[Eng Sub] Akira Shares The Reason Why He Is Open About His Sexuality [Nijisanji clip]

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[@motsuzs]

the last part is quite sad. honestly there is still a worldwide stigma regarding bisexual people being cheaters. but despite japan's close mindedness about queer people, i really admire how open he is since his debut & i wish him all the best.

[@qlowquest]

yeah, it seems like what he’s feeling about himself might be internalized homophobia. tho i really admire how open he is about himself and these feelings he has towards himself, it shows others in the world that they are not alone

[@allergic_to_zucchini_noodles]

Even beyond the biphobia, in Japan there is honestly a complete lack of comprehension of the concept at all. There's no word for it, and so it never makes it into conversations.

[@motsuzs]

@@allergic_to_zucchini_noodles Unfortunately so. Japan is quite behind when it comes to LGBTQIA+ in general. Though there has been bits and pieces of progress throughout the recent years.

[@mutya_]

​@@allergic_to_zucchini_noodlesYeah just like what happened to this idol Nana Okada. She pretty much got called a liar when she started dating a guy. Ever since the beginning she said she doesn't care about gender and yet people interpret it as her saying she's lesbian.

[@SlavoidUkr]

@@allergic_to_zucchini_noodles it’s not just Japan, a lot of places. Like thing he’s talking about, about hopping between wanting men and then women with random intervals. It happens to me plenty too and every time I’m questioning if I’m bi? Maybe I’m straight? Or maybe I’m gay? And only like I think month ago I learned that this legitimately normal thing for bi people. It’s fluid like that.

[@allergic_to_zucchini_noodles]

That bit at the end where he's like "Y'know, if I really need to, I can just do it myself" - sexual frustration is NOT a reason to cheat or to ignore consent! I'm glad someone acknowledged this publicly and is in a position where it won't just be brushed off as the copium of a lonely virgin.

[@lecheflam1311]

as someone who is bisexual, i really appreciate shikinagi being really open about his bisexuality and being firm about the fact that he likes men AND women. we talk a lot abt lgbt discrimination and often times biphobia gets pushed to the side bc many ppl think its either an advantage to "pass as straight" or "say youre lgbt w/o actually being lgbt". ive seen a lot of biphobia around as of late and to see him be so open and adamant makes me really thankful and happy TT i wish i understood jpn to watch more of his streams bc i love his content and his way around humor/serious commentary :') thank you for translating this clip!!

[@silvantea]

Well worded and I agree! (Apologies for a long response) Being bi isn't an advantage(to pass as straight) because there shouldn't be any advantages at all in giving and receiving love. When I was trying to explore my sexuality it took me a long time to figure it out and I felt shunned from the LGBT community for being bi. I was told from all sides to pick one. But if I dated the opposite sex I was a "traitor" but if I chose to date a woman I was a lesbian. Not to mention the mental gymnastics to call people cheaters for being bi, told I'm greedy, etc. The list goes on and every LGBT label has unique struggles. But the day allies and LGBT don't support one another is the day ignorance wins. I'm sad to say this is one of the first times I've ever seen such a bi-positive comment thread and it really touches my heart.

[@srehh5529]

Does Japan have that kind of biphobia issue among LGBT circles though? I feel like the “Bi people are straighties and not true LGBT” is more of a sentiment from Western circles.

[@theophora]

@@srehh5529 I think its everywhere. Even a lot of manga and lgbt doujins are openly biphobic with scenes about "picking a side" or making bi ppl out to be inherently hyper sexual or cheaters. Hell, bi men cheating is a huge trope in BL manga. Ofc im not saying that is representative of all of japan, but media has a big influence on ppl and stereotypical gender roles and repression of minority identities is still a huge problem in japan sadly.

[@mozzapple]

The best response I've seen in regards to biphobia is this: a werewolf. Regardless of if they're in human form or wolf form, they're still a werewolf. They can change forms, but they'll always be a werewolf. Even if they stay in one form for a long time, they're still a werewolf. Regardless of if bisexual people date those similar to their gender or opposite of their gender, they're still bisexual. A bisexual man dating a man doesn't make him gay, he's still bisexual. Dating a woman doesn't make him straight, he's still bisexual.

[@hyperinsomniaparacondrioid]

Honestly, seeing someone of the JP side of the vtubing scene be so open about being LGBT (and bisexual in partifular), especially a male vtuber is so refreshing. As a fellow Asian bisexual, I really feel seen.

[@anapple6912]

Dude what male vtubers are mostly gay so what are you on

[@ceci_yv]

@@anapple6912 i don't really watch lots of vtubers, which other male vtubers are gay or queer???

[@vilha1723]

@@ceci_yv from what i remember, from niji en alone, there's uki who is openly gay, vox is bissexual, fulgur is a fudanshi iirc (if not queer), and there's others as well

[@SAKA-xf3wu]

@@ceci_yv astel leda from holostars is bisexual as well

[@lubergitu]

Thank you for translating. I always like how confident and open he is toward himself. Also he is good at expressing it in his own way too

[@Mara_1337]

That's true, his way of explaining his feelings were often quite helpful to me to express similar things. I really appreciate his speeches

[@mamamiainsomnia]

Man it do be like that sometimes. Sexuality is such a complex and confusing aspect in life to navigate. So I felt it when he said "what the hell am i?"

[@KuroNoUsagi]

He is so real for this omg!!! Yes yes he IS voicing the bi experience. There will be times where I'll be more into women, times where I'll be more into men, and times where I'll be more into enby people. I still like the rest, is just a momentary (or even permanent for some) preference. It doesnt take away from my bisexuality and if I start dating someone I won't cheat on them or anything just because "I was more into the other thing sexually", if I date someone I am into my partner and that's that 😌👏

[@ragingchaosgod]

Moments like this are why he's my NijiJP oshii. Feels good to see a fellow fudanshi in the wild. Rather... a man who is confident in what he is and what he likes in a society like Japan's.

[@Eunicee_]

Oh my gosh, he explained it so well. I haven't seen the music video but the song is insanely good. I'm happy he's so open about it. The struggle of figuring yourself out even as an adult is quite a long and slow journey. Thanks for clipping!

[@zari-06]

watching this clip made me feel lots of overwhelming emotions. as a bi woman, whenever i try to date (mostly straight) men, i always end up feeling insecure of my sexuality, thinking "if i express my love for women as well in front of him he'll probably be disgusted. what do i do...." and end up breaking up with them in just a few weeks because of my paranoia. which led me to think that it's probably better to date other bi people like myself. it's thanks to akira that i can finally realize that i'm not alone with my experiences.

[@aichuuwon]

i only keep up with a few niji jp livers so this is absolutely new to me, and I love seeing other bisexuals talking so openly about their sexuality since I still kind of struggle with internalized homophobia because I was raised in a very religious country. It's just very refreshing to see someone be this comfortable enough to share their feelings and thoughts.

[@owitch]

Thank you for translating this. Akira is such a swet guy, I hope he will find someone who really can love and appreciate him as who he is entirely.. Makes me curious, will try to find that MV later.

[@Numphie]

Two hours??! 😮 also i respect him a lot for being open about sexuality i think its one of the reasons why hes my voltaction oshi

[@justagoatfella]

As someone who is pan and is currently dating someone who is bi, to see the openness of Akira is very sweet. Me and my partner are very affectionate with each other, even before dating, but when we were younger we would feel the same way of "not being allowed to be attracted to someone of the same and different sex/gender identity." In fact, I could see my younger self with a lot of what he was saying. It may be a small thing that he is doing, but for both the vtuber and lgbtqia+ community it can mean the world to someone

[@MattsunSanAddict]

I love how he is so open like this. He can express his feelings so well, and I can sense his sincerity. I’m glad that he is my oshi for NijiJP. 🥰

[@TeaTimeLethe]

I love akira san. How open he is about everything but respectful when addressing it/explaining it

[@yushi9376]

He is so well spoken about his feeling and thoughts. I have frustration about my own sexuality for a very long time and this actually gives me some insight about what it is for me. I kinda think I’m getting closer to the answer now.

[@zzzzaaann3120]

He is gender. But jokes aside I'm fascinated that he's quite open about his sexual-related experience and thoughts, and sometimes in a neutral tone (which I mean respectful and non judgemental). I really respect that about him.

[@dao.41]

Thank you for translating!

[@kamemelia_]

The part about there being a man's day and woman's day for your taste is so relatable lmao

[@semideadnat]

Honestly while I'm not bisexual (I'm pan) I can really relate to his struggles with his sexuality in his beginning. I for one do not care about the gender of the person that I love, if I love them then that's all I need to know. But sometimes it just feels like I don't actually know what the hell is wrong with me. I don't like being around men as I am with women yet I'm still attracted to men. But at the end of the day I'm still attracted to women as well as people outside of those two, but just like how Akira has preferences with both men and women, It's the same for me. It just took awhile for me to understand that and feeling like "I'm just lying to myself about my own sexuality".

[@cookiesandpudding8485]

Pan is under the bi umbrella as a microlabel anyway, of course its relatable lololol

[@meiaurora4251]

as someone who is also bisexual, i felt SO SEEN with what he said. well said, akira-san 🫡

[@chantastlc]

This is the first time ive ever seen this man in my life but honestly huge w

[@felix-xd4mx]

it shows how important representation is.... not sure if that is a good representation about bisexuals since the character is a cheater and ended up tragically, but u gotta start somewhere. and im so glad he's so open about his bisexuality

[@PrometheusV2]

green flag tbh

[@FloridaTesfay]

It's really cool how open he is about it and very respectable >3333

[@hyperinsomniaparacondrioid]

Oh, man... He's just like me... HE'S JUST LIKE ME FOR REAL

[@re-lp6jt]

he’s fantastic

[@chocollaCheese]

I would never see someone explaining something about sexuality as relatable as this one from akira

[@Yue_mariin00]

Honestly I feel like his trouble really stems from the Japanese mindset of black and white, "you're either one or the other", and so on. I've never seen a bisexual feel this guilty for having preferences for some videos one day and for some in other days. I'm bisexual myself, got plenty of bisexual friends too but, he is the only one who I've seen have this kind of crisis. As in so specific even down to these kind of small matters. Idk most people don't think that hard about it? And honestly that whole thought of 私って何だっけ is something I see SO present on Japanese people born and raised (and currently living) in Japan? I don't know if I'm even explaining myself properly but I feel like his confusion comes a lotttt from that specific society's culture

[@silvantea]

Thank you for translating this clip. It really resonated with me. I feel like this described how some bi people feel in a way I've never heard before at all. The "3 days women 3 days men" thing is so real 😂. It's sad that a discussion about bisexuality comes with a disclaimer of not being a cheater. The things I've heard in America even in 2023 about bisexual people is quite sad. I've known many people who refuse to date bisexual people because of being afraid of them cheating or hyper paranoid of analyzing their partners friendships with both sexes. "Just pick one!!" Thrown at me and others even from the mouths of allies and lesbian/gays who were particularly ignorant or hateful. Especially as I pass as straight, people say things never realizing I'm bi. Of course there is much love and acceptance to be found and slowly it's becoming normal as the years go by. But the misconceptions and fears people have toward other sexualities than their own still exist today in many cultures. It's another reason the idea of when dating somebody and telling them not to talk to/limit interaction with the opposite sex friends never made sense to me. Because I'm bi who does that leave? 😂 nonbinary friends only??? I wish people would understand that a stable relationship is built on trust and not fear. I appreciate when people feel comfortable openly sharing this aspect of themselves so those around us and the next generation never have to suffer in the closet.

[@likewize272]

OMG Thank you for translating it. I also have this struggle as an Asain (suspected)bisexual just the other way around. I've never have any chance to test or only few dating experiences though. But it's more tolerable to know that there's someone out there experiencing the same pain. I respect Akirasan for being open about it

[@helloidontknow4543]

idk who he is but even this theme colour palette is the frickin bi flag colours ahaha

[@LaurenWong64]

I feel so seen. I've never heard anyone else talk about being bisexual and having super different feelings towards men and women ❤

[@derpedfox]

If there's one thing I love about Nijisanji is that they're such a safe space for LGBT

[@lunarl1ly]

I love that the bi guy got the buy flag colour scheme

[@mooshumeh1609]

I completely understand what he's feeling as a bisexual... there are times that I feel disgusted with myself for watching stuff that aren't exactly appropriate after a while I'm just like "wtf am I doing with myself this is so wrong -" in these situations I just take a break from everything 😭

[@DUSKvsDAWN]

It's honestly sad that he has to explain like "ofcourse I'm not going to cheat". There are plenty of pan or bi people who can be in a commited relationship with just one person. I could never be one of those, I'm simply too much of a slut, but I want the stigma to disappear for those people regardless. Also the questions they get like "don't you crave a man/woman at some point when you're dating a woman/man?". Stop thinking of queer people as cheaters and poly by default, cause plenty are not. I love how open he is about those feelings. I respect that. Technically I'm pan/poly/ficto myseld, but at this point I would use so many labels I don't really specifically label them, unless someone asks out of interest or when I want to explain how I think about romance and sex. Pan people get a bad look, poly gets an even worse look and plenty of lgbt people refuse to believe that fictosexual is even a thing to begin with, even though that is something that has been around for hundreds of years too, people are just too afraid to admit it, I guess.

[@Mara_1337]

Yeah, well said. Just bc some ppl are attracted to more than one gender, many ppl assume they can't be with only one person. But the people we are attracted to are all individual people at the end of the day, no matter their gender. So a straight person who thinks more than one human is attractive, also doesn't automatically want to be with more than one person at a time. It really is kinda a stigma. And I also resonate with the "many labels" thing. Imo, it is interesting to figure yourself out and find out others feel similar on some levels and have given these things names. So one might think "ah the closest label that applies to me is this and that". But everyone's experience is so personal that it will never be 100% accurate to someone else's description and hence there are so many sub labels. It is interesting to figure out, but not practical or even necessary to use, unless you wanna really get into the nitty gritty of discussing it with someone...

[@1ham6s_]

the third sentence is a little TMI?

[@DUSKvsDAWN]

@@1ham6s_ sorry for being honest about me not being monogamous *shrug* alteast i don't pretend to be someone who will be in a committed relationship with one person for years, and then end up cheating on my partner, like many assholes do ;)

[@Charadediana]

Can you explain to me what is fictosexual? Never heard this term before, so I'm kinda confused.

[@DUSKvsDAWN]

@@Charadediana it falls under the ace umbrella. It means to be attracted to fictional characters :)

[@trist__]

YES YES YES. I NEED TO WATCH HIM NOW OH MY GOD. i love seeing out and happy and creative talents! this is so cool to see and im happy to see another bi niji talent! will totally look into his content, i need to get into the diff niji branches anyways :D

[@avourrito1819]

simplifying sexuality: imagine liking coca cola and pepsi. some days you'll want pepsi more than coke and some days you'll like the other and this liking period happens a bunch. You don't drink both at the same time, that's polyamory Bisexuality is just attraction with a wider range of options, pansexual has a much wider range of options. That said, it doesn't mean that if you into a relationship that attraction will ruin your current relationship. Some straight couple still cheat despite only being attracted to one gender.

[@nemuipanda]

wait i feel so seen lmao. all this is peak bi experience. sometimes i get worried i'm actually straight and then i suddenly have "women's days" and is horny and obsessed with women and wonder if maybe i'm actually a lesbian in denial, but i'm just bi (with probably internalized biphobia despite my best efforts at combatting it because biphobia is so everywhere it's hard not to absorb some lol)

[@sil_Ookami]

I’m so happy this is becoming something that can be talked about more openly in Japan!

[@barakito]

oh my god im so gkhshshsh happy when finally someone mentioned the hole, and EVEN at the bisexual aspect of it, not like just the gay or the angst. genuinely surprised and very much happy, i dont watch nijijp much cause i dont like watching and not understanding anything. also hes so right for that, sometimes i think being bisexual is just that, hey its about being able to like both, not being a cheater or anything like that... being a cheater or not is a matter of irresponsibility and disrespect, not one of sexuality

[@sc_endlessdreams]

Thank you for translating this. I really admire him.

[@evapunk522]

Damn...good for him for being so open about who he is. It's nice to see more bisexual representation out there!!

[@zee3e]

wow respect thank you for the clip!!

[@yerii_z]

everything he described is so familiar to me to the point I am questioning my sexuality once again... thank you for the translation tho!!

[@SlavoidUkr]

I’m a bit late, but god, it’s so nice to randomly find people publicly talking about this flip flopping between wanting men and women, questioning what is even happening with you. Makes me feel seen.

[@aun7106]

Ooh thank you Akira. This clip is very educational, I get some insight as someone who's questioning 😔 I can understand what he meant

[@Chiisequack]

The hole is a masterpiece. 100% agree.

[@eeeeeeee9084]

Thanks for clipping and subbing this, I got recommended this and it's interesting to see a perspective on this sort of thing from a japanese vtuber

[@cookie1271]

There’s another jp vtuber named gundou who’s also open. She graduated but you can find clips of her taking about her sexuality

[@user-pk8om8kb6v]

Thank you for translating

[@Jazmin-yv8cr]

Thank you for the translate

[@batfacedliar8922]

i think this guy is my oshi now

[@henshin382]

Thx for sharing this video. I feel similar with him but kinda different

[@leafapple518]

i used to think it i was bi, then i saw a lesbian porn and went NOPE. then i realized i was always only looking at the guys in the straight porns to begin with (im gay cis male)

[@qlowquest]

i feel that even tho im lesbian. i realized that when i was younger alot of afab ppl i was friends with liked men, and i remember trying to experiment with men (but i noticed i’d get uninterested very easily, and never really saw them in a “romantic” way). later on with these afab ppl i realized they don’t really view women the same way i do, which really confused me. like when i talk about my favorite girl characters from games (which are the majority of my fave characters) i notice they wouldn’t be as interested in them as much as male characters, where they would be head-over-heels over them (male characters filling out most of their list of faves) and i just… wouldn’t get it. the most i would get when i asked their opinion about a girl character would be “ohh she’s really pretty”, and thats it. (where for the male characters they would be low-key so obsessed) well, let’s say… i discovered something about myself from that experience

[@shafwandito4724]

To be fair, as a straight male, I went nope too when watching Yuri manga or Lesbian porn...

[@leafapple518]

@shafwandito4724 oh? Interesting. Its not just lesbian porn that doesnt do it for me, even the types of porn where its just one woman doesnt do anything for me either (think OF). But yea interesting that a straight man doesnt enjoy lesbian porn since i know lots of women enjoy and consume yaoi

[@qlowquest]

@@leafapple518 i’ve even seen a number of lesbians say that lesbian/yuri porn is boring for them too, where some prefer to watch gay porn, even tho they prefer to date girls. it’s mainly because the quality of lesbian porn isn’t that good compared to other porn, where it feels “fake” to ppl, and lesbians feel like it is intended for the male gaze, not them, where they much much much prefer to watch homemade lesbian porn. weird thing is, straight girls are the ones that like to consume lesbian porn…

[@leafapple518]

@qlowquest oh, yea the male gaze part makes sense. Sometimes they dont even look like they enjoy it and theyre just putting on a show. I just cant imagine gay porn being arousing for lesbians though hmm.. cuz i know its not the same the other way around, regardless of homemade or not And i dont know if a girl is straight if she consumes lesbian porn. I mean, you wouldnt think a guy is straight if he consumes gay porn

[@shafirapemda]

fuck he's so real about this lmao as a bi i can very much relate to his story

[@nyankop7]

i’m his fan now

[@sylphann]

Bicycle be like lol

[@Absbor]

~ Long comment warning. No short cut.~ It's sad to see that people who have a multiattraction towards genders are treated badly; especially in asia. I'm a westerner and I'm glad that you share this clip. I have read a lot of BL mangas and seen animes, but I never knew if it was fiction or real. Through this video I can get the POV of an actual japanese person stuck in this limbo, that the society of japan has built up around LGBT+. I'll definitely watch "The Hole" from King Gnu. Bisexuality is often used as an umbrella term for many things. It's always easier to explain how you actual feel, than to just say the term. Technically I could label myself as bi as well, but it would limit the experiment I have. From what I understand is, he likes men and women. Hearing how he wants to be taken care of by men and wants to take care of women sounds like another stigma japan society has unknowingly built up. "Men have to be strong and take care of the weak women", that kind of bs. While with a man he can let himself slide off a bit. In my case I like every gender (expression). 2:34 this is a very known phenomena to the point it received a term. it's called (in)offically bi-cycle. It's when your preference changes over time. For most people you can still be attracted to every gender you're attracted to, but your current preference is different; your passion lies in another gender. That's what Akira is talking about. I have this too; depending on gender (expression) and biological sex. However there are cases when people's preferred attraction changes completed. So much that it feels like their sexuality has changed. They use their own term called "Abrosexual". It's like genderfluity, but with sexuality. 3:09, 3:38 I don't know why he felt that way. It might be another social and psychological thing for japanese people mixed with bisexual people. I heard often about the biphobia (I got accused of being biphobic bc I label myself as omnisexual). So I guess, something in the back of his head must have thought "isn't this cheating" and followed by a mental breakdown. A heads up: It's nothing wrong when you're not in a relationship or you're looking at porn and feel in the mood at looking at a different sex/gender in the middle of it. I do it too. It's normal. I don't know if it's because of the bi-cycle, curiosity or another factor (like short attention span, lol). I'm interested in one thing, get hyped about another thing and move on, go back, find another thing, and go forward, or maybe go back again. It's something that can be decided on the spot and you don't need to feel bad about it. I don't know if it's working for you tho, since we have different nationalities and different social structures... But I'm just trying to tell you: it's alright if you feel like this. It's completely normal. If you get a mental breakdown, cry it out and move on (if it's possible for you). ...4:44 ah. he feels bad. Because he was in a relationship with a girl, when he was a student. But his teen curiosity got the better of him and he tried other things out as well. He didn't cheat, he looked up things on the internet instead. it's understandable and alright. but now this moment got carried into adulthood. Is this even fixable with a therapist; this trauma? or does he have to live with it for the rest of his life? bluntly: i don't know. it's not within my expertise. All in all, bisexuality (or generally multiattraction) isn't about being interested in just one of the gender possibilities you're attracted in. You are attracted to all of them at the same time. More or less depending from time to time. It's nothing and don't feel ashamed about it. No it's not cheating. No it's not being unsure. No they are not claiming everyone. They're just living in peace.

[@mcqueenbby8227]

It's already been a year since I started questioning my sexuality and every time I thought I fully reflected and analyzed myself properly, a thought or act contradicts that immediately, so I thought I can drop some questions here if anyone wants to reply bc I've never been so frustrated with myself. I grew up subconsciously fearing men and finding my thoughts in a state of disarray whenever I'm in close proximity of. The thing is, this was way before I was molested, stalked, followed home (separate occassions) so I wonder if it's tied to how I viewed my dad (who is very strict and doesn't hesitate to raise his voice when he's irritated or feels his authority threatened) and uncles (uncle 2 was a drunkard who speaks very sexually) back then. Regardless, I have entertained thoughts in my life of having a boyfriend, was romantically interested in guys, and even had a weird, unlabelled relationship with one for 5 years (nothing sexual). It was on and off, and we had a silent agreement that we can still entertain others in our lives. In the midst of this, there was this girl that I felt very frustrated with, because I liked her, she's the first person I ever considered sexually and at some point, she almost stole my first kiss, but I refused her that time because she did it in front of the guys and I knew she just wanted to give them a show or prove something. Before cutting off the 5 yrs guy, one time at a bar, I found myself making out with a girl -- a stranger -- in the bathroom and went back to her twice even tho, again, this one made it clear that she isn't attracted to women, she said she wished she was, and just felt like having fun. And I was just rlly turned on, I couldn't stop thinking abt it when I got home. Weeks after that, I made out for the first time with the 5 yrs guy, and... I just felt so disgusted afterwards. We were considering dating fr and testing the waters but that feeling of disgust just couldn't leave me after a week, I stopped what we had going on. Now, I keep bouncing on several conclusions. I'm bi ? I'm straight and I'm confusing a different feeling I have for attraction towards women ? Or towards men? Help

[@derpedfox]

Based

[@user-ot9gp1bw9n]

Wow, he is just like me fr fr lmao

[@yeshviniks236]

I never related to any VTuber so much like this

[@ChaChaaa]

Wait. When he mentioned the thing about watching lewd stuff, there are also times when I get turned on watching same sex and there are days with opposite sex. But the things is im straight. I like guys but I also like men who dresses and behaves like a woman.

[@antidave]

Well it's normal for cishet girls to like lesbian porn or focus on the girls in the videos tbh

[@anapple6912]

🫥

[@souleaterevans4589]

Poor guy doesn't know about the bi-cycle 😭For anyone who doesn't, the bi-cycle is a thing for a lot (or maybe even ALL) bisexuals, and it often makes you doubt your sexuality if you don't know of it. You're still bisexual, but your attraction can shift around. I'm a person who primarily feels attraction in a 90% men/10% women split. But sometimes, even if only for a day, I find myself more interested in engaging with women because that 90/10 split has shifted to 70/30 or something. Sexual attraction usually isn't that clean and clear, but you get the point

[@bearVshark100]

Being Bi sounds exhausting

[@fulgatus]

As a gacha game enjoyer who's also Bisexual: yeah

[@olgagachaphoenix9130]

He's Bi?

[@olgagachaphoenix9130]

@@m0mtjtGhhijlytkliRN8693llsD ah.

[@DoumanAsh]

lol like no one knows that yaoi is popular among wamen

[@sgg4017]

weird ass fetishizers, then they'll turn around and then get disgusted at yuri content or even lesbians

[@zrolyn6367]

same dude. the discrimination you get as an apache helicopter in today society.

[@ratadatuamae]

Bro is just like me fr fr