EIC: DATING THEN VS NOW | Reaction w/ Moriah!

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[@sTOPzTARINGAlright]

The discussions range is mind blowing, I love this channel

[@sTOPzTARINGAlright]

😁😁😁 thank you man... Sometimes I am critical but never hate, only love for this channel.

[@raashimudholkar5800]

"Woh" roughly translates to he/she/that. Because many women in India don't address their husbands by their name. Sometimes they address them as "so-and-so's father".

[@exile_ftw]

And the irony was that his name itself was woh lol

[@adityachaturvedi_sonicpower]

e[X]ile he had been woh'ed so many times that he has forgot his name!

[@prakhardubey3632]

it goes the other way around too. Guys dont address with names either. It gets really annoying.

[@aqsaordinaryimp]

Chintu ke papa is comment ko Dekho.

[@mangoshek69]

at 14:40 a very nice point you guys said there... that we are too much connected these days. So i thought of an idea that when I'll be in a relationship in future now... me and my parter would do one thing i.e. we won't talk during the time when we are working.... so that the excitement to meet you partner after the work or a lond day remains intact and can add fuel to a relationship... as what's happening now is people don't have anything left to talk when they meet cuz they have been constantly chatting everything over phones the whole day.

[@serenityq26]

the opposite is true. we are NOT connected enough. you are connected to machines with your social media this and internet that. people arent even talking to their spouses just looking at their social media feed and spending time "together" through the phone NOT real life which is the problem. society is too reliant on technology

[@prakhardubey3632]

yh..that wont work..if she is nt talking to u thn u r not the only guy around

[@yanat7934]

I agreed with the rubber band effect that Jaby's talking about.... Earlier there were arranged marriages... Until the next generation rejected and started disagreeing with the idea and stared promoting the so called " love trumps all BS ". However with the side effects like emotional breakdown, less socialization, less confident and many other. Few intelligent people realized this and started going towards personal match making ( which is the modern version of arranged marriage) My point is Things never change They just become modernized ( to such extent that we actually never realize that they were the old stuff with a modern touch ) *Peace* ☮️

[@echobellem1610]

1:55 jaby's reaction. Thank me later. 😂😂

[@sidhantawasthi1259]

THIS IS NOT FAIR SHARMA JI son is getting everything yaar

[@srishtiagarwal4371]

I totally agree with your 'label' logic. There are both negative and positive ones. And labels,in my opinion, are grossly needed to figure yourself out. But somehow I think if someone wants to be referred to as the pronoun 'they',it isn't really frivolous. People are just trying to find themselves and if they believe that the gender that was assigned to them at birth is not what they identify with. And if the label of 'they' helps them, then I guess no one is hurt. Grammatically speaking, it's actually correct. If you see any definition of the word 'they', the 4th or 5th one is usually the one where the word 'they' is used for third person plural singular, usually for when you don't know the gender. Ofcourse if they are being over the top about it(like the video above,then yeah I get your frustration). I just want to know your views on this. P.S. I really like your discussions and break down of the video. Some of your discussions really are interesting. I never really thought about the stigma attached with threesomes that you brought forward in this video.

[@prakhardubey3632]

Its like..they r going outa their way to get offended

[@thateituallawt934]

Awww Jaby.... I'm always falling more in love with your genuine thoughts and reaction. I fell in love the moment you say you watch/listen to inspirational speeches in another reaction video. Please stay rooted just the way you are 😊😊😊

[@preranamodani]

Dowry is still very prevalent in a lot of regions in India. Hence, the sequence with the "business transaction".

[@sibis89]

what I wanted to post exactly .. and it's even more shameful when jaby addressed it as something from the distant past when it still is the norm in almost every other marriage in india ..

[@AnuragSinha7]

Seeing paycheck is also very much prevalent and was in India and no one is even talking about it.

[@preranamodani]

Exactly. All this is commonplace. And it's unfortunate.

[@71espn]

There were 20 dowry related deaths of women everyday according to NCRB

[@prakhardubey3632]

What abt Alimony?

[@virajparab5143]

damn jaby this was more like a podcast!!really good

[@marks999999]

Excellent discussion guys. Moriah is a classy 'Beauty with Brains' chick and she is super attractive

[@maamir3482]

Well that was sensible and logical. Thanks guys. You guys have realised negative impact of it, here things have started and it's confusing.

[@bhargavkashyap454]

The card actually implies the dowry practice...

[@VinoliSumi]

Bhargav Kashyap i

[@voiceofthevoiceless]

The kind of analysis you do in a reaction seems like delivering a science project before a crowd. Good job interpretating things in different ways 👍🏻.

[@mahimatripathi3464]

In India , women don't call their husbands by their first name, they use "WOH", which is said in a way of respecting the husbands. Earlier and even today in many houses , the wife doesn't say his husband's first name instead calls them by "Woh" . Got that jaby?? It's just a way of respecting men.

[@gauravg8987]

Mahima Tripathi there are very few woh girl's remaining

[@divyasasidharan2960]

I think in the vdo this guys name was actually woh 'pun comedy'

[@mahimatripathi3464]

Gaurav Gaikwad atleast our mother's and grandmother's generation still there 😂😂

[@mahimatripathi3464]

Divya Sasidharan I did think that , but no it meant woh as in like yeh mere woh hai 😂😂

[@Raut-warrior]

only older women dont call husbands name. Newer generations call by the first name

[@raunee100]

Don't take it literally because it was making fun of things by exaggerating the sketch. Well "Woh" means he/him/she/her/that, so back in the days in traditional Indian families women didn't call their husbands by the name instead they tend to use other honorary pronouns to talk about them in which "Woh" was more prevalent.

[@prakhardubey3632]

it goes the other way around too. Guys dont address with names either.

[@Prazoolkc]

She was not even laughing 😆 She be like ,Oh god,what jabby should do for views 😂😂

[@ankitverma9230]

🤣

[@gotahgemini6415]

because the video was quite disgusting and so far from what happens with the average indian family.

[@chetana9802]

the discussion grew so fruity so fast

[@shaileshmishra3151]

Love you so much jaby

[@aggoyirang9132]

Jaby almost peed himself at the intro 0:19 lol😂😂

[@vibhavwariku4280]

That card thing in the video - Dowry. Guy mentions in the card that he wants her as well as materialistic stuff (as dowry) and his dad just crossed her name (meaning he is only interested in dowry). It used to happen in some families of Indian Societies (not all)

[@vibhavwariku4280]

Its a satire on our society, so its funny.

[@nehapatel9533]

I saw a couple explanations on what "woh" meant, but I'll finish through by explaining the joke: "Woh" translates to "him/her/that person". Back in the day, and in many rural areas now, women would not address their husband by name as a sign of respect (weird right?). Because of that, they knew she was talking about a man but could not figure out his role in her life... and then in the "now" phase they show that we have the same problem occurring for a different reason: hesitancy on labels

[@athiraprabhakar7315]

i totally agree with jaby.. labels are useful, actually speaking, and natural. unless we know people, like have a conversation with them, how are we supposed to understand their preferences?!

[@suvashree100]

I really liked your thoughts on "divorce" .. Its very true ... you my dear friend are a very very thoughtful guy..

[@DitiyaChatterjee]

u both are awesome.. keep uploading more 😊

[@manishmishraji]

Chinese isn't a language though. Its Mandarin or Cantonese. Also, hindi along with some other indian languages is gender sensitive too.

[@serenityq26]

you are wrong. chinese is the name of a group languages and there are far more than two. taiwanese, shanghainese, peiking, mandarin, cantonese, etc etc. so its ok to just say chinese just like its ok to just say japanese or korean even though different regions use different dialects with different words. most languages have gender specific terms, english as always is whack

[@manishmishraji]

yeah well i really dont know anything about china or the chinese, i had heard this on a russel peters special. so i have been believing it for year. if you are sure about it, then i guess, i have been wrong all this while.

[@manishmishraji]

warlike tiger Hindi is what has evolved from sanskrit over thousands of years. Hindustani is derived from hindi and Urdu.

[@rohandutta9986]

In Hindi everything has a gender Bengali doesn't have gender That's why Bengalis sometimes find it hard to talk in hindi lol

[@thestarcreatorssmm-panel5640]

The card was reference to Dowry system... Where the boy has given the list of what he wants in dowry...

[@ashishrain1455]

this discussion was very real and good.

[@moulinamandal5492]

This video is like 2 years back so I don't know if u still think this way but like ‘You’ ‘They’ is also now as much singular as plural a word, even Oxford sanctioned it.

[@one_man_studios]

2:52 Sharma Ji's Son is a hypothetical person who is perfect in everything, like looks, academics, extra curricular activities, etc.

[@aravinda513]

That is actually a list of items as dowry! In the end when they ask for some changes, they cut that "you". Makes sense?

[@yashselot9887]

The card reference explains the dowry system prevalent.The boy demanded many expensive things in dowry in addition to the girl but then the boy's father checks the list to see that he has mentioned everything correctly and he makes a correction that he wants each of the things mentioned by his child in dowry except the girl.

[@deemjozef1614]

Omg she’s so beautiful

[@tamtam180]

It's the Dowry system that it was referring to which widely prevails in India..

[@serenityq26]

dowries arent just an indian/asian things. was/is uses all over the world, africa, europe, asia. depending what your culture puts "monetary" stock in you could give money and jewels or land and cattle as a dowry. its also known as a bride price

[@RahulRaj-qg5yu]

woh is a term used to refer to someone respectfully, like wife referring to husband , a student referring to teacher etc. technically woh is he or him in a respectful way.the presence of parents in relationships(old times) is understandable. Sharmaji's son refers to someone who is like an alpha male,perfect in every manner. But breakups have changed a lot. In old times ,it was a great deal, you will have great psychological effects, it meant like end of the world.Now its more of a daily event

[@AkshayTidke]

That card was Dowry tradition in India, where Grooms family demands money, vehicles, daily home appliances...

[@jafrulislam7529]

In the end part of the video - well played Jaby, well played.

[@LinkinParkConnoisseur]

"Woh" in Hindi means (a person) and so her friends were "labeling" the person (woh) who was coming to meet them and they did not expect that it could be a name. So it is revealed at the end that the name of the person is "Woh". and no, it's not a typical name in India. I have never met somebody named "Woh" so it wasn't the best joke as very few people would relate to it.

[@sourabhpatil213]

It's about dowry system, the card says about what the guy wants for the girl, and then his dad edits it by crossing off "you" and then it becomes a list of the items they want in a dowry.

[@AnuragsharanTG]

Some traditional girls tend to not take their husband's name and refer to him as 'woh' (Hindi for 'he'). Joke was that the guy's actual name was 'woh' so people got confused.

[@kf7647]

Woh sharma was the name of the person and it means" he, that, they".

[@ashishkhattri6007]

I agree with the rubber band argument. The only thing is I don't think it will snap back. I think it is going to break.

[@amiaynarayan619]

I completely agree with you Jaby in the label thing (about which I recently came to know in a gender class). In the end I was asked to submit a paper about how I felt about gender.....and i wrote almost what you just said..... but the Instructor got really angry at me and gave me very low grades just because my thoughts were against hers.(NOTE: later I came to know that she is feminist. so instead of getting angry on her I feel pity for her now);)

[@Who-qn5fl]

Discussion are super legit on this channel. Deeper and intelligent

[@suerayss]

Jaby, Woh (him in hindi) is how wives addressed the husbands. Till a generation ago a indian wife never takes the name of her husband or does not even call him by his name. She would call him as Woh (him in hindi). Once they have kids sometimes wife calls him "Muna ke Pitaji" ( Muna's dad). There is also a superstition I believe that its considered bad luck for wife to call her husband by his name.

[@priyankabaruah_23b]

Firstly in the card it was written "all I want is you plus the list down mentioned " . When the girl cried, the guy's dad cut you in all I want is you and demanded the rest other things

[@mahimatripathi3464]

The card thing was a satire on dowry system, where the groom's parents trick the bride's parents into giving more things with their daughter in the marriage. Dowry is practiced in hinduism and Islam.

[@marghoobkhan4505]

In that card the boy had written what dowry he want from the girl down side with points . And girl's family doesn't have that much to give them.. So the father of that boy rejected that girl by making cross on "YOU"..

[@revisepathology]

The things that was written on the card refers to Dowry system...

[@TwaritWaikar]

Our school had a course on Netiquettes, really set the idea of things on the internet can hurt people internally in my mind

[@vishalramesh5921]

actually in that card it was dowry. which means in olden days the family from girl side have to give dowry

[@arpitadash]

Jaby- Pls interview Richa Chadda .. she is an amazing actor & Quite successful ..

[@nosuffering7503]

At 1:55 look at both of there faces. LOL

[@yashdixit7195]

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[@marghoobkhan4505]

Woh is a Hindi word which means "he/she" in English.. Because of ancient Indian culture women don't take name of their husband to show respect.. So the people in front of women thought she is telling woh to give respect to his boyfriend or husband or etc. But actually woh was the name of her husband...

[@deepakputhran3653]

Here in the scene the husband's name is "woh Sharma". In Hindi language, married girls refer, their husband's name as "woh", meaning 'he', mark of respect, rather than husbands first name.

[@maverickmurphy]

It was a tradition in India where the bride's parents would have to give materials in the name of "dowry".

[@rishav.maityy]

Sharmaji's son is the overachieving neighbour's kid who is good at everything......

[@shcboutique]

Such a beautiful woman. Jaby, you two look good together. In fact, too good.

[@VictorKun]

That card has the list of dowry labelled, like All I want is you & a bike, a car,...(dowry list) So on

[@shreyatrivedi5731]

That is dowry which is now illegal in India. WHICH they were asking to the girl with a card.

[@kutekakes]

moriah is really smart! liked her conviction! good discussion.

[@Pranjal13]

Shamra Ji's Son is Hated By Every Indian Kid 😂😂

[@septarap3901]

Basically, "woh" was the label given to that man in the video.

[@santusarkar3642]

Jaby plz react to "FLAMES" web series...🙏

[@karunakumar8016]

That thing when card was exchanged it was like passing the card for permission to be in a relation.

[@abhibolo]

This discussion was extremely intellectual.

[@adityagupta6507]

This is best discussion so far

[@PankajJagat]

Really like the discussion afterwards... :)

[@niyarpawan5042]

M loving that u are reacting to EIC videos

[@abdulazizyalahow3238]

I agree ☝️ jaby from 9:45 to the end 👏 👏

[@nikhilkumardubey2964]

A professional reaction channel...love from India ❤️

[@sachingarhwal]

They are demanding for Dowry It's a tradition still going on in rural areas And they listed the things they need for example car, Gold etc

[@vivek153948]

Hey Jaby... you guys should watch tvf bachelors vs ghost ... that’s awesome episode...

[@suchangburagohain]

Theybies. Nigahiga did a good rant on labelling babies as they.

[@jojohaldar]

U got the card thing right it's the dowry system which was very common earlier! Labels :well confusing concept as Indian society or Asian society is all about it! This was an amplified version of people who hate it! But yes labels have +ve n -ve sides. The +ve is it makes situations n conversations easier!

[@humannature4327]

I am 29 years old.. My then.and now story Then: i was scared of being in relationship cuz I didn't know how to talk to a girl,i feel shy, i used to get nervous,and what will i do with her Now: i am scared of being in relationship cause of..what if my new gf have ..problem.with label, or if she is to much of feminist,if she is into.too much in gender equality,if she is not in to commitments,.. I think i was in.better condition then. Fuck.i. m .going to.be single.forever Forever alone

[@snowy6651]

That card thing..it was list of things they were asking for dowry..

[@jasonvijay]

Woh.....loosely translates to him/her/ that . When a girl talks about or adresses her husband or her would be , she will use woh instead of his name as mark of respect. And in this scenario, that guy's name itself is Woh which leads to the confusion. Its kind of a pun.

[@dg798]

Loved this video

[@jasonasir2345]

It always Reel vs Real. Reel has been sometimes too much hyped.

[@prateekshinde67]

His name was Woh Sharma . . First name was Woh Lastname was Sharma

[@shrushtihalari8414]

In India during old times and still now women didn't speak the name of their husband called them "woh" or as their kids father ( rachel's father ) out of respect ,so Woh sharma is a word play on that and the list is a dowry list

[@poojakarle4421]

I like jaby discussion.. He talks so well.. His views r good

[@LexicographicalPedant]

“Woh” is a gender neutral pronoun. A little time ago, it was tradition for wives to not refer their husbands by name in front of others. Hence they referred to them as “woh”(in this case equivalent to him or he). So when she says woh, the others try to guess whom exactly she is referring to. But turns out his actual name is woh.

[@nemesisop8903]

See Sharma Ji ka Beta is just a colloquial thing in India , where it is used for comparison between a guy and his neighbours or a topper of his class

[@kathanpatel6818]

Bro in that card scene they are talking about dowry in old times dowry was a very common thing so the boy's family demands for more dowry so the girl's father requests to reduce the dowry where the boy's father rejects the girl because they didn't get the dowry they demanded....... I m your big fan bro 😊...... I always watch all your videos......Lots of love brother🤗

[@nevillephilippe2292]

It's amazing that over the years.. Jaby has been propagating his Rubberband Effect Theory and like the brainwashed sheep that we are, we are digesting it without questions asked.. 😄😄😄 Although I support it 100%... Our maybe I've just being.. brainwashed....

[@RajeshGupta-cg7nl]

That's called Dowry....supposed to be gift fm bride's fmly to newly wed to help them start new life....which over the period of time became defacto norm as has to be done types ritual.....but happy that this is breaking up in practise

[@akarshchhari6236]

Voh is a Hindi word and at the old times wife's were not allowed to say there husband's name so they use to say voh and the guy had his name voh

[@avnishpalsingh6864]

Relationships to Relationshits...😅😅a letter changes a lot of things..😅

[@adarsh5265]

This was heavy 😂😂

[@mecss8910]

1:54 - Don't worry Jaby, it's exaggerated.... :D

[@sanadivyani7045]

I luv u jaby achara frm rocky mount north Carolina

[@sanadivyani7045]

Pls do reply thanks

[@s.vaishali4928]

I feel that half the stuff from the "now" part is untrue.... At least in south India... Agree??

[@ashwinir408]

Totally agree with jaby, everything reaches an equilibrium.😐

[@siddhvyas6330]

you didn't read the content of that letter closely read carefully and you will understand

[@asiftrumboo5577]

Jaby, the list on the card is demands of the (shameless) groom from the girls (to be bride's) parents (called as dowry); the custom is unfortunately still prevalent in many parts of India. Achara would have got that.

[@lewsifer9866]

Woh means HIM.... The girls' boyfriend name is WOH so ultimately his name is HIM