Door Open 24 7 Rau Koj. 10/17/2024

[@pangyang8286]

Kuv ntseeg tus niam tsev no zaj dab neeg yeej muaj cov txiv zoo li no kuv tus txiv zoo kiag li no thiab kuv muab nws cuam kiag rau thoob khib nyiab kiag lawm tam sim no kuv nyob kaj siab lug lawm xwb os

[@chouyang2955]

Txhob xyaum ua li tus niam pog no txog thaum laus luag thiaj xav hlub.

[@lilythao1965]

This story made me cry....especially the paternity test....I had to do that with all my grandkids too. My son passed away and I wanted to establish paternity so I can take custody and receive benefits to take care of them. I was very happy they were all his. The day I got custody of them, we all cried in the courtroom. Even the two social workers cried with me too. They had seen my struggle after my son passed and their mom did not want to be involved. It has been three years, and we still miss my son everyday, but we are all doing fine. Their are moments but life goes on. I want to (hug) the ;mom in this story for her patience and love for her kids.

[@daozonglee1017]

People, it is much harder when you are in her shoes. Yes she is not as strong as some people but not everyone is like that. Abused victims have reasons to stay. It’s stupid but when you are blind and have no support or you fear for your and your children’s life, it’s hard to leave. It’s like people who are suicidal, they feel like no one can help.

[@jasminexiong3603]

I am 100% with you on that. Kv twb yog ib tug ntawm zaj dab neeg no thiab.

[@kayathao3385]

It's not easy to leave even you go through so much. Took me 16yrs to leave. Learn so much for those years.

[@tiachang-sn5ic]

So true 😢

[@chuvaa-gm8zo]

Ha Ha 😅😅😅😅🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤

[@MaiParadise2024]

Cov txiv neej hmoob no phem dhau lawm peb cov poj Niam mus yuav meka kom tag cia lawm nyob qha qhuav cia ew……

[@MMin-mi8bz]

Yog lawm cia nej cov nyob mekas mus yuav mekas kom tag peb cov nyob nplog mus yuav suav kom tag thiab 😂

[@pajlee3167]

Muab lawv ntes kaw ib pab li ko ma yog tshaj plaw lawm os mog

[@niaglaussayaxangly8806]

As a parent how can you not love them unconditionally. I would love and protect them unconditionally even if I have to donate my organs for them.

[@hmoobliscalifornia714]

This is just my belief. In order for a leader to lead, you need to have strong support staff AKA your wife! This lady couldn’t be supportive because she can’t look into a crystal ball and read your mind. Information needed to be communicated to her so she would know what you are doing and when to prep for gatherings. All your little buddies are a great representation of a catastrophic relationship failure. Diminishing your wife character truly shows yours. This lady should have left years ago.

[@yiaxiong2009]

To all the women out there stop having kids to drown your husband when he doesn’t want anymore kids …It’s a choice both of you guys need to agree on.

[@pajdawblis4291]

Very smart That you got all Them Friends arrested- you are very brave .

[@kellielee9829]

Yeah but she didn’t go further into the case so who knows. Abused Hmong women usually drop the charges when their husband’s relatives threaten them. She stayed married to him so I’m assuming that it was just bullshit.

[@mainenglee-xiong3344]

If you value and respect yourself, then your spouse may see your worth. Otherwise say goodbye. He’s not the only man on earth. It’s better to be alone, than to be in a hostile marriage. Make sure your children don’t take care of him or bury him when he dies. He did say they are not his children.

[@qabzib52]

Cav tu2 siab thiab os nim nrog koj quaj2 thiab

[@ChongSaehan]

ชีวิตนี้เหมือนชีวิตฉันเลย😢😢

[@lenathao6501]

Txoj kev uv tus txiv mas peb cov poj niam hmoob mas thiaj li txawj siab ntev. Hlub yus tus kheej lawm xwb os tus me niam laus.

[@maivang8502]

Goodness!!

[@MissPeachie]

😴🥱 Ladies, please don’t be like this woman. If your husband doesn’t love and respect you, LEAVE.

[@meexiong9961]

Yes I agree with you 100%

[@leeleesquare]

Won't be wasting time on this story then. Thanks!

[@LiaMoua-v9q]

Exactly!! Doesn’t matter how many kids u have with him. Do it for yourself & ur kids. U don’t need a man in your life. I’d rather be single & free than to be with a woman beater.

[@kellielee9829]

Easier said than done. But I do want to know what happened with the case that she got beat in front of his friends and she called the cops. I’m assuming she called bullshit and recanted her story because she didn’t mention how the case went.

[@เรวดี-ล2ฅ]

8:36 8:38 😢 8:52 8:56 9:00 9:02 😂 9:07 9:07 9:09 9:09 9:10 9:10 😢 9:10 9:10 9:14

[@maithao6445]

Good job lady

[@bryantlee6012]

Thov qhuas koj Ua yog Tshaj plaws os Tus niam tsev👍👍👍👍

[@LeeLee-ci8rb]

koj Ua Yog lm os ❤❤❤

[@boutv3553]

😢😢😢😢

[@yiyang9905]

Tus siab dhaus lawm os 😢

[@takraw559]

To all the women that says just leave if he don’t love and respect you! Easier said than do. Wouldn’t we all wish it was just that easy to get up and leave. You can tell from the story she love that man, even though she won’t admit it, she loved him, love makes you do crazy shit. Loving the wrong person can make you go psycho, but ppl will judge you and say you’re stupid and that you can’t leave! SMH. You women should know this better than us guys. If you see a friend going through this, you should help her seek professional help. Seek guidance, not judge her. That’s why like she says, you women don’t know how to respect each others that’s why there niam yau is possible for guys. It’s because some of you women AGREED to be his niam yau! Do better women.

[@maryly09]

After the paternity test came out, i would have called a big family meeting and throw the paper at the faces of the niam dev that accused me of cheating.

[@waatchdogs6184]

I feel so sad for you sister. I hope you'll find the strength yo move on you deserve so much more. Best of luck to you

[@rosepetals7230]

Wow what kind of friends are these? I would’ve call cops on them

[@mainenglee-xiong3344]

Don’t bark if you can’t bite. You’re still married to him, so stop lecturing others! You don’t learn.

[@kcy805]

You don’t know until you are in their shoes. They uave their reasons for not leaving. If they can stay and be functional then you should be still. Sensible people dont think like the norm.

[@pajthao4813]

Koj dag xwb koj yeej ntshaw2 nws koj thiaj uv nws txog hnub no yog tsis ntshaw nws koj yeej tsis uv tiv qws rawv li ko txog tav nov, Nrog cov menyuam tu siab tsis tsimnyog cov menyuam yuav los mus leespaub neb ob niag laus qhov teebmeem. yog koj ntseeg koj tus kheej no tsis tas yuav mus kuaj kom cov menyuam tusiab nws tsis hlub koj thiab cov me nyuam lawm lawb kiag nws tawm hauv lub neej mus xwb yus hlub yus cov menyuam zoo dua

[@chouyang2955]

Niam pog txoj kev ntse thaum tsis taus txhob hlub. Cov tub mloog niam lus thaum kawg ces mag them child support.

[@Ibvuag912]

Ua cas siab yuav ntev ua luaj...tus22 siab li os.

[@chuvang5487]

Tsis yog siab ntev yog neeg ruam nkaus xwb.

[@chuvang5487]

Tsis yog siab ntev yog neeg ruam nkaus xwb.

[@Ibvuag912]

@@chuvang5487 vim hlub22 ces thiaj ruam tag los ma

[@michaelf2700]

Why do u put up with his abuse, bullshit & cheating? He adds no value to ur life. But u must like all that drama.

[@kcy805]

She put up with it because she HAS a reason. You don’t live her life and you don’t know her reason so who are you to judge and tell her what to do?

[@DuabXyooj-v4z]

Awb cas nej nim zoo li kuv thiab os💘💔💔😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@Ncohnubno]

Hmoob is hmoob aw….ua cas yus yuav dhua cov niag neej zoo li no tshaj li.

[@YangXue4]

What a sad story. I admire your long suffering for all that you put up with. No one can blame you for what you have done after the fact(outside of those who were present when you were being abused). As for his accusations that the 4 younger children aren't his, he was just trying to justify his bad behavior.

[@pajlee3167]

Me Viv ncau aw koj ma hai yog tshaj plaw lawm ❤

[@lisadarling5126]

When the kids asked him why he did what he did, he said he was angry. Angry at what? The kids did nothing, who is he angry at? Himself? He needs therapy and same with you.

[@xuexiong4431]

Txhob tu siab os, tus sister. Cov txiv es coj li no es tseem tau nom ua ces cov neeg xaiv nom no coj li nws coj xwb thiaj tau nom ua. Ib tug zoo thawj coj zoo tsis coj zoo li no.

[@nkaujhmoobzoolus3993]

Uv kev lwjsiab kev limhiam thiab raug rhuav los ntawm yus tus txij nkawm yog ib qho ua rau yus siab tawv ntse muaj peevxwb. Thiab thaum yus tu siab txaus yus tig rov los saib mas dhuav nrog txoj ntxub nws heev li. Zoo kawg koj ua taus ib siab lawm viv ncaus.

[@chiaher3867]

How are you gonna say Hmong women does not love each other when you don’t even love your own self🤦🏻‍♀️

[@maryly09]

💯💯💯

[@kellielee9829]

Right.

[@kcy805]

She may not care and love herself but she clearly loves her children. You are not a parent to talk like that. Mothers like us don’t think about ME like you. We are a mother so we MUST put our children first. If we can still hold the family together then we rather endure, got it?

[@chiaher3867]

@@kcy805 I am a mother of a newborn. There’s no doubt she loves her children. If you read my comment above, the point of this comment is not about her kids. The point is in regard to her complaint about Hmong women not loving each other. How do you expect someone to love you when you don’t even love yourself. Got it?

[@monkeybanana9269]

She does have a point. What she said isn't wrong. There is something about the men that they have a bond and support system with each other. Women- not so much and tend to be divided among each other. Even if her significant other is about to cheat on her too, some ladies still talk smack about another like she is far more righteous. Lol. 😂😂😂

[@MaiYang-jb8wt]

Cas koj ho tsis mloog koj tej lus qhuav qhia os? Koj txawj hais kawg, tab sis tseem yuav koj niag txiv ces tsis tas hais li os. Koj txaus koj siab, txhob qhia qhia lwm tus!

[@xiongvang9584]

Lady at this point, i blame you that constantly put up with all this hurt and humiliation. The fact that you had to bring up him not claiming your kids infront of the kids is just wrong. Why did you just not leave and save your kids from the heart break? All you got now is kids that are broken hearted and you are still with this narcissistic man suffering.

[@naibvaaj2175]

But you still stayed in the marriage. 🤦‍♀️

[@maryly09]

Exactly. She barks and barks, but the fence is opened and she's is still not leaving, yet still barking from behind the opened fence.

[@christinabthao8825]

Yog nws yog ib leej txiv hlub2 koj cov me nyuam ces yeej tsim nyog nyob kom lawv muaj txiv kawg os tiam si nws tsis hlub ne...me nyuam yeej ib txwm pom thiab paub tias nws tsis hlub ces lawv yeej nkag siab kawg os me sister aw

[@MyahLis]

It’s easier said than done. Let’s not judge her because we don’t walk in her shoes. Some women are stronger than some….

[@김명섭-y6k]

Tu siab tshaj li os xav kom tu txiv neej ntawv mj ib tug neeg tsim nw li nw tsim yu ma es nw thiaj paub tia mob npau li ca

[@jasminexiong3603]

Haiv neeg muaj haiv neeg tsim. Tsis tau txog nws zeeg xwb os. Yeej yuav muaj lwm tus los tsim nws li nws tsim nws tus niam tsev os.

[@SuabNkaujStudio24]

Peb cov hmoob ces tsis muaj kev ncaj ncees rau peb cov poj niam Li thiab cov niag poj niam hmoob no los tsis sib txhawb li thiab, hlub koj heev li os mi niam laus aw

[@VivoVivo-uj5je]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@TrinhCứ-c2u]

Ruam

[@HliThoj-t7p]

Tsis kag siab cov Poj niam es maj ntau npaum no es tseem nyob thiab tseem uv yog nw ntau yu ntau nw kiag thiab ta yu maj nw ntau tuag Los nw twg sab lawm thiab tab si tsis ua CAs koj ua yog lawm 😊

[@tzerhueyang8360]

Tus txiv neej no phim ua yawg nrauj kawg kiag

[@sovoneppppp]

Uv vim hlub tsi hlub ce yeej tsi uv

[@lenalor5651]

He is asking for jail time and restraining order.

[@nenglor342]

Yog lawm muaj ib co txiv neej yeej siab siab phem thiab txawj txawj tsim poj niam txawj dag

[@mouavang3371]

Sister, ntshe koj yog ib tug neeg tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws koj thiaj nrog nws nyob txog tav nov. Txiv neej zoo tseem muaj coob 😢

[@maylee9743]

You are so right sister, I only have male friends. Because every female friends I have all sleep with my ex. Now I only have male friends. I’m so proud of you.

[@Thao22]

Cov txiv neej hmoob zoo li no is a problem to our Hmong community. Do better!!

[@Chaxengvang]

Tus ppj niam zaj neej neeg no siab me dhau lawm thiab coj txawv tshaj txhua2 tus

[@meexiongvang3373]

Yog kawg peb cov txiv neej hmoob lawv yeej muaj lub siab txia ntshav lis ntawm tia lawv niam lawv txiv lawv kwv tij lawv yeej muaj lub siab phem lis ntawm kawg kuv yeej ntseeg tus niam tsev no nawb yeej muaj tseeb lis hai rau qhov kuv yeej pom coob tus txiv neej phem lis ntawm tiag.

[@SeanYang-r3v]

There are many Hmong men who do treat their wife’s like in US and back in Laos and still to this day but it finally caught up. I hope this guy learn his lesson and be a better husband. When you married your wife she is your partner for life and your best friend. Your friends should never be your priority, if your friends is the priority in life than you should go sleep with them not your wife.

[@1976YANG]

Cas zaj no yuav hais tau mob siab thiab khib siab ua luaj li 😡😡😡

[@yeebntshachannel9254]

Rooj Teb no Muaj hoos maum Yog NWS Tus tiag2 CAS ho Tsis coj Mus kuaj ntshav mas, Yus Yuav tsum ua Kom Muaj prove os CAS yuav Ruam phim nkaus thaub Txoj Kev Liam koj Thiab os 🙏

[@meexiongvang3373]

Cov me nyuam uaca yuav tu siab ualuaj ibleej txiv siab phem ualuaj uaca leejtxiv dab ntxwjnyoog lub siab nyoog ualuaj os cov me nyuam puas yuav tsimnyog hlub nej txiv ntxiv lawm os cov me nyuam ntxim hlub tsi txhob tu siab rau nej niam mog hlub hlub nej niam nawb cov me nyuam aws.

[@hmoobs1]

Tus txiv neej dev no yog dev xwb tsim nyog mus noj tshuaj thiab dai tuag kom tuag mus

[@yoglis9321]

Juv lub neeg zoo li zab dab neeg

[@meexiong9961]

Cov niag txiv lim xyiam txhob khuv xim o lawv ntxov nrauj ntxov Dim lub neej lwj siab xwb..yog dim nws lawm ces xam tias tseem muaj hmoo ua neej ntxiv xwb ho lawv...hlub hlub yus tus kheej o poj hmoob aw....

[@Jesiah12]

To poj niam mag ncaws raug tsim lo vim poj niam g txawj sib hlub

[@blueberrysmilie1]

So many women saying this is their life…. If this is your life, this is your que to leave and really think about the life you are wasting.

[@maryly09]

@@blueberrysmilie1 right? So many women said this is their marriages and some said don't judge them unless we are in their shoes....BUT so many of us here are telling them to leave and yet they still choose to stay in such marriages so yes they deserve to be judged and we will judge them hard!

[@YouaXiong-ze9pp]

sister aw koj tu txiv es tseem hlub koj tau 3 lub xyoo os kuv tu es peb tag kiv xb twb Tham hlus nkauj lm os

[@Cindy-s1t]

Omg. I would have left when he accused me of his children not being his. I would NOT have let it become 5 plus kids after. 🚩 red flag. I would have left long time ago.

[@touathao3397]

Yog kuv ces nws thiab nws pab kwv tij ces nyob nkuaj hmo muab yus ntaus thiab pab kwv tij tseem cem yus naj

[@k20484]

Women don't stand for each other when they haven't been hurt--they only think you're the problem. Sad truth.

[@beautifulyang1302]

This is why i don't talk to ant hmong women at work. I only talk to guys only

[@payang3701]

Yuav tau kawm koj cov lus Vim tshuav ib co pój niam tseem ruam ruam tseem niaj hnub uv tus txiv

[@mayseeyang5953]

13 min in… i just cant with these stories. Goodbye

[@maitha3886]

Your husband's head is too big with lots of air inside. It's so sad our Hmong sisters have gone through this kind of abuse.

[@cihobvang5094]

Koj yeej siab me os mog koj thiab koj yeej phem

[@victoriacha3565]

He is an angry man all his life. So vent and take his anger on the children and his wife.

[@maiyayang1]

Nej tsev kws tij tsis tseem tsheeb.

[@kuabmuajtsuasxiong8712]

Awb .. me niam tsev aw... Tsi yog koj thiaj tsi caum xwb is kuv ces kuv twb tsi caum tàu 10 xyoo no lawm os tu tu siab os lub neej ua tàu ib tug txiv lim hiam leej twg tàu leej twg thiaj paub os . Lam nyob kom tej me nyuam muaj cuab muaj yim kom tag tso mam qhia Tias poj niam muaj siab ntsws thiaj no os.

[@amazinggrace8136]

The Hmong kev cai worldview is not made for you to be right even in your situation. The only way to win is to stop playing their game. The sooner you stop the better your life will be.

[@daovang-kg1sl]

Koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj luag tej thiaj saib tsis taus koj niam tais nrog koj tu siab os

[@hmongsiabzoo]

Tus me niam tsev, the minute my husband claims our children are not his and I have prove it with DNA. I’m done, out, it’s over and good bye. Don’t let the door hit you on your way out. I have pride and self respect too much to lay low and down like a dog. I’m sorry, what kind of examples are showing your girls? Let men walk all over them? Nope!!! Sorry, you went through this but you could have save yourself a lot of hurt, abuse and mental anguish. Smh

[@kanetoews7747]

What is wrong with these people who are willing to wait years and 24/7 for their spouses to come back? Just move on! Why wait for someone who don’t love you

[@159nightangel]

Hau yau es Kuv tsis qhuas koj. Ua cas tseem tsis tau nrauj dev liam pov tseg thiab.

[@jackieyunan4899]

DNA test is the best way to know if your wife was faithful..

[@tengher6111]

UNBELIEVABLE SHE'S STILL WITH THIS GUY. WHAT A DAMN SHAME!!

[@zoolikuv]

Ruam tsab ntse ces yog tus poj niam no. If you are so smart why didn't you leave him sooner. Sib phim xwb.

[@leelaiyah789]

She wanted to find someone first thats why she went to find men to befriend with.

[@gamerboylogan3655]

Tus txiv no yog dev xwb tsis neeg tuag los tau lawm.

[@Lishayang96]

Such a sad story. Feel so bad for the kids. The husband is trash plus his friends and relatives including their wives! I don’t blame this lady for not leaving cause it is easier said than done. I just feel bad for her and her kids.

[@cocopha5778]

Kuv tus twb Liam li no thiab

[@abyang618]

Perhaps you should learn from this lady and leave as well. Teach him a lesson

[@chuvang5487]

Hais txog kev xaiv nom ces hmoob tsis txhob rov xaiv hmoob lawm, zoo li tus sheng thao nyuam qhuav raug ncaws tawm no ua rau hmoob poob ntsej muag tas nrho huvsi.

[@fongyang6564]

Kwv tij hmong peb cov Txiv tsev hmong es pheej tsis xyaum ua Txiv tsev zoo hos feem ntau ces pheej xyaum ua Txiv dev xwb ua neeg nyob yog tsis yuav poj niam me nyuam lawm ces tsis tsim txiaj dab tsi li os thaub aw

[@xaiher9236]

tu me niam tsev aw ua li koj ua ko yog lawm os nw twb ua tau yu ce yu yeej ua rau nw thiab yu yim txuag lawv lawv yij muaj plhu thiab lawv yim ua rau yu xwb cov niag txiv neej no yeej tsi sawm zoo thiab yog ua tau yeej meem ua li yu lub peev xwm rau nw thiab thiaj tsi mob yu txog 💯 os 😂😂😂😂

[@wintervang9754]

Ib tu txiv phem li koj tu txiv ko yuav dab tsi, Txiv neej muaj coob tso mus zoo dua lawm

[@PH-ThailanD]

koj niag txiv nwg. rov txo nwg tug kheej. nub no yuav tsw tau kev hlub log ntawm koj cov me nyuam yuav txom nyem ib lub xwb mas😢😢😢😢

[@bchang227]

Hmong guys would NEVER see their faults. It's also their parents' fault for treating them like they are kings, putting them on pedestals. It's called generational curse. It needs to END, and YOU need to make the step to end it.

[@maicthao9692]

Teb chaws no lawm cov txiv liam li no ces pov thoob khib nyiab xwb mas. Hais hais twb nrauj tsis tau ces txhob tuaj qw qw hauv no os. Yog nws phem npaum no rhuav npaum no ces nrauj kiag xwb mas.

[@julievang4215]

Cov poj niam uas hais li koj ces nws twb tsis tau tuag Los nws twb muab nws tus kheej faus cia lawm mas

[@คนดี-ม8ศ]

.😅

[@EthanVang-d8r]

Laus laus lawm los kav tsij mus yuav dua ib tug txiv shiab los pauj kua zaub tsuab rau loj niag txiv es tiam no koj lub siab thiaj li yuav nqi os tus me viv ncaus.

[@Hmooblubneej-y7j]

Pojruam, koj tsis khua tuaj nyob meskas lawm. Txiv tsim, ntau, thiab ntxub los koj yeej nrauj tsis tau. Txiv neej li koj tus yeej paub tias phem, tiam sis tu liam ua nyob yog tus xuab tshaj

[@kuabmuajtsuasxiong8712]

Tug niam tsev os tug niam tsev aw....txiv tsev yog phem npaum ko ces av tsij ua tib zoo ua ib than neeb muab nwg xa kiag mus rau nwg cov Kwv tij xwb mas los .