My dad tells me why he left me

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Dontay London

Күн бұрын

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@DontayLondon 11 ай бұрын

Damn the truth hurts! 🥹💔

@444_jaye 11 ай бұрын

I am happy you are finally getting the answer’s you deserve / Keep being a great father Dontay & keep living your dream /I appreciate your courage to share your most vulnerable moment’s w us / I hope someone watches this & finally take a step to get the answers they need as well. ❤😊

@Thesewingsuccesschannel 11 ай бұрын

I shared your video. There are thousands of grown men today still wanting to ask that question to dads that left them when small.

@lashurediscussion4970 11 ай бұрын

I was disappointed that his father choose to blame a failed relationship with his mom as a reason for walking out his life. He sounded like the typical man that once the relationship is over, the kid’s relationship is over also. He makes no efforts to try to build an adult son relationship with him or any attempts to be actively involved in his grandson life. Based on what Dontay said he had not seen his dad in almost 8 months & just happened to bump into him at the store. Crazy

@francisthompson6168 10 ай бұрын

This is good to talk to your dad to get a understanding I love this it's a good thing.

@francisthompson6168 10 ай бұрын

This is good you are telling him the truth .I understand yoi very well I pray that you and your dad will get closer.

@aviewer2871 10 ай бұрын

Dontay, thank you for making this video, asking the questions, and sharing this video.

@DontayLondon 10 ай бұрын

Thank you

@Krave629 11 ай бұрын

Dontay just be a walking in them fields and parking lots lol like it’s such a beautiful moment and Michigan so pretty

@ktokie338 10 ай бұрын

I’m so glad you’re transparent and that this conversation was made public. It’s too many people not walking in their truth out of fear or worried about what other people think. This conversation is a reality for so many men and women. This reality is hidden due to so many peoples egos!!! I totally and completely relate because my dad was never there for me and people always lie and hide but truth prevails! Blessings and abundance to you. ✨✨✨

@roselove1545 10 ай бұрын

This video should be shown to baby daddies, so they do not end up just like their dads who walked away from their child’s life, not helping support the child, because they don’t get along with their baby momma, and not even doing their best to see their child/children, quit a job so they don’t have to pay child support and not even doing their best to prosper in life so that he can get a career and have a better life for himself and for his child/children. specially for the dads that don’t even have to take care of their child 24/7th, the best thing they can do is get they life together while the baby momma the one losing in life, especially she gotta quit work because no transportation to get the kids in daycare, no help from family, and no help from baby daddy’s family and welfare ain’t enough to even get by and can’t even get a remote job because no diploma. Your doing a great job, just keep trying, and keep striving. your bm is lucky to have a baby daddy like you just like any baby momma with great baby fathers who didn’t end up dead beat like their dads. Growing up With a single mom as a man seems to really have effect for a man and specially for women. I didn’t grown up with a father and sure ain’t going to be raising my children like how my mother raised me around a step father who wasn’t even qualified to be one.

@reginaangell5327 11 ай бұрын

It's good for you to work these things out. He understands why you don't want to settle for a miserable job. You're a chip off the old block. Even though he wasn't in your life you are still the way he was. That's kind of amazing. He's proud of you. You didn't give up. You will make it. This was a good video.

@Bigg-chonies 11 ай бұрын

This conversation should have been private..

@dc_legendary 11 ай бұрын

Sadly, I'ma have to agree. But I guess that's what he wants to share on his channel🤷🏾‍♂

@dlj2922 11 ай бұрын

Understand one thing that he keeps telling everyone his channel is transparent meaning everything in his life will be shared this is no different learn to pay attention so your not judging

@erikacoleman3428 10 ай бұрын

Naw. People are allowed to express emotions. We are human...kick back

@fernandohernandezjr5696 10 ай бұрын

That’s right but he’s a big little man still he’s one of those KZbin attention seeking ones

@theresamurphy6554 9 ай бұрын

Nah if anything this should help a lot of young men and fathers ❤️

@barbarascott9174 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for the conversation 👍

@Mysteryqueen86 11 ай бұрын

The best dam vlog you have did yet on KZbin, it should be share out.

@KaiTai747 10 ай бұрын

REAL KING SHIT!!!!!! Prada you man!!!!!!!

@theresamurphy6554 9 ай бұрын

GO HEAD PROUD OF YOU BOTH show the world what the world needs HEALING

@chirlboulware7599 11 ай бұрын

Beautiful honest video between father and son

@7n1sun21 8 ай бұрын

Boy's Need Their Father's In There Life, No Matter How Big Or Small. And, Dad's Need There Son's In Their Life, No Matter What. Especially, When They Grow Old.

@ShellyBomb 10 ай бұрын

Parents really don't leave their children; they leave their spouse - but, heartbreakingly the kids get caught up in the heartache & confusion ... 💔

@BlackNerdist 10 ай бұрын

Unless they visit the children, they leave BOTH

@smithaquarius1 9 ай бұрын

@@BlackNerdistthank you… EXACTLY!! that original poster has NO IDEA what they’re talking about, making no sense!

@meraki5646 11 ай бұрын

My dad left me and my two brothers as well. He kinda tried when we were younger but he stopped trying to visit us and we haven't really hung out in more then 10 years. He calls us when his drunk ( his an alcoholic) and tells me he misses me and my brothers. But he never makes an effort to come see us he lives an hour away. It's so sad because we love them but they don't love us.

@menstalkshow 11 ай бұрын

I appreciate you being vulnerable with us man! Unfortunately I cant never have this talk with my father because he only see things his way!

@christianbanks7458 27 күн бұрын

You won’t and up just like your dad (respectfully) in Jesus name amen 🙏 You need to break the generational curse/ pattern/ cycle ie broken relationships, lack of ability to keep a job, failures, etc… you must break it. And by the looks of things you’re well on your way and doing a great job. Keep it up 👍. Liked and subscribed ✅ Love from London UK 🇬🇧

@aaishatillman7991 11 ай бұрын

I'm happy you being tough and you and your dad catching up both of y'all missed a few years but God is good..oh no it wasn't the kids...but I know for sure if the relationship toxic the two separate...my son dad just came back around....13 years later...got DNA test..he's been around for two years now..no lie I still do everything for my son...my son ask me for everything..he still live with me...and everything still on me .... and Dontay I don't care if you quit your job 10times I want you to chase your dream and grab it🎉now no lie grab a career or college degree or a trade while you're able to not pay sooo many bills..I want you to make it

@nequalove1568 11 ай бұрын

He can be there for u now , while he’s there present …

@Gamer57447 16 күн бұрын

Dontay, what’s the name of this music on your video ?

@patricejackson8801 10 ай бұрын

Im just glad that you're smiling more

@kmauryo 8 ай бұрын

Your beard grew out beautiful, it used 2 B patchy. Cool content

@linealjr07 11 ай бұрын

I pray God will restore yall relationship

@hellothere22766 9 ай бұрын

May God guide and Bless you to be a much better man then your Dad....Amen

@kaylove7362 11 ай бұрын

I can relate to this. In my opinion, He does not care about you. His actions show it… He acts just like my bio mom did. Maybe I’m projecting? She was an addict, full of lies and excuses. Addiction is a family disease. In your case what it sounds like is your dad started using, left ,and the whole family suffered?? What does your mom tell you about him?

@kaylove7362 11 ай бұрын

I also received a message on Facebook shortly after my 18th birthday.. from my bio dad for him to introduce himself with some bullshit ass excuse as to why he wasn’t in my life.

@lashurediscussion4970 11 ай бұрын

I personally didn’t like his lame excuse. You have to fight to not make some of the same mistakes your dad made with your son. You will be the one thing that break generational curses. On another note I cried as I never had the opportunity to ask all the why’s that were in my head & after listening to your dad not taking accountability for his lack of care made me realize that my dad would have placed the blame on my mom. You are a grown man with a son of your own & he could not give you great advice because he had no answer, he has been living life without a purpose assuming he had no father in his life to give direction. His character as a father shows & broke my heart that now you are grown he still does not make an effort to be in your life. He ain’t even try to make an effort.

@wb1738 11 ай бұрын

Bro you should let go of the past and live in the now. I know it is easy to say but try it because your past is something you never get back, but the now will give you something to look forward to that is different from you past. get out of your head because you have a lot of potential. You can't see it right now because of the situation between you and your baby momma.

@spiffytayy4554 11 ай бұрын

If a women don:t want a dad around they kids. she can make it happen .Move out of town u will see them when the child 18 years old.

@CreatorsDaughter7 11 ай бұрын

I’m crying❤

@nequalove1568 11 ай бұрын

I am sorry but no an excuse , u could’ve still been a father even though him and ur mom didn’t work out 😢

@Jacobytru 2 ай бұрын

I don’t feel bad. If you don’t have your things together as a grown adult then what’s the purpose of having children? Just putting your child in a disadvantage all because of your lustful desires. What goes around comes around. I’ve worked in many nursing homes and their children don’t want anything to do with them. I can totally understand.

@thatgirlPAIGE94 11 ай бұрын

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@brandonarias6881 9 ай бұрын

people are so negative in this world thats how you know they got demons

@Blessingstou 11 ай бұрын

Lack of education,job opportinities and work experience can contribute to fathers nit feeling they can take care of children. 😢

@Jacobytru 2 ай бұрын

Ok. If you live in an environment that has lack of job opportunities and education with no work experience, why go out and have sex and create multiple children that will grow up lacking something?