EMPOWERMENT vs OBJECTIFICATION: Rules of Modern Dating & Understanding Women "It's Complicated"

It's Complicated "Rules of Modern Dating & Understanding Women" (EMPOWERMENT vs OBJECTIFICATION)
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[@acesthearts7994]

I like how he intelligently gauges every person and adjusts his questions accordingly

[@medpire113]

There definitely is a skill to asking questions.

[@theoutsource9110]

I swear dats his charm my Guy

[@obtainuniversal]

And quickly.

[@boblester8641]

Dude with the nba shirt make men look bad

[@thenarrator1984]

I'm sure he preps and rehearses options

[@Just.S]

this channel is necessary for the ecosystem

[@SarcasticLee26]

Preach!!

[@SyndicateTheLonelyGun]

Not all hip-hop music objectifies women. I think you should stay away from radios and clubs, if you want to hear more artists who have a genuine respect for themselves and other women. I don't hate all country music; just almost everything on the radio.

[@anthonyfletcher8053]

@@SyndicateTheLonelyGun their are no absolutes... of course not all hip hop objectives women but what is pushed/popular/mainstream **DOES** usually objectify women.. and that’s what’s important to discuss not the outliers.

[@davyjones2032]

@@anthonyfletcher8053 Correct. Hip Hop tends to objectify women and honestly hip hop artists tend to be seen as cool and have little to no issues getting women despite this. So if anything it's shows the hypocrisy in dating. It's saying you want one thing but being drawn to damn near the definition of what would be considered toxic masculinity. Not saying this to knock hip hop rather to knock the hypocrisy of modern feminists.

[@mehdihm9497]

Hell y ah

[@Sp1n1985]

Kevin Samuel's always says rate yourself from one to ten and don't use a seven.

[@uncleiroh4650]

Not a fan of that method tbh since 1-10 already such a small range of numbers and there’s a big difference between a 6 and an 8. Personally prefer Patrices 1-30 scale cuz it allows for more specification without being too complicated (1-10 ugly, 11-20 average, 21-30 bad, and the ones digit shows where they rank in their respective categories).

[@HopsinThaGoat]

@@uncleiroh4650 I think Kevin's rating system is the best because: MOST ppl are actually 4s, 5s, and 6s 8s for men would be a half decent looking guy making around 6 Figures for women it would just be VERY attractive women who are normal ppl with normal income 9 & 10s for Celebrities and ELITES only Its a brutally honest rating system and its simple af

[@StreetSdaGreaT]

Everyone would use 7 and most do

[@Los47]

@@uncleiroh4650 1 - 10 would be Kevin's 1 - 4. Then 11 - 20 would 5 - 7 and 21 - 30 would be 8 - 10

[@yd8104]

And i think it's stupid.

[@billsimons6658]

Quite simply, men put far to much value into the mere possibility of sex.

[@treacherousjslither6920]

Indeed. Our desire for women funds many industries. If our libido took a nose dive, the world would change fundamentally.

[@angelbrother1238]

@@treacherousjslither6920 thank God I’m staying a virgin until marriage .

[@rabbox4513]

@@angelbrother1238 pretty sure the loss of power they get is the reason they try to shame virgins

[@nigelbhebhe2805]

@@angelbrother1238 and would you want your wife to be a virg as well?

[@wayklm9471]

I think it's because it's harder to get if you're not a Chad. Women chose the top 20% guys to have sex with, that means 80% of the rest dont have sex on a consistent basis or nearly never. Most virgins are men nowadays. OnlySimps is here to stay

[@dashanwanpeterkin8228]

Shoutout to the black lady that explained how Feminist set the movement backwards 👏🏾

[@goldtiger9453]

Everytime a black woman with natural hair pops up she's intelligent

[@Fedreal_Bureau_Of_Investigaton]

well now you're pushing it too far

[@CockAndBallTorture.]

@@Fedreal_Bureau_Of_Investigaton bruh 😂

[@BigDipperPro]

nah bro

[@rinsin2202]

so normally I would not agree but Ive met my girl.. 100% W

[@goldtiger9453]

@@Fedreal_Bureau_Of_Investigaton on average I think they are more classier and down to earth

[@obovworldwide385]

That black woman with the micro locs is a Queen her answers are so pure, she lives in reality

[@prague394]

Agreed! I like her too. She is grounded and down to earth

[@ktolwal]

The first 2 are a hard 3 at best

[@MilkT0ast]

I like her, she seems to not only not brai washed, but shes being honest too

[@Mr.Eminem]

She's speaking facts about reality... Never thought a woman will talk how reality is

[@elliottsmith7530]

fax. she droppin absolute science

[@hewears21]

thats me in the glasses

[@Ulsaf]

Smartest person in the video hahaha

[@samuel_enyinna]

This channel is underrated!

[@kronk358]

Leftist algorithm

[@lewismoney3420]

@@kronk358 😂 bro not everything is politics

[@MicMaine]

She said "...look at where we're at. This place was built by men" as if that was a dig on men but yet YOU ARE THERE BY CHOICE AND ENJOYING IT THERE 😑😂😂

[@jeffpesos420]

Ha! The fact she doesn’t realise the irony😅

[@picklepeppers6983]

That's a perfect example of when a person trying to seem/sound smart, but actually seem/sound dumb.

[@aguythatsrandom]

Exactly that didn't make any sense. Vegas was built, but other people came in and made it a gambling and play center that majority of women go and enjoy.

[@ShotByDru_]

Dude right when I read it she said it haha I repeated what you wrote out loud lol

[@BeyondmyselfIsrael]

It’s hilarious how the woman in the grey top always deflected and says it depends when it came to questions about women. But had all the intellect when it came to questions about men.

[@zeethefuture8262]

The white guy in a white shirt is the type who answers every question as 'maybe' or 'neutral'

[@whopper5150209]

He’s getting divorced graped for sure

[@DJ-yp4xt]

Lol he was pissing me off foreal

[@agro9999]

@@DJ-yp4xt ur weak if ur getting mad at a strangers reaction. the interviewer could have removed it from the edit if he didnt find it informative on the upload

[@alphardestur5784]

@@DJ-yp4xt Don't allow the external factors that are beyond your control to bother you brother.

[@firefly44220]

Yeah I hated listening to that fool

[@Girlsforever1982]

I really appreciate your interactions with people. You seem to be able to adjust your questions and allow others time to think and respond and aren't afraid to show them how they might be contradicting themselves without getting anyone upset. Keep it up!

[@anneb889]

Yes, he is a very skilled interviewer.

[@aguythatsrandom]

Well in one video a woman got offended with just like two questions and said the questions were sexist and she didn't want to continue anymore lol

[@Nope991]

@@aguythatsrandom 😂 was it that same one who consented to be on camera.

[@Pacolad]

I wish people had the courage to say they don’t know instead of trying to appear like they have the answers

[@chasehadley5230]

Oh man.. I hear you.

[@bigbraz]

The interviewer does an amazing job of lining up his questions.

[@cornerstonesolomon6000]

Thought i was the only one who noticed!

[@jorgelandell5179]

The best love poems are written by men and songs and movies

[@manumaster1990]

exactly.

[@1StepForwardToday]

11:07 "It's a woman/hormone thing that men can't understand". The typical female answer which irrationally, and illegitimately justifies their poor behavior, and evades taking accountability for their actions.

[@paccawacca4069]

They are so hatable bro.

[@martenw757]

She Can control her monthly hormones at work because of the consequences ... which do not apply at home ... : /

[@skeetmarinerah3566]

Thank you

[@TRINITY-ks6nw]

Amen

[@admtech69]

The one thing I never hear the women say is what THEY bring to the table. They never look in the mirror and realistically assess themselves. Most of the men are very cautious and say uh, it's all up to her. Hence we have the modern stalemate

[@Gennosuke1983]

When women are asked what they bring to the table, a lot of them answer "I am the table". What they mean by that is that without them there is nothing, no foundation, no table to put things on, things that the man should bring to the table obviously. These women make it sound like that's a huge contribution to the relationship, but basically what they bring to the table is just companionship and sex. And because men want that, they will build everything around it and things start rolling. It's been like this since cavemen times, that's how civilization was built, men trying to better themselves and impress women. The funny part is women get the same satisfaction from sex as men do, actually the female orgasm is more powerful and they can have multiple. Obviously I'm considering here a healthy sexual relationship where the woman doesn't have to fake it. So, they get more pleasure from sex and if the one thing they bring to the table is actually a reward for them, then...yeah, doesn't make sense

[@Londonlink]

I missed that part did he ask??

@@Gennosuke1983 The companionship is generally a - with these braindead ones that don't ever even try to understand a man's positions.

[@Fedreal_Bureau_Of_Investigaton]

@@Londonlink not here

[@LomiKo]

they say "i am the table" or "I'm the prize" but we all know the truth - I've never seen a worthy prize that has been used and dumped by a whole neighbourhood

[@jaycobmelo1904]

Dude needs to write a book on just questions then the answers from people then his questions again.

[@agro9999]

why? u would buy a book of quotes that u get for free on youtube? u must be the guy who buys snake oil

[@Bunny-pr8gw]

I expect men to be providers. That means I have to accept being objectified by men. To me it isn't unnatural, it's just biology. Being objectified isn't insulting or derogatory necessarily, it's natural, even women objectify each other, just like men compare each other's status.

[@Sp1n1985]

You are not common

[@treacherousjslither6920]

Wow look at you

[@FeralLogic]

You're a gem. Stay intelligent.

[@Quakeinc14]

Well look at here. A female that thinks logically. God does exist 🤣

[@Bunny-pr8gw]

@@Quakeinc14 indeed

[@mrsaunders9989]

That black woman is my dream

[@treacherousjslither6920]

Ditto

[@lawliet3855]

We need to tag this on Aba and Preach, F&F, and Kevin Samuels. This channel needs to blow up.

[@leylish8814]

I totally agree with the black woman on feminism going backwards

[@kmz4948]

All your questions are things I want to know but never thought long enough about to form into questions

[@YoungSantasGroupie]

There are soooo many barriers today to having a good relationship with the opposite sex. From the 1950s up until the 1980s, it was much easier for the man and woman to make enough money to buy a house and have kids. Most people didn't have university degrees, let alone high school diplomas. And now we see how family courts drive a wedge between the genders and are slanted totally against men. We have this pandemic and all of the economic uncertainty, because we all know the economic effects are going to hit hard and last for years. We're seeing climate change accelerate, water crises and mass migration will be our reality soon. Not only that, but western society is eating itself from the inside out with the increasing division between political sides, genders and classed. Increased narcissism, self-obsession, but also self-loathing and increasing alienation and loneliness, which are typical of a society in decline. And people wonder why less people are getting married? Why people are having less kids? I'll tell you another reason why men specifically are hesitant to fight the good fight and try to build a family and raise kids, work for a better future: female entitlement, delusion and hatred towards men. It shouldn't surprise anyone that men are questioning whether it is worth it to get married and have kids when there is so little respect or compassion for men.

[@Wolley-jx6uv]

This is a well thought comment!

[@roberthgordonjr5438]

I believe society is seriously overestimating the tax breaks we married folk get

[@RevGary]

Black lady at the end is 100 percent correct kudos to her a lady of wisdom and noble character. That elevates her by 3 pts imo

[@joshkarriker1057]

Wow the black chick is spot on. She said that we were not taught to be critical thinkers. I agree with her but I believe that it is possible for that trait to come naturally to some and those people suffer the most wondering why no one else can see through the bullshit of our society.

[@flacornmallrat]

Yes, the hardest lesson for a critical thinker to learn is how to remain tactful in such an unreasonable and irrational world.

[@EddieOrlando]

This is one of the best channels. Keep it going!

[@MackJoseph]

I honestly believe the women at 8:40 should have had longer time I enjoyed listening her

[@uncleiroh4650]

Completely agree

[@treacherousjslither6920]

Yeah she was pretty sharp

[@Jayo_the_Giant]

she needs her own episode

[@Mr.Eminem]

Agreed

[@sECONDhANDpRAM]

“You don’t wanna hear my answer “ killed me

[@nikhileshnikereddy]

Man, your videos are very good. Good work. Great questions.

[@Psyniigianni]

I really wish he would ask me these questions. Most of the time they are just goofy and really haven’t thought out their answers to give a decent response. Great channel and really good questions.

[@loucypherdamorningstar]

You can always give your answers here in the comment section. I’m sure people would join in on the discussion One of his questions was, can you think of one double standard in a relationship that exclusively favors women? A woman claimed that one such double standard was that men sleep around and are revered while if a woman did the same thing she would be denigrated as a s|u+ What would be your response to that assessment? As well as your answer to the initial question

[@Londonlink]

They probably crunched for time most people arent asked or thinking about these questions on a regular day so most are probably caught off guard

[@BEASTNYC]

why women make more money within P industry, fashion, beauty etc.... because a lot of women physically like and support other women, and a lot of men praise the P.... meaning, they can ask the price they want.... meaning many men are so thirsty, that they don't care even about other men in trouble... or many men even could hurt other men for no reason, just to get the P..... in theory men got all the power, in real life many men cannot control their lust, thus the women control them and the world.... weak men will give their power and will be controlled by the P, and many weak men love to be controlled and be submissive, because in these cases they don't have to take responsibility, be in charge, solve issues......

[@treacherousjslither6920]

Have you read: "The Myth Of Male Power"?

[@loucypherdamorningstar]

They surely don’t support other women in the sports industry. Or any field that other women may get more male attention than them.

[@quayshawndameron1349]

Shes hella wrong most female love songs are actually written by men.

[@manumaster1990]

exactly.

[@TRINITY-ks6nw]

Absolutely

[@dotmanmide]

Just shows a lot of people are lost, nothing like unconditional love? All love is conditional, only people who are capable of loving you unconditionally are your parents.

[@Mumbles_]

Preach

[@TRINITY-ks6nw]

Amen

[@country383]

I actually appreciate this channel , Very insightful , Informative and Raw .

[@jdizcustoms2617]

The lady with the locs has all my respect and co-sign that’s not needed. Just glad it was said.

[@alfredocornelio4329]

The mangina with the backwards cap. Men, booo. Women, yaaas.

[@Sp1n1985]

He's married in a trad marriage and answered no questions directly

[@EdivaldoSilver]

He blames everything and everyone but woman, man like him are the reason women don't accept accountability for their actions

[@HyperspaceGalaxy]

Not a bad thing to be in agreement with women

[@Reklamaaveragekd]

He was prolly scared of talking his mind because his wife might see it

[@TheSessionCA]

this is the best mens channel on the internet. Love you bro

[@leeroyhustle]

Him:" we were friends before we were lovers" Translation: she went out and rode the cc while I waited for all the chads to finish her

[@mee07521]

Happy spouse, happy house. I love that!

[@Livithen86]

Here’s the cliff notes version between men and women MEN=on average not complicated and doesn’t demand much from life or money to be happy WOMEN=on average very complicated and demands much from life and money to be happy

[@sonmohikan5964]

İsnt that the truth.When ı have 2 good friends and some friends that ı talk to , a home that ı can live , an avarage job , playing games , doing bodybuilding and some martial arts , ı am happy as fuck and life cant get better for me honestly.I can make myself happy at the first place.And ı know for a fact that most of the men feels same like me. But for women on the other hand... They cant get enough and they are not satisfied but yet they want someone else to make it for them.

[@jukeboxjey5035]

Mohikan you better start to improve yourself in one of your mentioned categories otherwise you will fall back like many men nowadays. Economy is growing and so you have too in order to maintain the profit for your masters

[@draczen]

@@sonmohikan5964 yeah well women cant Make themselves Happy. They need men.

[@The1201master]

The world needs this channel

[@Chizzoide]

De los mejores videos hasta ahora de los que vi. Abrazo.

[@surferxblood]

Women want Romance. Men give and make Romance

[@robertjones2401]

This man is doing gods work!❤️💪🏾

[@alvinabbam1333]

Great questions!

[@talkinsmackspittinfacts]

My new favourite channel

[@user-vc2vs3qz8v]

The best interviewer on planet earth 🏆

[@miguelgonzalez6213]

First gal, that was the most honest female response I've yet to hear on this channel, in regards to the 1 to 10 looks scale.

[@miguelgonzalez6213]

She was way off the mark on the "Why do men go to other countries to marry women?" question. It isn't about power. It's totally about being able to have peace in the home. No one wants to marry or be in a long term relationship with someone that feels the need to argue about EVERYTHING. Latinas, Asians, and some European women that come from traditional backgrounds just aren't going to be argumentative in the way most Western women, especially those raised in the US, will do.

[@Dispondent]

These are the most stable and reasonable persons I’ve seen on this channel so far.

[@cldtcts]

The most entertaining thing about this channel is definitely the mental gymnastics.

[@wombraider09]

Bro inn the jersey is keeping it 💯

[@Larryt55]

IM GLAD IVE FOUND THIS CHANNEL

[@framesdeanthesunsetters3372]

She said jewel I would’ve been like “you heard about MOTOWN”

[@fchungry]

but you have to give to her. she had more brains then her friend on her right. she was more attractive then she thinks she is. she got it going on.

[@ApesAmongUs]

I'd like to know which Jewel songs she's thinking of.

[@MikeJones-mi3di]

Exactly

[@Coolguy10o0]

I love this channel

[@gigiyubo8541]

"you ain't gonna love my answer" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jakejake909]

I’m curious to see this channels subscriber analytics to see how many women subscribe to it vs men. Underrated channel for sure though deserves more subs and likes!

[@angels98723]

What gets me is that men no matter the age, race etc give consistent answers

[@lizzy5437]

That’s because men have it very easy. Your world is not even as remotely as complex as ours. We carry the burden of complicated issues, where men do not.

[@angels98723]

@@lizzy5437 wow

[@jukeboxjey5035]

Lizzy it depends.. is it possible that you're a bit obese? Because only girls with a bit of weight nowadays think that men are priviliged. But i have good news for you this whole wimen empowerment thing is good for you too. I see many couples she over 100kg. And he looks like brad pitt..

[@lizzy5437]

@@jukeboxjey5035 no I am not at all obese. Opposite I would say

[@jukeboxjey5035]

@@lizzy5437 oh..well maybe you're still a young woman not yet aware about the power of your pus.. learn how to use her wisely and you will see that you wimen rule the world secretly.😉

[@theimmortal4718]

4:00 she just proved his point! He's talking about love songs and she's talking about hate songs.

[@kvykimo]

looks like the algo is finally doing its magic with this channel, congrats on the huge jump in views and subs in the last week. question: was alexander grace an inspiration to this channel?

[@treacherousjslither6920]

Probably lol

[@dylanjones678]

When 8 herd that first chick's laugh then you replayed it, we herd the vibes. Gave the chills.

[@Knight766]

Awesome to see how many black American guys are already Red Pilled af. Patrice's legacy maybe?

[@krisangel7080]

I think because divorce hit the black communities first. Black men know the dangers of marriage.

[@Mr.Eminem]

Black community are totally based... Both men and women

[@jamesaitchison9478]

Bro, these questions should be used in every School, College and University.

[@David-ej1ps]

0:12 , "Seven on a good day"... me: LMFAO

[@manumaster1990]

ahahahah more like 4 on a good day!

[@Lightflames85]

Damm that good content.

[@MilkT0ast]

The most romantic thing a man can do for a woman: listen The most romantic thing a woman can do for a man: shut up

[@kemshreddy]

Phenomenal video

[@docingraham]

2:25 Nice 👏👏👏

[@ghostinplainsight4803]

It doesn't matter who you are talking too, men or women, both are often completely programmed and when they hit a paradoxical realisation they jump back into their programmed self. I know you are truly awake and aware. I will try to be more like you. Thanks for what you do!

[@benjamincaddle2018]

Good questions

[@rakandinho1051]

ITs crazy how people think, great content

[@hopsing72]

Dude with the backwards hat was a professional answer dodger. His responses were only to make the woman on top. And if he couldn’t he’d reply “tough question”. It’s ok dude. We know the answers to all these questions. You Don’t need to be dense.

[@Los47]

Why are so many people lying like this? The only genuine thoughts were from the lady at 8:38

[@Mr.Rosesright_now]

first girl had me rolling

[@charleswalker2597]

8:39 is the best person I’ve heard yet

[@seipher_8334]

Man I hope I get to meet this guy and answer these questions someday!!

[@sharpfamily4938]

You should do another edition where you interview elderly people, married people etc

[@chronometa]

Hey now I'm offended by the music question 🤣. I listen to some of the most extreme metal around and that music is often more tame then songs that are popular.

[@hewears21]

yo i like this one

[@OnCloud7188]

The black lady with the locs spit straight up facts!

[@lottolearn6658]

I hate it when they dont answer the questions directly. They always stuck this up with "It depends on who's the person is" when the question is "why". They cant answer because the reality doesn't fit with their narrative. 🤦

[@josesanta414]

It's always "I feel like" but never "how do you feel like"

[@ChrisFrazierthecoach]

I appreciate all of the people bold enough to get on film with that being said the only one I would rather heard more was the black woman. The black dude 😑 really bro? Just really? All he thinks about is sex. 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@David-ej1ps]

well at least he is being honest... and to be fair his train of thought is that of most guys

[@hyronharrison8127]

Black woman kiiiiiiiiiled it!!!

[@Mr.Eminem]

We all think about sex.. That's men primal instinct... He's just honest about it

[@bandaribharathmohan9612]

Please subscribe to his channel, it's pure gold. I'm just a random dude who happened to find this channel. I grew so much as a person, the questions were quite brainstorming. I couldn't appreciate it more. Thanks for the quality content.

[@jabbathehutt489]

Dude with bandana lives in another world

[@manumaster1990]

nice video

[@checho10]

That white dude with the purse and handkerchief is SIMPing hard lmaooo

[@adrianalexandrov7730]

That's some real delusions on men controlling desires, women - emotions. I know no rapists personally, only a few thieves, I know lot of women acting psycho from time to time.

[@manumaster1990]

100%

[@sonofthepatient1714]

8:37-10:54 Aite ma I see you👀💯

[@alonzomiles7345]

This channel is the GOAT....u need a million subs asap

[@Los47]

soon

[@earnestrobinson7453]

The lady who spoke on objectification was very enlightened.

[@user-xu9nw4fv9c]

Omg I know that girl on the left with the funny laugh 😅 I'm 99% sure that's Olivia! We grew up in the same neighborhood in Vancouver 😱 what a small world we live in

[@markvenicio8386]

You 2 hanging out together is a 10 lol 🤣😂

[@yourwifewasinmedms5137]

Being into romance doesn’t mean you are romantic. Men are more romantic because they do and it is culturally expected for them to do things that are romantic. Women simply receive romance they don’t implement romance. Think of all the romantic scenes and things you’ve seen in your life I’m sure all of them involve the man doing something and the women be “subject” if it

[@phillipwilliams8805]

I’ve seen in a interview were a women would have a one night stand but to have a man that she has interest in he has to work for it. So for a women to say be himself she’s going to use him as a doormat.

[@DemonBoy247365]

Guy in the black cap hit the nail on the head. Y’all gotta get in relationships with someone who’s a friend first

[@Angryegaroq]

Lol the laughs.