Drinks with confidants - uThando Nes'thembu | Mzansi Magic

[@nombusosibiya104]

I love 💗 makhumalos sister they are true sister coz they tell makhumalo the truth, they don't tell makhumalo things that will make her feel better

[@ayandamahlaba7234]

I honestly hope she will get to have kids of her own. This is so hard. She deserves so much.

[@tanq_mchunu695]

Hope she gets them with someone else 🤣🤣🤣

[@highandmightyqueen79]

@@tanq_mchunu695 dude, i doubt she will ever leave its like she is under umuthi

[@beemotsumi8560]

What if her ancestors don't want her in that polygamous marriage that's Why she can't conceive...

[@Zimruns]

@@tanq_mchunu695 me too

[@khanyimthembu7684]

Ngifisa ngathi kungenzeka umlingo uvele uzitholele owakho umntwana phela njalo uNkulunkulu uyamangazana

[@palesamokobodi1895]

Ngyak thanda kodwa makhumalo shame, Ave u nenhliziyo enhle❤️🔥

[@RASEKELE_HOPE]

I feel like Thobile is trying to be overly understanding and strong but there is no such thing as another wife agreeing to give her child off to her it's unrealistic. She is hurting and she must really think this through.

[@BahariNyeusi]

I hope MaKhumalo will be able to convince her husband that surrogacy is the solution. He can't keep on going on about how it is not cultural. Technology and science is what makes us survive nowadays, and it does not take away from your Africaness. It's absolutely ridiculous and CHILDISH that Musa shuns upon surrogacy. Imagine saying you are going to walk to the other part of town because you choose to neglect using a car because your forefathers never used cars it in the past, absolutely nonsensical. I hope the best for MaKhumalo.

[@a.sydney5036]

Her eggs may be an issue.

[@BahariNyeusi]

@@a.sydney5036 I agree, the possibilities of other issues are plenty.

[@mbalimngomezulu7263]

Totally agree with you... This frustrates me. Yaz you'd find that she can actually carry the kids as well through technology. This is abuse

[@kmbhebhe]

Surrogacy needs her own eggs and his sperm then someone is a just suitcase for 9 months….. this is heartbreaking but Mselleku family is dealing with real life family issues.

[@nthabisengmakopo9369]

Sometimes we do things that our ancestors don't approve of, I believe she can conceive but her ancestors are refusing to bless her with a child because of the kind of marriage she in.

[@AnitaNitta-lq9hh]

very true 💯

[@nomfundoimaculatengwenya1935]

Yey MUHLE uMaKhumalo Jesu

[@sbonzama7013]

So? Ubuhle busiza ngani?

[@kenosisithole2992]

Muhle Muhle Muhle!!!

[@nomfundoimaculatengwenya1935]

@@sbonzama7013 hhaybo we are just complimenting her beauty...eyokusiza ke angazi ukuthi eyani

[@sbonzama7013]

@@nomfundoimaculatengwenya1935 so is excessive make up and fake hair beautiful. Would you say the same uma eqada kuvuka with no make up?

[@kaziasa]

@@sbonzama7013 hayi wena, thula. You can clearly see that Thobile us beautiful nje. Make up has nothing to do with ubuhle bakhe!!

[@lebogangrefilwenkgwedi1795]

Musa once said that if Thobile doesn’t have kids her household will die , given they have been trying for 10 years and his daughter is going to varsity next year ..the sad truth is that Musa engaged Thobile so that he could have more kids it has nothing to do with love....Macele and Musa have conversations that we don’t know about..and that’s the only reason she placed her wedding on hold was so that they could discuss number 5.. it’s only acceptable to be barren in a sthembu if you’re the first wife..otherwise the end is nigh for her

[@pertuniabheli3190]

It's so sad really

[@FaveTVShows27]

100% agree...she adds no value ...needs to go

[@jacquamine]

Sad truth! It must also hurt her so much because she cannot have any say in this matter, she's forced to accept whatever hubby wants to try.

[@tpmash]

She’s such a lovely lady

[@refreshingthesoul6256]

I feel so sad for her.

[@nokwandaxhoba8213]

Why can't she just leave this man not because she doesn't love him. But because she's choosing her peace. MaKhumalo your life doesn't depend on him, she looks unhappy uzobulawa iStress

[@alterego4832]

Soft life

[@nokwandaxhoba8213]

Well it will make her age quickly and other things cuz mentally it's nyising her.

[@pamphuthane1860]

No amount of makeup, clothes and wigs will take away this pain Musa is putting her through.

[@a.sydney5036]

Her livelihood depends on him.

[@alterego4832]

@@a.sydney5036 it's the norm

[@amandasibiya9461]

Jehova uyakwaz okukulungele 🙌🙌🙌wen da time has come he will gv u wat u desire da most😍😍🤩I love u makhumalo ure da best❣❣❣🥰⚘

[@chareenkauazunda5875]

We need to explore the possibility that our beautiful Queen is not compatible with her husband. It might not be that she cannot conceive, it might be that them two together are not compatible. Am I wrong?

[@nomfundomasuku2443]

O mi gosh! I totally agree! She must let go, find her match! She'll be popping! Eij we pray

[@refilwempanzori]

I see that for her but eyyy.

[@chareenkauazunda5875]

@@nomfundomasuku2443 Yes I agree especially now that we see the husband is quite emotionally abusive to her and the forth wife.

[@vivimash4133]

U so correct gal

[@babsyxaba1134]

Ithi le nto ngesiZulu amagazi abo awazwani. UMaKhumalo angazithola eseba naye umntwana komunye umuntu. That is life, nithi nithandana kodwa amagazi enu aphike.

[@tpmash]

Surrogacy is the BEST option here! The baby is yours genetically, biologically 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️!

[@rumbidzaimavundu9435]

So true or rather Musa must accept that thrz a thing called God's time remember Sarah from the bible

[@Sheilzdarlingz]

I wish Thobile angaphums kwedidThembu athole omunye ummyeni who will accept her as is, this must be really hard for her

[@thiwanimndebele3186]

Okay guys since last year and this year,s of covid 😢no one woman got pregnant,dololo,why only talk,talk,mseleku your time is up now, finished,now makhumalo,makhumalo, always, abantuuuuu

[@nangamsopakamile6776]

It's so sad 🥺😥 yaz coz uMakhumalo akazikhethelanga uba angabinayo ingane. They should really consider surrogacy and meet her halfway she is really trying on her side. Makhumalo you are so beautiful 😍💕❤😘😘🥰 cc, you deserve so much more 💞💞💋😍😘😘😘...

[@mapulemasango9515]

Uyazi if I knew her like that I would be her surrogate mother, uyazi she deserves to be happy and I know my child will be happy and safe laekhona. 😢

[@wendy7915]

It would be her child. Not yours. Remember that

[@mapulemasango9515]

@@wendy7915 like I said surrogate mother. I honestly don't have a problem with that.

[@user-xe2io2go1f]

It wouldnt be your child

[@mapulemasango9515]

@@user-xe2io2go1f i know that 🤷

[@user-xe2io2go1f]

@@mapulemasango9515 well you said "I know my child would be happy and safe" but it wouldnt be your child. If you knew you wouldnt have said that

[@nikitaplugs7812]

I can't believe this is even a conversation 😣

[@nokwandaxhoba8213]

Gurl, like why is she still talking about this doesn't she get tired. Naye she needs to stop her man from abusing her

[@imi18180]

I can’t believe she’s always entertaining it. It’s all in Gods hand. Concentrate on what’s working and the universe will respond

[@sthembilethembionikaphiri9386]

@Nikita say that again!. Jeez.

[@SihleDladla-b3t]

MaK she is a woman to have her own kids❤❤❤❤she is the best😊😊😊maK keep up

[@buhlechaka7669]

If you love someone truelly you will not feel the need to pressurise him or her for kids.umuzi awakhiwa ingane wakhiwa abashadikazi.this stress is not equal to love. just saying

[@pamphuthane1860]

Kanti why doesnt Mthombeni pay for invitro fertilisation. I stand to be corrected but I think Thobile still has her womb intact. Just lost her fillopian tubes due to ectopic pregnancies. Haai man Thobile is not a baren woman. Why does Musa do this to her??

[@jacquamine]

They've tried and it failed, Musa said his tired of watching her try to only be disappointed, hence the need for a wife.

[@pamphuthane1860]

@@jacquamine you believe him? Open your eyes. Even if Thobile had kids he would still want no.5 Remember he once said no one will stop him from being loved.

[@jacquamine]

True, he is a man after his own heart.

[@siviwekulu6996]

Did she lose both of her fallopian tubes?

[@pamphuthane1860]

@@siviwekulu6996 thats what I think I heard in one of the old seasons when she had visited a Gynae and the results were aired on tv.

[@kristelngami4816]

The prettiest wife

[@loyalallies]

The most artificial

[@TikTok-nt2nf]

I think Thobile is a problem , he wants kids not you.

[@mbalenhlemthembu2605]

Mmmmh!!!!

[@agnesmkhuzangwe7308]

Thobile is the best

[@nwabisanabo8684]

Ukungabi namntana cc kubuhlungu kakhulu.i m in the same boat.i m also married sometimes I just feel ngingaphuma kulomtshato not becoz umyeni wam unditreater kakubi kuba ndingakwaz umnika ingane.its becoz I cant give him ingane ingaske aqhubeke nempilo.

[@ntombiendlovukazie6624]

Makhumalo trust me uzoyithola ingne

[@lebovisagie]

I wish I could be a surrogate for you. No money involved just help from one human being to another

[@marvinmwelase96]

Makhumalo iZwi likaNkulunkulu linamandla themba leli elithi okungenzeki kubantu kuye kuyenzeka ungazinaki zonke izinkulumo u Jehova uyakwazi akudalele kona uzomthola umtwana ngezwi likaSomandla lenza izimangaliso themba lona qha lodwa ☝

[@nosiphomaxama2954]

Don’t lose hope my older sister conceive at age of 50 she had 3 glz 1 day is 1day🤞🤞

[@loyalallies]

Thanx 4 giving some of us hope

[@opulenceesnath7588]

Awaaaaaa isithembu is terrible , eish Thobile I wish you can leave him n find a person who will appreciate you for the way you are 😭😭😭

[@Sthembile-o2e]

Yazi lento yokuthi kuyabekezelwa noma kushisa has killed so many of our sisters just look how stressed ma Khumalo is ayi khona 😭

[@ZOE_NtombiYaseMancwabeni]

MaKhumalo...is the money worth the emotional abuse enjena? 🙂

[@mattgraver3604]

Ewu uyathandeka MaKhumalo

[@cleonabosslady2147]

How about surrogacy

[@sizaish]

Uyasithanda isilungu uMaKhumalo😂

[@imi18180]

And siyatekateka

[@FaveTVShows27]

I'm confused....She is not married nje? Or did they pay lobola? but shes still not married

[@nosihlenoxy1485]

Konke kunesikhathi sakho Ntungwelihle qhawe lako Khumalo yebo kunzima kodwa uNkulunkulu uzolenza iCebo ngesikhathi sakhe ujabule futhi waneliseke uNkulunkulu wenza izinto ngendlela yakhe uyophendula sengathi akaze ukhale kangaka linda uthandaze siyiSizwe syakhuleka sikhulekela isibeletho sakho uyiRole model kubantu abaningi sibukela kuwe Ntombo kuye kuyenzeka 💃🏻💃🏻

[@motshidisimokubung6951]

Not having your own biological child is a huge challenge. I feel empty. Someone said phela thina seyazala Angelina inyomba. These was women saying these in my presence knows very well that I don't have child

[@molikengkokonyane3054]

So go that direction gal surrogacy is better though painful

[@nollyking4339]

Impeso 😂😂😂 ngyadlala but MaKhumalo is too accepting shame coz usufuna ukphila ntofontofo 🚮

[@zolekastokwe7918]

Hey yazi indivisa kabuhlungu lencidezi ubaba Mseleku uyifakela umaK

[@pinkgurlll1554]

But that won't be your child once they get mpiloz age uyahamba

[@palesamalefane5766]

She's still young, she just needs to relaxe and to take it easy. İ am 45 well very different from her story cod she's married and i am but i am a new mum now of 6 months to a bouncing baby boy. My late husband told me that I would have a child but not from him because he knew he was going to heaven soon but wished me to have another baby and not just a baby but a baby boy, that's exactly what I have nje game, i am a mum at 45. İ had no complications when giving birth and I am fine. İf it has happened to me it can be you. İ know we are Africans and we have our beliefs about different things. And we become anxious if we don't get what we need at that time of need but i guarantee you all is well with you and you shall conceive your own within our heavenly father God' time. When you are married it's not easy because of pressure but i think it's time you have courage keep trying and most important let it be between your God and ancestors to deal with it. God bless you my sister

[@sibongileinno8679]

Makhumalo muhle yoo

[@thozitunja3181]

Did she exhaust all the alternatives of falling pregnant and failed? Such as IVF?

[@lee-annemkhwanazi6773]

Makhumalo shame the.way engikuthanda ngakhona i feel the pain 4 you , i can even vouch to be a surrogate for u so u can have your own baby to raise ibuhlungu lento. I think u suffered enough

[@zikhonamdlozini3965]

Musa is selfish because akafuni nendlela zesilungu ezingenza uMakhumalo amithe...its his way or no way at all...Mxm!!!

[@olympia-za9418]

ABA adopter

[@yolisandamase1958]

Eish Thobile💔💔💔💔

[@sthembilepearl2592]

Mommy you derseve better or more ❤️

[@oyamahashe3073]

What ever happened to IVF??? Hayi Makhumalo is overly understanding. I hope she will be served as well in this process cause so far all of this is one sided

[@beyond_9-5_dreams]

Why don't they consider going for surrogacy?

[@cebisilemabaso8445]

Makhumalo your only solution is IVF

[@senamilemndaba]

She can't her only option is a surrogate because she doesn't have fallopian tubes but she said it's too Western for her but someone else carrying their child and giving it to her sounds worse. A surrogate is much better because they understand that there is no attachment honestly Musa is using this as an excuse to have another wife because if it was really about kids surrogacy would have been fine

[@nontuntila2654]

She suggested it, Musa refused. I agree, ivf would have helped

[@hlengiwemabuza5785]

But it doesn't make sense for her to say she wont do the surrogate then go on to say "I need one of the kids from other wives to raise". Atleast the surrogate baby will be 100% hers

[@thapeloprecious2891]

@@hlengiwemabuza5785,, ,,

[@pamphuthane1860]

@senamile invitro fertilisation you dont need fillopian tubes. Fertilisation is done outside and the fertilised embryo is placed inside the woman's womb.

[@nombusodladla7672]

Mmmmm hey

[@Phushprada1]

If uMaKhumalo really wants a child, I really don’t care what uMthombeni thinks and wants, this isn’t about him, if she wants a surrogate, she can get one with a lot of kids because trust me most people with kids don’t want another one.

[@thembakazitsheke9909]

I dont understand u Mthombeni shame ngoba he does not want to accept Makhumalo's situation and also the pressure he is putting Makhumalo on could be contributing towards her not getting babies, Musa should just let the situation ka Makhumalo to solve its self

[@thokozanikhanyile8267]

But myhombheni has several kids.why cabt she just accept that thabile wont have them. Why is a woman reduced to her child bearing abilities

[@kmbhebhe]

Shame MaKhu needs a surrogate…. Full stop.

[@lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299]

I am lost, I had always thought gore such topics were to be discussed among sister wives and not friends, wow!!

[@nkanyisozulu8482]

ADOPTION

[@wpp1586]

Some BS!

[@xoliswamlwayo]

Yoh I pray she gets a child shame... This is getting too much 😓