivalent of selling yourself into SLAVERY! The struggle for freedom is real! The way you fight is to make sure you don't give the enemy any weapons or ammunition against you. Remarkably, it's easy to fight, all you have to do is: STAY AWAY FROM DEBT! Rule 5. FOR WOMAN Remember: He's a strong, independent man. He has his own job and should buy his own stuff. Yes, he can get those tools/toys/cars FOR HIMSELF! If he wants you to get it for him, he is NOT a strong, independent man. He is still a boy and you should not even be in the same room as him. Rule 5. FOR MEN Remember: She's a strong, independent woman. She has her own job and should buy her own stuff. Yes, she can get those flowers/jewels/clothes/shoes/phones/cars FOR HERSELF! If she wants you to get it for her, she is NOT a strong, independent woman. She is still a girl and you should not even be in the same room as her. Financial freedom is easy, there is no magic, there is no trick, no clever moves or quick solutions. While others were bragging about their latest smart-phone and flat-screen TV, I was walking around with a outdated feature-phone, and watching TV on a 25 year old set. Every cent I would have spent on that fancy new phone/tv/car went to pay off my mortgage. That bit of planning and discipline, helped me pay it off 14 years EARLY. Yea, I did not hang with the cool-crowd. But then again, that same cool-crowd now think I'm the coolest thing since sliced-bread, because I'm hardly over 40 and seriously considering semi-retirement. TL;DR: You work hard for your money, don't blow it on crap you don't actually and factually need!

[@grimmer2005]

Good one, but you forgot "Never ever marry!"

[@firstnamelastname-rf8lt]

Why would you want toys

[@paganizondasroadster1660]

Thank you sir I appreciate it a lot.

[@DirkBotha]

@@grimmer2005 all too true.

[@murdavashy]

Then you die and someone comes and takes all that money, your almost 40 years old.. buy yourself a t.v. And while your at it get Netflix. Live a little bro 💜

[@ericgarcia4745]

The quarantine has been bad on mental health for many.

[@Medietos]

It was meant to,to destroy our human feelings,core essens, aspirations to develop our higher self,which is slumbering unconscious in most of us. We have to want realizing ourselves even stronger than before. It is so well worth it,they say who did it.

[@DaFinkingOrk]

For most people it has done more harm than covid ever could I bet. For me it was a blessing in disguise because I seriously needed to sort other things out and it gave me the time to do so, but it certainly must have really harmed a great many people (maybe even most people). All I hope is that it may make people appreciate more the connections we have with others and remind us all that nothing is certain or truly predictable, that we must engage in the moment we are in. Good always comes from bad things. As bad as the deaths and the quarantine/lockdowns alike have been for everyone, I just hope that many people will be helped by perspective it will have given them. Only time will tell, in a few years we'll know.

[@exposingproxystalkingorgan4164]

The virus restrictions are causing me to become smarter by watching all kinds of educational videos.

[@gogle5238]

Don't believe yourself too much bro...

[@josephgladu1827]

Nice man, but videos will only take you so far. Take this time to pick up some books.

[@lecirquevagabond]

Amen

[@morwennaforatenner604]

@@josephgladu1827 I haven't read much this year, what do you recommend?

[@romuloroman]

This is not one of them!

[@hitlersmissingtesticle69]

I watched this video expecting it to teach me something new like usual. But my grandmother had most of this pounded into my head from a young age because she messed her life up. Thank you Nana❤️

[@Myrius69]

That's heart warming 💕 All the best to you Hitlers Missing Testicle

[@jebidiahnewkedkracker1025]

I gave you a like because THAT is a pretty unique "nom de plume" you have: "Hitler's Missing Testicle"😂😂

[@hitlersmissingtesticle69]

@@jebidiahnewkedkracker1025 😂 I appreciate the like jebidiah! the whole reason for the name is to catch people off guard, it does that quiet often aha

[@thecheck968]

Thoughty2: And there's one thing that will ruin your life worse of all Me: Slapping a child Thoughty2: Addiction Me: *oh.*

[@Phantom914]

Thoughty2: And there's one thing that will ruin your life worse of all Me: Molesting your child. Thoughty2: Addiction Me: OH.

[@No-xw7mo]

Phantom914 That explains why my life is still intact.

[@background553]

Every addiction is pretty bad except an addiction to watching his videos

[@DavidMedina-lu1wf]

That was funny, before he finishes his point you throw out the answer, I can even picture you hitting your fist on the table as as sign of an amazing answer lmao

[@michaelbasgall8924]

by far one of the most useful video's i've seen on youtube. It's a wakeup call. Thank you so much, Thoughty2. You may have saved a person's life with this video.

[@TheNightRichard]

17:11 that's great advice. Every time I tell one of my kids to do something and they say "but I don't wanna", I tell them they might as well get accustomed to it, because adult life is one long series of doing things you don't want to do. My wife always says I'm being negative, but it looks like I was right (as usual).

[@96GamerAlex]

"And you're probably doing atleast 1 of them allready" Me: Looks around in panic at everything in my tiny, yet overflooded, 30 square meters apartment. "Well f*** me then"

[@clover7359]

7:07 _"Necessary Debt"_ How tragic is it that we find ourselves in positions where it is necessary to enslave ourselves to some lender in order to continue existing?

[@wesnohathas1993]

At this point, these people are seriously stretching what qualifies as a "need".

[@seditt5146]

@@wesnohathas1993 Yup that is all it is about. Everyone is convinced they need to be in higher standings than their own work should give them so they put themselves in debt in hopes of paying back and making up for the bills to get there instead of just growing organically and making it happen without debt. It would be like a KZbinrs immediately starting a channel and shelling out 10k dollars to higher advertisement and bots. If they do not put in the work to make that useful, it does not matter. If they put in the work they could have likely gained the same but it would have taken longer. Idk, I kinda explained it poorly because I am in a rush but you get the point I hope.

[@JD-wi2kg]

How are you supposed to just buy a house?

[@seditt5146]

@@JD-wi2kg Why are houses valued well over what anyone can reasonably afford out of pocket? We have a debt based economy that causes more problems than it solves at this point.

[@BeetleBuns]

@@seditt5146 you need to buy the materials to build the house, pay the people that build the house, pay the people that design the house, pay the people that inspect the house, wire the house, do the plumbing, paint, and a load of other things. It's VERY expensive to construct a house, so they are valued highly. The price is high because the costs to produce it are high.

[@ruiwenzeng5807]

Hi! Started watching your videos recently and I’ve become addictive to them. I found it’s funny that, as a Chinese, What you have said in this video is what my parents, and all Chinese patients are saying to their children every single day. It’s common sense in China. But I still appreciate what you have said in here, because looks like it’s new to some people. And they need to hear it.

[@thefreeman26]

Stop watching porn lads, he didn't mention it but we should call it out for what it is, an addiction.

[@sheepketchup9059]

Sugar too, right? It wouldn't be a problem if you didn't develop psychological dependence or physical dependence on that thing.

[@B13e]

You're right. Porn has ruined many of my relationships because i found myself wanting to watch the porn more than being with her, was heartbreaking for a while. I couldn't stop but now I'm seeing a psychiatrist for it and he recommended that i do 4 sticks if heroin a night along with licking my dog. The treatment hasn't been better, ROOF ROOF

[@ghost_strucid6579]

No fap ayheee

[@Guilherme-nc5li]

That's why I stick to r/worldpolitics nowdays

[@mickael8361]

Not like I watch about 1k video a year... (No joke have watched 3k over 3y)

[@benb1738]

This should be titled "Watch This Video and Get Anxiety"

[@IrishCarney]

Oh, did we mention that anxiety can ruin your life?

[@zeromailss]

I don't think I need more advice on how to ruin my life, I'm an expert with twenty years of experience

[@Primalxbeast]

You're but a novice, I've had 49 years of experience in said subject.

[@NexionSE]

scrub

[@tominee9458]

That is subjective

[@Real_MisterSir]

notice how all these people have an immediate desire to see their own relation to your topic and assert their own superiority as a mask for their real struggle.. This, too, is a fine display of how to ruin one's life and attitude in general. I think your 20 years of experience is great, I would hire you in a heart beat!

[@vannalistairtadas6739]

Maybe it's time to turn it all around.

[@Navigator87110]

"Not many successful people enjoy the work they do." Very true. Many writers will tell you they hate writing... but love having written.

[@alphabetagammaxyz]

Yes. I used to work in academia. I hated writing scientific reports and theses but it was the feeling of accomplishment I felt when I produced another page, paragraph or even just one sentence which made me keep going.

[@Grey_Warden_Invasion]

While reading a novel it's very noticeable though if the writer actually liked to write it or absolutely hated it.

[@brihypron]

I felt attacked when he started talking about loneliness

[@michalvalta5231]

That's probably due to your poor social skills and emotional inteligence... Apparently. ;-D

[@freakwants2play458]

So many people felt that. You’re not alone in your loneliness. As fucked up as that sounds 😂

[@yungMajin909]

Cant keep a job for long time everytime my view in life from my loneliness crashes against reality then makes me emotionally unstable at times. Spend nights drinking and smoking alone but all this is gunna make you feel more disconnected from the world. Shit i recommend to start feeling included in things even if your not that helps a lil bit with feeling disconnected with people. I also feel better when i go for a run helps clear mind and just say hello to everybody you see will kinda take that empty feeling out but im still working on it

[@Crabking19]

Me too 😢

[@Bensux]

@1234 Wow! Thanks for the fresh pasta. 👍

[@YokoshimaOfficial]

Hello good people :) I was homeless, hopeless and so lonely, llast year and worked hard to fix my life. and I'm more than half way through now! So remember to stay strong as with patience while looking after yourself you'll get the help and support you need from people and make it though!

[@marcusaurelius8285]

Me too homeless in Newark nj in the south ward. People died horrible deaths there all the time. It was a scary time.

[@haraldpedoson9677]

"choose the thing that sucks the least" So i guess ill be going back to my ex

[@matheusdardenne]

When it's about relationships, choose the one who sucks more. Wink.

[@ryadh456]

@@matheusdardenne 😂

[@gregmyers3684]

Haaaaa!

[@WizardOrangeScorpion]

@@matheusdardenne you guys get choices?

[@joshseaganlocalboy5445]

lol same came into mind

[@alexsessa7437]

I genuinely couldn’t sit through all of this because it was causing me too much stress! Haha. I agree we all need to have avoid certain things, and have a strong system for accomplishing others. But I think the other is different for everyone and we all need to find what works fo us to achieve success and happiness. Also, it’s important to remember that the overwhelming likelihood is that every single one of us will inevitably fall on hard times in some form another during our lifetime.

[@davidrajchman7162]

Me: going to watch something positive........ thoughty 2 : here is why everything you are currently doing is ruining your life

[@hensen5309]

You can turn 18 and 4 months later get with a girl that lied about her age and almost go to jail for 15 years STRAIT out of high school:)

[@fosterrico5546]

Jesus Christ

[@SoulDragonWithFlow]

Welcome to the wonderful world of being a man. Get used it it.

[@hensen5309]

I know it all sounds irrelevant, but anyone who sees this should consider learning your states sex laws to educate the youth/yourself. I'm speaking of the legal aspects of sexual intercourse, because I bet itll blow your mind how confusing it can be, especially for age groups 16-18-21. Make sure your children know that once you are of age, YOU ARE %100 RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR ACTIONS.

[@weebay6166]

Yeah bro, i just turned 18 in december last year. Glad my country has 16 as age of consent (not that i want to get with 16 yr olds) mistakes can happen to everyone

[@ahhhue3830]

Hensen that happened to my old managers son and they were born in the same year. Just he was born at the beginning of the year and she was born at the end of the year.

[@bolognabrother4986]

Here are some simple things you can do to not ruin your life: don’t be poor and don’t be lonely . Got it thanks

[@birtiebeetle940]

Don't smoke or drink either. Cocaine is good to go through 👍

[@yoursubconscious]

the latter is difficult, but you win. edit: I mean being "lonely", not doing coco 😬

[@Kenjuudo]

@@birtiebeetle940 I wouldn't choose cocaine. Try microdosing LSD instead.

[@OhZjuchi]

My mother and I are broke

[@alexandersalazar4736]

Mine is "Be a good man, it's ok to be alone"

[@jamiemullins5877]

Dam right, in recovery myself, and I've experienced almost all you touched on. I'm in the healing place in Louisville ky, this video should be watched by ever single recover house in the world. Thank you sir! You are a scholar and a gentleman. I will show this to the recovery groups on Louisville. Rock on sir!!

[@garethbaus5471]

My parents went bankrupt in their 20s and it cost my father a promotion when he was in his 40s, debt can permanently effect your life especially if you don't know how to handle it or something unfortunate happens.

[@Litepaw]

Sneaky ways you can ruin your life? These words: "It's not a problem, i can stop any time i want" I've been there, i was for years. Heavy addict. I luckily got into treatment and those days are way behind me and I'm nearly back to normal. Still gotta quit my treatment medication tho, and i dread the day.

[@piratepat44]

@ keep gaming, eating ice cream, and fapping, and don't drink/smoke because addictive tendencies can translate suuuuuper easily to more dangerous things :P

[@carlhutto811]

All I could hear this whole video was alarm bells. Life is terrifying

[@Medietos]

yes carl, and use them to wake up and take action.it can only get better ,can't it?

[@brendarand8649]

It is terrifying, yet somehow that's what makes it so wonderful

[@maimaisims]

I work for a debt charity based in the UK, and it's so important to talk about debt and seek help for debt. Everyone is in debt, but also has this *want* to show what's new... Have the latest car... I for one, don't really care... And I have 2 older cars... Thats a story for another time. I've struggled with debt due to a very expensive divorce and dealing with an abuser... But I got out of it! But those days were daaaaaark!!!! Seek help for debt! It's possible!!!

[@CafeSora]

You can totally form meaning full relationships over messaging, my best friend and I have yet to meet irl, but we know basically everything about each other, talk every single day and we've both help each other improve mentally over the course of our friendship, we can't wait to be able to hang out irl because we have a bunch of things we want to do together. At the time he is my only close friend and the 1 other friend I have, hasnt spoken to me in months

[@eatmedrinkme9628]

You might want to go back and watch that section of the video again. His point was; only face to face interaction releases the chemicals in your brain to reduce loneliness, that doesn't mean you can't make friends electronically, just that it is only a salve and not a cure. It's harder to bond with a screen than a face my friend and not nearly as satisfying.

[@Valcuda]

13:47 After losing the first friend group I've been in in a long time, this part actually kinda made me cry cause of just how true it is

[@abundantsunflower1107]

Get into other groups, dance class, gym etc. socializing is very important!

[@Zortarok]

Oh man, now I'm not just lonley and poor, now im depressed too...

[@Cjbrachio]

This video is full of great life advice, I definitely wish I had listened to when I was much younger. I’d like to throw in, that good eating habits are something you should get into while you’re young. Cut out some of the junk food, add greens to your meals, eat regularly, and try not to over eat(By which I mean learn how much is enough, and know that its okay to stop eating when you’re full, even if that’s before your plate is clear)

[@SecularFelinist]

Yeah, I can't remember how many houses I've broken into to feed my gaming habit.

[@Abdelrhman.Hussein123]

What?

[@drcgaming4195]

@@Abdelrhman.Hussein123 "Addiction causes crime"

[@Luminarise]

To counter your point, refer to the people thay would call SWAT teams onto other gamers, that itself is a crime. May not happen to you but he did say "may" not "will"

[@Abdelrhman.Hussein123]

Thank you for explaining

[@doriandorazio237]

Yes I've committed first degree murder playing COD

[@edwardaaronmanuel9348]

I love how the text message at 10:37 says *Hi. Hoe*

[@vdoxsamp7283]

Lmao you're right 😂

[@goodnightmyprince2716]

Imagine text that to your mum/ mom

[@playbackproductions1]

He was addicted to prostitutes

[@bhagawath9026]

Fits well with the topic of poor social skills

[@morethanjustrandom]

This was hands down my favorite episode. coming from an ex addict this hit the nail right on the head

[@LukeVidler]

This is a particularly well written and well presented summary of the facts of life, appreciate your work.

[@gregtheflyingwhale]

Not gonna lie loneliness is hard thing to overcome when you already feel lonely

[@budmccaff550]

Get a kitten

[@patriciavandevelde5469]

Get a dog

[@gregtheflyingwhale]

@@patriciavandevelde5469 get a dragon

[@lunaredelvour2972]

Welp. Good thing I'm happier when left alone anyways. Gotta love that willing hermit life xD (well for now anyways. Just waiting for the lonliness to kick in aaaaaaaaaany day now)

[@dazura9262]

The growing lack of face to face communication is genuinely something that is destroying people's lives

[@zerohero5753]

Agreed. There's a recurring trend in places where people live longer than average and it's the strong sense of community and belonging.

[@metro_5017]

Thoughty2: has sneaky in the title Also thoughty 2: has shoes in the thumbnail Me: sneaky sneakers?

[@CW25710]

Metro_501 yes

[@dauksz_7127]

Metro_501 sneaky Steve

[@jacksonpercy8044]

What was the original title?

[@sauletto1]

This is a very profound and eye opening view of things we avoid acknowledging . Outstanding !

[@oskarngo9138]

The question is: How to form relationships without spending cash???? Everything you do cost money ( directly or indirectly)!

[@dutchik5107]

Walk. Coffee. Cooking (i know costs money. But you need to anyways). Etc.

[@mangkanor9403]

Or dont be a dusty?

[@Jessicafaye_xo]

It’s free to talk to someone. Try it

[@Bensux]

Think back to when you were in middle school or the early years of high school. Did you actually spend any money with the people you were friends with? The real question is, where do you find the right people to form a relationship with. It seems like as you get older it becomes harder to form new friendships.

[@Starplaya]

OO OO that’s not exactly true. I found all my friends with just letting it happen. I was not looking desperately for friends. I made many friends over decades and we became a circle of friends who have barbecue often and go out and enjoy life. Never search for friends. Just let it happen. Universe will find people for you who share the same interests and you become automatically friends

[@yikes420]

I know about addiction first hand both my parents where addicted to crack and my mom when she gave birth to my little brother she quit cold turkey she has now been clean for now 8 years and I am so proud of her she is my super hero 🤍🤍

[@tracesprite6078]

I admire you dear mother very much. She is indeed a super hero. I hope you and all your family stay safe from addiction.

[@gertytk5528]

I love when there's always shots of young beautiful women when talking about loneliness.

[@goodnightmyprince2716]

?

[@djs9931]

?

[@justinanderson267]

Interrobang?!

[@justturner9702]

Ew

[@draco9280]

gerty tk Feel yourself before you keel yourself

[@glenjennett]

That's why I don't have credit cards and I don't buy things I don't need. I've tried to have a social life, but that doesn't work out because everyone I've ever had in my life wants nothing to do with me and I'm ok with that. I am never lonely being alone, I embrace it. No interruptions or distractions from my thoughts is awesome. A successful relationship doesn't always equal happiness. The biggest disappointment is working all your life until you are able to retire, but by then you're too old to enjoy it. So, what are you working for?

[@ALBERTEINSTEIN777]

I NEVER FEEL LONELY WHEN IM ALONE. I ENJOY IT ACTUALLY.

[@dana-ce1vb]

True

[@kieranbyrne6090]

Feel lonely whenever I have eaten sugar based foods! I have family, just no idea what it is like to live their lives, or them to live mine!

[@rtraktsdn1197]

Aquarian by any chance?

[@Atillatzke]

Its not about being alone. I enjoy my alone time as well. Its more about having no real friends you can connect with on topics, hobbies or idealogies etc that are important to you. You dont have to see this people all the time and they should understand that you enjoy being alone from time to time but trust me if they really are the kind of people that are compatible with you you will actually meet and see them quite often - relatively speaking - just cuz you like their company. I had a big friend clique but they all just drained my energy... none of them really shared my interests, world views, had nothing to offer me intellectually, didnt understand that i dont want to hang out all day every day, etc. So i cut them all off - except for one other guy who basically did the same. So we were 2 best friends but we told us into our faces that "we arent enough for each other" and what we basically meant was it would be more nice if we were at least like 4-6 people. We were "alone together".

[@birtiebeetle940]

That's coz you're a genius bro

[@goodbye7236]

Reading the title : well it all started when I was born

[@DemonMage]

I felt that on a personal level.

[@SoulDragonWithFlow]

“.. harmless choice at the time, such as taking out an expensive phone contract...” Yeah what if you get landed with a £2K vet bill because your dog got bitten by a snake that shouldn't even exist in your country. (I live in the UK). I’m not joking, this happened TODAY and you upload a video on financial stress and instability and mental health. I swear God is just mocking me at this stage.

[@xXRealXx]

I recommend you to watch Graham Stephan's videos. He has excellent videos on personal finance.

[@moepShinChan]

is your dog alright at least? don't get discouraged :)

[@bingoreddraaz7363]

God has given you a solution dude. Man up!

[@Xboxsold]

Sorry for your dog. Putting yourself in finacial distress for your friend to be better is not irresponsible. If you believe it is, then owning a dog should have been the most impulse decision you made. Which isn't the case because dogs are amazing and they want the best for you, even if you'll never know.

[@SoulDragonWithFlow]

@@bingoreddraaz7363 The story of my god damn life.

[@movingaboveandbeyond]

Amazing video! Spot on. I have mental illness where I have severe anxiety and depression. I became an alcoholic during the CoVid19 epidemic. It’s extremely hard to have both conditions, let alone at the same time. But ya have to make yourself do things. Anything. I still struggle with doing some daily tasks. It doesn’t help that I’ve been a procrastinator all my life. But life is worth living. I mean meaning to live. Living life to as full as you are capable of really does relieve stress. I call it a counter addiction. It works! On another note; the black box on his shirt was hilariously distracting. 😆