WHY I LEFT LA : THE TRUTH los angeles

[@EnnyOwl]

"LA is a sunny place for shady people" 😂👌🏾 Accurate AF

[@therenaessance]

hahaha hilarious

[@linkskywalker5417]

At least it's lighthearted, unlike Chicago, which has shady people (and even more proportions of them), but without the lightheartedness or NYC, which is heavier hearted in large part because of 9/11 and, related to that, has an awful lot of surveillance.

[@trappintrev9711]

Haha! Thank you, I misheard it at first: LA is a suckie place for sh*tty people

[@trappintrev9711]

@Daniel Rios huh?

[@BIGMOVECJ]

Link Skywalker we not shady in chi wym

[@theycallmevitch]

REAL Angelinos are super nice and chill. It's the people who move here who are egotistical and have such high expectations, actually believing they'll become "famous".

[@CharlieZelenoff]

Yup!!

[@choctawgirl26]

True!!! I will agree with her though that L.A. is full of low self-esteem people who need attention and its why they act this way....but Imma give u the keys to enjoying L.A. and Cali in general 😉. *warning-long post* I lived in the Island Empire area when I was a kid so going to L.A. to visit is a different experience for me because I hang around the natives and locals and THAT'S the key to enjoying California....its NOT L.A. or the people in it. They are expats. Go for the cheesy touristy stuff, have confidence (Im not talking arrogance) and then even the people of L.A. will draw to you. Low self-esteem draws to high self-esteem...and Im a broke bitch so its not a money thing either lol😂. My husband and I arent scared or Intimidated by the bougie attitudes and EVERYTIME we go out, we draw crowds who want to party with us.....its confidence and not giving a fuck that's the key to L.A..... but then take your ass out of there and enjoy the AMAZING state for what you read and see, but with the natives of Cali and you will have the time of your life every time, Guaranteed no matter where in California you go! Dont let the brats ruin it for you....so to sum it up, just dont pay attention to it and be yourself and confident...its what L.A. lacks so they will then draw to you but DEFINITELY get to know the natives and locals who live in L.A. and outside of L.A. and let them show you the time of your life!

[@EbagsGalore]

No

[@이효동-r7x]

You're absolutely true. I've been in LA in the period between 1984 to 1989.

[@amrt3356]

Truth!

[@RobertoBlake]

If you’re going to move anywhere for your KZbin career NYC is the best option in the US. Access to the KZbin Space, plenty of events and opportunities to work with brands... great airport. Plenty of huge creators there too.

[@Annababy575757]

East coast ganggggg

[@majc7438]

Anna Campbell we need a collab on the east coast from you guys 🙌😊

[@takecare0721]

Anna Campbell too bad you’re still a fake ass bitch

[@takecare0721]

KZbin Renegade she literally just made a video bashing Andrea russet and the entire situation was fabricated and dramatic just to get views

[@HughMadBro]

Anna Campbell REPRESENT 🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻 #PENNSYLVANIAGIRLS

[@charmingbaby101]

yessssssss

[@iyana8234]

I love how you say these things and decided to leave. A lot of other youtubers talk about how fake La is but still live there and hang around those same people. Good for you Steph.

[@LayneFable]

NYC is so amazing because you can be whoever the F you want to be

[@potbellyfatguyfromnewyorkcity]

no car required and you don't have to deal with fake people. that is probably the most important.

[@dabutchaistoxic]

Can you still be a mob boss?

[@JELew-yk3bm]

And the people may be rude but they're REAL!!

[@MichelleKhare]

I'm so happy and excited for you,. Steph. Congratulations :)

[@CharlieZelenoff]

LEYKIS 101!

[@potbellyfatguyfromnewyorkcity]

steph curry will divorce the hypergamy chasing ayesha. mark my words.

[@jubi0622]

I think people who move to LA in pursuit of fame vs. people who grow up in LA have very different experiences. Doesn't feel fake to me, but that's just because I'm surrounded regular, grounded people. Very understandable that you didn't quite see that side of the city.

[@Jay_Em10]

Exactly

[@diffusewings4937]

Yeah white privilege woooo hoooooo good people stfu bitch

[@yomomomama3964]

o yea ok

[@Naliahsquad7020]

Diffuse Wings49 I am black and I have lived in la my whole life I feel that some people that move here are just looking for fame but honestly I think that all of the people I have met that have grown up here are really genuine nice and grounded people I just think that the fame sometimes gets to them.

[@philg7528]

I'll bet she's never been to Ports O Call or anywhere east of the 110. But yes traffic does suck here. LOL

[@annabelle7969]

That's why I moved to a small town in California instead of going straight to LA

[@mallow610]

I've been LIVING for these genuine chats

[@ElloSteph]

[@cardsandcoffeewithjanene]

Wow! This is exactly how I feel. I have lived in LA for three years now and I feel like I don't belong because I want quality over quantity. Thank you so much for posting this. You helped me feel not alone in how I am feeling.

[@natalieohlsson7777]

Janene Gibbons are you still in LA?

[@cuptink1331]

Being Social Media famous is like being Monopoly rich, it means nothing*

[@ginelleaspinall7021]

cuptink1331 I love this comment

[@vic7483]

lmao good one

[@roxxylala26]

Actually, these kids make a lot of real money & it ain't monopoly money. Lol. Hate to say it. But look up some of these YT famous' financial worth. U would be surprised.

[@berseli5783]

Except u actually earn real money

[@indiaxlovee]

cuptink1331 how when you make hundreds of thousands of dollars a year?

[@MarissaFarinaTV]

WTF WHY DIDNT YOU TELL ME YOURE HERE ALREADY

[@blstxi]

busted!!!!!!

[@3Oh3metrostation]

lmao

[@ShannonDoheny]

i think it was the best decision you couldve made, youre glowing! ly steph x

[@colleenmichele5054]

I feel like you're talking about a very specific part of LA....West Hollywood/Hollywood area. However you could absolutely see an old woman with purple hair say in Venice. East LA has nice people who are super down to earth. Or what about Long Beach, Whittier, Pasadena, Montebello, Pico Rivera, Downey, Commerce..these are all towns in LA where the people you're talking about really don't exist. It's sad that West Hollywood really represents all of LA for so many people because it's such a small, shallow part of a really great city.

[@AmbeyPankake]

Colleen Michele this! I keep seeing youtubers shit all over LA. LA is beautiful and diverse and accepting in so many ways. Just because you encountered some shitty social media people doesn’t mean LA is to blame.

[@JessicaOlivia]

Amber Davis I’m going to make a positive LA video. Thank you for this. I got caught up in this too at one point.

[@megalampz]

Exactly

[@EbagsGalore]

It's laughable to see all of you Socalians caught up in the idea that LA is star-spangled great. Maybe it's the smog that's clouding your thoughts. It's ok. The rest of the world understands your obliviousness to reality.

[@megalampz]

Gabe Kim you know how big LA is? The place this chick has been too is where everyone that from middle America or the east coast goes to live an “LA life” real people don’t live there we were pushed out it’s not your home you know nothing about it relax

[@ajayul8320]

I'm so proud of you, I've been following you for years now and believe me, you're part of the few youtubers who haven't disappointed me. You're still so genuine. Keep being you! Ily

[@localscary]

Aww missed your videos! Glad you’re back. We support you no matter what decisions you make, at the end of the day you just gotta look out for your own happiness and I couldn’t be more happy for you for doing so.

[@peterj.1960]

I can already see the difference in your smile. You seem so much happier than you've been in quite a while and that's wonderful! I wish you the best and I'm really looking forward to this new chapter and what it will bring. Thank you for letting me and all of your followers, be a part of this journey with you! You are amazing and inspirational! Thank you for being you.

[@SarahRachel]

Honestly this video feels super genuine and refreshing. Can completely understand how life in LA could be this way. People can be so lazy and obsessed with being “insta famous” which is such a fleeting goal anyway 😂 Hope New York is a better fit for you! :)

[@kristenwaterton4087]

Sarah & Rachel also it’s all about promoting “ the industry “ and whatever trendy new entertainment is out..... gets so old to be obsessed with trends or paid to push them ....

[@jamilgotcher5456]

New York is full of fake fashion industry people that are obsessed with beautiful fashion models. They don't have womanizers in New York, they have modelizers (from Sex in The City). btw, I was one of the beautiful fashion models so I know firsthand.

[@kristenwaterton4087]

Jamil Gotcher yeah that’s there and something to avoid but it’s not an overwhelming part of the vibe, like Hollywood is in LA. it’s still way more diverse, raw, real and artistic ..... u can basically still be more authentic there

[@LittleeCx]

Honestly, being born & raised in la it hurts me to admit this but I 100% agree, like it honestly saddens my heart but it’s true but girlll you do you. Do what makes you happy! I’m extremely happy for you!!

[@lazyperfectionist1]

"LA is a _sunny_ place for _shady_ people." Well, shoot. Unfortunate that it drove you out, and in so doing, lost a bit of shine.

[@Ch1oeW]

"Being social media famous is like being Monopoly rich, it really means nothing" - statement of the decade!! You're awesome Steph, keep swimming and spreading your positivity. This was refreshing, it's nice to know there are cool real people around. Thank you

[@Haxtortle]

The change in your facial expressions when you talk about LA the amount of pain expressed is hard to see but I think we are glad to see how happy you are in NY, hope you stay happy for a long time to come

[@tartdarling]

I'm glad you're back! Thanks for making a video that sums up how I feel about LA. I grew up there and lived in that grey space and it was so hard. Luckily I'm an East Coast gal now and I couldn't be happier.

[@natalieohlsson7777]

tartdarling what do you like about the east coast?

[@RobertoBlake]

You definitely don’t have to move to LA for KZbin. Just go on trips for collabs and get brands to cover it. Only reason to move their is lifestyle and to be in entertainment

[@xodancerxo312]

Forever in awe of your sense of self and commitment to authenticity. You rock, Steph!

[@risatashima1102]

I lived in LA for almost two years and that’s when my depression started... I’m so glad I’m out of that place now and I wish you all the best too dear💕🙏🏼

[@jellybelly111]

Hey, as someone who moved to LA for college and work, I can say you're 100% right. I notice this more than the natives because I wasn't used to this new culture and it wasn't until a few years later, I saw LA for what it is. Even in the cities around LA where people are considered more "normal", I still experience this but to a lesser degree. Coming from Texas to California, I've never had friendships outside of work that lasted more than 2 years. People seem to befriend you if you're convenient or if they find some sort of use in you whether it be popularity, money, social networking, etc.... they don't actually care for you as a person if you know what I mean. Everyone is more ambitious and are using everyone else to some degree, that's the biggest thing I noticed. There's very few people who are actually genuine. I've always had people say they want to hangout and they never do, it's like they're just saying nice and friendly things just for the sake of saying it. I've been to other places where people are rude and blunt, but the thing is, they mean what they say. At least when they invite you to dinner, they actually do it and not ghost you.

[@mercedeshawk81]

You definitely picked a place where the people are straight forward. I wish you the best of luck and that it’s every thing you hope for.

[@panda_bear_games]

I understand this so well. I've lived here for almost three years and I've done so much growing in that time. I'm more myself now than I have ever been. This is home. Welcome to NYC, Steph. We're glad you're here. 😊

[@PrincessPixieBell]

i never saw anyone look side to side this much. not a negative comment, just different. something for me to get use to.

[@jimw966]

This is why you are amazing. You always tell it like it is. I know you will thrive in New York and can’t wait to see what’s next. Hope Nugget adjusted to the move alright. Have a great day Steph.

[@Mortal_Disorder]

I'm from Los angels and I'm fine with your take on this city but not ok with you saying MOST of the people here are fake. That's a generalization I've never liked because it really only takes into account the people that are in the entertainment industry in one respect or another (yes, I include KZbin in that), most of whom aren't even from here, and completely forgets about the rest of us. Los Angeles is the only city I can think of that gets stereotyped by one industry. New York doesn't get stereotyped by wall street and the banking industry. If you only hung out with nothing but bankers or the people around that in New York and generalized based on that I doubt people would accept that as fact but in Los Angeles if you use people in the entertainment industry as the bases for your opinion on us as a whole that's perfectly acceptable. How often do people that make these statements hangout in East Los Angeles, South Central, Compton, the harbor area? And I don't mean for an afternoon. I'm ok with people not liking Los Angeles, I love it. But when you say most people are fake you're including the almost half of this city that's Hispanic, mostly working class, who either fought or who's parents fought to get here. You're including the black people who've been here for generations and carved out their place. Both the brown and black communities have to deal with violence in one form or another so the idea that most of them are worried about their Instagram followers is funny to me because growing up I was more worried about getting shot. You're including the working class white people who don't know what the fuck you're talking about when you talk about Facebook followers because they're too busy trying to put food on the table. You're including the rest of the people here, largely immigrants, who worked hard to get here and make a home. You're including the largest homeless population in the country. Sorry, I very rarely ever rant but that kinda just felt like it needed to come out.

[@trinitycasanova9922]

***APPLAUSE*** I'm from South Central and for her to say that all of L.A is fake is such bullshit. All these youtubers are always talking about how snobby and fake people are in L.A but just like them they are hanging out with people who weren't born in L.A. Come over to EAST L.A and then say that all of L.A is fake, all you will see is hard working people.

[@colleenmichele5054]

YES!!!!! 100000000%....I am not familiar with the girl who posted this video...I can say she seems extremely sweet and genuine. What I find, generally, is that people who don't like LA because they think everyone is fake, are the people who are trying to social climb. They're the people going out to the Hollywood clubs every weekend hoping to get noticed. They're the people who want to make it, but don't and base their entire LA experience off of Hollywood. I live in East LA (am from Chicago) and I can say that if you're coming to LA for the entertainment industry you're going to be in for a rough ride. If you're coming to live in warm weather, meet chill people and have fun, that's what you'll find. Los Angeles has some of the nicest, kindest, most genuine people I've ever met in my life and I'm from the midwest. Transplants who never leave Hollywood are the ones who spread the "all of LA is fake" stereotype and it's unfortunate.

[@Mortal_Disorder]

trinity casanova to be fair she said most not all but even that statement was too much for me. Like I said, this city is almost half Hispanic, most of whom are blue collar, most of whom either immigrated or are descendents of immigrants. The percentage of this city that are social climbers, and there are those, is small but we get defined by them which I fucking hate.

[@Mortal_Disorder]

Colleen Michele that's why I mentioned those neighborhoods specifically. No one, or at least almost no one, trying to make it in the entertainment industry, in whatever form, lives in those hoods. They tend to stick to very specific areas and hangout with very specific people that make up a minority of this city. Like I said, if you like this city, as you do, that's awesome. If you don't, that's ok. I took offense to her saying most people are fake. I take offense that this city gets defined by one industry and a minority of the people most of whom aren't even from here. They come and eventually leave while, for the rest of us, this is home.

[@lauraandrea1269]

🙌🏽

[@haleybusbee6183]

thank you for being genuine steph, you are one of the sweetest, most caring youtubers out there

[@Lingling1008-asdr]

"Social media famous is like being monopoly rich. It means nothing" i know im late to the game here but preach girl preach!!

[@LindsayC]

Many moons ago, my girlfriend and I were supposed to move to LA. It didn't work out, and I thank my lucky stars that it didn't. It sounds vapid and empty and soul-crushing. Best wishes to you in NYC, Steph!

[@tarasigal2272]

Welcome to NYC!!! Yeahhh!

[@sidessherri]

Good for you! You recognized a toxic atmosphere and was wise enough to save yourself. Best of luck to you👏

[@r1z0BeL]

Wow… I thought was the only one who feels like that, I don’t live in LA I don’t feel the city I’m living in like home too, I’m here just because… listening to you makes me realize that I need to move on… Thanks Steph! 😭😍

[@klabeck1097]

Welcome to New Yawk!!! 💛 You're the real deal. You'll like it here. Has its own challenges but it's a solid town. I'm happy for you!

[@michaela4361]

Steph thank you for always being transparent & and completely honest with every single one of us Steph and we support you on any decision u make wether it involves us or just a decision to better yourself! Steph you are one of the most honest and real youtubers and people I've ever had the honor of getting to know over KZbin! Finally Steph I just really want you to know that you mean the world to me and that I love you so very much and I'm so glad that you made the big decision to move to NY to live in an environment where you can feel comfortable but 2 also take on the world of NYU for grad school!! I love you so much Steph you mean the world to me!!💖!!

[@audrajordan1195]

I’ve heard of you, but this is the first time I’ve watched a video of yours. I think this was the best first video I could have watched. I connected so hard to this, and just moved to NYC for the exact same reason. NYC just provides this culture of being who you are and accepting everyone. I hope you find your place here.

[@ONE_shot_GURL]

Glad you did what you felt right and got out of a place that wasn't a good fit for you.. NYC is awesome, hope you are much happier there!

[@choosenify]

hi julie! luv yaa

[@httmai]

Wow, this is SO raw and candid. You are the Real Deal. NYC will suit you more. E.Coast in general is so crass; we'll tell you like it is without abandon. I lived in NYC and it is the best place to live in 'anonymity' when you need to. You seem very introspective and perceptive. Good luck to you (I know this video is a couple years old, it just resonated with me).

[@nirls]

I’ve missed seeing your beautiful face!! I love you no matter what Steph and I am so happy that you are making videos again and wish you and Nugget all the best in NYC Love you darling!!

[@ElloSteph]

Thank you love! It's good to be back

[@nirls]

I'm happy that you are doing better

[@jessgonzalez3201]

You’re honestly one of the only KZbinr who is honest, genuine and brave to speak about the truth and I personally appreciate that 😌

[@mattycauld]

LA native here- so sad to here about your experience here :( Yes not all people are like this but yes "a sunny place for shady people" for sure. But I'm glad you decided to move to NY and that it fits your vibe.

[@ndlsumr]

"Sometimes it's better to go and live someplace where you thrive, rather than where the thrive is". You really have a wonderful way with words to express thoughtful insight.

[@lexgrrez]

West coast is the best coast. LA is full of fake people, but it could also be your friend group and the type of people you attract.

[@lauraandrea1269]

Lex Grrez I met so many amazing people in LA in the 4 years I’ve been here. I think it’s naive to categorize a whole city as fake people, because seriously, in my experience, almost everyone I met here is so genuine and kind and actually care about other people. I guess if you hang out in Beverly Hills or Hollywood is a whole different story. But it’s also what you say, the people you attract 🤷🏽‍♀️ I love both NYC and LA anyways.

[@StanleyKuo184]

I also think it's the type of crowd Steph hung out with that's the problem. Of course the city has shallow people, but you can find plenty of them on the East Coast as well.

[@angelaa6498]

Agreed. I like to run, so joined a running community in L.A. almost 10 yrs ago now. Met the most wonderful, giving people ever there. Friends to this day. They get involved with helping the homeless and many other social issues/catastrophes that affect L.A, the States and around the world. Of course, none of them are youtuber's, so maybe that's a factor? Just good people doing good deeds....

[@twongreen9968]

The West Coast is the wack coast best of what lmao

[@anthonyramirez2576]

Wet

[@gavinhuang4521]

So refreshing to see someone do REALTALK. All the best in NYC

[@SarahCroce]

Love the honesty! I know you’ll crush it in NYC. Just know you’ve always got a place to crash if you want to visit LA to remind yourself why you left 😂

[@3Oh3metrostation]

so you're the shady one lol

[@cerinashippey]

OOOF.

[@evans3612]

An Italian guy told me he hated Milan but he loved Venice, and he told me why. So I feel you Steph :)

[@BakeLikeAPro]

you got that right Steph, I'm doing KZbin and am in Canada. Great video, you really bring up a lot of great points. It's nice to hear it from somebody who is real. - Mark over at the BakeLikeAPro KZbin channel.

[@Michael89240]

Why are you not verified?

[@livthurston8294]

i already commented a bunch on instagram BUT i'm so happy you moved to nyc! we're lucky to have you :) moving from la couldn't have been easy especially as a youtuber but you did it and we're so proud of you! you're gonna kill it at nyu

[@rebekahmoore6920]

The reminded my just how great of a person Steph is

[@giancarlojacobs9982]

I live in L.A. currently and one of the most ANNOYING things about people here is that they are worse liars than they are aware of. Their fake behavior is OBVIOUS , yet if you let them know you're aware of their agenda/intentions then they label you as negative/unfriendly.

[@Jgotmilk555]

I am glad you are happy in NY. I suddenly feel really great about not living in LA. Lol, thanks!

[@KesharaBjorkman]

This is on point, so many of the reasons I’m hesitant to move back to that area. Good for you for making the positive change ✌🏽♥️

[@angeladawn1473]

“The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others. “Gandhi

[@mama456100]

Really hope NY will treat you better. Glad to see you back on YT!

[@heykelly]

God I wish we could know which KZbinrs are fake and mean in real life! I would unfollow immediately

[@alicen2610]

Probably any that are famous enough. Sure it gets to their head fast especially when they are young.

[@natassiaoliver4483]

If she had named names it would still be subjective so you'd be just as fake as they were to unfollow at the suggestion of someone else!

[@heykelly]

Natassia Oliver Okay then

[@starchannel123]

heykelly Just don't praise anyone and pay attention to narcissistic characteristics. I've noticed some people look at themselves all the time, make faces and fix their hair all the damn time. It's pretty easy to spot people who are full of themselves.

[@feranmiodubanjo734]

onmy computer2020gal David Dobrik and vlog squad is number one

[@KevVaskez]

im sorry to hear you never felt at home. I've been living here for 5 years and I felt at home right away, and I JUST barely now started pursuing the youtube thing lol

[@ebeleomoefe8229]

I literally have bright blue braids and I live in LA, kinda stupid to move here just for youtube. Can’t relate.

[@MissPancakeAndBacon]

I’m a straight married mom that lives in NJ. I love nyc. I love how all the people are different. I bring my kids into the city to museums and the parks and many other things. The beauty of NY is the love for one another. People think I’m nuts when I say it. My kids were dancing in a park to a man playing a trumpet. 2 people with Mohawks and leather and spikes told me how beautiful my kids were and they sat and watched. They said that it was the best thing they saw all day. My son asked him about his clothes and hair and he answered! I don’t have experiences like that anywhere else. I love the east coast. Welcome! You are a beautiful woman and I love listening to you.

[@staceys1870]

When you grow up in LA, it's a completely different experience.

[@Thefrinkingduck]

yesss girl, I love how candid you are, watching your videos is so refreshing! happy to see you taking care of yourself

[@candiceowens1991]

YOOOOO that east coast TRUTH coming out!! ❤️✊🏻🤣

[@coleenharris7554]

I’ve always seen Steph’s videos but have never been compelled to subscribe until now. NY looks good on you.

[@Kirbykfed89]

This is why I love you Steph! You don't hide anything! Lol You're not fake...you speak whats on your mind and how you are feeling. I hope your new home brings you many great, new memories to share with us. ❤❤❤

[@karaann6966]

I get what you mean completely! I've never been to LA but what you said at the end about being able to live in a place and love it without feeling like you belong resonated very strongly with me. I grew up in Yonkers (extremely close to NYC) and I love New York, I've always loved it here and I think the city especially has such an amazing energy and culture and history and I truly do love it, but after living in Vermont for 3 years for college, I realized that there was (and is) a lot missing for me in New York. I never realized how much I didn't feel at home until I left New York and experienced a world outside of this place and I feel like I truly know where home is now and I can't wait to be able to return.

[@karaann6966]

That being said, welcome to New York! It really is an incredible city and I hope this can be a place where you can find true happiness. You deserve that!

[@sportsnthingsshows2786]

Glad to see a new video can't wait to see what you have coming up.

[@0Lu.Lu0]

Steph: I currently live in the Atlanta/Decatur area for just about a year and a half now but I am an LA Native--you are SPOT ON. I will be moving back to Cali at the end of this month to train in dance, but even then I will not be living right in LA--gonna compromise and go back to San Diego or maybe live in Vegas; that's just how much I don't care for LA since like 10 years ago. Ultimately I will build my dream home somewhere in the mountains where I can still have humidity, and that may not even be in The States.

[@saradietschy]

Welcome to NY!!!!

[@serenasearth]

Sara Dietschy OMG SARA WHAT

[@ElloSteph]

Thank you!

[@landswilliams-marsden564]

Haha have if you meet with sara

[@Carriehammer718]

Sara Dietschy i live in NY toooo

[@ChellyM81]

john murphy anyone who can’t hack it in NYC says the same thing👎Welcome to life!

[@saltysassysarahsandwich5928]

It's so great having someone like you to watch on KZbin, it's so refreshing and comforting having someone so real and honest! Please never give up KZbin, you make such a positive impact! 😊❤

[@gk37013]

Aw, you sound so sad, Steph. Sorry LA didn't work out for you. Best of luck in NYC! Hope you post another video soon. 🤗🤗🤗

[@Funtimeslolalol24]

I just found this video, and this is so accurate. I have family on both coasts, but NYC will always be a favorite. I'm from LA and everything you said is so accurate. There are good people here, but even as someone who grew up here, it's still really hard to find genuine people...and don't even get me started on work-life here...

[@rosanieves6554]

😘 always live your best life Stephanie! 😁 look forward to more videos!

[@mercedes2144]

your voice is so relaxing omg i could listen to you talk forever also um i met you in orlando and you’re the sweetest human, i love you❤️

[@Zombitious]

Honestly, I'm not shocked (regarding fake people using others in L.A.). Keep in mind that many people move to L.A. in order to get their "big break." This isn't limited to being a movie/T.V. star or singer, but many try to hit it big on KZbin and other websites. It's one of the longest-sought dreams in this country's history: Achieving celebrity status. Sadly, many don't realize that very few get their big breaks, and they're told that they need to "know people" in order for this to happen. This is probably why that one girl lied about not knowing much about KZbin or social media. She saw a couple of people with a lot of subscribers and probably thought just being around or knowing these KZbinrs would be one step towards her possibly being a big KZbinr or social media star. Her intentions would have been made clear if she walked up and started talking about what a big fan she was of you and the other creators' content. I'm just conjecturing, so don't take what I say as fact. I'm basing this off of what I've been noticing about a lot of people who struggle to find an ounce of fame in Tinsel Town. Many move to L.A. thinking that eventually things will go their way, but they never account for the thousands of others that are doing the same thing and have the same intentions. Once they notice this, they become desperate and will do whatever it takes to achieve whatever kind of fame it is that they're trying to achieve. Sadly, because of this behavior, KZbin is becoming Internet Hollywood. But that's my two cents on L.A. Anyways, good luck in NY!

[@slat13]

Great video! I like your honesty about your experience in LA. I agree with you that when you are in such an environment where you see people talk about their friends in their back, are obsessed with appearances, it is easy to not feel at home. I felt the same but that was in an work environment at a specific location and I decided to leave which I believe was a good decision because now, it is so much better at this new location.

[@ruthlatterell9335]

You seem so much happier!! 😍✨

[@ElloSteph]

I am :)

[@bobdavis9086]

Wow, what a good job. The one thing I noticed on my feed anyway is that you were out of lip sync with the audio. I don’t know if it was just my feed coming in and streaming to me or if it was recorded that way. Either way, keep up the good work and good luck!😏

[@BriLamkin]

This video is good but i was super distracted by you looking anywhere but the camera for 80% of the video.

[@peytonudell9224]

A lot of the things you said about la and feeling like home are why it took me living in Philly for 16 years when I came out for it to finally feel like home and appreciate things differently. Also we both have a gift for being sincerely authentic, warm and welcoming. And making people feel like they know you from the beginning and like they’ve always known you. Which is why I’m one of my gcs when I said u were my fave KZbinr she said you come off as overly scripted and authentic I almost laughed, and said honey I know real when I see it and fake when I see it. And Steph u r one of the few real loving true ppl on KZbin. And one of the most beautiful amazing special and perfect ppl out there and I’ll always love ya

[@0Shells]

A sunny place for shady people. Lol you nailed it

[@emoryrubyg9631]

"Sometimes it's better to go where you thrive and not where the thrive is" This is so true. It took me years to figure this out but I'm glad I did.

[@xoxmarshellexox]

I missed you beautifullness!!

[@serenaruvalcaba6504]

Bro you were obviously hanging in the wrong places, sounds like you’re talking about West Hollywood, Los Feilz, Beverly Hills, and all those shitty places. Should’ve spent your time in Venice, Marina Del Rey, Culver City, and Santa Monica, or Inglewood. I fucking love LA you just found the wrong crowd .

[@Jan-fv1ec]

Serena Ruvalcaba agree af

[@TashiSoCali]

This is such a White/Hollywood experience of LA.

[@twinkiestumor1555]

TashiSoCali was she supposed to have the blk experience? Whats ur point?

[@AceAM264]

Agreed. Different parts of the city are unrecognizable in comparison to each other.

[@Unique_username-kr5cu]

I was kind of thinking that, it’s probably just the group of people she was working with but contrast that with people who are from there or live with a rich cultural network

[@ninja_tony]

@J Ds fuck, you're so rude.

[@Katakagara]

J Ds you nailed it. You’re very succinct in your essay. Thanks for sharing the truth! 🎯

[@marissajohnson4809]

As always, your honesty and authenticity is much appreciated! ❤️

[@GoodTimes258]

Come to Sacramento California

[@headwyvern11]

Being social media famous is like being monopoly rich! Love that!

[@arianacutie25]

We always love you ellosteph

[@erinhwang6389]

Thx for the insight in LA life. Good to hear to you're in a happier place!

[@susanacortez1709]

You're in the wrong career field to not be around fake people. As someone that was born and grew up in LA, not everyone is fake; maybe your social scene was but not everyone. You went to LA for a reason, your career and everyone else will try to one up you. It's how it works almost everywhere if you choose to put yourself out there. I'm also sure you only saw one side of LA because you went there for your career. Please don't generalize a whole city because of the limited experience you had with it.

[@meghanb3865]

Welcome Back, missed your realness.

[@kinzjohnson5538]

LA is a place to tour, not a place to live. In my personal opinion.

[@Jay_Em10]

Haha. Tell that to the people who are born and raised here. Most of us love this city. It depends on your lifestyle and the company you keep.

[@badgalkc411]

I think neither LMFAO

[@Jay_Em10]

@@badgalkc411 are you from LA?

[@badgalkc411]

J M would it matter ??

[@TX.SpaceCowboy]

That's exactly what I thought. I'm from Houston and only been to LA for a week, but imo it just felt less like a city of locals and more like a town a really shady LA devotees.

[@christinatrujillo]

"sometimes its better to go somewhere you thrive, rather than where the thrive is" - woah that hit home

[@LauraAlexzandra1]

LA - money / coffee / money / fake Instagram shoots NYC - FUKIN ART

[@songbirdsilly]

Sometimes we have to just experience things in order to know if they are a true fit. It's good to know that you've gotten to a place where you are comfortable and at home. Everyone needs to feel that way about where they live. I'm excited to see where you go from here. I'll continue to watch and support you. I mean I've been doing it for years; why stop now? lol. Anyway, hope NY treats you well Steph