Ep 25: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

Welcome back to my channel! In this episode we got singles from all across the USA! Pop that balloon if you're not feeling the person or keep it to find out if they're your match!
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[@niecy3854]

Please dont invite the girl in the white shirt back. She's not looking for love. Waiting till the last minute KNOWING you aren't interested is messing up other girls opportunity. What a waste of a spot.

[@RodashaAllen]

I was looking for this comment. I'm like wtf she even go on the show for

[@DrizzyDre787]

She’s on the show for clout and attention seeking

[@devontewa3937]

@@DrizzyDre787100 percent

[@devontewa3937]

She annoyed the hell outta me fr

[@gglewis1718]

Thanks for saying it out loud because she was getting on my last nerves..!

[@kre8tivekels]

Popping on a man because he wanted you, over all the other women is CRAZZZY. Don't bring this girl back, she's annoying.

[@tpick006]

facts I was like wtffffff...she pissed me off lol

[@jamaineberry20]

Right

[@jarodorla6949]

Yea she's full of alot of contradictions though she was honest enough to admit she's alot to handle which indicates she's not ready mentally for a relationship. She shouldn't at this stage be exhibiting childish behaviour

[@msimareallady8664]

Why is it one on every balloon pop.

[@ayjay5074]

Theres always one crazy 🤣

[@drena2134]

The flight attendant is a weirdo! What she said to the last dude was so cringe! She holds on to her balloon so she can talk and be seen. Lame as hell.

[@brandonclark8395]

Yep

[@Valerieesquilin]

holding the balloon til the end remind me of that psycho Dr. Dentist 🥴🤢🤮

[@bejoy7889]

Right

[@jeffsimmons5527]

complete weirdo. Full of herself to highest. She's gonna be single for A LONG TIME!!

[@fundz7322]

Lame af!

[@Joury07]

my goodness, the last girl was drop dead gorgeous it kills me every time her balloon is popped like why she's so pretty, cute and speaks so mature 🥹

[@herdashavalcin6565]

I came to the comments just to see if anyone else noticed how beautiful she was

[@LondaJ85]

Yep, she was absolutely beautiful

[@simonejones1240]

If only white shirt wasn't annoying and popping at the last minute, maybe she would have been picked, especially the guy from New York

[@Born2raisehell-r6n]

Which girl the one on the far left ?

[@pennyredden1561]

I agree! So normal and not showy! Just pretty!

[@untamedchocolate]

I honestly never seen Arlette annoyed but flight attendant was dancing on her last nerve. Waste of space.

[@ey8143]

Yeah you could see it on her face especially with the last guy.

[@brockcharz2104]

There should be a new rule where if you left your balloon to final 2 then you are not allowed to pop, it's the persons choosing turn to decide. This would cut out the trolls

[@kingdo777]

Yep, she kept looking at BM in the background

[@theTrichomeDon]

Thank you!!! I was about to leave a comment about her but you nailed it

[@KingLamarQuinton]

😂😂😂

[@michaelnapolitano1357]

I LOVE Arlette. She goes “Now don’t forget he’s 29! I don’t want you to be hanging on and then popping last minute again!” 🤣 😆 😂 she was done with the flight attendants nonsense.

[@Bantybantsmoments]

😂😂😂😂

[@vangelissopamena]

She was DOOONNNNEEE

[@user-vj1rx8kn5f]

@@michaelnapolitano1357 we were done with her clownery as well.

[@dihamilton25]

If there was a commercial break and they came back with her gone I wouldn't have been mad

[@user-vj1rx8kn5f]

@@dihamilton25 I said that in a different comment. I think Arlette should've asked her to leave.

[@TooTrill_ForTv]

Girl in the white just wanna see how far she can get with each guy. It’s a game to her

[@Mixedgoddess52]

If you look at her face and mannerisms when the guys are talking to the other girls, you can see something is seriously wrong with her! She's a crayon short in the crayon box! 😂

[@anthonysanders7407]

100%

[@jamaineberry20]

Facts

[@vivianclarke246]

Yup and if she didn’t wait until the last minute to pop her balloon the guys could’ve picked a different choice. She was so annoying ugh

[@user-ei5hv1bp5d]

Agree with you!

[@albertelazar4069]

Arlette the host does an AMAZING JOB hosting this show, she does just enough to have her input on this show, but also stays in the background by letting the contestants participate and speak in their own way! Arlette is a perfect host!

[@Juliaa__T]

I know people will be mad at the gym guy with dreads but I think he made a good point that if people aren’t willing to motivate themselves, you’ll feel helpless wanting to help them

[@courtneyt1198]

He had a great point. You can motivate all you want but someone has to want to change and be better.

[@NoHandlzz]

@@courtneyt1198facts. and motivation doesn’t last as long as discipline

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

That dude needs to be a role model to a lot of young men.

[@dovahkiin2424]

good points but bad assumption

[@sunkissed4ever399]

He’s been on the show before. I know it’s probably his personality but, I’d rather he showed his mature side, like when he answered the last question about working out, then he might would have found his match.

[@NubianP6]

Please don’t bring Angelique back. She is cute, but she’s not here to find love, she’s just here to be seen, and now that we’ve seen her, we’re good. 😂

[@raniii652]

After watching the episode I wouldn’t say she’s cute

[@sunshineloveyasharal4768]

SO GOOD ON HER CUZ WTF ! 🤣🤣🤣

[@njeriperry]

😂😂😂

[@mohamednur4037]

Arlette Hates her

[@jamesarbor3443]

This comment !!!!!!!

[@KRD89]

First guy was very clear and straight to the point. He definitely know what he wants.

[@Vtabbsk]

I do

[@karenmcgee1869]

​@@Vtabbskthat's awesome!

[@dreadreya]

I thought he was the only catch based off this show but 3 mo ago he posted that he isn’t ready for a relationship until he gets his money up. Said there is a girl he really likes but just not ready. So is the dating show a tool used to get the KZbin Channel running so he could get the money up? Is he looking for a wife? Why not the girl he said he really likes? Would a catch have to go on a dating show? Idk. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@binaBoy23]

He’s a rare find

[@mrileyga]

He was in and out lol

[@MulattttoCj]

The first girl walking away looked so happy it actually made me happy for her lol !

[@laurasalinas9844]

yessss

[@mrsparker195]

She has low self esteem though. Kept asking the man am I the one? Will you regret picking me...ugh

[@HughesB1995]

The "flight attendant" has the perfect job, because she's a trip. 😂

[@HumbLeeTV]

Haaaa

[@PrinceMuala]

Hii you look good ❤❤❤

[@sir_bossanova]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@zuzuspeaks]

That’s a bar 🔥😂

[@lovemelovemenot8521]

😂😂😂

[@achatwithdaron]

That girl didn’t want to BLOCK her blessings, but definitely BLOCKED others blessings, with the last minute pop. VERY ANNOYING!!!!!!!

[@erieyoung2615]

Bruh?! 😵‍💫😵‍💫

[@deethomasblack6487]

She needs more therapy...

[@Mitdin2]

Yes she was to annoying omg

[@thomastaylor1217]

Arlette caught on to it and low key checked her.

[@kennahowe7582]

Exactly. Just pop and let the man focus on someone else. Attention seeking, that's all.

[@9525joe]

I love how Arlette is holding the lady who keeps holding onto her balloon till the last second accountable, because that’s definitely a strategy people use to get attention on the show. I feel like after that last lineup of women she and her husband wanna do a better job, regulating behaviors exhibited on the show.

[@Karisma-p4y]

I said the same thing she needs attention

[@GnevaZen]

I’m noticing that too!! People keep holding on to their balloon the longest just to have a whole dissertation about why they didn’t pop sooner 🙄

[@thundavolt]

It's really hard for them because even though it's a very annoying strategy if produces the best rage bait. The comments are filled with people annoyed at her and that's a banger video on KZbin with all the engagement that it produces.

[@globalitwhatitis3732]

Great observation 👍

[@myasblessed]

Yeah, I'm wondering what the vetting in application consists of....

[@fae342]

Girly in the animal print is STUNNING and I feel like she’s probably so fun to be around!

[@christianthompson9879]

"Momma heart disease don't run in our family, nobody runs in our family" that was a BAR!!

[@brittanyamankwahh]

right!

[@StatikFresh4]

💯

[@Rochelle-tf6si]

I just started reading the comments before the show I wonder would it be #4?

[@ENayzeWholisticallyYou]

The accuracy here!!👌🏾💯💯

[@Saraimaz]

@christianthompson9879 Thats an old saying

[@faithfuls3rvant]

I’m sorry but those last remarks by the flight attendant bother me so much. Threw that black man under the bus and tried to make him out to be some creep. Stay away from her fellas..that’s a SUPER RED FLAG!!!!🚩

[@JuicibB]

PIN 📌 THIS SHIT…. I was like he looking at you the same as everyone… and you basically put rAPe on him 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@montour89]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 My thoughts exactly cause Why the hell would you keep your balloon if he made you so damn uncomfortable

[@nicholasopoku-lartey4325]

So disappointed with the Flight attendant!!!

[@honorthyskin6486]

It was so weird. Arlette should've asked him if she was even his type since she was SO sure.

[@silver8ball815]

the women that mention therapy several times are always the ones that have no business being on this show.

[@shepherdgumbo2684]

That Flight Attendant is a CLOWN CLOWN ACTIVITY DETECTED💯

[@LilTreyyy97]

Clown activity is wilddd 😂

[@jeromepeterson7150]

She reminds me of Dr. Elam

[@Jeah1911]

🤣🤣🤣

[@DavionMiller-k4s]

Dead 😂

[@KDKANESV75]

​@@jeromepeterson7150i think she worst because she got picked multiple times and kept making up dumb ass excuses.. " He looked at me like he wanted me" WTF!?

[@ashleyhill9619]

The first guy is everything!!! Values😊morals!!

[@veeegaaan5472]

I honestly dont understand how none of them are liking the lady in brown at the end? She's gorgeous, down to earth, nicely dressed and seems so sweet?!

[@StaceyDurham-j9s]

Exactly! She was my favorite!!

[@Trustfundbaby77]

She’s not that cute, shes not ugly at all, but she gives off homie vibes

[@da5863]

Definitely seems that way, I just think it comes down to appeal. She seems like the type of girl you’d be friends with first then fall in love. This show isn’t structured that way

[@mmastereve519]

yea agree but also i believe her make up does not do the real justice, black girls arent suppose to wear that much make up..

[@dianesedzro2096]

She’s pretty

[@TheRealMTR]

Congrats on 600k!

[@Alliwantismoney15]

A black king supporting a black queen nothing new here💯

[@kbjones4854]

Not THEE MTR👏🏾👏🏾

[@tevinwright5109]

Good seeing you over here bro!

[@djflapjack4744]

We gotta get active on the stream tonight 🔥🔥🗣🗣

[@rufixlegacyproductions2001]

W MTR

[@mermaidmaintenance4062]

I cannot believe the last woman in the brown dress kept getting her balloon popped she seems sweet and bubbly and she’s absolutely adorable

[@DEEDUBZ]

First impressions; just like the girl next to her. They dressed and looked like they couldn't be bothered and had low self confidence. Needed to style themselves better. Look how well Arlette dresses and looks. Always stylish, lively, modest.. dressed for the occasion. A little glow up wouldn't hurt them two, because contrary to the other contestants who were unclassy and jarring, them two were actually good.

[@nerodiva]

She’s is gorgeous but she looks like she needs an older man.

[@REM977]

Pretty, classy, articulate, and a nice person.

[@gideoninc8687]

I get friend vibes from her. I wouldn't have gone for her either but she does seem sweet

[@ceasey0]

she reminded me of nicki minaj and had a good energy in her words

[@camrytheriot9097]

Red pants “ it’s the boots” TOOK ME CLEAN OUT😂😂😂😂😂✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾

[@WidebodyLotty]

“You stand like a baddie.” Once I heard that, I was distracted by homie’s stance the rest of the time he was out there. 😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Kim-jd2tw]

Same

[@innerpeace7854]

I was looking for this comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣..dude was standing like he was at a Diddy party 😂🤣

[@tanyatee2018]

Ha! It wasn't just me. I thought maybe his foot or leg was hurting

[@Zebra-yz9rz]

Yooo yesss 😂😂😂🤣🤣💀

[@asantewaakissi2650]

@@tanyatee2018yes it looks like he may have a problem with his leg or something so I thought her comment was embarrassing and unnecessary

[@raayynicole]

The first contestant is a MAN who knows what he wants, he’s clearly done the work.

[@zamorapakalolo6699]

He kept saying wife, so he's wanting to settle down and start a family. That's what every church woman is looking for.

[@tee3840]

​@@zamorapakalolo6699Not just church ladies

[@kadeshnze73]

Sincerely

[@iamforgod8893]

I am soo glad the girl in the white top didn't get her...he is too good for her

[@zamorapakalolo6699]

@tee3840 I mentioned church ladies because he was talking about Christianity, and he was looking for a Jesus freak.

[@AnnPattieamillion]

The flight attendant Chic and Dr. Elom would be perfect for each other's 😂 mental health

[@Meissie1K]

hahaha... we out here wishing dr elom upon everyone we dont like 🤣🤣🤣🤣 what an annoying person she was..ugh

[@butterflylovenj7300]

😅😅😅😂😂😂

[@Zebra-yz9rz]

😂😂🤣🤣💀

[@GoodySmiley]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thatsthatPRChick]

YEP!! 2 arseholes become ONE!!🤭😅🤭😅🤭

[@AdventureVibes-m9g]

Man, I love Shannon, she is such a vibe, I can see the genuine personality in her and she is well spoken. She is my type, if you come across my comment hit me up. Period.

[@mariopadilla1445]

I really liked that friendship question. People underestimate how important a good friendship is to maintain. It says a lot about the person

[@NmaLuqman-i2d]

The girl in the white shirt had a 20 year friendship yet she wasn’t there for the right purpose 😂 Friendship are just like anything else they have good and bad 💯

[@condesabeatriz9303]

💯

[@Hardawayfits]

No it doesn't. My father taught me their is no such thing as friends. He was right. 😅

[@mariopadilla1445]

@@Hardawayfits That makes no sense. Our species only survived on our ability to rely on each other. Sounds like ya'll are just anti social or that you just cant maintain friendships. Ive had my closest friends for years

[@mariopadilla1445]

@@NmaLuqman-i2d yes there are good and bad friendships, i wont dispute that

[@roderickkelly6191]

The last girl with the brown dress kept on getting popped and in my eyesight she was the most down to earth girl on the stage ...wife vibes...(well rounded)

[@reinab9843]

I agree. Plus she was very pretty!

[@Mudo-nunca-creas]

Facts

[@jamaicanqueentv]

True I think because she look older

[@Mr.Kenya2310]

She's the first priority a good lady but seem like most men like the toxic kinda flight attendant trait. Very weird. The flight attendant is totally a red flag just from a one minute conversation.

[@jaydenvaughn6976]

She looked older and it seemed "she was too tall"

[@abbnorm]

“Looking too much like you’re attracted to me” is the worst balloon pop reason ever.

[@Carefree_Stephanie]

😂😂😂

[@adams8830]

Goodness she was such an idiot. I just clicked off after she started her dumb dissertation.

[@whatsinaname2288]

SMH!!!

[@likquidsteel]

Write that down on the "ick" list

[@RichForever91-j6n]

Na u ignoring the one where ole girl said dude look like he run and exercise man these females are showing why black men are switching up

[@kamakeisipala3950]

The girl in a white shirt saying I know I am your type that is DELULU😂😂

[@Sassyminaj]

Right she’s so full of herself…

[@noble0155]

DO NOT bring that flight attendant back. she held her balloon and popped it at the last minute every round for attention

[@starzzzz527]

Agree let her fade in the wind.... PLEASE

[@adams8830]

Exactly. She wanted attention.

[@Jusshun]

She is definitely in character lol one that no one likes at that

[@jabbaweezy]

We don't need an update or reunion on her either. That's what she's looking for.

[@geraldtone5914]

She was asserting dominance over the rest of the women. She was showing them she could have any of them.

[@TheAryChampagne]

Brown dress at the far right is 90’s timeless FINE 🤎😍 you go girl!!

[@SamsonAdeyinka-n6d]

if i walked in there, i would have popped everyone else's balloon at a go and told her to just come home with me

[@mwoods4608]

She reminds me of the girlfriend from Boyz in the Hood❤

[@ISOLVE365Inc]

@@TheAryChampagne yess just beautiful I would say naturally beautiful, but she says she wears a lot of make up. But all in all very gorgeous black woman.

[@sharonvandongeren4255]

Yess. I got that SWV vibe with her ❤

[@dadon3179]

Her and shilo was my favorite tbh, I love them dark skins

[@darkskinzeetv]

“This the second time girl, you made it to the end and did it again! what’s going on girl” 😂😂 Arlette is funny!!

[@MrSamPhoenix]

Arlette was super annoyed with her by then.

[@Mixedgoddess52]

She's stupid!

[@zanelanga454]

arlette is clearly annoyed because she be poppin right before being matched, talking bout the holy spirit and shhhhhhh

[@darkskinzeetv]

@@zanelanga454 👍🏿

[@darkskinzeetv]

⁠@@MrSamPhoenixyes!!

[@bouthaynabelkacem6356]

Arlette is the OG of this concept, clean well structured no bs as in when people be on the show just to mock others and all that… LOVE IT ❤❤❤

[@ashantivanity]

The comment that said "The flight attendant Chic and Dr. Elom would be perfect for each other's 😂 mental health" LMAOOOOOOOOO! spot on!

[@shepherddancehallnation]

Hahahahahahahah

[@alexmumbere3373]

I saw it 😂😂😂😂

[@jeswazwadi7049]

😂😂😂

[@courtneypeebles4982]

😂😂😂 facts

[@Sbabe-h1j]

First girl in the red floral dress was so smart for asking the guy if he’s sure he’s attracted to her before they match because a lot of ppl sometimes just match because they’ve made it to the last point but haven’t even ensured they’re actually attracted to the other person and that’s why they don’t end up working out

[@iyatashhartley7968]

I really like that too. She ain't wasting no more time

[@rickybobbydastar6534]

@@iyatashhartley7968but if she gotta ask him that 2/4 times and he didn’t mention it , she was better off poppin. I think the last dude would’ve possibly been a better match . The darkskin girl that want a Benz, lookin for a trick not treat . Any guy that come off like he gotta bag , can get her.

[@patrickpaby9877]

That lady always popping as last two has some main character syndrome

[@nehemiamokgaliphe6383]

Exactly my thoughts

[@dennyreed1869]

She got on my last nerve with that

[@whitharris8259]

facts, especially the comments she made about the last dude with the hat

[@theblessingbg]

I call her the last minute pop girl 😂

[@astralmindny9055]

Lol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sherrayreed5812]

The young lady in the Brown dress is classy, articulate, confident, well dressed and pretty. I don't understand why she's being passed up. Hopefully God will bless her with a man worthy of her presence.

[@muyoworld]

The last girl Shannon has the best demeanor, best attitude, best answers, best outfit. She seems very genuine.

[@tiana7239]

i literally just said she’s so pretty the hair everything

[@misstiff29]

Omg so true. They kept popping on her. I didn't get it

[@afroking5340]

Wasn't cute enough and most dudes don't like fake hair and makeup and she wore most makeup of them all and doubled down on it. Thats why she was least chosen.

[@muyoworld]

@@afroking5340 I disagree. Women like make up , they will wear it on a special occasion like being on a show with lights and camera on. I'm pretty sure most women do make up outside and natural at home. And clearly that is her hair. She looks cute to me. Also her general attitude was cool. There just weren't that many guys her age. Only 2. The others were in their late 30's.

[@afroking5340]

@@muyoworld men don't meet women at home in their natural state though. She has on fake lashes and a lot of makeup and said herself she likes to make up her face. A lot of men nowadays don't like that look because they don't know what she looks like in her natural state because in the dating process he won't see her to see if she's even cute. So they don't waste time like u saw one dude curve girls cuz of makeup

[@uhlexzis]

Arlette is over Angelique’s last minute popping shenanigans. LOL

[@MadebyMarisJ]

Right

[@JustMe-ug3mk]

She appeared to be on an ego trip 🙄

[@JoJo-op5xy]

@@JustMe-ug3mk who

[@impetite8116]

@@JoJo-op5xythe one in the white top with the skirt

[@ImaniBrownRestored]

She definitely picked it up, handled it well, gave her an opportunity to explain herself with grace…but got pushed to the point wear she basically had to roll her eyes. Lol. Straight up… #AndStillHandledItWell 👏🏾👏🏾

[@sydneyj.9017]

Girl at the end in the brown dress is stunning. God didn’t send a match on this show for a reason because the personality absolutely shined through as well ❤️ something better is in the works for her

[@Yvonneree-kz]

@@sydneyj.9017 she is the best

[@DistortedV12]

The female gaze vs the male gaze

[@FranziskaMLeibe]

For the male gaze, she just needs to wear a colored dress

[@tiffanykimbrough9491]

@@FranziskaMLeibe I was thinking that as well.

[@Thefacelessfoodie]

I agree. Stunning

[@2075jman]

I love watching these videos. I enjoy looking into each individual, seeing the one that is truly searching for that special person, eliminating the ones that are there for the wrong reasons, predicting the ones that will be picked and being angry at the ones that were unjustly looked over. I watch Arlette, as you can simply know what she is thinking by the expressions on her face. She does well hiding some, but I can still tell, like when she wants someone to stop talking. I am willing to bet, that off camera she is nothing to play with. She is definitely headed to land a deal with a network. Creating this was a fabulous idea, it can help the younger generation to not only choose a potential mate based upon their appearance, but to understand ones beliefs, flaws, etc. Great Job!

[@MrsMcCraney23]

I feel like homegirl on the end in the animal print did not get enough recognition. She seems so sweet ☺️

[@BrandysASMRchannel]

And she’s pretty

[@rickybobbydastar6534]

Too sweet , dressed to conservative, decent body . But definitely cool .

[@kizie]

she’s SO beautiful!!

[@liabee3122]

Proves that the world is still colorist

[@WEG906]

@@liabee3122: The light skinned one ain’t getting picked either

[@wendyann3333]

The flight attendant Angelique shouldn’t have been there wasting folks time.

[@tristanmanuel7787]

She out of there smh wasted my time

[@balther10]

Nah deadass. She knew she was gonna pop but just kept holding. She just didn’t wanna be the first one to pop

[@Lulu-fc3qu]

I scrolled down looking for this comment, she done getting on my nerves. Even Arlette was annoyed by her, you could see it on her face

[@mariefombason631]

She is out for a viral moment smh

[@yvonnedouglas5431]

She's so Silly and immature, I cant

[@wise98]

The annoying flight attendant needed rejection from the ninja turtle 😂😂😂

[@random-dc3xr]

First off queen, you ain't even qualified. ❤😂 I miss him on the show.

[@eyeghelemebright6938]

Not kwalifyd 😂

[@cocoshine4320]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@jomorod4275]

​@@random-dc3xr I am looking at your armpit hair queen 😂😂😂

[@random-dc3xr]

@@jomorod4275 but it's okay queen I'm talking this queen right now. Lool he roasted them 🤣 they low key deserved it. Nobody is looking at your chest miss ma'am.

[@Toritorytore123]

“Cause you made me” was the realest response tbh lol

[@pearlpearl3806]

The fight attendant and the African girl were annoying

[@smokiana226]

The African girl also annoyed me. She seemed materialistic and sort of snobby. But that's on brand.

[@LolaFitzgerald24]

@@smokiana226how is that on brand?

[@kaceywaceyy]

@@LolaFitzgerald24African women prefer providers as partners (as we should 💅🏾)

[@islandbound843]

And they were 2 of the finest. Go figure.

[@THEJDIDDY7]

@@kaceywaceyylemme rewrite that for you!! African women who come from the poorest continent get to America and become greedy and pretentious

[@Savedandfreed]

First guy was really smart. Knows what he wants. Stood on business wanting to raise a godly non ghetto family. And a lot of people missed the point behind the car question but he tested their financial literacy with that one. Guy was raised extremely well or gain wisdom through experience either way he was a good one.

[@tabithadorcas6721]

You are right i really like the first guy he's so smart

[@Itsceaaceaa]

Definitely want a update on them

[@estherbassey2415]

Agreed!!

[@Englishroserebecca]

Yes he was really nice

[@shameronstar7220]

He's very practical and straight laced. He definitely needs a more conversative woman. These days though, that's getting harder and harder to find.

[@Livy_W4]

See, I thought you guys were being extra at first about the girl in the white, but damn, she was doing too much like even Arlette got annoyed. I caught her roll her eyes at the girl in the white lmao 😭😂

[@rewbi2196]

@OliviaWilliams-oy4ih That was my initial thought of her too. My goodness, she was a whole lotta whole lotta!! 😫😫

[@dannonbrown1904]

2nd guy is actually really intelligent. I love his stance on health and wellness. No one there understood him and he was definitely out of their league lol

[@Nenebe-f3u]

Uber and Lyft driver out of their league? U must be talking about looks?

[@Mradamronel]

@@Nenebe-f3uHe probably makes six figures 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@TORULEZ10]

The first man might be the most serious and thoughtful contestant in the Pop history to date 👏🏾😲

[@madslasher18]

Not might be … certainly is

[@thedrogba246]

true he was the best so far

[@madzwrld14]

he FOR SURE was

[@Cjanellea]

Agree 🙌🏽

[@88Reasha]

Yea the questions

[@rebeccapetty1k390]

That flight attendant was very annoying.. first it was the age .. then she popped cuz the guy likes her ?!! WTF ?!!

[@JustMe-ug3mk]

She was on an ego trip

[@ashch5867]

She was annoying.

[@electricw3irdo]

facts. and she was very immature for 32.

[@lovedbycocoaen]

Why are you always so negative. Everytime you comment on one of these episodes even the catch-ups, it’s never anything positive.

[@leiflynch2162]

I definitely would have popped her balloon..I love her energy but she was extra...

[@Hopetainment]

"I don't wanna be unequally yoked" preach man!

[@tinaphillips9620]

I love how Arlette kept her cool, while also giving a vibe of, “check yourself, don’t play yourself.” If she could do like a watch episode and tell everyone what she really wanted to say in the moment, I bet her and her husband would start a whole new trend.🤣 She looks demure for the show. But she looks like she would blow our minds with her commentary. I’m here for it too!🤭 Y’all think about it because these comments giving! Okayyyy can you imagine how much more it would give? IJS

[@ugoagusi]

Every 7days, we get a new episode. Arlette, thank you.

[@theworldisimmense]

It should be every 3 days

[@oIeariia]

@@theworldisimmenseYESSSSSSS i’m tryna be grateful but I luv arlette

[@BillionDollarBudget]

Thats an old episode

[@dbee101]

@@theworldisimmenseyou realise people have lives right ?

[@lilistyl8079]

​@@dbee101I was going to say the exact same thing.😅

[@WrighteousBrand]

The flight attendant seem like she need more therapy. 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@AnnPattieamillion]

😂😂😂 facts

[@texasindy2193]

You are so on point. That's exactly what I said.

[@janinefranklin6808]

😂😂😂

[@Buy_AskAndItIsGiven_Book]

You can even hear it in her response to the “past relationship & what you did wrong” question. She went to therapy before her previous relationship and the guy still pointed out the thing that made her go to therapy. She didn't learn at all.

[@Portabledivatv_]

😂😂😂 honestly

[@DesireeDjanieTrichologist]

This show is becoming more and more wholesome and Arlette is growing in a nurturing manner by fostering a no nonsense approach. I feel that she is wanting the show to become the most credible among the other “pop the balloon” shows. I’m enjoying witnessing the growth. ❤

[@memoryphiri790]

Agreed

[@scaggly9239]

You're speaking in future terms, I'm guessing. It aint there yet, but I appreciate your wishful speaking.

[@smoothsavage2870]

Arlette's show already is the most credible. I only wish she didnt try to pull answers out of people when it's clear that they're trying to be respectful. Every other "pop the balloon" show is unorganized foolishness.

[@motolaoshin]

@@smoothsavage2870Every other "pop the balloon" show is organized foolishness. IMO.

[@smoothsavage2870]

@@motolaoshin And ya know what? I honestly dont think i could argue against that 🤣

[@5injy]

Most ladies on this show are wonderful,but This is the most wholesome and real lineup of ladies I have seen on it yet! I love that they are clear about what they prefer and hold space for themselves and who they are, as well as for others in the same way.

[@I_am_Teagha]

The flight attendant 😭😭 you sound so smart from the start and along the line we find out you’re a clout chaser. I really don’t think she came out looking for love

[@Msheepz]

She got a free flight to Arizona

[@paulinewilliams747]

She think she's cute

[@ZTForever]

@@Msheepz BM flying these folks out for the show? I highly doubt that but I could be wrong

[@sir1junior]

​@@ZTForeverThey are talking about flying her to AZ for the show.

[@stephenxadonai]

@@Msheepzthey buy they own tickets

[@mikeuwagbai4987]

Girl in the white popped her own balloon every time. She’s a walking red flag 🚩

[@kylescott4973]

32 and single for a reason 👍

[@larrystrading]

She likes having the last bit of attention. She waited to pop last for every guy she knows she didn't like.

[@jeffmwaura8273]

Facts... attention seeking

[@gltellnotales32]

Super obnoxious

[@astralmindny9055]

Facts! She said she went through therapy so she's not all the way there.

[@203Elz]

The 2nd girl in white. The type to say yes to a marriage then change her mind at the alter 😭😭😭

[@butterflywind999]

She reminds me of Julia Roberts in the movie 'The Runaway Bride.'

[@mabroni]

She is annoying. Very conceded.

[@NanaBoakyeAgyemang]

Bugged out!

[@MichealChinedu-ud2mo]

😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@long.islrose]

Ghetto vibess

[@Set_Free]

I know the flight attendant is kooky, but her speech to the second guy is on POINT! He knew what he was doing by saying that, and she stood her ground and you could tell the other women appreciated it.

[@jayknox6319]

“I can’t do long distance” *travels across the country for a Dating Show*

[@catikab]

That never made sense to me 😂

[@statefarmjake6585]

You can’t make this shit up 😂

[@BBrunnel]

Where is this filmed 😂

[@reggiebell6907]

@@BBrunnelArizona, I think phoenix AZ

[@JesseSiyanganga]

Irony 😂😭

[@youngdaddy5597]

The flight attendant girl is just annoying. Just pop you balloon, she’s just there to rate herself with other female and not find love at all

[@acj902003]

Exactly! She was calculated , for her own ego and to get camera time . Keep it so she can stay in the mix the whole time n be seen.

[@godschild4988]

Absolutely 🤦🏾‍♂️😂🤦🏾‍♂️😂

[@idriskobe7028]

You see it. She immediately popped after the last remaining girl said she can't do long distance. She wanted to be the one "to leave the guy for her" lmao. People like her are entirely corrupted in every way imo

[@Mixedgoddess52]

She just wanted to be on TV and if I were a guy, I wouldn't trust her sneaky flight attendant a** anyway!!!! She looks like she can be very "HOODRATTISH!"

[@jamaicanpelpamk1158]

She sick mi😂

[@stanbrooks7923]

"I don't wanna block my blessing" that's literally all she did.

[@asookhoo4907]

😂😂

[@iconicon.d]

Just attention she wants..

[@random-dc3xr]

@@stanbrooks7923 straight tomfoolery

[@jbkprod07]

Especially with the first dude...He was clearly strongly Christian which she rejected another man for not being, but rejected the first dude on how she thought they would interact - and immediately admitted "she wasn’t sure" if her assumption was even correct...girl go back to therapy

[@jayelee7112]

No she was right she just wanted to block the other women's blessing

[@gudbyeblues]

I liked Jay and I respect what he said regarding motivation and not being a crutch for other people.

[@lakishadumas5078]

This dude was on the show before. And he popped for every stupid thing. He was known as being “sassy” He’s most definitely that

[@texanscheer09]

YES ARLETTE👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 calling out the girl in the white shirt🤍 yes queen

[@kaiigold]

I think first dude made a new record for no balloons popped from the girls from START to FINISH 😂

[@kenneyp.9456]

It’s really because of last episode they on there best behavior

[@originalblerd]

Mal from episode 23 didn’t get popped, he survived the worst ladies lineup of all time

[@HighMaintenanceMinimalist]

@@originalblerd One of the last girls popped her balloon on him because how how he was looking at another contestant.

[@RichForever91-j6n]

You gotta be 6ft 6 though come on dude was tall ass hell these females too boujie for me I would never go on there lol

[@brandonjablasone7544]

@@RichForever91-j6n😂😂😂

[@GovernedByTruth]

The young lady in the brown leopard print dress was stunning. Such an alluring smile and personality; overall gem.

[@ANON-G]

Easily the most slept on.

[@GovernedByTruth]

@@ANON-G I really don't get it. She was so kind to the eyes. Please bring her back.

[@Livcarter47]

True!!! I thought she was stunning

[@Publicboner]

She’s outta Shape. Most Men like a Woman that has a shape

[@DYLTHEVYL]

It was her height in them boots.

[@SimplyNaimah]

It’s true a lot of men say they don’t like makeup yet a lot of women keep wearing makeup. It’s interesting when women don’t listen to what men say they like/don’t like. I used to “fight for my right to makeup” but then I realized I was fighting for my right to cover up my natural beauty. I met a partner that helped me embrace my natural beauty and it’s been amazingly liberating to know I’m with someone that truly appreciates my natural beauty.

[@gracelong3975]

Absolutely 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@tojismommymilkers3519]

Most women do not wear makeup to please men.

[@kaid7573]

The flight attendant got on my last nerve. She blocked everyone else from connecting. I feel like she just wanted to see how many guys would pick her.

[@doubledopamine5831]

Exactly! Attention seeker 😬

[@Martin199320]

She's annoying, childish, immature. Attention seeking for validation.

[@NiceGuySimmons]

She has mental issues.. You can see her mannerisms. Something is seriously off

[@lady33357]

I agree with ya

[@sa1sa624]

Her gut been wrong the whole time

[@Celebeauti21]

I love the first guy. Not based on his appearance but he asked some of the best questions anyone has ever asked on this show.

[@moxchi2578]

Was it necessary to add that u didn’t like his appearance?

[@Celebeauti21]

@@moxchi2578 I never said I didn’t like his appearance. I was just clearly stating that my reason for liking him is because the questions he asked not his appearance.

[@RonXX]

@@moxchi2578 reading is fundamental brotherman

[@Blingblow_779]

@@Celebeauti21that’s exactly what you said lol. Not sure how someone can misread that.

[@ReginaLynae]

Yes! He was the best one in my opinion

[@__iluvlucy]

I love Arlette, she’s so graceful and feminine and always laughing and smiling. Outfits, hair, and makeup always on point. That microphone twirl during the intro have me laughing everytime.🤣🤣🤣♥️

[@katrspaul]

I have to agree. She's stylish, but never looks cheap or like an old lady. She's articulate and rarely if ever stumbles on her words. I enjoy watching her.

[@PRINCESS2U_]

Love her

[@MD-qt1of]

Well theres a reason she's married and all the other contestants are single

[@lifestorieshappens]

​@@MD-qt1of so true💯

[@tigisthailuasfawossen6312]

The mic twirl bothers me , can’t lie 🙈😂

[@BlaccQueen1st]

The last girl is a gem !! 💎 In my opinion it’s just the outfit sometimes. ❤

[@dominiquecalvo6971]

The last guy was so sweet and respectful. I could tell he really didn’t wanna say anything bad about any of the girls he eliminated. It was so sweet. Can’t even get mad at the rejection when it’s like that 😅

[@Thief555WWJD]

She just didn't have a reason to pop until towards the end. I don't see people's issue with that

[@brownlady222]

When arlette gotta tell you to pop bc she got you figured out already, you know thats bad. White top was a mess. 😂

[@paulinewilliams747]

Total mess 😂

[@DEEDUBZ]

Should've booted her off the show after the first round

[@lilacstar5117]

10 minutes in and this lineup is much more polite and sophisticated than the last ladies’ episode!👏😂

[@Rawkicks]

Thank God.... That last one was 🗑️

[@ronwilson9080]

AGREED!!!

[@Sh8kS]

@@Rawkicks utter rubbish lol i dont want to see them again

[@drtakeyobich]

@@Rawkicksword, niccas don't know what tf that shit was

[@jbway86]

That don't mean they won't be pedantic with their reasons of popping that 🎈.

[@SummerLove-x3f]

The one with the black dress in the beginning looks amazing

[@shauniiii961]

Angelique just went on there to tell everybody she's a flight attendant 😂

[@motivenation_tube]

She isn't?

[@chmarie]

And available😂😂😂

[@krisrocka5790]

She is a giant red flag

[@achatwithdaron]

The INTERNET saw through that FLIGHT ATTENDANT, like a CRYSTAL CLEAR SKY. 😪

[@teetee6857]

Very much and i don’t understand why she would want to waste her own time like that. Also, her voice was absolutely annoying!

[@DavidSmith-ef4eh]

I like her, though. She's thirst-trapping all the guys then popping in the end. I love her.

[@whowhatwhen7977]

I love Her ❤❤

[@Fifthelement203]

Love the pun lol. Spot on

[@AndromedonThanks]

Has anyone ever asked the “we” is she’s referring to?

[@cooljazzy2682]

1:00:55 " I gotta listen to my gut." Girl ,your gut needs prebiotic!! You get on my last nerve! What,you went on the show to prove something to yourself???

[@gillianmee5888]

I totally agree, she is so full of herself, especially with her comment to the last guy! She needs to get her head out of her arse 😂

[@Joy2theworld24]

Prebiotic 😂

[@nytrellmorrison2203]

lmaoaoaoao I saw this as soon as that part played. Not a prebiotic!! 😭💀

[@cooljazzy2682]

@@nytrellmorrison2203 😅😅

[@cooljazzy2682]

@@Joy2theworld24 😅

[@12tyecha]

Wanting your man to be chill and inside While you're loving to be outside is diabolical

[@Jsthrifty]

Thanks to everyone who spoke my mind about the flight attendant. I felt like dragging her out of my screen. Anyways, am enjoying this show from Nigeria

[@2Black4yall]

She has that naija blood in her.. Majority of the naija girls on the naija pop the balloon show are just like her 😅

[@olumidelonge]

🇳🇬

[@Jsthrifty]

@@2Black4yall and i had to go back to see where she said she is a nigerian but couldn't find it. Don't come for my country. @Xenophobia

[@2Black4yall]

@joycesarima2437 calm down...I be naija, too 🤣... Try to be objective in your criticism of others while trying to ignore our own. Even the naija girls own worse pass 🤣🤪

[@Jsthrifty]

@@2Black4yall you get luck say you be Nija, i for don report you to my village uncle weh no deh wear slippers

[@inflation1139]

The flight attendant job might be in the air but shes definitely for the STREETS 😂😂

[@12AB17]

Lol

[@LadyK007]

😂

[@albrat1563]

Shes a bird

[@connie3205]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@VirgosGroove3]

@@albrat1563a cute bird, but lawd she annoyed me and Arlette 😅

[@UKnoDani]

Arlette & BM needs to start doing confessionals !! I want to hear from the people that didn’t match after they walked away or the couples that did once they walk off stage IN REAL TIME. 😆

[@TYSHAAA]

This is a very good idea 😂

[@rhaevanshields3686]

They do it’s on her husbands channel

[@Rinee-ty6ik]

Maybe they can do shorts if their confessions. Because the thing is the vidoes are already an hour long so🤷🏾‍♂️

[@michaeljoshua4503]

​@@rhaevanshields3686What's her husband's channel?

[@hiphopisnotevil]

​@@rhaevanshields3686In real time

[@judymilord8435]

I love when Arlette breaks a lil character and shows some humor 😂

[@SallyThompson-cs5qy]

The 1st guy exemplifies a high caliber man, Godly, tall, has a career, well groomed, appears grounded & knows what he wants/desires. He was articulate & asked the most thoughtful questions. I hope he finds his Queen.✌🏽

[@Yak.indebox]

He did find a match(potential queen).

[@brandonjablasone7544]

He had status but his character is flawed. One of the Christian raise black nigga. His bias shows, religion, color, ethnicity should not be a criteria for finding a good partner. There are hoes in the church too. Character above all else

[@JoJo-xd8xv]

I don't think being tall has anything to do with being a high caliber man

[@jcdisking]

What does being tall have to do with being a high caliber man?😂

[@sashatv382]

Well, contrary to popular opinion . . . there was something off-putting about man #1. Every time Arlette asked him a question he looked up in the air/ceiling to answer. 🤭

[@mysteriousways9199]

I have an important lesson for all the ladies looking for love. When I met my husband 19 years ago he only had a couple nice shirts and his closet was empty. After we fell in love I would give him clothes for his Birthday, Christmas etc. I bought him clothes that I liked that I thought he would look good in. After a while he had a great wardrobe with a nice mixture of casual and dressy clothes. He began to know the clothes I liked to see him in. Ladies……clothing is temporary and easily changeable. So don’t exclude a man over his clothing or lack thereof. It’s just something he chose for that day, not something that you will have to see and accept the rest of your life. Good luck to you all.

[@KingslinaOboh]

Wow!!! THANK YOU MA/SIR FOR THIS ADVICE,IT REALLY TOUCHED ME❤ GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AS WELL GOD BLESS YOU

[@censaim]

But it is also an expression of your personal style. A man who takes pride in how he dresses or what he wears or really enjoys a certain clothing style shouldn't feel pressured to dress how his partner wants him to dress. There is a difference in being complimented for something that proceeded out of yourself. Not liking somebody's personal style or choice of self-expression is a somewhat valid reason to reject them. If you never find them attractive with how they present themselves, then it's valid. Same with women and makeup - if they never choose to go without it and a man genuinely hates makeup on women, even though it can be changed, it is a reasonable choice to reject based on that personal styling choice.

[@claylorée]

​@@censaimthe thing is, not everyone is married to their expression. I personally think it's a premature move. It's worth a conversation to see if this is how you are and will forever be, or maybe you just didn't consider your choice from another angle I'm seeing it. I've changed up things for the one I'm with, because I considered they're perspective on it. I'd rather get to know your mindset, and what can be changed, if you're willing, is not a deal breaker to me. It's when you're not willing, then we can stop it here. I'd rather get to know you to see if you're the one for me, because every relationship takes cultivation, and their presentation could be part of it. What we have to build on is irrelevant, who I'm building with is what matters. So, I'd look pass that to see who I'm dealing with.

[@claylorée]

Beautiful story, love it. Thanks for sharing.

[@2075jman]

Only a woman who is married for this amount of time gets it. Women are powerful and often don't understand their abilities. If your a good man, with a good woman, she will see to your success and hers, don't ever think you did it on your own. Keep that kind of women close to you and dedicate yourself to her.

[@PALMSPEACE]

That holding on to the ballon last just to have the floor to speak is diabolical lol 😂

[@colormecandi7751]

She's giving dr.elom with waiting til the last minute to pop

[@alp7928]

Dr Elon!

[@kole0429]

EXACTLY

[@asiatheewriter]

That Sedona edit was crazyyy 😂😂 they clocked it

[@cantor5150]

The insecurity of the flight attendant is through the roof, popping the ballon at the last minute before potentially getting rejected 😂

[@Cooley96]

I don’t know her name but my goodness that woman is obsessed with the sound of her own voice, no short answers just constant rambling and of course using therapy vocabulary to do so. Perfect fit for a podcast, podcasters love discussing a subject more than the actual participation of it.

[@Khurr]

That has to be the Liberian chic…that’s just the half of it from experience lmaooo

[@EmailAccount-lv9xr]

Flight attendant

[@Qbanhoneydip]

the disadvantage of social media is everybody speaking on what they know a few flashcards worth of info on....yes she been to therapy if her therapist is watching take her back

[@shenbrooks1028]

I was fast forwarding everytime she spoke after I realised what kind of mind game she was playing upon these men and the girls lined up. Very distasteful

[@Minniejay509]

Her name is Angelique 😂😂😂

[@salimatousow5516]

Red pants guy was way smarter than he looked! He nailed the question about not being able to help someone who isn’t motivated, and his take on unhealthy eating habits and heart attacks, especially in the Black community, was spot on. His answer definitely made him more attractive-showing that mature side, but just a bit late 😂

[@kofibaning7901]

Facts, he is definitely super knowledgeable just led with the super goofy side unfortunately

[@merseignluzonzo3281]

Yeah he was very interesting !

[@checkcheck2125]

The way we look showcases how smart we are?

[@mariereyes2945]

I agree 💯

[@jmonie02]

the only guy i followed from pop the balloon he is a clever gemini. seems cool

[@38kal]

The cat that didn't like Mercedes stood on business 😂

[@jaykaizen5648]

I think the consensus is clear. Most people were annoyed by the flight attendant 🤣

[@vy__lc]

Even Arlette 🤣 Never saw her giving that look to any woman.

[@KayKay-cf8ft]

😂😂 Indeed!

[@jaykaizen5648]

@@vy__lc yep Arlette was over it 🤣

[@FunnyBunnyBog]

Is thay the girl in the white?

[@jaykaizen5648]

​@@FunnyBunnyBogyes with the white top

[@Xplicid100]

The flight attendant Angelique was annoyingly selfish. It seemed like she got pleasure from seeing how many men she could stay in the running for. I was over her and I could tell Arlette was as well.

[@brendawarren7741]

💯💯💯that is exactly what she was doing

[@SummeRain783]

I saw her a few times she was the one looking a man up and down while responding flirtatiously with head tilts. She would lead the guys on until she wanted to pop. She knew what she was doing.

[@WWITF]

She was so insecure and enjoyed the attention !

[@DeeMomof2]

“I like my man with just a little, splash of ugly” is insane 😩🤣 then Arlette’s facial expression 🤯🫨 She got me there 😂

[@ROYALDONTPLAY]

Some woman just wanna feel like they are better than their man, it’s crazy but that’s just how things are sometimes

[@MimiHawk]

I know exactly what she's talking about 😂 I feel like the splash of ugly makes a man look like a man. A pretty man just looks like a boy, a young boy lol if that makes sense 😂

[@geraldtone5914]

I Heard a bunch of women say that before.

[@kaheaisaac1]

Ive heard that before

[@Martin199320]

She mean to say a man that looks a little bit rough, she don't want a pretty boy which makes sense but how she worded it sound confusing but funny

[@TayaaLovesNIC]

I’m crying cause I knew exactly what she meant by “a splash of ugly.” 😂😂😂