Should Men or Women Be In Charge? HEATED DISCUSSION!!!

[@aishax01]

The men really tried making the problem only from the women, May Allah bless Shamsi, he always tries to be balanced

[@intekabalam7340]

Offcourse, men should be in charge. But we should also be just while being in charge.

[@aymanus04]

?what exactly

[@ever1ast]

Huh

[@herbalistathari]

@@aymanus04 dictionary JUST

[@aymanus04]

@@herbalistathari I probably asked someone who later on deleted his message,

[@Salafi_Kashmiri_313]

أخي شمسي حفظه اللّٰه💚

[@Hikmah1995]

I tell everyone to base your whole marriage around Quran, and Sunnah. That is the key to a successful marriage Wallahi. When you fear Allah Subhana Wa Tala you won't go out of bounds with your spouse.

[@herbalistathari]

To be honest, shamsi is way further in his understanding and knowledge, they should have had more manners speaking to him, even if they agreed with him. There are ways and mannerisms in speaking with those who possess knowledge.

[@umfatima2810]

MashaaAllah 💚 may Allah give these brothers righteous wives and make them be the best men towards their wives, too. Aameen 🤲🏽 🤲🏽 🤲🏽

[@ijazahmed3600]

MA SHAA ALLAAH BROTHER SHAMSI ❤

[@ajassimanwar]

Jazakallahu khair

[@SaidB1n]

Why are they discouraging marriage? Have tawakkul and get married. If you have bad experiences, learn from it, seek forgiveness for your shortcomings, and go on with your life!

[@rathernot6660]

Br Shamsi. May Allah preserve you and your patience. I don't know how you do it. Its also easy to get sucked into these toxic red pill and feminist philosophical arguments

[@ozone2126]

❤❤Allahu akbar

[@no.f.p.p.l]

ماشاءلله بارك الله فيك أخينا شمسي.

[@darumer33]

Alhamdulillah

[@yxz6393]

Alhamdulilah

[@harir8507]

beautiful discussion, as always, May Allah Azzawajal protect them, Ameen.

[@samchaher4558]

اخي شمسي وفقك الله وسدد خطاك. نتمنى ان تضع الترجمة الفيديوات.

[@shohaibqazi4576]

16:25 hilarious shamsi has some incredible one liner sentences.

[@omaimachokri9290]

shamsuden jazaka ALLAH khaira

[@Zzucia]

Shamsi fair and balanced. Not appealing to feminism or the red pill. May Allah bless you and grant you success.

[@no.f.p.p.l]

Allah bless you shamsi .

[@Jdac333]

Who defends the house at 3am against intruders: is in charge

[@MH-bf4uu]

In charge of what?

[@zaddamploi]

Barakallah fik.. Great discussion brother..

[@sarhada5807]

kiss me

[@thehaq8115]

All the brothers discussing are in khair in sha Allah, may Allah bless us all آمين

[@ismailgahbiche4210]

Assalamu alaikum wa rahma tullahi wa barakatuhu akhi, "Who should be in charge" I think should be the correct title of the video. Allah knows best, may Allah reward DUSDawah for their efforts in spreading dawah salafiyyah allahuma ameen

[@hva22]

Shamsi I feel maybe you should have advised these brothers to practice upon Tawhid as the priority because they have closely cropped their beards and one is wearing a chain with a high-fade. When brothers instil Tawhid in their own heart striving in full obedience to Allah with their actions, often times that brings forth the bounty of Allah to grant the man a righteous wife. Love you for the sake of Allah akhee BarakAllahu feek

[@hurayrah.1662]

جزاكم الله خيرا

[@ozone2126]

bro shamsi is such a nice person ❤

[@Mozee854]

That brother sounds very bitter. It's as shamsi said, embed yourself in the Muslim community and in Shaa Allah, Allah will aid you in finding a good wife.

[@shuhelmiah7729]

May Allah guide the brother in the Blue Jacket, he has a bad attitude, unnecessarily aggressive, i knew a brother like this, very difficult individual.

[@arakibhosen434]

ALHAMDULILLAH ❤️ JAJAKALLA KHIRAN ❤️🙂❤️

[@hamidalns]

May Allah forgive us all

[@VeX00786]

May Allah bless both the brothers with good wives that are the coolness to their eyes ameen. Wallahi there's still alot or good sisters out there, you just gotta look in the right places.

[@naimalit]

The guy said I’m divorced Alhamdulillah 😂😂 idk why that part cracked me up

[@anasibrahim078]

He prolly said Alhamduliah because his wife was bad

[@youtubeaccount3230]

I see he is coming with the redpill angle, end of the day it depends on the women u marry, if she is toxic she will use the law against you

[@Bigbro123r5]

That is why you don't get married under the western law system.

[@oddi-trea6099]

I understand that this brother is hurt, but I think it's important to get an objective understanding of the law even if we disagree with it. This is a skewed POV. This brother is trying to talk about coercion to get your wife to consent to sexual activity. Buying flowers with the intention of seducing your wife isn't it. Holding that over her and guilt tripping her by remimding her every half hour that you got her flowers and that she's ungrateful if she doesn't respond to your advances might cross that line, however. The CPS has a whole section on their website about this and it is not as clear cut as this brother says. At the same time, many sisters can also come with their personal stories and talk about how UK courts were unfair to them when they took the stand and dismissed thick case files related to domestic violence and rape with evidence from social workers and medical files - since these are the types of cases these brothers talk about when they say the courts are against men. I can think of two cases from my own network at the top of my head. Let's be fair. This is also the result of soundbites going around the internet about these topics in secular and Islamic law without context, nuance or fact-checking so there's a whole generation of people being left upset and hyped up with a misunderstanding of their rights, obligations and reality.

[@denizislek5304]

I feel like this man in the hood is very confused some men don't understand islam and think being abusive is being a man he seems like one of them

[@maqsoodalam519]

Assalamualaikum brother

[@noble2306]

لا إلهَ إلا اللهُ وَحْدَهُ لا شَرِيكَ لَهُ ، لَهُ المُلْكُ وَ لَهُ الحَمْدُ يُحْيِي وَ يُمِيتُ وَ هُوَ حَيٌّ لا يَمُوْتُ بِيَدِهِ الخَيْرُ وَ إليهي مصير وَهُوَ عَلَى كل شيء قادر وأشهد أن محمدا عبده ورسوله صلى الله عليه وسلم اللهم صل على سيدنا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم

[@humza9460]

What did Shamsi say at 14:08 “I left the masjid…” I couldn’t make out what he said

[@ManAmongMasses]

"I left the masjid thinking let me go commit haraam again", cos the brother presented such a skewed view of marriage.

[@humza9460]

@@ManAmongMassesjazakallah khair

[@englishspeaking6478]

Shamsi ❤

[@deadlyhook7036]

May allah meet me with shamsi in jannat alfirdos

[@emperorkaido8539]

i understand what he want to say which is that the islamic law doesnt exist in realt life in any country in the world

[@yusufahmed1993]

It does

[@عبدالرحمنعلي-ظ2ف7ع]

نريد ترجمة

[@andhbak]

If men determine gender of a baby, why wouldn't men need to be in charge....

[@asmamuthana867]

Allah who determine the gender

[@MH-bf4uu]

Makes zero sense. Throughout all of human history, everyone thought it was the woman who decided genders. Iq is in the negatives I see😂

[@ahtuah3232]

Get married and leave to Allah the rest❤️

[@هشامالعلوي-و7د]

Hi

[@dobbeltjeak92]

Majority of hellfire are women and minority of paradise are women for a reason

[@abufuturetrunks5630]

Learn the game like how you learn the offside trap 😂😂

[@mahidurrahman4268]

😂😂😂😂

[@Mozee854]

I didn't like that brother's attitude. He sounds very bitter

[@abufuturetrunks5630]

@@Mozee854 I think he sounds reasonable. He's warning brothers of the potential danger that can happen if divorce occurs.

[@ahmedcbdicalicali1207]

Most women are feminist by nature if you go to biggest niqaby girl and talk to her she will talk about her career future and travelling and someone make her laugh

[@humza9460]

Not all brother

[@Bigbro123r5]

Not all brother , there's many young women from my village in Bangladesh that wear niqab and only want to be a wife and a mother. These women are diamonds and are hard to find because they aren't seen by everyone and they stay inside their homes looking after their parents and Siblings.

[@month4373]

???

[@Ayoub-rc4hh]

Not by nature, but because of the media

[@Easy.Stocks.arabic.english]

That’s because of media, not nature