To be honest, my tears come out for the main lead. I can see she truly loves him and suffering from him. In contrast, I only can see He like her not love her at this stage. He married her with the thought love can be cultivated but it is just not that as He deeply loved his ex. And he still got text from her. He has never shared his thoughts or problems with her that mean she is not considered as a partner for him. I feel sorry for her. What she did and how she cared for him , actually is very gentle. She didn’t force him! Even when she worried about him and his ex but she still asked and acted in very polite way. To be honest I don’t see faults in her . Some said they don’t know how to love each others but in fact, it’s result of one way love from her side. I would love this film more if there is suitable man who deserves her love at the end. I don’t like recycling man!
@shivangipatel. Жыл бұрын
Exactly.... She doesn't lack the skill of how to love . She has been understanding partner since day 1 but he never share anything with her ,never communicate which shows he never considered her as his partner
@Lily_little_girl Жыл бұрын
Exactly, I really hate him
@shahanaz3990 Жыл бұрын
Exactly I will be very sad if they were together by the end of drama. You had enough of him girl now get a life for yourself too
@crystalsingh969511 ай бұрын
Or is it, he needed space, then decided to start a relationship wit someone
@kpopstan3640 Жыл бұрын
She devoted her life to being his wife and she loves him, takes care of him, does house chores, and does everything for him but why can't he love her, he didn't even respect her feelings towards him. He should have at least what's troubling him, his worries about his wife. He shouldn't have married her if he was going to treat her like this. I feel like my heart is about to burst after seeing her having a hard time because of their relationship.🥹
@fungsukgoo97892 ай бұрын
不解温柔的男人,還把前任當作傭工
@Aziza654 Жыл бұрын
As someone commented earlier never be the second choice, to add to that ladies ...if you love a man more than he loves you chances are that the marriage will not work because women generally by nature are givers and it's easy to lose yourself because you're not getting anything back! I find this story more and more interesting! Can't wait for the next episode!
@pamkowaski1608 Жыл бұрын
Fully agree
@sandraaah7543 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you
@rohmathamdanie80744 ай бұрын
Berat banget ada diposisi wanitanya😢
@natgeo69844 ай бұрын
In this drama, she is not 2nd choice but mom's choice & the most important person to him is mom & he can cultivate the love relationship but that takes time which unfortunately they were together for less than 4m before he left to US. Another hidden personal issue is his deep hatred- unforgiveness against his dad & 'that woman' which unconsciously is a barrier to close relationship.
@hajiryassin52882 ай бұрын
I agree with you. But in thier case she is not the 2nd choice. He and his ex did end thier relationship before he marry the MF. The problem here he is very selfish and can't give Love to any one
@beverlybagcatin1492 Жыл бұрын
For me, the issue is not about her being just the second choice, but it's about how both of them not knowing how to love each other right. Their personalities clash. The girl wanted to love the guy selflessly but the guy doesn't want that kind of love, he wanted a space for them to grow individually. Personally, I can't hate the guy because it's his personality and he's trying in his own little ways to accommodate the girl's need. I can't blame the girl for feeling hurt either. Well, that's love, it's mostly imperfect.
@arohasyarotun7512 Жыл бұрын
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@margretnickman4922 Жыл бұрын
Because married is learning process to each other. When you not try communicating with each other you cannot understand each need.
@toniclarke7398 Жыл бұрын
She knows how to love she just doesn't know how to love herself😊😊
@toniclarke7398 Жыл бұрын
You got you got to remember though he didn't marry her for love he didn't even marry her because he liked her he married her because his mother wanted him too and he wanted to do it for his mother even his ex-girlfriend warned her that she was just a substitute
@toniclarke7398 Жыл бұрын
I'm too Petty for that s*** I'm telling them I'm not coming back actually I'm not telling you nothing I'm just not coming back let him figure it out
@ankundatracy6153 Жыл бұрын
Anyone who's been watching c dramas can bear me witness that this is so far the most different unpredictable drama we've seen so far a serie where u can't really tell what is going to happen next...U guys made it in creating a remarkable different serie shout out to the director of LOVE HEALS😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻😻
@SadieGdancing Жыл бұрын
He's caused her so much pain. 😫 I understand that she also caused him some pain or frustration and that is valid, but the way he deals with his own feelings is hurting them both and slowly driving her away from him. I can't imagine the confusion that she is barring and the grief that she has. I can see that they both do love each other, I saw it in episode 1 and still do, but they don't know how to love each other. 💔
@Leia9913 Жыл бұрын
Agree, I think even both of their friends and family can see they're suitable for each other. I also think their only mistake is marry too early, the guy just got out of a very serious relationship after all. But I wouldn't blame her or him for that since both of them were also young at that time, they really thought it's a good decision.
@JaaniAdnan Жыл бұрын
I don’t think he loved her the way he loved his ex girlfriend the time they got married. He saw her as an fill in after his gf cheated on him. And the way he was dealing with that caused her so much pain. He didn’t even try to get close to her in that specific way. Their married life was so difficult. She took the responsibility to be a good wife and was nice all the time which is an issue while he was in the guilt zone for not being able to be what she wanted him to be. To love her the way she loved. She took every step to him according to me. Not blaming him for being the way he Was considering he got left off and cheated on especially before his wedding
@BhanuMeena-zw1sv5 ай бұрын
She was crying but he didn't comfort her at all...😢😢
@natgeo69844 ай бұрын
ex-fiancee wrongly assumed she was substitute, questioned if he loves her & brainwashed her with equal love fallacy. That changed her attitude (from her confession to him), caused insecurity & need to win him. Truth is mom is most important, over who & when he marries (that's why he can delay 2y with former but rush to 3m with her). As for why he turned cold later, more to do with himself - ignorance on married life, over stretched work demands & inability to open up. Nothing to do with both women
@everylygr33n Жыл бұрын
As they always said, too much love will kill you. I just want the Female Lead to have a self respect to herself, see her worth as a person and i hope she love herself more.
@toniclarke7398 Жыл бұрын
Amen preach it speak it tell it
@abdulhikmat71294 ай бұрын
There is nothing like too much if the love is reciprocated
@xuanhuynh8429 Жыл бұрын
Why she keeps clinging to that man really baffles me. As pretty as her, there are better men around. The first girlfriend was smart enough to leave him.
@whit9676 Жыл бұрын
Factssssss, why she doesn’t know her worth 😢😢😢
@simonamocanu2951 Жыл бұрын
" To us to be free, means to let go. But who can really let go?" Tears in Heaven
@flordelizapanhon3999 Жыл бұрын
She's clinging because deep inside her their still love for him watching dramas gives us lesson and learn something to apply in our real life situation. This is why I always advice to my friends who had just break up with their gf/bf/husband/wife to heal their 💔 before getting into a new relationship again because once it fall into marriage the tendency it won't last. Or the relationship is more worst than the first break up.
@SanyL.5 ай бұрын
@@simonamocanu2951Yes, love is very hard to explain….though knowing the person we picked was not deserved, but our heart too stubborn that says differently! 🤔🙃 When calculating, is it still love? Except not falling into those jerks…She loves him crazily since she was in university being his junior…
@natgeo69844 ай бұрын
Because she was made a rash decision to divorce that she regretted even before leaving the home. Now that she has experienced residency, she believes he became quite cold-hearted because he was very tired & exhausted during residency (+studies). [Ep.2 conversation at wen yi's statue not translated]
@haley4699 Жыл бұрын
One loved too much, and tried to change to make things work. The other still felt like a bachelor and started seeing her as a bother whose effort was not needed. Basically, he took her for granted and realized it after she left him
@babajm3757 Жыл бұрын
Honestly… there is no perfect marriage. What matter most is that both of you don’t give up on each other and always choose to stay.
@myrianmachuca7535 ай бұрын
Tal cual,eso de amarse a primera vez creyendo un amor eterno es típica de películas de Disney,
4:11 why is this so cute? the way they slapped that kid together 🤣🤣
@franmm351 Жыл бұрын
Even she love him so much, his reaction every time she try be sweet.... it's a shame she is forget her own goal not only be a wife... the child is cute.... she still love him but she suffer with him💔 in the past
@NaveenJakka-iu4js Жыл бұрын
I think female lead no self respect I think I just hate these type of dramas where female brain is their knees and dunk in the place of brain I am quiting drama
@weareoneexonexol Жыл бұрын
@@NaveenJakka-iu4js i also hate this type of fl , no self-respect . I don't know why I am watching this🤧
@cricketclassics5490 Жыл бұрын
@@weareoneexonexolshe is sucking upto ML luke u suck up to gayband 😂
@xiaofengxia6481 Жыл бұрын
👍 现在的中国电视剧作品很棒 演员很漂亮
@Sa-uk5oe Жыл бұрын
看东八区的先生们了吗
@黄金忙内 Жыл бұрын
看原来是你了吗
@Youho7362 Жыл бұрын
去有風的地方? 俊男美女,再靚風景。
@shivanijarande8238 Жыл бұрын
I cried so hard that he doesn't even try to understand her just ignore
@alleyadivine101 Жыл бұрын
my heart is💔 when he pretending he was sleeping😢
@gukkies8335 Жыл бұрын
They both love each other but in a wrong time. Force love maybe? Kodus to the cast, staff and crew for this wonderful series.👏👍💓
@sanjida6089 Жыл бұрын
He was insincere towards her..he didn't even care about her feelings 💔
@angelarf Жыл бұрын
This
@SanyL.5 ай бұрын
She’s very nice, kind, but doesn’t understand him, so he likes her, but doesn’t love her? Also, how could she resists to be the mother of his adopted son?!
@Lady_Kunoichi Жыл бұрын
Goodness...this girl has attachment issues. She's attached to the idea of what she thinks a relationship should be versus the reality that not everyone shares her love language. I've been there. And he's just a broken boy in a man's body living with a trauma that he's never fully dealt with and he's hurting the people that love him. I don't know what happened between them yet. But I'm glad to see her character mature. I hope he does too. Also, that baby boy is DARLING ❤
@susanhenshaw1651 Жыл бұрын
She needs to find someone who loves and appreciates her!
@ylme6950 Жыл бұрын
He only took her as a substitute for his first love, he never loved her 😢
@linchtadashi2494 Жыл бұрын
所以说如果不够爱的话就不要着急进入婚姻,得来都是压力和负担。😢
@StarryiStar Жыл бұрын
I’ve seen an edit on TikTok this morning and I’m here binge watching🫡
@ilive4anime. Жыл бұрын
Aside from being second choice...she also walked into this. She was in denial about what she was. I believe they are both at fault here. She's has a form of suffocating love towards him. He, knowing full well he wasn't over his ex, went I to the Relationship. They both weren't at the right mindset.
@angelarf Жыл бұрын
I agree. She is "suffocating" because he literally never tells her, not even the most basic thing. What little she knows is from third parties.
@Lily_little_girl Жыл бұрын
He's an asshole to her and she was delusional
@natgeo69844 ай бұрын
He was clueless about marriage except settle down, even sleeping with wife is different from others😂. She thought she was 2nd choice so she worked very hard to obtain his love which added pressure to his increasingly stressful & tiring residency. If she had studied harder, leave him alone & continue the marriage, his love will grow & catch up because she is the choice of the most his important person/woman - his mom!!! He had a reflection when she told him of Miao's deleted msg & decided with his mom's choice
@sisic2346 Жыл бұрын
他们的婚姻真的让人窒息。
@whit9676 Жыл бұрын
Veryyyy
@AdewwumiOluwatomisin-vv8ve Жыл бұрын
She's so lovely during the marriage
@JaaniAdnan Жыл бұрын
It hurt when he was avoiding getting intimate with her after the pregnancy scare. 😢
@joyjojo7051 Жыл бұрын
This bae was just too good for him
@zeeyyy6469 Жыл бұрын
What did he think marriage was?? Why did he want to get married if he couldn’t adjust? He felt suffocated and fed up with her because he didn’t think marriage was about giving. He just wanted to be married without doing any work in their relationship. He sucks, but so does she for not loving herself and always giving excuses and never thinking about herself.
@Lily_little_girl Жыл бұрын
Exactly she loved him too much and forgot self respect
@woaini5769 Жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for her, her care always got rejected by him
@susanl.65246 ай бұрын
好剧推荐!彭冠英❤❤❤
@tatianavera3726 Жыл бұрын
Ella es tan linda y tiene un corazon dulce y cálido con eso el solo se siente presionado por que a la final no la quiere como ella desea, pero a la final el corazon se cansa de esperar. 😢
@bbbaaa4721 Жыл бұрын
Please tell me that at the ends she fall in love with somebody else, I hate him!! Hahahaha
@khabanajohanna3465 Жыл бұрын
I also wanna knw😢
@kjmemoire70899 ай бұрын
Nope
@madelinetang8359 Жыл бұрын
这故事告诉我们要结婚就一定要找一个很爱很爱自己的人 自己也爱的人
@Ffff-cj3yo Жыл бұрын
那大多数人一辈子结不了婚了
@michellewenkueihsieh75495 ай бұрын
婚姻最困難之處是:婚姻不是兩個人的事,是兩個家族的事,特別是中國人
@slavkakupka25423 ай бұрын
@@Ffff-cj3yo
@cc48146 ай бұрын
百万观看量的电视剧,要不是果冻,都不知道有这么好的剧追,彭漂亮👍
@andresdong Жыл бұрын
After 6 years, the male protagonist doesn't have much personal charisma left, and it's hard to see what it is that once again attracted the female protagonist to him.
@simonamocanu2951 Жыл бұрын
"Gastric attack" comes at the proper time. Nothing is changed after their divorce 6 years ago. Everything is where she left them.
@fatmomcat3851 Жыл бұрын
我今天偶然開始睇,好真實好好睇,冇悶場男女主角得好好👍
@MaryJade-yn2noАй бұрын
Before I saw that it was a calendar i thought that it was the periodic table 😂😂😂😂😂
@julialemee8418 Жыл бұрын
finally a beautiful good actress with good teeth
@kineko7823 Жыл бұрын
I don’t like how this drama basically forces them to become a couple. They are clearly not made for each other. It would be more more realistic, if they realised how toxic they are for each other, made peace and find a more fitting partner.
@thedesertsubmarine6 ай бұрын
2024- hunting for mature c-dramas is my part time job and am not disappointed in this..and also finally a FL with a healthy weight,,tall and confident
@GloriaAkello-p2cАй бұрын
In marriage the worst disease is ignoring someone who is trying so hard to please and after losing him or her that's when you will understand that everyone has its importance in your life. I feel terrible if she is really pregnant in such situation
@peggytanaka8168 Жыл бұрын
Great drama Very highly recommend to watch
@nrogamingff5709 Жыл бұрын
Terjemahkan bahasa indonesia
@WishfulThinking511 Жыл бұрын
I think he tried … but just couldn’t “ Cultivate “ the Love he thought he could manage with time ..😂 he was just not there in that marriage.. truly heartbreaking 💔 and the are both good people in their own way ..
@treasurenqobilesmith7667 Жыл бұрын
We share the same sentiment. I don't get why people are blaming the guy only. the girl was suffocating also lol They were both young and rushed into marriage. Let them learn from their mistakes
@natgeo69844 ай бұрын
Married mid Aug & left for US before Dec, so less than 4 months together & during 1st half was ok. Only after Dong miaomiao's message that she felt worried & insecure while he was fast tracked by hospital & became very busy.
@lindaboyland901 Жыл бұрын
This is a brilliant series such a great story
@chhayascreations9962 Жыл бұрын
I directly started from ep 7 did not watch other😂😉
He keeps pushing her away ever since they got married
@mariananyonga8472 Жыл бұрын
I love the boy trying to bring them closer🥰🥰🥰🥰
@manjirim5009 Жыл бұрын
15:49 Perfect Answer. Same as he gave her earlier. Why did he marry her when he wants to be alone? 21:40 He is giving her crumbs and she is satisfied 😌 poor thing. I think he was doing same thing with his ex girlfriend so she left him. He doesn't understand relationship. It is not question of Second best. I don't dislike him that much in 2019 as he adopted the kid and gave him care and home. That is a very good deed as he is doing something for the society.
@williamtan58846 ай бұрын
女主角 很可爱❤
@horridsathi5750 Жыл бұрын
Although there's no English subtitles but i couldn't stop myself to watch this amazing drama ❤️
@jmr3107 Жыл бұрын
if there are subtitles in english
@horridsathi5750 Жыл бұрын
@@jmr3107 what
@nananuarss Жыл бұрын
@@jmr3107 you go to settings and select English
@mrzzlyda8902 Жыл бұрын
It do have but you don't know the way how to select
@horridsathi5750 Жыл бұрын
@@mrzzlyda8902 bruh when we saw this episode the subtitles weren't there
@fauzianalwoga4 ай бұрын
The hospital scenes just bring back so many bad memories of my mom in the hospital 😢
@laurajames3607 Жыл бұрын
Okay I understand that the girl loved this guy for a really long time but she should know her worth a cold man like him does not deserve her also she is caring too much why she can't stop okay I know that if you love someone with your whole heart you do everything to make them happy even you loose your self respect but if the ways are apart one should understand and leave for the sake of the person they loved
@clairepocaigue4624 Жыл бұрын
This marriage is a rebound marriage and its a dream marriage for her
@JaaniAdnan Жыл бұрын
The whole problem in their marriage was they got married too soon. Also he didn’t love her she did. And he feels guilty for not loving her the way she does. So the more she does for him the more he feels guilty and pressured. He should have talked it out. Their marriage was still like that of a teacher and a student. 😢. Saying that I am hopping theny don’t jump in relationship now. They should get to know each other now and be equals.
@AufaazzahroZahro2 ай бұрын
Pergilah kasih kejarlah keinginanmu..... Selagi masih ada waktu..... Jangan hiraukan diriku... Q rela berpisah demi untuk dirimu... Smoga tercapai segala keinginanmu😢😢😢😢😢
@madeartini4860 Жыл бұрын
One side love cannot look after a relationship.treating well in a household is not enough without loving well.they need to separate in order to realize their true feeling
@yotaw Жыл бұрын
好看~
@kimaya2781 Жыл бұрын
المسلسل يجننننن شكرا على الترجمة العربية
@shannont328 Жыл бұрын
love this drama so far!!!
@alizehhussain6869 Жыл бұрын
The kid is so sweet always trying to bring his mom n dad together
@yaneccyfalcon22616 ай бұрын
Esta chica es demasiado buena con todo lo que sufrió en el pasado que veo hasta perdió un bebé y que en el presente lo trate normal admirable cuando mucho lo saludaría por educación y cien metros lejos de mí no se cómo le sigue interesando si nunca mostró un poquito de cariño y en todos estos años no la busco fuera sido bueno que el escritor en el presente si personaje fuera fuerte segura indiferente a el pero vuelve a repetir lo de antes es humillante de 😢😮😮
@LornaSantiago-q7r2 ай бұрын
Very nice movie.
@KARLARODRIGUEZ-ep2yb Жыл бұрын
El prota muy mala onda con ella, muy indiferente, su rechazo, a ella le dolía, que bueno que se divorciaron, solo espero que le cueste recuperarla para que vea lo que perdió
@chronic2jay812 Жыл бұрын
For me l don't think neither of them was wrong.They both want a different version of their spouses to appreciate each other which waz definitely wrong.We accept each other, not change each other;that's how marriage works.
@uncell6984 Жыл бұрын
Suka banget dramanya🤗🤗🤗
@laneferrino6822 Жыл бұрын
Não queria que eles ficasse juntos. Ele não merece ela.
Peng guan ying looks cool as a CEO😂😂these lab coats 🤤😂
@fanny8865 ай бұрын
Marriages don't work only in love and intimacy but we need money 💰 have to work. So have to understand and respect both parties. He or she's not a t fault.
@annallejoygonzales8357 Жыл бұрын
Ning xiang is our match maker here 😊
@eminemustafa7859 Жыл бұрын
Mi pjace molto il serinal drama 💞 🙏 💞 🙏 💞 🙏
@Jobibibi3 ай бұрын
單向付出久了會很累的❤️🩹
@aungsanmyint808 Жыл бұрын
I was very worried as i watch this drama and can’t find the cause of their divorce. Now i kinda get it. The problem is the male lead took away her chance to console him. When someone u love refuse your help and doesn’t give u a chance to become someone he can rely on, that someone will feel he’s drifting apart from him.
@chowcarmen216 Жыл бұрын
太心疼女主
@KCat_kovers Жыл бұрын
It's really good drama
@monicavalz Жыл бұрын
Por fin subtitulada ♥
@elianiacarvalho6844 Жыл бұрын
O Amor Cura. Va em configuração Legendas automática Portugues.
@Carla-fe4fo Жыл бұрын
现在孩子的演技都这么好的吗!!!
@miyuryuu72604 ай бұрын
She clearly still love him. It's so obvious when she get jealous. She didnt learn her lesson 🤦♀️🤦♀️
@Shahd..ELkhashab Жыл бұрын
لو رجعت له بسهولة مش هكمل المسلسل لازم تخليه يلف وراها مليون سنة علشان تقبل ترجعله تاني
@whit9676 Жыл бұрын
Exactly she is annoying the crap out of me can’t you see the man doesn’t even like you 🙄🙄🙄🙄
@Adolfomay-je5dl Жыл бұрын
Me dolió su indiferencia que se hizo el dorrmido
@madeartini4860 Жыл бұрын
They just still confuse how to treat each other.and still not understand what their feeling actually
@mommyraylunasulitchannel83916 ай бұрын
Yes done❤
@hartatiukat6736 Жыл бұрын
Sub indonesia wooooòoyyyyyy gue lgi nonton nii
@王智正-c3l Жыл бұрын
王楚然
@mamaarshad Жыл бұрын
Sadness to the woman.. loving the man make tired 😢😢
@DaniaTheAnsari Жыл бұрын
3:53 this is unconsciously yet intended guys!! We know
@ramosmarilyn1able Жыл бұрын
He drove her away, he was a jersey to her...
@nirmaljeetkaur5832 Жыл бұрын
Bro come on when you were married you just wanted to be alone so now that you are alone just treasure it why pestering her now
@manjirim5009 Жыл бұрын
21:21 & 21:29 No words required. Poor thing she is so happy 😊.
@chimaytv9157 Жыл бұрын
Xin chào tôi đến từ Việt Nam .tôi rất yêu thích bộ phim này, diễn viên cũng rất đẹp
@AlmiraTsk3 ай бұрын
Kau dengan dirimu saja, kau dengan duniamu saja, kau kekasihku tapi orang lain bagiku,,
@تهانيحكم Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@nancyalvarado8884 Жыл бұрын
Encantada con este drama
@bikajjak99 Жыл бұрын
Pinter kali anak ny 😂😂😂😂😂
@pixiedust7182 Жыл бұрын
So he never or don't want to open up to her.. he really doesn't deserve her.
@naussicca10 ай бұрын
When she said you don't even argue with me I felt so bad for her.