Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck Reunite Amid Split Speculation

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck attended his daughter Violet's high school graduation party amid rumors of a split between the couple. A source tells ET, ���Jen and Ben are continuing to take space from each other. They have been having issues for a few months and trying to figure things out on their own." This new outing is only the second time the couple bas been spotted together since Jen walked the Met Gala stairs solo on May 6, Ben's absence causing speculation of martial unhappiness.

[@hectorrivera66]

She canceled her lip-sync tour due to poor sales.

[@Catwoman748]

😂😂😂😂

[@barb6868]

Hahahaha

[@aziatix1168]

Lol, she might've sang at some concerts with playback (but those were early-mid 2000s and Britney popularised this type of "singing" among dancing pop singers).You definitely didn't watch her performances from the 2010s and 2020s- she sings live, when you watch SuperBowl 2020 she definitely sang more live than Shakira who was actually lip-synching ;D

[@mangafq8]

Apparently they are both very self focused. JLo from the hood really should consider dressing more modestly read elegantly. More often than not she just doesn't like to cover herself. Very declasse. Jesus I trust in You 🙏

[@dasani26]

Yup! She is busted!

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

They both look raggedy ,and sad together 😂😂😂.

[@Catwoman748]

😭😭😭

[@janetbishop9713]

The "it" factor just isn't there anymore. 💔 They've tried twice, but Ben needs to move on. Jlo will cling to him forever because she's needy. Her concert tour has lost all its interest and energy, low ticket sales! She has to have PDitty's fiasco on her mind because she's been involved with him. I'd say her career is over, and a lot will come out in his trial. She has a lot of dirty luggage, that's FOR sure. Can't blame Ben for walking out!

[@hemnebob]

Anybody could have predicted this… I mean, the girl can’t stop social media. She’s always gotta have her picture in the public and anybody who’s doing that has a LARGE ego bigger than everybody included in her family. She needs therapy!

[@Catwoman748]

Jennifer Lopez does not respect Bens boundaries or privacy.

[@Catwoman748]

​@@lostwoods5687 He's so awful that's why your idol is obsessed and sprung off him 😂😂😂 Right.

[@pattyjuly25]

Does anyone actually believe this marriage is going to last?

[@celina8590]

Wont last. JL should kick his butt

[@janetbishop9713]

@celina8590 Jlo is the problem! She drags him shopping with her, or a resturanant, and the paparazzi is tipped of by her or someone on her staff where and when they will be there. To get her pics in tabloids and internet. She is that vain and desperate. She knows as a celebrity, her days are numbered. But...she's gonna get plenty of publicity, and not the good type when "the Diddler's" trial starts! "Buckle your seatbelt... it's gonna be a bumpy ride!" 😰

[@lisaisbuttons]

He needed more work around his sobriety to make better decisions and now…welp we will watch it play out in the media like JLO likes it…smh. I hope they stay together.

[@theaondracawley5441]

But why do people wants them to separate so badly? This is the samething that had happened back then in 2002-2004. Thats why I am glad that I'm not a celebrity and personal life is private because there is so much hate for this couple and woman, its sad.😢

[@laprdare777]

​@@theaondracawley5441yes so sad i realy Like them

[@onlyrealtalentedartists]

This relationship will never last, Jennifer Lopez had it all, beauty, a 400 millions dlls career, Ben Affleck, she could just be happy far from spotlights…but no.. she had to flaunt him around, knowing he hates paparazzi, she had to show him off in red carpets, she had to do a documentary AND a movie to convince everyone their love history is the greatest ever told, they are too different., if not now they will separate later.... They will announce their separation after her tour, because as usual J Lo want to keep pretending they are ok

[@Son-of-Krypton]

Women like her are never satisfied 🙄

[@adansanchez3509]

I don't like bets but I accept yours, it's obvious that you will lose like everyone else who said they "won't last a year together."

[@keepingitreal5533]

​​@@adansanchez3509nope the commenter is correct. They will not last. Ben simply doesn't have the type of energy that Jennifer does. She's not the average 54-year-old. But he is every bit the average 51-year-old who wants to slow down and just relax. If they don't separate now, they will separate in a year or two. But these two are not going to grow old together. They will break up and Ben will eventually find himself a different type of woman... One who is a little bit more catering to his needs and his triggers and his lifestyle of being a recovering alcoholic. He just needs a woman who is more laid-back (and that's not going to be Jennifer Lopez...ever)

[@adansanchez3509]

​@@keepingitreal5533Or they just haven't been caught together much lately because both of them are working, this is normal and this will happen frequently so it's better or better for immature people and media to get used to that and Ben has recovered from his feelings for years. problems with addictions and he is also a busy person like his wife, so I am the one who is right (as always happens).

[@keepingitreal5533]

@@adansanchez3509 that wouldn't explain them living in separate houses and Ben not attending major events together (when he can clearly get out of movie taping, seeing as how he's a big star and his wife is a big star.) So obviously the production company would let him go to the met gala or JLo's movie premiers. He's not making the effort to schedule those things because they're clearly on different pages. Facts.

[@gigigirl56]

I can't even imagine what kind of life they have. Two famous figures who are always on the go. How could they maintain a healthy relationship when they are apart and under the scrutiny of the fans and the media. Most couples have their ups and downs but for them it is magnified. No wonder so few movie stars are able to succeed in marital relationships or just any relationship. It is not easy to compromise who they are specially at this time and age when they are set in their ways. Who is to say how they should behave, only them. They are who they are. Who is going to compromise for the sake of the relationship? Is there a happy medium? Can't they just go to counseling? I just feel for their children the most.

[@janetbishop9713]

Jlo loves the limelight & paparazzi. Ben hates it. He wants a normal, quiet life. Ben's 3 kids have their mom, Jennifer Garner. A GREAT mom! Jlo's 2 kids have a dad, Marc Anthony. The kids will be just fine. ❤

[@bleuskye8124]

The downfall of this narcissist. Oh the joy. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@TiffanyMorris-ec5gm]

Ben is not happy with Jennifer Lopez

[@Chigirl2]

It’s so obvious whenever they are together. There marriage is just as fake as she is.

[@janetbishop9713]

🤔 Ya think? Yep, me, too! 🥀

[@PureSparkles22]

They’ll be divorced within a year

[@Catwoman748]

I don't think he can escape her

[@barb6868]

Thought they were divorcing soon.

[@SuperCeleste007]

I don’t care. I just wanted to be confirmed that he is returning as Daredevil

[@phoenixluna4137]

He looks so miserable. He's hanging out with her out of guilt and force. Jlo is acting a victim and trying to make him feel guilty

[@Senoritagata-nu5te]

Couldn't agree with you more he looks like a broken down haggard man. A woman can't fix him only God can heal Ben.

[@MA-ws3hx]

The first time they broke up was down to press intrusion & privacy concerns!! Now, she puts their love life in a movie & music!! WTF? Some things are just meant to be kept sacred & secret Jen!! 🙊

[@barb6868]

Agree!

[@janetbishop9713]

🫢She's nuts! She needs to take care of her 2 kids. Leave Ben & his alone... they have an outstanding mother. Jen Garner.

[@laprdare777]

She wanted to sharevher love with the World and how real love wins at the end,to inspire others not to lose hope...:)

[@jhunz23]

Like she suddenly becomes family loving mother? Pluesssse! She is not selling tickets as she is rude & mean to everybody especially to the service workers!

[@lorigravelin2081]

It is absolutely possible that they are fine, just 2 working actors who are , wait for it…WORKING!! 😂😂

[@danif4750]

They have a house with 24 bathrooms. Why would he need to rent a place when they live in a whole museum? Please

[@janetbishop9713]

​@danif4750 Yep... that makes a lot of sense right there. They could live there and never see each other. But he wants "OUT!" 📢

[@janetbishop9713]

Hey Jlo, get your lip off the ground. Don't ruin Violet's graduation party! The world doesn't revolve around you! 😲 Nothing worse than an old Diva! 🥀

[@gloriaohara3213]

I don't think Jennifer would be happy with anyone ...I also think she's perhaps just mad at getting older...menopause...etc...it creeps up on you

[@janetbishop9713]

You're right! And I think she might be very worried about this PDITTY trial coming up. She'll be dragged into the middle of this. I'm sure her kids don't know that ugly part of her life. Low ticket sales canceled her concert tours. She's got a big black cloud over her head. She looks miserable! Plus her marriage is going under...

[@bevfromnc6607]

Menopause is GOOD! You no longer have to worry about a menstrual period, or getting pregnant. You'll have hot flashes, but that's LIFE!!!

[@lisaisbuttons]

Ben should have given his sobriety more time before jumping into a very public marriage. Seems that Jen likes the lime-light where Ben likes low-key. Celebrities, always doing anything to stay in the head-lines to stay relevant, instead of letting their talent speak for itself. It’s kind of an F’d up profession. If it weren’t for the fans there would be no notoriety, no head-lines, no money. 😱 what would we do then!?

[@simonebaker4915]

It’s called menopause. Every woman goes through it.

[@janetbishop9713]

Ben begs, "please go!" 😂

[@truebluey]

Jennifer and Ben live and let live. Be happy love each other respect each other. Be kind to each other. Life is too short. You waited 20 years to love each other again don’t stop now. God bless be safe and take care.🥰

[@HitesMites]

Why did these two bother getting married?

[@aldajesus1648]

Blessings to this couple everyone goes through ups and downs and that’s life what ever happens that’s between them blessings and love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@mjg8134]

Honestly who thought it would last?

[@cynthiaamitrano8915]

This lady should embrace her blessed singularity. Fourth marriage allegedly in trouble. Clearly it’s not your strong suit. Be happy with yourself. Make better choices. This is advice for just about anyone including myself.

[@Worldpeace353]

Listen up J LOW you suckered Ben into a wrongful life. He belongs with His Children! You are sooo Low!

[@JeffreyMaldonado-mi8ne]

WATH JENNIFER LOPEZ HAVE TO DO IS, START TO PUT HER LIFE TOGETHER AND STOP DOING WATH SHE BEING DOING, CHANGE OF MAN MORE THAN SHE CHANGE HER UNDERWEAR, AND STOP PLAYN WITH THE MAN'S FILLING, DON'T FORGET THAT SHE HAVE CHILDREN'S AND SHE DON'T WANT ANYBODY PLAYN WITH HER DAUGHTER OR HER SON FlLLINGS, REMEMBER THAT!!😡🤬

[@Senoritagata-nu5te]

The heart is deceitful above all things & desperately wicked. Stop following your heart. It will never work

[@monichat]

Violet needs new and more tasteful glasses please

[@TigerLilly-qz1ff]

His kids and ex dress like farmers u don’t have to spend 80K on a bag 💼 I’m sure she can find cute clothes for them kids somewhere

[@bevfromnc6607]

​@@TigerLilly-qz1ffYou sho' told the truth on that one!

[@Ariana-sc5id]

Her jigg is finally up 😂

[@janetbishop9713]

For sure!

[@Teresa-ob7oe]

Never let a man dump you twice. He apparently wants to be with his first wife his kids and family. Jlo old with no self-respect or dignity. Mark Anthony's first wife is probably 😂, saying karma b

[@bevfromnc6607]

Exactly! JLo took Marc Anthony and ruined THAT marriage, then she cries the blues and wants sympathy when her marriage to Marc falls apart!

[@fammamjam]

The more money she loses, the easier it is to choose family.

[@chichifierce4480]

the milli vanilli story never told

[@barb6868]

LOL

[@alchemicalsoul]

💀💀

[@beverlystanford3822]

Jlo is a humble quiet teacher, if she tells us NO...we will pout, shout and demand..but her love is so deep for us that she revisted something beautiful and painful for her and us..She just taught us that. A love song is like a night or season of immeasurable love and bliss with someone incredible.. but when we descend from the soar and come back to earth we have to do real life. Which is family, kids, work, lies gossip reputations, careers, movies, bills,expenses and real live problems like the rest of the humans...If we could live on vacation on live in the bed it would be heaven.mbutbwe have to get up, get along and deal with the new realities of Today's Society.

[@marisollabrie8358]

Wish them blessings...they love each other and hopefully find a solution for their issues...

[@legitimatenature7278]

The situation appears bleak for Jlo, and it is unjust that she has to endure this alone. The primary narcissist in this marriage is Ben, her husband. Ben realized he did not want to be with Jennifer just one week into their marriage. It seemed as though he had suddenly woken up from a deep alcoholic stupor, looking bewildered as he stared at Jlo with a distant expression, questioning if it was April 2022. His friends were in his situation then, as they are now, constantly in his ear, ensuring he does not backtrack on his decision to leave the marriage with Jlo. Imagine the turmoil Jlo must have been facing behind closed doors after just one week of marital happiness with the man she loved. Unaware of Ben's intentions, she endured 22 months of him belittling her and displaying contempt through his sour facial expressions. His gestures and kisses indicated a lack of genuine affection, while his actions, such as fussing, pointing fingers, and slamming car doors in anger, painted a picture of an irate individual. Although not confirmed, his constant angry demeanor in public kept the paparazzi busy, disseminating information to social media and news outlets kept their marriage top headline.. I believe Jennifer has communicated her feelings to Ben regarding his actions thats leading to the end of their marriage, but it seems he remains indifferent. A successful relationship requires effort from both parties, yet Ben seems to lack empathy towards Jennifer and portrays himself as the victim. Ben himself admitted to being in a confused state of mind when he married Jennifer, and instead of seeking to salvage their relationship through communication, he chose to walk away with the encouragement of his friends and ex. This has undoubtedly put Jennifer through a challenging time. Despite the hardships, I hope Jennifer continues to hold onto her values, self-worth, and strength as a woman. While she is intelligent and independent, the current situation may be causing her more pain than the movie she starred in, "The Greatest Love Story Never Told," which depicted her love for Ben in a more positive and stronger the second time around. The reality unfolding now, however, is far from a fairy tale, and Jennifer may feel like she is trapped in a true to life bad movie of the strong love she had for a man that could not returned her love. However, It is important for Jlo to work on herself and be thankful to God that she have kids to love, nuture and protect. She need to forget about getting a man and put priorities where they belong and concentrate on the love of her children. She can still Keep her faith in love, as there is still hope for her in the future.

[@wachukimani5062]

Jlo seems to have gone on many profiteering exploits at their relationships expense. Movie, documentary, tour bla bla

[@TuesdayTime]

They Love each other- But, they are both very strong, busy personalities!!..

[@rococochocolate479]

Don’t care

[@b.b170]

Why you are here?

[@rococochocolate479]

@@b.b170 it my phone Kmt

[@sonicwoofer2008]

Starting to realize this woman is not true to herself

[@brendaniebel1355]

Drama!!!!!😢😢

[@janetbishop9713]

They are adults, they'll be okay! Ben just needs ALOT of fresh air. She smothers him.

[@catrinahartz944]

Awww, putting up a front for social media😂

[@rightthewrong6050]

He knows her story, but does she know his. I keep hearing me, me, me… It’s not just about her. ♥️

[@pintados3041]

Surely Ben is ambivalent again about his feelings of the two women. He is acting like this because he knew the other one is willing to accept him. Duuh! Do not play with Marriage like a Fairytale that Jlo had sacrificed and thought about it for so long for him to act like he doesn't want it.

[@tishgarcia2833]

Those damn Dunkin commercials killed it for her

[@isol]

We will find out soon who she loves more, Ben or her public life.

[@ruthknolla2674]

They all look miserable! Sad

[@beverlystanford3822]

.💕💕Everytime we hear her song we will understand that just like her beautiful fragrances, and condensation..they both will linger a while but also can slowly disappear in time. Like a Hot passionate love 💕💕

[@beverlystanford3822]

We get it. . it was a beautiful song and a beautiful poem about a beautiful moment but all of it was not beautiful..she just humbly and beautifully moves on and never submerges us or herself in the pains that she feels..she just hops right into something more beautiful and moves on with love and life as should we..❤❤❤❤I so much Ben & Jen.

[@bevfromnc6607]

She actually made a FOOL out of herself on so many levels!

[@geneziogenezio3299]

DO YOU UNDERSTAND WHEN SOMEONE HAS THE NEED TO REAFFIRM THEMSELVES ALL THE TIME 24/7/365?(ANNOYING)! IN PSYCHOLOGY THIS HAS A NAME = INSECURITY AND LOW SELF ESTEEM.

[@equalityreigns8578]

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck showng they have no spines.

[@hopemanley4358]

Timeless and great talent personified in these two wonderful actors.

[@jaygoodman384]

Diddy will take J-Lo back🤣

[@Canuck_Gal]

Super disappointing. It won't last. He should have never left Jennifer Garner. Ughhh...

[@janetbishop9713]

Ya think? 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

[@geneziogenezio3299]

AGAIN??? OMG!!! WHO CARES???WE HAVE MORE IMPORTANT THING TO THINK ABOUT.

[@janetbishop9713]

Well, get off the toilet and go sit on the porch swing and think!

[@niceplayground]

Love Ben! And Jen should give him some peace instead of all this self centered drama

[@tleemf6923]

Ummmm ,just read anither article saying his baby mama Jen ,is taking him back 😂

[@shanecavanagh7060]

Leave them alone sounds like the media is trying to pick them up

[@user-mg6vx9fy3e]

Both nice people but j lo is very social media attention seeking, gen has had alcohol issues,suffers anxiety, depression, he doesn't like attention on him so it's an odd match up,hope they work it out

[@SheWontStop]

He looks fresh and actually happy!!

[@lisesoly1621]

He seems so cranky. Maybe she should be with a more upbeat person

[@janetbishop9713]

They all leave her feeling cranky. They do get better when they get out on their own again tho. 😊

[@driversseat1707]

Ben looks miserable

[@e-visuals3420]

Look Ben definitely has a type in the women he picked to marry 💯🤔 accountability

[@milenakalezic]

Can someone explain why there is so much recent backlash concerning J. Lo in the media? I haven’t been following!

[@yasminah6823]

it started on Tiktok. A clip from her documentary went viral and then people from her hometown went on Tiktok to expose her for faking so much of her story. It just went downhill from there.

[@Sandywarhol645]

Is the jlo phase finally almost over?! I’ve been waiting a couple decades for it 😂. Poor Ben.

[@BWT599]

Ben Afleck...if you know you know...(Bodega remix)

[@JenJ2023]

Ok, immediately no on the black hat and that...shirt?...and skirt situation

[@jackieonate3439]

Ben is more stable but jlo needs prayers she is so unstable. She is great in her career but horrible in her relationship or in this case relationships

[@igorschmidlapp6987]

New headline: "Ben screws up again!" LMFAO.... is there a pic of THIS nanny?

[@janetbishop9713]

🤪 the old "nanny gate story!"

[@manamonajemi171]

Oh god what are we to do with all these failed projects and products !!!!

[@crisb-c3083]

I can never imagine myself being with someone that divorced and has a family. I would live with shame, guiltiness, and regret. I don’t even think anyone is even fully happy knowing they are part of this. I wouldn’t even be able to sleep at night. This is just my opinion. Not one time have I seen both of them happy together in public or anywhere. Now my question to Jennifer is: Why?

[@janetbishop9713]

Crisb-c3083 Have you ever heard of "Elizabeth Taylor & Richard Burton?" Jennifer & Ben mirror them pretty well. Their story ended rather ugly. Ben, leave & save yourself. Jlo will find another!

[@janetbishop9713]

She's a narcissist! # noun: a person who has excessive admiration for themselves. Sound familiar? Jlow...

[@FactsArentFeelings]

She's controlling, and he's an estp.

[@peaceandlove544]

I like them both, but he has issues and she is toooooo active and tooo busy and tooo visible

[@JosiahCulley]

Theres is a fake relationship

[@millanahorner3942]

Wow, I did not even recognize her here. What the heck…..

[@janetbishop9713]

"Father time" and "PDiddy's crime" She's scared... real scared. The Feds don't play!

[@monique363]

I don’t mean no bad intentions- maybe Ben is gay.

[@mone4910]

Predictable dribble

[@user-nh5kj7is7t]

Why is she walking w her head down ,?to Bens kid grad?🤔

[@Awalkwithbella]

Oh boy, when they thenselves announce their split ill believe it till then meh

[@terrymalabanan1724]

Not really they got married after 20 years...😊

[@carolsarmag]

I hope they are still going stron

[@beverlystanford3822]

Jlo just taught me that a album or CD is a collection of photo shots from a year or 3 of incredible moments. Each picture pulls out a song or lesson of life love and expression some photos draw out or pistivities, distance, with wisdoms of knowledge. We cannot freeze the world and stay in those lessons but we can share them, hold on to them, share them with others and soar to greater discoveries...Jlo has grown up and she has taken us with her.

[@kellypagan8726]

You ain’t getting jack

[@JosiahCulley]

Im from taxachussets also

[@candycandy4254]

Jlo y Ben son adorables juntos ...que viva el amor 💘 💕 ❤️ 💖

[@VIDA7773e]

Eles vão ser felizes juntos ❤

[@janetbishop9713]

No... Vida, I think they're out of gas! 🤷‍♀️ 🥀

[@brendarudman8806]

"Pabi.."? So silly Trying to sound Spanish😂

[@iwdws]

💜 Janet Jackson

[@celina8590]

No offence but his oldest daughter is nothing to look at.

[@user-sh6wp3zp3z]

Cringe with her "papi"😅

[@RaulGuzman-jo3nr]

Really ask her that jlo

[@RaulGuzman-jo3nr]

How come jlo always talk shit in her songs lol 😆

[@sherrykelley741]

I hope it works out!!

[@Son-of-Krypton]

If it didn’t work out the first time. It will never work out between couples 🙄

[@bettyekey3781]

Me, too. I am trying to be positive about their relationship, this time, especially for them and their children. Just have to wait and see what happens, y'all. If it's meant to be, it will work out. Only god knows.

[@jjhbjhbhjgjhgfjhghjg]

I hate both of them !

[@judydyer9592]

Don’t give up on each other You are a beautiful couple ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@bettyekey3781]

I agree with you. And I hope that they don't. It's up to them to make that decision, though. Let's hope that they do. I love them as a couple, too, just like you. I think there's still love there, as well, between them.

[@janetbishop9713]

​@@bettyekey3781 And always look so happy don't they? When they're out in public she looks so desperate to make people think they're so happy. Then you look at Ben and he's wanting to run out the nearest door. 🏃🏻‍➡️. 🚪 She can fake it. He can't or won't. I feel sorry for Jlo's twins. At least Ben's kids get to live with J. Garner.

[@giancarloschamorro6602]

I feel sad.😥😥😥

[@user-ie8bz7jz2r]

The same critics that are talking trash about J lo and Ben said Justin Bieber and his wife were also going to divorce. They're actually expecting a baby and she's several months along. Shows what you people know, zilch.

[@jquintanilla9158]

I hope they make it!!! Hang in there! Love this couple...yes, follow your heart! Wishing them happiness!❤

[@janetbishop9713]

What about their kids? Especially Jlo's. Ben's kids have a great Mom, Jennifer Garner. Jlo's twins always look so sad. She wanted them to go in tour with her. They didn't want to go! Now her concerts have been shut down due to low ticket sales. She needs to hang her career up and take care of her twins. There are some 🚩🚩🚩 coming. An ugly trial with Diddy will expose a lot of things. I really feel bad for her twins!😢

[@judydyer9592]

You both are stronger than this Please don’t walk away You both and the kiddos are so beautiful together Jennifer I’m proud of you taken time off for you and your family ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@barb6868]

Judy, she cancelled her tour because of low ticket sales.

[@alchemicalsoul]

Twin flames fo sho. IYKYK

[@PeggyBarg]

Menopause

[@barb6868]

Well, every woman goes through it.

[@janetbishop9713]

Menopause is the least of her problems right now. Her marriage is shaky to say the very least, if not over. Her concerts are canceled. She's looking at some horrific and bad problems with PDiddy's trial coming soon. She just needs to get out of the spotlight. Her career is damaged & done. She had a good run... time to drop the microphone and walk away.🚶‍♀️‍➡️ 🚶‍♀️‍➡️

[@monichat]

Jennifer Lopez looks sad these days -I feel bad for her -