Emotional Day! Don't Forget About Her...

[@barbaramitchell41]

So true.❤

[@tkind3134]

So true Ms Tonya

[@thriftymom]

I truly understand sometimes I feel like everybody that I’m strong for and I listening ear to forget that sometimes I might need that too, and they’re not intentionally not being there for me but I think a lot of times they think we’re so strong that we don’t need it❤

[@carriejames5740]

I feel the same way I'm always checking on other, but no one checks on me, I know God got me

[@portiathornton6943]

Great message. I just reached out to 3 friends.

[@immoore7208]

Tonya you are so right. I feel that same way. Sometimes I just want to be thought of.

[@queenmathis2705]

I know just what you mean Tonya. My mother always treated me harder than my other 5 siblings I asked her why when I was older and she told me I was the strongest child she had but what it did was caused me to be hard and cold because I had to love myself I still stepped up and took care of my siblings and did for both parents but none of them ever considered I needed a hug or appreciation. Thank goodness I got God or I would have never made. I don't feel I need to ask for consideration or a hug because it wouldn't feel it's sincere.

[@theresasatterwhite3563]

🤗🥰❤yes we all need to be check on and we all need a hug. ❤😊

[@catali033]

AMEN! Sending hugs and comfort to anyone in need. ❤

[@thill5108]

Thank you for this reminder.🙏🏾. We must understand that it’s ok not to be “ok” . We can’t be strong all the time. Even God knows that . That is why he gives us additional comfort in the Holy Spirit.🙏🏾🥰

[@sandrasnorris1788]

After you have poured out, you need to be poured into amen.

[@crystalgrose]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@AC-kl8gi]

I've been needing a hug for 60 years!😒 God bless you too Tonya!🙏

[@dianegraham2546]

I'm that person who needs a hug. This past few days have been tough. BUT God!!! Thank yiu Tonya for sharing your heart.❤

[@ANGELSLVME]

I feel you on this! I’m the one sending Christmas cards every year, blessing my coworkers with birthday wishes and presents! Not that I’m looking for anything , but SOMETIMES “ME NEED LOVE TOO”😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤ME NEED A HUG OR SMILE😂😂😂

[@tboykin13tb]

Yes Maam!! 🤩

[@sheilagardner5199]

I here you Sis and know what you're feeling. I send hugs your way!! ❤

[@karen5912]

So true! Strength does not mean we don't have a heart.

[@sylviajackson8920]

Do know that we see you and you are loved,Tonya ❤️

[@heatherhaddock8193]

Ms Tonya i know how you feel ihave those days i need ahug so desperately but,i am sending you a great big hug ok

[@l.e.bingham6643]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰💖👸🏽💯💫

[@realvesselgem6527]

I would love to see you get a you breed puppy. If you like dogs. It would definitely be a help to you ❤️

[@nicoleholliday9062]

I understand completely, we are so strong for others and that listening ear.... you get lost in the mix. Having others check on you is needed also.....i turn to the Lord he refills my strength.

[@cynthiathomas9255]

I do feel you on that hugs attention, emotionally attention. Everyone is human and everyone needs that strength emotional. I feel you.❤

[@Zsalaco]

I know how you feel Tonya... I AM HER... I am the friend for everybody but, nobody is ever there for me (I only have family and while that's nice ... it would also be nice to have those who call you their friends to check on you as well). Thank you for sharing and reminding others to check on those "strong friends".

[@Ollylolly01]

Hugs to you...❤❤❤❤❤

[@chariwater1]

Yes. So true. I’m always the one to reach out. I had to pull back. I pray a lot and ask Abba to help me I’m going to still pray for those and myself. But it would be nice for someone to reach out without wanting something. I’m strong because I have no choice.

[@ANGELSLVME]

Yess ! I understand you! And HOW ARE YOU?

[@charmainewallace7414]

Sending you love and a hug🌹

[@pamelaali4194]

This is so true. I felt this so much. Everyone is so wrapped up into life, we sometimes forget to check on people just to say hello how are you? We have to do better.

[@vikkivibes5257]

I don't personally know you, Lady'T, and I will probably never have an opportunity to meet you. That said, please know that I adore and admire you as a person. You are indeed one of my favorite KZbinr's. 😊 And you're absolutely right about checking in on those we love, who oftentimes present themselves as the "strong" go-to person for their family and others. I'm that person in my family, and at times, it can be taxing and overwhelming, as everyone just assumes that all is always well and I don't need a welfare check. Continued blessings you AMAZING WOMAN, and may the peace and joy of the Lord remain with you. 🙏🏾💛✨️ Sending you a big cyber hug! 🫂💐

[@telissabenton8330]

I have those same feelings ,that im not worthy of love, how you doing,a phone call, not even a hug nor to be told i love you , i do so much for peoples to be treated like this, but i accept it even tho im crying on the inside screaming for a hug are i love you ,😢 im ok because my GOD is going to make away for me ,and i know he loves me i just wish that my family and friends did without a cause or a benefit to them ,sad but not broken just a hug and i love you would be enough for me!!! 😔 Thank you lady t for the encouraging words to pull through!!! 🙏🏽❤️

[@ACQC]

I can so relate to this, Tonya. Something for all of us to remember. Everyone has a desire to be seen , really seen and acknowledged by another human. Thanks for sharing.

[@beatriceadderly9390]

Thank you for your kind words,I feel the same way.god bless you.

[@timmiboisavoy]

This was really good❤

[@sonya1613]

Tonya you are about to make me cry at work 😢 I agree wholeheartedly. I want a soft spot to lay my head on. I’m always always trying to look after everyone but hardly anyone checks on me. Sometimes but not a lot. I’m praying for you and all the other strong ones 🙏🏾❤️

[@reneeollie6012]

This is the absolute truth!

[@maryeliz8799]

Much love❤

[@Yukia76]

Amen

[@lindaross5080]

Tonya you are so loved not only by our heavenly Father but by you family and friends and all of your subscribers. You are truly an inspiration and a joy to see and hear, sending you the biggest hug a 5'2" great grandma can send ❤❤❤😅

[@Chickibooswaggie1994]

[@victoriahanke5086]

This really hit home today. I’m alone in the world and nobody checks in me. It hurts. I have to accept alot of painful situations, and news, and loneliness. But I do because the Lord gives me another day, one of many. Human contact is so important isn’t it. You are such a sensitive, loving woman. Thank you for your incredible insight. Well done dear. I just love you and your Famiky. 😂♥️♥️♥️♥️🙋‍♀️🙏🕊

[@Checo-R]

Hello Victoria, checking in on you and hoping you have a beautiful day!

[@pooh19818119]

Hi Victoria, just checking in on you. How are you doing?

[@shirleyclark]

🎉 Hey my dear , how are you God bless

[@nanagigi7825]

❤❤

[@marlethadurham984]

Yes Tonya you are right about that we all a hug a call just to know someone in the natural got your best interest at heart i love you Tonya you and Ms Peggy you both so positive good Blessed family

[@lovethroughhim1575]

Thank you Tonya. A much needed message❤️

[@mkayleekyles2428]

❤😊HEY MY BEAUTIFUL SISSY!!!!🥰 HOW ARE YOU DOING???!!! LOVE YOU GIRL!!!!!🥰😍😘

[@realvesselgem6527]

Ms Tonia you made me cry! I totally get it

[@deborahdouglas454]

Strong people don't necessarily want that position of strength. Situations make them that way. They are better at coping,reacting and handling. I do understand you Lady T. What you said is so true. Be blessed.

[@jazbenz9933]

Yes, Amen 🙏 I agree. Blessings upon you. Stay uplifted (Hug) ❤️

[@richardhill3597]

Hay T. I understand exactly what you're going through that happens when we're alone and we're strong but one thing I've learned is that when times like that come about I grab my heating pad and I hang on to the word and I know that the word say God will never leave you nor forsake me so I hang on to that love and comfort hugs and love your way.💞💞💞💞💞💕💕💕💕🌹🌹🌹🌹💓💓🌹🌹🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@miriamduncan6323]

A sincere How are you would nice. And I would like to apologize for not expressing my love and appreciation for you. Thank you, and I love you so much 💕

[@eunicewilliams9275]

We were made to have human interaction and touch it is so very important! It doesn't matter if we are family friends, co-workers, neighbors or even a stranger speaking and ask how a person is and smiling sometimes that can go a long way. It can change a person disposition and outlook. Just know that you are loved and appreciated! Miss Tonya you are so very special😊💐🌹🌼🌺

[@pamelavickerstuttle1892]

Ms. Tonya, I hear you. Thank you for speaking for those of us who carry much on our shoulders. While we do this with great love and Godly purpose and support; as you say, it is not always easy. May the peace of the lord be with you. How are YOU today, my sister?

[@crystalgrose]

💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟

[@adelamartinez4974]

Tonya,You don’t know what you mean to me in my life.We lost our daughter in 2020.She fought cancer hard for 8 years 😢I found you in 2020.I love you so much ❤You have blessed my life.My daughter had just turned 50 years old.You are the same age as she was.I love ❤️ you Tonya so much! God bless you beautiful.Lots of hugs and kisses 😘

[@mrs.m4702]

Love you, lead Peacemaker❤. Sending you a social media hug and hello. I appreciate you❤!

[@jazzbquick389]

This is so true. Those who naturally pour into others, need to be refilled. My mother is that person in my family. She sends birthday cards to everyone and always is willing to provide a word of encouragement. That is why I make it a point to check in on her simply to ask her how she's doing? She never complains about anything because she feels as if she's bothering others with her problems. Sending you a virtual hug, Tonya. 🤗

[@tboykin13tb]

THIS WAS AN ON TIME WORD LADY"T", THANK YAHWEH THAT U POSTED THIS!! ❤

[@ladybugj1164]

I understand you are human and we do need to show some Love. Thanks for your transparency. Love ya!

[@finnafaint2087]

🌼🌼🌼❤❤😊

[@coniallen6250]

Thanks for sharing! I agree with everything you've said. I often feel that way!..I would like to send you a hug 🫂👩‍❤️‍👩

[@paulhunter5524]

This has touched me so much!❤️😢🙌🏽

[@rosemaryvyslouzil6249]

I feel you Tanya I’m sending you a hug because you are beautiful inside and out you are loved God is good and loved you just like you know it how you doing boo🙏🏼😇👍👌💯🌹

[@deanisehunt1937]

I don't know what the weather's going to be like today you I'm sending you I'm wishing you

[@deloresmendoza7674]

You are right ... sometimes we do need to be asked 'How are you doing?" I feel this with my grown kids they know I can be a very strong person but sometimes we just need to be ask how I'm doing. I was so touched with your video😥 maybe because I'm going through medical situation right now. Thank you for sharing. HOW ARE YOU DOING Tonya??? 💞

[@deborahmatthews1581]

Hi Tonya this message hit home for me. Im one of those that needs all that. Im the only child my parents have both went to glory and i miss them so much. It's just me and my son but he has his own life but to me he wouldn't understand it if i told him thats why i know the Lord i heaven is looking down upon me and taking care of me. He's the only one that knows and understands . Thank you for thank i needed it and shedding a tear too 😢😢

[@sunnysmiledaisy3184]

God bless you Tanya! My prayer for you is: May the Lord send you that special cloud like love filled hug every time you need it from that very special someone you may or may not know! Thank you for this humble wellness check🙏! 💛😘💕!

[@stalisatyler8857]

I’ve ALWAYS called you my KZbin grandma. But God bless you!! And I pray whatever you may go through God delivers you my sister. Love you! And you are loved💙💙

[@Msneda0825]

My Sister, I truly thank you for this cause I am that strong one for all, and my response to all is I'm fine, when I'm truly not. You have just told me that it's okay to allow myself not to be okay. God Bless you, here is you How are you doing from one strong woman to another woman and the biggest hug that I can give to you. ❤❤❤

[@myrapickrom4054]

I totally feel this I'm that go to person and I tell my family yes I'm Strong but who's their for me when I need just a simple Hug this hit home bought tears to my eyes....

[@racheledmonson572]

I love you Tonya!! Thank you for pointing that out!! I am single woman of 5 years!! Thank you!!

[@amymcgarvey7237]

Happy Tuesday Lady T I hope you have a very blessed day!!!!

[@Burberry-f1c]

I enjoy watching your content and listening to you talk about God 🙏

[@crystalgrose]

That’s right Ms. Tonya! So very true!

[@paulettewright48]

Hi Women of God, You are so encouraging, & I Understand absolutely what you are saying & Feeling I am going through the same situation & I Pray that the Holy Spirit will send the right people in my life.. As a single woman of God at 54 some time I get lonely, It's a season in my life I am going through, but as I continue to seek God & His Righteous everything will eventually fall into place, sometime we just have to be set apart, To be used for His Glory, Until Girl Our Suddenly Happen.. Love You my Sister in Christ, You are Loved by the Almighty God, He Validates Us.. One day Soon it's Gonna Be Alright, Grace & Peace❤❤❤

[@debramerritt4320]

Hello My Sister In The Lord! Happy Tuesday and how are you? You are always so inspiring! Thank you for being you.👍👍😍😍 STAY POSITIVE BE BLESSED

[@jiazz1959]

I feel you 1000% ! You are me and I am you. 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

[@cassandrasavage1852]

I always say who encourages the Encourager. I feel you on this not only am I encourager but I have great friends that are Encouragers. So thanks for your timely transparency I have some reaching out to do. If I could reach you I would give you a great big hug. ❤❤❤

[@earthadomingue4206]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ These hearts are being sent back to you for a portion of the encouraging words that I always receive from you. Thank you and please feel the love and comfort being sent back to you❣️

[@ceciliamorales7344]

I love seeing you. Sending you a big hug. Amén. 💕🙏🏽

[@tujuanasimmons3889]

Oh Tonya, you don’t know how much your transparency has blessed me this morning and I’m sending a huge virtual hug your way! There are days when we as the strong ones in our family and circle feel the weight of the world on our shoulders. You’re so right in saying that we also need to feel seen, heard and loved. Thank you so much and I pray God continues to meet every need in your life for being a blessing to His people. We love and appreciate you! 🙏🏽❤️

[@GodsGirlKesha]

Tonya... I feel what you are saying more than you know. I am a counselor and I value the few people in my life that check on me so much!! You have been such a blessing in my life and even inspired me to start a channel. Know that you are in my prayers and feel free to reach out to me anytime. I mean that. Sending a great big hug your way.

[@olliecollions4018]

Sending virtual big love and many hugs to you Tonya.

[@free2beme41]

You’re right Tonya, it’s not always easy to always be strong. Sometimes we need someone just to ask if we’re okay . Keep shining! Have a blessed day! ☀️

[@melanieharris5595]

What’s the name and brand of your lip gloss

[@amoore2533]

Dear Tanya! Watching your post really touched my heart! I am and always have been the one people come to when they need encouragement. Being there for others is a part of who I am. There are times though, that I would appreciate a call from someone just because they were thinking of me. Like you, I am fine most of the time, but I am human. We all need "Jesus with skin on" to encourage us on our walk. Thank you so much for sharing your heart with all of us! I appreciate you more than you know! Keeping you in thought and prayer. Love you my Sister!

[@thenurserx]

This is so beautiful Ms. Tonya! My husband was just diagnosed with prostate cancer and I can definitely Say a simple " how are you" can go a long way. While we are being strong for others we sometimes need someone to lean on as well ❤

[@stefaniemeeks5354]

Amen . Your not alone. I am having a different kind of day also, the one that everyone come to. I say also where are the people when I need them. You keep pressing on. God said he will never leave us, nor forsake us.

[@mariaandrus6174]

Hey Gorgeous Lady, I feel you. I'm praying for you. 🙏🏽

[@pleshettejackson6285]

🤗 Tonya, you are loved. ❤

[@CarlettaSims]

I'm retired and I try to keep contact with my few friends but it seems different since social media and tx took over it's not the same to pickup the phone and see how you doing or just to hear your voice or video chat

[@sonyawhitney7590]

🙋🏾‍♀️🤗💕There is a song that say Lord if you're healing don't do it without me(you)stay encouraged⚘️🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️

[@Dsomler]

This was such a good reminder.. I often time feel this way too. Its hard when people always expect you to be strong, have all the answers, be a prayer warrior, an example, the bigger person ect.. I thank God for my hair stylist.. sometimes I sit in her chair so full & vulnerable. But being Self Aware, I understand sometimes she needs an ear, and the weight of my woes may be too much - that day

[@b2luvly40]

Sending hugs 💕💕

[@jaimealvarado2936]

Tonya is love you and I been watching for years I am sending you a hug

[@thejaw-jackers]

Thanks for your support

[@blessed4life4realjosiebcs64]

Amen Ms.Tonya!!

[@CarlettaSims]

You are speaking all truth my sister I'm feel the same I'm on an cancer journey and I do have my family but that hug or call or text sending hugs from ohio

[@carriem4719]

Sending you a virtual hug dearie❤

[@rdeniece30]

🤗🤗🤗❤❤❤❤❤

[@suenarlesky7328]

I feel what you are feeling on this subject. I am realizing that its also hard for me to allow people to give me what I naturally give to others..a dilema for me. You have the most beautiful hands, take care of them, give yourself the gift of a peaceful manicure..love yourself too!

[@DonnaHall8117]

Boy oh boy do I understand. Even when I have a husband and family. I don't always feel appreciated or told how are you really feeling or doing enough ❤ I encourage but need poured into. I GET IT ❤

[@tania0070]

Love Light and Hugs to you Tonya ❤

[@MomsBusiness74]

Sending you Giant large hUgs 🤗 to you west Coast here from San Fernando Valley Tujunga California USA appreciate remember YOU ARE LOVED

[@sandrasnorris1788]

Wisdom is needed