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[@CotildaNakyeyune-rj6vh]

I think the best lesson from this podcast, is that you'll think you know yourself well until someone close starts peeling back layers off you. Then you get shocked at the difference between who you thought you were, and who you really are.

[@pamelaatukunda2122]

It's true

[@GiftEkyokwijuka]

Exactly

[@bridge9350]

Many precious nuggets to take away, I can tell that you are genuinely invested in making your marriages work and that makes me so happy. On the issue of dishes, I think what Mr. Kitaka said about how he feels sorry for men who do dishes is not necessarily in line with what we see demonstrated by Jesus on servant leadership. Jesus washed his disciples' feet, which was an act of servanthood in those days. He then went on to say, John 13 vs 14-17, "Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. Brethren, there is no task too demeaning when it comes to loving and caring for each other. I know family dynamics differ and the split of household chores varies with each home but I just wanted to point that out. If you are a man out there who helps your lady with dishes, it's okay, it does not pose a threat to your masculinity because Christ, the ultimate expression of masculinity was not afraid to take on tasks that were deemed only fit for the lowly. On the issue Ben raised on who gets the engine started on love and respect, I would like to bring the image we aspire to and that is the image of Christ and the church. Romans 5:8-9 "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." In this instance it shows how Christ got the engine going for his bride, he pulled out the first invitation card when we were dead in our sins. If we are to follow this example it suggests that ideally, the husband needs to take the first step in demonstrating love but the truth is we are mere humans with incredible flaws and we can never truly live up to this image so we should both take turns in starting the engine whenever marriage gets hard as shown in scripture, Romans 12:10 "Be tenderly devoted to one another in brotherly love; outdo one another in giving honor." That's all I had to say, my apologies for the long essay, I just wanted to contribute to the conversation.

[@thekitakas]

The issue of dishes is a personal one, and it’s debatable. You have to realise that theory and practice aren’t always aligned. It’s easy to say love your wife when you haven’t been tested. It’s easy to say, respect your husband when you haven’t been tested. I hope that with the Kitakas podcast, more guests will show us how they’ve applied the theories in their marriages and succeeded. That way, their successes will be our learnings. Otherwise theory is easy, practice is the hard part. - Felix

[@thekitakas]

If you also have a good testimony of marriage, please reach out, we would love to learn from your experience too. 🙏

[@bridge9350]

@@thekitakas Thank you for the response. True, households do run differently and it is a personal issue. My husband and I live abroad and we both work full-time and have no kids yet. Even though I am responsible for a lot of the home chores, he also helps where he can ie washing dishes, sweeping etc. It is the only way we can function as hiring help here is expensive and both of us need to earn an income. Fortunately, he does not have any issue with that. My point was that ideally, there should be no task that is beneath anyone or warrants people to feel sorry for you. With that said I know some of the most loving and honourable men including my own father who just wouldn't do dishes or house chores, so yes, cultural context does matter too.

[@thekitakas]

Well said.

[@jdm3762]

Wow! What a wholesome comment! Firm in the ideas you are challenging yet so gracious and wise in your choice of words. Your husband is blessed, and I'll bet, a well respected man!

[@imacayebazibwe]

Eeh! Mwiine has scriptures at his finger tips. And the way he brings them out to fit conversations is fantastic

[@jmercyaturindakarungi247]

It’s the different revelations that the HolySpirit opens us to when we choose to invest in knowing the Word. Mr. Mwine takes time to show us the life of Job, Esther, David from a whole different angle! What a time to be alive! Thank you for pouring in us the Kitakas! And for Mr. Mwine! Eh! 👐🏽

[@joyz_style]

What I appreciate most about this is that everybody's train of thought reached its destination, no one got "spoken over" no interruptions...just a great conversation.

[@helenbwesigye6075]

True.

[@ahabwepraise1285]

AM SO BLESSED TODAY ,CZ I ALMOST LOST MA RELATIONSHIP YET FEW MONTHS TO OUR WEDDING 😢HOO U HAVE SAVED OUR RELATIONSHIP LET ME SHARE THIS PODCAST TO ALL MA RELATIVES🎉

[@bridgetndyamuhaki8873]

Thanks for inviting Mwine.

[@kagimurebeccab5854]

I love listening to people who attribute everything back to God

[@AndrewKaluluMusisiMayanjaJr.]

Thank you for inviting Mr. Mwine. I have picked take home lessons from Ben. I have ever been with him for a short period of time and I bless the Lord unto how he totally transformed. We miss him on Radio and endless logical stories.

[@pamelajudithrwanyarare8429]

I thought I recognised him. I remember him when I used to work at Monitor FM. It's more than 20 years ago and he looks exactly the way he did during The Monitor FM days. I am happy he looks well and so happy he is married to the beautiful Rachael.

[@CotildaNakyeyune-rj6vh]

A second podcast with Mw. Mwine and the wife would be a great idea. Otherwise, having him as a guest was a blast. Most especially since he's been Shan's friend for a long time, and could attest to the fact that she isn't miserable😊.

[@sunshineheaven1802]

I am now thinking about dying daily to food addiction and procrastination. So much strength is needed. Choices choices choices. Can't do life without God at every level and in everything.

[@joanitahmukisa8514]

you should also need to look into whether you have got AdHD sorry

[@paskaziatumwesigye1534]

I am working on coffee addiction as well; some how fasting helps...during my fasts the overwhelming appetite for coffee disappears

[@melanie_77777]

"Esther didn't have authority but she had the power"👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@joana1207able]

Our initial plan was to watch 30 minutes every day with hubby. We ended up streaming all of it in one take. Ben was a much needed addition on this topic

[@magalienia6958]

Mw.Ben Mwine,u Sir have preached a WORD! 👏 As he talked abt the woman being the helper; it brought to mind the American NFL player who gave a graduation commencement speech at a certain university in May this year & he was dragged to hell & back, but when pple look back at it now, with eyes of logic not emotion...that NFL player was right on point. He was the proverbial messenger who got shot whilst the masses overlooked/ignored the message. The Kitakas, thank u for hosting Mw.Mwine,how profound & educative.

[@marthakyozira2085]

We are honored and humbled to have the @Kitakas and @Mwines. May it be said of you of how you redeemed marriages, how you called forth believers to have faith, to believe to the end.

[@RichardKusiima]

Ben is so awakened in his spirit. ❤

[@SweettoothMarie77]

Bringing in other guests is a complete game changer! Keep going guys....keep going!👏

[@sarahnakame1820]

This was really beautiful. May the Lord continue to use the Kitakas in ways beyond comprehension!

[@JK-nn3ct]

Mr. Kitaka is full of wisdom.wow. This conversion is nourishing my marriage. Thanks Ben.Thank u Kitakas.

[@keselyne]

"Self-preservation was responsible for the burden I carried" that was powerful. This is what the Lord was talking to me about it yesterday

[@emteekay8418]

Wow! Wow! Wow! The best 2hr investment I did today. Learnt to be more open-minded & considerate of my life partner and one of my resolutions is to NEVER raise my voice at my daughter, partner and future children. So help me God.

[@brendanakirya1379]

This is the best episode. I learnt some things, my spirit was encouraged ,I enjoyed it. You are surely doing the Lord's work. Thank you ,Ben . for passing by

[@mablekisakye]

Shana you should be proud of your husband because he is standing in the right position and he knows the best interests he has for you than the online in-laws.

[@bridgetbamulinde3181]

Understanding the spiritual feeding and balance it with Mental(mind) feeding. This is a universal need especially for christians

[@DignaK]

1:06:25 I am very glad that this has come from a man. Many men are quick to demand for submission but forget that man is supposed to love like Christ loved the church and Christ literally died for the Church. Thank you Ben. Congratulations Rachel. You got a good one.❤🎉.

[@ireneiroot5842]

Shan, I highly esteem your humility and submission to God and to your husband, you're a blessing to this generation, God bless you

[@namubirujoan2015]

Best podcast I’ve watched ever on marriage by African men. They were very neutral without siding with their gender. I love love!!!

[@thekitakas]

Thank you for the feedback Joan. -RK

[@AllenNdoli]

True,we have to Die Daily as Long as we Live,that's How we Win in Life💯Thank you for bringing Ben👏🏿waiting for Rachael🥰

[@kainebooch]

Ben Ben Ben….. how many times have I called you…… love the authenticity👏🏾legit submission👌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@estherbagoole1367]

Hi Thanks for this session. So good. Kind request. Mutundwe Christian fellowship has very good deliverance sessions. Together with this, you will be great. Thank you

[@atuhairejudith8834]

Next episode Mr.Mwine please come with your wife

[@sylvianamwebya2096]

P😮😅

[@paskaziatumwesigye1534]

Yea. Rach’s fans all the way from Bump love

[@Ladyforchrist]

The best 2 hours I have spent in a long time! Every Christian married couple should watch this. God bless you all and thank you for this episode 🙏.

[@annnyakake8497]

This was a powerful conversation. Thank you, the kitakas and Mr.Mwine

[@ahabwepraise1285]

LET ME BE HONEST ,IF GOD GAVE ME A MAN WHO CAN REALLY PUT ME IN MA PLACE ,I WILL FOREVER BE GRATEFUL,KITAKA'S U ARE AMAZING

[@KasaijaChris]

Am here

[@namiirojose6824]

The wisdom, the insights......woooooow. It's great for one to have Godly people in their corner❤

[@fridahbirungi6883]

Putting GOD at the centre of all this is EPIC.Extremely educative in so many avenues of life. May you all be blessed. 🙏 🙏 🙏 AMEN

[@lydearkobusinge8355]

Thank you for yet another episode! The message of dying to self each day cannot be underestimated. Jesus being the centre of it all. Thank you for bringing Ben.

[@lizzienntate]

It was great to have Mr Mwine, always real. Love you the kitakas. God bless.

[@nakittohellen3934]

Here watching listening and learning from the long awaited episode

[@pamelanabwire7093]

Fantastic podcast. Mr Kiraka there is nothing wrong with a man washing dishes, it actually makes house chores so much easier, especially when there is no house help..

[@thekitakas]

The issue of dishes is a personal one, and it’s debatable. You have to realise that theory and practice aren’t always aligned. It’s easy to say love your wife when you haven’t been tested. It’s easy to say, respect your husband when you haven’t been tested. I hope that with the Kitakas podcast, more guests will show us how they’ve applied the theories in their marriages and succeeded. That way, their successes will be our learnings. Otherwise theory is easy, practice is the hard part. - Felix

[@ClaireKemigisha]

Best episode ever! A flood of knowledge and wisdom, will definitely keep coming to it to unpack, thank you for bringing Mr. Mwine👏

[@barbaraainebyoona4483]

Please have another part with Mr. Mwine. so educative talk. Thank you for this podcast

[@letstalkwithirenerenny]

We don't want peace,we want problem 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 on the other hand ,this is very educative bambi .have more of these with Mr Mwine.ffe data tulina to keep tuning in

[@dorahkainew5238]

Webale 😂

[@dorahkainew5238]

You understood the assignment props

[@roberttusiime3749]

Great insights.... No. 1 it all starts with acknowledging that marriage is God's design.... No. 2, Always refer to No. 1.

[@darrennuwasasira3550]

I love you the Kitakas, I didnt know your podcast was thiz beautiful!! From the time i started following, just a few days ago, I have kept scrolling to watcg alk thise I missed. I literally wake up thinking about the next. God bless!

[@ninsiimajosephine5881]

Awwww ❤, what an episode. The wait was worth it. Thank you for bringing this munyakole man😂😂. I need to gather all banyakole men here so they can learn something from him. Blessings

[@patriciakitaka5700]

Thank you for bringing Ben. Soo much i've learnt from him. I need to read my bible more. This is eye opening.

[@mutesibetty-hd7xg]

Happy to be part of this podcast 🙏🙏🙏🥰🥰I thank lord for this platform of the kitakas 🙏🙏🙏🥰🥰we glorify his mighty powers amen 🙏

[@AllenNdoli]

The Kitaka's × The Mwine's❤❤A match made in Heaven👏🏿👏🏿You Wisdom is appreciated🙏🏾🙏🏾Thank You

[@harrietbwiire4989]

I just love the wisdom that the Kitaka's and the mwine's have. Oh my God Be blessed

[@Rarity-12-02]

Thank you The KItakas for always sharing your opinions with us...though confused about a thing that was said in this podcast where Mwine talks about women wanting to be loved in a certain way that men might not understand, calling for the man's flexibility...so whats wrong with helping your partner with dishes if thats her way of feeling loved....It might not be done out of command,but just assisting around the house..otherwise it takes us to the issue of our fathers who acted like bosses and their wives as slaves..

[@thekitakas]

The issue of dishes is a personal one, and it’s debatable. You have to realise that theory and practice aren’t always aligned. It’s easy to say love your wife when you haven’t been tested. It’s easy to say, respect your husband when you haven’t been tested. I hope that with the Kitakas podcast, more guests will show us how they’ve applied the theories in their marriages and succeeded. That way, their successes will be our learnings. Otherwise theory is easy, practice is the hard part. - Felix

[@bazimbyeevans7420]

It has taken me a couple of days to run through the podcast - sincerely worth every minute. The content is solid. This has been a good blend, inviting a new face to the set.. Hope it can happen once in a while. Thank you Ben and the Kitakas...❤❤

[@thekitakas]

🙏 blessed to hear it was worth your while. -RK

[@suzannedaphine6158]

Wawawawah....mr.Mwine u ve pointed out de most triggering points in de daily marriage of these Z.Z.yrs .....esp To.ma side..mwebale nnyo...very educative episode..be blsd and live long

[@anitakatushabe1899]

Ohhh I have loved this being a westerner seeing a gentleman who values R/ship us who are single we are so blessed 4 the knowledge the world is up and down everything seems to be out of order but God knows we need pple like u guys who show us the reality

[@estherkukkiriza5639]

Ben, keep coming through! You'll are amazing! Lots of wisdom.

[@ekyakunzireelizabeth6298]

A wise woman knows that her power has the ability to make use of the man's authority! Wisdom!

[@MsGratefulgal]

Is she a manipulator/trickster or she is just shrewd😊. Shrewdness for Christ's sake matters.

[@doreenmuhumure6636]

The way Felix says "mwami mwine...."Ssebbo" the look and alot of detail about his approach just shows he's such a seriously cultured muganda man! But it was good to learn that Mwine can speak that much luganda.

[@brendalinda2902]

Thnx for coming through Ben we bless the lord and we can't wait for more guests like these

[@barbracarolinekiwanuka7259]

This conversation was quite insightful. Thank you

[@kaberaangel]

I landed on this podcast while aimlessly scrolling for some evening content and I must say.. I am SAT! (Excuse the GenZ Lingo) I'm certainly not the target audience.. I am a long way from marriage and can't relate to most of these stories like the one about the passion fruit juice 🤣 yet somehow I feel so accurately spoken to! Spoken to- or ministered to? I think the latter is a more accurate way to put it. This podcast has been a blessing to me.

[@susananyango764]

I just discovered this channel. Very informative, love from 🇰🇪

[@Ssonko100]

I love love this conversation. Mr Mwine has a way of dissecting an issue to basics. Those blaming toxicity to The Kitaka’s marriage, go examine your selves. Just like Rukshana, you are about to discover more about your true selves.

[@chrinahgbs3843]

This is a good initiative to bring couples to speak on this podcast kuba i had some how given up to watch but now am back on my secret mentors

[@susanpenlope1413]

This has left me speechless... Wow, this wisdom is super profound. Thank you so much

[@judithakite3164]

This conversation is so candid and insightful. Understanding the spirit, the mind and the soul. I love the explanation on how somethings we experience can be solved through knowledge and wisdom but still stay spiritual. Thank you The Kitakas and Mr Mwine.

[@MsGratefulgal]

Luke 11:13 when we ask for the Holy Spirit from the Father, He is given to us in seven folds. He rests on us, and we possess wisdom and knowledge too Isaiah 11:2 The Spirit of the Lord will rest on him- the Spirit of wisdom and of understanding,❤ the Spirit of counsel and of might, the Spirit of the knowledge and fear of the Lord-❤❤ 3 and he will delight in the fear of the Lord.

[@agneskemigisha2070]

What an insightful conversation...Thank you the Kitakaz and Ben...

[@britaamai6406]

I have learnt lately that i also dont need a person to scream at me. Every part of my life weakens to the extent that i distance myself.

[@peruthmwenkanya2508]

WOW.. This is so eye opening. Thank you so much🙏

[@mwebazenancie4499]

Wow, i am single but i am really glad i watched till the end, it's worth it Mr Mwine👌, thank you guys

[@thekitakas]

Single is a great season to learn as much as you can even though some of it may not make sense. When the time comes, you may remember. -RK

[@daktarisaidia5503]

The lady is an inspiration

[@RachelKing-rh4kh]

It's beautiful to see the woman Shan has become,a truly godly woman that belongs to the hall of faith in Hebrews,the Bible says such is foolishness to the world,they will never understand,weldone the Kitakas

[@esthernakyalaserwadda9789]

My Husband is a soul and spirit in a body!! I already knew that but it hit differently today! Il.show.more grace

[@cathybt]

what a great conversation, i'm not yet even half way but OMG so much wisdom here.

[@nansekomable3160]

Ben Mwine here! ......Let me buckle up

[@ruthiekuku5865]

Wow!! Ben is a well of wisdom. Spiritually grounded and informed! Kudos our people 💪

[@Colossus-k8u]

That the podcast starts with a prayer. Beautiful

[@helenbwesigye6075]

Eeeh! Deep stuff here the Kitakas and Ben. Thank you for sharing those insights. Ben, ur so brutally honest, I wonder why we call it brutal? Plant a seed in his mind. The husband has the authority but the wife has the power. You have spelt it out for us so clearly. God bless you bagyenzi for these much needed marriage conversations. God bless your marriages and make them thrive even more.

[@amygrace4126]

Wow . I have really enjoyed this podcast so enlightening indeed. So much depth. Thank you the kitakas for bringing Mr Mwine. God bless you 🙏

[@antonitahnankya1783]

I am happy i took time to listen to the entire podcast. You all spoke to my heart.

[@desirekakyo9618]

My first time watching this podcast but its been real deep truths! I have to listen in again and take notes. Asante

[@thekitakas]

Welcome! Hope you hit the subscribe button so you don’t miss any of the upcoming episodes. -RK

[@jk_Omuhweju]

Enjoyed this conversation … well done Ben and The Kitaka’s Konka Ben, mbu Banyankole men are not wattti? 😮. I think we are romatic, just different scales 😊

[@joankyalisiima8242]

WOOW THANK YOU MR. MWINE AND THE KITAKAS YOUR AMAIZING

[@mildredbrownlatigi-obeja7627]

Beautiful podcast.Ben i yearn to be able to comfortably refer to scripture like you.Wow wow you read your bible so well.Challenged.

[@prossymwesige7186]

Mr. Mwine kindly put on your ring 🙏🙏🙏

[@mollymusoki6341]

Ben we appreciate your wisdom on this podcast

[@judithlilly841]

Thanks for hosting Ben..

[@niwahaphionah1932]

I love podcasts...they take me throughout the day

[@mbabazimercy9287]

Super power not a weakness,🎉🎉 This show is divine

[@kwenyonyasharon6043]

There is alot of love and respect between Mr mwine and Mr kitaka.

[@sharonbabigamba2893]

Enjoyed listening from start to finish.Thank you for blessing us.

[@giftanyijukire4000]

I am impressed 👏👏👏 guess I have gotten another podcast to follow

[@JoanAyebazibwe-g5n]

It has been such an insightful time.Have been blessed

[@oliversapiri3123]

It has been an inspiring conversation from Ben an eye opener big up the Kitakas these conversations should surely continue

[@irenekerunen2704]

Women leave emotionally before leaving physically. Ben, u r spot on and ooh the fights we have in our heads and the responses😂😂😂😂 so true.

[@giftanyijukire4000]

Ben Mwiine 👏👏Racheal Mwiine ❤❤ hearts girl👏

[@tuhumwireracheal4720]

Powerful msg. Thx the Kitakas.

[@evelynkabahuma7035]

wonderful conversations, very enlightening!

[@carolynnsiimire8767]

Please, please bring Mr. Mwine back.

[@atuhaireritah7153]

Uncle Henry 😍😍 am happy knowing you know God to this level 🥰💃💃💃💃

[@sheila8158]

Thanks Mr.Mwine for sharing your knowledge