Ep:39 Overcoming Procrastination and Trusting Yourself

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@tishasuite4676 29 күн бұрын

Thank you Jennifer this is a very good topic that I needed to see😢♥️ god bless you and thank you soo much for this video🙏🏾

@Jenniferarnise 29 күн бұрын

You are so welcome!

@msjp3751 Ай бұрын

This is soooo relatable.😞 I have looked back on journals from so many years ago….25+ ….where I had dreams and goals and yet here I am. I too get stuck on the “who would I be?” And stay stuck. Afraid of the new me. Ugh 😒 Yet…people pleasing is still on 100….smh Thank you for this channel. It means a lot and helps a lot.

@Jenniferarnise 29 күн бұрын

We are all in this together!❤

@bree.8827 Ай бұрын

It was the ending for me! I now know my mom made me independently dependent on her! She wanted me to be independent but only the way she wanted it. If I went to any one else for advice or guidance all hell broke loose! When I told my mom I got approved for my mortgage instead of being happy she was SO upset that I didn’t consult her first…😒 mind you I was 32!!

@kitramoore7786 Ай бұрын

FELT!!!

@royalfulanilivingsewschool 13 күн бұрын

Omg….this sentiment sounds eerily familiar. 😔

@Obsidian_Cloud Ай бұрын

This was it!!! This was the mfkn video I've needed to see/hear. 🙌🏾🖤🙌🏾🖤🙌🏾 Thank you!!!!

@Jenniferarnise Ай бұрын

I love to hear that!

@GirlPower0488 6 күн бұрын

Same! 💙

@orchiddeerdalomba2434 Ай бұрын

Good talk! I enjoy you in both the formal and organic forms. I honor and am grateful for your process.

@leigh2230 Ай бұрын

Girl I if God is not working through you! This video was perfect 👏 whenever I think that I am alone......when I tell you that you're heaven sent. Everything that you're saying is what I'm trying to figure out in my life.

@Jenniferarnise Ай бұрын

This is exactly why I make these videos. We both need proof that we’re not alone and we’re not crazy. There is a solution to ever problem. And we are learning how to rep process so that we can see ourselves in our lives more accurately. Because that’s where our blessings are.❤

@leigh2230 Ай бұрын

@Jenniferarnise and to add to that Jennifer, the blessings are going to come. Because you are helping to heal those who find you. You are amazing! In the short time of watching your videos. You have brought me so much peace. Those who find you will be blessed. Because we want to correct ourselves. We want true happiness from within. We don't crave things from this world we want to be at peace. Breaking generational curses. So that our children don't have to feel the way we did or navigate through life in this way. I thank God for you. It would be a such a disappointment if God showed me my life on my death bed and to see that my whole life, I didn't serve my purpose. All because what my mother did to me. We got to arrest this procrastination/anxiety demon (mental blockage) and press forward towards the mark. Because God said that your mother and your father may forsake you but he will not. You are the salt of the earth. Be blessed in pursuit of happiness❤️

@MsTinab88406 Ай бұрын

The ways in which I understand.. It is as if you have voiced the very thing I've been trying to figure out for years. Thank you

@Jenniferarnise 29 күн бұрын

I’m so glad you were able to relate any gay voice to what was already inside of you.

@cloudsog123 Ай бұрын

She’s like “i’m gonna wrap this up” and i’m like noooo, could speak to you all dayy

@thespiritualplug__ Ай бұрын

Your videos, no matter the setting, and your healing is doing more good than you know. I can relate to everything you said. I’ve found myself in the same predicaments. And watching this saved my life yesterday. “You just don’t even know what’s around the corner.” 🎢

@Jenniferarnise 29 күн бұрын

This means so much to me. Keep going because your life can keep changing and be everything you’ve always dreamed it to be.

@ThePinkMic Ай бұрын

This is incredible ❤

@lin_ezedon Ай бұрын

“Don’t wish for a better wind wish to build a better sail”- Jim rohn. this negative self talk is in our ancestral dna I know its in mine I still see it in my mom (at a distance) still be in that like she does not deserve. I am the ancestral dna mutator. I’m here to mutate that gene my children will not be programmed into this. I ( we ) can be this change as we do the healing. We must never give up. Each time is the opportunity to master it instead of having it master us.

@Jenniferarnise Ай бұрын

Yasssss! Preach. This is it😊

@lakivias6930 Ай бұрын

I just prayed about this topic this morning. Thank you so much for sharing. 🥹❤

@Jenniferarnise Ай бұрын

God is good!

@thedualitydoula Ай бұрын

I love the way you put words to the thing that I have struggled to explain for years. Thank you for being YOU!🫶🏾

@Jenniferarnise Ай бұрын

You are so welcome

@divinelyguidedsunflower120 Ай бұрын

I stumbled acrosd your video and you sound like your in my head dealing with the mother wound. Thank you so much.

@Jenniferarnise 29 күн бұрын

You are so welcome!

@dupuyloveable 7 күн бұрын

The most high led me to you. All just what I needed to hear. Trusting myself, worthiness. Thank you.

@ms.christylove Ай бұрын

Thank you for putting words to the state I’ve been in; creating barriers of entry to my biggest goals and dreams. Disguised as logic but behind that mask is fear, shame, anxiety, unworthiness, believing that I can’t trust myself = paralysis/procrastination. I love that you said you gotta stop playing with your mission, talent, passions, gifts... To not believe in yourself enough to answer those calls is keeping your light under a bushel, hidden from yourself and the world. Imagine if everybody was able to focus on and cultivate their light? I gotta stop playin’ tooooooo! Thank you. (It’s Laura Croft - Tomb Raider💛)

@heidicolon6386 Ай бұрын

You have no idea how you and your messages are so right on!! I felt every single thing you talked about…the feeling of unworthiness, anxiety, and not trusting myself. I too battle with all that, some days more than others. Your videos are so insightful, inspiring, and encouraging!! Thank you for being you and sharing yourself and your gifts with us all! 🙏🏽❤

@tramichalle Ай бұрын

I just wish people could understand this part of me! I’m really trying to break free but it’s hard at times! I’ve been an obedient daughter for 35 years!!

@kynathomas4809 12 күн бұрын

❤

@katrinamartin9010 Ай бұрын

This was good. Loved the way you walked through you thoughts 💭 thank you

@Jenniferarnise Ай бұрын

Thank you. This is my brain in action lol

@ForeverAutumn77 Ай бұрын

I’ve learned for myself that the gift is in my ability to push through the quicksand. Is it tough sometimes, yes but at least I know how to dig myself out. 💛💛💛

@Jenniferarnise Ай бұрын

It’s a true gift

@Julieepieee 19 күн бұрын

This video, your messages! This is me! I am you! Thank you for putting this into words❤

@BlessYerLittleHeart 15 күн бұрын

This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear today! I’m at a point in my life where I’m on the cusp of making the changes I need to make to make my life more like what I want it to be, but I’m scared to really put the effort in. This episode helped me identify why I may be sabotaging myself. After I watched this, instead of mindlessly scrolling on my phone, I wrote in my journal. 😊 I just wanted to tell you that you are on my healing journey with me and I’m very grateful for you! ❤

@tamikafuller1416 17 күн бұрын

My ability to rationalize and think things over when I see self sabotaging behavior is what I’m working my way through at this time and listening to you has helped me verbalize and innerstand this feeling soo much more. Thank you for sharing … may we no longer stand in the way of our own progress 😊. Proud of you for working through those beliefs of unworthiness and self deserving thoughts/actions/practice.

@CareWorkWithChelsea 18 күн бұрын

I listened to this on Spotify on the plane ride back home after visiting my family for the "holidays" and had so many reflections! Do not be surprised when you see my "Chelsea on the Mic" video from my bed or couch! I'm going to challenge myself to share my written reflections out loud without additional planning - thanks for the push!

@EaseforAina Ай бұрын

Yes yes yes, this is for me. This is has been my tug of war and your explanation shed light of the pieces I could not see. The gaslighting, the distrust is exhausting. I'm grateful for this message! I receive the wisdom shared, action to follow💡

@tarao4382 Ай бұрын

Thank you for this video. Great reminder for me. My issue has always been self-doubt bc of the negativity around me. I don't share anything positive going on in my life with others. Life is better moving in silence, prevents doubt.

@CRLTao 13 күн бұрын

Oooooh JENN!! So so GOOD! Thank you for everything! Y’all if you haven’t signed up for her class please get in the next one. It’s a game changer! XO, Chicava

@itsbreesanchez Ай бұрын

damn near brought me to tears. thank you so much.

@BeauMonroe Ай бұрын

There is never any self preservation or anywhere to hide listening to you. You validate my feelings so deeply..especially about the piece about "Who am I to accomplish things, or to do well or to deserve rest. It just ain't no missing. I always catch your uploads when I'm in the car and it's my kinda of church.

@HighVibe001 Ай бұрын

Sis you are a vessel! Thank you for trusting yourself to create this channel to impart your wisdom. We are being blessed by you. It’s so obvious spirit has led all of us to this channel for this information to help illuminate our path. God bless you!!!❤ 🙏

@dupuyloveable 7 күн бұрын

This was so insightful and really hit the mark for me. Yes, what is the medicine to help move me forward. This was so validating, like literally telling my story. Phew, girl!

@readingisfreedom9756 Ай бұрын

You are an amazing Beautiful Queen! Thank you for starting this podcast. You are helping me more than you know.

@Jenniferarnise Ай бұрын

You are so welcome

@MedicalMomsofNICU 27 күн бұрын

Congratulations on your new home! I am soooooo happy for you! I can resonate with you as you said I trusted myself that I could save the money and be better with finances! This year we closed on our first home! I trusted what I felt even when a realtor and lender doubted me! The REAL gift is Trust! I just finished the book Iyanla Vanzant Trust in Self, Trust in God, Trust in Others, and Trust in Life!

@roadtoreinvention Ай бұрын

This was such a blessing. Definitely been in this space. Glad to see I’m not alone. It gets to be easy.

@AwakeNLife888 Ай бұрын

Thank you💯💯💯 I needed to hear this! ❤️🙌🏽💪🏾

@a.m.edwards9674 Ай бұрын

Thank you for putting language to my exact experiences. 🙌🏾

@wildgold11 Ай бұрын

the timing of this upload couldn’t have been better, thank you so much 💛

@Jenniferarnise Ай бұрын

I knew if I was going through it then others could relate. I’m glad it came right on time for you.

@wildgold11 Ай бұрын

@ yes indeed, I often feel my healing journey is like me navigating a jungle with no path and a machete, so that indiana jones reference resonates💛

@carissabaron2994 Ай бұрын

Yes I resonate with all of this something's gotta give I've let my looks , my setting and timing get in the way when im just making excuses on being her

@jg1luvm3 Ай бұрын

Thank you 🫶🏾💙

@ohthatsYa Ай бұрын

Thank you Jen 🫶🏾

@Jenniferarnise Ай бұрын

You’re welcome!

@tyrayahjones9590 Ай бұрын

I really needed this today ❤

@tamikabrown8539 Ай бұрын

This was very beneficial. Thanks for sharing ❤

@Jenniferarnise Ай бұрын

I’m so glad to hear that!

@KidrauhlinForever Ай бұрын

i am so happy i stumbled across this!! i needed this!! another podcast i would look into is mel robbins, i watched a video of hers prior to this and they went hand in hand with what i needed to hear today, thank you ❤

@melanie_feboh 25 күн бұрын

I love how much i can resonate with you. My husband calls me a dreamer, my friends think i'm the "intelligent friend" i have had so many ideas but get paralysis when it's time to act. I journaled about this and i wonder if there is a part of me that feels unworthy of what is on the other side of my ideas. I also feel like i can do anything, but i am on this journey of not being emotionally and mentally handicapped by my ideas.