Mother Says She Will Never Accept Her Son as a Woman

“I Won’t Accept My Son as a Woman”
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Most parents' greatest wish for their children is to be happy and healthy. But Angela says she disagrees with her adult child’s lifestyle. She wrote to Dr. Phil because she says she is not happy with her child’s gender identity. She says she cannot accept that her adult child, who was born male, wants to dress like a woman. Angela says her child, who identifies as Jaybies, is disrespectful and a bad influence on her 16-year-old daughter. But Jaybies says Angela’s the one with the issue. She says she’s been different her entire life, and her mom pushes her conservative beliefs on everyone. (19130)
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[@ClasherSports]

Yo, she had me dead at " I identify as a rich white woman" 😭😭😭

[@L.Fenton]

That wasn't funny at all. 🙄

[@CornPop_s_grandson]

😂

[@libturdfanai]

@@L.Fenton 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤡🤡🤡🤡

[@moneyman1113]

@@libturdfanai the logic hurts 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@L.Fenton]

@Comrade Legion What?

[@shiaadams2837]

I don’t care what my child identifies as we’re riding till the wheels fall off. I love my child unconditionally no matter what.

[@suchalooser8784]

she's not saying she doesn't love him

[@L.Fenton]

@@suchalooser8784 She might as well have with her behaviour.

[@suchalooser8784]

@@L.Fenton you can still love someone despite not agreeing with them, maybe it's not possible for someone like you, but its very common and completely fine

[@L.Fenton]

@@suchalooser8784 This isn't like disagreeing with what kind of pizza you like, this is about gender identity. Not supporting them in that regard shows that the mom's love is not unconditional. "I love you, but I can't support you," is so awful. Hatred and disgust masked as moral superiority is so gross.

[@pink8290]

@@L.Fenton no , not supporting homosexuality doesn't make you a bad person

[@ebonimom6964]

I have to agree. I wouldnt want to see my son or daughter twerking or acting like a stripper either. That's probably the only thing I agree with and she has a point. Most parents wouldnt want their child doing things like that.

[@chadlikespasta3142]

I would imagine that acting out is more a repercussion of the mother not accepting she has a transgender child. She literally told her child she wished shed had an abortion.

[@yunggprince._]

But at the end of the day, you cannot place dictatorship over your child, once they reach a certain age they become their own person and you cannot shape their life into what YOU believe is right. You can bring a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink. Regardless of the fact that you raised them. Yes I understand that would be hard to see your child doing things that you don’t necessarily agree with and you can only do so much as their parent, but the love for them should be no different.

[@fj1914]

The mother is 100% correct. I really feel bad for her smh

[@andreford4622]

As long as a child is dependent on their parent then they must obeyed by the rules set by the parent that supports their well being. Once you become 100% independent then and only then do you not have to live by the rules placed in front of you by someone else. Why are children expected to obey the law but not their parents??? Some of the people in this world are truly effed up, for real....

[@MarriageAcrossCulture]

@@chadlikespasta3142 yet what did he tell her! There’s always 3 sides to a story. Common sense says that was a horrific knee jerk reaction to something.

[@CrimsonHalo99]

“I could say I’m a rich white woman, but Im not white” lmao she didn’t have to flex like that 💅😂

[@akirepineda3221]

Purr

[@akirepineda3221]

She a rich woman tho ayeeeee

[@Dollsfromlondon]

Lol I loved it😂

[@vivianmorris1919]

But what she said was accurate. It's the same thing.

[@tintinismybelgian]

I think the mother's point about identifying as a white woman has some merit, logically. If she sincerely identified as a white woman (as sincerely as her child identifies as a woman), and then she had her brain scanned, and it showed more similarities with white women's brains than with black women's brains, would that make her a white woman?

[@true2me366]

I agree with the mom!! She is right!!

[@L.Fenton]

She's wrong and being a bad mother.

[@beboskkeetube6985]

She has more credentials than Dr Phil lmaoooo

[@ninairish763]

Sure does! He’s a clown

[@redridinghood2229]

Dr. P has to comply with the establishment.

[@adakuchibuzor1984]

The recent case of a transgender woman impregnating two female fellow inmates and had to be transferred over to the male inmates jail should prove better to us.

[@aldorfc220]

Try that in Scotland with trans prisoner

[@IlkanAli]

Dr Phil done lost his damn mind. All the people we know have conformed to the agenda

[@dw2732]

what

[@owen3721]

Nah dr phil actually sounded incredibly intelligent here

[@LaurenNavie]

when she said “I can identify myself as a rich white woman” IT GOT REAL QUIET!!!!!!!

[@bettyn5218]

I was like ooop🤭

[@jojosspace273]

😂😂😂😂

[@84tae16]

Right

[@jklpop4664]

For the people in the back....

[@L.Fenton]

Because it doesn't work like that. Transgender is backed up by science, trans-racial isn't.

[@wolfcrown_pop7682]

I agree with the mother 10000%!! Also. Dr.Phil isn’t even a real doctor, and he makes me sick! He is wrong about EVERYTHING he said, along with the trained seals in his audience. They are disgusting people, and I applaud this mother for having common sense, and speaking her truth!! A man can NEVER be a woman, and vice versa. I would be just as ashamed as she is! This show is a disgrace. Period.

[@olecranal3016]

😬

[@maryellenhellman8626]

Not HER truth; THE truth. A male can NEVER be a female.

[@Bjay_Jw]

Alot of children seperate themselves from their parents because their parents only respected their kids for being who they wanted their kids to be instead of accepting and supporting who their kids are. Edit: Clearly some of you lack comprehension skills. You're bringing up topics that have nothing to do with what I posted. I didn't say you have to support everything your child does. I just said your children don't have to deal with you nit supporting them. It's really that simple, it goes both ways. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Sukitbitch123]

I definitely agree. As long as the person isn't hurting anyone then who cares what they choose to do with there life

[@LeggacyyHD]

or a male is a male and a female is a female LMFAOOO

[@Sukitbitch123]

@@LeggacyyHD or just let people live their lives even if you disagree with them

[@sydneymichelle8357]

@@LeggacyyHD did you not hear Dr Phil? He said the brain of someone who is actually trans has a brain that is more similar to the gender they identify with.

[@ballmoniyy]

@@sydneymichelle8357 brain doesn’t determine gender chromosomes and genitalia do I don’t see your point

[@nnan6070]

The mother is making sense more than all off them

[@L.Fenton]

No she isn't. She's just a transphobe.

[@daltonredden6199]

What is doctor Phil a doctor of? I genuinely don’t know

[@shawnbates1804]

He is a doctor of clinical psychology.

[@anastasiarose1430]

He's just here for the money I guess, he doesn't fix problems, if anything he'll make them worse for views

[@shawnbates1804]

@@anastasiarose1430 he does have a Ph d in clinical psychology

[@HighonBoots]

@@shawnbates1804 they have this pathetic thinking their children are hurting them. And they’re wrong

[@aaronpowell7050]

@@shawnbates1804 He hasn’t renewed his license to practice since 2006 though so technically he can’t actually give real medical advice anymore.

[@eden4237]

If you are unable to love your child unconditionally, you never loved them to begin with and probably just shouldn’t have kids…

[@streetlavaentpt2954]

U don't let your kids embarrass the bloodline...get them help...

[@melany3071]

@@streetlavaentpt2954 shutup

[@nenenash7]

She never said she didn’t love her son

[@vanessamacneal7759]

I think u worded that wrong

[@TheCarlScharnberg]

Please. Being a parent involves parenting, not accepting every whim and want of your child. Realize the difference.

[@MegaSlimgoody1]

The Devil is hard at work SMH 🤦🏾

[@L.Fenton]

With what?

[@MegaSlimgoody1]

@@L.Fenton Trying to turn people against God

[@L.Fenton]

@@MegaSlimgoody1 How? With what?

[@MegaSlimgoody1]

@@L.Fenton With this episode as an example. That is a male and the mom is right in her stance. But people treat her like she is wrong.

[@L.Fenton]

@@MegaSlimgoody1 That's because she IS wrong. She's being transphobic and so are you. Trans-women are real women. Get educated and respect the pronouns.

[@bettycochrane3192]

Male or female.... As a Mom, I would be very distressed to see the videos of my child, twerking, etc. on the internet. Is this a requirement of being transgender.... I would ask my child not to put him/her on display as is being done.

[@Jess-hf9me]

I completely agree. As a mom I would also be more upset at the twerking. I would be more inclined to take them seriously as a transgendered woman if all the stereotypes and caricatures of being a woman wasn't apart of it.

[@kikilicious99]

Wow! The comments are turned on.😮🥳

[@therockbottom5256]

You’ve been sleeping

[@brendaandrade6753]

Sad

[@firedupplayers]

You beat me to it 😆

[@firedupplayers]

@@aydiosmio1315 😢 😢 😆

[@star_light_kid]

Where have you been? 😀

[@Ahmarnie22]

Whenever I have kids. I will support them in anything they wanna be, I will love my kids regardless

[@dmariots]

If you bring the love then your boy will grow up to be masculine men and your daughter feminine women. What most people don't understand is Deyvian was acting out to get love and acceptance from his mom and after he couldn't get it he tried to get it some other way. I used to be a beta ,simp , weak man because I wanted love from my mom. I grew up in an environment where my mom and my grandma said "all men are bad" letting a 3 year old here that statements mad me think that meant me, that's why my mom is neglecting me. I suppressed who I was, I'm just began being myself 2 years ago. Go back and see what this woman said she said to her son. And understand she is censoring herself because she doesn't want to look bad. Assume her son had to hear I shut have aborted you, the fights the arging. When you are traumatized you become like that that traumatized you. He is acting and behaving just like his mom.

[@its_j6892]

@@dmariots ? Why are you typing an entire essay ? No one cares

[@dmariots]

@@its_j6892 idk maybe its has something to do with the walnut shaped head.

[@aimee-leighkelly2906]

for real. Unconditional love.

[@djtjbands7739]

Right

[@beshoo191]

In terms of brain shape, we all know there’s male brain and female brain. He said trans brain looks more similar but not the same, which is a different thing, so the brain would look like a male brain, but you would notice difference on brain reaction and functionality. And that what mental health is. Mental health is defined as a person’s condition with regard to their psychological and emotional well-being. All these are brain related. Dr. Phill just manipulate words to intimidate her. Dr. Phill should have acknowledged there’s a mental health illness called gender dysphoria, he didn’t because he picked the side. And he knows if he doesn’t support it, his career would be at risk. biology is so clear and millions of study has confirmed that men and women are biologically different in many ways. And that’s the fact which can’t be changed.

[@Stephaniellarson33]

Thank you! Exactly! Dr. Phil is becoming less credible with every word that he speaks. He refuses to acknowledge mental health illnesses if he thinks he will get "canceled". He is doing more disservice to people than helping.

[@L.Fenton]

@@Stephaniellarson33 Dr. Phil's controversies don't extend to supporting trans-people. He's not doing a disservice by doing that. Transgender isn't a mental illness. Get educated. 🙄

[@L.Fenton]

Biology supports transgender as a real thing. That's fact you can't refute.

[@ReRe_22]

Thank you! Dr. Phil used deceptive word play salad 👎🏿

[@L.Fenton]

@@ReRe_22 How is it deceptive? Transgender is valid and accepted by science.

[@nhbiker1961]

She is spot on.

[@L.Fenton]

Who is? The daughters?

[@nhbiker1961]

@@L.Fenton the mother . She has one daughter and a son.

[@L.Fenton]

@@nhbiker1961 No she has 2 daughters. One cisgender and the other is transgender. They're both valid.

[@nhbiker1961]

@@L.Fenton no she has one daughter with a vagina and one son with a pecker suffering from mental illness. He is a guy in a dress.

[@adnanben-abdellah5605]

@@nhbiker1961 she has a son and daughter.

[@M.-.98]

Good for the mom speaking the truth.

[@inyourgrillbrunson9575]

I have some respect for standing on her word. She wasn't lying about some things.

[@deeaygow]

It’s her truth but she’s still wrong.

[@SeraphinaRuthman246]

@@deeaygow Who are you to tell her what gender she gave birth to? That thing is a male. Keep lying to yourself. lmaoo 🤣🤣

[@wildgirl2570]

Hate me if you want but the mother is right and y’all need to have more respect for her no matter who’s side you took

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER!!!!!😇🙏💯💥

[@exclusive-7761]

There is absolutely nothing she is right about she has HER opinions and you can agree or not what has she done or said to be respected besides in the black community a little bit? like the daughter said she is a grown and it’s her decision and she doesn’t need validation from the mother. Yes it is a big change for the mother but it does not mean she should be verbally abusive towards the daughter and that’s what’s right

[@bachelorzheng1523]

@@exclusive-7761 you are talking bs rn all bs so the mother should just scrap all the memories and everything about her SON she raised and just accept that her soon is a daughter now.. y’all just making it all about the confused guy putting on ladies cloth do you also know her that can affect the mother also mentally???She might also even die from the impact.. is just the same as loosing a child cause you lost you son and one random confused woman in your house claiming she’s your daughter doesn’t make sense to me

[@L.Fenton]

@@bachelorzheng1523 Clearly you're not very open-minded.

[@L.Fenton]

No she isn't. Transphobia shouldn't be respected.

[@steelie5420]

I agree with the mom. Society tries forcing us to accept things we are not comfortable with.

[@spicytruth8721]

Exactly.

[@aesthetica4105]

You don’t have to “ accept “ it, you pig, but you do have to respect transgender people.

[@aaronpowell7050]

Imagine how uncomfortable her daughter is, especially having been told she should’ve been aborted

[@steelie5420]

@@aesthetica4105 i don't "have" to do anything.

[@steelie5420]

@@aaronpowell7050 that was wrong of the mother to say. The mom doesn't have to accept that her son is a woman now, the science is that "she" is a male.

[@TheGamerRedline]

Mom: Makes fun of child Also mom: Why is he like this?

[@TheGamerRedline]

Hmmm, I wonder why...

[@GratiaPrima_]

Where did she make fun? She was just describing behavior she didn’t agree with and why.

[@pokemasterzelda8291]

@@GratiaPrima_ It's not so much as making fun, more so she is disrespecting her child

[@JP-et2fx]

@@GratiaPrima_ I agree with you 💪🏽

[@zyshock]

You can’t blame her tho. Imagine raising a child their whole life and all of a sudden they are a different person. you cannot expect them to accept that.

[@vperera2153]

Respect for this mom ..

[@your_princesa_isabelg]

Same

[@L.Fenton]

She doesn't deserve respect for her bigotry.

[@oshimo8648]

To Okay

[@Arcenturus]

respect

[@masonr5677]

No respect f that b****

[@Mureen2024]

She's a strong woman very educated, yes your son is not a woman period. I salute you mam👏

[@Alisasaraci1]

She’s definitely right !!!!

[@L.Fenton]

She's just being transphobic.

[@melodiouszzz13]

@@L.Fenton so as @aleesaraci

[@L.Fenton]

@@melodiouszzz13 Who?

[@melodiouszzz13]

@@L.Fenton the person who commented this

[@webpuppy12]

She's just gotta go no-contact with her mother.

[@ledgerburggraff1852]

*he

[@aridior7979]

@@ledgerburggraff1852 she*

[@blackomnis8531]

@@aridior7979 he

[@brandonzero07]

@@blackomnis8531 😂 I expect a war of he/she in the upcoming months. I hope you can hold the fort 😂

[@sd-ww3th]

@@blackomnis8531 be respectful of someone's gender identity please. You're really just being a jerk

[@harmonythompson1201]

My mom wouldn’t be pleased either.

[@david-hn3qw]

@Aaru 4830 weird reply

[@aesthetica4105]

I’m sorry that your mother isn’t understanding and accepting. I’m praying for the safety of any transgender people around her.

[@david-hn3qw]

@@aesthetica4105 you're acting as if she'd pounce on the first trans she sees

[@noah1602]

Sorry about that

[@aesthetica4105]

@@david-hn3qw I’m acknowledging the fact that any form, no matter how big or small, of transphobia can be extremely harmful to someone’s physical and mental health.

[@jrmighty]

Smartest woman ever

[@garcia7739]

It's gross how Phil tries to defend these delusions

[@Charlotte-wx4jz]

It’s gross how you defend medieval thinking!

[@Tyrosine0910]

​@@Charlotte-wx4jz Man=man is medieval thinking?

[@dolothedon6319]

Wake up ​@@Charlotte-wx4jz

[@734wheeler5]

He does it for views and gets it

[@jonasabry9099]

It's got to be difficult for both of them honestly.

[@Mm.kay.]

Definitely

[@octosageuwu2829]

? How is her sexual identity and willingness to live her truth an impediment to this sorry excuse for a mother?

[@aaronpowell7050]

@@octosageuwu2829 I’m trans myself. What I get from it is, it feels to parents like they’re mourning the loss of their child and gaining a new one at the same time. It’s really hard. Either way, it is NOT an excuse to literally wish death on your child. This mother, regardless of the pain she’s feeling is disgusting.

[@aaronpowell7050]

@I Don’t Care What You Think She also said she wished she’d aborted her child. THAT is what I’m talking about.

[@odeefromdawic]

@@octosageuwu2829 why don’t you become a parent, lose a child, and figure it out?

[@Tigerwolf-uq1fu]

Bravo for this woman for speaking up the truth men have different chromosomes different bodies women the same thing you cannot convince me that a hot dog tastes like a burger it's just impossible what Dr Phil says it's complete 100% gibberish.

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN !!!!!!😇🙏💯💪💥

[@anthonyjenkins5483]

Actually DR. Phil was speaking facts about trans brains. Sooo. 👍🏽

[@werewolfbynight4918]

@@anthonyjenkins5483 no he wasn't he's full of garbage

[@ubeenbit4791]

Dr Phill is not a Dr. He is a shrill a POS. Who is Oprah's puppet

[@AustinBrizzyO]

This man gave evidence with sources that you can look up urself... stop being stupid

[@CornPop_s_grandson]

Way to stand strong and not allow yourself to be intimidated into accepting this demonic agenda Angela. You CAN still love your SON and NOT consider him to be a woman. They don’t care if you love your son or not they care more about compliance, conformity, and obedience and most of all they are pissed that you won’t celebrate it.

[@naseemweathers8358]

100% and if you don’t agree with their agenda you’re a bigot or homophobe That’s why I despise liberals

[@kingsandangels4404]

Love has very little significance if you can not respect your child and berate them every minute for who they are

[@Kimoney534]

She loves her child and she wants to see him the way she birth him and there is nothing wrong with that. They need to stop forcing people to accept what they don’t want to.

[@kingsandangels4404]

@@Kimoney534 it's not a child's fault for borning into a body they do not belong in. If you do not see your child is suffering, if you do not have a compassion to try understand why they behave the way they do, why they are so hurt with misgender even if they do not choose to get hurt, there is a LOT wrong with you. That makes you a terrible parent. You might love them, but you love them for idea of who they are and their body, with no concern to their pain whatsoever and disregarding it.

[@ttall6136]

It is ABSOLUTELY an AGENDA!!!

[@mirabella2154]

Poor mother.

[@violetsden]

Poor child.

[@aesthetica4105]

You’re gross.

[@niangalsine2868]

I really feel her pain. This trend or whatever is just mess up

[@mirabella2154]

@@niangalsine2868 Absolutely. These are the end times where right is proclaimed to be wrong and wrong is proclaimed to be right.

[@user-vm6mw5xw7o]

transphobe

[@joeberean172]

Doctor Phil is not a Christian

[@Raidersmomma2489]

Aren't you people supposed to love your neighbor as you love yourself? I'm an atheist but grew up in a Christian home and I've read the Bible cover to cover and nowhere in there does it say anything about not loving transpeople so neither are you

[@psychedelicpayroll5412]

@@Raidersmomma2489 He’s an elite satanist disguising himself as a Christian.

[@Raidersmomma2489]

@@psychedelicpayroll5412 and you are privy to this info how?

[@user-vm6mw5xw7o]

transphobe

[@joeberean172]

@@user-vm6mw5xw7o freaks

[@Bestbuilt04]

Mad respect for the mom, facts over feelings

[@morganc.m1830]

You need to actually get educated if you think them are facts.

[@Bestbuilt04]

@@morganc.m1830 they are facts, just because you think you’re something doesn’t mean you actually are what you think you are.

[@00.50goldeneye]

@@morganc.m1830 you’re apart of the problem

[@surabhi-a6839]

​@@morganc.m1830 are you high?? Or just a simple fool?

[@L.Fenton]

@@00.50goldeneye Wrong.

[@beverleygomez7963]

You are so right mom!

[@itube0033]

This mother is really brave! Really brave, I admire her.

[@Grayson_Gaines]

WHAT

[@bitchrespecter420]

thats all you got from this..?

[@itube0033]

@@bitchrespecter420 Can you tell me what it's more important than a mother that love her children and she wants to help them whatever it takes. This mother has shown this. She loves her boy that has become completely delusional and full of lust, because deep down that is what that boy is, a lustfull man, with that mental variant of lust.

[@simphiwewewe9064]

Thank u

[@aaliyahbuggg]

Let me guess you watched the Matt Walsh Dr Phil video. Well... if that's the case, I agree too.

[@kallmefunny7291]

Dr.Phil literally said.. "Are you asking HIM to ignore that.. to ignore HIS brain… LOL THAT'S ALL LMAO! 3:45 DR.PHIL DONT EVEN BELIEVE IT..!

[@ayyboii8108]

And she proceed (in too many words) to say yes 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bunsmasterbunny]

It's not in his brain brain scans have proven it.

[@dianaikks9633]

There many story's from man that regret the transition, but they just ignore them, so they don't have to accept the truth.

[@werewolfbynight4918]

Dr phil is paid to go along with this nonsense

[@tintinismybelgian]

I think the mother's point about identifying as a white woman has some merit, logically. If she sincerely identified as a white woman (as sincerely as her child identifies as a woman), and then she had her brain scanned, and it showed more similarities with white women's brains than with black women's brains, would that make her a white woman?

[@imperialkevin1113]

I won’t approve of my daughter doing that. And certainly not my son. It’s has nothing to do with acceptance it’s about parental reality. Where is this boys father?

[@jasonfromguitarcenter]

In Prison Or With The Set

[@maxalberts2003]

In a gang.

[@jasonfromguitarcenter]

@@maxalberts2003 Prolly Bloods

[@Guttr._.GrrL69]

Maybe this is why ur children hate u

[@imperialkevin1113]

@@Guttr._.GrrL69 so what if they hate me. They will thank me when they don’t grow up to be a 30 year old freak show circus act.

[@bree1776]

The mother has the absolute right to her view. She shouldn't be ridiculed or forced into accepting a lifestyle that doesn't align with her beliefs.

[@OzzyVRrealone]

Exactly

[@L.Fenton]

Amazing everything you just said was wrong. Transgender isn't a lifestyle, fool.

[@thugmonk9837]

She should be ridiculed for being a bad parent and rejecting her child tho

[@lionkvng1584]

The daughter already she doesn’t have to respect or accept her being trans, but just respecting her as a human and being a loving parent is all she wants.

[@sanicsanic6811]

You can disapprove of someone's lifestyle without being cruel. She's stated her opinion many times. I'm confused as to how that gives her the right to be cruel to her child.

[@TheAJ944]

I do agree that identifying as something does not make it factual. You can identify with what you please but does not make it factual.

[@KM-oy5yh]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@normanitv7844]

👐🏽👐🏽👐🏽👐🏽👐🏽👐🏽💯

[@baybeetinax3]

Agreed. I can believe I am a parrot all i want but i’m still human

[@jamesbackwards6299]

She was given a literal neurological fact but still denied it like miss ma’am what do you want 😭

[@84mztoya]

Science is always trying to prove God is a lie and doesn't exist.

[@2delicious57]

She gave facts to and they denied that to so, what more should she say, to agree with this never

[@Miniispooky]

@@2delicious57 what facts? We’re the facts proven by professional scientist? If I look up these so called facts can I find them?

[@Miniispooky]

@@84mztoya because maybe god doesn’t exist and the Bible is a lie but if you believe in him that’s okay too. Just don’t use him as your excuse to hate a group of people

[@bunsmasterbunny]

@@84mztoya And God isn't a lie and does exist. Science can't disprove him.

[@donnakearse2503]

Good job mom! You stand your ground even when talking to Phil.

[@spaniardmartinez6896]

@donna kearse,yup,she’s a warrior!!!

[@delishme2]

Being deliberately obtuse is nothing to celebrate 🤯 she is a fool.

[@L.Fenton]

She's gonna lose her daughters over this.

[@L.Fenton]

@@spaniardmartinez6896 No just transphobic.

[@emeliamaestas8492]

You keep up being the great mother you are. Maybe if more parents actually thought the way she does we wouldn't have all these poor confused children/adults;

[@paulomilan515]

But she does have a child who is transgender so how is your point even valid?

[@realbtch1014]

@@paulomilan515EXACTLY.. ppl need to just stfu.. don’t even know what they’re sayin

[@doxoxo779]

Great?! She raised that hot mess

[@christianjoos7011]

Dr. Phil cant say what we all know, Hes afraid to get cancelled

[@jasonfromguitarcenter]

Can’t Get Cancelled

[@HighonBoots]

Which is?

[@anastasiarose1430]

Honey what you think you know is actually the lack of knowledge and denial that you have. Trans people don't have to prove anything to anybody because guess what medical science already did that. But when you get presented with the facts on facts on facts you asked for, yall say illogical stuff like 2:18 to the actual people experiencing this and the medical professionals who took the time and energy to come to their findings. So stay pressed 😐👌🏼

[@insidious6068]

@@anastasiarose1430 Can you send a link to a reliable website/document that proves all of this? I am curious to read it.

[@matthewhughes7252]

@@anastasiarose1430 xx or xy is scientific but noooo I feel like a Jaguar so now you have to change your whole language to be more inclusive

[@EnriqueMartinez-id6mu]

I can call myself anything I want but that, doesn't make me be it.

[@lucymaty4545]

I’m shocked that Dr. Phil is arguing and taking a side. Didn’t see that coming.

[@toroinou2526]

When you realise that he was talking about the brain side of things, he did not specifically say that she was wrong in believing that her son is not a woman, try to pay attention next time, lol.

[@nadinemccaulley7060]

Dr. Phil always takes the kids side

[@toroinou2526]

@@nadinemccaulley7060 When you realise he was talking about the neurological facts about it, he clearly wasn't taking any sides.

[@redridinghood2229]

He's establishment and working on a woke channel.

[@toroinou2526]

@@redridinghood2229 When you forget he talked about the science, he clearly wasn't on anyones side.

[@dee.snuts88]

Alot of wokeness in these comments. Say whatever you want but the truth will always remain. You can not change your gender.

[@aaronpowell7050]

Correct. Your gender is innate, and wired in your brain. If you’re trans, you’re born trans.

[@user-vm6mw5xw7o]

no one’s saying you can change your gender lmao. please read a book, transphobe

[@dee.snuts88]

@@user-vm6mw5xw7o Way to contradict yourself. How can I be a "transphobe" if nobody is saying they can change their gender? Please do give me some of your finest reccomendations of books on the matter. Clearly you skipped the ones about Human Anatomy.

[@bunsmasterbunny]

@@aaronpowell7050 No, it is not. Brain scans prove it.

[@audreymeyer1381]

The mother everyone needs

[@L.Fenton]

Except for her own kids. She doesn't love them unconditionally.

[@audreymeyer1381]

@@L.Fenton haha of course she loves her child, she’s tired of the ridiculous fantasy game her child is playing and wants them to come back to reality

[@L.Fenton]

@@audreymeyer1381 Transgender isn't a ridiculous fantasy game. They exist in reality and supported by the greater scientific community. Look it up. If she loves her child, she wouldn't be transphobic towards her. Get educated.

[@L.Fenton]

No one needs of bigoted parent.

[@lexibell2809]

This women is amazing!! Dr. Phil is woke and citing studies inaccurately, shame on him!

[@kai3220]

shut

[@rayaanasli135]

True now shes a woman but his studies technically are right

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN!!!😇🙏

[@werewolfbynight4918]

@@rayaanasli135 his studies are imaginary

[@valenciasaintilus9573]

@@werewolfbynight4918 they aren't though.

[@twinkletwinkle4944]

She right 💯

[@royaltriann6316]

Ya know, in the beginning of this clip where she was concerned about how he carries himself that was the most sincere part of the episode. The rest not so much.

[@lukethedaydreamer]

she*

[@emmaminer3780]

shes a woman.

[@royaltriann6316]

Luke Horn the pronouns were never addressed from my understanding even his sister said him & he

[@royaltriann6316]

emma miner well her and HER mother never really got to the bottom of what the actual problem was besides not being accepting of the lifestyle. This could simply be a gay man in woman’s clothes for all we know.

[@lukethedaydreamer]

@@royaltriann6316 bruh she said her pronouns were she her so her pronouns are she her

[@coecommittedinc]

I love this mom. She is brave n very aware

[@L.Fenton]

She's not brave or aware. She's transphobic and ignorant.

[@phitney12]

Yes I support her. She shouldn't be forced to accept it

[@L.Fenton]

@@phitney12 So you're supporting transphobia? Disgusting.

[@spaniardmartinez6896]

My sista speaking facts!!

[@brawlclip3217]

Fr

[@ChubbyChubbyfatman]

I have no respect for Dr. Phil anymore

[@FantasyFighterJEN]

I would be upset too if my trans daughter was twerking like that on video, lol. However if they're old enough to make those kind of videos I won't really have a say but I can let them know I don't like it lol

[@blackomnis8531]

Son

[@kassandranevaehhernandez2330]

@@blackomnis8531 daughter*

[@blackomnis8531]

@@kassandranevaehhernandez2330 stop playing pretend. He's a dude dressed like a chick.

[@FantasyFighterJEN]

@@blackomnis8531 that's fine if you think that, but don't be rude and don't actively start a fight. Some people think differently then you and that's okay. Learn to be chill please and thank you

[@ayshawarsame5292]

I’m pretty sure they are around 18-21 so I think it’s fine tbh if she does it she does it, idrc cuz it’s not me :)

[@audreyjanow4724]

While she may be “old school”, I respect this woman for not backing down on what she believes. And for what it’s worth, I agree. Believe something all you want, but you can’t make others think the same way as you do

[@L.Fenton]

She's transphobic. There's nothing to respect in that. I pity her for her ignorance and you too.

[@sleekat71]

And no matter what.....he will NEVER be a woman. EVER.

[@naii.exotic]

She needs to understand jay is a grown adult Nd she should support her decision

[@nismosaki4550]

HIS*

[@amorearzon2142]

@@nismosaki4550 Stfu

[@nismosaki4550]

@@amorearzon2142 don't cry over facts keyboard warrior.

[@slogomanrules4713]

He's a man

[@naii.exotic]

@@slogomanrules4713 don’t be disrespectful “ he ” goes by she nd i don’t see why u replied to my comment

[@abbybiniam1658]

His mother saying facts💯

[@eurobeatpride6309]

HER mother is saying lies 100%!

[@hogorkids6845]

Good mom she has the right to stand up for what’s right

[@L.Fenton]

No she didn't. She's just being transphobic. There's nothing right about that. 😒

[@EliWeaver93]

You are always going to be what you came into this world as “MALE” or “FEMALE” not that confusing. End of story

[@vanezzapawlowski7370]

Why does everyone disagree with here and do not aknowledge that she is right

[@itzmari21]

Exactly!! I agree with her 100%

[@vanezzapawlowski7370]

Im Talking about the mother

[@jeremiahtray5621]

The mother is too right and too honest and the World hates honest and right people. Everything wrong goes.

[@laurawatkins3727]

Mom can love her son he was born a man he chose transgender life mom can love her son but she doesn't have to agree with it

[@hollowhills13]

You don't "choose" to be transgender. Did you choose to be female? No? Because it's who you are. Trans people are being them.

[@mslazas8355]

@@hollowhills13 if you are not a mother you will NEVER understand

[@L.Fenton]

@@mslazas8355 There are plenty of mothers that accept their trans-kids. She's got no excuses.

[@Shylafitness]

@@hollowhills13 you don’t choose your DNA or genitals, chromosomes, reproductive organs, skeletal structure. It’s simple biology. So yes you do choose to be transgender. It’s a CHOICE to hack or mutilate genitalia. I find it outrageous that this is even a discussion. Men are men. Women are women. We can’t change science. Or force respect or pronouns. There’s no spectrum. Man. Woman. That’s it. That’s all. With the occasional low percentage of intersex but it’s very clear which gender they are. They aren’t in the middle. 🤣

[@hollowhills13]

@@Shylafitness we aren’t trying to change science. Science has proven being transgender is legitimate. Using pronouns aren’t new. She/he are pronouns. You use them every day. Our ancestors recognized non binary/intersex people generations ago, there’s proof they were part of society thousands of years ago. I find it entertaining you keep going back to your science argument, yet science disputes your points

[@jaitoujoursraison8654]

The mother is right

[@ShiniRyuga]

Wrong

[@heyyyyitsjeff]

@@ShiniRyuga nope. She’s right. Facts don’t care about feelings.

[@natalienicasio638]

To you

[@heyyyyitsjeff]

@@natalienicasio638 to logical people.

[@exiles4527]

@@heyyyyitsjeff to trasnphobic people*

[@Tuliptulip-yx9wc]

Yes, kudos to mama!

[@Hekeepblessingme]

Regardless of how you feel on this topic, do not bring a child Into this world if you are not capable of loving them unconditionally, under any circumstances.

[@2delicious57]

You can do what you want, do bring a child into the world if you can’t tell them when they are wrong and need to change period

[@Hekeepblessingme]

@@2delicious57 What?

[@majmaj2881]

If my child kills people for fun or is a serial rapist I won't use unconditional love. I will love him from prayer and distance. This is nowhere near that serious however there are times when family must be abandoned. You can't help everybody

[@Hekeepblessingme]

@@majmaj2881 I mean with that I can agree. I’ve distanced myself from my abusive family. But the matter is you still made an effort to love them from a distance but with a boundary that allows you to respect your self and your own sanity. I’m talking about people who say “if my kid is gay, I’ll kill myself” (my ex’s father said that about his brother). That’s just not okay to me.

[@majmaj2881]

@@Hekeepblessingme I agree. Sorrow comes along with change from time to time. Though I point out there is a significant fear that comes with difference in opinions and observations. We call it homophobia but don't acknowledge it for what it is; a fear. Though the mother doesn't acknowledge the fear of losing her son, (perhaps to death and other subjects as usual) it's obvious. I'd advise her to let go of her emotions and live in love while showing her adult child compassion and affection.

[@ixoh7754]

I now identify as Superman, the last son of krypton.

[@txni3546]

these cis men istg

[@Reshme77]

Thats fine.

[@msrochellaqueen]

I admire her she states facts I love her for telling the truth

[@L.Fenton]

She doesn't state facts or truth, just transphobia. 😒

[@media1522]

@@L.Fenton Truth =phobia😂

[@L.Fenton]

@@media1522 Nope. Phobia ain't truth. Get educated. 🙄

[@jacobrahe8726]

Just watched the full episode I support this mom

[@lovedavis9572]

I love how strong she is about her believe... When she got an ultrasound the doctor said it's a BOY!!!

[@libturdfanai]

Yes and that's true, he is a BOY and always will be

[@lasheemaford8318]

I stand with Mom ALL DAY!

[@spinel3089]

Then you should never have a child. Every child deserves a parent, but not all parents deserve a child.

[@Peace_luv_educ888]

@@spinel3089yep!

[@Peace_luv_educ888]

That's nice, but nobody asked!

[@AC-fy4cv]

Shes right

[@violetsden]

Nope.

[@user-vm6mw5xw7o]

transphobe

[@mosthated.e.2422]

“I identify as a rich white women”💀 that one got it

[@achie_ci2107]

This mom is AWESOME. I respect her way more than anyone in that room. This Mom has pure heart.

[@L.Fenton]

Are you real? She's worst by far being heartless towards her kids.

[@achie_ci2107]

@@L.Fenton She's trying to SAVE her kid there. Her kid was going to some wrong environment i guess.

[@L.Fenton]

@@achie_ci2107 No she isn't. Preventing a trans-person from being themselves does the exact opposite of saving them. Don't be a transphobe, genius. 😒

[@achie_ci2107]

No,I'm NOT, why are you assume me. Are you logicphobe?🤣 Every human is equal. Back to real life, don't too much on social media.

[@L.Fenton]

@@achie_ci2107 I don't assume, you've all but admitted it. Typical transphobe joke. Utterly tasteless. Yet you don't treat trans-people as equal, you hypocrite.😑 Take your own advice, kid.🖕 Trans-people are valid. 🏳️‍🌈

[@guy70yearsfromnow95]

Phil is a goofy I swear 😂

[@nicolewil121]

Mom am feeling your pain period, I really do.

[@Reshme77]

Lady stop ✋

[@gameshowguy2000]

*NO. FEELINGS COME FIRST. AND UNLESS YOU WANT TO GO TO JAIL LIKE HER, YOU BETTER STOP.*

[@werewolfbynight4918]

@@gameshowguy2000 shut up you fool her son was born a male and will always be male and nothing can change that

[@gagesserotonin6863]

that’s why your name is nicole

[@allthingslexi6046]

*0:40* “This new persona that he has just gives off angry ratchet angry black woman.” …Ma’am that’s YOU. 😂

[@-chloe-8728]

"jabies can get really disrespectful" says the woman constantly belittling, insulting and misgendering her child 🙄

[@werewolfbynight4918]

He's a dude he will never be a woman you can't change biology

[@-chloe-8728]

@@werewolfbynight4918 you must live a really sad, unfulfilling life to feel like you have to belittle people for being different than you... :/

[@werewolfbynight4918]

@@-chloe-8728 it's really sad that you're all so delusional that you choose to ignore reality his DNA will say he is a male because he is a male and nothing can change that

[@-chloe-8728]

@@werewolfbynight4918 PLEASE explain to me how you think DNA works. i would LOVE to hear it mr. biologist

[@whatareyoulookingatme1273]

@@werewolfbynight4918 Biology who? Let people to be who they are. And in the fact, everyone was female when we weren't even born yet. Clownfishes change their genders too, so therefore it's a nature thing. Your face is expressing madness behind the screen because truth must hurts for you.

[@karleighhurt]

regardless of how you feel. this is what's needed, open conversations like this. with everyone being respected and getting their chance to speak without judgement. this is how you change the world for the better. Not cancelling people for not believing in what you do, talk about it, educate people, learn from people.

[@realbtch1014]

U must ain't at the other videos

[@anapriego8122]

You should watch the watch the other videos. She wouldn’t let anyone talk so that’s not a conversation

[@karleighhurt]

@@realbtch1014 no i did, i was really speaking about everyone else besides her lol they were all respectful and allowed her to speak. she didn't do the same

[@mawwalersh7893]

Awww preach❤️😜

[@2delicious57]

Judgement is needed

[@ramonameeks2650]

I’m with mom. You’re born how you’re born.

[@dw2732]

no

[@totorolover5750]

This mom needs to get with it and accept your child for who she is. Her child is trans she needs to get over it either accept it or leave the child alone.

[@Rood0808]

The fact that this mother told her child that she should have been aborted.... heinous. She takes every single opportunity to dismiss and deny Dr.Phil and her daughters, and her stubbornness will cost her her relationships with them. And, that this woman got her BA in Psychology and decided she knows what's what but apparently believes the body and brain are two separate entities. Like, this is not philosophy class, it's biology. Your opinion doesn't change reality O_0 At least the younger sister seems to be supportive and has her head on straight. I hope they can work through their problems eventually and come back together, but space is the best thing for them both now. Jaybies, fly free, fly high, and find your chosen family. Sending love from Chicago

[@werewolfbynight4918]

That's a dude not a girl

[@Rood0808]

@@werewolfbynight4918 so edgy, wow. push me over with a feather.

[@werewolfbynight4918]

@@Rood0808 hate hearing the truth here's reality her son will never be a girl and if her son doesn't stop there's a real possibility of him getting hurt just like his mom said

[@aaronpowell7050]

@@werewolfbynight4918 Aren’t you transphobes the same ones that say we’re pushing our gender onto everyone else? And you’re literally doing the same thing by trying to force people to think like you.

[@gameshowguy2000]

@@werewolfbynight4918 HERE'S THE REALITY: THIS IS THE 21ST CENTURY AND THINGS AND PEOPLE CHANGE OVER TIME. IT'S A GIRL, END OF STORY.

[@masukusanele6821]

Support you mom all the way from your roots love you be strong one day he will come around

[@daltonredden6199]

Excuse me, without plastic surgery, how is he a female, if I glue a plastic bottle to my head and say I identify as a rhino, am I rhino, I feel like one right?

[@TheChanelcupcake]

Sure

[@Gionni_Vegas]

Exactly

[@user-vm6mw5xw7o]

transphobe

[@florencesmithsmith1490]

It's in the brain.Damm did you at least hear what dr. Phil try to explain to the mother before you open your big ignorant mouth

[@daltonredden6199]

@@user-vm6mw5xw7o sure, but you can’t deny there are things that make a trans woman not a woman, biological woman can have kids, if they don’t have issues, they have periods, trans women cannot have kids or periods

[@it3590]

It’s amazing how people take feelings over scientific facts. All the science says being trans is a real thing.

[@mather-mw1er]

Totally agreed with this women

[@Healthytruth]

💯💯💯💯 with momma bear .

[@SandfieldBunny84]

He will never be happy around his toxic mother. She worst than online bullies. When she said DON'T CATCH AIDS AND DIE... She meant every word and its sad. He or she is your child at the end of the day... I could never.

[@kierstengomez8770]

You have no clue how refreshing it was to read your comment❤ I don’t dislike th mother or the trans child but sexuality aside respect has nothing to do with how someone identifies. Years down the road she can’t complain when her kids decide to cut her off. & also vise versa. But man at least respect for a human.

[@queenneptune2456]

​​@@kierstengomez8770 Right! I see a lot of comments praising the mother, but why do we choose to support someone who says to their kid "don't catch aids and die" or "you should have been aborted"?! I absolutely don't get how that is okay behavior. Her son's self esteem is going to be damaged from this mother and you notice how her son is calling her by her name and not mom, he is going to cut her from his life because of her unwillingness to except him as he/she wants to be, not to mention the other mental damage this can cause him such as depression etc. I don't agree with this mother and think what she says is damaging her child and thats not okay

[@redridinghood2229]

Angela, thank you for standing up to the other side. Bravo. Most weak people would buckle.

[@ezeee595]

You are a proper mother!!!

[@deanna3069]

I agree with her she stated he is a grown-up now but it is not going to change her beliefs! He's entitled to live his life the way he wants but she does not have to accept it!

[@L.Fenton]

And because the mom's inability to accept *her* their relationship is ruined.

[@princesshodges4741]

As a parent it is quite literally your job to accept your child in whatever identity they find themselves most comfortable within and not allowing your limited perspective beliefs to ruin your relationship with your children. That’s like bare minimum. I pray you don’t have children with a mindset like this.

[@werewolfbynight4918]

@@L.Fenton that's a dude he will never be a girl if you think he's a girl then you must've been dropped on your head as a baby

[@L.Fenton]

@@werewolfbynight4918 Science disagrees with you. Ever heard of gender dysphoria? 😑

[@werewolfbynight4918]

@@L.Fenton ever heard of learning biology

[@missladyOhtee]

I’m with mama.

[@L.Fenton]

You're on the side of a transphobe.

[@AGardner2971]

Where is THE LIE!!! She ain't saying nothing any other parent will say!!

[@charismatica7800]

I don’t really agree with changing one’s gender for men or women. It’s weird especially if their very promiscuous and love a wild lifestyle. A lot of diseases can be contracted in this way. BUT if you loved your son, you’d accept them and love them regardless.

[@YahwehisGodandYeshuaisKingiamr]

You can love em without supporting a bad lifestyle.

[@sassygreen5024]

I ant mad at her I FEEL THE SAME WAY

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN..ME 2!!!!😇🙏💯

[@normanitv7844]

Me 3 ‼️💯

[@LisaSmith-ud3mo]

I love how strong minded she is. She is absolutely right. Stay strong black women. Please keep our black man being black man not women

[@DAOW17]

Tells her neurological fact Her: I need facts! 🤦‍♀️