Entitled 30 Year Old Loser Gets A HUGE Reality Check...

He desperately needed it, too.
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[@wpalmer1723]

The problem is not that he lives with his parents. The problem is his attitude and not contribute anything.

[@s_oba]

Yeah, it’s acceptable when you actually support your family

[@brickbraker5033]

@@s_oba yeah , many cultures support people living with other family , but this has exploded since the housing crisis and stuff , dont understand how he can act like this and not do any work to help his own family

[@Klako-ls6yt]

If you live with your parents, but you've got a job and you're not freeloading off of them, that's completely fine. In fact, I think that should be normalized more. It's a lot cheaper than renting, so you can save up a lot more if you do. I personally lived with my parents until I was 25, at which point I had saved enough to buy a house.

[@choccocker]

​@@Klako-ls6ytthank you. Only truth was said here, in all honesty. It's not only a statement, but also a solution.

[@markmagician2471]

I live at home I work a job and I help take care the place

[@CaptainB1994]

Up until about 2 years ago I had literally zero choice but to live with my dad and I was eternally grateful for him putting a roof over my head.

[@CaptainB1994]

I should clarify, my mum and dad split up when I was 12 and my mother basically forced me to live with her and her new fella from 12 up until 18 when the child benefits she could claim because of me living with her ran out, when they did, she basically reduced my life to a few bin bags and dumped me on my dad's doorstep and if it wasn't for him, I honestly don't know if I'd even be alive today, all I had to do whilst living with my dad was pay a few bills and pay him a bit of money for rent and on occasion cook our dinner, other than those things, as long as it was legal and he knew roughly what I'd be doing who I was going to be with and roughly what time I'd be back, my dad didn't give a rat's a$$ what I did, whereas my mother was the exact opposite, she had to know exact details on EVERYTHING, an don top of that I always had to be home at precise times or else, but with my dad as long as he had a rough idea of when I'd be home he was alright, oh and with my mother she'd only allow me to do things that she approved of, I'd ask her "Can I go to X?" and she'd 99% of the time say no, it was a f***ing miracle that she said I could go on a trip to Berlin with college. Living with my mother made me want to game end myself constantly, now I'll admit I did have the odd argument with my dad but they were way less frequent and resolved way quicker and quieter than those with my mother. It's been nearly 2 years since my dad passed away and I miss him everyday and I'll once again say I will forever be grateful for him giving me a roof over my head when I was at my lowest

[@mechboltxl4591]

Dude houses are so expensive. I have no choice but to live with my parents. I don't want to rent an apartment because I would be burning money.

[@CaptainB1994]

@@mechboltxl4591 I'm very lucky that my brother was able to find me a place only a few months after my dad passed away and was able to speak with the relevant authorities to make it so that I LEGALLY don't have to pay any rent and next to no council tax (the UK equivalent of the US's Property Tax).

[@MG-hi9sh]

​@CaptainB1994 Yeah, good thing he put the roof over your head. It wouldn't have been much use under your head tbh.

[@CaptainB1994]

@@MG-hi9sh haha 😂😂😂

[@iamnoahtg]

I don't think there's inherently anything wrong with living with your parents as an adult. Nowadays, it's a sensible play, financially. But that doesn't mean mooching off of them- that means helping out the family unit and being grateful for what you have.

[@skull_killa_3606]

I’m 25 and I stay at home & pay 500-600 a month cause I still got loans to pay but at least I have a good job. I wish I could move out but the economy sucks butts rn

[@iamnoahtg]

@skull_killa_3606 I'm a year older, still in school, and going through a bit of a career shift as well, so I'm grateful to have the support system I do at home. I don't pay a set amount of rent per se, but I pitch in for expenses and running errands that everyone else lacks time for

[@avocatobigpp4249]

Also it's just nice to be around family,in foreign cultures it's normal to live with your parents,cousin,aunts,uncles,in laws

[@dreamsdeep1076]

@@avocatobigpp4249how can you explain that to your GF?

[@iamnoahtg]

@@BlackLivesMatter1414 I started right out of high school, then spent an extra semester at my two year community college. Then transfered to a four year school that didn't have equivalents for about 80% of my credits. Basically had to restart my freshman year 🙃 Then I took some time off during the pandemic to focus on work (it was NOT a good time to be a student), now I'm trying to slowly finish up my credits while also doing some certification study outside of that. Honestly in retrospect I feel like I could have stopped at my associates degree, but considering how close I am to finishing my bachelors it feels silly to not do so.

[@pabcu2507]

How much you wanna bet that he’s a moderator?

[@skuncky]

"10" -patrick star

[@blakhawk999]

He's a reddit admin

[@liampetersen4853]

20 discord moderator

[@sethisevilone02]

def discord mod

[@kingmasterfilip2965]

Moderator, he a reddit admin

[@scrubyt2668]

I can't imagine how embarrassed the sister has to feel listening to her 30 year old brother cry about this

[@Pherioxus]

I think she's the one filming this because I hear a girly giggle behind the camera

[@aphrodite7194]

@@PherioxusI would be bawling. The guy is petty too. Bring out the black book.

[@Pherioxus]

@@aphrodite7194 Knowing myself I would've laughed at him in his face

[@zemorebuttes2437]

The depressing thing is that you know people like this actually live in this planet now I'm 16 right now the amount of times my mother told me to man the f**** up and contribute something of value

[@flyingpigmonkey1]

​@zemorebuttes2437 bruh forreal. My mom started charging me rent at 17.

[@ELcoyote576]

Better to live In a "Shoe Box" than In the streets. Rent Is getting out of hand.

[@flyingpastakitty]

Facts. It's cheaper to live with my mom and help pay rent and bills. In this economy, you need like 3-5 roommates along with 2-3 jobs and 15 side hustles to afford a place.(My dad isn't in the picture.)

[@MrRAGE-md5rj]

@@flyingpastakitty Godspeed. I hope you can find a way out of it.

[@flyingpastakitty]

@@MrRAGE-md5rj Hopefully once I finally become a respiratory therapist I'll make enough. It's not so bad though. I helped pay off the trailer we live in so we could be more financially stable.

[@xtc300mg]

@@flyingpastakitty if you live in a city the rent gets even worse living in urban apartments are much better than living in a city complex

[@matguimond92]

"Landlords" or slumlords as I call them are getting real scummy.

[@Noblesix84]

I'm with you Optimus. I hope I never have to live with my parents again, not because I hate my parents but because I want to be independent, but if I ever had to Id be grateful for whatever space they gave me.

[@wilfridekoue1405]

Same here I need to keep on saving enough money to move out and be independent

[@the_inquisitive_inquisitor]

It's a privilege to have it as an option, but it should never be your first choice. I moved back in with my parents when I was 30 so I could go back to school full time and not have to worry about rent. I just got a job on the other side of my state and my sister is letting me stay at her place until I can get an apartment. In both cases it's just a stepping stone to bigger and better things.

[@Asome3333e1]

Hopefully, if my plan works perfectly, I'll get a decent home if the market crashes, sell it for good money when the market inflates again, live with someone(even parents for a short time), then buy some good land and stuff to build a home when the market crashes again. But that's if it goes perfectly, which it isnt.

[@Wallychans]

We don’t know this persons personal situation. Granted, they do just seem like an entitled man child. However, some people live with their parents for good reasons. I lives with my parents til mid 30’s cuz my dad is handicap and the medical system and insurance in America does jack to help people like him with their basic needs. He could barely walk and was in constant pain. So I helped him get around cuz mom wasn’t capable. I really don’t like people caring so much about people’s personal life’s. Fact is, it’s none of our business. That said, he sounds like the guy who makes folks like myself seem like losers for living with their parents, making the stereotype ring true. If so, Shame on him. But again, none of our business really...

[@c.fyffe0]

That being said cherish your parents they won't be around forever and it's hard to seem them often depending on where you move too

[@Arejen03]

its not bad to live with parents at age 30+ , im 32 living with my mom, but i support her

[@Jon0387]

Same, I’m 36 and pay my mom’s mortgage and utilities. Plus I’m around when she had surgery and is recovering from ongoing health issues.

[@olliegoria]

Exactly. If you're gonna keep living with your parents, provide something for them. Not even mothers love a mooch.

[@Arejen03]

@@olliegoria yea u split the bills when neccesarry and help with work at home, but this guy in the vid is fully delusional

[@0uttaS1TE]

I'm 23 and I'm kinda at that point. It's not too bad. You earn your keep and you help out around the house. In exchange, you get another day with ma's dinners.

[@SunfishV]

Amen everyone, sometimes you just have to take care of the ones who took care of you, whether it be to medical, financial, or life just went bad. So long as you do your part supporting them there's nothing bad about it.

[@HoneyBadger1342]

I'm 23. I was forced to move out of my place due to losing my job and disagreements with my roommates(that was going on long before losing my job). My mother is kind enough to let me come back home and stay in my childhood room. I spend every day looking for a job that pays well enough for me to live on my own. Whenever I'm asked to do something, I do it without question. I do whatever I can for her and plan to pay her back when I move out. So to see this guy be so entitled is astonishing to me

[@dwex8596]

its the parents fault, For example im a loser and suicidal and my parents dont even do anything about it. They don't teach me anything and than blame someoneelse, Its parents fault end off they schould maybe teach their child something

[@angelpayano6813]

You are going yo make her proud mate. Whoever you are, I will be cheering for you! Keep working hard.

[@usacycling5949]

Ok guys idc if they are living with family in there 30's, 40's, whatever age you can always live with family, its a culture thing to save money and live a happy life with family. But stay respectful

[@yulee3266]

Exactly I agree with this

[@Archdornan9001]

It's quite common in some Asian and Hispanic countries.

[@jakubbercik6965]

​@@Archdornan9001most*

[@waldenbenjamin5393]

Especially in the Caribbean, too. At least be grateful for having a place to stay or something.

[@NateT092]

true but being at that age and barely contribute if not at all is pathetic....just accept given somewhere to stay at least which they did offer (after downsizing to new place since parents are making less money) just whiney entitled 30 year old man not gettin his way...

[@GxGNoir]

British people arguing sounds so funny

[@AlexanderJoneshttps]

Can confirm

[@jagzey]

Im british and its just soo funny, ‘what for a shoebox’ sent me

[@AlexanderJoneshttps]

@@jagzey I agree with there and me too I still live with my parents at 30 yrs old but I'm satisfied as I'm stuggling but I don't mind paying rent I do want to move out when house prices ever go down but that's very lightly

[@SegaDisneyUniverse]

I'm sorry, but for some reason their accent annoys me after listening to them talk for an extended period of time.

[@therealjaystone2344]

@@SegaDisneyUniversewhat do expect in British?

[@Marauder623]

28 years old and can't afford to move out, I would never even dream about talking to my mum and dad like that! This man is disgusting.

[@cecejamesable]

I'd rather swim across a freezing lake in the dead of winter before talking to my mom in any sort of way like this man in the video did to his parents.

[@Ivan-yq9rc]

bro, they aren't from the US. Europe has lower wages and higher unemployment rates than the US. Its actually pretty normal to not be able to live on your own

[@MrBraddles3128]

I wouldn't stress, I only moved out of my Mum's house last year at 28 years old and the only reason I was able to do it was because I moved in with my partner and we got an extra boarder. Unless you're in the U.S., with the way the housing market is today, you'll most likely never be able to afford renting on your own, let alone buying a house.

[@professr9343]

Get your own pad . Best thing

[@MrBraddles3128]

@@professr9343 It's not that easy.

[@ComposedSage75]

30 y/o and the entitlement and childish behavior is despicable. He’s fortunate that his parents even allowed him to stay with him cuz most people would’ve been on their own already.

[@Christopher-qq4dl]

😅

[@SISKCERTWaJaVlogs]

yeah some families kick their kid out at 18

[@vanillapinkfluff3477]

Yes exactly. What angers me the most is, what are these adult children going to do when their parents are too old or died and cannot keep helping them out?

[@Elemenace]

It's perfectly ok to live with parents as long as you do your part and at least get some income and help out your parents paying bills. If you don't believe me, ask anyone in a majority hispanic neighborhood.

[@lssjvegeta7103]

or if you're physically/mentally disabled severely enough you are unfit to support yourself

[@RstGamingReviews]

I'm not sure being hispanic has anything to do with this.

[@honkhonk5181]

As long as you aren’t being a parasite on them in any other way and are paying for all you own stuff, you shouldn’t have to pay rent. Imagine bringing an innocent soul into this messed up cl ow n world where they have an ungodly amount of pressure weighing down on them every second of every day then not even provide him with a girlfriend and charge him for just being alive. That’s what’s really disgusting and reprehensible.

[@commandercameron9189]

@@RstGamingReviewsplenty of non American households live with their extended family far into adulthood

[@RstGamingReviews]

@@commandercameron9189 I'm just saying. I don't go around parenting everyone telling them what to eat, where to live. If I spent my time bantering about everything wrong with everyone elses living situation /arrangements I probably wouldn't get much else done. People are too much about that clickbait life.

[@KotalTotal]

I'm 21 and hope to god I don't end up like that guy.

[@MetaLord395]

Same. Except I'm turning 27. :(

[@wizardfucker8999]

yeahh, i'm 16. i'd rather be dead than end up like that. next year, i'm going to start to try and get my own job (i already have some experience being my mom's office assistant). it's a massive step though, so i'm kinda nervous. but again, better to try than end up like this dude.

[@stickmansam6022]

​@dualiekidd Wishing you the best of luck man. I'm 19 and currently going to school, but I stay with my parents whenever the dorms are closed. I hope to have more independence in the future and not be like this guy.

[@Pharo88]

First jobs always feel weird dude your good. Just dont try to give 200% percent to try and stand out or fit in, you'll get burned out quickly. My first job was a call center, the work ethic is disgusting. Work too hard you actually feel depressed and start to HATE the job.

[@IceMMAnnn]

if you feel like that youll def not gonna end up like him

[@CutzMcOnions]

mf has the audacity to demand more from the people that's been giving him everything for 30 years.

[@honkhonk5181]

Been giving him everything? What about the most important thing, you know, a girlfriend? The one thing that could actually fix him.

[@CutzMcOnions]

@@honkhonk5181 theyre not in alabama, honk.

[@AquaAustic]

​@@honkhonk5181if u rely on ur parents to give u a girlfriend you need to rethink your whole life bro

[@xenuk5398]

@@honkhonk5181a girlfriend would never fix him simply put romantic relationships arent a fix they are simply distraction from problems he needs to deal with like being a loser

[@arthas640]

it's insane. Even before i was 18 i kicked in. As a child i did chores and helped out even working a bit in my dads business doing things like cleaning, answering phones, doing odd jobs, and helping him with paperwork and as soon as i turned 15 i worked part time and kicked in to help pay the bills. I was helping with bills before i even had a learners permit. That house looks brand new judging by the carpet and railing so even if it is a "shoebox" it looks like a nice "shoebox".

[@keeysOST]

Unfortunately a lot of us will be forced to live with our parents for who knows how long. I can't understand how you're an adult and tree your parents like this after they let you stay with them. I'm constantly doing things around the house to not feel like a disappointment to them.

[@thenightwatchman1598]

that's not based on reason or even love for that matter. thats based on an irrational sense of indebtedness. you know, co-dependency!!

[@goofynigga8456]

​@@thenightwatchman1598nah bro tht just u. I moved out sense 22 y.o. get a one room for 400 to 700 dollar or do a roommate. There uber, lyft. There no excuse. U will struggle hey tht reality.

[@unicorntomboy9736]

​@@thenightwatchman1598 So you're saying that shouldn't help around the house?

[@52andattitude48]

@@thenightwatchman1598It’s codependent to be helpful around the house you’re living rent-free in? Woah

[@arthas640]

estimates vary but in the US nearly half of Gen Z and millenials live with their parents. Where I live housing prices nearly tripled from the 2000s to mid 2010s and rent prices arent much different while wages have barely kept pace with inflation. I still cant imagine not kicking in for rent or anything like that though.

[@TheSkarletKardinalSwoopsIn]

If you ever hate yourself, just know you're not this ungrateful loser. I'm 23, currently in college, and still living with my parents because, even if I wanted to, I couldn't afford to get my own place to live at the moment, and I feel happy simply because of the fact that I have a roof over my head. That guy really needs to realize he's lucky to be living in a "shoe box" like that instead of being homeless.

[@SegaDisneyUniverse]

As someone who is currently 30 years old and still lives at home, this was embarrassing. That guy is so entitled, and should be lucky that his parents even let him stay. Reason I still live at home because cost of living is atrocious right now, and I don't exactly make all that much money, on top of there not being many good paying jobs in my area. But the little money I get I help pay for rent and utilities. And my room is tiny. But I for dang sure don't complain, it's better than living in the streets! But...I also know there are some personal things that I need to work on for myself so I can afford to have my own place.

[@conbro0985]

30 should be the age where people are raising families and already moved out, sad how so many have been robbed of their future.

[@junbinseo2978]

@@conbro0985 maybe in the western world, but in my country. We usually go back if not don't move out at all. We get a job and even bring our fiancee or wife to the family house and take care of parents (Usually husband) until they pass away. It's why most asian families still have their grandmas or grandpas living with them is because of this reason.

[@jankaufmann4305]

@@junbinseo2978 Not even there. Birth rates are dropping fast in every developed country.

[@H3NRY121]

hearing things like this make me feel ashame of my existance, almost being 30 and living with my mom because of circumstances but even with those it hits me everyday

[@murderman8578]

You can't control circumstances like Rent and job

[@H3NRY121]

@@murderman8578 couldnt agree more

[@elianimationgames1327]

Hey Henry I hope you get a job a wife a house and a happy life soon bc you most likely will do good in life, don’t feel bad about circumstances!

[@murderman8578]

@@elianimationgames1327 a wife is impossible

[@steveharveysmustache3988]

Hey man nothing to be ashamed of. Rent is crazy right now for even a small apartment and buying a house as a young adult is pretty much out of the question. America is one of those countries that has a stigma against staying with your parents past a certain age but in other countries it’s very common even in first world countries

[@cuberlandfarms]

My only brother, who is 41 years old. Acts like this. Thinks the world owes him everything for merely existing.

[@IsThatKris]

@@BlackLivesMatter1414way too late for that Bruh.

[@junbinseo2978]

@@BlackLivesMatter1414 Yeah send him to a remote village in a south east asian country to learn how to be humble. My aunt did this to her eldest son. Came back a couple years later, all humble and pretty appreciative about everything. Completely different person for the better.

[@trajan74]

Well, he didn't ask to be here. Someone created him and handed him an assload of responsibilities, expectations, and requirements and expected him to be grateful for the gift of life.

[@dantelawn8410]

bro i swear my brother is on his way to be like this guy, it’s insane how genuinely delusional and entitled he is

[@fzndn-xvii]

Keep us posted bro

[@Deniz55995]

Take him to a Boxing Club

[@drpluto4327]

Hit him with reality

[@the_inquisitive_inquisitor]

I'm in my 30s and I'm about to move in with my sister for a month or two because I got a new job 20 minutes away from her place (2.5 hour drive from my current place). There's no shame in living with your family *for a while,* as long as it's only for a while.

[@the_inquisitive_inquisitor]

@@tiniest.baby.froggy What's to complain about? Free room and board while I get my finances together. She's stoked about it too because she'll have a live-in babysitter/home chef (I've been working in restaurants for the last 10 years).

[@the_inquisitive_inquisitor]

@EIKaka1 No, full time production welder. It should only take a month or two to save up enough money to get an apartment.

[@murderman8578]

​@@the_inquisitive_inquisitorI bet she'll be grateful for a free babysitter and Cook

[@iiCounted-op5jx]

@@tiniest.baby.froggy ur pfp is making me hungry for frootloops

[@Archdornan9001]

I still live at home but im not a whiny little brat like this guy (plus i pay for groceries, my own gas and bills, and i help with house work). My room is a bit bigger than an average prison cell but im content.

[@GoofyPoptart]

Dude Im still home, 27 here and yeah Im a little embarressed but at the same time I know Im not a loser. I have a full time Job, a car I pay my phone and donate toward Electric and Water I do what you mentioned "help out" I said I was a little embarressed but in the end I know I contribute to society as Im sure you do as well.

[@GoofyPoptart]

If you have a good bond with Mom and Dad I don't see an Issue but...im def leaving soon cause for my own sanity I just can't be like 29 or something and still be here haha.

[@y0shikagej0estarb0wie6]

@@GoofyPoptart I respect tf outta that homie, parents are irreplaceable and I love mine to death, im currently 19 and living with them, luckily im attending college and i got a full time gig for now so im not a total loser, and im paying them bills with my older bro

[@MrLeerolljankins]

@@GoofyPoptarteerily enough I’m turning 30 this year I luckily moved out when I was 26 with my best friend who tragically died the year after I moved out so ended up moving back in with my mom and moved out with another good friend I met till I could afford to get my own place and now that I have it’s weird how my mom is constantly trying to get me to come over all the time even though I finally have my own place it’s honestly kinda of annoying to me cuz I really just don’t want to come back around that often

[@kileak6]

I'm 24 years old and I still live in my childhood bedroom, the difference between me and him is that I'm grateful for what I have and I don't try to bully people for more stuff and I help my family when they need it

[@vegetashairline3060]

Yeah I'm 26 and live at my mom's house, but it isn't what it sounds like. My mom can't work anymore, and she was already taking care of my autistic brother. So I moved back in to help with bills and food, while also going to school. Now I'm 1 year away from getting an accounting degree. I work 2 jobs, have a wonderdul girlfriend and my own car. But i would be lying if I didn't say it's a little embarrassing still.

[@kileak6]

@@vegetashairline3060 yeah I feel that completely, well good on you for being a man and taking care of things, you're probably doing a lot more with your life than I am, Keep On Keepin On

[@chickenpasta7359]

I understand where this guy is coming from with not having a job yet, since at 25 it still is tough for me, but I still try to give my parents some form of work whether its filling in for my dad at his store without taking pay or helping my mom get stuff and not complaining. I'm pretty sure this guy is lashing out because he's stressed and disappointed in himself, but he can't take it out on his parents who trying to help him.

[@SISKCERTWaJaVlogs]

interesting take

[@Jeannedarko1]

Yes he's embarrassed so he lashes out and at that point he really needs a reality check like me and some other people I'm sure

[@soldiergigas14]

Seeing stuff like this is saddening to watch. I am an English autistic person living in the UK where the cost of living crisis is a massive issue due to the incompetence of the UK government. i am 29 (soon to be 30 years old in December as i write this comment). I still live with my mum and dad and i pay contribution to the flat. I have a part time job as a catering assistant and i receive a form of disability welfare. With the help of my mum and dad, i have been actively looking for a small flat i can call home. I am deeply greatful because it has helped understand the value of having a family and working together. This 30 year old guy needs to wake up, let go of his ego, find a job (doesn't have to be full time or anything) and simply contribute and act as a family unit.

[@NewsToAstonish]

That British accent impression, Optimus. 😂 “It’s ok, mum. Don’t be daft!” 💀

[@0uttaS1TE]

Sounds more Scottish than anything, but I'm probably completely off

[@ZapperRS]

Is he a Reddit/Discord moderator? Wouldn't surprise me if that's true

[@steventalvinzvestal420]

This is why we need to lower our rent prices and teach people how to pay taxes and even learn to drive, cook and buy stuff on our own.

[@sasuke921231]

Thank you!!!!!

[@Donteatmossimsensitive]

Imagine being 30 and giving a 17 year old a hard time to try and guilt your parents despite LITERALLY BEING TWICE HER AGE

[@Sconechoc]

what about equality?

[@loganwolverine5849]

17+17=34. You were close…

[@Sconechoc]

@@TheKing-kd1rn they can make decisions.

[@swiftcartier6970]

@@Sconechocnever cook again

[@juancarrillo5677]

That’s crazy… My girlfriend got kicked out at 16 years old and moved in with me at the time we had a difficult time with my Mom and Dad who also left us when we’re both still in highschool. I’m 19 and she’s 18 now. We’ve been living alone for 2 years now. And people have parents like these who even after him being 30 they are still just trying to tell him to pay some rent, it’s not like he is being evicted and renting the room out.

[@Jeannedarko1]

Ayo thats's actually beautiful, hoping for you guys's success

[@csargent31]

As a 34 yr old still living at home, i especially felt embarrassed about that fact after hearing that 30 yr old blowhard brit whining about how his living space wasn't good enough for him. I am unemployed at the moment, but i have supported my mom in helping her get ready for work, do housework, and take care of 2 dogs and a cat while working on getting another pharmacy tech job. And i can't blame it on family members dying or covid19, because i know that I am the reason why i haven't got it together.

[@professr9343]

Man your definitely behind 😳

[@junbinseo2978]

@@professr9343 It's fine, if you're actually doing something in the house to help out, that's great. Maybe he's confused in life, a lot of people either move out and become "bums" (Moving house to house if not project to project) and never finding any work or you have people who never left home at all. Just make sure to work hard to finding a job, you can always volunteer to get "work experience"

[@CoffeeCrowgasm]

The dad "we can't afford to keep you!" That got me laughing 🤣🤣

[@razorbelieves7603]

I strive not to end up like him

[@marcusmeins1839]

If you are 18 , do not let your parents overprotect you .

[@StephenP93]

Don't let them over protect you ever. Helicopter parents try that forever. Trust me, I come from experience 😢

[@marcusmeins1839]

@@StephenP93 it is necessary to escape if the situation gets worse.

[@subwaymanYT]

Facts and I'm in college too. At least I'm more grateful than this 30 year old loser.

[@coolchester4703]

I seen the entitlement in kids at a young age especially in the youngest siblings. If you don’t start teaching kids responsibility when they are younger they will learn to depend and resent you. Not saying he isn’t to blame, just saying that blame can be shared.

[@ZerodragYT]

I can fully understand the parents' point of view. The cost of living in the UK is a complete nightmare and theyve had to make some tough decisions that involve moving into a smaller property to make ends meet. Unfortunately their son doesnt realise this and has failed to adapt to having responsibility in his life. A small room and a roof over your head is better than having nothing.

[@KingFroglet]

There i imagine is an argument for both sides loser is 30 but also they are the ones who made him like this by giving him everything

[@giantclaw138]

Yeah, it's really sad

[@jessieis]

I had the same opinion. Like, what was he doing while he was living at home for so long? Did the parents just let him do whatever and not push him to do anything?

[@reyis_here945]

I'll admit to this because it's true, I'm a caretaker for my mentally disabled bother, I do have to stay over at my parents house to help care of him, the reason I write this is say that life isn't so simple for everyone, unlike the person in this video of course

[@sdfxcvblank5756]

i moved in and cared for my mom when she had to have surgery, its different for alot of people

[@reyis_here945]

@@sdfxcvblank5756 it's still a position people are in, non the less

[@spacebuilder4d]

This video is giving me anxiety because I still live in my mother's house at 21, have not gone to college, and just work part time.

[@yulee3266]

That's fine as long as you help around the house and you and your parents are doing right by each other its all good.

[@sethisevilone02]

here some advise go full time and save every dime you have so by the time your 30 you can live on your own

[@MrTusk-em2qh]

I am in the situation: I would recommend go to trade school with your are not good at college. What I am doing is getting my CDL license

[@the_inquisitive_inquisitor]

@@MrTusk-em2qh I cannot possibly agree more! I just graduated with a welding degree and I'm starting my first *real* job on Monday (worked in restaurants from 19-30) . Ironically I moved in with my parents while I was in school and I'm staying with my sister until I have enough saved up to get an apartment. Welding jobs are popping off, my Indeed profile has been blowing up nonstop since I graduated.

[@spacebuilder4d]

@@MrTusk-em2qh I've been thinking about getting a forklift certification for a while now. Been thinking about learning how to work on cars as well so that I would have to pay for labor to have someone do it for me when I can do it myself.

[@shadowhearts7514]

I'm 31 this August, I had a hard 10 years of depression and my parents took care of me when they didn't need to. I am absolutely thankful they never gave up on me, I flipped my life around as a result and now I'm on my way to finally moving out soon on my own, thanks to my sister's and dad's help. I owe them so much. Thank you to them all.

[@QwertyS3]

Do you play Splatoon 3? I see that you have a Splatoon avatar

[@grumgi5486]

God I love my parents and they've flat out said I can stay until I can put down a down payment on a house, but I really can't do that to them. It's not in my financial interests to move out and rent beforehand, but I have 3 siblings they need to take care of too. I'll miss them a lot but once I'm working full time I can't let them take on my responsibilities anymore. This guy is a disgrace.

[@carrymycross6523]

As a parent and ex teacher, it's easier to start out stern and lighten up with kids, than the other way around. It's also super frustrating to hear that they had to downsize partially due to him, and he's crying about himself.

[@Tanya_Vu]

Alpha dad talking to his beta son, “Show her a good time for a change” 😂

[@ZombieSazza]

I’m a child abuse survivor and have no relationship with my mother, even if pushed I couldn’t stay with her as I wouldn’t feel safe, and this guy is so ungrateful, doesn’t realise how lucky he has it, yet he’s screeching at them and refuses to acknowledge he’s acting like a CHILD.

[@necromasker666]

I'm sorry to hear that. You're tough and managed to go thru a lot. You're stronger than ya think you are

[@bluestreaksthehedgehog.]

I'm 23 and i hope to god i never end up like that loser.

[@ghostcat8244]

I think I seen this before but there’s another Reddit story about a adult who didn’t wanna move out even though parents wanted them out. As someone who’s 28yrs old and been living with my mom i am highly grateful that I have a roof over my head and a bedroom that’s even if it’s not large enough least I got a bed. My mother would welcome me or my siblings back home. Edit: I would love to live on my own but it’s tuff to find a decent housing.

[@youreyesarebleeding1368]

Nothing wrong with living with your parents at that age, you just have to contribute to the house. I live with my parents which allows me to save and invest almost my entire salary. In exchange, I take care of the chores around the house and buy my parents an occasional gift. The goal is to make it more convenient for my parents to have me living here than to not. Pooling your resources with your family is the way to become rich.

[@whocares149]

When I heard that he had a seventeen year old sister my heart hurt for her. I have a 30 year old uncle who lives with me and my grandma who is his mother. I’m seventeen too and he probably says the same stuff about me. He’s lived with us for about four years now and has refused to get a job. He stomps around the house, slamming doors when my grandma and me are “being to loud” in her own living room. He punches walls too. He’s yelled at my grandma about how I make it miserable to live in the house. He’s thrown out my clothes and told be that he wished that my grandma never took care of me. He makes it miserable to live here, I’m constantly walking on eggshells counting the days where I can move out. While I’m writing this he actually just slammed a door. I hate him, I really hate this man more then he could ever hate me.

[@theirpathstosuccess]

He meets ALL the requirements of a lolcow. I wonder who recorded this and published it, possibly the infamous sister.

[@kyanoang3l0_old]

As a 31-year-old, I do feel ashamed for still living in my parents' home, even tho I'm recovering from a hellish near-fatal condition and I'm making an effort in achieving independence and building a future for myself, which's difficult esp. after spending my 20s thinking I won't reach 30 at all. After watching that viral vid, tho, not so much anymore. Besides the entitlement, I'm surprised by the fact that he has a girlfriend. Not sure how he achieved that, but unless this guy changes for the better, no way their relationship would end well.

[@Shawn6751]

You will need drive in order to have any hope.

[@ashremcow1908]

He has no girlfriend

[@burtonthegrape9217]

I'm turning 30 this year and I still live at home, not because of any laziness on my part but because of my disabilities, even I can be respectful and appreciate what my parents are doing for me, the fact he doesn't is really sad, they need to make him grow up

[@DarksideSleemo]

This is pathetic. I'm about to be 31 and I'm currently forced to live with my parents along with my girlfriend and 11 month old daughter. I'm eternally grateful to my parents for allowing us the opportunity to get back on our feet.

[@whoneedsfriends6091]

okay I'm 27 and live at home by choice due to wanting to help them financially, my mum not being well and her boyfriend working nights, I genuinely couldn't imagine being like this no job? no life? like what do you do? how do you buy the things you want? to be clear I am very lucky I make enough money to move out whenever I want but even still I'm grateful they let me stay.

[@Guywhocommentsrandomly]

I am 20 and live with my parents. They feed me and give everything I need such as clothes, water, and shelter, and I still go to work and college. Their understanding and grace and willingness to know im young and doing something makes me so privileged that I can have that and not deal with a hole roommates or the housing/ apartment market. This guy needs to find out what he’s here for or he’ll ruin his life and the people around him. Im gonna give them some appreciation now.

[@JamesFlux]

"a lass because he's british" and then puts on a irish accent ahahhahaahha that got me bro

[@PewPewBeets]

I live with my parents at 23 BUT I still work a full time job, I spend just about every single day off working on the house, and I pay at least half of the mortgage, in fact my name is on the deed. If the housing market was better I would probably be living in my own house.

[@Idlemage]

I finally left my folks home at 30. Both my folks getting hurt back to back and the pandemic made it hard to get out. I had an excuse but this guy...

[@tibedog5629]

It's been 18 years since I graduated high school and one of the guys I had been friends with still lives with his parents and still gets allowance I've had 6 jobs and been through the military since then This guy has had no jobs and still gets an allowance. Sometimes. I think "Man, I'm just. Doing it wrong." He has no mental illness, he has no physical disabilities. His parents just don't seem to care.

[@SirBanana1992]

30 here, still living with my mom, but I do have a job, pay for a lot of things at home and help out while my mom can't work and I have a little brother and sister with special needs I'm helping out with. I've been more of a father to them for many of their years before their actual dad picked up some slack (he's still not doing perfect but he's much better nowadays). But what scares me in this situation is that it looks like the typical setup of a family disaster news story in the making waiting to happen.

[@Kiwi_Emperor]

I'm 20 and I still live at home and seeing videos like this makes me want to do more so I can get out before it's too late.

[@MetaLord395]

I'm turning 27 soon and hope to get out before it's too late.

[@bluestreaksthehedgehog.]

for me i'm 23 and feeling the same man

[@remy3688]

I'm 25, but I make 15.50 and I don't think its enough to live on. Its honestly just really expensive to live by yourself now.

[@factoraavion2874]

I'm also 20 and I feel the same

[@nickstellavato409]

Don't feel like you're on a time limit. As long as you're doing what you can to help the house, whether it be performing general maintenence or just being a decent person to live with, you're not doing bad. Houses/apartments are hard to own/rent for most young adults in the economy today.

[@cementairbag5918]

Bruh my room is literally the size of an american prison cell. It's plenty of room for me rn... this simply makes me feel so much better about my 22yearold self

[@Archdornan9001]

Same

[@149mattyman]

I just really wonder how on earth did this guy get so far into his life without having a single job? When I was 22 I was absolutely depressed that I didn't have a job. I'll just say he's that kind of guy who does not count his blessings.

[@berniekatzroy]

I'm 31 and still live at home for different reasons than this guy. I have a job though with a great salary, no college debt, and still just figuring out life.

[@sylvianapalma958]

I'm 36 and still live with my parents due to being mentally unable to live on my own, but this dude seems to be capable of living on his own but is too lazy to do so. My parents have done a lot for me over the years and I'm very grateful for that.

[@SacrificAbominat]

As someone who still lives with their parents at 32 I'm grateful that they're willing to deal with me while I'm still trying to get my career off the ground. I also help them get their house in order, with their health issues, and don't complain too much about my current situation. I think it's a problem that a lot of people are still living with their parents right now, but the cost of living has shot up so high I'm not surprised people are doing that in order to save money. Granted I do think it needs to be a reciprocal agreement and not just mooching off them. You better be helping them out while you're living under their roof and don't treat them like dirt.

[@mrgotham3685]

This is a fear of mine. Not the living at home but settling and becoming entitled. I recently got a major surgery done on my hip right out of college and I’m gonna need another one right after my right side heals. I have to live at home for time being, but despite this I’ve been able to get a remote job that I can do while I recover. I worry a lot that I’m not doing enough for my family but I keep reminding myself that at least I’m doing something, and I’m making the most of what I’ve got right now. That’s all we can do!

[@J276]

I’m 27 and it scares me because I’m close to 30. I don’t want to imagine living with mom in the future and it’s not worth it. You’ll miss out a lot in life. You’ll miss a family you want to build, adventures, the experiences and more. So i got a planner and waking up from this is scary. It’s been 10 years since I was at college and honestly, I’m dissatisfied of my progress.

[@Brodman2k]

Dude, I’m less than 7 years behind this guy and I have a job (because I didn’t waste my time and money going to University/ community college) and pay rent at home because where I live is super expensive to be able to live on my own. I am able to take care of myself for some things that I am able to purchase and other things, but I’m grateful my family still keeps me at home.

[@Brodman2k]

But I am also trying to work on making better choices in life

[@unicorntomboy9736]

Going to get a degree is not a waste of time

[@TheOnlyAdamal123]

I was 25 going on 26 when I had to move back in with my mother. It was admittedly embarrassed but the difference was that I was leaving the Army and going back to school. I’m 28 now. Finishing my undergrad at the end of the year and plan on working full time at a FD for a full year before getting a condo and applying for my masters. She doesn’t pay for anything other than extra utility for me being in the space (which she even said utilities BARELY went up when I came back). I pay my own phone bill, my car insurance, my health insurance etc. I love my mom but being almost 30 and not having my own space just makes me feel like a burden.

[@SisterSophie-fq9jh]

the fact that they have a strong english accent makes this all that much better (i'm not hating on the english accent, i just find it humorous)

[@clownpal697]

I’m 20 years old and I’m only in my parents so I can get help to be in college. I mean sure I have autism but however I’m trying my best to go to my own apartment if possible and soon try to pick a starting job like Walmart and help others or CVS and stock shelves

[@clownpal697]

I mean I’m like the shy person when others talk to me as well and I’m wishing I can get to the point that I can make my own family and let my own life to go in the next level

[@justaadhdgamerwesley6244]

Dude I'm in the same boat but at age 23. Close to geting my BA in game design hopefully apply for jobs.

[@joshualeahy2162]

@@clownpal697 Feel this hard. I struggle immensely socially and with others, autism too and I one day hope to have a family of my own or at the very least just someone I can spend my days with.

[@clownpal697]

@@joshualeahy2162 Sub to you because use autistic people must stick together

[@clownpal697]

@@joshualeahy2162 ALSO THR BEST PART IS FOR MY FIFTH SEMESTER I WILL BE VOLUNTEERING IN A WORK ENVIRONMENT

[@sourceeee]

thank god I don't live with my parents anymore at 25

[@ValenceFlux]

I had to pay rent starting at 18 while trying to pay for night school. I've lost it all and been bankrupt and I'm very grateful to have a tiny room to rebuild my life in. Living on handwarmers in your car to survive the winter builds character and can be very motivating. Not that I recommend going through any of that.

[@Captain_Dark]

Literally just thanked my Momma for not raising me like this. I'd be a dead man if I tried to pull this

[@ThePhazonMonado]

As someone who has been homeless before, this guy is being incredibly ungrateful to have a roof over his head, because when you're on the streets, everything you own is right there with you, you go to sleep every night knowing that there is a good chance that you could wake up to find all of it gone, to say nothing of the risk to your own safety

[@spidtz]

As a 21 year old living with my parents (i dont know what this guy's situation is), i know very well to appreciate my parents for at least being willing to keep looking after me given my current predicament. We *actually* live in a shoe box too, and i love my home, but thats also not without saying i have my responsibilities too. I pay for my dog and cat, and i help out when im asked. Be appreciative of the things you have, because you can always be out on the streets

[@JeanRosa-qc3mb]

sadly i was in the same situation, and i can somewhat relate with what was going through his head. i spend 6 years of my life depressed, being inside a bedroom for 90% of the day. getting out only for food in the kitchen, while not providing ANYTHING in return to my single mother, let's just say i was what you would not want for a son. until i started to wake up at 4:00am to search for jobs, alone, walking 16km a day searching and going through interviews untill i finally got it. that was 5 years ago, today i live by myself with a comfortable living, with no one to "control" my life and i'm happy the way i turned out. i'm so sorry for what his parents are going through, their son is not well, that's why they wouldn't kick him out. so glad i was fortunate to realize that as harsh as it sounds, we have to carry our own weight and if you are not making decisions with your life, you are essentially forcing others to make them for you, and is not a surprise the outcome will not always be what you want. i hope someday he will realize that too.

[@richardcletus6026]

There isn't anything wrong with living with family, as long as you aren't mooching to the maximum. I moved out when I was 18, moved in when my mom got cervical cancer, moved out when she was up and working, moved back in when my stepdad got pancreatic cancer, still kind of dealing with that but food is on the table and mortgages are being paid. Things are looking good both financially and health wise. Surprisingly girls like that, I thought telling woman that I live with my mom would be a relationship killer. If anything its a good filter for trouble.

[@Joutube_is_trash]

I cant even imagine how I could bring a date back to my parents house without physically cringing out of existence.

[@Zhello79]

The living with parents I take no issue with. But to be 30 and act like an 8 year old ignorant child? That is sad.

[@geedeebeejay]

Bro this is my dad, he's 52 and has never lived out of his parents' house. Nor has he had a job in 12 years. This is exactly what would happen, even with his mom dead he still burdens his elderly father who still works to have to feed and shelter him.

[@Leolocs_35]

I'm 33 years old been living with my mother, and my youngest brother all my life. Even I got a job making 20 an hour paying 600 bucks half of the rent for the apartment and never had an issue with that. He just need to put on the big boy pants and quit acting like a pathetic child..

[@SISKCERTWaJaVlogs]

if you think youre falling short in something in life or havin a bad day, theres always someone being like this guy

[@Godios119]

I can’t understand how someone doesn’t want to move on with their life. So depressing

[@CrucialFlowResearch]

Society is more depressing than being with your family, when your parents die, you may regret not spending time with them

[@Godios119]

@@CrucialFlowResearch there’s a difference between appreciating your family and spending time with them vs leaching off of them and refusing to create your own path

[@tubby_1278]

At some point you gotta make a change...but then again you can't help those who don't want to help themselves

[@Ivan-yq9rc]

One thing that has to be pointed out is that they're obviously from the UK, not the US. In Europe and most of the world, living with your parents past your early twenties is very normal. Not that it changes that guy's entitlement, but everyone here is American and still cant fathom other cultures having different norms.

[@unicorntomboy9736]

I still live with my mother and I have just graduated university at 26. I do intend to get a job in marketing in copywriting though soon. This guy makes me feel secondhand embarrassment

[@lordpyrokiller7953]

I agree with this video so much how do you allow yourself to be like this, for me Im 25 live with my mom and I got a job with my dad and I would never talk to my parents like that they'd either throw me out like will smith in fresh prince or beat me. Im very fortunate and happy that my mom hasn't kicked me out at 18

[@StarStoneWolf]

Same here, I'm like a year younger than you. My parents tell me not to "waste" any money on them, and they refuse to let me share the bills... But I never just took advantage of them and closed myself off in my room. It did take me a few years through short time jobs until I landed on my current long-lasting one. And now I can at least contribute to the household by buying groceries. My parent's have tried, but they can't stop me from buying the pricey fruits and veg lol. It definitely takes a certain kind of person to act this entitled to moch of their parents like this...

[@Farsk_]

It's such a shame to see Pyrocynical fall under such hard times. Truly makes you wonder what people are like behind the scenes, smh..

[@cooper2211]

That is wild to see. Im 23 and both my siblings act like this and they finally got out on their own after unpleasant altercations. One even had a job and didnt contribute to anything meanwhile im in school and working people are actually like this. I lost my job like 3 months ago and i hated every day since then because to not be able to help and be self sufficent sucks. Im thankful to not be like this guy.

[@jthablaidd]

A lot of people like to rag on people for living with their parents In some places it’s not exactly possible to move

[@Armaego]

I'm glad I moved out at 21, imagining myself at 30 still in the same room at my parents house terrified me

[@thespacedpirate]

I left at 18, went back for 2 months at 19 between a move. I refuse to go back, even if my marriage falls apart.

[@HaiiKris]

I wish I stayed home for a few years to get my savings up ngl

[@The_Based_Batman]

@@HaiiKris Exactly what I'm doing. I'm working a trade, I come home to my parents and have my privacy. I do as they ask, I mean basically living rent free so it's the least I can do.

[@Rosterized]

rent is getting expensive especially in the states and unless you are rich you aint owning a house so for many people its an unfortunate reality they need to stay with their parents longer than they would want to.

[@tigervalley62]

@@HaiiKris: 23 and still living with my parents for that reason alone. Got a job, still studying, and am actually in the process of starting a startup company with my mates. Use this time wisely to build your life before that inevitable big move. Also, it depends on the family, but just because you live under the same roof doesn't mean you aren't independent. Think of it like roommates. You share the same house, but you partake in the responsibilities and finances of the house like a functioning adult and still live your life outside of that normally. Unlike this guy who's a potato....

[@DONNY_LUX]

Optimus videos that call out bad habits/lifestyles motivate me so much

[@darrylwoodbury]

He's a part of the Entitlement Generation. The world owes him everything, even though he hasn't done anything to deserve it. Also, he's definitely a Reddit mod.

[@zacharyamos6139]

I’m 27 and just recently lost my job, so I had to move back in with my parents because I needed their help. I went from a 3 bedroom apartment to myself, to a single room with a twin bed for free. I am more than grateful for it and I could never imagine talking to my parents like this and finding a girl to bring home is my furthest priority atm

[@rumGuru]

Besides the story, i appreciate you playing Super Mario Galaxy, it really brings back that old internet feel along with memories

[@timmy9818]

This is terrifying I'm 22 and started searching for a job almost 2 years ago but still nothing I can only help my parents around the house so I'm really thankful to them

[@Walker-ow7vj]

You try getting a job as a server you can make serious bank

[@GeoffreyBronson]

"You haven't even got a girlfriend and with that attitude who'd go out with you?" Holy moly his Mum just dropped a nuclear bomb at him there.

[@DirtyTurtle67]

They should have kicked him out 12 years ago.

[@TordenFaaret]

"what if i've got a missus? where am i supposed to take her?" oh, don't worry, sonny. you bring literally nothing to the table. there will be no missus!

[@shaqthegr8884]

Got kicked out of my house at mid twenties. Heard these stories made realized that was the best thing could happen to me .