EP 1: Why Are We Abandoning our Parents?

[@nursemuthoni]

I haven't called or talked to my mum for 6 months and to be honest the distance is all i needed. But my siblings live with her and i know shes okay.

[@perspective-mdc]

Sometimes you have to take yourself out of the equation

[@leejohnny2156]

Love the perspective podcast especially mum i related to you.... Hehh more examples of how you bond with kate and make her your friend and buddie without overstepping and how youcan mend brocken relationships as per parent daughter or parent son.

[@thomasdominic6secondchanne873]

Always enjoy you individually but this too is AWESOME! I love your relationship and that you bring the good, bad and a lil of the ugly...the vulnerability is much appreciated!!

[@perspective-mdc]

Thank you 😊

[@janewanjiku4022]

As a daughter, we have no relationship with my mum. I can't talk to her about anything because somehow she'll find fault and speak vitu siwezi sahau . I've thought about this and just because she raised me up ... I'll probably have someone look after her . I'll the calling that person ... Manipulation and complains 24/7 caused this .

[@perspective-mdc]

So sorry about the relationship. That’s such a great solution

[@katewabwile9053]

@Janewanjiku4022 hugs... You're not alone

[@catherinetaylor3450]

Kate you are right,you have to have enough training to understand the needs also lots of pple do jobs for money.moral values knowing God also plays a big role in everything you do

[@perspective-mdc]

Yes some sort of training otherwise you will be hurting those under your service.

[@Sharon_Njoki.M]

You'd say I'm a stalker 😅 I fell in love with your MDC from SNS by Stephanie and I'm glad we get to hear more of you 😊

[@perspective-mdc]

Heheh I’d say you are a very appreciated member of this community!!

[@FinesseB]

As a parent if you were not a good parent and didn’t bother building good and lasting relationships with your children, please don’t expect anything from them. Just carry on and grow old in peace wherever you choose. Do not burden your children in the name of curses.

[@perspective-mdc]

Yes please 🙌

[@eunicemuthua3435]

I am a parent and I agree. Some of us have narcissistic tendencies. Feel entitled and are good at using manipulation. As a child I will save myself, I have my life to live. this is not selfish it is choosing self and setting boundaries!

[@husseinnoor9081]

We need more of this😢😢😢

[@perspective-mdc]

Every Monday we will be having a new episode. There’s one that just went live right now.

[@angelawamuyu4769]

Amazing episode 👏 ❤️

[@perspective-mdc]

Glad you enjoyed it!!

[@elizabethkyengo1686]

I think KTN talked to one of the neighbours and she said the lady shut people out. She even had a daytime nanny employed to take care of her but at some point she started chasing the nanny away or would not open the gate whenever the nanny shows up. Alikuwa anawaita devil

[@perspective-mdc]

That’s so scary!! Explains why it took so long to realize she was dead.

[@purryville9425]

New member love your vibe ❤

[@perspective-mdc]

Welcome 🥳

[@kangwele]

I had missed these conversations. One of the first videos I ever watched on Kate's channel. Keep them coming!! You and your mum are a vibe 😂 And you do have siblingssss😅

[@perspective-mdc]

🤣🤣🤣mum said she doesn’t know who the rest are. She only knows Ryan 🤣

[@zipwangui]

Sasa mtuletee ma guests mothers and their daughters we see their perspectives. Later maybe mum and sons...now i'm over thinking 😂😂

[@perspective-mdc]

🤣🤣maybe in the future

[@wangari6509]

Love love this conversation ❤

[@perspective-mdc]

Thank you 😊 am glad you do 🤗

[@suenanu4648]

Kate you hit the nail on the head. Lack of accountability and favoritism among your children.

[@perspective-mdc]

Yes and it’s so sad

[@carolinemusyoka9842]

Yaaay!

[@perspective-mdc]

🥳🥳

[@suenanu4648]

If she is in the States, maybe she is earning Social Security and when she gets to 61 years old, the govertment starts paying her back.

[@perspective-mdc]

What does this have to do with the conversation 👀

[@suenanu4648]

@@perspective-mdc your mom/grandma working and leaving in the States.

[@suenanu4648]

@@perspective-mdc I wish you had asked this question in a polite way. It is bordering on rude. I'm actually taken aback for someone who has rooted and watched your shows for a while I think I don't deserve that.

[@perspective-mdc]

@@suenanu4648 for someone who has watched prior content then you should know we have no reason to be rude. We were wondering what your comment had to do with the conversation cause it was such small snippet of Judy, the mother saying her mum was unavailable. You adding about social security was peculiar so we wanted to know what you were saying and how it adds to the conversation.

[@suenanu4648]

@@perspective-mdc I listened to the whole conversation and I was chiming in to a concern Judy had about her mom's retirement. I am sorry for giving unsolicited advise. I still feel the way you asked that question wasn't polite. Even the emoji of the eyes. I'm actually offended.

[@D.i.ywithCaroline]

🤍🤍🤍

[@perspective-mdc]

💗💗

[@Lucyirungu198]

Kindly tackle ; 1. How does Judy handle the pressures of being a first born and expectations of taking care of everyone while no one reciprocates the same. 2. How to tactfully correct your parent when in the wrong without coming off as disrespectful. 3. Being friends with your mum and the boundaries set 4. How to deal with a toxic and a narcissistic parent/child

[@perspective-mdc]

These are such great ideas. Thank you so much. Number one is tackled on episode 2 which just went live 😊.

[@julietkamene9884]

Very informative. I will definitely be having this conversation with mum, the problem is how do we start juu atafeel namzeesha yet she is still 16 😅😅😅

[@perspective-mdc]

🤣🤣just start with mum what are your plans for the future?

[@makenatina734]

this was such a good and important episode ❤ my mother and I also have discussed things like having a trust , where we can put money for emergencies and for funeral expenses.

[@perspective-mdc]

This is amazing!!

[@W-NJERI-MUTHONI]

Just got here. Hey Kate, mama Kate. Ya'll so beautiful. Love yah!

[@perspective-mdc]

Thank you 😊

[@erpadministrator]

Being raised by grandparents and being with them all your life. No relationship with any of your parents it comes natural.

[@perspective-mdc]

Yes

[@rinerurigi]

Yaaay 🎉🎉🎉

[@perspective-mdc]

🥳🥳

[@emilymwendwa9553]

My love for you two ❤...av subscribed pap!

[@perspective-mdc]

Yeii thank you 🥳

[@catherinetaylor3450]

Weuh! Why Do I relate to this conversation..Loved it

[@perspective-mdc]

Glad you enjoyed it.

[@judynjoguover40]

Am so excited 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@perspective-mdc]

🥳🥳🥳

[@KingofZamunda.]

Umechelewa

[@judynjoguover40]

@@KingofZamunda. 😈😂😂

[@funnyangel6520]

Take her to your place and stay with her

[@perspective-mdc]

That’s an option

[@wambosworld]

Finally💃💃💃

[@perspective-mdc]

🥳🥳

[@SperanzaKinyanjui-ej7wc]

💕

[@perspective-mdc]

💗💗

[@sarahkaironge4119]

Loved this ❤ Kate….great job holding mum down until she responds to the question at hand! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@perspective-mdc]

Hehehe am glad you enjoyed it!

[@KijosYummies]

Found yah❤❤❤

[@perspective-mdc]

🥳🥳

[@julietkamene9884]

😍😍🥰🥰Finally getting to binge-watch this I am loving it thus far.

[@perspective-mdc]

Glad you enjoy it!

[@karolinakartagena4627]

Love it!!! Keep them coming

[@perspective-mdc]

Will do!!

[@KingofZamunda.]

Za King is here!

[@perspective-mdc]

Karibu sana