Eat Pray Love (2010) - Ruin is a Gift Scene (3/10) | Movieclips

[@LunarMarie]

"Both of us deserve better than staying together because we're afraid we'll be destroyed if we don't."

[@purest_evil]

Logic

[@ColemanRG]

Until the stage of life is reached when you are forced to depend on more than just yourself for the daily activities of living. As a person in their 30s, impatience, disposable relationships, and hubris are the key traits of the inexperienced. When reaching our 50s we still have the desires, but not near the amount of energy, or good health. I loved this movie, and the book because of the superb perspective of each new country, which I feel represented the stages of maturity in a lifespan. My favorite message "God dwells in you, as you." I'm spending more time than ever being patient with myself & other people, appreciating the important people in my life, and making great pains to celebrate the smaller things that bring joy.

[@amydefurniville4585]

Prepare yourself for endless waves of transformation in in your life. And if you're lucky enough, the right person will stick by you, watching, supporting, maybe guiding u so u stay on the right path and not falter. I love this movie so much. Julia Roberts is a great actress.

[@Satrapamestris]

I thank you for writing this comment, reminding me fro this message. I wish you love and happiness

[@makipizon]

It took me a decade to clearly understand the message of this scene.

[@deepakk1347]

What was it? Can you please tell me

[@JloveLamar]

​@Deepak k David told her that they should just be miserable together so that they could one day be happy. They were so unhappy. Then, she visited Rome and discovered "The Ruins." This place that people pay to see. The Ruins have found a way to rebuild itself. Does it look like it did when it was first built? No. It has transformed itself after being destroyed be an enemy, but it rebuilt itself inside of itself. This is what she had to do. Let the relationship destroy her and rebuild herself anew, without David. Or, destroy apart of herself and rebuild herself anew. So, there's nothing wrong with being "destroyed." To ruin yourself is a gift, because it brings on new transformation.

[@Betcaligarcia]

Bottom line David she wasn’t that into you honey … she moved on to the Brazilian guy and the woman right after.

[@sultantouma5437]

Their marriage and family was the Augusteum and she is the Barbarian.

[@mariasu5641]

This scene is amazing, good words for David. Sometimes, somes couples stay like that all their life together. Misérables but happy.

[@christinahogue4259]

I do. I have.

[@suleymangultepe65]

When I first watched this movie, I didn't know English at all. When I watched it for the first time, I cried for minutes even while watching Turkish, because it completely describes my life. I learned English years later, it made me cry again. I was and am absolutely David :(

[@alfonsoandysanchez]

I broke up with my fiancé and cancel the wedding. This movie helped me realize that… I was miserably happy… each of us didn’t grow from this relationship. Each of us didn’t give each other the nutrients to grow. I feel like the monster for ending it… but I had too.

[@Mebeingcool]

Rebirth comes from ruins, death leads to a resurrection, I can relate to this hard truth, ruins, change leads to a new beginning.

[@stephenheart1916]

That's one hell of a break up email.

[@karmahadid]

So, the email is about break up? I didnt notice

[@JloveLamar]

@@karmahadid OH my!

[@qj2003fall]

@@karmahadid She already broke up with him before the trip. This is to confirm her intention and try to comfort him.

[@ayo_moreno]

this is my favorite movie. this movie is why I'm a travel blogger now i'm feeling as she did being with someone and having to let go and not know who i am. i cannot find myself with someone along

[@LAMODÉLISTE]

SAME HERE BRUH! SAME HERE

[@JloveLamar]

Tell us more! What happened?

[@georgettewilliams1149]

Ruin is the road to transformation

[@True253]

This is a really bad message to send to people. How about work on your marriage and honor your vows instead of giving it up in pursuit of selfishness?

[@horya4944]

I love this ❤❤ sooo much ..... the music ... sound of julia .... and lyrics ..... all scene touches me very deep

[@durgeshrajak7354]

Dear kaira after watching this scene I feel now it's time to say goodbye. We were so so close to each other but something happened, that night I thought next morning things(situation) will but it's didn't changed and our relation became messy, dirty, miserable. We both tried so badly to make things better but everything was already ruined. I loved you. But it mean to hold hand even the next person wants to fly free. This scene thought me I can love but I can't force you to love me. Last goodbye.....

[@albamoleraromero]

Dear Durgesh: I Hope you are Happy now. Lots of LOVE and peace. 😌✨😇

[@akosan]

If life had a youtube channel, this will be on its must-to-see list

[@Leo19rash]

This scene is everything oh my God

[@yrenalantigua301]

Ruin is a gift is the road to transformation.

[@yrenalantigua301]

Ruin is a gift ruin is the beginning of a transformation

[@SoulfulVeg]

We must always be prepared for endless waves of transformation. Well said!

[@durgeshrajak7354]

Dear kiara I still miss you like crazy. Every moment just passing me every weather is going like wind. Every Month is is changing like people tissue paper for for use. I every day go to those placee were we used go. Every place gives me memory about bond we ever had. Sometimes I cry and sometime laugh like crazy and sometime freeze like ice who is just melting. I know you have been settle with your husband but I still wanted to be with you. No girls or woman can't change my feeling for you because my heart bits for you.

[@purest_evil]

I'm sorry dude

[@courtneylovesmaccompact9047]

Stay prepared for endless waves of transformation... yes

[@jc1424]

"We should be unhappy together to be happy." Nah bruh that's the dumbest thing I've heard in a while.

[@paulonevesr]

You are right, but we don’t always think straight when we’re in love.

[@georgettewilliams1149]

It hurts too good

[@AndreS-zo3ee]

This is one of my favorites scenes ever

[@babushka2930]

Ngl I have broken up with so many guys because of this scene

[@tinymongoose]

One of my favorite scenes ❤

[@yrenalantigua301]

Ruin is a gift is the road of transformation

[@Satrapamestris]

I understand those words now. I'm not at the lowest point but I'm in somewhere near to that, trying to climb up and take a sit I know I deserve. Ruins really is the road to transformation.

[@moongoddessriising]

She's always running from something. Like why is she so scared to be committed? She literally had 3 men eating out of the palm of her hands and shes too afraid to be vulnerable or even try. She doesnt deserve javier bardem in this movie

[@Leo19rash]

moongoddess Riising you didnot get the movie did you She has been in relationships one after another she never Gave herself anytime to heal to find herself Once she did and when Love came knocking she was scared To let it in and then she finally did

[@odiliinao9746]

@@Leo19rash in a very real way, she didn't. The real person never did, she left her Brazilian husband, married a woman who sadly passed away, now she's dating the ex partner of her late wife. Just 1 year after she died. She never really stopped her dating behavior. She keeps hurting people cause of her fear to commitment

[@zulu2885]

odiliina o that's really interesting comment , I wonder if imperative of continuous love throughout the marriage as a concept is not grounded in reality and often times leaves people confused for not achieving a mythical state., Loved the movie though , I can see a person not being sure of their feelings and be in love multiple times for every one is unique and so is experience of love with them

[@purest_evil]

Lmao

[@youtubelover128]

We were so hallow there was nothing which make us exited

[@yrenalantigua301]

Maybe the guy before me must be some angel. Ruin is a gift

[@gel1340]

one of my favorite scenes🤍

[@14598175]

Ruin is the road to transformation into poverty. I know well, it happened to many of my friends in the 80s. It's funny looking at this from my age now. I used to get lost in this kind of entertainment - with all of its decorative and intellectual splendor, but the moment you try to make it real, it crumbles into ugliness. As they say, butterfly wings are best enjoyed with the eyes, not with the fingers. I have to say, I am so glad I did not divorce. I would have missed out on everything real.

[@thekingslady1]

14598175 Great comment👍 If you want to see the real narcissism this movie portrays pick up the book....and I dare you to finish it. Also look up a NY Times article by Elizabeth Gilbert (the author of this book) titled "Confessions of a Seduction Addict" and hear the real selfish, self-centered, vapid, vacuous, narcissistic Gilbert speak!

[@Filia_Noctis]

I think you’re misunderstanding the message here... some people should be together, other shouldn’t. Trying to force something that doesn’t work anymore isn’t right and won’t take you anywhere, like swimming against the flow

[@sheilagreenfield8102]

And here I’m so glad I got divorced after 25 years. I was never considered an equal partner, my dreams never mattered and he sabotaged me at every opportunity. Sometimes leaving is the best thing.

[@purest_evil]

I'm proud of you man, all the broken egg cartons here are doing numbers trying to justify their life choices to us or themselves, I dunno, but real life knows its a bitter mistake to chase pleasure even if it's somehow supposed to make you feel "whole"

[@purest_evil]

@Natalie Swann I could personally fear less from their choices so long as it's not to kill me but I'm gonna judge what I want to judge, throwing away a love life because you feel bored is stupid, it'd be smarter to work things out and try to have fun together, perhaps in other ways

[@trailersnow6670]

So i am here for last goodbye yes there was Love and everything was true... But sometimes when 3 person entered in your life life change.....

[@yrenalantigua301]

We all want things to stay the same.

[@JordanHighfield]

such a good scene.

[@cucaracha151]

I love this film 🎥

[@courtneywersch836]

Amazing , love love this movie !!

[@paulonevesr]

Ruin is a gift. I get it know.

[@fajrsahar157]

Lost soul without God

[@Zara_Luna]

1:41-1:48

[@nurultea2051]

Trouble make growing up.

[@anonymouspeacefulperson6199]

Definitely me 2017 ...

[@Betcaligarcia]

The author is a flake! She later falls in love with a Brazilian guy and leaves him for a woman . She doesn’t know what she wants !

[@yrenalantigua301]

Eat pray and love

[@tijanarakicgerginov1388]

Favorite...forever ❤

[@uneibindategjithe8786]

Beautiful story I love Julia Roberts. Javier Bardem in a romance hmmm I don’t know why but it seems so bizarre to me !!!!

[@AlmaSdance]

Javier Bardem was the best part of the movie lol.

[@rubysparklerodriguez3647]

Hi I had to say that your perception of boring is not boring to me actually I have fun with it and I play with for a little I find it sad and interesting at the same time who are you listening to have a 💜❤️❤️❤️💜💜 in the name of Jesus amen where is your heart ❤️

[@George-ur8ow]

This kind of lady IS RUINING AMERICA

[@True253]

Exactly.

[@marionchevalier]

❤️🙏🏻✨