Ellie on Happiness and SAD

[@0thingl]

"I don't think anybody should be allowed to make my pants wet. I don't even do that." Ellie doesn't wash her clothes.

[@Louis_2568]

There’s a thing of like people never washing their jeans right?

[@lollypopalopicus]

Unironically, one of the single most well adjusted person I've ever seen, I swear, if she overcame her anxiety and social hang-ups, she'd achieve enlightment and ascend to Nirvana.

[@drongnel69]

That is an incredibly accurate description of how winter is for me too!

[@Stolanis]

Man, coming hot off watching some Kaminari Clara clips to this wholesome cinammon roll sure is a mood whiplash and a half. I'm glad Ellie's doing well though. :)

[@lollypopalopicus]

Wise bot.

[@jannis11]

naIce

[@DJwanderr]

Im empty every second of my life, how do you deal with that feeling?

[@Grebogoborp]

Obviously you put it in the void where the other feelings go duh. Can’t feel empty if you feel nothing ignore the problem and it goes away. That or I just stop perceiving it but that’s like 90% the same thing.

[@Stolanis]

The best way it was described to me, as someone who's struggled with depression and severe anxiety: Emotions aren't like a mixing board where you can fade in/out each emotion individually. Emotions have exactly ONE control, and that's the master volume. If you lower the volume on any one emotion, you lower all of them. For emotions to be healthily felt, you need to be able to acknowledge all of them - especially the ones you don't like or that make you feel most vulnerable. The feeling of emptiness (in my experience) almost always comes from an inability to let yourself feel something that you need to feel. Blocking one emotion enough will eventually lead to blocking the others as well whether you want it or not, leading to the anti-feeling: emptiness. The way you deal with it? You have to look into yourself, at your psyche and your history, and figure out what it is that you've been denied all this time, then find a way to give that to yourself in a gentle, healthy way. It could be affection, or trust, or even something as simple as fun. The unfortunate thing is that it is not easy: digging up your past trauma is likely to be painful. But you must trust that it is the right thing to do and that, beyond that pain, there lies a better future where all your feelings are available to you. I wish you the best in your future. Goodness knows no-one deserves to feel empty.

[@DJwanderr]

Damn, didnt expect to get actual advice, thank you kind strangers, ill see what i can do

[@potatopc9410]

Idk I just kinda don’t give a shit to emptiness in my heart and just ignore bad feeling I also cope with the thought that either way life will fuck me as hard it could so I’d rather be happy with what I have and get fucked rather than being sad and get fucked at least I’m happy so I guess get your priority straight even if you don’t know what you want try to find one you don’t even need to have a big goal just something small like me I just want a ducati monster 796 it won’t make any diffirence but at least I’ll be a little bit happy cuz riding clear my head from all useless thought

[@JasonBoos2005]

i am sad

[@Mr-gw9mg]

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