He Felt Pressured And Pulled Away Will He Come Back And Why

[@ElliotScottDating]

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[@Sparksflymich]

it’s NEVER worth it to stick around for someone who doesn’t even choose you!

[@amandat392]

I ended a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man I was with for over a year and going no contact has made me feel positive.Iam now enjoying life with and doing stuff for me No one is ever going to make me feel that fuckin shit about myself again

[@liztowers2058]

omg sister i JUST ENDED MY FWB "emotionally DEAD inside" 2 YEARS with the man Today !! im hurting but he had long enough to want me fully. IM FUCKING DONE.

[@BrooklynBaby100]

@@liztowers2058for the love of Christ don’t ever be a FWB!

[@liagrigori]

Same. It’s painful being in a wannabe relationship with an emotional unavailable dude

[@simpleliving4205]

Same happened to me . I second that

[@basicinfo2022]

He can't hurt you anymore if you're absent and gone.

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

That's probably what he wanted in the first place. You're just granting that wish for them lol. ...Oh well then so be it.

[@basicinfo2022]

@SliceofHeaven1984 most men are bluffing and testing to see how much they can get away with because they think women are too nice and blindly loyal. My ex had a mental breakdown when I finally moved on to another man lol

[@kristina4395]

💯 true .. women think "he loves me but he's just too broken from last relationship/too busy with career/ or he loves me so much he runs away from me coz it scares him" 😊

[@basicinfo2022]

When he comes back, make him take you on a luxury shopping spree lol. Otherwise, he will keep treating you like a revolving door if there's no consequences or punishment.

[@Kristinakeegan]

Not necessarily. I had a bf do this, he was unsure about me and being in a relationship. He came back after 3 weeks and proposed to me 1 year later. So a man can come back but when they come back you have to be ready to say that you want something real.

[@kinkao2373]

How long were you with him before he left and came back?

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Your the exception not the rule 🤣

[@Braveh3artGirl]

You have to realise your own self worth through your own lens and not someone else’s then you really are onto something emotionally ❤

[@elenag6431]

So relatable! So the best action from a woman is just to stop entertaining him?

[@BarbaraLinton-k1c]

Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.

[@AntjeMoench]

It's incredibly hard to let go of someone you love. I was in a similar situation when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't let him go, so I did everything I could to get him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who assisted me in reuniting with him.

[@BarbaraLinton-k1c]

That's amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I reach him?

[@AntjeMoench]

His name is Fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can help bring your ex back.

[@BarbaraLinton-k1c]

Thank you for this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and he seems impressive.

[@Lilyboo-b5d]

I am in the same boat friend. Ignore him so he can miss you. Do not contact him until He starts to wonder about you. He will come back. And if he doesn’t in 2 months, you will feel liberated of these mind games trust me.

[@teadororudy]

Thanks for spitting the cold hard facts, Eliott. I did one round of this bs with an emotionally unavailable man that I’m crazy about. He came back after a month of no contact saying he missed me, but it was all the same breadcrumbing crap again so he could keep the pssy going. After about 6 weeks I walked away again and now it’s been another month nc. Done this time, not going another round with his dusty ass.

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

Wow why did you give yourself too readily. Have more self respect than that, geez.

[@alisachaise3]

Never a good idea to judge I bet you’ve done it yourself in the past at least ☝️ time, everyone has- get real 😅

[@txm.9021]

@@alisachaise3speak for yourself not everyone but like you said still don't judge

[@niksiniksi6033]

Same here...he came back after one month of no contact. I let him in, and the same pattern began. This time around there was no sex, he had to earn it. He didn't make the effort so I blocked him again!!! No more!

[@thatkatt_]

I absolutely love the fact you don’t sugar coat any of these situations because we as women need the harsh reality to actually change. Thank you for your content 🙏🏽

[@msaniese09]

This got me cracking TF UP!!! You are hilarious ! I love it !!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 and it all makes SO Much Sense! ✨

[@susanhe5818]

I had this happen with a guy friend, where it’s on going like this back and forth for years. After not speaking for months, he comes back then feels pressure, this helps me see the bigger picture~ not sure if he will ever realize where it will ever go, but it is crazy😢 thx Elliot 😊💕

[@OlderWomenRock]

Love the way you deliver messages , honest and direct I want to win , I want Him to feel even a little of what I felt . This will booster my self esteem

[@EdelweisSusie]

LADIES - how to proceed with such an emotionally unavailable, commitment-phobe should he want to meet/come back into your life: 1. Make yourself LOOK as fantastic as possible ie lose weight; change your hairstyle/colour; update your wardrobe; wear heels if you're a trainers type of woman; get contact lenses in place of glasses etc so you LOOK TOTALLY DIFFERENT to when he knew you before 2. Slip into the conversation how you built up your career since he knew you, or that you've become a blogger or business owner etc 3. Drop into the conversation that you've worked like a Trojan in the intervening period and PAID OFF YOUR MORTGAGE (he won't have!) 4. Even if your heart is breaking at seeing him again after many years, act like your life is happy and fulfilled (this will crucify him) 5. Set your 'phone to ping during your chat/meeting with him so he thinks people are messaging you (makes you appear popular) 6. Be pleasant, kind and charming no matter how much you want to swear/berate him for how he treated you (this will freak him out) Do all these things - and watch him squirm!!

[@Ajene-q3j]

6! Yess❤

[@proudestmommy]

I love you. Making me feel strong while making me laugh xoxo

[@LotusSellers-r5z]

Love takes time.

[@vfd3203]

I never pressured him at all. He’s actually the one who pursued me 100% and things were different this time around and then after 2 1/2 months he did it to me again saying he needed space. This was on him this time, not me other than I let him come back once yet again. I can’t even begin to say how much different things were this time but it is what it is and I just can’t do this DA crap again with him. I AM ON NO CONTACT WITH HIM besides the space Bullshit!

[@reinalooper3314]

Elliot I LOVE YOU SO MUCH 😂 you always keep it SO real with us women!! It’s soooo appreciated!

[@kaeli1983]

Love the hair, Elliot 🥰

[@Blaire77]

Lmao I’m so mad bc he did have to come back and prove it and did all this work and we were back together for a year and he did it AGAIN after all the work he put it to get it back. Never again I am moving on.

[@npkrn6764]

"You're nuttier than squirrel shit" 😂😂😂 If you don't mind, I'm going to use that one, Elliot! Love it! ❤️

[@angelgreen9945]

Thank you very informative.

[@ElliotScottDating]

Glad it was helpful!

[@Chloeeee2215]

Elliot can you please make a video about being in no contact for 4 months with an ex and how to maximise your chances to get him back?

[@bebeblossom9160]

No sound either, maybe because its too soon to watch yet. Because it was just uploaded 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@ElliotScottDating]

That may be it. Hmmm. It works for me that's weird

[@bebeblossom9160]

@@ElliotScottDating thank you Elliott I'm watching now

[@lisasolis7885]

Spot ONNN!!!!

[@dtattedmami]

It's selfish reasons...exactly 😂

[@renoaczhary1232]

I need this. Thank you

[@MalenaLuna444]

Hi Elliot! Looking good, my guy

[@Liz-dragon-street.]

😂😂😂 Elliot i love you! You are fu**kg funny and ohh my it is all facts! Squirrel shit 😂😂😂

[@lajoiedevivre-oakblog]

Hate to say it but you are right... hardcore....

[@emmaboyett8667]

Hes never coming back to me

[@cococaptivating7611]

Elliott I believe what you’re saying is true and women need a wake up call. I just also believe that you are not communicating this (and I know you’re a great communicator) the way that women will receive it in an advantageous way for them as well as you. I felt put off by your presentation. Many women buy into what men do and say. That’s why men keep getting away with their behavior . Talk about how fabulous women are and how high value they are and give them insight to what’s really going on that doesn’t make men look like dogs and predators. And let women know that they are what high value men need and want. Teach women how to weed out the emotionally unavailables I know you do that I’ve been watching your KZbin for some time now but this video was not skewed to your female audience in what’s in their best interest in a manner that makes them like or trust your opinion. This is my opinion, just saying.

[@bolicious7606]

Nuttier than squirrel shit 😂

[@bumblebee2227]

This is my husband 😢

[@afrintayeba2981]

Sounds prob...can anyone hear?

[@ElliotScottDating]

I hear it

[@xtbsfan4evax]

It is selfish !

[@ShanaeBeautiful]

All....straight, no- bullshit facts 💯. A guy i was dating for a year is trying to pull this exact scenario. Mind you ive already stupidly had gave him like 2-3 chances with this marry go round. He messages, " I miss you, I love you " lol things and i told him, Sir....thats not how love goes, and all the best in your life 🫡

[@susanhe5818]

Or move on

[@ShanaeBeautiful]

Doing exactly that

[@bujitea8522]

You look different… healthier

[@Hellozhiii]

Hahahahahaha 😂😂😂

[@alexandra9985]

This does not exist, emotionally unavailable! Otherwise he would not even be able to cry or laugh..where did his emotions go??? This is just a stupid excuse they use for saying, i dont want you🤣

[@bolicious7606]

That's not what it means 😅 google it

[@Saylerk9]

Ha ha 😂😅

[@rare.3540]

😂😂😂😂😂